Alcoholic Mother Drinks Entire Bottle of Vodka and Forgets to Pick Up Kids from School
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- In the early afternoon of March, officers received a phone call from a local school stating that a child hadn't been picked up by their parents. The school was very concerned and wanted to do a welfare check on the mother. Numerous phone calls were made to the mother by the school staff, who heard loud music and noticed that the mother seemed to be drunk due to her slurred words over the phone. Officers then responded to get to the bottom of the situation.
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So sad. Especially to hear the child accustomed to explaining his mother’s compromised state - “she doesn’t know time right now” 😢
I seen a vid the other day the Mom was fleeing the cops w/her lil girl in the car.The lil girl was so smart to for her age she said I asked my Mom was she on Benadryl cus she was acting strange.I think it was meth&alcohol but it’s so sad to see such small kids having to grow up fast because of their irresponsible parent(s)
@TayZonday I think you're about as hooked as I am to watching these bodycam channels 😄 I always see you commenting on one's I've been watching. These are addicting lol
Nah tay another vid lmao I commented on another body cam video comment you made lol small ass world
The sad thing about that irresponsible mother is that she’s a lot like how my childhood Friends mom used to be when I would hang out at his house during the 90’s and play Goldeneye in his basement living room in Utah and he was raised more by his older brothers and Dad than her sadly 😢
I was thinking the same thing so I looked for this comment. Didn't expect the Chocolate Rain guy to be the voice of reason lol
You don't have the luxury of being incapacitated when you're a single parent, your kids could need you at any moment.
Amen
Exactly. I took my job as a parent very seriously.
This!!! even the meds I take I make sure don't affect my ability to care for my children!!! 😢 I wish I could hug that little guy so bad..... he knows how bad she gets!
That's why I don't have any! 🥳🥳🥳
“You let him hit it raw. You didn’t have second thoughts…”
The faces she was making made me think of Nikocado avocado
I was laughing when she first came to the door she looks a hot mess… the situation not funny tho
EXACTLY even the mouth clicks
Totally! And the shape fits too + tantrum
nooo😂😂😂😂😂
STOP. I knew it looked familiar lmao I’m all trying to figure it out
As a now alcohol free person, this makes me so sad. I hope she truly makes an effort to get sober.
Me too addiction sucks. I hope for her and her children's sake she gets help congratulations on your sobriety 💪
Even as an alcoholic I don't drink myself silly when I've got my kid. Congratulations on your sobriety, it shows you have the strength alot of people don't have when it comes to drink, if you can't handle or moderate your consumption, put the bottle down and walk away...stuff like this happens because people don't have the strength to admit that they're trapped or lack the self awareness to be responsible.
I'm starting over again. One of my new strategies is to watch videos like this to remind myself of why I want to be sober. I don't want to live like this anymore. I get secondhand embarrassment watching videos like this, thinking back on all the times I've acted like a complete idiot and made a fool of myself. It's not worth it.
I don't drink either, but not because I was an alcoholic. I just never cared for the feeling of alcohol. It's a miserable drug in my opinion, and I'm not at all sure why it's our society's legal drug of choice. It either makes people rowdy or depressed, it impairs your motor skills, tastes like garbage, you feel like shit the next day, and trouble follows it like the plague.
I've always been thankful I don't like it.
Not driving to pick the kids up was by far the best decision this mother has made in a long time.
Well it wasn't exactly a "decision" but yes so glad she "forgot"
Thank goodness, cause this is quite frightening.
True she doesn't belong on the road
Thank Jah she didn't
It wasn't her decision. She was blacked out.
She clearly threw up up and passed out. The bile and alcohol from the vomit melted her throat and vocals. That’s why she’s croaking
So that's why she can't talk.
@W0nkaaa😂😂😂😂
I'm glad her voice was out of commission. I suspect that she would scream and holler if she could.
@@annjepsen1621oh you know she would. She was trying to. Lol
Haha DAAAAAAAAAYUM 😂
really needed to see this. just finished rehab and now I’m Ina. Halfway house for women with children. Gotta get clean and stay clean for myself and my little boy.
Praying for you ❤
Congratulations. You've taken the 1st step. You're a strong woman and you can do this. Sending you & your son healing thoughts & virtual hugs.
@@jennilynmae thank yo so much! ❤️ 🙏
Good job being accountable for yourself and for your choices. I know firsthand how difficult the recovery journey can be, but for me, my worst day sober is better than my best day high. The memory of missing my sons 11th birthday because my foolish a$$ had to go to rehab is one of many things that keep me on the level.
fuck up
My mom never drank booze, never took drugs, never smoked anything. You could count the number of sick days that she took on one hand, while working at Fisher Body for 30 years. Thank you mom!
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Alcohol is life
😅A great Mother..
Good for you- doesn’t help this child out
Same for my mom and my father was an addict . I thank God every day for the mom I had . But I feel very bad for those suffering with addiction and their families - especially their children . Just very sad
She drank a full bottle of vodka? So glad she forgot to pick her children up to be honest. Poor little kids deserve a heck of a lot better than that.
As do the motorists, cyclists & pedestrians of that particular region . . .
Poor kid..
right? better this happens now before she continues to spiral with her child in her uncared care and something worse than not picking him up from school happens, if it hasn't already
He deserves a sober mom !
Think about this.... a judge thought it was best she has custody because the child support system operates on the fact women get custody because men are capable of paying not them. And for every dollar payed into the system the feds match it to the county, the judges and cps work for the county. It's an illegal ponzi scheem. Now the county will receive another 10k from the feds for taking the child. Remember It's always about money at the end of the day.
She literally drank away her vocal cords and is blacking out from her day drinking. I hope she gets help soon.
Okay so that is the alcohol? Ive never been around anyone that drinks enough to drink away their voice
I’m pretty sure she’s either sick or that’s how her voice is
@@tl1635it can happen from throwing up in your sleep or a lot of yelling, which a lot of folk that drink end up doing
@@tl1635 I’ve thrown up on my side while sleeping and woke up and my voice was like this before, was just my experience
@@tl1635 oh and don’t put it past an alcoholic to have a melt down and scream at the walls for a few hours
"...was at school 11 minutes later..."
Lady they were calling you for 4 hours.
Addiction is horrible. I wish this woman healing ❤️
I just wish her kid didn’t have to be involved in her active addiction
I wish the kid healing, the woman can change
@@organicgreenpeace6360 change requires healing 🙄 they both need it. Just because she's an addict, doesn't mean she doesn't deserve it.
I just wished the child didn't have to witness that
He didn't. I think those cops handled everything decently and with grace for the most part. They definitely didn't have to stand there holding the child in view of the mother being arrested.
@ufogarage13 he'll notice she's missing a whole 24 hours
@@ufogarage13 Yeah i was confused about that, thought they were taking him to "see Sawyer?" but then he's just there watching all this. I also never feel like it's appropriate for cops to pass moral judgment on people the way they did her ":You're embarrassing", and literally just throwing her into the back of the squad car. There's a way to get through to people, that's not it. Unfortunately cops don't seem to care about actually helping people
@@kmm4499 unless they are being verbally abusive and calling her profane names... i believe it is perfectly acceptable for them to make remarks such as "you're embarrassing". she is absolutely embarrassing and she should hear it from whoever is willing to tell her. obviously there isnt anyone in her life willing to so why not the officer? its not like he called her a piece of shit or a fucking worthless mother or something... which to be honest... worthless mother would have been what i would have called her since she would rather get trashed than be responsible for her childs wellbeing. and who are you to cast moral judgment on how the officer speaks to her? if she had picked up her kid from school she could have got into a accident and potentially killed her child in the process.
now here is my moral judgment on you because i can... you speak of cops as though they are not human beings with families or children themselves. you act like there was actually a way to get through to this woman, like her son hasnt been dealing with her problem long enough to be indifferent while explaining her condition. the rudest thing they said was what you quoted which is nothing compared to what i had a cop say to me when he had me look at myself in the mirror when i was 17 (tx legal age of consent so treated as adult) and started belittling my appearance and my character which he had nothing to base on. during which i was completely respectful and cooperative with them not to mention honest about my situation. and who gives a shit if the kid watched... he is old enough to know his mom is a mess and a danger to his wellbeing... hell he probably stomps on the car floor often when she drives hoping for a magical break peddle when she drives.
"Unfortunately cops dont seem to care about actually helping people."???? do you only watch videos where cops are being tyrants? have you never seen videos which there are so many more of than negative of officers doing anything and everything possible to help or save people from countless dangerous, horrific or deadly incidents? even when off duty they step up and take action when needed and are able.
the fact that you believe (your generalized blanketing of cops) all cops are object/tools instead of human beings like we all are, and that they dont care about helping people just tells me you got caught at some point doing something stupid, didnt get away with it... subscribe to too many cop hating ideologies because its "cool" to be trendy... or you are just too ignorant to comprehend or understand that "helping people" isnt their primary job function but more oftan than not they are helping those who matter. i guess you dont see how they helped that little boy... i guess you probably dont think shooting an armed attacker is helping or perhaps rushing into a active shooting and not asking the gunman if he would like to speak with a licensed counselor while surrounded by numerous dead bodies man woman and child while others are still in danger... but instead ending the threat as soon as possible isnt helping people.
cops arent social workers. social workers rarely save lives. in fact often times social workers destroy or end lives due to incompetence or just plain disregard of claims, indicators or potential of someone's capabilities. do you know how many children have been killed or physically assaulted (including sexually) due to child welfare workers failures at doing the bare minimum? even growing up being around drugs and crime and cop haters such as yourself. i am so glad i know how to evaluate a situation without automatically labelling a cop as a bad person or some dumb shit like that.
i hope one day you grow up and realize how ignorant that type of ideology and attitude toward law enforcement is a huge problem. hell, it may even be why there are more cops acting like tyrants... because people such as yourself... think less of them and give them shit just for being cops. even cops have bad days... but at least as a whole... they do 100% more than you probably do for the community and will continue to do so even after dealing with fucking dipshits like you. try not being part of the problems in the country and open your fucking eyes for more than just negatives. ignorance should be painful maybe then more people would actually put effort into not being willfully stupid.
cant wait for the day stupid stops being so trendy...
He's gonna grow up a fine republican. After all, the republicans voted to lower the age of marriage for children and remove child labor laws. It is high time this young man gets a job and takes care of the bills! Lazy kids these days.
Love this police officer. "How embarrassing for you" She's not only a problematic mess, she's dangerous.
Kid is sooooo adorable. " Mom doesn't know time,she doesn't" ❤
The real question is what dude was so sad and desperate and lonely he was willing to touch this thing I would rather f a deceased animal
Exactly 💯 she is dangerous and especially for the children. The officer said that she tried to get in a car to drive ? She is the problem and I don’t think we’re seeing the last of her on here 🤦♂️💯
How is she in charge of children at all?
Why can't she talk?
„She does not know time right now“ The boy knew exactly what state she was in. I hope that she gets and takes help and so does the boy!!
personally, i don’t think they should’ve brought the child back home to witness them deal with his mom. he didn’t need that on top of every else he’s probably seen and been through
They didn't. It's not like they can control the fact that her other kid is at home with her.
I don't think they envisioned she would be this messed up.
I think she had one at home with her as well, the first child at school seemed older than 5
@@AParticularlyConcernedCitizenya the kid at school went to visit Sawyer.
DoorDash having an alcohol ad on this video is wild.
I wouldn't know, I don't have ads, TH-cam premium baby LOL.
Where the ads go aren't chosen by the advertisers youtube chooses ads for you based on your online interactions. You got a Doordash ad because you order food, Doordash didn't "put an ad for alcohol on this vid"
@@youngspaghettii I have never used doordash, I'm also a recovering alcoholic so they've clearly got it all wrong.
@@youngspaghettii as a recovering alcoholic who cooks at home, I can certainly say they got this one wrong.
@@love420smoke what do you not get ? You won't get ads for things you don't engage in. If you don't buy alcohol online or search for it you won't get alcohol related ads. It's not how ads work these days. It's a similar algorithm for how they choose what goes on YOUR homepage but they actually work with Google to include all your internet data when choosing ads. They do this because you are simply more likely to interact with an ad based on your interests. And advertisers pay youtube out more for clicks on their ad than they do for just showing it to someone. This is why it works that way. Doordash did not "put an ad" on this video. Not how it works
"I have a bad mommy as a mommy but please don't take her to jail!" Heartbreakingly true but true none the less
true? its not true. hes a poor sad & scared kid but it does not make him right. that woman is at the end of her rope of “help”. this isn’t the first time this officer has found her in this state & had to deal with a situation like this, he said it for all of us to hear. i’m sure she’s had all the opportunity & resources one could possibly need for “help” in this scenario. even if she hasn’t, she clearly isn’t as hungry for it as a lot of people that are actively & actually trying to be sober are. until she finds that, she doesn’t deserve her kids. & really, it’s up to the kids & the state & her support team to decide IF she is EVER ready to deserve a chance at that again. this isn’t a person you trust to just find it & do it themselves while there’s innocent children actively suffering & being neglected. it’s about the kids. & that might not mean the kids getting what they want even. she isn’t gonna go clean being left to it, & she can’t just keep getting away with living like this & doing this to children consequentless.
@@waner17nigga she said it was true that that kid said she had a bad mommy. not bout nun else.
@@waner17 ? They stated it is true that they are a bad mother. Also it is true that it is heartbreaking since no child deserves this. I would be surprised if anyone has sympathy for the horrid mother
@@waner17Explain to me what he said that wasn't true?
@waner17 a woman who drink and leaves kids defenseless IS A BAD MOMMA!!! CPS needs to come check on your kids if you have any. Kids speak truth during trauma like this who knows what else she does tho those kids. People like you who don't believe kids are why they're dying in the hands of shi++y parents like this.
Why didn’t they bring the child to his friend’s house, like they said they would? Why did they bring him & traumatize him like this? This never should have happened in front of him.
The boy who wasn't picked up from school was older and they did take him to a friend's house.
The little boy who was crying as his mom got arrested was younger and at home, either too young for school or didn't go that day.
The drunk mom had two sons.
Yeah! The kid at home was 5y/o and the other child they picked up at school was older
She has a clean house for a drunk
“She doesn’t know time right now..”. probably the saddest thing I’ve ever heard from a child. He knows how she’s behaves. Poor boy ☹️
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I just commented this. So sad!
Yeah, when she's like that it's almost like they are raising themselves. It also really bothers me that they remind her of her kid and she was just going to get in her car, like she was fit to drive, and go get him. Absolutely wild.
Was looking for this comment. That is crazy
Over half of adults on this planet couldnt tell you the time at any given moment lol
She’s yelling in lowercase
😂😂😂😂
lmfao💀
Screaming
😂
🤣🤣🤣
As a single mom who worked a 12 hour night shift, and spent every day off volunteering at my daughter’s school, I slept through her pick up time one day. I was exhausted. Fortunately she went home with one of our friends and she contacted me. But I felt so horrible, like I was the world’s worst mother. That was 14 years ago and my daughter has since graduated, but I still feel guilty about it. Some people aren’t capable of feeling guilt or remorse. They’re called sociopaths.
Maybe this lady does feel guilt and remorse, but she drinks more to bury it. We have no idea what's happened in her life, if there has been trauma in her own childhood.
My husband forgot his bag when setting off for work once. I went out of the house, caught my husband reversing his car out on to the street, and gave him the bag. My four year old daughter watched from the front door. After this horror, she referred to this for years as being 'Home Alone'. Nearly thirty years on, I still feel bad about it!
Guilt is a self-indulgent waste of time, especially over such an inconsequential incident. You’d be better off channeling that energy on thinking and doing positive things.
@@Bubby869I wish it was that simple, either way it’s good to be able to have the ability to feel guilt because you can learn from it
@@angelamaryquitecontrary4609 What are you talking about here. You stepped outside to give your husband his bag before he drove off for work - so your daughter WASN'T 'Home Alone'. You didn't correct her? and are letting her clear misunderstanding at the age of FOUR keep you feeling bad??? Tell me where this makes sense. Your kids probably manipulated you like crazy. There's a clear difference between being home alone and stepping out into the drive way and back.
I would absolutely die of humiliation if this video was me and it was on the internet for ever. Hopefully she gets the help she needs.
Seeing the bruises covering her arms and legs shows the extent of her alcohol abuse.
Yes,I noticed that too.
Falling over everything
@@barneslatasha1923falling over everything, yes, but extensive alcohol abuse affects everything from your organs to your blood vessels (and how easily they can rupture or cause a bruise). Bruising is often seen with liver or kidney failure as well, often brought on by alcoholism.
Spills all over her shirt, hair a damn mess… I’m positive she hasn’t showered in days, if not weeks. She is a disaster
@@hyacinthmoon6289 wow, I learned something new today, thank you.
That's not a mother. That's a bridge troll if I've ever seen one.
Shocked the crap out of me!! It was a jump scare moment 😂😂😂😂
😂😂😂😂😂
Real life troll lol
that choice of hair color certainly doesn't help her poor genetics
Your average Biden voter
Why in the hell did they bring the kids there when they knew she was drunk??!!
The kid at school was the older child. The one at the home was younger and probably was already at home.
"they knew"? how exacly? lol
That kid was already there
Whoever put a baby in her needs to be arrested as well.
Fr fr
Why? He may not know. He may have specific visiting days. You do not know the story, stop your judgement of others. The MOM on VIDEO have at it with your judgement at least you have the video to make your assumptions.
@@dazeddee8485do you have eyes
Nah dude I would have done it too. Obviously not because I think she is fit. But I'm just that down bad. I am addicted to that body type. Please send help my way.
Nah dude I would have done it too. Obviously not because I think she is fit. But I'm just that down bad. I enjoy that body type.
How did this women ever get custody of her child. Unbelievable
…and who was stupid enough to sleep with her?!?! 😱
@@martintrj5620another bridge troll!
Some dudes are down bad
Judges often blindly award custody to mothers.
How did she ever convince someone to hit it Raw. 😂 Or at all actually. Can you imagine what kind of man that must've been?
Some people shouldn't be allowed to have kids.
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I am more confused with HOW? WHO? WHO WOULD EVER?
I forget the name but basically all the people who shouldn’t have kids have them at a exorbitant rate.
Most women shouldn't.
I’m shocked that anyone would even do her !,
Thank God she wasnt driving. A whole bottle of voka thats insane.
They called over 20 times? Damn! At that point call CPS!
Hat's off to the school for calling police.
i think they have to by law .....Mandated reporters
They had no other choice. School was closed and there was a kid left there. What were they going to do with him?
They couldn’t leave him and all go home for the night.
Well who were they going to call?
They tried calling her 20 times.
To hear the child cry for his neglectful mother shows how innocent and unconditional a child’s love is. She doesn’t deserve such a child unless she is willing to get some serious help
This is not talked about enough. Many people will say that a parent's love is unconditional, but really, it's the children's love that knows no limits. Even when being harmed, kids still love and rely on their parents. It's a very sad day when a child actually chooses to cut off their parents.
Facts
This woman is annoying af
@@empyie666this, speaking from a boy abused by my father. I still loved him and always seen the good in him. Even when I was getting thrown down stairs.
She's probably a good and loving mother when she's not drinking... Alcoholism is a disease. No excuse, but it doesn't make a person ALL bad.... if she can stay sober then those kids should be best off with her. Of course if she can't stay sober, then the kids need to go.
How does she think this is going to end. Narcissistic alcoholic is forever ruing those boys future. They will have trauma issues forever. How I can’t tolerate drunks.
“I’ve been here before for this exact same issue” Then why does she still have custody of this child? That child distressed in the background while his mother is being arrested is gut wrenching.
The kid saying "she doesn't know time" shows this is a regular thing with her.
Exactly …poor kids who have bad parents just unfair for them
I agree. Devastating
So sad 😢
That’s probably the excuse she tells him when she’s drunk at home all the time.
Which is so f•••ing sad... That is that child's reality..
She's drank so much that she's hoarse from the irritation of the alcohol in the throat
She sounds so sick she needs the hospital
Or she's also on drugs like meth she is twitching and moving all weird
I didn't know alcohol did that. Explains her voice. Thanks
Not true
@@socal-rw9un It does not do that.. unless your throat is already sore or you've been throwing the alcohol up.
Just makes you stink!
“She doesn’t know time right now”, That little boy is so used to his mother being drunk all the time that he’s accustomed to making excuses for her behavior. That is not something a child should be used to. He deserves far better. A child deserves a stable environment with supportive parents- who don’t choose to get black out drunk in the middle of the day when they have to pick up their child from school later. The alcohol is more important to her than her child. My heart breaks for that little boy.
And she has the gd nerve to act indignant to the officer’s questions and saying she’s not drunk when she doesn’t have a voice (it can happen when they pass out and throw up on themselves because the stomach acid eats at the throat), she’s got vomit all over herself, and she can barely walk straight. She keeps screaming that she’s only 11 minutes late, babe, it’s 4 something. Most elementary schools get out between 1:30 and 2:30, so she’s between 2.5 to 3.5 hours late picking up her son- and it’s eeeeeveryones fault but hers. Disgusting. Get that baby a better home.
Poor baby. It really sucks when your parent is an addict, I've went through the same things as that little boy
she doesn’t even comfort her kid when he’s crying she’s just more concerned for herself. Poor kid.
Right. She should have told him it's ok.. mom is ok. 😢
Well, she’s absolutely plastered
Now she's going to turn her kids into a police hater😢
My mom had no feelings like that either only for herself , never heard I love you ever in my life from her.
I hope this beast loses custody and gets that poor child somewhere what the father or a family member that will take proper care of him!
You expect that she would? She's in active addiction. Addiction is a disease. She does not care about herself. What makes you believe she cares about anyone else at this moment. The world is struggling with this issue. Please do it a favour and educate yourself so you can add meaningful responses to a feed that's probably full of human beings who are suffering.
@@walkinbeauty7273seems you turned out ok was your dad around
This is going to be a core memory for the little boy. Poor kid
Maybe maybe not. You can’t help what you’re exposed to, but how you prioritize it is def a choice. If he wants to be broken by this he will. If he wants to know all his school and community cared like this, he will. Hopefully even mom will get off the sauce. It’s not impossible. Quit writing little kids off this early in the game.
@@animula6908 true. But I was raised by an alcoholic. My life isn’t messed up because of it … but I remember EVERYTHING & so will this kid
I was raised in traumatic households.
It’s part of you.
I take better care of my dog than some do their kids.
She tried to drive off and abandon the boy
Today was the day he starts to become a man and not mamma boy to.. that
@@animula6908 no he will remember this forever it sucks. clearly you dont have such experiences so just keep your theories to yourself
My mom had a big alcoholic father and it changed her life because she knew the dangers of drinking and addiction and throughout her whole life until today i have not seen her drink.
Last time this happened???? So why is the kid still with her and not in the care of cps?
You couldn’t pick up your child in the condition you’re in. You shouldn’t have custody of any of your children.
this woman is beyond hope I think. hopefully the kid has better family that will care for him.
@@ataridc No one is beyond hope if they truly want to turn their life around. But for some, it is very difficult to convince them to do so.
So a little bit of a story:
I grew up with a bit of a similar mother. There were many times where I'd take the bus home and have to ring the doorbell and pound on the door to wake her up to let me in. Other times I'd wait for her to pick me up only to have to have the office call her to pick me up. I guess the office was getting concerned and she picked up on that so she told me not to go to the office anymore.
One day, she was supposed to pick me up but forgot again. I remembered her telling me not to go to the office, so I walked home alone at 8 years old. I got home, rang the doorbell and knocked on the door to no avail. Keep in mind, we live in the southwest, and in the late afternoon it gets to over 100F outside, and I just walked a good mile home with a heavy backpack on. Desperate to get inside, I climbed off some electrical boxes on the side of our house and hopped the wall to get into the backyard, hoping she forgot to lock the back door. Unfortunately it was locked so I went back around to the front and waited under a tree. Finally she came home and punished me pretty harshly for embarrassing her in front of the school staff. After that, I was sent to my room (wasn't even given water). A while later there were police in front of my house (my room oversaw the front yard) and my dad came home where there was a lot of shouting and arguing downstairs.
About a month later my parents were divorced with my dad getting majority custody. Dad drank too, but he worked so he would drink in the evenings. I just learned to steer clear from him after 8pm and be extra quiet before noon.
Apparently she got a DUI when I was in high-school and had to remain sober. I definitely noticed a change in her behavior, but didn't know what it was, only that she was grouchy and bossy. Looking back I think she just took that time to take her job as a mother seriously, but I just thought she was bullying me as I delt with a mother who was often negligent and overly emotional from her drinking for my entire childhood. To this day, my grandmother, sister, and uncle (her family) barely talk or visit with her. I visit occasionally, but it's difficult as every time I visit there's going to be an hour or so of her desperately apologizing for her actions when she drank, and it can be draining to endure. Dad never quit drinking and died of liver failure a few years back. When cleaning out his property, his house was full of hidden empty and partially empty liquor bottles and his truck had wine bottles hidden throughout.
A takeaway from this is children have no frame of reference as to what's normal and what's not. If you grow up in a house of alcoholics, you assume that's just how things are. Loud fighting at night, parents forgetting obligations, having to repeat things over and over to them as they don't remember the first dozen times, having to be quiet early in the morning, learning to feed yourself before kindergarten, hiding things from police, teachers, and your friends' parents, all of that and more are normal when that's all you know. I remember sleeping over at a friend's house in 2nd grade and thinking his house was weird because not only did his mom make us breakfast, but we were allowed to talk at a normal volume and his dad was up and doing work on the pool *before* 10am. I was never allowed to have sleepovers at my house.
Another takeaway is that when an alcoholic parent sobers up and stays sober later in life, they sometimes are filled with regret and shame for years after. Not always, but that's been my experience.
Sorry for the long comment, just thought I should share. At the very least, it helps me to write it down.
@@kingbadmovie Very good reply.
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Someone needs to appreciate how well the teachers handled that. They never worried the kid, and just said “moms not feeling well,”
I felt that too. Sadly, it's probably not their first time dealing with shit parents. Poor children, normalizing this behavior and associating it with love.
And then the cops ruined all that self assurance by their rough handling of the situation. Why didn't they leave the boy in the car if they knew exactly what they were going to discover????
THE FACT THAT A TEACHER NEEDS TO EVEN TELL A CHILD THAT WHEN THEY ARE SUPPOSED TO BE TEACHING ABCS AND 123S, SPELLING, BASIC MATH, BASIC SCIENCE, AND CRAP IS SICKENING!!! THEY SHOULD NOT NEED TO DO THIS, THIS PARENTING OF SOMEONE ELSE’S CHILD. PARENTS SHOULD KNOW BETTER TO KEEP ALCOHOL IN CONTROL AND MODERATION, OR NOT DRINK AT ALL!
THANK THE LORD I DO NOT DRINK! THIS IS THE MAIN REASON WHY I *HATE* ALCOHOLIC DRINKS, ON TOP OF THE FACT THAT THEY JUST TASTE BLECHHH TO ME. AND I AM NOT EVEN A MOTHER, I DON’T EVEN HAVE ONE BOYFRIEND YET IN MY LIFE!
@@britbrat4559exactly. I was thinking why in the heck would the cops let the child witness all of that roughly handling of the mother.?!
@@miss-astronomikal-mcmxcvii I'm guessing that your teachers never taught you the correct use of capital letters in English.
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Congrats on your recovery. Most people don't realize that psilocybin can be used as a miracle medication to save lives.
To be honest, mushrooms are one of the most amazing things on the planet and it is natural, they serve in many ways not only for mental related issues.
Can you help me with a reliable source I would really appreciate it. Many people talk about mushrooms and psychedelics but nobody talks about where to get them. It is very hard to get a reliable source here in Switzerland. Really need!
Yes, Sporeville. I have the same experience with anxiety, depression, PTSD, and addiction... Mushrooms definitely made a huge difference to why I'm clean today.
I wish they were readily available in my place.
Microdosing was my next plan of care for my husband. He's 59 & has many mental health issues plus probably CTE & a TBI that left him in a coma 8 days. It's too late now I had to get a TPO as he's 6'6 300+ pound homicidal maniac. He's constantly talking about killing someone.
He's violent. Anyone reading this Familiar w/ BPD knows if it is common for an obsession with violence.
Omg that child’s crying for his mama is the worst thing I’ve ever heard 😭
Poor baby deserves a good mom
I can’t imagine forgetting to pick up your own kids. It’s not like forgetting to buy milk or pay a bill on time. That’s A LITERAL SMALL HUMAN SHE FORGOT
Edit: I’m seeing a lot of comments from moms admitting to forgetting their kids because of a busy work schedule/early school release, etc. I just want to clarify and say I don’t fault those moms too much because those situations are a lot more understandable. I’m more upset with this woman in particular because she got sloshed for the whole day and forgot her kids.
my dad would get so drunk he would leave me locked in the car overnight at times like all night🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙🤙
We have such a healthy relationship now😂😂😂😂😂😂😂 *insert all the possible sarcasm in the world*
Many years ago my daughter's school kicked out at 3.30pm. I had worked 10 hours that day, got home around 2.30pm, figured I would have a quick nap for 30 minutes, so set an alarm....nope. I slept through and looked at the clock when the post man rattled my letter box, 3.20pm! To say I sprinted to the school is an understatement. Thankfully walking was about 10 minutes from the school, I arrived just as the doors opened. I felt so bad for days after. The idea I could have missed pick up is just to horrible :( They would have been so scared.
@@cn4936 at least you have an excuse as a working parent. This mom told the cops she started drinking after dropping the kids off
What's more shocking is school called her 20 times to pick up her kids. And she didn't want to do it or she was under the influence
I have an alarm set in case I'm busy cleaning (or napping) and I still check the time 100 times in the last half hour of school because I'm scared I'll somehow miss pick up. I can't even imaging this.
So sad. I’m glad she forgot the child instead of showing up drunk and driving him home. At least he was safe at school.
Very true.
So true.
She's overweight, often a sign of being molested; survivors tend to sabotage their bodies to unconsciously feel safe from unwanted attention. She's a single mom and an alcoholic living in today's economy. This woman wants to escape her life. Her dying her hair multiple colors and plucking eyebrows, she's definitely in a war. She wants attention but she's destroying herself. My guess is she's been abused, and this raises into question who she had children with; survivors tend to enter into relationships with abusers because they can't understand healthy love.
omg, thats so scary
She(prob got the pro noun wrong?)was too far under the rainbow!!!
This is so traumatizing for a child to witness, and go through.
She got bruises all over her arms and legs, drunk as a skink, no voice from screaming all day or night, this woman is the epitome of a "HOT MESS"
When her child said “she doesn’t know time right now.” It literally broke me. 🙁
😢
Just like my childhood 😢 and i have not recovered im in my 40*s.
wow you break really easy. harden up pansy
@@rogerchristensen2741 Almost 60s same. Daily plague
@@gordocarbo Sorry man. It's fucking hard.
I feel so bad for that boy. I can’t believe a mom would be drunk and not pick up her kid from school. Of course it may be a blessing that she didn’t show up as drunk as she is.
Hearing that poor babys cries just broke me.
And you’re absolutely right, had she gotten into her car in her intoxicated state a lot worse could have happened to her, her child or someone else!
I agree! Also when the kid said “she doesn’t know what time it is” that was also heartbreaking because this has probably happened before.
Your heart just breaks for the kids. What a rough start to life for them.
She isn't a " mom " ...
I'll just bet the school called because she had been to that school drunk before and they couldn't prove it.
I'm glad the officer gave her a peice of his mind. It is embarrassing and she should be ashamed.
That's a sad and hot mess. No child should have to go through that trauma at such an impression age.
Why was it necessary to make this poor little boy see his mess of a mom taken into custody?
Right ! I thought they said he was going somewhere else??
Exactly. 😢
Seems like him being present was unavoidable
@@Chaos.Co-ordinator I wondered if that was the case. How do you keep her out of the driver's seat and keep kiddo unaware at the same time?
Is it any worse then what he sees on a daily basis living with this person?
Wow! That kid saying she doesn't know time right now...he seen this so many times before. That's sad
Very sad...
That was truly heartbreaking. The little dude deserves so much better.
He said his brother couldn’t tell time. But that mom is a head case poor boys
For that kid its just a wednesday. Sad. Alcohol is brutal.
Pathetic excuse for a mother.
This child needs a really good foster home.
I think about alcohol every single day but being a responsible mom is more important. It's so easy to get away with this type of behavior. I'm so glad she forgot to pick her kid up
I'm so happy the school district contacted the police, This woman needs Serious Help
What else were they supposed to do take the kid home? 😂
They should have called the police sooner. Calling mom 20 times is ridiculous.
@@CR-xt2jj in mississippi it's around 5 calls and like 2-3 hours in mississippi. they gave her way TOO MUCH leniency. If I was a family member I would sue the fuck out of the school.
Forget the female. Take care of the children.
The kid does. Couldn't care less about this 'mother'.
“She doesn’t know time right now…” 🤦♂️ the fact the kid says that is just so depressing
I think this will help the boy realize that the way his mom is, isn't normal, nor is it okay. Also that he deserves better.
I couldn't believe it when he said that, it broke my heart 😢
Hilarious. I think of the part of "So I married an Axe Murderer" where the pilot looks over to the passenger and says "I don't understand the concept of time" That crack me up for decades.
This story makes me cry when I see the sweet kid. I hope he gets away from this toxic environment.
Some people don't deserve the privilege of being a parent...this is the epitome of it.
She doesn't deserve custody of a dog, let alone a child. Poor little baby, it broke my heart completely when he explained "She doesn't know time right now.". What a terrible POS.
Agreed. I grew up around a similar environment as a kid.
Glad my moms better now
This woman couldn't take care of a cockroach!
@BeauTIFFul22 My bearded dragons could crunch crunch, lol 😆 😋 😜 😅 poor kid though, l hope the mum gets the help she needs, for her children's sake and hers.
That wrecked me
@@PauloHernandezXDI'm so glad your mom is doing better now but it does like you said leave a lasting impact. That's the thing I struggle with the most since getting sober is what I put my child through when he was younger but I take accountability for it and I can't change the past I can only change right now and how I act going forward and show him that I've changed.
Second time they’ve been out for the same thing and she still has custody. Ain’t that amazing.
Privilege
Yet some families have their children taken off them for minor things, something seems off.
Not really. Services are usually very reluctant to just take kids and throw them in an already overcrowded and broken system.
Their is a massive rabbit hole of crime cases where kids were beaten to death, starved to death, extreme sexual abuse, etc. where CPS visited 5+ times calls from basically everyone but the parent and they never remove them.
This is actually the tamest push I’ve seen for it in a while
😢 No it's not amazing, it's so sad...
@@default178stupidity of the courts !!!!!!!
Nobody wins. Addiction is hell. That poor boy.
Hope the kids are doing alright, it sucks to have a mom like this is something that sticks on your mind forever.
“Mommy doesn’t know time right now…”
Poor kid…
She's going to know 2 to 3 years of time when she goes to court
That broke my heart when the little boy said that😢 The things he must have had to deal with when no one was there to help... It's absolutely heartbreaking 💔 I hope the mom gets the help she needs.
@adamburgins441
It said at the end of the video she only got 2 years of probation...
It broke my heart hearing the kid cry. He's too young to fully understand his mom has issues and all he know is he loves her and cops are taking her away. A parent should never put their kids in any position like this. Its awful. He deserves a better mother.
Don’t underestimate kids. Me and my siblings knew our parents were addicts. We knew it wasn’t a good thing.
The kid just got a dose of reality, that his cries are not going to be answered. When he gets a bit older, he will learn to be stoic, keep his emotions suppressed, and have no reactions to almost anything.
@@7eyesopenwide168 Yeah that is true, being as I was abused by my own mother since I was 4. I just don't wish upon a kid to grow up so fast knowing his mom can't care for him like she should because she's chosen to be a alcoholic.
@@BlueSkyCountry Let's hope so but not everyone reacts and grows up from this the same way
Hurt me too hearing that sweet child crying and pleading 💔
The fact that she’s still trying to blame everyone else after already admitting she downed an entire bottle of vodka when she got home is insane mental gymnastics.
That poor baby, having to deal with a parent like her… I hope the dad lives close to be able to help
Why would they subject that kid to all that mess. Leave him in the cruiser. Leave him with another officer. Something. Jeez. He got a front row seat, and years of trauma ahead of him.
My thoughts exactly!!
This will likely help the boy to understand that the way his mother is, isn't normal, nor is it okay. This experience can't be more traumatic then being forgotten at school, or all the other things one experiences dealing with a loved ones unchecked alcoholism.
WELL! NOT THE OFFICERS FAULT they did not know the condition she would be in when they got there! The kid is already use to her being drunk. He said **she doesn't know the time now** IT IS NOT THE FIRST TIME THIS HAPPENED. SHE EVEN ADMITTED SHE IS AN ALCHOLIC WHEN IN THE POLICE CAR PLUS SHE added SHE WENT FOR TREATMENTS MANY TIMES BEFORE CLEARLY she is not ready to stop or willing to stop for her kids. THE kids are better off going to foster care. SHE IS THE ONE WHO IS TRAUMATIZING HER KID NOT THE COPS.
@@DOMINIKPAULSEN Sorry you can't see this child deals with this disgusting mother on a daily basis. It's not the first time the police have shown up. The mother has already ruined this kids childhood.
The officer said it was the second time he's been out there for the same reason. Should have kept the child in the cruiser knowing what to expect.
I feel so horrible for that little boy. He has to suffer because his mother would rather get drunk. That child deserves better.
Her mother knows nothing but getting drunk. When you fall down the rabbit hole of alcoholism you can’t do anything. She needs support and detox. May this video be a lesson to look back and see how she hurts her children
I watched my drunk parent getting handcuffed too many times. He gave alcohol up completely when I was 10 and our family was so much better off
Asshole cops should not have brought him to the door without checking out the situation first.
No child should have to witness their parent being taken away. I blame all adults for traumatizing & putting the child last. What an idiotic member of the Blue Gang, for NOT isolating the poor child 1st. Sickening.
@eliz, Theres more then one kid
It's a job for social services not the cops. Force her into rehab or else the child goes to foster care. How traumatising for the poor child - and this wasnt the first time either.
I’m 6 years in recovery and I have a 2 year old daughter and I thank God every day that she will never know that part of me. All I ever wanted was to be a mom and I take this role so seriously because I never thought it would happen. She’s the miracle I had at 35 and I will do everything I have to do to make sure I stay healthy for her. I’m adopted and my biological mother was an alcoholic who already had 2 kids she struggled to care for and she chose to give me up instead of dragging me through what my siblings experienced and I thank God for that every day as well.
The saddest part is she didn’t even seem like she recognized or acknowledged her son, at all. 🥺
She was blacked out pretty bad. Bet she had no clue what was really going on
@@gordocarbo for sure, you’re probably right.
i didn’t even notice that at first… absolutely disgraceful. that poor little boy
Yall are such space cadets. This is clearly a younger child who was already at home. She had no reaction to him cause she's seen his lil butt all day. He probably answered the door & stood by cops till mom came out.
@@LivBlanks did you even watch this video?😂😂😂😂🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️🤦🏼♀️
Poor kid witnessing this humiliation. Life is tough enough without your mom making a complete a** of herself
Yeah why didn’t they take him away immediately??? Wtf
They caused so much more trauma by not isolating him so he didnt have to see that! Sickening. I blame her AND the idiot fuzz who didn't genuinely put the child 1st. This is all around heartbreaking.
Agree! This is wrong..I get proven a point but this child should not be involved. Especially since CPS would would take over the situation regardless. And take her to jail already they seem to really drag this out. Take her to the hospital she clearly needs help. It just keeps goes on and on..😢
atleast they dont seem to be poor. it really sucks when this happens to you and you are borderline homeless
@@SimplyCheryl She was a SNAPS card holder.
This is so horrible on both sides. The kid screaming breaks my heart.
That’s more than alcohol she’s on drugs too what A shame this poor child has to grow up with this
Every child deserves parents, but not all parents deserve children.
Aint that the truth.
100 % !!!!
Well said
Facts!! 💯
Amen!!!!
Ughh, the little boy is used to his mom's alcoholism. Feel so bad for this kid.
Exactly!!!!!
The kids probably have to put her to bed every night.
He will probably become an alcoholic. He thinks her behavior is normal.
“She doesn’t know time right now” sad
Poor kid. So sad. Where is his father and grandparents? Heard them mention "the dad" then a "PO" so is the dad on probation or parole or is she?
I'm glad her voice was out of commission, it really put a muzzle on her 😂
God bless that kid though, "she doesn't know time right now" dude that just breaks my heart too. Imagine just how much his mother has already let him down that he's this used to her behavior.
Where’s the child’s father? He should be ashamed for leaving his child with that poor excuse of a mother.
Maybe he’s worse, we don’t know.
@@lisasmith6000 after I posted they did mention dad has protection order placed against him, both are apparently bad parents
Hearing the kid say "she doesn't know time right now" was heartbreaking...
At such a young age, he has had to figure that adult concept out??? So sad!!
It hurts my heart to think about the poor child being in that home while his mother is either wasted or sleeping. He looked fairly skinny too, she probably forgets to feed him 😞
I absolutely thought the same thing. You know he’s seen this before to come to that conclusion. Poor little guy see seems to have more maturity than her.
@@juliewyatt5876I think this was a child at home that was actually younger than the 5 year old. How sad and scary is that.
It was. Poor kids
So glad her voice went out. I just *know* she’d be screaming and hollering the entire time.
She's still funking annoying.
And the award for calmest cop goes to this man hear🎉
Seeing that kid is so sad. Him saying "She doesn't know time." Makes it sound like this isn't her first rodeo. Plus the poor kid crying as his mom is taken away. It's heartbreaking.
She talks like I talk in my dreams when I’m trying to ask for help or in danger 😂😂😂 the words won’t come out but I’m trying so hard to speak 🗣️
Omg perfect comparison.. truly my nightmare voice
Omg lol
Yes exactly !
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😂😂❤❤
Active, chronic alcoholism. Just heartbreaking for the children. I hope the mother gets the help she so clearly, desperately needs.
I lost my dad because of alcoholism he refused to get help
Heartbreaking for everyone.
My mother was an alcoholic. It wasn't so bad she was still my world until she drank herself to death at 44.
@@thebiggrouchlost my mom to alcoholism.
I'm an alcoholic. And as much as I want children in the future, this is exactly why I don't have any now. I already know I can't be responsible for a child with how incredibly irresponsible I am with alcohol. I do want to get better. And I do seek help. Last time I was sober it was only 4 months and I relapsed. I need to get better, because of the damage to my liver and kidneys. My time is running out. Prayers for anyone else struggling with alcohol. Its one hell of a drug once you're hooked.
This is pitiful. That woman should be ashamed of her self. Poor children. Where is the father
Both my parents were (and still are) severe alcoholics and man…that really messed me up and I’m still healing psychologically and spiritually from all that. I’m sending my fellow adult children of alcoholics so much light and healing 🤍
She's blaming everyone other than herself for this mess. "He needs to walk home" is horrible. Those poor kids.
That's what some kids would do. Just walk home. It's a sad reality for some kids.
It's hard to accept... that's why she needs help.
That's what addicts do! Blame everyone and anyone but themselves.
That boy will be traumatized for the rest of his life.
Don't speak that over a child. Speak words of healing and affirmation.
@@TiffanyErinIt's true, though. Why play at false hope?
@@MeganVictoriaKearns you are not in charge of truth. You do not decide who heals. GOD DOES.
@TiffanyErin Tiffany, I am a born again Christian and I too believe that healing is in God’s hands. In that regard I hope that, one, the mother is willing to let Jesus Christ work in her life through realizing that her current life path is not a good one and she agrees to get help. As for Colton I hope that by God’s grace he can overcome the situation that he’s in and come out stronger for it. Peace.
Yes, Colton will need therapy, but that doesn’t mean he can’t go on to live a happy productive life.
Hearing those child’s cries for his mom was heartbreaking
When the boy said “she doesn’t know time right now”… holy shit. My heart is broken. How many times has he seen his mom in this state to understand that she wouldn’t know time when she’s like this. You she be required to pass a rigorous test and obtain a license to have a kid. You need one for a car and even a dog, so why not the most precious thing in existence? Some people should not breed.
That just isn't enforceable. What are you gonna do, make it illegal to have sex without a permit? Give everyone forced abortions?
Poor nice little boy. He needs a loving family.
I can’t figure out why they’d let their other child see his mother being arrested. That was kinda sh!tty.
I'll take him! I'd be waiting for him to get off the bus everyday and have a snack ready if he needed one. Then we would talk about his day, do homework and play until dinner. Then bath, bed and stories. I think I miss being a Mom.
@karenscoville6307
I wouldn't even let him go to any state school. What, so they can indoctrinate him with gender rubbish?? No, I would be his stay at home mother, homeschool him, cook him three hot from scratch meals every day. Because that's what I do with my children. I'm a stay at home, homeschooling mother.
@@MineChanclasYou know what I can’t figure out? Why she didn’t comply knowing she was drunk as fuck AND had a young child in the house. Like the officer said, they had to do that because that grown ass trollazoid can’t take care of herself. Now her kids have to suffer. It’s not the fault of the cops.
@@MineChanclas Sometimes it can't be avoided. The mother was going to get in her car to drive drunk, they said, 'Nope sobriety test' and she tried to bail back into her house. At that point police weren't playing anymore and had to take her. Unfortunately young kids are usually up their parents butt and so he was RIGHT there. It is what it is. It's not the police's fault the mother did what she did and caused them to arrest her.
As a fellow parent of a kid around the same age, hearing that young voice say "she doesnt know time right now" hurts so bad.
As a parent of five children this is just sicking and really hurts my soul. The kid crying for his mom made me so bad for that child
It really does
I agree my sons four and I could never 😭
It really is sad and heartbreaking 😢
Bless his sweet little heart. Mommy is all he knows. I wish I could put my arms around him. Prayers all around 🙏
I like that the officer did not want to call DHS….this is sad 💔