There are many speculations. But we don't have a true picture of what family life was like. She could have easily have been as bad to Shari when she was younger. We get some nasty behaviour to Eve because she was younger at the time Ruby started filming. Plus Jodie the weirdo therapist was in the picture when Eve was 6. It has been said that Ruby didn't want Russell and Eve. Her husband did. Abbie and Julie were easy going children. If not a bit attention seeking. Due to obvious reasons Ruby thought she was going to get another Chad. Bad in school and not controllable. So she cracked down hard on Russell. As for Eve. She was suffering as the youngest child. Where the parents had checked out on raising kids properly it seemed. Eve roamed the neighbourhood while Ruby was away for days. So did Russell. And everything was a weapon. The two youngest had christmas taken. Then their dad left them. And their mother left them completely emotionally.
@@louwinters508 It could have been just as simple as a mental health crisis after child birth. schizophrenia can often times present itself later in life. Which can create these false notions like they are a profit or an increase belief that they know more than the average person.
something i have learned recently is that not all monsters were created..( meaning they didnt learn the behavior somewhere) sometimes the monster was with in the whole time.. we just didnt see it. that is why i feel it is so important to post these videos. So we can dig deep and look for signs along the way.
@@ThatsGinger take a look at a video of you as a child. See all the evil in you that you were born with. All those hang ups you have, all those mean comments you made to people, those secrets you've never told anyone, the mistakes you've made. You're evil. See how ridiculous that is? I agree that we are all capable of being monsters, it's within you and it's within me. But we choose not to, we are corrected and we do the right thing. Then along the way life changes, we become insecure, we meet toxic people and we start to see the monster inside us. People are flawed, we mess up and do stupid things.
@@ThatsGingerI think you’re right but the other thing is keeping an eye on our children now and teaching them the best of our ability and correcting their mistakes is a start.
Acting like a baby (in Ruby's case taking her brothers bottle) is pretty common for young children and they do it for different reasons, one of them being having to adjust to a new sibling and getting less attention from their parents. Acting younger or acting out/misbehaving is a subconscious strategy of children to gain their parents attention and love. But Ruby's parents don't seem to see that, they just keep disciplining her for her behaviour - which is not bad per se, since the child needs to learn that spitting is not okay, but if the emotional validation is totally missing ("You miss being a baby and not having to share us with your brother, don't you?"), the child is going to feel very misunderstood and alone. This might be one of the reasons why Ruby went down the road that she did. And while I don't feel sorry for Ruby as an adult, I do feel sorry for the little child is this video.
Yes she needs attention you are correct because I'll bet that Beau was just born or very young but she still had to learn that those are not hers , she was being directed if you think that's disciplining you didn't group up in the 1980s.😂
@Amipalovestwilight The reason Ruby went down the path that she did is because of a lot of seperate factors. Too much responsibility too young. She was expected to look after the younger children as the eldest perhaps too much. Rediculous and rigid expectations. Ruby once left a towel on the floor as a child and her parents showed up at school and took her home to pick it up and drove her back. Giving her a sort of OCD personality. Too many kids. Ruby was done after 4 but was convinced by her husband to have 2 more. Ruby's own inate personality. Lacking empathy. Some children are just naturally more empathetic. She perhaps wasn't according to her sister Bonnie. And finally getting indoctrinated into a cult like group. Which escalated her behaviour. It's sad. But if you can't see what evil is. And think you are good for torturing children then you are the worst kind of evil. I hope she can change but I fear she will not. Once that type of thinking sets in it's hard to break. Only when she found out Jodie was lying did she turn on her. But everything else was apparently fine.
She really was a mean little girl, the videos don’t give us the full Ruby but her behavior with spitting, refusing to give legitimate apologies and overall non compliance helps give a preview
@@amimcbride934She is like Eve here. Strong willed, mischievous. Which makes me think that’s why she was so awful to sweet Eve. Narcissistic people don’t like their same sex children. And ESPECIALLY don’t like it when that child also shows strong willed personality traits because they know first hand that’s hard to control…
She doesn't seem mean. Just a typical kid. Kids act like that. I've seen lovely kids act way worse. You wouldn't be saying that if you didn't know she turned into a child abuser. Yeh to the other poster. she does seem like Eve. Eve was always defiant. And a little bit wild. Narcasists often despise that in a child. Often because they were the same. And they do not like seeing what they perceive as negative traits themselves had in a child of their own . A lot of the time. Especially traits that got them into trouble. Narcasist personality disorder is a coping mechanism. And developed in teenaged years. Very rare in women. All children are egocentric. Some children are strong willed and others are shy and cooperative.
@@amimcbride934 Oh shut up will yah... And stop jumping down people's throats. Defiant isn't a bad word. I admire Eve. It's probably what got her through the horrendous abuse. And likely will carry her through to heal. In Ruby's diary. Eve sat and chanted all day just to annoy Ruby. "My mom doesn't feed me and sits and eats brownies all day in bed." She also dared to say she wanted to live in a new family. This is while she is under threat of torture. Good on the girl. She's got balls.
It began young for Ruby
These videos make so much sense. She was supposed much like Eve. A bit mischievous, strong willed. Must be why she treated Eve so horrifically.
There are many speculations.
But we don't have a true picture of what family life was like. She could have easily have been as bad to Shari when she was younger. We get some nasty behaviour to Eve because she was younger at the time Ruby started filming. Plus Jodie the weirdo therapist was in the picture when Eve was 6.
It has been said that Ruby didn't want Russell and Eve. Her husband did.
Abbie and Julie were easy going children. If not a bit attention seeking. Due to obvious reasons
Ruby thought she was going to get another Chad. Bad in school and not controllable. So she cracked down hard on Russell.
As for Eve. She was suffering as the youngest child. Where the parents had checked out on raising kids properly it seemed.
Eve roamed the neighbourhood while Ruby was away for days. So did Russell.
And everything was a weapon. The two youngest had christmas taken. Then their dad left them.
And their mother left them completely emotionally.
@@louwinters508 It could have been just as simple as a mental health crisis after child birth. schizophrenia can often times present itself later in life. Which can create these false notions like they are a profit or an increase belief that they know more than the average person.
Makes me wonder what happened to that little girl to make her behavior in such a terrible way.
something i have learned recently is that not all monsters were created..( meaning they didnt learn the behavior somewhere) sometimes the monster was with in the whole time.. we just didnt see it. that is why i feel it is so important to post these videos. So we can dig deep and look for signs along the way.
@@ThatsGinger take a look at a video of you as a child. See all the evil in you that you were born with. All those hang ups you have, all those mean comments you made to people, those secrets you've never told anyone, the mistakes you've made. You're evil. See how ridiculous that is? I agree that we are all capable of being monsters, it's within you and it's within me. But we choose not to, we are corrected and we do the right thing. Then along the way life changes, we become insecure, we meet toxic people and we start to see the monster inside us. People are flawed, we mess up and do stupid things.
@@ThatsGingerI think you’re right but the other thing is keeping an eye on our children now and teaching them the best of our ability and correcting their mistakes is a start.
Acting like a baby (in Ruby's case taking her brothers bottle) is pretty common for young children and they do it for different reasons, one of them being having to adjust to a new sibling and getting less attention from their parents. Acting younger or acting out/misbehaving is a subconscious strategy of children to gain their parents attention and love. But Ruby's parents don't seem to see that, they just keep disciplining her for her behaviour - which is not bad per se, since the child needs to learn that spitting is not okay, but if the emotional validation is totally missing ("You miss being a baby and not having to share us with your brother, don't you?"), the child is going to feel very misunderstood and alone. This might be one of the reasons why Ruby went down the road that she did. And while I don't feel sorry for Ruby as an adult, I do feel sorry for the little child is this video.
Yes she needs attention you are correct because I'll bet that Beau was just born or very young but she still had to learn that those are not hers , she was being directed if you think that's disciplining you didn't group up in the 1980s.😂
@Amipalovestwilight The reason Ruby went down the path that she did is because of a lot of seperate factors. Too much responsibility too young. She was expected to look after the younger children as the eldest perhaps too much. Rediculous and rigid expectations. Ruby once left a towel on the floor as a child and her parents showed up at school and took her home to pick it up and drove her back. Giving her a sort of OCD personality.
Too many kids. Ruby was done after 4 but was convinced by her husband to have 2 more.
Ruby's own inate personality. Lacking empathy. Some children are just naturally more empathetic. She perhaps wasn't according to her sister Bonnie.
And finally getting indoctrinated into a cult like group. Which escalated her behaviour.
It's sad. But if you can't see what evil is. And think you are good for torturing children then you are the worst kind of evil. I hope she can change but I fear she will not. Once that type of thinking sets in it's hard to break.
Only when she found out Jodie was lying did she turn on her. But everything else was apparently fine.
Why are they bothering that child like that? And her mom going in to hit in her in the face for being silly. So mean! It all makes sense.
She grew up normal like everyone
She really was a mean little girl, the videos don’t give us the full Ruby but her behavior with spitting, refusing to give legitimate apologies and overall non compliance helps give a preview
She definitely lived in distortion
@@amimcbride934She is like Eve here. Strong willed, mischievous. Which makes me think that’s why she was so awful to sweet Eve. Narcissistic people don’t like their same sex children. And ESPECIALLY don’t like it when that child also shows strong willed personality traits because they know first hand that’s hard to control…
She doesn't seem mean. Just a typical kid. Kids act like that. I've seen lovely kids act way worse.
You wouldn't be saying that if you didn't know she turned into a child abuser.
Yeh to the other poster. she does seem like Eve. Eve was always defiant. And a little bit wild. Narcasists often despise that in a child. Often because they were the same. And they do not like seeing what they perceive as negative traits themselves had in a child of their own . A lot of the time. Especially traits that got them into trouble. Narcasist personality disorder is a coping mechanism. And developed in teenaged years. Very rare in women.
All children are egocentric. Some children are strong willed and others are shy and cooperative.
@@louwinters508 you can’t say “always defiant” when we only know what RUBY presented to us! Eve was and is just a child
@@amimcbride934 Oh shut up will yah... And stop jumping down people's throats.
Defiant isn't a bad word. I admire Eve. It's probably what got her through the horrendous abuse. And likely will carry her through to heal.
In Ruby's diary. Eve sat and chanted all day just to annoy Ruby. "My mom doesn't feed me and sits and eats brownies all day in bed." She also dared to say she wanted to live in a new family. This is while she is under threat of torture.
Good on the girl. She's got balls.
She look like spoiled girl , not evil , maybe something happened in her childhood
It always made me bothered by how pushy they were to Ruby in this video
Such a beautiful child whatever happened to her
This video makes me uneasy for some reason.
Because you are looking for it.
That dad's voice creepy...maybe a pedophile
Why they were trying to correct her because she was being disrespectful.
@@suzannec8400 that's not what I am referring to at all.
She seem to evil