8 YEARS OF MINIMALISM: Lessons, Regrets & the Future

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  • @TheMinimalMom
    @TheMinimalMom  ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Thank you Helix for sponsoring! Visit helixsleep.com/minimalmom to get 20% off your Helix Kids Mattress, plus two free pillows! Thank you for watching, I hope you have a great day!!! - Dawn

    • @janetmartin4288
      @janetmartin4288 ปีที่แล้ว

      L0

    • @eviewesner6231
      @eviewesner6231 ปีที่แล้ว

      I remembered in one of your OG videos that he knew because all the bins in your garage were empty 😂

    • @mamachub06
      @mamachub06 ปีที่แล้ว

      Any tips for how to guide an older person in 80s to streamline when they’re in the stage of life of maybe wanting to have lots of things around to retain memories or like the things represent a full life?

    • @GracetoFaith101
      @GracetoFaith101 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi, where did you get your gold earrings?

    • @TheMinimalMom
      @TheMinimalMom  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@GracetoFaith101 Target, but I don’t think they carry them anymore :(

  • @IamSnowbird
    @IamSnowbird ปีที่แล้ว +311

    As I was putting out my spring decor I realized how much I didn't want out. I'm letting a lot of it go and keeping the pieces I really want on display. I was also finally able to let go of a jacket that belonged to my mom who died 14 years ago. Something clicked and I am ready. You have been such a big inspiration. I will never be a minimalist but I am lowering my inventory.

    • @christisjoypinson5599
      @christisjoypinson5599 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      ❤❤❤

    • @-living4jesus4ever-
      @-living4jesus4ever- ปีที่แล้ว +20

      So true! What are the things that has helped me most with decorating is to remember to decorate for the seasons and not the holidays. If I decorate for spring, I don’t have to put away the Easter stuff when April passes. If I decorate for fall, I don’t have to put away Halloween stuff and buy the extra Halloween stuff. 🎉🎉🎉

    • @re_patel
      @re_patel ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Yes, lowering my inventory is a goal I can hope to achieve.

    • @theforeverlovelyjacquelyn5756
      @theforeverlovelyjacquelyn5756 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same. Only a single wreath made the cut for us.

    • @kimgordon3695
      @kimgordon3695 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💞

  • @j.chayo45
    @j.chayo45 ปีที่แล้ว +140

    When I got married 3 years ago, I was so desperate for help. This is both our 2nd marriage he had 3 of everything, and I had 2 of everything, plus we both have kids. I found your channel, and you literally changed my life! Now we only have 1 plate 1 bowl per person, we declutterd 90% of our stuff. Thank you so much!

  • @lucystrider728
    @lucystrider728 ปีที่แล้ว +243

    I wanted to say how much I appreciate that you are so inspiring and informative and clearly have a strong belief system, yet you keep your channel a safe, welcoming, non judgmental place for those of us with perhaps differing views on life, politics, and religion. Thank you for being loving in a divided world, it is very reassuring.

    • @TheMinimalMom
      @TheMinimalMom  ปีที่แล้ว +28

      Thank you Lucy, this means more than you know ❤

    • @SarahAnew
      @SarahAnew ปีที่แล้ว +14

      What a beautiful comment. It’s so true!

    • @kgibbs2805
      @kgibbs2805 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Well said & accurate. I can share Dawn's videos easily because they are helpful, relatable and supportive regardless of who is listening. Dawn you truly are a ray of sunshine.

    • @desertrat5543
      @desertrat5543 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Completely agree with you on this!

  • @laurawade4115
    @laurawade4115 ปีที่แล้ว +81

    I appreciate you! We celebrated 40 years of marriage last year and decided to retire to another town. Because of what I learned from you, the move from our house to an apartment was soooo much simpler 😊. Because I don’t have so much “stuff” to care for, I can enjoy my grandchildren and activities in our new town more. I can focus more on storing up treasure in heaven rather than on earth ❤️

  • @1988simonek
    @1988simonek ปีที่แล้ว +119

    I just got back from an Easter vacation in Italy and I noticed how much I had decluttered in the past months. When entering, I felt like a hotel guest in my own house. It was super easy to put things away and the empty flat surfaces allowed me to put bags on them (temporarily 😅) . Thank you Dawn for this video and for being authentic and not afraid of telling your story!

    • @tgayer1
      @tgayer1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      YES!

    • @juliab628
      @juliab628 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      I can totally relate to that... when we come home from visiting family and I walk into the house it feels like an airbnb already cleaned and tidied... And it's such a dream!❤🎉

    • @nanabananahead
      @nanabananahead ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I noticed my lack of stuff as I was packing for holiday, since we only keep what we use all the time once it went in the suitcases the house was empty, looked like we were moving out 😂

    • @DahliaMom17
      @DahliaMom17 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      What a fantastic feeling! ❤

  • @christisjoypinson5599
    @christisjoypinson5599 ปีที่แล้ว +162

    Hooray!!! 🎉 I am SOOOOO excited for this video!!! I don't know if you ever get weary of talking about minimalism and sharing your story, but I NEVER get tired of hearing it. You are a constant inspiration, Dawn: you and your whole family. Jesus bless you in this upcoming year!!! Ephesians 3:14-21 💖🙏🏽💖

    • @MrsRichieA
      @MrsRichieA ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yes!! I feel the same, I love the videos and feel more and more motivated after every one ❤❤❤ Truly thankful for you, Dawn as I declutter. You’ve totally changed my mindset about stuff and I’m so grateful!

    • @-living4jesus4ever-
      @-living4jesus4ever- ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Amen!!!!! Dawn, I love how you separate how there’s a difference between not loving motherhood and not loving overwhelmed motherhood. There is such a difference!! I wish more young moms could know this and I’m thankful we can all help get the message out. We can absolutely delight in our little ones and enjoy them so much more when all the distractions around us, don’t steal our joy and energy. Praise the Lord!!❤❤❤

    • @tgayer1
      @tgayer1 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Amen!

    • @martyhildebrand221
      @martyhildebrand221 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      You are motivating with your Decluttering style. I’ve been attempting to declutter after being a collector for years. I may never be a Minimalist like yourself. However, I want to have less clutter & less things. I seek to have a more peaceful lifestyle. And a home that is easier to keep clean.

  • @jessicabrown6943
    @jessicabrown6943 ปีที่แล้ว +69

    When someone asks me if I miss the stuff. I say “Quite the opposite, I look back and think ‘WHY did I have all that stuff?’ I didn’t need it.” I spent so much time tidying it all and managing it and being stressed over it. LET IT GO!! It’s so much easier without it. ❤

  • @jordanhann6902
    @jordanhann6902 ปีที่แล้ว +74

    I'm so glad I found you 4 years ago! I had surgery this past week, and it was so easy to prepare my home and allow people to come over and help while I've been recovering and not feel embarrassed.

    • @lisam5744
      @lisam5744 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I had to have a plumber come into my home for an inspection recently. And it involved them looking under my kitchen sink and both bathroom sinks...and not a sniff of me feeling embarrassed because it was junky and full of clutter. Granted they probably would have thought I was nuts if I said something like, 'Look...no clutter', but I was thinking it! LOL

    • @TheMinimalistTherapist
      @TheMinimalistTherapist ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Same. I've had some heath challenges recently and I've been thinking about how much more stressed I would have been to be "out of action" if I'd felt the house would be going south without me constantly on it. We got a cleaning company in a few weeks back to give the whole house a once over and they said it was so lovely to come into a home where they could truly clean rather than having to tidy up loads of crap before they could get to the surfaces.🎉

    • @lyndaslocs
      @lyndaslocs ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Get well soon!

    • @dawnreeners8390
      @dawnreeners8390 ปีที่แล้ว

      I'm having surgery soon, ...so much to get done before....

  • @danelladaniels5399
    @danelladaniels5399 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The more "useless" stuff I let go of, the better my home feels! ❤️🤗

  • @jinglesh1398
    @jinglesh1398 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    You do realize we all love you back?!? I needed to hear that it does get better and easier so THANK YOU Dawn!

  • @mwebb3014
    @mwebb3014 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    The beauty of the intentional decluttering process is coming across things that used to matter but don’t anymore. It brings into focus what I really and truly enjoy looking at, using and maintaining. I was looking at stuff that didn’t matter. I was digging through drawers and closets of stuff that didn’t matter. I am still in the process of downsizing but I now realize what I need, what I enjoy and what no longer serves me physically and emotionally. It is so true that I really don’t need all this stuff!! Thank you Dawn for your kind and gentle prodding to lessen the inventory to broaden our lives. ❣️💗❣️

  • @cltinturkey
    @cltinturkey ปีที่แล้ว +16

    Great points. The one that resonates most with me is all the wasted hours searching through, moving, and sorting to donate all the STUFF that has been consuming my life for the last few years. As I've gotten older, my values are more clear. I don't need the stuff, and I do need more free time for fun and adventures. I want to travel, garden, paint, and play rather than loading and delivering the 797th load of donations. Can't wait until the job is finished! Step by step I'm getting there.

  • @HayHayandSpot
    @HayHayandSpot ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Best line ever - If I have stuff in my house bullying me... I invite it to leave! I LOVE THAT!!!

  • @marilynpalosaari2387
    @marilynpalosaari2387 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    🇨🇦 😊 hi Dawn from your neighbour to the north in Ontario, Canada. I don't comment often but have watched you from the beginning pretty much. .. 5 years anyway. I also follow Tom's channel.
    I just have to applauded the both of you and the special talents, skills & knowledge you are passing on to your kids as well. I love your vision, passion and enthusiasm for life! You are a great motivational speaker and would make an excellent life coach as well.
    I've watched many of your vlogs twice just to keep my own motivation going. I've been chipping away at the process for over 5 years. I say chipping away because I'm maybe 1/4 of the way to the freedom from "stuff" that I want to be.
    I went from a fully furnished 3000 SQ foot house for 25 years to one less than half that size for the last 20 years. I have tossed and donated an ENORMOUS amount of stuff, which sometimes barely seems to make a dent, because you can hide a LOT behind closed closet doors!! 😅
    This last weekend though, I went through one of my 4 double clothes closets (yup I have 4!!).. this was the 3rd pass through it in as many years. This time I could hear your voice urging me on..
    I tried things on (I'm retired now... Don't need all those clothes... My size has changed also) so yes... Your voice:
    ---If it's not a "hell ya!" It's a hard no & out it goes!
    ---Do you want to keep a mental tally of all this inventory? NO... then let it go!
    ---How does this outfit make you feel? Is it saying negative things to you? If so.. out it goes. You can't bully me anymore!
    ---are you keeping it to fit some future version of yourself? (Up pops "Justin Case") 😂 Let it go!
    ---and the things I truly still love or paid good money for, that don't fit my "season of life" (retired/casual)... Some woman will strike gold on a new outfit at the thrift shop... Let her love it & enjoy it!
    This was longer than I intended, but suffice it to say.. my living room, kitchen and bathroom is fully decluttered and always visitor ready and very calming. Each bag & box feels like a load of bricks off my shoulders! THANK YOU DAWN & keep motivating us! 👍😃❤️

  • @jillthurow502
    @jillthurow502 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    I love your honesty and kindness when talking to us. Decluttering is kind of hard in the beginning, overwhelming might be a better term. Once you start, even with a drawer, it’s a start and a win. Thank you for ideas, cheerleading, and just tremendous support ❤️

  • @MyFocusVaries
    @MyFocusVaries ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I've always been medium minimal,.but we went much more hardcore during the pandemic. Having to clean more made me realize how much easier it is to clean with clear counters. And now that we're entertaining more, guests aren't saying, Wow your house is bare. They're saying, Your house is so bright and open!

  • @mianeculcea6789
    @mianeculcea6789 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    My husband says our home looks like a store. Everything so organized and in place, and he loves it. I only could do that after getting rid of things and become a minimalist. I love it too, because it's soo much easier to keep everything clean and organized. Thank you, Dawn!

  • @angg645
    @angg645 ปีที่แล้ว +59

    Thank you Dawn for being such a wonderful cheerleader for us. I appreciate you so much

  • @ashleyhernandez8122
    @ashleyhernandez8122 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I'll spare you the long story but I was recently feeling in a similar situation you were when you started your journey into minimalism. Tired, down on myself for not being able to keep up, feeling like i should be happy why am i not, dealing with an unhappy spouse from all the clutter... the list goes on. I felt defeated like this is just how it is being a mom of two young children and I have to get used to it cuz its not forever. But I want to say THANK YOU for coming into my life and helping me to completely turn things around. I wanted to be clean organized and all the things but I saved/tried to make use of Everything and my house was way too full. I have been decluttering for almost a year now but it wasn't until I started binge watching 😂 your videos a couple months ago that I was able to really make much headway because I had to completely change my mindset about my things, their real worth, the amount of time I was spending taking care of all this stuff and so much more! I look at this stuff in such a different way now I'm shocked. I also look at buying and bringing more things into my home completely differently. This mind shift was the boost I needed to make a real difference in my home and the results have already been so amazing. I still have a ways to go but thank you so much for helping me get here. You came into my life when I truly needed this kind of friend. And as a fellow Minnesotan it's so fun watching someone go to similar places and be dealing with our lovely weather😂 I can't express how grateful I am . Thank you Dawn.

  • @krisamann9060
    @krisamann9060 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Oh Dawn, I am so grateful I have found you and your sister on TH-cam. You have both inspired me in COUNTLESS WAYS!!! I am a 62 year old clutter-keeper. I keep everything for memory sake, because I love it at the moment, because I might need it, … So many reasons. Well last week I decided enough is enough. I have a 2,000 square foot home plus full walk up attic (instead of a basement since I’m in the south) and a packed garage. It’s only my husband and me in the house, but my 3 kids and spouses and 6 grandkids come over all the time. And I have an in home family childcare. So I do need more “things” than the ave 62 yr old, but I have an enormous amount over any needs. It may take me a year, but I’ve already started the donations!
    I know you’ll be encouraging me along the way and I’m grateful!!!! Thank you for sticking with this for 8 years. I know I can do it too!!!

  • @vickitucker9930
    @vickitucker9930 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I love what you said - I don’t allow stuff in my home to bully me. What a great standard. How freeing!

  • @sarahroseinteriorsco
    @sarahroseinteriorsco ปีที่แล้ว +13

    My husband is slowly... understanding how I'm trying to simplify our home. We're redoing my boys' nursery into a boys' bedroom, and removing their cube shelving for books, and getting ledges instead. I heard him asking our boys "Keep or donate" in regards to 5 books last night. It made my day! Thanks for all of your experience and encouragement!

    • @leeclarke227
      @leeclarke227 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I always found that my children would part with toys when they were told that another child would love them. Wonderful life lesson.

  • @juliab628
    @juliab628 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I can relate to the extreme and horrible embarrassment of the house being a mess as a new SAHM. I didn't discover minimalism until your channel in 2017. By then, the kids were grown , with the youngest being 17. Sometimes I look at my life now because our house is like yours and so peaceful … sometimes I look at my life now and think, "would I have been less stressed when the kids were younger if the house had been like it is now? It was my life's dream and only desire to become a parent and be a stay-at-home mom and I feel like I had tons of fun regardless but there was always that nagging feeling regarding the embarrassment of the house and so much clutter all around as we played, made tents, baked cookies, & played board games. Do you think if you could go back when the kids were babies having a house EXACTLY as your house is now you would not be stressed because of the minimal aspect that you've now created around you?" I'm just curious bc you seem SOO happy as a SAHM these days, taking care to involve your kids in just about all that you do😊❤
    And random, just the other night I had this horrible dream where we lived in the house we used to when our life had so much clutter in every space and it was literally a nightmare lol In the dream I was panicking trying to clean up clutter and every drawer and cabinet was full and every flat surface and even things were piled on the floor. I woke up and thought, "Wait, my house doesn't like that anymore because Dawn showed me minimalism!!!" Now, it's a peaceful place and always 15 minutes from tidy🎉❤😊
    Congrats on finding one hobby and sticking to that, purposing to do it well❤❤ And I can totally relate to it was just 80 and now it's 45゚ concept because we're in Southwest Missouri and dealing with that as well.

    • @alynhancock4766
      @alynhancock4766 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I have clutter nightmares sometimes. My subconscious must really not want to deal with tons of clutter!

  • @rhondasterrett664
    @rhondasterrett664 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love your talks. I so need help. My husband fell from a roof and is 75 so since November I am decluttering everything we don't need and have had a wonderful time blessings others with Christmas gifts that had no money and no Christmas.

  • @dianasimplifies
    @dianasimplifies ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I used to have regret over ONE outfit. One! After gettting rid of thousands of items. Just do it!!!! I don’t regret the outfit anymore!

  • @kirstenn.2393
    @kirstenn.2393 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    When I think about all the stuff that already left my house, it feels so good. I got rid of so many things but there is still stuff that has to go. Thank you for helping me with this. I enjoy your channel so much and I appreciate your kind and beautiful personality. It brings so much joy to watch your videos although our lives are so different. Sending lots of love from Germany

  • @mettegrundt8932
    @mettegrundt8932 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    You inspire me to declutter every time you put out a new video 😎 and I can still find things we don’t use even after a year or two 🍀☀️🎉

    • @deeh7105
      @deeh7105 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Exactly! 👍😁

    • @caleeola
      @caleeola ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes ! Me too!

  • @mariannedavis9136
    @mariannedavis9136 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I’ve been watching you for awhile now. I think the best thing you have said is, If it’s not a clear yes, it’s a no. That has helped me the most with decluttering. It has helped me with shopping for things. Also it helps for planning travel, if a trip is worthwhile for the cost. Thanks Dawn! I appreciate you and your advice.

  • @annecelliers9112
    @annecelliers9112 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    We live in a malaria area in Mozambique. We grow lemon grass, but I don't know if it actually works. We don't seem to have a lot of Mosquitoes, so perhaps it's helping. My husband trimmed them the other day, and the smell through the house was lovely. 😊

  • @savannahroserecipes
    @savannahroserecipes ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I live in west central Minnesota and I can second the weather complaints, I am very grateful how quickly the snow has melted but Minnesota sure does have crazy weather!

  • @DFBurgermeister
    @DFBurgermeister ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really have to thank you. I originally thought I just needed to organize my stuff, but I didn’t understand the value of decluttering until I came across your TH-cam channel. I got rid of about 75% of my stuff - duplicates, don’t use, don’t need anymore - and can’t be happier. I have space to put things away and tidying up is so much faster and easier. I continue to declutter on a regular basis.

  • @pattyclements5149
    @pattyclements5149 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    This video really spoke to me when you made a comment about things in the house bullying you. My mother died 10 years this June and I took 2 plants home from the funeral. This last few months have just been crazy and I let them die. I felt so guilty about letting them die that I just left them there glaring at me and reminding me that I was failure. A few days ago I got fed up with myself and I went in there and removed the dead from the pots. They died. I moved them into a room we hardly go into and so it was out of sight, out of mind. I feel so much better now when I look at the inviting pots that can now hold some other beautiful flowers. Thank you!

  • @sunnygem21
    @sunnygem21 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    We've had comments how tidy our house is even with two little girls under three. I feel there's still so much I'd like to declutter, but it's so nice to feel the benefits already and other people have noticed too. Dawn, you're the best!

  • @lankakaaos
    @lankakaaos ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Your videos have been so good to keep me on my decluttering journey. My goal is not to be minimalist. My goal is to have only things I’m willing to maintain. Istill have too much, but bit by bit there is more room and less stuff.
    This kind of videos really helps.
    So thank you very much for support during last year.

  • @jonipresson
    @jonipresson ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love the idea of just having one or two hobbies to focus on in this very busy stage of my life!!! Its okay to let the others (and there is many others) go and focus on my two favorites, keep the house in line, and still have time be a good mom! ❤

  • @kaleydc
    @kaleydc ปีที่แล้ว +10

    So much of this resonates with our families experience with minimalism.
    One funny, my 6-year-old often comes home and tells me how messy other people's houses are 😆 we've been chat about how it's okay if other people choose to have a lot of things

  • @ricksullivan5207
    @ricksullivan5207 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I'm new to decluttering, but I'm making progress. We've donated two carloads of stuff with lots more to go! I'm a licensed childcare provider, which automatically makes me a hoarder, with toys, books, puzzles and equipment for all ages! (and all the stuff normal people throw away: toilet paper rolls, baby food jars, coffee cans.) And paperwork: lesson plans, records, ideas for activities. I am organized but still have SO much inventory! I'm becoming more critical about which things to maintain, though. Thanks for your videos! It helps to see a family with children dealing with this.

  • @chrisperrucci76
    @chrisperrucci76 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    🏡Dawn, I found you when I was looking for wholesome family values, and stayed with you for the decluttering and minimalism, which fit together so well as you always show. I'm still working at it. The difference you, your values, your sweet family, your mom and lovely, crazy sister Diana - and your skill in putting all these into your videos - have made in my life and my son's is immeasurable.
    Thank you.💚

  • @alishajennings2013
    @alishajennings2013 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I also started decluttering around 8 years ago. I had 3 children at the time, a 3 year old, 1 year old, and a special needs newborn. I started with just my personal items, then household items like kitchen stuff. I found your channel 3 or 5 years ago. I'm not exactly sure. But the first video I watched was about decluttering kids clothes, then I moved on to the videos of you decluttering the kids toys on that landing that is now the boys room. That was I started getting rid of kids stuff. Now I'm just in the maintenance phase but I still really enjoy your videos. When I get in the mood to declutter I can go through the entire house all at once but I remember the time when my closet alone took all day long and made a huge mess of my bedroom. Hopefully that can be motivating to someone just starting and feeling overwhelmed. It does get easier🙂

  • @tashahelton1823
    @tashahelton1823 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    There is moms out there like me that dont have friends which is ok but I truly can't thank you enough Thank you for letting know I'm not alone and you always know the right things to say that really sticks with me Your truly a God sent to me I've always been hard on myself And your wise words help me more than you know God bless you and your beautiful whole family 💌

  • @thepartysjustbegun5557
    @thepartysjustbegun5557 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Dawn, you are the leader of a movement, you are very far ahead dear lady 🥰 you changed my life for real and I give you credit every time someone notices how much better organised I've become. And I help others who want it using your ways, you're helping so many people 💖

  • @Sarah_Kilmer
    @Sarah_Kilmer ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Dawn, thank you for all of the advice! I just took Easter down & went from 4 totes to less than 1! I have been going through our house & decluttering like crazy & it feels so good. I don’t think about how much I spent on it, what my intentions were, or if it was a gift, if it’s not being used it’s going away. My theory is, have what you need & love what you have. Thank you for your advice & encouragement, you are a blessing to all of us! 😊

  • @sandragerhardt2309
    @sandragerhardt2309 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you Dawn. My child in now almost 30 and I'm a Nana now. We retired during the pandemic and we are now downsizing from 4 bedrooms and large family area to 2 bedrooms and a small study with one living space. We are in Queensland, Australia. While you have the Mum stories which didn't necessarily relate to, I found the "keeping for later" and being "behind" suited me so well. You have made it so much easier for both of us to declutter hugely for our downsizing journey. You are always so cheery and like a breath of fresh air. I would love to see content of you helping retired people or those downsizing.

  • @conniesoares157
    @conniesoares157 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I am so glad I found you and started my minimalistic journey back in June 2019.
    My house is so much easier to keep clean because I am a messy person too if I have too much stuff!

  • @barbaragaj6314
    @barbaragaj6314 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I don't regret the stuff, because I even don't know what it was. I am so happy when it takes me only few minutes to make my living room tidy. Thank you, you inspire me to go on with this work 😊

  • @sobie182
    @sobie182 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I think I’ve watched just about all of your videos and this might honestly be my favorite one you’ve ever done! Just simple, straight forward, and honest

  • @trishaturk6888
    @trishaturk6888 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    this video hit different un the best way. love the idea of inviting things to leave my home that are not saying nice things to me!

  • @kimwick1186
    @kimwick1186 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So grateful for you, Dawn and your tips. Between you and Cas from the Clutterbug, I have been able to get rid of so much in the last two years and still getting rid of things and slowly getting an organized and clutter free home I’ve wanted for years.

    • @AJ-nw5sn
      @AJ-nw5sn ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. Without Dawn and Clutterbug I would be lost. Thank you

  • @Sabrina-gi9zw
    @Sabrina-gi9zw ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Currently I am decluttering the whole house. For years i've been the messy one, the one that could never Receive surprise visits without feeling deeply embarrassed afterwards because my house is so messy.
    And even though I'm not done and "there" yet, I can already tell how true it is what Dawn talks about, how much easier my House is to handle and how well it works. I'm excited for a new chapter. Thank you Dawn ❤ (and Cass and Diana 😅❤)

  • @livroaberto
    @livroaberto ปีที่แล้ว +18

    I found you when I had already started my journey to a more minimalist life, but you have helped me tremendously on this journey. I still have a hard time not thinking of all the things I'd like to do and I'm not being able to fit into my routine. I really like when you talk about the "season of life" we are in and adapting to it. Thank you for continuing to inspire so many people.😊

  • @sl9906
    @sl9906 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Amen and a million thanks for your wisdom, experience, and love. This video really choked me up as I have not only decluttered my things, but the toxic relationships and shame and other life junk I’ve carried with me for too long. I owe so much of “letting go” to you, because step by step you’ve given practical steps, encouragement, validation, and love to move baby step by step, by giant leap forward. As each thing got easier to let go, there was freedom and joy, which made letting go of the “tough stuff” easier. Now, although there are life circumstances that are difficult, I have the freedom and strength to let my faith have more room to move in my soul. My stuff and all that toxicity is no longer taking up my mind. Blessings and grateful thanks to you. 🙏🏻🙌🏻👑

  • @happybuela
    @happybuela ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I wish I could give this a triple thumbs up! Thank you so much for sharing your journey, what you’ve learned, your mistakes as well as your triumphs. You have changed my life! ❤

    • @justanothersmith6012
      @justanothersmith6012 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I get very frustrated when I can’t hit like more than once 😂 I agree with you. They need a 0-5 star rating on every video, IMO ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

    • @happybuela
      @happybuela ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@justanothersmith6012 Lol, if it’s a 1-5 range, like you I would hit that 5 star! 😊

  • @amerriefaerie
    @amerriefaerie ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dawn, every video you make seems like you made it just for me! How do you know EXACTLY how I am feeling during this decluttering/ minimizing journey. I really, really appreciate the time, effort, complete kindness and encouragement you include in all your videos. From the bottom of my heart, a truly heartfelt thank you ❤

  • @catchingthewind1
    @catchingthewind1 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dawn!! This is an excellent video!!! This is the best advertisement for minamalism and it is beautiful!! I love that decluttering means being able to just enjoy life. So good. So inspiring. I found your videos in Jan 2020 amidst my chronic illness and I can honestly say decluttering has made keeping on top of the house/cleaning soooo much easier and frees me and my husband up to deal with more pressing matters. Thanks for all you share-it really is life changing!

  • @Sunny_B4
    @Sunny_B4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m still working on it, but I am so grateful to have found you Dawn. This lifestyle is an on-going process so never stop making your videos. We need you! ❤

  • @corinareynolds7504
    @corinareynolds7504 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I just want to thank you with all of my heart! I have been decluttering since October of 2022 after watching one of your videos, and it has changed my life. I can't even explain the sense of calm I have now in my life. I feel as though I have time for all the things worthy. You have given me my life back. ❤

  • @tammyblankenship6786
    @tammyblankenship6786 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Thanks for always being an encouragement to me. I even decluttered some of my husband 's clothes and we gave them to a man at our church this past Sunday.

  • @melindastanners
    @melindastanners ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What you said about being more confident and asserting your standards against insulting objects makes so much sense, and I love what you said about being kinder to yourself. I had a lightbulb moment from one of your previous videos that I struggled to let go of things because I feel condemned about buying them in the first place, but your reframing the value of the object from being about money to being about the experience was absolutely liberating. I really appreciate the way that you speak to the heart of why we hang on to things, and your compassion for self and others.

  • @mp5132
    @mp5132 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Iv been decluttering since Oct 22 when I discovered your you tube. In one of your videos, You were right the further I go, the more I wanted to get rid of. It really has been such a weight lifted.

  • @teresabell1014
    @teresabell1014 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Liked what you said about relatives wanting to stay overnight. How quick and easy it was to say yes.
    Because your home was not so over crowded you hide stuff and stash it somewhere.
    I love minimalism...it makes you free !

  • @darlahkelley9800
    @darlahkelley9800 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    We're Grateful 🙏 for Dawn & Diana Love ❤️ You Two ❤️ 💖 💕 💗 ♥️ 💓

  • @brittanys.7191
    @brittanys.7191 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Your videos are my top five most enjoyed of the week. Your conversations have changed my spending habits! Living an intentional life is now priority over finding the next “deal.” Thank you for all you do❤

  • @annettevanderklippe1653
    @annettevanderklippe1653 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    There are many plants that mosquitoes don't like, not just lemongrass. I would plant a bunch of different ones since they have other benefits too such as food for bees and the ability to attract helpful bugs to your garden. Every garden should have LOTS of flowers. Bee balm, tansy, peppermint, many others!

  • @christinae30
    @christinae30 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think that, as you have carpets and curtains (and a few decorative things), that they make the home cosy. Makes a big difference compared to other minimalists' homes.

  • @mariamacdonald1007
    @mariamacdonald1007 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Your videos are so inspiring and motivating. It reinforces to me that I am on the right track especially when the world tries to tell us differently.😅

  • @jylmilner8612
    @jylmilner8612 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Lemongrass vs. mosquitoes - according to my neighbor who lives in Alberta, Canada, during the summer, YES lemongrass repels mosquitoes. Also peppermint, Skin So Soft from Avon, and Vick's vaporub work well. Thanks for all you do, Dawn! You've made a difference in the lives of my family and me. You not only set a good example, but you walk the walk. High score for personal and public integrity!!!

  • @HerCupOfSIMPLE
    @HerCupOfSIMPLE ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Hi Dawn! The best thing that happened to me since I've learnt to let go of the excess was stop needing my wants and just appreciate and value my pockets of time during my day....🥰🙌

  • @racheldisalvatore
    @racheldisalvatore ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow! That’s great :) I have so many of those items that speak to me that I’m behind in my GARAGE….. I feel like with four kids, the stuff just keeps piling up now matter how much I am on top of it. I started donating again and that feels good.
    One day at a time :)
    This message was exactly what I needed, thank you! ❤

  • @sariinthestudio
    @sariinthestudio ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Listening to you while I pack up and move. So much has been decluttered the past few months thanks to your videos. I love when you drop a new one on Tuesdays! Thank you --- your words are so motivating.

  • @estanding2430
    @estanding2430 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So grateful for your minimalist journey because it has helped me on mine! You are such a blessing to so many!

  • @jackimanley3056
    @jackimanley3056 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I so appreciate your perspective. You have helped so many people feel better in their homes. I feel like I'm thriving now not just barely surviving!

  • @sherryyost786
    @sherryyost786 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You are always to encouraging and reassuring. Thank you for being "my coach".

  • @ckee8437
    @ckee8437 ปีที่แล้ว

    I was thrilled to discover that half the drawers under my bed are empty, I have kitchen shelves with nothing in them so I moved my trash bags etc from under the kitchen sink and now I have space for recycling under my sink with the trash can!
    I hate having 4 pillows on my little couch but couldn't decide which pattern I want to keep so I tossed one set into my under bed drawer to test out before I toss them to donate. 😊

  • @heatherrenee729
    @heatherrenee729 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Girl, I get it! The Midwest has been something else lately! Mother Nature seems cranky with 84* on Saturday, and we woke up to snow and 32* this morning! Thank you for your commitment to all of us as we learn to declutter and find freedom!

  • @dianeyoung8068
    @dianeyoung8068 ปีที่แล้ว

    Great examples of how minimalism makes life easier. Less inventory is the way to go.

  • @heatherj3030
    @heatherj3030 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I worked through decluttering a huge pile of paperwork while listening to to you, and I definitely wouldn't have gotten it done on my own. Thanks for the motivation Dawn!❤

  • @carolynridlon3988
    @carolynridlon3988 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I've been watching your videos since 2020 lockdown & it has helped me sooo much. I started decluttering my belongings then helped my hubby later - and at the time we were still living in our motorhome (full time RV retirement - 1st half). But not just the stuff, but I began to realize that I was happier & less stressed out. After visiting my mom just before lockdown, I knew that I was super stressed because her house is a horder haven! 😢
    Since then I've come to realize that I still like my house with some personal memorabilia from our travels but keeping our place simple but cozy. We have since last June made our 2nd half of retirement in a small house on 1/2 acre just outside of Paducah KY (never knew that this would be our new home, but we love it) ❤ The fact that we have just the furniture we need & simplified our belongs, it's so easy to keep up and manage our new home. Thank you for your videos & that I also found other fellow minimalist/ cozy living TH-camrs that help me out! 🎉😂🎉

  • @kcotjo
    @kcotjo ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Dawn you are such a huge inspiration to me. I tell everyone I know about you and suggest they follow you on youtube. Since following you I continue to rid my home of items that I don't use or need. It is such a freeing feeling. Thank you for your continued suggestions and knowledge!! You are a joy!!

  • @heatheradamson2280
    @heatheradamson2280 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thank YOU Dawn for this wonderful channel. Every video you post inspires me to continue decluttering and it has changed my life.

  • @NovasYouTubeName
    @NovasYouTubeName ปีที่แล้ว

    Hearing you be kind to yourself helps me be kind to myself. Thank you❤

  • @randomharts
    @randomharts ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My ground is completely frozen outside (15F last night) and I’m about 3 weeks behind normal with garden clean up and planting…and then to add even more to my plate, our main water line from the city burst and flooded our basement storage area. We were without water for 2 days until the line could be temporarily fixed. Now we have a giant mess to clean up!! It’s been a rough winter and with very little signs of spring this year, these things take a toll on a person’s mental health! It helps to know we are NOT alone! Thanks for sharing your stories❤️

  • @pinky62
    @pinky62 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you! I cried when you said "You are worth so much more than your stuff! I agree that all our crap weighs us down. It stops us from actually enjoying our time even when we are doing something good. I can't go into a yarn shop without buying even though I have so much yarn that I could open a yarn shop! I've been so busy moving my stuff and organizing that I can't get to knitting much. This past week my husband and I went camping. He thought I didn't like it. I said the preparing for it overwhelmed me. We have too much unorganized stuff and it takes a whole day to sort through it all just for a 4 day trip. This fall we are going to par it down so we can grab and go ! Anyway, from one Minnesotan to another, thank you!

  • @soulbound1762
    @soulbound1762 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    You have truly changed the course of my life. Thank you for you.

  • @dok597
    @dok597 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I want to congratulate you for not only decluttering your house but for decluttering your mind 💚 it’s a pleasure seeing your spirit shine through🫶

  • @tamiurquizo746
    @tamiurquizo746 ปีที่แล้ว

    We live in Arkansas. You've changed my life with minilism. So blessed to find your channel.

  • @kelliconlan8133
    @kelliconlan8133 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    After seeing some of your clips of older videos I wanted to tell you I really like your dark hair color over blonde hair. It much more flattering on you and goes better with your skin color. Much more of a natural look.

  • @tnt8106
    @tnt8106 ปีที่แล้ว

    I moved 2 years ago and decluttered alot. I will be moving again and I plan on going alot more minimal! I can't wait to feel that freedom of having things gone
    I am a North Dakota resident and the weather has been brutal this year! We are all so tired of snow and wind!

  • @gjgunning4769
    @gjgunning4769 ปีที่แล้ว

    Yes lemon grass does repel mosquitoes, but we put it in hanging planters at the entrances of our home and garage as well as citronella plants because both are toxic to dogs and we have three. So if you’re going to plant it in an area, where your dogs or other animals that you’re fond just remember it will be toxic to them. Our solution was the hanging planters with other flowers. It is one of many plants that repel mosquitoes, but hanging baskets with citronella work best. If you have deer flies and horseflies, it works pretty good on those as well.

  • @calideb4437
    @calideb4437 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you too Dawn. You help me believe what's possible in my home. ♡

  • @margiekline1948
    @margiekline1948 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for the encouragement to keep moving through it

  • @IntheLight-dv9yc
    @IntheLight-dv9yc ปีที่แล้ว

    We recently discovered you and your minimalist ways! We immediately got started and have already gotten rid of things we've been holding onto for over 6 years!!
    I am going to document our journey using your methods from start to finish!
    We even designated the month of September to kids toys and clothing, and even got our co-op mom's on board so we can declutter together, recycle items we may or may not need and then donate the rest to a Mexico Ministry.
    You have been incredibly inspiring! Thank God for you.

  • @donnapullman1069
    @donnapullman1069 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you Dawn ! I listen to these over and over I always need reminders and inspiration and ideas🙏🏼💗💗💗

  • @lildebleigh84
    @lildebleigh84 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you! Needed this today! You are AMAZING!

  • @shirleyrankin-zf6nv
    @shirleyrankin-zf6nv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dawn do you know you just resonate pure joy and it makes me happy to spend time with you

  • @catrinholmes7026
    @catrinholmes7026 ปีที่แล้ว

    The best piece of advice you have given to me was "if you aren't using it in this season of you life, let it go". And I have 👍😁

  • @juliekonigskind6434
    @juliekonigskind6434 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you so much for the encouragement!!!! I am so motivated to keep going 💜
    I love you Dawn!

  • @rajeshwarihemmadi3229
    @rajeshwarihemmadi3229 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Ur questions for decluttering r real great…. U with Cas, Dawn have been such blessings.. this is so timely as I got my house altleast 60% Decluttered to get repairs done.. & need to restart decluttering till a easily maintainable home

  • @susankultys7745
    @susankultys7745 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dawn you are fantastic! Congratulations that because of all of all of your hard work, the basement cleanup was do-able. I have done a lot of decluttering and now have bandwidth to help my brother declutter his closet, help my mother with her many boxes of pictures and I helped my husband with the garage on Monday. I continue to declutter and you are such an inspiration to keep me going. A million thank yous! I love Tuesdays❤️God Bless you

  • @AmythefirstA
    @AmythefirstA ปีที่แล้ว

    I have gotten very stalled-out on decluttering lately, but this video inspired me to keep trying. With spring coming, I have realized how much I love being outside with the kids, but if we spend hours outside, then the house is still a disaster. I want to simplify it enough that it takes only minutes a day instead of hours.