Living in Norway as a 37 year old single woman.
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 พ.ค. 2024
- In this video I talk about my life as a 37 year old woman living in Norway.
In the linked video I share about a big struggle that I am facing:
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Life in Norway can be fun but it can also be challenging. Learning Norwegian has been a weakness for me, so I am talking about this and other struggles that I deal with at this moment in my life.
On this channel I also like to make motivational videos, self-improvement, self-discipline, I try to eat healthy and meditate, etc:
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Hey Cristina, you are on the right track. Just keep going. I took the same turns as you do now and it turned out great. Don‘t think twice.
Thank you, so king of you to take the time to leave such lovely encouragement, it helps a lot!
It is very sad that you live in a country with such a good safety net and not have children.
@@tbrown4080 It’s ok if you feel sad, sadness is a part of life.
May Allaah guide and bless you. Respect n regard 4u.
@@huzaifahali412 Thank you 🙏🏻 Good wishes to you!
Yay! Great video Cristina - how beautiful Norway is in the winter, but diving into the Frozen Fjord is well....insane! Nice job - your videos are getting better and better every time I watch
Thank you, very much, it means a lot coming from you! I do plan, script, shoot and edit for weeks. I hope I will get faster in time so that I can upload more consistently.
@@CristinaFilms I get it! It’s a lot of work. But just want you to know that it’s really showing how much effort you’re putting into it.
@@jostalking Thank you! I still am not comfortable enough to talk to the camera without editing😂, but that time will come.
New sub here and currently binging your videos. The last half of your video spoke to my heart. We will no longer be compromising ourselves or making ourselves smaller for people who don’t deserve us. The loneliest I’ve ever felt has been with the wrong person. I admire your courage, wisdom and adventurous spirit. I’m looking forward to seeing what’s to come for you!
I am happy to find another kindred soul! One of the reasons why I make videos about that is because I can also connect with a community of people who relate, understand and I am not alone in my suffering, thank you for your comment, and I be making many more videos discussing these issues, because it helps me and I hope it will help others.
You should come visit Toronto.
@@MariusT107 Maybe someday !
@@CristinaFilms where do you live?is it in Oslo or somewhere else now?
@@keepcreationprocess it depends.
It’s fun to learn about Nordic/Scandinavian lifestyle, thanks for the video! 🇳🇴❤
Glad you enjoyed it!
You are very inspirational for living your authentic lifestyle. You articulate very well the challenges with living within Norwegian society, as well as the many privileges of living in Oslo, which I think is one of the world's most beautiful cities (having visited just once on a a short trip). Glad that you are taking the time and effort to develop your intellectual, career, and spiritual growth.
Thank you, John, for such a supportive comment, so nice of you that you took the time to leave such kind words. Yeah, Oslo is a pretty city. Sending good luck and my best wishes to you!
Love this video!❤
Thank you, very much, Nuri!
As a single 39 y.o. Asian guy, I totally feel you, Cristina! I really hate that kind of corporate entitlement and hectic life. I don't make too much of money nowadays (yet), but that's okay, I still make a living and will have another golden days with my new business. I hope you find your solution! Btw, there's so many fresh water in Norway ya!
Thank you for your comment, I am sure you will make it, we are still hustling, still growing. The cases where people get successful in their 20s are very rare, those are the exceptions. Success takes time, commitment, pain, persistence. If it were easy everyone would do it.
This is so refreshing to listen to . Your message came at the right time . I live on a yacht with my dog . changing for someone is tricky to say least . You are an intelligent woman that is living her truth and obviously have core values. I had to walk away from someone because she is a alcoholic. it’s heartbreaking because they create chaos in one’s life .I love pars of europe but the pacific resonates with me .
Thank you 😊 for the encouraging message, I am glad to hear that what I expressed had a positive impact. It looks like you had to make a very hard decision. Sometimes the right decision is the hardest. Btw, your life is awesome, sailing away with your dog, what an adventure! Wow!
Omg! I just bumped into you video and I love it. I’m 32 year woman living in Norway too. I was actually living in Oslo(I love it there😍) but had to move because this economy is just something else😢. I moved from Oslo so I could try to save up for the the lifestyle I imagine for myself so, have I managed to save up? Nope! Anyways, I really love your video. And I also subscribed to your channel ❤
My girl, thank you! I relate, life is expensive here! But where there’s a will there’s a way. If it were easy everyone will do it, it takes many years to savings and success. You got this, we got this!
As a norwegian who has travelled around a bit, I find Norway the most plentiful country to travel in. It offers everything at a good price. If you travel up in the mountains and suddenly find a shop selling food and supplies, accept that running that place is rather expensive and they just can't offer you bargain prices like in the cities. Also, remember that love is nothing you go looking for, it's something you discover often when least expected. Just being yourself, its often the best strategy.
I agree! Thank you for sharing your thoughts!
I lived and worked in Norway in 1983. The very best and most memorable period of my life. I will take those memories with me forever. 😍
Thank you for sharing, that is so nice to hear!
Yum! Norway. So much good fish! Loved your video! If you’re looking for something to pause and think about life, many people in sailing boats on world trips are always looking for crew. Good chance to see and think…
Oooo, sailing boats around the world you say…tempting…. A good idea that maybe some day I will consider. Thank you for your kind words.
Great video, totally relatable topic 🙏
Thank you! Glad you think so!
Your philosophy is true, I live as you. Peace and freedom is the most important thing for me than everything.
Living alone gives peace and freedom.
Thanks for videos.
Amen! You speak wisdom!
Warning, long comment …
Whenever you’re down, close your eyes and picture the Cristina that never tried, never dared to make a dream come true. How does she feel?
I do that at times; It’s made me put one foot in front of the other and make changes right for me at the time. I then can turn so many parts of my life’s vision to reality. eg. I travelled to Norway last year, alone, as an ex-council estate kid, some would say ‘chavy’ black girl from east London why? because I was curious and simply felt like it. I’ve had bold career changes with no guarantee they would work out (it did), I’ve binned unsatisfying relationships even when other people thought I should be ‘grateful’.
I’ve never watched your channel but happy to have stumbled across a bold, courageous, game changer who isn’t afraid to be honest in the moment. Sometimes you may be unknowingly influencing others around you to be more courageous in their own lives.
I wish you the best however you choose to live yours.
Thank you so much for taking time to leave such nice words and your advice is wise and very motivating, I could learn from that. I really appreciate you taking the time, it made my day! I think you are a wonderful person, in addition to wise, and smart, and a game changer also.
hello from your neighbor in 🇸🇪 Summer is coming very soon 🌄 Hope you get a super nice spring this year 💖
Soon, we are almost there, Peter! yesterday it snowed the whole day…. Soon…
@@CristinaFilms same here 🥶 but very soon 😎☀️🌻
@@peterpekka24 Counting the days!
Great video! I love the background music. And doggo so cute and annoying🤣🤣🤣
Hahahahaha!
So cute!
Good video, I hope you continue to grow
Best of luck! Thank you for your encouragement!
I love your content and I also love your personality❤
Thank you , I appreciate you leaving a comment!
lol simp!
Hi, this is the first video of yours I watched and I didn't know you were from Romania until I read it in the comments; because of the way you speak English I thought you were Spanish, and in another video you mention that you left Madrid, maybe you lived in Spain for a long time and it shows in your accent... You seem a really nice person, I wish you all the best from the south of Spain. :)
Aww, thank you so much! I am Romanian, lived for many many years in Madrid. The south of Spain is beautiful, and the people and the food , the culture. I wish you good luck, too!
@@CristinaFilmsi knew it before i read it 😊
@@user-pr1co4fw2x 😉
G'day from Sydney Australia 👋 🕊. Loving your own company means you don't need someone but if it happens you want to be with them not need. Wishing you health & happiness 😊
Thank you very much and good day to you, too, from cold Oslo. Sending good wishes back at you!
You're courageous and lighthearted.
May Allaah the Almighty grant you the best things in life.
🙏🏻 Thank you 😊
Christinaaa, Good morning from Chania-Crete-Greece!!!
You talk right!!! Keep going!!!
I meet many Norwegian people every day!!! I am weeding Dj and some days I play music to local hotels here in Chania!!!
Thaaaaank youuu! Yeah, Norwegians love the beach! The fly out any chance they get!
@CristinaFilms if you ever come to Chania, come to my karaoke party nights 🌙 to sing!!!
Nice to meet you!!!
@@yannosdjlive Thank you for the invite, it sounds like a lot of fun! Who knows, the world is small! Nice to meet you , too!
Good for you ❤
Enjoy your life and your future will bring you the right man. When you are true to yourself. ❤
Thank you for such kind encouragement! Will take your advice!
Cristina there is absolutely nothing wrong with you, never has been, what you do is simple, follow your inner voice / feeling. You are a born indigo child
( woman)
you are away to experience this entire process and learn from it, but above all enjoy it.
you are beautiful who you are and don't let people tell you otherwise there don't understand and don't want to understand. you are a free soul keep it that way
Enjoy your trip 😘❤
Sometimes our lives have to be
completely shaken up, changed,
& rearranged to relocate us to the
place we're meant to be.🌞🌴
And remember our deepest fear is not that we are inadequate
. Our deepest fear is that we are powerful beyond measure. It is our light, not our darkness, that most frightens us. We ask ourselves, Who am I to be brilliant, gorgeous, talented, fabulous? Actually, who are you not to be?
Wow, Chris, I am touched by your encouraging and kind comment, thank you for taking the time to support and spread kindness and positivity! I send you good wishes!
I just came across this video randomly, but it strikes me that the only way you are going to have the perfect boss is if you work for yourself. Personally, I find your approach to life a little unrealistic, but that's your choice and it's for you to make it work. Good luck.
I agree with everything you say. However thinking realistically has not served me well, maybe it’s time to ask more from life. Thank you and good wishes!
Just added Hunger to my Hamsun book collection to go along with favorites Pan and Growth of the Soil.
Good for you! Hope you enjoy it!
Loved the video! You'll learn norwegian in no time :)
Thank you, monk mode starting soon!
You go girl !
Thanks, girl!
I can feel your struggle, because I found myself many times in your situation. And I can confirm cold water swimming is the best "trip" one can have - getting high without health or legal dangers :D. Hiking and biking also helps, if the water is not cold enough :).
I think you're on the best path possible, realising your real worth and acting towards real inner fulfilment. Maybe it will be tough sometimes, but the rewards will be worth it.
For comparison, I also opted to rather be single after a failed 24 years marriage, and I work a tough but rewarding freelance job, both financial and self esteem wise. I had the same issues with procrastination, but lately I overpassed most of them.
The most interesting fact is that in my darkest moments I found the most valuable help from totally unknown people all over the internet. Some person from the other side of the world can give the best advice and support, knowing there is no chance to ever meet you in this life.
Good luck, you open minded beautiful girl, and keep your faith in yourself, because good days will eventually come. And many greetings from Romania :).
Wow, thank you so much for such kind words. You have been through hard things, I hope that good things will come your way. You should be proud for beating procrastination, is one of the hardest things for our species. Inspiring to hear it can be done. That’s why I started my TH-cam channel, because I connected online with stories of inspiration from people I didn’t even know helped me so much, while the people in my life made it hard for me.
And thank you for sharing your story with me ! 🫶🏻
There is nothing like being a perfectionist . Idealists moan a lot . I am one. . Procrastination is common . Norway is better than the UK. as immigrants will tell you ! Best wishes Cristina ❤
Thank you for your comment, yeah it is like this. Sending best wishes back at you!
Thank u for nice video ❤👍🏻👍🏻 . I wonder if u myb could do youtube info extra abt hvng family/raising kids in norway . Thank u again ❤
😊 Thank you, I wonder that myself sometimes, but I am thinking that many women do manage, it’s probably harder in the beginning, but in time the ball rolls faster. The secret I have come to know is to become good and natural in front of the camera. So even though nothing gets published, practice filming oneself. Making videos can be time consuming, but if you become really natural in front of the camera, you save time in planning , in filming and in editing. Ps: I am not good yet, I do a lot of work behind the camera, I get anxious every time, but somehow I also love it.
From one procrastinator to another... just start, no really, just start, I found that forcing myself to start helps a lot. One you've started, you've already started, so there is no point in stopping after you have started!
Right? So true, thank you for reminding me, that start-push always helps and it sets in time the habit. By the way, it has come to my attention that you are Taro’s (the shiba in the video) grampa! Small world!
Norway is the most beautiful country ever!!! Love it and will go back anytime!!❤
Thank you for the comment, it really is!
Suggest trying something like an Ottlite if you get S.A.D. It’s also recommended to get some morning sun on the skin, as much as possible. Finding your purpose in life can also help with motivation. I can’t say exposure to the computer and tablet LED light is helpful in the dim light. The long wave blue spectrum light can be harmful to to the optic nerve at the back of our eyeballs. Be careful with your self dialogue. Even the subconscious and symbolic meanings of words (and numbers) can have positive and negative affects. Self awareness and reflection helps us all regulate our emotions. Having a safe environment/person who will be nonjudgmental when we vent emotions is healthy. Be and do. Take stock and judge later. Don’t get too far ahead of the fleeting now. Perceive and understand, form a healthy perception. Try not to be perfect because the imperfections are where our individuality and creativity flourishes
Thank you for taking the time , that is great advice. You are right about the words , how they affect us. I am working on being a person of action and in the now. Wish you well!
absolutely beautiful woman. I feel ya. I'm 43 no wife or kids just chillin. All my brothers in my family did the standard married with kids thing and none of them are happy so i decided that wasn't gonna be for me. I agree with many of the things you said here about the pursuit of happiness.
Thank you so much, we all all so different after all and we all need different things at different times in our lives also. And no exact choice guarantees happiness. But I am grateful for the peace .
Haha! Your friends Shiba Inu is so cute and typical. They're silly little dog/cats, lol! I think your ideas are wonderful, keep it up. We are not so different, you and I. Self respect will fill you up and begin flowing into others lives around you! Those others weren't you're friends if they need you to be certain way, as they see you, to "like" you, they were self serving and you're better off. Way to go! Thanx!
Thank you to take the time to leave such an encouraging comment! Your words mean a lot 😊 I send you good wishes!
Good luck with your journey.. Good to be authentic but good to have an income too. I hope find both... Personally, happiness is getting out of bed because you have something that engages your mind and body. Good to do something constructive in the world..... and perhaps reward yourself with a glass of aquavit afterwards, just a thought! Tusen takk.
Thank you, Kirk! Your comment is so nice, and. do agree, an income is important.Thank you for the support.
i feel you sis, dating is tough and i'd also truly rather stay single then
but maybe you could join a dancecourse or so! i catch myself a lot just not even trying to meet someone outside, but as long as we know how to say no and try to be safe about it?
you're gorgeous btw, and your style to me seems like .. "the scandinavian chique" !
Thank you very much, I really appreciate you taking time to leave a relatable comment!
HEJ! Thanks for sharing! You have such amazing eyes! And such gorgeous hair... Hope you are have a good week!
Thank you.
@@CristinaFilms 😍😍
Hi. Interesting video. What's the busking scene in Oslo, is busking welcomed there and are there restrictions?
Thank you 😊. I wouldn’t be able to help, I don’t know..
So good video! And I agree Norwegian winter is not for everyone.😂😂
Thank you! hahahaha! you know it!
Good luck on your life search. Don't give up!
Thank you, I will! Wish you well!
Hello.Very nice video about life in Norway.What laptop is that at 5:36 ?
Thanks, it’ not a laptop, it’s an iPad on a keyboard, an old version from a few years ago.
Hi Cristina , ooo, how much I understand you about work, dates, ect. Me now 1 year also withiut work - IM HAPPY after all I had at work before. Also no relatiinship long time (counted by years) i rejecting them by myself if i see in the begining smalest red flag.
Now i have job offer in Norway and im in huge doubt/ stress😢 what to do, accept Norway or not.
But one thing still we need money. And our money savings not endless.
Im 41 Girl 😊
Good there are like-minded girls around the world😊
Thank you for your comment, it feels good to see I am not alone in my struggles. I feel you, I really do, there’s many of us , you know? I made this video to express myself and my feelings, but also because I thought it will be good for the people who relate to feel that they are not the only ones struggling and we understand each other. I hope that you make the best decision for yourself, I know it’s hard and quite stressful, but everything comes and goes, even hard times. Sending love!
I will love to visit u in Norway , I live in America .looking forward to meet u
Thanks for the comment!
I am 38 years old and I am single too so I found your video !
It’s very relatable, there’s many of us.Thanks for the comment and sending good wishes!
Misogyny ? Even in Norway ? I am from southern Europe and there is still lots of it here but I never expected to hear about misogyny in Scandinavian countries. Wow ! I have visited Norway 10 years ago as a tourist and I loved the nature over there. Very green and wild. Almost like a landscape from a magical fairytale. I did not have time to notice pattetns of behavior towards women however. I'd love to travel to Norway again and explore more. I agree with you on the decision of not compromising your authenticity for companionship. I am the same way and single as well. I have no problem with it. If the right one exists I'll be here. Until then no worries. Life is great even without partners.
Thanks for your comment and encouragement! I was referring to misogyny in general throughout my life , not necessarily in Norway. I lived in southern Europe, yeah it’s stronger there. It’s much better in Norway , but these kind of men are everywhere, no matter the country, you bump into bad people sometimes.
Hey Cristina very nice blog compliments with friendlu regards
Thank you! Sending you good regards !
You will find what you are looking for.
You are vocal.
I hope you find what you are looking for. I think you are adorable and gorgeous and will not have any problems with your goals.
Thank you so much for those good wishes!
I will love to visit u in Norway . I currently live in America
Thanks for the comment!
Absolutely adore Flåm and the Sognefjord; and Bergen is very special.
As for the rest, I could write a book about all the rights - and wrongs - of what you said, regarding dating and relationships. I'll spare you all that.
As for the TH-cam venture, the quality of your video is perfectly fine. That being so, the biggest aspect is marketing. You need 'shorts', Instagram, TikTok, et al, to drive views to the channel. The dating aspect will be a driver, together with travel/location based content. However, dating content will bring with it much hate, too, given some opinions you expressed in the video. It's inevitable, and far more likely the bigger the audience. If you go that route, you'll need a very thick skin!
I note this is a month old. How's life going? Procrastinating again? Given up, or got a job, instead? Just interested.
Cool, thanks for the comment. You will find out in the next video! GL!
Hello all, Hello Cristina! New sub here, I am a medical doctor from Greece, And I would like to move to Norway , in order to continue my medical residency .. I know c1 is required in order to be accepted by the national medical board as a doctor ,so I can be certificated to work as an MD... My question is: Could I work as a doctor or assistant doctor in Norway until I give my language exam ,or I must find other kind of work , (I have no problem doing it.! ) untill I become certificated member my Norway s National Medical Board? In that case How can I find a job as a foreigner??? ( coming from Greece , which is from a country of European union ofc...) I speak English and Swedish (b1 level) Please help. Thank you in advance!
Hello, hello! You can find immigration information here: www.udi.no, and this is a job/house rental portal: www.finn.no . I am sorry I cannot help with any job related information in the medical field, I have no knowledge or contacts about it. Wish you good luck!
@@CristinaFilms Thank you!
@@CristinaFilms thank you! Keep up the good work!
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Soon you will reach the magic number. Keep up the good spirit.
Thank you!
what is about the iranian book?
i love the way your videos
good luck
Thank you! Which book are you refering to ?
@@CristinaFilms Oops, my mistake, i read iron ,iran
anyway i enjoyed your video i hope you well
my plan is to immigrate oslo , love norway
@@mostafasharbaf4829 Thank you, and wish you good luck to you, too!
The dog was great 😂
He’s the best!
Cool video!
Lets be 👰🤵
Thank you very much, Ali!
@@Ethiotechno2024 Too complicated, hihi!
Totul e o construcție proprie. Iubirea se construiește. Ura se construiește.
Bine spus! ❤️Multumesc.
You are very lovely in body and in soul! Do you take comfort in Scandinavian culture - Ibsen, Strindberg, Munch, Grieg - does it speak to you? Heartfelt greetings from Germany!
I enjoy culture and art sometimes, but it is not what feeds me in Norway. It is the nature that speaks to me here. Just in awe I am sometimes in front of the majesty of nature.
I will love to visit u in Norway . 5:12 I currently live in America
Cool, where in America?
You should come visit Toronto.
Maybe someday!
What beautiful tights you have on. Tights can be very beneficial when it is cold outside as well. Hopefully you wear them as layering!
Thank you! I wear thermal ones outside, with thick pants, so cold here!
@@CristinaFilms I can recommend wool tights! They are soft and warm and lovely!
@@ragnarkisten Noted, thank you, Ragnar!
@@CristinaFilms I have this amusing story about a young spanish woman working in a kindergarten in Norway. And she kept complaining about how cold it was. I told her about putting on some tights. She did not know what it was, even though she was wearing one underneath her skirt. I explained to her. and she had never considered layering them underneath her pants before. But all of a sudden she remembered some of the boys wearing them in the kindergarten, which she found to be hilarious! That is so funny to me, she said. Because in Spain only girls wear them, apparently...
@@ragnarkisten Hihi, yeah!
Authenticity is a core virtue🫵
Stand your ground lady and you’ll be fine🫵
Thank you for the encouragement ❤️ I appreciate it! Sending good energy!
Hello, im watching your vdeo from Philippines 👉🇵🇭👈
Then I am sending good vibes from Norway to Philippines! Thank you for taking the time!
Respect Cristina, te consimt aici foarte mult şi într-adevăr înțeleg situatia. Sunt 33, la fel single şi oricum cred în lucruri bune, cu optimism, cît de greu n-ar fi. Dă Doamne să ne ajute şi dacă va fi soartă, ne vom vedea odată în Oslo. Poate chiar şi anul acesta vom fi prietene bune. Eu deja ți-am scris despre acest lucrul vreo cîteva săptămîni în urmă. Ai grijă de tine. Izbândă şi pupici. Multe salutări din Sudvestul Germaniei, Maria 😊
Multumesc mult, Maria. Asa e, nu puten sti sau controla soarta. ❤️ Salutari din Oslo!
..3rd video i see from you.. I am portuguese..borned in Germany..but living in Portugal since 10.. I have a son, that surprised me saying, next year is thinking going in Erasmus first job internship to Norway..he is in IT university field..I am glad, but..is so expensive..the weather is definitly different from Portugal and Spain.. I like colder weather..Portugal and Spain, are a "little" too hot..I worked in Ireland 2 years, and later on, driving semi-trucks in Europe.. I was about to emigrate to northern countries..but had an "small accident"...i am "trapped in Portugal"..i am paraplegic.. But i think if my son goes, it will be a positive experience for him..to grow..test himself..and test his relationship with girlfriend..everything...even to help him decide what place is more appealing to him..There are weather wise, more appealing..less extreme weather, but civism is better in northern countries..with so much non-europeans invading Europe, places like France, Germany, Holland, Sweden..are not so appealing anymore, even though, a more moderate weather.. ..about your "existential crisis"..i may comment later..haven't seen all your videos..
Thanks for sharing your story with me! Life takes many turns and I wish you both good luck to you and your son!
Hello 😊 you are from? At you live in Norway and you like natur og fiske/ fishing
Norway is good of much in ting 🎉😊
Hello, I am from Romania. I like nature very much but I have not had any interest in fishing.
Good video and I live in a similar sized apartment but a little less attractive
Thank you! I tried to do Scandinavian design.
Hvor er du fra ? Slovakia? Middle Europe i guess from your accent. Ok. Du er fra Spania?
Romania
Worst places to be single:
1. Northern Europe (they only make friends while in kindergarten)
2. Southern Europe (they only meet relatives and family)
Hihihihi!
Happiness always live at balance. What is right balance for you, you will (or maybe not) discover through life. But more often than not, people that go too far in either direction, have bigger problems in life. So be careful not to be too "authenntical to yourself". Happy realtionship is always a big balancing act. Not only with prioritising, but also expectations. If you mainly care about your fulfilments and you set high standard for your partner, you are set to be alone, or you will never be truly happy in relationship. If you will not change your atitude against mens, at 37 you will quickly realize, you are the one at the short size of rope. Mens that have value that match your standard aren't interested in women over 40. Instead of picking up partner by your ideal standards, why not youst relax a bit, because that's how you should go into relationship really, listen your hearth instead of brain and go with men that make you laugh, make you feel good. Except he is different than you(every man and women are) and you will need to learn and accept that. If you can live in big City in Norway alone, you are financial in good position, so you can really focus on men with god social skills and family intentions. You are beautiful woman, so get you straight until you still have time, leave this modern woman wave thinking behind(which is very damaging for society) and learn to forgive your partner for things that are not important for relationship. Good luck.
Interesting.. I see what you mean. But I genuinely wonder why did you assume that I have high or ideal standards? I love men that make me laugh, and that make me feel good and safe, as you say with social skills and family intentions…they are rarer than you’d think. It’s also interesting that you assume that I am not relaxed and that I go towards an extreme in authenticity, I in fact would love to share my authenticity with someone that is authentic themselves. I feel like some people really project their own limitations assuming what I must be like. But I really do appreciate you sharing your perspective, thank you! Sending good wishes!
@@CristinaFilms Sorry if i am not expressing clearly enough. I am not assuming you go to extreme, i just want to explain my view of what usually happen to womens if they go to far. Maybe i got wrong impression about the way you express yourself in video start talking about "not lowering your standards" just because...... Often that kind of talking you can hear from modern womens, that are still single at 40. But if you are not like that, i apologize. But one thing is clear. Biologically, ideal time for human reproduction is in twenties, not thirties or even in forties. Modern society think, it have the power to change what was evolving million of years. Also when you ask yourself, why a lot of mens doesn't have social skills anymore to make you laugh and feel good, or men you maybe like, doesn't approach you, this is heavily related to modern technology overuse. Whole generations are ruined because of that. Brain capacity is not trained anymore, because information travel only in one direction, meaning we are mostly consumers these days. A lot of men and women have a lot of problems to communicate in live interaction and feel uncomfortable, because are not used to it anymore. Also people in general become a lot more lazy, expecting technology will do everything for them, even dating. This is now offtopic of course, but very related when things are not in balance and thing you also need to consider when you ask why men and women with social skill and creative spirit are not in majority anymore when it come to meaningful interaction with you. Have a nice day!
@@majsterV Thank you for clarifying . 😊 I hear you, and I think you are right, technology is interfering with millions of years of evolution and who knows what result that will yield. Many people now online are talking about a dating crisis. For me I think that I have a lot of things that my life is blessed with , and I am more working on appreciating that, lowering what entitlement we have to think that we should have it all, and just be more kind with people around me and more grateful. That’s why I made this video, even though it has attracted a little controversy, I feel a lot of people will relate, and we can connect with each other, because life is ups and downs, and we cannot control everything or quick fix what we don’t like, but we can know we are not alone, or weird or so different after all.
@@CristinaFilms @CristinaFilms I see you are of good healthy mindset, despite life didn't go exactly as you maybe "planned". Never lose hope on what i think is most important and most fulfilling thing in every humal life......Feeling when you are loved and touched😁 by your loved ones. Only good relationship can give you that. But to have good relationship, both of you need to be of healthy mindset, be prepared to share resposibilities and support each other. No men or women will ever fit with some imagination we created for each other. Instead what we should do, is we need to find and be honest to ourself and partner, if we can live with his/her disadvantages. It is so sad to see modern men and women fight each other for right balance in life, not willing to make compromises anymore and put career in front of family. Once they realize mistake is usually to late. Anyway i wish you very best in finding happines and right balance in your life 👍
@@majsterV Thank you for your good wishes and your kindness. You speak very wisely, I agree and thank you for taking the time to share. Good fortune to you!
What star sign are you ? A wild guess are you a capricorn?
Aries.
*Great job! Big LIKE 155👍 Ciao happy weekend!😀(New Friend 774 + "🔔")*
Thanks !
I would buy you flowers, thnx for the video, lykke til.
So nice of you, thank you!
nice :)
Thanks!!
Good from Sri Lanka
Good from Norway!
Shibe! 2:13
Yeah!
Thank God summer is just around the corner, winter in Oslo is HELL 🤡
I am so happy to find another who understands! Soon ….
Hey you are beautiful 😍❤️😍❤️
Thanks!
Judging by all the enthusiastic comments you've been getting, you shouldn't have any problems getting happily married, lol .. but otherwise life in Norway can definitely be a total nightmare for one who loves sunshine and warmth .. drowning in snow and swimming in ice all year round .. where half the year is eternal darkness and the other half the sun never sets .. NO thanks !! 🤣
Problems finding a good job .. start your own business .. if you're a good listener and strong in personality analysis, become a spiritual consultant or psychological counselor .. older folks for example are often lonely and just need someone to talk to 😉
Thank you for your comment and suggestions ! 😊 Maybe I should have mentioned that I stay single, not because of lack of offer, but because it’s been hard for me to meet that person with which I click the right way and it’s mutual. But this is life, some people get some things like perfect health and other people get other things. I am really working on learning to be less entitled, more grateful and feel appreciation for what I have and for the people in my life.
Relationships IS to compromise. If you expect to find a partner, and have a lasting relationship, You can't "Not compromise on who I am". That's the recepe for becoming an old maid. And if you think that "I'm doing all the compromising and my partner does'nt" then you are wrong. I'm sorry for you. You won't get any children if you don't start YESTERDAY, because for every day, every month your chances is rapidly decreasing. I know, because I have seen in my circle many who has waited as long as you and has to go many rounds with IVF clinics to try to get pregnant, and some fail ang give up even at your age. Get smart, Get a man. Any man will do. They are all boys, and jearks. You just have to live with it. If you threat them well they will be nice to you. And if you don't nag to much they will stay with you. And when children come, they suprisingly, often grow up a little.
Cool, thanks!
The legs ❤❤❤
Thanks.
Must have had a great divorce settlement to be able to afford to live in Norway!?
😂 You so funny, more like work until you pass out and then work some more.
Procrastinating. Day dreaming. Over thinking. People pleaser. Work management nearly always become my arch enemy……..I mean Darth Vader level. Moved to Germany to escape the evil empire, but hey the dark side followed…..who would have guessed. And if you don’t speak the language your reduced to parcel delivery driver. I think I’ve ticked most boxes. Oh no wait. Single with a few good friends and a family that think I’m a failure. So in short doing pretty good!.😊
Thank you for the comment, James. I think that there’s many like us who relate, right? Life is not always easy to navigate. I guess for me is that changing countries to fix my problems or to escape, taught me the ironic lesson: wherever you go, there you are! Learning German, though, that sounds tough, stay strong!
@@CristinaFilms language is definitely the biggest barrier. Cites not so much of an issue. But living and working in a rural area had its challenges. But sadly for me brexit came along.
@@jamesharwood9140 I feel you!
Do you want to stay single?
Only if I don’t meet the right man.
@@CristinaFilms Off course.☝😊
Too bad I'm momentarily living in
the Netherlands and at a distance. Would have loved to meet you.
My ancestors, by the way,
are from Bergen, Norway.
@@matshanssen2070 Time will tell. Good luck to you!
The most unfriendly people in the world....too cold for friends
It has been pretty easy for me to make friends .
Let me give you an impression from a 36 year old single man on how you appear to your target audience (single men that want family, I guess):
Plus: attractive, outgoing, intelligent, has style, seems kind
Negative: age, doesn't want to give up anything for him or her family it seems, says she doesn't know what she wants, talks about female oppression etc. (likely a feminist: be careful - no traditional values?), talks about "not wanting to settle" - yet talks about wanting to settle.
I don't try to be mean here, you seem like a likeable person and I enjoyed this video, but I just want to give you honest feedback. You seem to me like you want a man that adds to your life, but you don't want to add to his life or have children that take any of your time. A family doesn't work like that. This is a serious conflict. You are near the end of your biological time window to have children, so if you really want that husband and children you should hurry and just look for a normal and good guy and respect him well and he will treat you well and respect you.
There are so many good men like that out there and it is hard to understand how women ignore their existence and then complain they don't find good men.
Also keep in mind 37 is really really late to be in this position. Even though you are an attractive person you would not be what I would consider as a partner to start a family because we would not have enough time really as a couple and then for some children. So men will likely look for younger women to start a family. You still can find a man for a family perhaps, but you definitely need to rethink your priorities in that case - and hurry.
Again, not trying to be mean, but perhaps you can take something from this.
Thanks for your input!
The truest part of what he said is that there are really many men that would like to be with you, that are kind and hard working, honest.....but you dont want to 'lower your standards'.....then you better stay single.....because what you call lower is actually pretty good and deserving of a younger and more respectful and giving woman.....
@@user-hu7te6uc7j What do you think, do we choose who we fall in love with? Do we choose who the heart wants?
@@CristinaFilms You dont fall in love with someone....this is just a wrong phrase puhed through sm...you pick one of the options given to you otherwise you might be delusional...and there are many men out there that you would reject because they didnt make you feel sth....you dont have to feel anything Hollywoody....just pick a man that is decent responsible and as much handsome as possible and dont overthink it...Otherwise the prince will never come but if you are fine with that ( no is the real answer ,lets cut the bs) then enjoy being alone. It takes humility to adapt, we dont get what we want in life.
@@user-hu7te6uc7j I feel like I couldn’t marry someone that I am not attracted to and that I don’t feel romantic love for. So you think I should settle? Be with someone that doesn’t make me feel love? I genuinely wonder that.
You need some content in life that you could really burn for. Some hobby or whatever. Then procrastination would be no topic. Sadly, not everyone will experience that right away, and settle for kids or a family at first.
I see, interesting.. I have been thinking I need some hobby I am passionate about.
Did you consider reading about Islam? Give it a try to read the noble Quran. It will answer all you problems.
That is a good suggestion, maybe someday I will. Thank you🙏🏻
The lonely cat ladies unite here.
😂 I’m more of a dog person, but listen, cats welcome! Rise sisters, rise!
@@CristinaFilms
The only thing rising is feminists weight as they grow old!!
@@shabbos-goy9407 Hihi 😂, you are so mean! I send you good thoughts and I hope you heal from your pain.
Well I see you found the manual on how to make a successful youtube video. Step 1, post a sexy thumbnail that has nothing to do with the video. Step 2, see step 1. Not trying to hate on you but its kinda funny too see how much of a difference it seems to make. Us men are simple creatures 🤭 Anyways good luck on your influencer journey. You seem smart and well spoken so I am sure you can do it.
Thank you for your input!
@@CristinaFilms Well at least comments are supposed to help the algorithm right? Even if its from a bastard like me bringing up the uncomfortable topics 😅
@@dannit6167 All opinions are important and they bring different perspectives! People are different, that is life. Thank you for your comment!
@@CristinaFilms Diplomatic answer but lets face it some opinions are less welcome then others. But am not gonna force you to talk about it if you do not want to. I did not intend it to be a negative comment even if it may have come out that way. I think its just that the taboo topics are more fun to talk about for me 😅
@@dannit6167 The older I get the more I find out that the less I know, and we are all different. There is not one model fits all, what’s good for me is bad for another, and the other way around. Only time will tell.
I will marry you and move there right now, lol.
Aww, thanks! I wish it were that easy, hihi!
Let's cut the niceties and the BS. You're beyond repair.
😂Hihi, so mean you are. Send you good vibes, hope you will heal!
U'r funny😂..i think u've already learned how life works by reading so many books.. because if not..reading is not for u😂..ur a girl do as ur mother done.. like bringing u in this world
Thanks a lot!
In men's language expired.
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re: "In men's language expired."
I would say: FAR FROM IT!
@@Jonathan_Strange Thank you, Jonathan! So nice of you! Sending good thoughts!
Hei hei! Tried to send you a DM through mail and Insta, but errors show up. Maybe your mail adress is wrong in your description?
Hey! Yeah, those accounts are expired, thank you for bringing it to my attention!
Hey, thank you for your previous comment and for such kind words about my content. TH-cam doesn’t publicly allow comments with links, but I saw what you wrote. Even though I don’t have as much time as I wanted, I love to edit my youtube videos myself, it’s my favorite part about making videos. But it’s good that you put yourself out there and I send you my very best wishes with jobs!
At 3:15 it seems like you're breathing weird. Maybe it's just your sitting posture in the couch, but perhaps take a look at /watch?v=UZKivmRajgE
It’s probably because it’s a timelapse, but thank you for bringing it to my attention !
"Entitled people..." HA, the irony is RICH here !
I will love to visit u in Norway . I currently live in America
Thanks for the comment!