I share many of the same thoughts and feelings. Life is short but incredibly long. I can see the picture you spoke of near the end. Today and tomorrow are worth living. It will be okay! Spot on brother. My brain chemistry is screwed up as well. Wish I could have been more present while raising my two adult kids. I always wanted to be somewhere else. Now I am Present, took three DUI’s to get me where I am now. AA helps. This video was so spot on.
You did well. !.. keep on keeping on.. I'm proud of your accomplishments..I've been there.. trust me..I've been in your shoes.. All I want to say is keep it up.. your doing good..
When people talk about recovery its always my favorite topic. After 35 years of hell drunk and high. 10 DUI's 11 years homeless , 5 years incarcerated on the installment plan. Continuous loss of people places and things and self . I finally surrendered at the age of 48and sobered up . Went into the field of helping the homeless for 10 years. Working in the mental health field for 6 years and retired now. For a dirt bag like me to recover and get the opportunity to serve in those fields is only a miracle only a higher power could have blessed me with. CONGRATS on your 5 years and all the great content and your achievements.They told me dont give up before the miracle happens. Then after being in recovery for a while they said dont give up after the miracle happens
Congratulations on your miracle, mine was 30 years ago. It happens when it is supposed to. My wife did the same thing and I stopped and went to a meeting, I seen people from my past making it, guys I faught with in the past became my friends and sponsors.. never believed in a god til I heard of Good orderly direction.and I never lost anything, I kept making decisions to give those things away...so keep up the good work.. I love what you do
As someone that has been around since the camper videos, watching you flourish and put things back together with Carlos has been an inspiration. I understand it wouldn't have been easy putting it all out there for the world to see. Keep up the good work, Andy, and congratulations on 5 years sober.
Be ok with having a foggy mind for possibly several months. Can’t explain it but you may feel in a daze or out of sorts. Everything is new again and your not “losing it”. 👍
@@2007dixiegirlI’m actually glad to hear you say this, I’m almost 2 months and I actually feel worse, I was just a weekend drinker but still expected to see better results.
Andy, you do not know me. God used you to say what I needed to hear because of your life experiences. I am waiting for back surgery, I'm 35, pretty much fully disabled. I keep going because I know it always works out. The past few months have been crippling and excruciating nerve pain. I've been more sober at this lowest point of my life, than I was when I was physically healthy. God healed my mind and heart, that had more influence than needing to numb up insane nerve pain 1-2 times a day. I am waiting for my my surgery to be approved by insurance, this waiting game is difficult. I am waiting, God never fails us. I'm waiting my Brother, thank you. God bless you, I love you. - Joel
I'm coming up on 25 years (this month)myself, congrats and "one-day-at-a -time" Brother👍🙏 recently lost my wife at 67 years old😭, she is the "ONE" person that helped me quit, My youngest sister begged me "please don't turn (back) to alcohol" (my drug of choice) I insured her that "through the Grace of God" I have been relieved of that desire, but I am one of those people that I have to stay busy, and we are in complete agreement concerning God's timing🙏, Love ya Brother❤🙏🙏🙏 (and subscribed)
Well done man, you're giving the world an inside look at addiction, recovery and family life. I'm sure that you've helped plenty of people. Having that support from your church must have helped as well.
I struggle with alcoholism. I’m working with a nurse and therapist. I never feel like I am making enough progress. I started as a party boy, and then I needed to sleep after trauma and eventually I couldn’t go a few hours without it. I’ve developed seizures and random panic attacks. But a year later I’m not clean yet but I keep to a strict regimen of a time window. Two liters of rum a day to two cups. I’m starting to get liver scarring but my doctors think the brain damage alcohol has done to me means I have to keep going slow or I might have a deadly seizure or a stroke. It’s a rough road and I’m glad to hear your perspective. I hope to be there someday before it kills me. I have so many blessings now I didn’t have then. I want to be better so I could see them again every morning. God bless Andy.
I stumbled across your posts a few years ago. Thank you for sharing your life. You are a true blessing, you and your family. I wear my chicken shirt with pride and when people ask, i send them to your page. Praying for your wife that you all get the answers and healing. God bless yall!
Addiction is a terrible thing. I never understood it . I've seen friends go through it and never understood why they would put themselves before the real things in life that matters. Until i found your channel and watched you rebuild your life and reconnect with your family, and never blamed anyone but yourself. You have helped more than 1 person, this I am sure of. Bless you and your family.
Congratulations. That’s a big milestone. Family and community support is important. My sister in law struggles with addiction. It’s not my place to tell her story. But her siblings help, support, and love her. Never be afraid to start again.
I quit when I was 37. I'm 68 and still have 2 fully functional brain cells left from then.😂 When I was 45, I got a great job that really changed my life. I'm retired now and having fun fixing stuff for free for friends and family. Thanks for the videos Andy.
Man you never miss on the sit down talks. Wisdom is worth a million bucks but the experiences gaining it can break a man. Tons of respect for who you are and what you do. So keep breaking tractors and making weiner jokes and by all means don't stop sharing that million dollar wisdom. There's a lot of us that need that wealth.
Andy, every single one of your videos is my favorite. The funny ones, the building/fixing ones, and the serious, emotional and sharing ones alike. You put your genuine self into every one of them and despite that this is through video and you have never met or even heard of me I feel a genuine human connection with you. You rock man, I'm a truck driver and don't always get the human connection I need but you really help with that. I love you man, and bless you.
I personally am thankful for your struggle and where you are today. God has delivered your testimony to many including me. I identify with your testimony. I love you man.
Hey Andy and congrats. You are a true hero, 5 years is awesome. There is a lot of truth to learn when getting sober and you hit the nail right on the head. Trust God, clean the mess you made, help others and patience. Pray and wait.... Keep inspiring people the way you do. Youre good at it.
Thank you Andy, My AA sponsor saved my life and introduced me to our lord and savior. I'm a man that had both tears of joy and sadness running watching this video. Congrats on you milestone. I know the struggles between our ears. Keep the course. BOE
Wow! Good for you ❤ We aren't perfect for sure. But Stay the course, Andy... Beautiful wife and kids... Nice homestead. Life when sober, is so Awesome. Hugs to you, Carlos and the whole family. God Bless 🙌
HUGE congratulations man!! Im 2 years clean now myself. I'm a recovering heroin/fentanyl (really anything) addict. If no one else told you today that they're proud of you... I'm proud of you, and i love you brother!!
I am close to 9 months sober for the first time in 25 years and I just went through a divorce from the woman I still love. Your story is important to hear a it helps me. Thank you! “You can’t go back and change how you started but you can start where you are and change the end”-C.S. Lewis
Hell yeah 5 years!!!! Proud of you brother… I know it’s hard at times but you are stronger… I don’t care what anyone says these videos are awesome and I am so damn proud man!!!! Keep it up and you know there’s always people out there if you need someone to talk to
CONGRATULATIONS. Keep a clear head. The years will tic by. Next month will make 18 years for myself. Lots of reflecting to be done and has been done. Love your content and again, Congratulations. Btw, your coming clean video way back, I was teary with you, I felt it.
Im currently in a sober living house after my 4th round of rehab 4 months sober ive been following you for a couple years now and you are an inspiration to me knowing we go through the same things keep up the hard work and congratulations on 5 years
The good Lord has taught you well. You are right. You need to forgive yourself. You are blessed to have a wonderful family. Thank you for sharing your journey! 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing. You got it right Andy, lay it at the cross and "be still" ps 46:10 my favorite verse. You are right, you will never get those times back, but as you said life is long and you are living it now. Your babies were not teens when your demons took over, that's one of the best blessings you have. He puts you where you are supposed to be, when and only when you are supposed to there. You are using your experience to help others get they their demons and to help those around them to help. Good bless you and your wife, as sometimes line myself I needed to wear the skin of my knees too the bone before I woke up and thank God for those that were there to help me pick up my shattered pieces. Keep on keeping on.
I applaud your dedication to keeping yourself sober and caring about your family. My family has many addicts and I have seen the damage that it can do. Thank you for sharing.
Ive got 5 years sober in July of this year me an my wife both the best people in this world have gotten sober we’ve all had hard lives im proud of you brother and here’s to 20 more years man
Man I been sober since Sept 30 , 2023 this has been the hardest time of my life I am broken and struggling and I hate life every minute of everyday, but I am sober and that is the one thing inmy life that I can say I am doing right and it's just by not doing doing anything bad , funny how it took me 39 years to learn that simple thing but to me it just wasn't simple , I love your Chanel it helps me remember what's important thank you for sharing your story , it helped me so please continue being cool as a fan ! And I'll keep hanging in there like a loose tooth !
I’ve watched you from the beginning man. I appreciate your wiener jokes, but appreciate these videos more. I struggle with sobriety every day, it’s tough man. Watching this… already made my day. Thanks for your transparency and your support!!!
Congratulations neighbor! 5 years is a lot of one day at a times in a row! My wife is 26+ years clean n sober. She has that addictive pattern, so EVERYTHING has to be done with boundaries. She too was a mess and now she’s a raging success! Experience is a qualifier… Preach On & Bless’ns to ya, Tedd
This is probably one of my favorite videos. Years ago, I swapped my "problem" with cooking and music. Ain't gonna get in depth about it but I'll just say, i can relate to how heavy it hits after the fact. Even though you're not that person anymore. But you didn't give up and that's what really matters. ❤
Thank you for sharing Andy! I have a very similar life story, and I too realized certain things weren't right with me. I have always believed in God and his son Jesus. I hit a really good low point and had to "sit some time" and I believe God puts opportunities in our path at the proper moment. While I was detained there was who just happened to click with me and actually had some very meaningful talks, about our faith, well the way he listened to what I had to say and then make sense of it to me and actually took me deeper into the waters, farther than I thought my feet could ever take me. I now have a better understanding of what my faith should be and how free and powerful it can make a person. You're doing good, Stay strong! I'm working in Hancock, Upper Michigan this week and maybe next week. I would be honored to meet you if you're in the area. If not I love ya and God bless ❤
29 years sober here! Best thing to do is get right with God. But cold turkey is how I did it and LOTS of counseling! We both quit and it and quitting smoking was the two best things we ever did! Third thing was a bad decision! Am we should have had more children! If I could go back in time I would have more! ❤ God bless Carlos and your entire family. May He bless you and keep you all your days! ❤
I'm 2 years sober just a few weeks ago. Struggled with supplementing alcohol for weed as well. Just stopped smoking 3 days ago. Feels just as hard. Thank you for sharing your story you have been an inspiration for me for years to pull my shit together and find my way back to the good lord. God bless man.
So proud of you. you are a miracle. I don’t care how you got there as long as you do, I’m coming up to 29 yrs and I have lost a son to addiction,talk about guilt I should have been able to help him. But my grandkids have never seen me drunk and my Intentions are never let them. I like your spirituality. Keep it up and they can’t get you.
This video touched me. I will not forget this for my entire life. I am an addict as well. I have lost time with loved ones over it also. I understand. This video brings me to tears. I only smoke weed now and would like to quit that after 20 years. The real problem was with Xanax for 15 years. I feel now as if I was a zombie all those years.... I barely remember anything. Lost alot. I no longer use any prescription..... Anyways.... Love you brother. Stay strong
Thank you Andy for telling ‘my story.’, I appreciate your honesty, tremendously! August of ‘87 my wife gave me the ultimatum, “me or the booze!” I struggled, the first bit - trying to get sober for her. I dry-drunked’ it for a month or so until honestly surrendered my will to the care of God. Wife left after 5 years, to live an alternative life style. Remarried later joyously. After a three year struggle with cancer she passed. Retired in 2004. Remarried in 2011 to a lady I met where we both worked. Mostly Happy, Joyous and Free in spite of life’s aches & pains. Being sober, by the Grace of God and being daily thankful to Him has given me a great life. Sobriety does not mean the end of problems, but can help us develop the tools to endure the losses, the pains, the betrayals in life…and the bone-headed mistakes I still make. Keep sharing your story - you never know who might need to hear it. May the God who sustains us grant you strength and peace, and provide healing to Carlos!
The journey of sobriety for me takes up more real estate in my head than the addiction did. The next day guilt and wondering what I said or what I did or who I may have pissed off is gone and that for me is the reward I keep trying for. A lot of us addicts are very smart industrious people. For me it was a way to forget the idiots I had to deal with in my chosen career field.
6 Years sober and your story almost matches mine. I missed so much. Just being a man and providing isn't enough for your wife and kids. I barley have memories of my children growing up. Now I know the reality of my choices.
I read a great book called "Lotsaholic" where the author is an addict...addicted to substances, working out, being a dad...everything. I'm so happy to hear you've made it 5 years!
Greetings from Finland, Andy. I have followed you for a while, few years. Some how the warm feeling on your videos took me straight on and in your life. I found another one. I didn't knew about your addiction when I first get to your channel, but for some reason i found similarity there. I have admitted my own addiction already some time ago and am going to treatment at the spring. For the time i have been watching your videos, have been thinking this guy, Andy, i know from somewhere..! Maybe i only knew my self there. All the best to you, Andy, and your family. Have been great to see your homestead growing! Keep on going! Be proud of everyday you, Andy, made so far! 🤟
CONGRATULATIONS ❤ My 4 year date clean was December 20th, from Meth 🙏🙏🙏🙏 it tore my family up 😢 but now, things worked out and we are So much Stronger now as a family, because Of God's Love and Jesus's Grace ✌❤🙏
You are a sincere person (that is rare), I see honesty within you; it is refreshing. Your wit and intelligence keep me coming back. None of us are getting ut of life alive, our children are all that matter. Keep focused on continuing to improve and do hat is right for your kids. Love you, Andy!
Congratulations on 5 years sobriety. It takes a lot of courage to post something as personal as this to the public. You will be in my prayers and I hope God continues to work in your life. Your post on You Tube have either been entertaining or informative, especially the advice about cooking a good steak and red potatoes at home for your spouse. Sometimes the little things can help bring you and your spouse together during rough times in a relationship. Thank you for that.
Whilst I believe in the flying spaghetti Monster as 'god' I won't and can't hate because I believe something different. You said the main thing, at the end of the day it's up to 'you' to be the change. Love hearing your story dude. You're absolutely awesome buddy.
Congratulations on the 5 years sober! Thank you for sharing your story because I agree if it saves 1 person it's worth it. May God bless you and your family
Congrats on 5 years. I love the homestead videos, but these real life, down to earth videos really hit home. Ive dealt with addiction and depression in the past, well still kinda, but hearing your story, and seeing your growth warms my heart. Sending prayers to you and your family. Much love from Indiana
I was just sitting in mancey waiting on ym customer to meet me and saw you drive thru in the old square body Andy! Congratulations on the 5 years sober, huge milestone!
Congratulations, Andy! I haven't watched you from the beginning but I really love your channel. I was an enabler and went to some al-anon meetings and then went through a bunch of classes at my church called Healing a Wounded Person. I had a bunch of crap that happened to me because my stepparent was an alcoholic and she was too drunk to notice things that were happening to me and my dad worked all the time. I have no idea why I said that but I guess cause I can relate from the child's stand point, I guess. Anyway, I really hope this helps more than one person. I had a boyfriend who had a drinking problem and I tried to help him to turn toward our church, he's was the one who introduced me to it, but he wouldn't keep up. I tried a couple more times and he just couldn't let go of the beer. I told him I wasn't going down that path with him because I'd been through too much with the stepparent. We parted ways. My Dad saw him quite a few years later and he looked really bad, I mean reeeally bad. While we had been dating he had gone to the doctors and the doc told him he has Cirrhosis of the liver and he need to stop drinking. That was why I tried so hard to help keep him in the church, they had AA there, to try to help him. That's why I think he looked so bad when my dad saw him. I think he was still drinking. Anyway, I pray this reaches many who need to hear your message. I know I really loved my boyfriend but I had to let him go cause I was becoming unhealthy myself, not alcohol but just in general. Good job Andy and I pray for you and your family every day. God bless.😊❤
Congratulations Andy! I and im sure all of us, are very proud of you! 🎉 its not easy getting sober, it can often be harder to stay sober. Good on you brother!
Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of your journey. I been sober for a little over 3 years,and never looked back. As always, we love ya. God Bless ❤
Thats awesome man! It was 1 year sober for me on January 25. Best thing I ever did for myself was accepting Jesus as my Lord and savior and getting sober. No looking back now. Love ya man, God bless and I will pray for you and your family 🙏
Last thing you were doin was preachin. Its something we all have delt with and know how hard it is to stay clean and sober, especially when your heart has been ripped out of your chest and the sad reality is you did it to yourself. I have been clean and sober since 2002. I had to move out of state because I knew to many people in my home state and always gravitated back to the dope. You just let all of us know that your human, but are able to learn and rise above it. Been there and I was lucky enough my wife waited for me to come to my senses, but as she said she wanted the man she narried not what I had become. Congratulations on your 5 years. It's a hell of an accomplishment for anyone who actually knows. And you have to forgive yourself and the only thing I myself haven't conquered yet, but the good lord willin it comes around, and if not I'll live with it the rest of my life until I see my wife again and hopefully Ill meet her at the pearly gates with other loved one.
The biggest thing you have done is reached a milestone, you will learn everyday and enjoy your family now with open eyes. Keep reaching for support and it will be there. Be there for those boys for the rest of your life and that is what they will remember. Take care of your wife and enjoy your sobriety son.
Congratulations on five years of sobriety! One of my heroes in the halls says "It just keeps getting better and better" and he should know, he's closing in on 45 years. I knew from the first time I saw one of your videos that here was a man who had cultivated a concious contact with a higher power. As I followed along it became more apparent and I have grown to look forward to hearing what you have to offer in the same way I look forward to hearing from kindred spirits in a meeting. May God bless you and keep you sober Andy, in all the ways that that term means.
This week I hit 27 years it's always a work in progress improving yourself and learning things you need to know and God gives us the answer we need not always what we want and as long as he gives us the breath to see the next sunrise he's given us another day to help someone and work on ourselves
Wow man! This IS one of my favorites! I have been going through the same after getting sober (3 years). Feeling and seeing what I missed out on with my wife and kids.
Been watching since the start, and the day you let us in on the secret that we`d been watching your life fall back into place, well that was just the coolest, happiest twist that even Spielberg could never top. God bless you right back Andy.
Thanks for sharing, a wise friend of mine once said "adversity and pain introduces a man to himself" I believe this wholeheartedly and you obviously have lived this too. Congrats on your sobriety and keep on keepin on!!!
I understand everything you have said, I come from a long line of abusers of alcoholics and druggies,buy all rights I shouldn't be walking around. But I'm here an living life.
We are on a spiritual journey in a physical world. These life experiences are lessons. You are blessed to have such a wonderful wife and children. They are also blessed to have this version of you. May the Good Lord bless you and your family. I hope that you wish me twice as much as I wish you 😊
Congratulations on 5 years of sobriety, it is not an easy thing to do, I only wish that I could forgive myself like you have, have a great day and enjoy your family, you deserve it.
I've been following you for several months now, and while I enjoy your other videos, this one is my favorite. You have a story to tell, and you're open and honest about it which is why people will love you...and follow you. Congratulations on your milestone.
Congratulations Andy, it’s an achievement to be proud of, you’ve tamed a demon and moved forward. Im glad that you and Carlos have been able to put yourselves back together and moving forward. I wish you all the best and continued success with your sobriety.
Congratulations on your 5 years sober Andy. Thank you for sharing your journey. Keep putting your videos out there cause your a true inspiration. God Bless you and your family. 🙏
Congratulations brother. A year and a half for me. Thank you for saying all this. I share your " I drank but I'm an addict not necessarily just an alcoholic". Anyway, it was like this video was out of the blue and it has reminded me to tighten a few things up.
Happy for you. That'd a feat many won't even think about. Ever. Also, you do have a place to preach. You experienced what others might just be starting, or are struggling through it. Your words are going to reach someone. Whether you like it or not. Keep you doing what you do.
So glad you shared this Andy! So proud of you and your rigorous honesty. And forgiving yourself. You are an amazing young man and God has his hand on you. Jeremiah 29:11❤😊🙏
Congratulations on your sobriety! There are so many people you will reach with your message. We lost my former husband to suicide after many years of alcoholism a number of years ago. I wish he could have heard this story. You may be the light that shines for someone else. God bless you and your beautiful family. Life is precious.
Congratulations! As the daughter of an addicted alcoholic I can tell you your wife and kids will appreciate your effort and determination!
I share many of the same thoughts and feelings. Life is short but incredibly long. I can see the picture you spoke of near the end. Today and tomorrow are worth living. It will be okay! Spot on brother. My brain chemistry is screwed up as well. Wish I could have been more present while raising my two adult kids. I always wanted to be somewhere else. Now I am
Present, took three DUI’s to get me where I am now. AA helps. This video was so spot on.
Amazing that this popped up, I relapsed a few years back, but 10 mins ago I found my 2 year sobriety coin. I think it's time to do it again. For good
You did well. !.. keep on keeping on..
I'm proud of your accomplishments..I've been there.. trust me..I've been in your shoes..
All I want to say is keep it up.. your doing good..
Thomas, no such thing as a coincidence. You got this pal!
When people talk about recovery its always my favorite topic. After 35 years of hell drunk and high. 10 DUI's 11 years homeless , 5 years incarcerated on the installment plan. Continuous loss of people places and things and self . I finally surrendered at the age of 48and sobered up . Went into the field of helping the homeless for 10 years. Working in the mental health field for 6 years and retired now. For a dirt bag like me to recover and get the opportunity to serve in those fields is only a miracle only a higher power could have blessed me with. CONGRATS on your 5 years and all the great content and your achievements.They told me dont give up before the miracle happens. Then after being in recovery for a while they said dont give up after the miracle happens
Congratulations on your recovery! Wishing you continued success!!
Congratulations on sobriety!!!
Congratulations on your miracle, mine was 30 years ago. It happens when it is supposed to. My wife did the same thing and I stopped and went to a meeting, I seen people from my past making it, guys I faught with in the past became my friends and sponsors.. never believed in a god til I heard of Good orderly direction.and I never lost anything, I kept making decisions to give those things away...so keep up the good work.. I love what you do
As someone that has been around since the camper videos, watching you flourish and put things back together with Carlos has been an inspiration. I understand it wouldn't have been easy putting it all out there for the world to see.
Keep up the good work, Andy, and congratulations on 5 years sober.
Congratulations. I just hit 3 wks last Friday. Never thought I'd see that on the path I was on.
Congratulations! Keep at it!
Keep after it! That's a choice we all make each day, sometimes many times each day.
Be ok with having a foggy mind for possibly several months. Can’t explain it but you may feel in a daze or out of sorts. Everything is new again and your not “losing it”. 👍
@@2007dixiegirl oh that's the new norm for me right now
@@2007dixiegirlI’m actually glad to hear you say this, I’m almost 2 months and I actually feel worse, I was just a weekend drinker but still expected to see better results.
Congratulations. I'm 18 years sober and still struggle from time to time. Keep your head down and your feet on the path your currently on
Andy, you do not know me.
God used you to say what I needed to hear because of your life experiences. I am waiting for back surgery, I'm 35, pretty much fully disabled. I keep going because I know it always works out. The past few months have been crippling and excruciating nerve pain. I've been more sober at this lowest point of my life, than I was when I was physically healthy. God healed my mind and heart, that had more influence than needing to numb up insane nerve pain 1-2 times a day.
I am waiting for my my surgery to be approved by insurance, this waiting game is difficult. I am waiting, God never fails us. I'm waiting my Brother, thank you. God bless you, I love you. - Joel
I'm coming up on 25 years (this month)myself, congrats and "one-day-at-a -time" Brother👍🙏 recently lost my wife at 67 years old😭, she is the "ONE" person that helped me quit, My youngest sister begged me "please don't turn (back) to alcohol" (my drug of choice) I insured her that "through the Grace of God" I have been relieved of that desire, but I am one of those people that I have to stay busy, and we are in complete agreement concerning God's timing🙏, Love ya Brother❤🙏🙏🙏 (and subscribed)
Well done man, you're giving the world an inside look at addiction, recovery and family life. I'm sure that you've helped plenty of people. Having that support from your church must have helped as well.
I was glued to my monitor the whole video, best 14 minutes & 50 seconds on TH-cam I've seen in years. Thank you
I struggle with alcoholism. I’m working with a nurse and therapist.
I never feel like I am making enough progress. I started as a party boy, and then I needed to sleep after trauma and eventually I couldn’t go a few hours without it.
I’ve developed seizures and random panic attacks.
But a year later I’m not clean yet but I keep to a strict regimen of a time window. Two liters of rum a day to two cups.
I’m starting to get liver scarring but my doctors think the brain damage alcohol has done to me means I have to keep going slow or I might have a deadly seizure or a stroke.
It’s a rough road and I’m glad to hear your perspective. I hope to be there someday before it kills me. I have so many blessings now I didn’t have then. I want to be better so I could see them again every morning.
God bless Andy.
I stumbled across your posts a few years ago. Thank you for sharing your life. You are a true blessing, you and your family. I wear my chicken shirt with pride and when people ask, i send them to your page. Praying for your wife that you all get the answers and healing. God bless yall!
Addiction is a terrible thing. I never understood it . I've seen friends go through it and never understood why they would put themselves before the real things in life that matters. Until i found your channel and watched you rebuild your life and reconnect with your family, and never blamed anyone but yourself. You have helped more than 1 person, this I am sure of. Bless you and your family.
Congratulations. That’s a big milestone. Family and community support is important. My sister in law struggles with addiction. It’s not my place to tell her story. But her siblings help, support, and love her. Never be afraid to start again.
I quit when I was 37. I'm 68 and still have 2 fully functional brain cells left from then.😂 When I was 45, I got a great job that really changed my life. I'm retired now and having fun fixing stuff for free for friends and family. Thanks for the videos Andy.
Man you never miss on the sit down talks. Wisdom is worth a million bucks but the experiences gaining it can break a man. Tons of respect for who you are and what you do. So keep breaking tractors and making weiner jokes and by all means don't stop sharing that million dollar wisdom. There's a lot of us that need that wealth.
Andy, every single one of your videos is my favorite. The funny ones, the building/fixing ones, and the serious, emotional and sharing ones alike. You put your genuine self into every one of them and despite that this is through video and you have never met or even heard of me I feel a genuine human connection with you. You rock man, I'm a truck driver and don't always get the human connection I need but you really help with that. I love you man, and bless you.
Cheering you on from the cheap seats, keep seeking God and making something better every day!
I truly don’t believe this can be liked enough. TH-cam should have this front page for a year.
Congratulations and God bless you from Northeastern Ontario Canada 🇨🇦
Congratulations. My daughter just made 18 months after she relapsed. She had 3.5 before the relapse. I see how hard it is so stay strong.
I personally am thankful for your struggle and where you are today. God has delivered your testimony to many including me. I identify with your testimony. I love you man.
Hey Andy and congrats. You are a true hero, 5 years is awesome. There is a lot of truth to learn when getting sober and you hit the nail right on the head. Trust God, clean the mess you made, help others and patience. Pray and wait.... Keep inspiring people the way you do. Youre good at it.
Thank you Andy,
My AA sponsor saved my life and introduced me to our lord and savior.
I'm a man that had both tears of joy and sadness running watching this video. Congrats on you milestone. I know the struggles between our ears. Keep the course. BOE
Wow! Good for you ❤
We aren't perfect for sure.
But Stay the course, Andy... Beautiful wife and kids... Nice homestead.
Life when sober, is so Awesome.
Hugs to you, Carlos and the whole family.
God Bless 🙌
Congratulations Andy! My Husband is 25yrs Clean and Sober! God Bless You and Your Sweet Family!! I'm still praying for Carlos!! 🙏🙏💗💗💗
HUGE congratulations man!! Im 2 years clean now myself. I'm a recovering heroin/fentanyl (really anything) addict. If no one else told you today that they're proud of you... I'm proud of you, and i love you brother!!
About 6 years for me brother. Best choice I’ve ever made. Life is completely better without it. Life is Good!!
You are SO qualified to preach. God Bless you Brother. You are an inspiration.
Been sober about the same 💯 feels good man I'd never go back to the hell I was living in
I am close to 9 months sober for the first time in 25 years and I just went through a divorce from the woman I still love. Your story is important to hear a it helps me. Thank you!
“You can’t go back and change how you started but you can start where you are and change the end”-C.S. Lewis
Hell yeah 5 years!!!! Proud of you brother… I know it’s hard at times but you are stronger… I don’t care what anyone says these videos are awesome and I am so damn proud man!!!! Keep it up and you know there’s always people out there if you need someone to talk to
Same here !! 24/7!!!!!
Congratulations,I haven't been there,but helped several friends and family, be well and God bless,
CONGRATULATIONS. Keep a clear head. The years will tic by. Next month will make 18 years for myself. Lots of reflecting to be done and has been done. Love your content and again, Congratulations. Btw, your coming clean video way back, I was teary with you, I felt it.
Im currently in a sober living house after my 4th round of rehab 4 months sober ive been following you for a couple years now and you are an inspiration to me knowing we go through the same things keep up the hard work and congratulations on 5 years
The good Lord has taught you well. You are right. You need to forgive yourself. You are blessed to have a wonderful family. Thank you for sharing your journey! 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for sharing. You got it right Andy, lay it at the cross and "be still" ps 46:10 my favorite verse. You are right, you will never get those times back, but as you said life is long and you are living it now. Your babies were not teens when your demons took over, that's one of the best blessings you have. He puts you where you are supposed to be, when and only when you are supposed to there. You are using your experience to help others get they their demons and to help those around them to help. Good bless you and your wife, as sometimes line myself I needed to wear the skin of my knees too the bone before I woke up and thank God for those that were there to help me pick up my shattered pieces. Keep on keeping on.
I applaud your dedication to keeping yourself sober and caring about your family. My family has many addicts and I have seen the damage that it can do. Thank you for sharing.
Ive got 5 years sober in July of this year me an my wife both the best people in this world have gotten sober we’ve all had hard lives im proud of you brother and here’s to 20 more years man
Man I been sober since Sept 30 , 2023 this has been the hardest time of my life I am broken and struggling and I hate life every minute of everyday, but I am sober and that is the one thing inmy life that I can say I am doing right and it's just by not doing doing anything bad , funny how it took me 39 years to learn that simple thing but to me it just wasn't simple , I love your Chanel it helps me remember what's important thank you for sharing your story , it helped me so please continue being cool as a fan ! And I'll keep hanging in there like a loose tooth !
I’ve watched you from the beginning man. I appreciate your wiener jokes, but appreciate these videos more. I struggle with sobriety every day, it’s tough man. Watching this… already made my day. Thanks for your transparency and your support!!!
Congratulations! That's a significant achievement, and worthy of note. Much respect.
Congratulations neighbor!
5 years is a lot of one day at a times in a row!
My wife is 26+ years clean n sober.
She has that addictive pattern, so EVERYTHING has to be done with boundaries.
She too was a mess and now she’s a raging success!
Experience is a qualifier…
Preach On & Bless’ns to ya, Tedd
Congratulations, Thirty eight years here by the grace of God, " We will not regret the past nor wish to shut the door on it." The Promises
This is probably one of my favorite videos. Years ago, I swapped my "problem" with cooking and music. Ain't gonna get in depth about it but I'll just say, i can relate to how heavy it hits after the fact. Even though you're not that person anymore. But you didn't give up and that's what really matters. ❤
Thank you for sharing Andy! I have a very similar life story, and I too realized certain things weren't right with me. I have always believed in God and his son Jesus. I hit a really good low point and had to "sit some time" and I believe God puts opportunities in our path at the proper moment. While I was detained there was who just happened to click with me and actually had some very meaningful talks, about our faith, well the way he listened to what I had to say and then make sense of it to me and actually took me deeper into the waters, farther than I thought my feet could ever take me. I now have a better understanding of what my faith should be and how free and powerful it can make a person. You're doing good, Stay strong! I'm working in Hancock, Upper Michigan this week and maybe next week. I would be honored to meet you if you're in the area. If not I love ya and God bless ❤
29 years sober here! Best thing to do is get right with God. But cold turkey is how I did it and LOTS of counseling! We both quit and it and quitting smoking was the two best things we ever did! Third thing was a bad decision! Am we should have had more children! If I could go back in time I would have more! ❤ God bless Carlos and your entire family. May He bless you and keep you all your days! ❤
I'm 2 years sober just a few weeks ago. Struggled with supplementing alcohol for weed as well. Just stopped smoking 3 days ago. Feels just as hard. Thank you for sharing your story you have been an inspiration for me for years to pull my shit together and find my way back to the good lord. God bless man.
So proud of you. you are a miracle. I don’t care how you got there as long as you do, I’m coming up to 29 yrs and I have lost a son to addiction,talk about guilt I should have been able to help him. But my grandkids have never seen me drunk and my Intentions are never let them. I like your spirituality. Keep it up and they can’t get you.
This video touched me. I will not forget this for my entire life. I am an addict as well. I have lost time with loved ones over it also. I understand. This video brings me to tears. I only smoke weed now and would like to quit that after 20 years. The real problem was with Xanax for 15 years. I feel now as if I was a zombie all those years.... I barely remember anything. Lost alot. I no longer use any prescription..... Anyways.... Love you brother. Stay strong
Thank you Andy for telling ‘my story.’, I appreciate your honesty, tremendously! August of ‘87 my wife gave me the ultimatum, “me or the booze!” I struggled, the first bit - trying to get sober for her. I dry-drunked’ it for a month or so until honestly surrendered my will to the care of God. Wife left after 5 years, to live an alternative life style. Remarried later joyously. After a three year struggle with cancer she passed. Retired in 2004. Remarried in 2011 to a lady I met where we both worked. Mostly Happy, Joyous and Free in spite of life’s aches & pains. Being sober, by the Grace of God and being daily thankful to Him has given me a great life. Sobriety does not mean the end of problems, but can help us develop the tools to endure the losses, the pains, the betrayals in life…and the bone-headed mistakes I still make.
Keep sharing your story - you never know who might need to hear it.
May the God who sustains us grant you strength and peace, and provide healing to Carlos!
The journey of sobriety for me takes up more real estate in my head than the addiction did. The next day guilt and wondering what I said or what I did or who I may have pissed off is gone and that for me is the reward I keep trying for. A lot of us addicts are very smart industrious people. For me it was a way to forget the idiots I had to deal with in my chosen career field.
6 Years sober and your story almost matches mine. I missed so much. Just being a man and providing isn't enough for your wife and kids. I barley have memories of my children growing up. Now I know the reality of my choices.
I read a great book called "Lotsaholic" where the author is an addict...addicted to substances, working out, being a dad...everything. I'm so happy to hear you've made it 5 years!
Hell yeah brother. 6 yrs sober here. Congrats!
Congratulations andy. Keep it roll'in. Been clean for 27yrs now. Always good to hear positive recovery !😊
Congrats man December made 9 years for me pretty cool
Greetings from Finland, Andy. I have followed you for a while, few years. Some how the warm feeling on your videos took me straight on and in your life. I found another one. I didn't knew about your addiction when I first get to your channel, but for some reason i found similarity there. I have admitted my own addiction already some time ago and am going to treatment at the spring. For the time i have been watching your videos, have been thinking this guy, Andy, i know from somewhere..! Maybe i only knew my self there. All the best to you, Andy, and your family. Have been great to see your homestead growing! Keep on going! Be proud of everyday you, Andy, made so far! 🤟
CONGRATULATIONS ❤ My 4 year date clean was December 20th, from Meth 🙏🙏🙏🙏 it tore my family up 😢 but now, things worked out and we are So much Stronger now as a family, because Of God's Love and Jesus's Grace ✌❤🙏
You are a sincere person (that is rare), I see honesty within you; it is refreshing. Your wit and intelligence keep me coming back. None of us are getting ut of life alive, our children are all that matter. Keep focused on continuing to improve and do hat is right for your kids. Love you, Andy!
Bless you my brother... you've come so far. Please keep traveling! We all love you!
Congratulations on 5 years sobriety. It takes a lot of courage to post something as personal as this to the public. You will be in my prayers and I hope God continues to work in your life. Your post on You Tube have either been entertaining or informative, especially the advice about cooking a good steak and red potatoes at home for your spouse. Sometimes the little things can help bring you and your spouse together during rough times in a relationship. Thank you for that.
Whilst I believe in the flying spaghetti Monster as 'god' I won't and can't hate because I believe something different.
You said the main thing, at the end of the day it's up to 'you' to be the change.
Love hearing your story dude. You're absolutely awesome buddy.
Congratulations on the 5 years sober! Thank you for sharing your story because I agree if it saves 1 person it's worth it.
May God bless you and your family
Congrats on 5 years. I love the homestead videos, but these real life, down to earth videos really hit home. Ive dealt with addiction and depression in the past, well still kinda, but hearing your story, and seeing your growth warms my heart. Sending prayers to you and your family. Much love from Indiana
I was just sitting in mancey waiting on ym customer to meet me and saw you drive thru in the old square body Andy! Congratulations on the 5 years sober, huge milestone!
Congratulations, Andy!
I haven't watched you from the beginning but I really love your channel.
I was an enabler and went to some al-anon meetings and then went through a bunch of classes at my church called Healing a Wounded Person. I had a bunch of crap that happened to me because my stepparent was an alcoholic and she was too drunk to notice things that were happening to me and my dad worked all the time. I have no idea why I said that but I guess cause I can relate from the child's stand point, I guess. Anyway, I really hope this helps more than one person. I had a boyfriend who had a drinking problem and I tried to help him to turn toward our church, he's was the one who introduced me to it, but he wouldn't keep up. I tried a couple more times and he just couldn't let go of the beer. I told him I wasn't going down that path with him because I'd been through too much with the stepparent. We parted ways. My Dad saw him quite a few years later and he looked really bad, I mean reeeally bad. While we had been dating he had gone to the doctors and the doc told him he has Cirrhosis of the liver and he need to stop drinking. That was why I tried so hard to help keep him in the church, they had AA there, to try to help him. That's why I think he looked so bad when my dad saw him. I think he was still drinking.
Anyway, I pray this reaches many who need to hear your message. I know I really loved my boyfriend but I had to let him go cause I was becoming unhealthy myself, not alcohol but just in general.
Good job Andy and I pray for you and your family every day. God bless.😊❤
Congratulations Andy! I and im sure all of us, are very proud of you! 🎉 its not easy getting sober, it can often be harder to stay sober. Good on you brother!
5 years! Just a start. Hang in there Andy. Remember that we cannot do everything ourselves; God will provide.
The power of God in our lives is amazing! Hope Carlos is doing well.
Thank you for sharing such an intimate part of your journey.
I been sober for a little over 3 years,and never looked back.
As always, we love ya.
God Bless ❤
Proud of you Andy! Congratulations on this milestone, stay the course and my best to Carlos!
Thats awesome man! It was 1 year sober for me on January 25. Best thing I ever did for myself was accepting Jesus as my Lord and savior and getting sober. No looking back now. Love ya man, God bless and I will pray for you and your family 🙏
Last thing you were doin was preachin. Its something we all have delt with and know how hard it is to stay clean and sober, especially when your heart has been ripped out of your chest and the sad reality is you did it to yourself. I have been clean and sober since 2002. I had to move out of state because I knew to many people in my home state and always gravitated back to the dope. You just let all of us know that your human, but are able to learn and rise above it. Been there and I was lucky enough my wife waited for me to come to my senses, but as she said she wanted the man she narried not what I had become. Congratulations on your 5 years. It's a hell of an accomplishment for anyone who actually knows. And you have to forgive yourself and the only thing I myself haven't conquered yet, but the good lord willin it comes around, and if not I'll live with it the rest of my life until I see my wife again and hopefully Ill meet her at the pearly gates with other loved one.
The biggest thing you have done is reached a milestone, you will learn everyday and enjoy your family now with open eyes. Keep reaching for support and it will be there. Be there for those boys for the rest of your life and that is what they will remember. Take care of your wife and enjoy your sobriety son.
Congratulations on five years of sobriety! One of my heroes in the halls says "It just keeps getting better and better" and he should know, he's closing in on 45 years. I knew from the first time I saw one of your videos that here was a man who had cultivated a concious contact with a higher power. As I followed along it became more apparent and I have grown to look forward to hearing what you have to offer in the same way I look forward to hearing from kindred spirits in a meeting. May God bless you and keep you sober Andy, in all the ways that that term means.
This week I hit 27 years it's always a work in progress improving yourself and learning things you need to know and God gives us the answer we need not always what we want and as long as he gives us the breath to see the next sunrise he's given us another day to help someone and work on ourselves
going on 3 years feel way better and now i’m doing way better have a career a home money saved have friends a family back loving it congrats andy
Wow man! This IS one of my favorites! I have been going through the same after getting sober (3 years). Feeling and seeing what I missed out on with my wife and kids.
Been watching since the start, and the day you let us in on the secret that we`d been watching your life fall back into place, well that was just the coolest, happiest twist that even Spielberg could never top. God bless you right back Andy.
Thanks for sharing, a wise friend of mine once said "adversity and pain introduces a man to himself" I believe this wholeheartedly and you obviously have lived this too. Congrats on your sobriety and keep on keepin on!!!
I understand everything you have said, I come from a long line of abusers of alcoholics and druggies,buy all rights I shouldn't be walking around. But I'm here an living life.
We are on a spiritual journey in a physical world. These life experiences are lessons. You are blessed to have such a wonderful wife and children. They are also blessed to have this version of you. May the Good Lord bless you and your family. I hope that you wish me twice as much as I wish you 😊
Brother, we all have stories and hurdles. God Bless, and stay strong.
Congratulations on 5 years of sobriety, it is not an easy thing to do, I only wish that I could forgive myself like you have, have a great day and enjoy your family, you deserve it.
I've been following you for several months now, and while I enjoy your other videos, this one is my favorite. You have a story to tell, and you're open and honest about it which is why people will love you...and follow you. Congratulations on your milestone.
Congratulations Andy, it’s an achievement to be proud of, you’ve tamed a demon and moved forward. Im glad that you and Carlos have been able to put yourselves back together and moving forward. I wish you all the best and continued success with your sobriety.
congrats!! the trudging never ends...and its not all bad. I discovered for me, the work is the best part. keep going you're doing awesome!
Congratulations man! Been watching your videos since you were knocking out wilderness in a camper. You have mine and many others’ respect. Keep it up!
Congratulations one day at a time. Stand strong brother you got god and your family couldn't ask for anything better.
Congratulations on your 5 years sober Andy. Thank you for sharing your journey. Keep putting your videos out there cause your a true inspiration. God Bless you and your family. 🙏
Congratulations on 5 yrs Andy! As always, I love you and you still need a skid steer. Buy Carlos an alpaca she'll forgive you!
YOU ARE DOING GREAT My father in law was 40 years years sober and you can do that also. I like your videos.
Congratulations brother. A year and a half for me. Thank you for saying all this. I share your " I drank but I'm an addict not necessarily just an alcoholic". Anyway, it was like this video was out of the blue and it has reminded me to tighten a few things up.
Happy for you. That'd a feat many won't even think about. Ever. Also, you do have a place to preach. You experienced what others might just be starting, or are struggling through it. Your words are going to reach someone. Whether you like it or not. Keep you doing what you do.
Hallelujah!!! Congratulations!!! We're still praying for Carlos' healing!!
So glad you shared this Andy! So proud of you and your rigorous honesty. And forgiving yourself. You are an amazing young man and God has his hand on you. Jeremiah 29:11❤😊🙏
Congratulations on your sobriety! There are so many people you will reach with your message. We lost my former husband to suicide after many years of alcoholism a number of years ago. I wish he could have heard this story. You may be the light that shines for someone else. God bless you and your beautiful family. Life is precious.
You're an inspiration my brother. God loves us all.