I moved to Spain 15 years ago from the USA. The USA was just getting too dangerous. Spain is so safe, the people are friendly and the Mediterranean diet has improved my health. I'm alone, but not lonely. I encourage anyone to move to the place where they are treated best. Good luck to everyone.
My husband and I moved to Spain also in 2021. We moved from Canada, which we have no plan of returning to. We are happy here. The warmth of the climate and the people is a huge factor in making us feel happy and content here.
I’m real, and always interested in meeting real people and hopefully developing friendships with them. I live in central CT, so if you are near by don’t be afraid to get in touch. That goes for anyone who comes across this text. Btw, I’m not lonely nor do I need anything, I actually do pretty well for myself, I just like to help and learn from people, specially if they are good people.
It’s very difficult to meet high value friends or male partners. I’d rather be alone than hang out with fake friends, two faced friends or mindless folk’s that that go along to get along to the point of damaging their own health!
I moved to Portugal as a single person six years ago at the age of 62. I understand the feeling of being alone in a new country. That said, I am very happy to live here. It is a relaxed, safe and lovely country. The people are lovely too.
How about when the retirees get much older and need help. Is getting live in help or some kind of help affordable? I was thinking of Portugal, but leaning towards the Philippines because affording a nurse or live in help in the leader years is affordable there.
I left Germany 30 years ago for Thailand and never looked back. All my bothering allergies and other health issues like chronic back pain vanished nearly over night, and I am now in my mid 70s healthier than in my previous life. What helped me most to overcome hardships on the way was the absence of doubt about taking that leap (simmering deep inside me since decades). I adopted a new born child 27 years ago. I live with her, her boyfriend and her mother as well as our three beloved dogs together in a large house. After retiring from work at a prestigious university 2 years ago, I now have all time at hand I wish for my hobbies: writing, cooking and baking, playing with the dogs, moderate sports like cycling etc. (while the others are out for work) and in the evening and weekend, there is family life as well, a good balance. My advice for all doubters: Do a lot of research before you go without coming back. Start maybe with an extended vacation or a sabbatical. Most important is the proper philosophy of life: nothing is granted, nothing is forever. Embrace change, don't fear it. Good luck.
Congratulations to you Daphna andThomas on your move to Portugal, Thailand and what a great life you both have created for yourselfs. I moved from east coast of US to Honolulu about 10 years ago. I love my life here…I swim in the mornings, play pickle balls and have a community garden. Portugal and Thailand seems to me that would be much easier for me financially…I entertain the idea of moving again…it just seems that it would not be as easy at this time because I am 73 now. I do speak Portuguese because I lived in Brasil. And have visited Lisbon, unfortunately I was pick pocketed there…. Anyway…congratulations to you both. Thank you Daphna for your channel.🤗
@@AnxinAi a particular trauma the haunting of which best to overcome, maybe go to Portugal and NOT get pick-pocketed ? idk... this is trauma time/healing time for many it seems. All the best 💖
I left the UK full time, 2014 I've lived up a mountain in Portugal, in a renovated, off grid, donkey stable for over 10 years, We have an acre of chestnut and fruit trees. I have peace when I want and I have made good friends here. I wouldnt go back. I've just received my UK pension at 66, I could never survive on it in the UK but here, with no heating to pay for (wood from land), no mortgage (cost €25,000 in 2009) and a free health service, I can flourish :)
Bonn, your life sounds amazing. I'm 55 and very stressed living in Northern England. Many like myself are in fear of what's happening here.. I just want to escape. I need Peace.. Good luck to you 🌻
That was the right call. The UK is too expensive. I have been living in London for the past 7 years, but it is just crazy expensive. To have a good life here you need to be a millionaire.
@@Daphna. I fear how dark the world is becoming, the ugliness, the violence, illegal trespassers into the country, a country & world out of control.. I could go on..
this is what i've been thinking for some time. the uk I love but the issues are too numerous and too deep. I live in a busy asian city now and save £1000 a month, but I crave the countryside, peace, my own land-mortgage free and fresh air. I only worry about making enough money. I suppose the obvious thing is to get sons kind of online work. ❤
Only God, Jesus can give you peace. That this world will never be able to give you. I suggest that you start reading the Bible. Proverbs for the start. God bless you. He will not give you just peace but also love and joy ♥️🙏🏻♥️
I have lived alone since 1976. When I went to a divorce I am now 79 years old! The only time I ever felt lonely was when I was married, I guess because I was always expecting that person to show up to do things with, and he would be working late or have other commitments, and I would spend a lot of time alone at night! I really felt lonely since my divorce I can actually say I have never ever felt lonely. I actually enjoy being alone more than I do spending time with people! I find so many people create so much drama in their life it’s exhausting, my highest value is learning so when I’m alone, I can spend time learning about whatever I want to learn and never ever miss the company of people! It’s sad that so many people feel lonely these days. I am so blessed and thankful that I enjoy spending time alone more than I deal with other people! If I ever want the company of people all I have to do is pick up the phone or go visit a shop and I easily connect with other people! Congratulations on the decisions that you made you are a beautiful woman and I’m really happy for you and the life that you’ve created. It looks really beautiful.
I relate to your time of being married, but feeling alone. I, too, have had 22 years of this. Once my 15 year old starts college, I will be making my decision for change.
@@SoniaTolson I`m just i your shoes!!! Waiting.... 28 years of marriage, one year left for my youngest one to move to Sweeden. My oldest is allready living there. Mayby it`s my time soon to be ME!!!!
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most of the human race is living an al everyone is rushing to be a part of the money richness i couldnt care less about fake humans who are chasing money and fame i spent over fifty years in masonic australia when it was a good place in the 60 70 80 90 2021 i left came to cyprus where i was born just love life and music and being free from the world controll
I share your sentiment. But the society is not designed for independence. How do you assemble IKEA furniture which requires two pairs of hands? Who looks after you when you are sick? Who backs you up and fights on your behalf when society throws you under the bus? Who watches your back in danger? Single people die needlessly from preventable deaths. Until we get nimble and smart robots 🤖, "independence" is little more than glossed-over banishment from society. I know, I've been "independent" forever. But wait, there's more to it: man is not meant to live for himself but for his ideals. Therefore your isolation also represents a moral loss. It gives free reign and it hands over the control over the society to the enemies of everything that's good, true, and beautiful. With the results too familiar from daily news.
I have written a long and carefully thought-out response - only for TH-cam to discard it insidiously. What if my response could change your (or somebody else's) life? We'll never find out. *Because TH-cam* and "the land of the free" 🇺🇲🦅🗽🤠. They are out to protect you and everyone else in the world from ever exercising any doubt.
I moved to France 7 years ago when I retired. I've been divorced for 20 years, so I live alone in a beautiful apt. I started joining expat groups almost as soon as I got here: we play golf, go to dinner, go to local jazz clubs, meet for coffee 3 or 4 times a week, and take trips together. After I stopped eating an American diet I lost 85 pounds. I sold my car during covid, so I walk everywhere now, which I really enjoy. I live 10 minutes from the bus station, 15 min from the train station and 20 mins from the center of town. Public transportation is cheap and excellent. I'm quite happy here. Life is good. **EDITED** several people have asked me why join expat groups. The reason is French bureaucracy can be daunting at times, but normally there are other expats who have been down this road before. They can be invaluable resources when first arriving.
@@lc7169 I went to college in France when I got of the Navy in 1972. I stayed for 2 years. I promised myself I'd return when I was ready to retire, and that's exactly what I did.
I learned from my traveling friends that, the more people and places you visit, the more you realize that your body is your home and the world is your city
Your body is the temple of God! I agree that one should treat it like that and like a beautiful home! I also agree that travelling around meeting others is so wonderful! I would love to do that and teach the Gospel of Christ to others! God bless you!! Thank you for sharing!! 🙏💖💖
I'm a Mexican 45 years old woman who went alone to India and now going to Nepal. Still trying to find my place in the world. Right now I believe it is a blessing that I don't have a partner and I didn't have children, that is why I'm free to go where ever I want
My mother and I are preparing to leave the UK forever, later this year. I am 54 and my mother is 84. I am terrifically excited, and very glad to see your video.
My experience traveling to another country is that I become free. I am free of the social expectations of my country. I feel a deeper connection with others because I don't concern myself with social protocol. I am me, intrinsically worthy, not having to prove anything. And wow, that feels so good!
So true. Well said. I think the expats are a separate type of a race, in it's own right. The longer you have been an expat- the harder it is to fit back into your original culture afterwards.
I moved to Portugal by myself 10 months ago. I am very happy, I value the time with myself, I am peaceful and do whatever feels right for me. It’s wonderful to know that “I can”
The worst thing is that people who subverted their countries like the USA then move to Europe and then the price of apartments at home rises. Portugal is a beautiful country, please leave your stupid Biden, Democrat, LGBT opinions to yourself. We don't want America in Europe.
Hi, I am 80 now moved to Igalo, Montenegro 5 years ago. I purchased and designed an apartment, great people, food, scenery Montenegro in 2018-19. Immigration easier to move here I know exactly what you mean. This is why I look and feel more than 20 years younger. I always find out what makes me happy. I love peaceful and safe and caring of the people. My family lives in Varna, Bulgaria. I love it here. Ciao
Being alone is the best thing you can do for yourself. Your time, your choice, your way, whatever you want. You can always still enjoy time with others, but when you want to, on your own terms.
I’m an American and I moved to Thailand in 2012, when I was 48 years old. I had no expectations but in hindsight it was the best decision I ever made. Affordable housing, delicious inexpensive food, incredible natural beauty, friendly people, interesting culture and a language that has been challenging for my brain but very satisfying. I now enjoy a home in the city of Lamphun, near Chiang Mai, as well as a home in my girlfriend’s (of 5 years) village in the province of Mae Hong Son. By the way, I’m not rich but this life unfolded for me because I was open, willing and receptive to change and seized opportunities as they presented. I can relate totally to this video!
I concur. Been living in Thailand 18 years, visiting since the 90s. While much has changed, the pace of change is slower and the natural world is closer to daily existence, primary of which is THE SUN, the golden , brilliant , warm, broiling, soothing, luminous, radiant, healing and life- giving and abundant sun, with the agricultural plenty that it entails. And, according to Statista, Chiang Mai has the second most vegan/ vegetarian options per capita of any city but Phuket. I can attest to that claim for Chiang Mai.
@@jimmurphy3864 Every epithet you have bestowed upon the Sun is true. I write it as a reformed heliophobe. Ireland has given me gratuitously painful lessons in solar deficit.
Very happy in my Thai country village in the NE of Thailand. Have been living in Thailand on and off for 30 years and I met my Thai wife about 17 years ago and over the last 15 years we had been slowly building and improving our Thai village house. Now its ready for retirement and i will permanently over there in the next year, even though last 3 years i have been semi retired spending 6 months every year there.
What a nice and beautiful woman, I took a Solo trip to Azore Islands and it was life changing I met so many people and felt so free, I’m 60 thinking about changing my life too! So true
Visited San Miguel, Acores a few weeks ago. It was beautiful and a true breath of fresh air. Have spent time on Mainland Portugal, it's just not the same except perhaps towards the South Coast, Algarve area.
5 years ago, at 67, I left South Africa (alone with my rescue dog and 3 suitcaaes). It's been challenging and fulfilling at the same time. Gave up LOTS but gained so much as a reward. 😊
I moved to Malta from GB in 2019, have never been back and don't intend to. I came for work which ended with Covid, and I came to live with a friend who died 7 months ago. I have a small business here now. (I shall be 70 this year.) I miss my friend but I do not miss England!
Phenomenal video Daphna... I'm a 66 year old woman in search for a change. I am a resident of the United States in California. And I truly believe where you live affects your health. Like the food industry in the United States. Most of it is banned in other countries. That says a lot. I care about my health and well being. It's sad not feeling safe in your own country. I'm striving for the same. Thank you❤
I’m an Australian and 69 and also looking to move overseas by myself as well. I know it would take a lot of courage and I’m not sure if I can muster the energy and the will as I am starting to slow down with age but I just may be able to do it. I’m hoping anyway 🤗🥰
Having left the UK to move to Italy over 20 years ago, I can confirm you are right. This is not for everybody. If you are running away from problems they will follow you. Being open, getting outside the comfort zone and taking a risk eventually brings rewards but you have to integrate and that means speak the language. You look happy so may it continue.
Absolutely. Completely agree having moved to Portugal a couple of decades ago. The one thing that you should, if anything, avoid doing is getting too chummy with "expat communities" because that isn't a great start. Certainly not to integrating, becoming part of your new country and fully benefitting from the many delights of being truly a part of the community and society in which you live. And learning the language - besides being common sense - is just a basic and fundamental matter of respect for those whose country you live in. For anybody thinking about doing this sort of thing, be very cautious with the whole "expat" thing. Please don't get attached to that way of thinking. "Expats" are people that are here today and gone tomorrow. Those that are "long term expats" are, I can almost guarantee you, are culturally isolated and definitely not the sort of people that the vast majority of natives of that country want as neighbours. Because, fundamentally, they're ignorant and continue to be so. Some of these people think that they "bring money and benefit the locals" but, honestly, they don't really benefit anybody. Least of all the locals. The name of the game is integration. And being an immigrant is a badge you should wear proudly. It means that you care enough about where you live that you really want to be a part of it. And contribute as much to it as you take from it. And that, friends, begins with language, being respectful and being polite. The best part comes when you forget you're a foreigner and your neighbours do, too. 'Cos it never really crosses anybody's mind. Being an "expat" you're almost saying that you want to stay "foreign" forever. And that isn't the smartest ambition to foster.
Very nice video! Congrats! I really liked it! I moved from Denmark to northern Greenland for 5 years when I was 15 years old. From there to Norway. Studied there and became a university professor in tropical ecology. Got married and had two kids but the wife died from cancer. Moved around with the kids or, when they were small, being a single dad in Norway. Then 20 years ago my kids were big and I moved to Africa. I was a university professor there teaching about wildlife, and sometimes I was in Norway to follow up with my kids there. Got married again, but after a few months, my new wife died in a car crash. We had a small kid together. Then my wife's mother died, and I adopted my late wife's sister. So now I have two small kids, 8 and 9 years old. They go to a nice private school but fortunately, they are home every day after school, and their aunt is there to help out. So is my Tanzanian grandmother-in-law. All is well with my kids in Norway and my kids in Tanzania. They are all doing very nicely in their lives. Now I have my Shamba (rural house with a farm) in Africa with family and friends around. I'm 69 years old now. So I am a lot older than you! It still worked out.
I am 63, sold the farm and moved to Spain from New York. I am very happy and bridged the gap between my European roots and the United Sates where I grew up. I am so happy and calm. America is a just a foggy memory for me. Daphna, if you need someone to have a glass of wine with, reach out. I am only a 45-minute flight away. Fortune favors the bold!
I'm glad i found your comment, im from Bergen County NJ I've been planning to move to Spain for a long time and im still not sure if it's a good idea and thanks to your comment a man from my land i decided that i want to do it.thank you
Hi Ewa I am in Bergen-canty in New Jersey also the last few years, I have more from New York Manhattan it was to be there for single woman and I am moving this year to Serbia what a wonderful people and country! And so affordable especially with American 62-SS!😂 Spain is quite expensive now! like every country in the EU‼️
I know what you mean about scrolling endlessly through media! I have been alone for 20 years but I reduce stress and anxiety by playing guitar, trekking in the Lake District (UK), singing (used to perform at resorts and clubs) and keeping healthy with a low carb diet (very important). I hope you enjoy your new life - that really was a brave move and I wish you all the best!
Welcome to my country! I lived in several countries and returned to Portugal after 25 years. It's always difficult to move to another culture, new burocracy, new laws, different ways of living... so the first year is always the most difficult. But you will fall in love for Portugal! All the luck and all the happiness!
@nunop6606 gosh I wish I had the guts to make a move like that, the 180 degree different everything is what scares me I guess, I was thinking of moving to the Villages in Florida,55+ community, very popular, they call it the kindness culture, honestly, thats all I'm looking for, safety, friendly and of course affordable, but being alone to make this decision is what's holding me back the most from making any decision
Olá, Nuno. Bem dito! Sou um britânico (galês) no Alentejo. Eu sei que para muitos portugueses há problemas com o custo de alojamento e vida em Lisboa, etc., mas para quem tem dinheiro suficiente (mas não tanto ca em Portugal em zonas como ca no Alentejo ... longe de Comporta e aquelas casas construídos para estrangeiros ricos) para viver em conforto, sem preocupações, o país é um espectáculo. E para crianças, sem dúvida, é um país mais saudável que o Reino Unido, por exemplo. Para mim não foi difícil integrar na comunidade deste município rural onde quase ninguém fala a lingua inglesa. E onde não quero falar inglês com ninguém. A minha mulher é uma portuguesa mas hoje em dia ela percebe Portugal mais como eu, um estrangeiro. Quer dizer que ela veja mais valor ca a da mais valorização aos fortes deste país do que no passado. E especialmente no interior do país, como Alentejo ou Beiro Alto, Beiro Baixa, Trás-os-Montes, Minho, etcetera e as zonas que são mais "escondidas" mas ainda "fundamental" ao carácter deste país que a maioria de estrangeiros conhecem. Não seria possível para mim voltar ao Reino Unido e não posso imaginar fazer isso. E quando estou a dizer "Sou um britânico", estou a mentir. Hoje em dia sou mais português do que britânico. Mas... talvez... sem queixar tanto.... 😀... porque obviamente estou aprender ainda o arte de ser português! 🤣
Hello Dapha, I am Portuguese but lived in UK for many years. My husband and I moved to the Algarve (Portimão) in 2019 as we wanted to enjoy a calmer happier life. We had many plans together but unfortunately the rug was pulled under our feet and two became one ( my husband became ill and passed away in 2022). So, I am concentrating on moving forward alone and find new dreams alone but not feeling lonely. I appreciate your words of feeling happy, calm and centred in fact i call it SERENITY. You seem a good person, in case you live nearby and want to go for a coffee it would be great, PS. I am not a stalker nor a weirdo. Keep well
Hi Laurinda, good that your husband was able to enjoy part of the new life with you in Portimao. Being without your anchor (my husband died last year) is very difficult. But you are in a beautiful place now & remember your dear husband is happy for you. ❤
My health has struggled so much over the years from the stress and hardships of my daily life. People underestimate how the body responds to stress, anxiety, and mental health. I’m so glad you found your happy place. I hope more people can learn from you and find their happy places. Thanks for sharing your story.
So true.. Through the stresses over the last few years, my thyroid went topsy turvy, and now I have graves disease which comes and goes. I'm hoping to move away from London in the not too distant future. I'm 62 working 4 days a week and this place is definitely not good for your wellbeing.
Such an important point. You have to find the life that works for you, and with that, your stress comes down. I love solitude combined with arms length human contact ; thats not for everyone, but thats how I prefer things.
My life and health are deteriorating due to stress and unhappiness.. I'm struggling and feel very trapped. Need a miracle.. have been asking the creator to help me.. he will. Good luck I envy you in a good way ❤
I also live in Portugal, on the Silver Coast. My husband and I moved 2.5 years ago. We now have a dog and so many friends from all over the world! Being bold about starting a new online business at 68 years young. 🥰 It is much more peaceful here than in the US.
@geertstroy What a bitter, nasty comment. People have been "mobile" for millennia. Countries like the U.S., Canada, the U.K., Australia, France, etc., have had to deal with immigrants for centuries now.
@@geertstroy North America has millions of Portuguese…including radio stations,tv stations in Portuguese,huge communities,some towns are built by Portuguese…how many people from North America lives in Portugal?
Im a woman in my Mid sixties young , freelance illustrator, my main revenus though are tied to living in France that i will loose if i live abroad ....
The new 'American Dream' is to escape America. I plan on doing that when i retire in about 5 years. Portugal is looking really good to me right now. I appreciate your videos of Portugal and your stories. They are very helpful to me.
@@Daphna. I've been to Porto twice in one year and it may be where we think of making a new home. It's beautiful and the people are so kind, so creative. I love the art scene there as well.
Well done Daphna; I moved from England to Adelaide, South Australia in 1998 at the age of 54. I have never regretted it. Like you it has been the happiest time of my life.
Thank you so much for this Daphna. I moved to the South ofFrance from UK six years ago just before Brexit took away freedom of movement rights. The reason I did it was to work with someone on a project that required us to be together. I had no intention of staying, but many things happened that delayed my return - including Covid and other personal issues. In the end though I just asked myself, do I actually want to return? Do I need to? Like you I found the language and bureaucracy difficult here, and it was just difficult in all sorts of ways adjusting to a new place. But things settled down, and I now realise I am happier and healthier. And you articulated my own feelings so well. Before I used to go to the Mediterranean and I was always concious that I had to return to my stressful life in the UK. Now I don't have to.
You’re not a tree….you can move🤣love that! It is true that if you don’t step out you won’t go anywhere. For me..the Lord guides my steps and energizes and protects my life. He gives me the strength and courage to move forward. And I am so blessed that He planted me here in a small town in Western Montana. At 75 I am the happiest I’ve ever been. All my friends were amazed I moved out of California to this place but I knew I had to do it to save my life. 🦋
Well, I got the notification that you replied with an incomplete text, clicked to open it and it's been deleted apparently. Anyway, thanks, at least I got the name of your town. I'll look into that area as an option, again thank you for getting back with me! Update: Wow! Just looked it up and it was on my list to check out. Reason being, a true mountain man and woodsman, Gary Edinger who wrote the book about his life, "Will to Live: A Saga of Survival" mentioned his favorite place to hunt and explore is the Bitterroot Mtns because they are so wild and the town you live in is the one he mentioned he frequented. I'm excited to explore this option! God bless!
What a beautiful video, it came just in time. I am 39 and preparing to move abroad alone aswell and it is scary. I also feel like difficult life circumstances have taken away the majority of my youth so it is very important to me now to go after my dreams. Thank you so much for the encouragement! ❤❤❤
Costa Vicentina, Setúbal, Silver Coast, Madeira and Algarve are incredible regions to live by the sea in Portugal but if you are a Nature lover you will love Minho/ Gerês region and nearby you have Galicia in Spain that is a very beautiful region to live in Europe too. All of them are peaceful too but getting more and more expensive because more and more people are discovering them and want to settle there. My advise is to buy a villa nearby the sea and a van and go everywhere explore the south and north of Portugal and Europe, it’s the best way to live when you are getting older...your never bored, lots of adventures and experiences and there are lots of parking spots for your van in Portugal, Spain, France, Italy, etc...the thing is in Portugal you will live longer and healthier because due to the Atlantic Ocean our fish and seafood get you the best nutrients, it’s richer the best seafood and fish in the world...nothing beats grilled fish or seafood looking at the ocean expecting an epic sunset👍🏻🤗
Bravo! I am moving to Italy in my 40s and I understand what you mean of being alone but still happy. I wish you the best in your new adventure. Blessings to you in your new life!🎉❤
That’s wonderful. I’m in Montreal, it gets very cold in winter and I’m looking at leaving now, I just turned 60. I believe that moving will improve my life too. I will focus on finding my new home.
I just moved to Phoenix, Arizona after a couple of years in Florida, I just took the leap of faith and did it. I been single for three years and it's been a blessing because it's bought so much healing to my well being, new insight on life. I have a new career and, travel when the moment hits me. I am alone but not lonely. I have no children, feeling good about myself and not rushing into companionship. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
The times I feel the most alive are definitely the times I take a risk / or stretch myself - in a wide arc. IE moving to Germany from New Zealand ten yrs ago. Late 40s now. Loved your video. Thank you.
I’m 51 and moving out of California alone in two and a half months. I’m fearing the disconnect from my kids and mom. I’ve been asking God for some reassurance bc the devil is popping in my head at night telling me, I won’t have enough money and I’m going to be lonely. I feel like you are my reassurance today. I’m not a tree. I just heard that. Thank you for sharing! I’m ready. And I know God will have me, He has always!!❤️🙏🏻🇺🇸
Don't be afraid , I am 63 and I will be moving to the Dominican Republic soon. I had many doubts also and was fearing being away from my kids and grandchildren, I know it's the right decision for me. Abrazos
@@devonbrennan6125 Bye bye! That made me giggle. A good friend moved away a couple of years ago. Of course I was sad although I was more excited for her. I can feel the excitement from other people when I share my news with them. It feels good and empowering. Thank you!!
Well described. My experience after multiple countries is that it takes a year to build the start of a new social circle and it will depend on your own initiatives. The people around you in your new country intend well but all have already full lives.
I just found your channel and this message resonated with me. I'm 46 and making a similar transition in life. I sold my business and bought a property in rural Brazil to start a new life there with my wife. Everyone thinks I'm crazy, but I feel in my core it will be the best decision I will ever make.
What state and close to what city ? Any recommendation of a yt on BZ ? I'm following one, a Swedish guy that's in Rio Grande Do Sul but looking for more. Thanks !
@@MarinaLaroche I bought a place in SP state 2h outside of Sao Paulo in the city of Miracatu. Our place is called Estancia Preguica. You should be able to find it online. I like the town, just a simple place.
@@MarinaLaroche There are many online real estate listings available. It took a year to find this place. We had the help of my wife's family who visited many sites before we bought.
Hi Daphna. I really appreciate this share. I am going to move to the island of Crete before the end of this year. I will be moving alone without knowing anyone. Luckily, as an artist, I found a gallery on the island interested in my work. I am moving because unless I win the lotto or create a highly successful business, I will have to work until I drop dead if I continue to live in U.S.A. I recently was able to get my Greek citizenship which should make things a little easier. And, I still have to brush up heavily on being conversational in the language. I don't think I'll miss California. I used to live in France years ago when I was first married, and I really prefer the European lifestyle. Being Greek, I think getting back to my roots is going to be the right move. And, by the way, I'm 67... still in great shape and live a healthy lifestyle. I'm certain that living on Crete will only help to embellish my life. And, if you're ever in Crete, give me a shout! Cheers, George 😉
Turning 50 this year (married with kids), I can imagine that being by yourself after 50 could be an adventure with its own challenges. I am glad that I found your channel. Thank you for sharing your insights.
I think that Portugal has a psychotherapeutic effect. It is warm and flourishing, but there is hidden sadness. Ruins of church, reminding about an earthquake, cold ocean, poor outskirts, not renovated houses. But at the same time a great power of life, that helps to cope with problems in past and restore inner strength.
I couldn't agree more with your observations. I moved to China when I was 53. I am now 60, living and working in South Korea and loving it. I have now been abroad for 7 years and have travelled to over 65 new countries during that period. The world is awesome and the universe will help you if you dare to take that first step towards your dream. You''ll see - it's amazing.
The Universe has already started helping me with having bumped into your video! Will move to Austria 2 weeks from now, I'm 50, divorced, and though got a number of friends there, I will be on my own, so am still terrified. But loving it as well. Thanks so much for this encouraging content.
It is so true that happiness is about location. I've lived all over the world and have found happiness in the most diverse locations that weren't glamorous. It is about doing what you love and appreciating all that you have got.
I retired to Portugal in 2018, I no longer have any living family members and moving here was one of the best things I've done in my life. However, I think anyone considering such a move needs to truly understand who they are as a person in general, what excites them or annoys them, how they react to the unknown and have they done enough appropriate research about where they want to go etc etc etc. Have met too many people who basically saw such a perm move in terms of it being a 'perm holiday' and not concentrating enough on the practicalities of everyday issues they would face in a new country.
Hallo Birgit, du heisst wie meine Mutter. :-) Ich bin 10 Jahre jünger als du und denke oft, dass ich- so verwurzelt ich in Deutschland bin, das Leben anderswo einfach entschleunigter sein könnte. Meine Eltern, Freunde und vor allem auch meine fast erwachsenen Söhne sind aber hier, und obwohl sie halb- Neuseeländer sind, möchten sie am Liebsten genau hier bleiben ( in Deutschland), .. deshalb schiebe ich meine Pläne auf. Mein Traum wäre ein Platz in Südfrankreich, in der Provence .. nahe des Meeres.lch bin gern für mich. Bin den ganzen Tag in einem sozialen Beruf komplett in Beziehungen und erfülle Bedürfnisse anderer, Vor allein sein eigentlich keine Angst, eher vor dem doch Heimweh bekommen l Dir alles Liebe auch.. Warum fühlst du dich nicht ( mehr) gut in Deutschland ?
Moved to Mexico and lived on the Carribean , then South America. I was in my mid 50s. At 60 I was inspired to return to US to finish a Dream I have here. I needed the break, but it's not over. I also fell in Love with the States again. I took the best of both Worlds, and I'm signing a deal concerning my Dream now. This has given me my Third Wind. When I live on the Beautiful Sea again (I live on Lake Michigan now in a condo I own, so costs much lower for me) it will be even richer. I am free spirited and I am running with the horses!
I turned 55 in October and I retired from a 27 year career in the airline business. and moved to Thessaloniki, Greece . I’ve had similar experiences. I’m able to spend a lot of time with people because it’s a large city and people are friendly but I also have time to myself . I also go to the gym and walk a lot by the sea . I moved here by myself and I’m surprised that I’m not lonely and I’m very rarely bored.
This video was on my recommended list and I'm happy I've watched it as it hits close to home. I'm 53, italian woman and I've lived in several countries in Europe and outside Europe ( Turkey, United Emirates), now back home to look after my elderly mother. One day I'll be on my own and I'll move again. Not sure whether it's gonna be in Europe or not, but I wanna live by the sea and have a very simple life, with dogs and cats. I have no husband or kids by choice so I'm free to go anywhere. I'm already trying to get info about a bunch of countries but knowing myself I know I'll just pack my stuff and go where life takes me, which might be a place I'm not planning to move to right now. Life's full of surprises and I love that 😊
The moment one commits oneself then providence moves too...This is the exact quote that inspired me to change my life too.....and I also moved abroad when i turned 50. Believe it or not I used to suffer from bad Psoriasis too. Thanks for inspiring me today.
So brave of you to share your story in this ageist world. I left the Uk 32 years ago and have lived in Asia ever since bringing up two children here and will retire in Bali,a beautiful,peaceful healty place❤😊
been listening to this audio book and there is a sentence in there which goes like this "experience is the highest form of knowledge" and age is only a number! good on you!!
Those feelings come and go in waves of about 3 months at first but slowly lengthening each wave up to a year at a time so it makes sense that you are feeling this way at this time but be aware it will reverse in some months from now.
I have a friend with psoriasis....it always gets better in the sun. I moved from England to Brittany in 2003 after my wife developed bipolar disorder and disillusion with our life in London. Sadly her condition got so bad we had to divorce. Since then I live here alone. I have some friends but much of the time its just me and my dog. I study, travel a bit, go to a restaurant once a week, visit the local bar. I have a motorbike, go clay shooting and fishing, bicycling, walking. My stress levels have fallen right down, I no longer bite my nails 😊. Where I live is very rural, no obvious crime, its clean, well run....lots of culture and history. And the Breton coast is world class.
Wonderful vlog Daphna, thank you, A friend of mine, Geoff. had a young niece who suffered badly from psoriasis. Geoff had a Aloe Vera plant from which he took a leaf and applied the gel onto his niece's affected arm. The next morning, the psoriasis had all but disappeared from her arm. Aloe Vera is well known for it's magical properties and is fantastic for the skin making it shine and glow with health. Take care Luvly One and have a great life. xxx
Great! I loved this vídeo. It's so nice to see happy people, happy women in their 50s... I feel so proud of my country! Hope you keep posting and feeling well! I'm from Lisbon, in my 50s too. If you need something feel free to ask.
I was ripped away from my Country Greenland at a young age, we were sent to boarding schools in Europe - I do miss my roots .. I was immigrating to Canada, but then I found my wife and had to stay - Now 61, and a stroke later I still release my Music from the 80s and live through it today 🙂
Hi Daphna, I really enjoy your videos and witnessing your journey. I left Israel in my early 20s, I also always felt that I wanted to be somewhere else, even though I am very connected to my family and country. I have been living in New York for over 35 years and in the recent few years I have been feeling that life here is no longer a good fit for me and I am planning to move to Portugal with my family (husband, son and fur babies). The peace and slowness of life is exactly what my soul is craving at this stage of my life. Thank you for your wonderful videos באהבה
I'm planning on moving from the UK as soon as I can financially - purely based on the weather here!! 🙂 I really feel that the lack of sunlight is detrimental to health x
You're right the UK weather is bad. Since I moved from South Africa to the UK my health has deteriorated quite bably, apart from feeling completely miserable without the 🌞. It has been 5 miserable years of sadness and body pains, and the worst is I have no way to leave .
Hi Daphna, Have you travelled extensively within Portugal or did you just pick a destination and take a chance? I am thinking of living in Portugal for the winter, as UK is pretty depressing then. Do you have any areas you could recommend in Portugal? I work in IT and have an EU passport so can test the water with little impact working remotely. Thanks in advance for any advice!
I left Japan when I was 21. Now I'm 50 have been living in the US since then. I've been feeling the urge to leave again lately... just don't know where to move yet. Maybe it will happen when my youngest son is done with high school. Thinking about this makes me feel good and hopeful :)
This is about my 3rd or 4th video of you that i have seen in the past 6 months or so and you seem to be doing very well for yourself and credit to you young Lady.Im 51 this September myself and have worked in the Construction Industry for over 30 years and love turning around old properties from old Georgian/Victorian to new builds in my City.I've been to Portugal many times in a past relationship on 2 week holidays and fell in love with the place and made a decision then that Portugal will be where i lay my hat.Your move seems to have put you in a good place mentally physically and may be spiritually also which is great to see.I just want to touch on what you said about your own Country and how it feels these days and yes your right it has changed so so much in the past 10 years or so for me just doesnt feel the same anymore and i love my Country very very much BUT is it for me for the next 30 odd years no is the answer must be something in the water.As your single and i dont know why 🤔 and dont want to know either, how about getting yourself a little Pal a dog that will be the first thing on my list when i do get to Portugal that will give you a bit company and keep on your toes 😂.If you are thinking of getting a dog may i suggest a European Doberman best dog in the world they have a nickname as the velcro dog won't leave your side best friend you could ever ask for.Anyway thats it from me for tonight and i have just subscribed,see yeah take care enjoy the sun and the peace and quite Portugal gives you im very envious but I'm not far behind you now at this stage. Remember this time wasted on yourself is never time wasted 👍.
Portugal will be where I lay my hat. Love that! Dog is on top of my list, for sure. A shelter dog, as I've always done in the past. Best wishes to you on your journey
I am happy for you Daphna that you found peace and happiness in Portugal. Being alone with your thoughts can be an enlightening experience, if those thoughts are your friends. Because if they are not, they can be a torment and a source of anguish. Choose wisely and take care 🙏
I am originally from England and have been living in the US for years and I am planning on leaving the US for good in the next few months to move to Greece. I am very glad I’ve come across your video as I too am single and have my dog! I’m miserable in the US.
Your video popped into my feed and you’re absolutely right. Working on moving abroad again after 17 years of living abroad. May the best times be upon us all and remember that happiness is totally good for your skin. 🏖️ 😊🇨🇦🍀
Get a pet when you have something to take care of and that you’re responsible for and who loves you unconditionally it’s an amazing feeling! I actually always keep a pet because it forces me to get up in the morning. Have to feed them and take care of them it’s like having a child, but you don’t have to pay for all the expenses and commit to all, taking them everywhere in the car! I’ve learned over my life that you choose your thinking you choose your thoughts and the thoughts are what manifest in this world I guess maybe I just never choose to think lonely thought I think that’s a waste of time there’s so much to think about in this world
Your story of moving away at 50 is very inspiring for people like me who are introvert & feels they can survive by themselves. Being married & now kids are grown up & giving them freedom to live themselves & moving out fresh in 50's is bit scary but motivating too.keep up the goodness in you & never know one day we meet🙏
Excellent sharing. Daphna, you are not alone. Moved myself from toxic Sweden five years ago to Thailand and on a paradise island and I will never return. Completely amazing life and change is good. Life is a gift 🙏
Sometimes a flower needs a different soil with a different kind of nourishment. It's important to know what you want to find instead of running away from. To be alone without feeling lonely is a gift you deserve. To be happy is your natural state.
And you also have to accept that your first try may not work out. But keep trying. My first move at 50 didn’t turn out great, but no regrets because I learned a lot.
Very glad you posted this. I’ve been considering moving to Portugal for the last month. And yes, reduced stress improves autoimmune health. I’m delighted for you. Much respect.
I’ve been feeling like I don’t have a home and definitely considering going to a new country to expand my experience.. I lived in Korea for 8 years with an ex .. I loved it but years later I don’t feel super in America anymore. I love my county don’t misunderstand.. I served active duty for 10 years but now I want a new experience.. who knows perhaps I’ll meet new friends or the one who I can balance with .. at 50 it’s not over, it’s definitely exciting to think this way. Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts
Thank you Daphna. Listening to you makes me excited about moving to a new country. I’m visiting Portugal for the first time in September and I can’t wait 😊
I think the most important thing is finding meaning in life like a job, volunteering or maybe staying with family, maybe not a beautiful landscape which is fine for a short while. I have an autoimmune disease also so your staying in healthy place is always important I noticed. Good luck with your stay
Thank you for sharing your perspective. You make a great point about finding meaning and purpose in life. I find meaning through this YT chanel. Wishing you the best
Exactly. The family unit and extended family is an evolutionary creation because it WORKS. We need community and shared values. Being a foreigner in another culture is extremely painful. I am amazed at the denial shown on this thread. People are moving abroad but immediately finding the expat communities, so they are proving my point. The fact is I feel myself around French people who enjoy chatting about books and politics, and I feel odd around everybody else... I'm not saying it's good or bad, I just don't understand people who think they will not feel brutally lonely in an alien culture. It's about so much more than moving somewhere new. Brits living in St Emilion say it's hard to make friends. They make friends with other Brits, and then it's superficial. Deep ties are forged over a lifetime.
@@francefradetjardineslacora8114 so true, I think visiting Portugal or Spain, the many places I love, is extremely relaxing for a peculiar reason that I do not have to be embraced or embarrassed by local politics, customs or culture. The fact that I do not have to understand the language is a temporary blessing because I can relax, focus on my and my family needs usually very touristy. This approach would be unworkable long term without a local language. As a example, while staying in Tenerife, I faced a petty incident but still an emergency, so I went to a local hospital, and I was told that I have to speak Spanish to be excepted (?) so I had not choice but to go to an English speaking clinic to get a paracetamol. Well here you go when in Rome do like Romans do great short-term indeed.
@@Ed-P-123 I moved to Spain and learned Spanish. Spanish nurses curse the English who don't speak a word of Spanish. I understand perfectly and speak enough to be able to write emails to my accountant, the tax people etc, deal with the town hall etc. People underestimate the feeling of powerlessness you have if you cannot understand and quiz something you are being told. I went native asap and I take the rough with the smooth. Another aspect of southern Europe that single women from northern Europe seem to ignore is that outside of the massive conurbations, sexism is alive and kicking. People have to be realistic and unless living in an expat ghetto is your bag (and sadly it is for many) you will be treated as an outsider if you don't master the lingo and accept that you will not be understood outside of major cities, you will be treated respectfully, but as an odd bod. After a while, for a person living alone, this is exhausting. We all need to feel part of something sometimes. My observation.
Dear Daphna,enjoy your invigorated life,with less stress and good health. We never know how or when love can find us,but it can! Best wishes from outback Australia.😊
I moved to Spain 15 years ago from the USA. The USA was just getting too dangerous. Spain is so safe, the people are friendly and the Mediterranean diet has improved my health. I'm alone, but not lonely. I encourage anyone to move to the place where they are treated best. Good luck to everyone.
I moved to Spain one year ago (51 years old) - my whole health has improved too (depression, bladder problems, anxiety etc etc)☀️🇪🇸❤️
I’m in the middle of organizing a move from the USA to Spain. I’m 50 years old and will move by myself. I can’t wait to be living back in Europe!
@br0k3ndad I’m also done with the US! It’s not the Democrats or president XZ. It’s since ever the US system what is bad.
@@MissRed92837 If you think is the Democrats, then Spain is the wrong place to go. How about Hungary or Russia?
My husband and I moved to Spain also in 2021. We moved from Canada, which we have no plan of returning to. We are happy here. The warmth of the climate and the people is a huge factor in making us feel happy and content here.
I have lived alone for last 20 yrs because I refuse to waste time with superficial friends who wont be there if I hit hard times.
Right!!!
That's exactly what happened to me in the last 15 years I'm tired of superficial friends and family...🎭
I’m real, and always interested in meeting real people and hopefully developing friendships with them. I live in central CT, so if you are near by don’t be afraid to get in touch. That goes for anyone who comes across this text. Btw, I’m not lonely nor do I need anything, I actually do pretty well for myself, I just like to help and learn from people, specially if they are good people.
Finally, someone who also can identify the reason why trying to make friends is worthless.
It’s very difficult to meet high value friends or male partners. I’d rather be alone than hang out with fake friends, two faced friends or mindless folk’s that that go along to get along to the point of damaging their own health!
I moved to Portugal as a single person six years ago at the age of 62. I understand the feeling of being alone in a new country. That said, I am very happy to live here. It is a relaxed, safe and lovely country. The people are lovely too.
Thank you for sharing your story and inspiring other people. Portugal is truly a special place
How about when the retirees get much older and need help. Is getting live in help or some kind of help affordable? I was thinking of Portugal, but leaning towards the Philippines because affording a nurse or live in help in the leader years is affordable there.
Portugal seems lovely but I am worried about the humidity for my asthma, so I think Spain might be a better place for me.
Two countries in the same peminsula, same climate d@@rulaj1 !!!
That's what I'm going to do this year! I am moving to Serbia from New York in the age of 61⁉️😂
Sometimes it’s not just the place you choose to live in, but mostly the toxic people you choose to get rid of 🤷🏻♀️
100%
So TRUE!!!
I left Germany 30 years ago for Thailand and never looked back.
All my bothering allergies and other health issues like chronic back pain vanished nearly over night, and I am now in my mid 70s healthier than in my previous life. What helped me most to overcome hardships on the way was the absence of doubt about taking that leap (simmering deep inside me since decades).
I adopted a new born child 27 years ago. I live with her, her boyfriend and her mother as well as our three beloved dogs together in a large house. After retiring from work at a prestigious
university 2 years ago, I now have all time at hand I wish for my hobbies: writing, cooking and baking, playing with the dogs, moderate sports like cycling etc. (while the others are out for work) and in the evening and weekend, there is family life as well, a good balance.
My advice for all doubters:
Do a lot of research before you go without coming back.
Start maybe with an extended vacation or a sabbatical. Most
important is the proper philosophy of life: nothing is granted, nothing is forever. Embrace change, don't
fear it. Good luck.
Congratulations to you Daphna andThomas on your move to Portugal, Thailand and what a great life you both have created for yourselfs. I moved from east coast of US to Honolulu about 10 years ago. I love my life here…I swim in the mornings, play pickle balls and have a community garden. Portugal and Thailand seems to me that would be much easier for me financially…I entertain the idea of moving again…it just seems that it would not be as easy at this time because I am 73 now. I do speak Portuguese because I lived in Brasil. And have visited Lisbon, unfortunately I was pick pocketed there….
Anyway…congratulations to you both. Thank you Daphna for your channel.🤗
Loved your life story! Thanks for sharing it! You’re giving has circled you back with Love 🥰
When traveling, take Jesus with you.
@@AnxinAi a particular trauma the haunting of which best to overcome, maybe go to Portugal and NOT get pick-pocketed ? idk... this is trauma time/healing time for many it seems. All the best 💖
Excellent!!!
I left the UK full time, 2014
I've lived up a mountain in Portugal, in a renovated, off grid, donkey stable for over 10 years, We have an acre of chestnut and fruit trees.
I have peace when I want and I have made good friends here.
I wouldnt go back. I've just received my UK pension at 66, I could never survive on it in the UK but here, with no heating to pay for (wood from land), no mortgage (cost €25,000 in 2009) and a free health service, I can flourish :)
Bonn, your life sounds amazing. I'm 55 and very stressed living in Northern England. Many like myself are in fear of what's happening here.. I just want to escape. I need Peace.. Good luck to you 🌻
That was the right call. The UK is too expensive. I have been living in London for the past 7 years, but it is just crazy expensive. To have a good life here you need to be a millionaire.
May i ask what you mean by living in fear from what is happening?
@@Daphna. I fear how dark the world is becoming, the ugliness, the violence, illegal trespassers into the country, a country & world out of control.. I could go on..
this is what i've been thinking for some time. the uk I love but the issues are too numerous and too deep. I live in a busy asian city now and save £1000 a month, but I crave the countryside, peace, my own land-mortgage free and fresh air. I only worry about making enough money. I suppose the obvious thing is to get sons kind of online work. ❤
I’m 56 years old and I just want peace ✌️
Amen! ❤🎉❤
U go Thailand 🇹🇭
go to Thailand , really . That was exactly my thought
Only God, Jesus can give you peace. That this world will never be able to give you. I suggest that you start reading the Bible. Proverbs for the start. God bless you. He will not give you just peace but also love and joy ♥️🙏🏻♥️
I’m right there with you!
I have lived alone since 1976. When I went to a divorce I am now 79 years old! The only time I ever felt lonely was when I was married, I guess because I was always expecting that person to show up to do things with, and he would be working late or have other commitments, and I would spend a lot of time alone at night! I really felt lonely since my divorce I can actually say I have never ever felt lonely. I actually enjoy being alone more than I do spending time with people! I find so many people create so much drama in their life it’s exhausting, my highest value is learning so when I’m alone, I can spend time learning about whatever I want to learn and never ever miss the company of people! It’s sad that so many people feel lonely these days. I am so blessed and thankful that I enjoy spending time alone more than I deal with other people! If I ever want the company of people all I have to do is pick up the phone or go visit a shop and I easily connect with other people! Congratulations on the decisions that you made you are a beautiful woman and I’m really happy for you and the life that you’ve created. It looks really beautiful.
I relate to your time of being married, but feeling alone. I, too, have had 22 years of this. Once my 15 year old starts college, I will be making my decision for change.
@@SoniaTolson I`m just i your shoes!!! Waiting.... 28 years of marriage, one year left for my youngest one to move to Sweeden. My oldest is allready living there. Mayby it`s my time soon to be ME!!!!
most of the human race is living an al everyone is rushing to be a part of the money richness i couldnt care less about fake humans who are chasing money and fame i spent over fifty years in masonic australia when it was a good place in the 60 70 80 90 2021 i left came to cyprus where i was born just love life and music and being free from the world controll
I share your sentiment. But the society is not designed for independence. How do you assemble IKEA furniture which requires two pairs of hands? Who looks after you when you are sick? Who backs you up and fights on your behalf when society throws you under the bus? Who watches your back in danger? Single people die needlessly from preventable deaths. Until we get nimble and smart robots 🤖, "independence" is little more than glossed-over banishment from society. I know, I've been "independent" forever.
But wait, there's more to it: man is not meant to live for himself but for his ideals. Therefore your isolation also represents a moral loss. It gives free reign and it hands over the control over the society to the enemies of everything that's good, true, and beautiful. With the results too familiar from daily news.
I have written a long and carefully thought-out response - only for TH-cam to discard it insidiously. What if my response could change your (or somebody else's) life? We'll never find out. *Because TH-cam* and "the land of the free" 🇺🇲🦅🗽🤠. They are out to protect you and everyone else in the world from ever exercising any doubt.
I moved to France 7 years ago when I retired. I've been divorced for 20 years, so I live alone in a beautiful apt. I started joining expat groups almost as soon as I got here: we play golf, go to dinner, go to local jazz clubs, meet for coffee 3 or 4 times a week, and take trips together. After I stopped eating an American diet I lost 85 pounds. I sold my car during covid, so I walk everywhere now, which I really enjoy. I live 10 minutes from the bus station, 15 min from the train station and 20 mins from the center of town. Public transportation is cheap and excellent. I'm quite happy here. Life is good. **EDITED** several people have asked me why join expat groups. The reason is French bureaucracy can be daunting at times, but normally there are other expats who have been down this road before. They can be invaluable resources when first arriving.
That’s wonderful. So inspirational. What motivated you to move?
@@lc7169 I went to college in France when I got of the Navy in 1972. I stayed for 2 years. I promised myself I'd return when I was ready to retire, and that's exactly what I did.
Inspiration! Tnx for sharing
@@Daphna.
Best video ever !!!!
Watching from Espana!
Yo soy en Barcelona
What documents do you need to apply for for a longer than 90 days in France ? Could you please share ?
I learned from my traveling friends that, the more people and places you visit, the more you realize that your body is your home and the world is your city
I Love this ❤ Home is where your heart is...
So TRUE!👍🏻👍🏻🌈🍀
beautiful words: the world is your city... ispirational
amen to that
Your body is the temple of God! I agree that one should treat it like that and like a beautiful home! I also agree that travelling around meeting others is so wonderful! I would love to do that and teach the Gospel of Christ to others! God bless you!! Thank you for sharing!! 🙏💖💖
I moved to a country I have never been in my late fifties ,it was such a blessing and I met my husband. He is the most wonderful human being.
So very happy for you both 😊
When you run out of options, any option that comes along is the most wonderful. Just like when you're starving any food is great
@@kokoyarogo troll somewhere else
@@Janevelyn "troll" for 'truth'? Your poor choice of words is forgiveable this time
@@kokoyaro , God bless me and my husband is no reject. I always said, if any man is like him there will be no divorce.
I'm a Mexican 45 years old woman who went alone to India and now going to Nepal. Still trying to find my place in the world. Right now I believe it is a blessing that I don't have a partner and I didn't have children, that is why I'm free to go where ever I want
Nepal is amazing. Enjoy
@@anonfornow359 it really is. Thanks
Just be careful,
Go to Sikkim if you have the chance. After that come to Portugal, and Morocco.
A lot to be said about not having kids. Congrats.
My mother and I are preparing to leave the UK forever, later this year. I am 54 and my mother is 84. I am terrifically excited, and very glad to see your video.
Both of you are so brave. But I had met some in Taiwan. So you can do it. Wishing all the best for you.
I hope the move goes very well for both of you. ❤
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@@Universaltruth99-m5s Thank you for your kindness!
@@mharryvan5324 That is kind, thank you!
My experience traveling to another country is that I become free. I am free of the social expectations of my country. I feel a deeper connection with others because I don't concern myself with social protocol. I am me, intrinsically worthy, not having to prove anything. And wow, that feels so good!
So true. Well said. I think the expats are a separate type of a race, in it's own right. The longer you have been an expat- the harder it is to fit back into your original culture afterwards.
“Only those who will risk going too far can possibly find out how far one can go.”
― T.S. Eliot
❤
Oh wow that’s a saying I’m going to keep! Thank you!
"Two choices:
Always take the extreme"
- John Ridgway, Atlantic Rower.
Such an appropriate quote! Thanks 🙏🏼
I moved to Portugal by myself 10 months ago. I am very happy, I value the time with myself, I am peaceful and do whatever feels right for me. It’s wonderful to know that “I can”
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How to do find a place to live there?
The worst thing is that people who subverted their countries like the USA then move to Europe and then the price of apartments at home rises. Portugal is a beautiful country, please leave your stupid Biden, Democrat, LGBT opinions to yourself. We don't want America in Europe.
Impressive. How did you get a visa to stay in another country?
no drama is key
Hi, I am 80 now moved to Igalo, Montenegro 5 years ago. I purchased and designed an apartment, great people, food, scenery Montenegro in 2018-19. Immigration easier to move here
I know exactly what you mean. This is why I look and feel more than 20 years younger. I always find out what makes me happy. I love peaceful and safe and caring of the people. My family lives in Varna, Bulgaria. I love it here. Ciao
Being alone is the best thing you can do for yourself. Your time, your choice, your way, whatever you want. You can always still enjoy time with others, but when you want to, on your own terms.
I just moved to Spain, on my own, and I am 56! I believe in that quote about the universe helping you along the way!
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I am your age, do you work there or how do you live?
The universe is inanimate matter
Fortune favors the brave.
Fortune( a deity) , universe (who knows what that is?) or maybe, just maybe - it is God the Creator of all, who helps?
I’m an American and I moved to Thailand in 2012, when I was 48 years old. I had no expectations but in hindsight it was the best decision I ever made. Affordable housing, delicious inexpensive food, incredible natural beauty, friendly people, interesting culture and a language that has been challenging for my brain but very satisfying. I now enjoy a home in the city of Lamphun, near Chiang Mai, as well as a home in my girlfriend’s (of 5 years) village in the province of Mae Hong Son. By the way, I’m not rich but this life unfolded for me because I was open, willing and receptive to change and seized opportunities as they presented. I can relate totally to this video!
I concur. Been living in Thailand 18 years, visiting since the 90s. While much has changed, the pace of change is slower and the natural world is closer to daily existence, primary of which is THE SUN, the golden , brilliant , warm, broiling, soothing, luminous, radiant, healing and life- giving and abundant sun, with the agricultural plenty that it entails. And, according to Statista, Chiang Mai has the second most vegan/ vegetarian options per capita of any city but Phuket. I can attest to that claim for Chiang Mai.
@@jimmurphy3864 Every epithet you have bestowed upon the Sun is true. I write it as a reformed heliophobe. Ireland has given me gratuitously painful lessons in solar deficit.
We welcome friendly people from everywhere to settle down here. Best regards.
Living near Jomtien ( Chonburi ) I emigrated from the UK & it’s the best decision I’ve ever made!
Very happy in my Thai country village in the NE of Thailand. Have been living in Thailand on and off for 30 years and I met my Thai wife about 17 years ago and over the last 15 years we had been slowly building and improving our Thai village house. Now its ready for retirement and i will permanently over there in the next year, even though last 3 years i have been semi retired spending 6 months every year there.
What a nice and beautiful woman, I took a Solo trip to Azore Islands and it was life changing
I met so many people and felt so free, I’m 60 thinking about changing my life too!
So true
Visited San Miguel, Acores a few weeks ago. It was beautiful and a true breath of fresh air. Have spent time on Mainland Portugal, it's just not the same except perhaps towards the South Coast, Algarve area.
5 years ago, at 67, I left South Africa (alone with my rescue dog and 3 suitcaaes). It's been challenging and fulfilling at the same time. Gave up LOTS but gained so much as a reward. 😊
Where did you go? A curious South African hoping to spread my wings too. Thanks 🙏🏾
@@dabeezkneez8716 to Panama!
Well done!!!
@@dabeezkneez8716You might be interested to see Cindy Vine Portugal ch - solo woman, 63 y from South Africa.....?
Congrats. Hope you and doggy are doing well.
I moved to Malta from GB in 2019, have never been back and don't intend to.
I came for work which ended with Covid, and I came to live with a friend who
died 7 months ago. I have a small business here now. (I shall be 70 this year.)
I miss my friend but I do not miss England!
Phenomenal video Daphna... I'm a 66 year old woman in search for a change. I am a resident of the United States in California. And I truly believe where you live affects your health. Like the food industry in the United States. Most of it is banned in other countries. That says a lot. I care about my health and well being. It's sad not feeling safe in your own country. I'm striving for the same. Thank you❤
I’m an Australian and 69 and also looking to move overseas by myself as well. I know it would take a lot of courage and I’m not sure if I can muster the energy and the will as I am starting to slow down with age but I just may be able to do it. I’m hoping anyway 🤗🥰
Or find a home with garden to grow own food....
@@debrajorgensen2730allthough Australia must be so beautiful isn't it?
Summerfield Florida is wonderful.
Don't come here if your blue.
I live in CA too. Tired of high prices & crime.
Having left the UK to move to Italy over 20 years ago, I can confirm you are right. This is not for everybody. If you are running away from problems they will follow you. Being open, getting outside the comfort zone and taking a risk eventually brings rewards but you have to integrate and that means speak the language. You look happy so may it continue.
Absolutely. Completely agree having moved to Portugal a couple of decades ago. The one thing that you should, if anything, avoid doing is getting too chummy with "expat communities" because that isn't a great start. Certainly not to integrating, becoming part of your new country and fully benefitting from the many delights of being truly a part of the community and society in which you live. And learning the language - besides being common sense - is just a basic and fundamental matter of respect for those whose country you live in.
For anybody thinking about doing this sort of thing, be very cautious with the whole "expat" thing. Please don't get attached to that way of thinking. "Expats" are people that are here today and gone tomorrow. Those that are "long term expats" are, I can almost guarantee you, are culturally isolated and definitely not the sort of people that the vast majority of natives of that country want as neighbours. Because, fundamentally, they're ignorant and continue to be so. Some of these people think that they "bring money and benefit the locals" but, honestly, they don't really benefit anybody. Least of all the locals.
The name of the game is integration. And being an immigrant is a badge you should wear proudly. It means that you care enough about where you live that you really want to be a part of it. And contribute as much to it as you take from it. And that, friends, begins with language, being respectful and being polite.
The best part comes when you forget you're a foreigner and your neighbours do, too. 'Cos it never really crosses anybody's mind. Being an "expat" you're almost saying that you want to stay "foreign" forever. And that isn't the smartest ambition to foster.
Very nice video! Congrats! I really liked it! I moved from Denmark to northern Greenland for 5 years when I was 15 years old. From there to Norway. Studied there and became a university professor in tropical ecology. Got married and had two kids but the wife died from cancer. Moved around with the kids or, when they were small, being a single dad in Norway. Then 20 years ago my kids were big and I moved to Africa. I was a university professor there teaching about wildlife, and sometimes I was in Norway to follow up with my kids there. Got married again, but after a few months, my new wife died in a car crash. We had a small kid together. Then my wife's mother died, and I adopted my late wife's sister. So now I have two small kids, 8 and 9 years old. They go to a nice private school but fortunately, they are home every day after school, and their aunt is there to help out. So is my Tanzanian grandmother-in-law. All is well with my kids in Norway and my kids in Tanzania. They are all doing very nicely in their lives. Now I have my Shamba (rural house with a farm) in Africa with family and friends around. I'm 69 years old now. So I am a lot older than you! It still worked out.
What a Life, what a grat heart!
I think you should write a book!
I am 63, sold the farm and moved to Spain from New York. I am very happy and bridged the gap between my European roots and the United Sates where I grew up. I am so happy and calm. America is a just a foggy memory for me. Daphna, if you need someone to have a glass of wine with, reach out. I am only a 45-minute flight away. Fortune favors the bold!
I'm glad i found your comment, im from Bergen County NJ I've been planning to move to Spain for a long time and im still not sure if it's a good idea and thanks to your comment a man from my land i decided that i want to do it.thank you
@@EwainParadisemove to northern Spain,not to hot,and it’s cheaper
Are you looking for the ride?
You don't waste any time, dude. Way to go!
Hi Ewa I am in Bergen-canty in New Jersey also the last few years, I have more from New York Manhattan it was to be there for single woman and I am moving this year to Serbia what a wonderful people and country! And so affordable especially with American 62-SS!😂 Spain is quite expensive now! like every country in the EU‼️
I know what you mean about scrolling endlessly through media! I have been alone for 20 years but I reduce stress and anxiety by playing guitar, trekking in the Lake District (UK), singing (used to perform at resorts and clubs) and keeping healthy with a low carb diet (very important). I hope you enjoy your new life - that really was a brave move and I wish you all the best!
thanks for these nice words❤️
Welcome to my country! I lived in several countries and returned to Portugal after 25 years. It's always difficult to move to another culture, new burocracy, new laws, different ways of living... so the first year is always the most difficult. But you will fall in love for Portugal! All the luck and all the happiness!
@nunop6606 gosh I wish I had the guts to make a move like that, the 180 degree different everything is what scares me I guess, I was thinking of moving to the Villages in Florida,55+ community, very popular, they call it the kindness culture, honestly, thats all I'm looking for, safety, friendly and of course affordable, but being alone to make this decision is what's holding me back the most from making any decision
Olá, Nuno. Bem dito!
Sou um britânico (galês) no Alentejo. Eu sei que para muitos portugueses há problemas com o custo de alojamento e vida em Lisboa, etc., mas para quem tem dinheiro suficiente (mas não tanto ca em Portugal em zonas como ca no Alentejo ... longe de Comporta e aquelas casas construídos para estrangeiros ricos) para viver em conforto, sem preocupações, o país é um espectáculo. E para crianças, sem dúvida, é um país mais saudável que o Reino Unido, por exemplo. Para mim não foi difícil integrar na comunidade deste município rural onde quase ninguém fala a lingua inglesa. E onde não quero falar inglês com ninguém.
A minha mulher é uma portuguesa mas hoje em dia ela percebe Portugal mais como eu, um estrangeiro. Quer dizer que ela veja mais valor ca a da mais valorização aos fortes deste país do que no passado. E especialmente no interior do país, como Alentejo ou Beiro Alto, Beiro Baixa, Trás-os-Montes, Minho, etcetera e as zonas que são mais "escondidas" mas ainda "fundamental" ao carácter deste país que a maioria de estrangeiros conhecem.
Não seria possível para mim voltar ao Reino Unido e não posso imaginar fazer isso. E quando estou a dizer "Sou um britânico", estou a mentir. Hoje em dia sou mais português do que britânico. Mas... talvez... sem queixar tanto.... 😀... porque obviamente estou aprender ainda o arte de ser português! 🤣
The fact that your psoriasis is almost completely gone says volumes. Someone being alone does not mean they are lonely. Keep your chin up 😊...
The worst thing that you can do is to tell anyone that you are lonely, loneliness is a state of mind. Change your mind.
Wow. Clicked on this video and saw your comment… resonated with me ❤
I wonder if the resonance of the quartz sand and clean air and sun helps …. happiness for ❤️🩹 psoriasis 🙏
Sun and heat helps skin disorders.
@@CarlosAlberto-ii1li ure right
Hello Dapha, I am Portuguese but lived in UK for many years. My husband and I moved to the Algarve (Portimão) in 2019 as we wanted to enjoy a calmer happier life. We had many plans together but unfortunately the rug was pulled under our feet and two became one ( my husband became ill and passed away in 2022). So, I am concentrating on moving forward alone and find new dreams alone but not feeling lonely. I appreciate your words of feeling happy, calm and centred in fact i call it SERENITY. You seem a good person, in case you live nearby and want to go for a coffee it would be great, PS. I am not a stalker nor a weirdo. Keep well
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Hi laure? Im Swiss and moved to Portimão in 2022. would love to have coffee with you for a chat. That would be lovely.
Hi Laurinda, good that your husband was able to enjoy part of the new life with you in Portimao. Being without your anchor (my husband died last year) is very difficult. But you are in a beautiful place now & remember your dear husband is happy for you. ❤
My health has struggled so much over the years from the stress and hardships of my daily life. People underestimate how the body responds to stress, anxiety, and mental health. I’m so glad you found your happy place. I hope more people can learn from you and find their happy places. Thanks for sharing your story.
So true.. Through the stresses over the last few years, my thyroid went topsy turvy, and now I have graves disease which comes and goes. I'm hoping to move away from London in the not too distant future. I'm 62 working 4 days a week and this place is definitely not good for your wellbeing.
@@fraudebs8786neither is New York. It’s very stressful to live.
Such an important point. You have to find the life that works for you, and with that, your stress comes down. I love solitude combined with arms length human contact ; thats not for everyone, but thats how I prefer things.
it's very much underestimated
My life and health are deteriorating due to stress and unhappiness.. I'm struggling and feel very trapped. Need a miracle.. have been asking the creator to help me.. he will. Good luck I envy you in a good way ❤
Hi...Good for you...I moved to Spain as single person in my 50's too and have never looked back
Thinking of doing the same…leave California for pyranees on the French side.
We are in valencia - it’s a great life here
Valencia is too hot and too crowded. Big city. Much better and much more beautiful COSTA BRAVA.
@@user-zt8pb6jn9r good, stay away
"When I was in my twenties, I was in survival mode". Whoo, that resonates with me. Lovely video, I enjoyed it very much. x
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I also live in Portugal, on the Silver Coast. My husband and I moved 2.5 years ago. We now have a dog and so many friends from all over the world! Being bold about starting a new online business at 68 years young. 🥰 It is much more peaceful here than in the US.
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Do you know any Portuguese or are you just using the country as a tool ?
@geertstroy What a bitter, nasty comment. People have been "mobile" for millennia. Countries like the U.S., Canada, the U.K., Australia, France, etc., have had to deal with immigrants for centuries now.
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North America has millions of Portuguese…including radio stations,tv stations in Portuguese,huge communities,some towns are built by Portuguese…how many people from North America lives in Portugal?
Im a woman in my Mid sixties young , freelance illustrator, my main revenus though are tied to living in France
that i will loose if i live abroad ....
The new 'American Dream' is to escape America. I plan on doing that when i retire in about 5 years. Portugal is looking really good to me right now. I appreciate your videos of Portugal and your stories. They are very helpful to me.
Thank you for sharing. Portugal is indeed a wonderful place . I'm glad my videos have been helpful in your decision-making process
@@Daphna. I've been to Porto twice in one year and it may be where we think of making a new home. It's beautiful and the people are so kind, so creative. I love the art scene there as well.
The American Empire is dying. Crime, taxes, inflation, homelessness, traffic and media propaganda are destroying America.
Salaries 750 euros in Portugal, rent 900 euros+ bills! Boring,a lot of resentment etc.. impossible to make Portuguese friends! To much resentment!
Portugal is becoming the new America😂😂😂
Well done Daphna; I moved from England to Adelaide, South Australia in 1998 at the age of 54. I have never regretted it. Like you it has been the happiest time of my life.
Thank you so much for this Daphna. I moved to the South ofFrance from UK six years ago just before Brexit took away freedom of movement rights. The reason I did it was to work with someone on a project that required us to be together. I had no intention of staying, but many things happened that delayed my return - including Covid and other personal issues. In the end though I just asked myself, do I actually want to return? Do I need to? Like you I found the language and bureaucracy difficult here, and it was just difficult in all sorts of ways adjusting to a new place. But things settled down, and I now realise I am happier and healthier. And you articulated my own feelings so well. Before I used to go to the Mediterranean and I was always concious that I had to return to my stressful life in the UK. Now I don't have to.
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You’re not a tree….you can move🤣love that! It is true that if you don’t step out you won’t go anywhere. For me..the Lord guides my steps and energizes and protects my life. He gives me the strength and courage to move forward. And I am so blessed that He planted me here in a small town in Western Montana. At 75 I am the happiest I’ve ever been. All my friends were amazed I moved out of California to this place but I knew I had to do it to save my life. 🦋
Well, I got the notification that you replied with an incomplete text, clicked to open it and it's been deleted apparently. Anyway, thanks, at least I got the name of your town. I'll look into that area as an option, again thank you for getting back with me!
Update: Wow! Just looked it up and it was on my list to check out. Reason being, a true mountain man and woodsman, Gary Edinger who wrote the book about his life, "Will to Live: A Saga of Survival" mentioned his favorite place to hunt and explore is the Bitterroot Mtns because they are so wild and the town you live in is the one he mentioned he frequented. I'm excited to explore this option! God bless!
What a beautiful video, it came just in time. I am 39 and preparing to move abroad alone aswell and it is scary. I also feel like difficult life circumstances have taken away the majority of my youth so it is very important to me now to go after my dreams. Thank you so much for the encouragement! ❤❤❤
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Costa Vicentina, Setúbal, Silver Coast, Madeira and Algarve are incredible regions to live by the sea in Portugal but if you are a Nature lover you will love Minho/ Gerês region and nearby you have Galicia in Spain that is a very beautiful region to live in Europe too. All of them are peaceful too but getting more and more expensive because more and more people are discovering them and want to settle there. My advise is to buy a villa nearby the sea and a van and go everywhere explore the south and north of Portugal and Europe, it’s the best way to live when you are getting older...your never bored, lots of adventures and experiences and there are lots of parking spots for your van in Portugal, Spain, France, Italy, etc...the thing is in Portugal you will live longer and healthier because due to the Atlantic Ocean our fish and seafood get you the best nutrients, it’s richer the best seafood and fish in the world...nothing beats grilled fish or seafood looking at the ocean expecting an epic sunset👍🏻🤗
Bravo! I am moving to Italy in my 40s and I understand what you mean of being alone but still happy. I wish you the best in your new adventure. Blessings to you in your new life!🎉❤
Where in Italy are you moving to?
I always say The universe loves fearlessness. That's why my life is amazing. I'm also like a shark - if I stop moving, I die. I ADORE change.
I love your mindset! 😄
Love that!👌🥰🥳
I resonate so much with your thoughts. I find it amazing that I come across this video and this discussion, at this moment in my life. Manifest 🙏
Love this!!
The universe in inanimate matter
That’s wonderful. I’m in Montreal, it gets very cold in winter and I’m looking at leaving now, I just turned 60. I believe that moving will improve my life too. I will focus on finding my new home.
I just moved to Phoenix, Arizona after a couple of years in Florida, I just took the leap of faith and did it. I been single for three years and it's been a blessing because it's bought so much healing to my well being, new insight on life. I have a new career and, travel when the moment hits me. I am alone but not lonely. I have no children, feeling good about myself and not rushing into companionship. Thank you for sharing your thoughts.
thank you for being here ❤️ ❤️
@@Daphna. you're welcome, hope to continue to chat with you .
The times I feel the most alive are definitely the times I take a risk / or stretch myself - in a wide arc. IE moving to Germany from New Zealand ten yrs ago. Late 40s now. Loved your video. Thank you.
I’m 51 and moving out of California alone in two and a half months. I’m fearing the disconnect from my kids and mom. I’ve been asking God for some reassurance bc the devil is popping in my head at night telling me, I won’t have enough money and I’m going to be lonely. I feel like you are my reassurance today. I’m not a tree. I just heard that. Thank you for sharing! I’m ready. And I know God will have me, He has always!!❤️🙏🏻🇺🇸
You have Always had Enough and Always will have and be Enough! God will Provide! Be brave! Wishing you all the Best!
You can do this!! Just keep saying: all is well, I can do this, I am safe!
Bye, bye!
Don't be afraid , I am 63 and I will be moving to the Dominican Republic soon. I had many doubts also and was fearing being away from my kids and grandchildren, I know it's the right decision for me. Abrazos
@@weekendatbernies2265 Thank you for taking the time to respond and give me reassurance. I will be brave. Thank you! Blessings.
@@devonbrennan6125 Bye bye! That made me giggle. A good friend moved away a couple of years ago. Of course I was sad although I was more excited for her. I can feel the excitement from other people when I share my news with them. It feels good and empowering. Thank you!!
Well described. My experience after multiple countries is that it takes a year to build the start of a new social circle and it will depend on your own initiatives. The people around you in your new country intend well but all have already full lives.
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I just found your channel and this message resonated with me. I'm 46 and making a similar transition in life. I sold my business and bought a property in rural Brazil to start a new life there with my wife. Everyone thinks I'm crazy, but I feel in my core it will be the best decision I will ever make.
Following your heart is always a good idea
What state and close to what city ? Any recommendation of a yt on BZ ? I'm following one, a Swedish guy that's in Rio Grande Do Sul but looking for more. Thanks !
@@MarinaLaroche I bought a place in SP state 2h outside of Sao Paulo in the city of Miracatu. Our place is called Estancia Preguica. You should be able to find it online. I like the town, just a simple place.
@@Thaxildds WOW ! It's an amazing stunning piece of paradise !!!!!! How did you discover it ?
@@MarinaLaroche There are many online real estate listings available. It took a year to find this place. We had the help of my wife's family who visited many sites before we bought.
Hi Daphna. I really appreciate this share. I am going to move to the island of Crete before the end of this year. I will be moving alone without knowing anyone. Luckily, as an artist, I found a gallery on the island interested in my work. I am moving because unless I win the lotto or create a highly successful business, I will have to work until I drop dead if I continue to live in U.S.A. I recently was able to get my Greek citizenship which should make things a little easier. And, I still have to brush up heavily on being conversational in the language. I don't think I'll miss California. I used to live in France years ago when I was first married, and I really prefer the European lifestyle. Being Greek, I think getting back to my roots is going to be the right move. And, by the way, I'm 67... still in great shape and live a healthy lifestyle. I'm certain that living on Crete will only help to embellish my life. And, if you're ever in Crete, give me a shout! Cheers, George 😉
@@tomstarros3189 efaristo poli!
Why exactly Crete among hundreds Greek islands?? :)
We lost moved to Crete, but chose Spain instead. Enjoy your life there, it’s a beautiful island
So happy for you! I’m feeling stressed and it’s time for a big change for me. Love to hear how happy and fulfilled you are!
Don't be afraid to take that leap girl! You got this! 💪✨
Turning 50 this year (married with kids), I can imagine that being by yourself after 50 could be an adventure with its own challenges. I am glad that I found your channel. Thank you for sharing your insights.
Thank you for sharing and for your kind words🙏
I think that Portugal has a psychotherapeutic effect. It is warm and flourishing, but there is hidden sadness. Ruins of church, reminding about an earthquake, cold ocean, poor outskirts, not renovated houses. But at the same time a great power of life, that helps to cope with problems in past and restore inner strength.
I couldn't agree more with your observations. I moved to China when I was 53. I am now 60, living and working in South Korea and loving it. I have now been abroad for 7 years and have travelled to over 65 new countries during that period. The world is awesome and the universe will help you if you dare to take that first step towards your dream. You''ll see - it's amazing.
Thank you for sharing and for being here ❤️ I loved reading your story
The Universe has already started helping me with having bumped into your video! Will move to Austria 2 weeks from now, I'm 50, divorced, and though got a number of friends there, I will be on my own, so am still terrified. But loving it as well. Thanks so much for this encouraging content.
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I moved from Holland to canary islands alone in my fifties! Never going back! Location is so important, beautifull nature, peace off mind..❤
It is so true that happiness is about location. I've lived all over the world and have found happiness in the most diverse locations that weren't glamorous. It is about doing what you love and appreciating all that you have got.
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I retired to Portugal in 2018, I no longer have any living family members
and moving here was one of the best things I've done in my life.
However, I think anyone considering such a move needs to truly
understand who they are as a person in general, what excites them or
annoys them, how they react to the unknown and have they
done enough appropriate research about where they want to go
etc etc etc. Have met too many people who basically saw such
a perm move in terms of it being a 'perm holiday' and not
concentrating enough on the practicalities of everyday issues
they would face in a new country.
good advice, ure a wise person
@@micheladerry5681 thank you :) After 73 years one hopes a little wisdom has come
from life eh :)
Im now 63 and free. I don’t feel well in Germany and want to move to another land. Thank you for your inspiration ❤
Es gibt viele Deutsche hier in Spanien wo ich lebe ☀️👍🏻🇪🇸
go go!
Yes Get out Of Germany . It has gone way to woke and the country has fallen to pieces .
Oh German people are everywhere. Merida, Yucatan! They have wonderful German restaurants and beer fest! I’d guess it must be auto industry!
Hallo Birgit, du heisst wie meine Mutter. :-) Ich bin 10 Jahre jünger als du und denke oft, dass ich- so verwurzelt ich in Deutschland bin, das Leben anderswo einfach entschleunigter sein könnte. Meine Eltern, Freunde und vor allem auch meine fast erwachsenen Söhne sind aber hier, und obwohl sie halb- Neuseeländer sind, möchten sie am Liebsten genau hier bleiben ( in Deutschland), .. deshalb schiebe ich meine Pläne auf. Mein Traum wäre ein Platz in Südfrankreich, in der Provence .. nahe des Meeres.lch bin gern für mich. Bin den ganzen Tag in einem sozialen Beruf komplett in Beziehungen und erfülle Bedürfnisse anderer, Vor allein sein eigentlich keine Angst, eher vor dem doch Heimweh bekommen l Dir alles Liebe auch.. Warum fühlst du dich nicht ( mehr) gut in Deutschland ?
You really inspire me. 🌷I moved abroad too and unfortunately no longer feel like I belong in my home country. I feel by far more peaceful now.
Moved to Mexico and lived on the Carribean , then South America. I was in my mid 50s. At 60 I was inspired to return to US to finish a Dream I have here. I needed the break, but it's not over. I also fell in Love with the States again. I took the best of both Worlds, and I'm signing a deal concerning my Dream now. This has given me my Third Wind. When I live on the Beautiful Sea again (I live on Lake Michigan now in a condo I own, so costs much lower for me) it will be even richer. I am free spirited and I am running with the horses!
I turned 55 in October and I retired from a 27 year career in the airline business. and moved to Thessaloniki, Greece . I’ve had similar experiences. I’m able to spend a lot of time with people because it’s a large city and people are friendly but I also have time to myself . I also go to the gym and walk a lot by the sea . I moved here by myself and I’m surprised that I’m not lonely and I’m very rarely bored.
Wow! You are Very courageous! Congratulations! 👍🏻🌈🍀
This video was on my recommended list and I'm happy I've watched it as it hits close to home. I'm 53, italian woman and I've lived in several countries in Europe and outside Europe ( Turkey, United Emirates), now back home to look after my elderly mother.
One day I'll be on my own and I'll move again. Not sure whether it's gonna be in Europe or not, but I wanna live by the sea and have a very simple life, with dogs and cats. I have no husband or kids by choice so I'm free to go anywhere.
I'm already trying to get info about a bunch of countries but knowing myself I know I'll just pack my stuff and go where life takes me, which might be a place I'm not planning to move to right now.
Life's full of surprises and I love that 😊
Same here...good luck❤
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The moment one commits oneself then providence moves too...This is the exact quote that inspired me to change my life too.....and I also moved abroad when i turned 50. Believe it or not I used to suffer from bad Psoriasis too. Thanks for inspiring me today.
Happy and calm! Congratulations. You’re amazing.
Bless you for your support! 🙏
Thank you, I’m 60 and starting to think about moving abroad. My children are grown and My life has always been in 1 place. Your video is very helpful.
I also completely changed my life at 50 and many times after that. Adventure is sometimes challenging yet, mostly, rewarding.
So brave of you to share your story in this ageist world. I left the Uk 32 years ago and have lived in Asia ever since bringing up two children here and will retire in Bali,a beautiful,peaceful healty place❤😊
been listening to this audio book and there is a sentence in there which goes like this "experience is the highest form of knowledge" and age is only a number! good on you!!
Those feelings come and go in waves of about 3 months at first but slowly lengthening each wave up to a year at a time so it makes sense that you are feeling this way at this time but be aware it will reverse in some months from now.
I have a friend with psoriasis....it always gets better in the sun.
I moved from England to Brittany in 2003 after my wife developed bipolar disorder and disillusion with our life in London. Sadly her condition got so bad we had to divorce.
Since then I live here alone. I have some friends but much of the time its just me and my dog.
I study, travel a bit, go to a restaurant once a week, visit the local bar. I have a motorbike, go clay shooting and fishing, bicycling, walking.
My stress levels have fallen right down, I no longer bite my nails 😊. Where I live is very rural, no obvious crime, its clean, well run....lots of culture and history.
And the Breton coast is world class.
ure a loner. I admire u
I live in Vietnam. It's just super easy to be here. I am from the US. I will never return to the US.
Wonderful vlog Daphna, thank you, A friend of mine, Geoff. had a young niece who suffered badly from psoriasis. Geoff had a Aloe Vera plant from which he took a leaf and applied the gel onto his niece's affected arm. The next morning, the psoriasis had all but disappeared from her arm. Aloe Vera is well known for it's magical properties and is fantastic for the skin making it shine and glow with health. Take care Luvly One and have a great life. xxx
Great! I loved this vídeo. It's so nice to see happy people, happy women in their 50s... I feel so proud of my country! Hope you keep posting and feeling well! I'm from Lisbon, in my 50s too. If you need something feel free to ask.
hello hello❤️❤️ and thank you 🙏
I was ripped away from my Country Greenland at a young age, we were sent to boarding schools in Europe - I do miss my roots .. I was immigrating to Canada, but then I found my wife and had to stay - Now 61, and a stroke later I still release my Music from the 80s and live through it today 🙂
Hi Daphna, I really enjoy your videos and witnessing your journey. I left Israel in my early 20s, I also always felt that I wanted to be somewhere else, even though I am very connected to my family and country. I have been living in New York for over 35 years and in the recent few years I have been feeling that life here is no longer a good fit for me and I am planning to move to Portugal with my family (husband, son and fur babies). The peace and slowness of life is exactly what my soul is craving at this stage of my life. Thank you for your wonderful videos באהבה
I hope you do move to Portugal, as a Portuguese I welcome you to our home here.
I'm planning on moving from the UK as soon as I can financially - purely based on the weather here!! 🙂 I really feel that the lack of sunlight is detrimental to health x
You're right the UK weather is bad. Since I moved from South Africa to the UK my health has deteriorated quite bably, apart from feeling completely miserable without the 🌞. It has been 5 miserable years of sadness and body pains, and the worst is I have no way to leave .
@@mireadossantos4610 so sorry to hear that, hope one day we both get to live in warmth and sunshine!
i like how you express your feeling and how you go about being happy
Well done to you for making the move on your own in your 50’s, brave move. I’m sure you will find true happiness. Best of luck!
Hi Daphna,
Have you travelled extensively within Portugal or did you just pick a destination and take a chance? I am thinking of living in Portugal for the winter, as UK is pretty depressing then. Do you have any areas you could recommend in Portugal? I work in IT and have an EU passport so can test the water with little impact working remotely. Thanks in advance for any advice!
I left Japan when I was 21. Now I'm 50 have been living in the US since then. I've been feeling the urge to leave again lately... just don't know where to move yet. Maybe it will happen when my youngest son is done with high school. Thinking about this makes me feel good and hopeful :)
This is about my 3rd or 4th video of you that i have seen in the past 6 months or so and you seem to be doing very well for yourself and credit to you young Lady.Im 51 this September myself and have worked in the Construction Industry for over 30 years and love turning around old properties from old Georgian/Victorian to new builds in my City.I've been to Portugal many times in a past relationship on 2 week holidays and fell in love with the place and made a decision then that Portugal will be where i lay my hat.Your move seems to have put you in a good place mentally physically and may be spiritually also which is great to see.I just want to touch on what you said about your own Country and how it feels these days and yes your right it has changed so so much in the past 10 years or so for me just doesnt feel the same anymore and i love my Country very very much BUT is it for me for the next 30 odd years no is the answer must be something in the water.As your single and i dont know why 🤔 and dont want to know either, how about getting yourself a little Pal a dog that will be the first thing on my list when i do get to Portugal that will give you a bit company and keep on your toes 😂.If you are thinking of getting a dog may i suggest a European Doberman best dog in the world they have a nickname as the velcro dog won't leave your side best friend you could ever ask for.Anyway thats it from me for tonight and i have just subscribed,see yeah take care enjoy the sun and the peace and quite Portugal gives you im very envious but I'm not far behind you now at this stage.
Remember this time wasted on yourself is never time wasted 👍.
Portugal will be where I lay my hat. Love that! Dog is on top of my list, for sure. A shelter dog, as I've always done in the past. Best wishes to you on your journey
I am happy for you Daphna that you found peace and happiness in Portugal. Being alone with your thoughts can be an enlightening experience, if those thoughts are your friends. Because if they are not, they can be a torment and a source of anguish. Choose wisely and take care 🙏
Very true. Someone once said to me, mind you don't think too much, it's dangerous.
What country did she leave ?
I am originally from England and have been living in the US for years and I am planning on leaving the US for good in the next few months to move to Greece.
I am very glad I’ve come across your video as I too am single and have my dog!
I’m miserable in the US.
Thank you for sharing everything you have! ❤😊
thanks for these kind words
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Your video popped into my feed and you’re absolutely right.
Working on moving abroad again after 17 years of living abroad.
May the best times be upon us all and remember that happiness is totally good for your skin. 🏖️ 😊🇨🇦🍀
I visited Portugal last year with the fam and it was amazing. Would recommend anyone stopping at Lisbon to attend open beach night clubs downtown 🎉
Get a pet when you have something to take care of and that you’re responsible for and who loves you unconditionally it’s an amazing feeling! I actually always keep a pet because it forces me to get up in the morning. Have to feed them and take care of them it’s like having a child, but you don’t have to pay for all the expenses and commit to all, taking them everywhere in the car! I’ve learned over my life that you choose your thinking you choose your thoughts and the thoughts are what manifest in this world I guess maybe I just never choose to think lonely thought I think that’s a waste of time there’s so much to think about in this world
Your story of moving away at 50 is very inspiring for people like me who are introvert & feels they can survive by themselves. Being married & now kids are grown up & giving them freedom to live themselves & moving out fresh in 50's is bit scary but motivating too.keep up the goodness in you & never know one day we meet🙏
Excellent sharing. Daphna, you are not alone. Moved myself from toxic Sweden five years ago to Thailand and on a paradise island and I will never return. Completely amazing life and change is good. Life is a gift 🙏
Sometimes a flower needs a different soil with a different kind of nourishment. It's important to know what you want to find instead of running away from. To be alone without feeling lonely is a gift you deserve. To be happy is your natural state.
And you also have to accept that your first try may not work out. But keep trying. My first move at 50 didn’t turn out great, but no regrets because I learned a lot.
Well done - such honesty
Bless you for your support 🙏
Very glad you posted this. I’ve been considering moving to Portugal for the last month. And yes, reduced stress improves autoimmune health. I’m delighted for you. Much respect.
Thank you so much!! I am 41, and about to move to another country. You don't know how much your words have helped me when I heard you❤
oh I'm so happy you got inspired ❤️❤️❤️
I’ve been feeling like I don’t have a home and definitely considering going to a new country to expand my experience.. I lived in Korea for 8 years with an ex .. I loved it but years later I don’t feel super in America anymore. I love my county don’t misunderstand.. I served active duty for 10 years but now I want a new experience.. who knows perhaps I’ll meet new friends or the one who I can balance with .. at 50 it’s not over, it’s definitely exciting to think this way. Thanks for sharing your experience and thoughts
At 50 its not over. That’s exactly it
Thank you Daphna. Listening to you makes me excited about moving to a new country. I’m visiting Portugal for the first time in September and I can’t wait 😊
You're going to have so much fun!
I think the most important thing is finding meaning in life like a job, volunteering or maybe staying with family, maybe not a beautiful landscape which is fine for a short while. I have an autoimmune disease also so your staying in healthy place is always important I noticed. Good luck with your stay
Thank you for sharing your perspective. You make a great point about finding meaning and purpose in life. I find meaning through this YT chanel. Wishing you the best
You are so right !
Exactly. The family unit and extended family is an evolutionary creation because it WORKS. We need community and shared values. Being a foreigner in another culture is extremely painful. I am amazed at the denial shown on this thread. People are moving abroad but immediately finding the expat communities, so they are proving my point. The fact is I feel myself around French people who enjoy chatting about books and politics, and I feel odd around everybody else... I'm not saying it's good or bad, I just don't understand people who think they will not feel brutally lonely in an alien culture. It's about so much more than moving somewhere new. Brits living in St Emilion say it's hard to make friends. They make friends with other Brits, and then it's superficial. Deep ties are forged over a lifetime.
@@francefradetjardineslacora8114 so true, I think visiting Portugal or Spain, the many places I love, is extremely relaxing for a peculiar reason that I do not have to be embraced or embarrassed by local politics, customs or culture. The fact that I do not have to understand the language is a temporary blessing because I can relax, focus on my and my family needs usually very touristy. This approach would be unworkable long term without a local language. As a example, while staying in Tenerife, I faced a petty incident but still an emergency, so I went to a local hospital, and I was told that I have to speak Spanish to be excepted (?) so I had not choice but to go to an English speaking clinic to get a paracetamol. Well here you go when in Rome do like Romans do great short-term indeed.
@@Ed-P-123 I moved to Spain and learned Spanish. Spanish nurses curse the English who don't speak a word of Spanish. I understand perfectly and speak enough to be able to write emails to my accountant, the tax people etc, deal with the town hall etc. People underestimate the feeling of powerlessness you have if you cannot understand and quiz something you are being told. I went native asap and I take the rough with the smooth.
Another aspect of southern Europe that single women from northern Europe seem to ignore is that outside of the massive conurbations, sexism is alive and kicking. People have to be realistic and unless living in an expat ghetto is your bag (and sadly it is for many) you will be treated as an outsider if you don't master the lingo and accept that you will not be understood outside of major cities, you will be treated respectfully, but as an odd bod. After a while, for a person living alone, this is exhausting. We all need to feel part of something sometimes. My observation.
Dear Daphna,enjoy your invigorated life,with less stress and good health.
We never know how or when love can find us,but it can!
Best wishes from outback Australia.😊
Just turned 47 weeks ago.Am humbled and impressed by your journey and growth.Greetings from Nairobi Kenya.
thanks for writing this and for being here ❤️ ❤️
Lonelyness was a lot more difficult in the past,but not now,thanks to the internet!