Doctors Explain 7 SIMPLE ways to INCREASE her pleasure feat. Dr. Kelly Casperson
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Suffering from a dry spell with your partner? Do you feel like your sex life has tanked? In this video, I collaborate with Dr. Kelly Casperson, a fellow urologist with expertise in sexual medicine, to share with you 7 tips to help increase your female partner's pleasure!
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0:00 Intro Card
0:41 Dr. Kelly Casperson's Backstory
2:20 Tip #1 Schedule time for Sex
3:36 Desire isn't even necessary
4:53 Tip #2 Know your Female Anatomy
6:50 What exactly is the G-Spot?
7:27 Focus on the Outside Structures
7:56 Tip #3 Prioritize her, it's not all about you
8:54 Tip #4 Go Slow
11:10 Tip #5 Use Lubricants
14:24 Tip #6 Meet in the middle based on your desires
15:35 Tip #7 Communication is key
18:00 End Card
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Intimacy died and so did our marriage of 25 years.
When I finally said I wanted a divorce my wife flipped, said she had no idea….
Months before I had tried to warn her by saying “this [our marriage] can not go on like this [sexless], this is unsustainable.”
She must have been in denial about how important intimacy is in a marriage.
We still love each other, but love without intimacy is just frustrating.
Well woman don’t understand or don’t care about our desire to continue having sex.
Agreed, I was married to a woman that would get hers, then leave me hanging. We are no longer married.
I spent 2 years blaming myself for our failed marriage then met a wonderful women who helped me through it. Later on I found out that my former wife was cheating on me which is likely why she had no concern for my needs.
I'm now happily married to the woman that helped me sort out my f***ed up mess created by my ex-wife and we have a very happy sex life going 5 years strong.
Married 30 years - the number one problem with marriage is marriage. Neither of you can be there because you want to. Its a bad idea.
Parajacks4, completely understandable
#1 cause of divorce is women shutting off the bedroom fun. There's a reason the saying goes "the best way for a man to live a sexless life is to get married" unfortunately most men think they will get more regular sex if they are married.
Her: "You're a very good lover."
Him: "Thanks, I practice a lot when I'm alone."
Forgot to give woody allen his credit for that line.
First I have to find a partner, or have her find me. My wife of 50+ years died of cancer six months ago and being alone is not much fun at all. Starting over at 75 is no joke. This video has been a bit of a refresher course. Thanks
sorry for your loss Greg. screw cancer..
Stoooooooooooop whining!
@@dirkmagurk7086 really?
Best to stay single. Your wife just passed.
@@Linda-in9ns I think he is trying to anticipate the rest of his life. You are a cold woman…..who dares have sex with you? Sounds like you are all alone.
Wow! I'm urologist and I have to say thousands thanks for your useful content for all, as good for professionals as their patients. Thank you!
I'm a woman. Please don't believe her.
I subscribed to your channel after watching this video. Probably the best detailed informative video I have watched on this topic so far. Dr. Casperson is amazing, she doesn’t waste time, talks points and moves on.She talks entirely from women perspective which a lot of us guys have little to no clue at all. Will also check her page . Thanks for this one
I've been married almost 18 years, and I'm happy to say that I've picked up all of skills/tips in this video from talking to my wife over the years. Excellent info.
Me too!
This message is so important on so many levels. I am sure many more marriages could be saved just by listening to this. None of this was ever communicated to my ex partner and myself
I always made sure my wife got satisfied and tried to improve my skills but she still wanted to do it only once a week or even more rarely. This combined to total emotional coldness lead to me divorcing her...
@@dingdong2103 that's crazy. Maybe she got turned on better by other men
@@alessbritish228 no I know for a fact that she prefers to be alone... we are still close friends
@@dingdong2103 OK bruh, I see what u mean. But if she prefers to be alone, why did she get married in the first place?
@@alessbritish228 My theory is that after the 2nd child the hormonal contraception changed her
Thank you, ladies, for entering intrepidly into an area that needs and deserves more discussion and clarity, such as that which you provided. Your words were helpful, bold, concise and informative, and I appreciated them very much.
For my partner and me sex starts hours before the actual act itself during the day tell them how beautiful they are and have playful interaction during the time before
Foreplay never stops!
And all not a reality.
the bois be learning how to be an absolute unit for your partner. LETS GOOOOOOOOO
Just make sure you ain't going HAM for a chick that just gives you starfish sex
Some good some bad advice I personally have helped atleast 5 women that thought they couldn't have a orgasm have one an it really be more of a mental block then anything else but toys an doing it for long periods of time makes situation worst causes a women to not be as sensitive which in turns make it harder for a human to make her orgasm as good in my opinion
Jesus is the truth
The fact that you put time stamps will get a like from me everytime.
Thank you for taking about this topic. What I have noticed as an older man: Age and the stage in life has played a lot in how i experience sex. In my teens and early twenties, my erection would rage hard and getting done was a priority.Middle aged my desire to get off was reduced and even though I had good erections, I started being more into pleasing my lady. Now that I am over sixty, I get a good erection by going down on my lady and making sure she has a good orgasm before continuing. What is different, because it takes more to be aroused, pleasuring my lady is more what it is about. For the young men, look after your lady first even though the general is hard and stiff, put off your need to get off till you spend time getting her needs met. This is the advice I would give to my younger self.
So true! 62 here and I can relate.
Great advice, Al
@@homefryniles3983 Any gal reading your and Al's notes and advice should be very happy at your collective realizations and goals. Sounds like a Win/Win to me all around.
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From an early age , I was highly orgasmic. But I lost that ability in my late 30’s due to meds . Topical Premarin is a life saver now that I’m 46 . Less pain , more sensitivity. Thank goodness my husband listens and makes me the priority during sex , which makes me more eager to please him . That’s what made me like him so much in the beginning. He will spend hours if he has to just to satisfy me . Even after almost 10 years . Thank you both . Wish you two were my docs .
Okay, definitely my favorite video thus far! Very informative, and enlightening. Thank you for bringing forward the perspectives of both parties involved, and how they can contribute to the satisfaction of each other. Definitely recommending this. Great job MD's!!!
I think it's healthy to look at sex from a "continuing education" standpoint. It's relevant in medicine, and many other areas. So why not the bedroom? This video is a great example of that.
Growth is so stimulating especially with a special lady progressive minds expanding horizons for all...✌️👍💪🙏🤙🖖💎💙🔥
Pfft satisfying each other 99 percent is she's not fuckin like she used to period
I want sex every day. However, I have trouble with reaching orgasm. I will discuss or show this video to my partner. We may both be pleasantly surprised. Thank you both.
Even allowing that most of your viewers are adult, It is truly refreshing to hear women being so open and uninhibited in their talks.
Wow. What's better than one great urologist with current state of the art insight??? TWO urologists with current insight!!! Thanks soo much. Keep on trucking!
It’s exciting to hear this stuff,but most of all,I enjoy the fast -talking way of both of them.Thank you both ,doctors!
Finally Some real intelligent and understanding talk by the women.... It's not always the women or the vice-versa... Men's pleasures needs to be taken care too..
God forbid I think that is the real problem
Very evolved….fabulous and very educational discussion….I think most men really want to fulfil women but lack the insights….this really helps
No it’s that we’re always worried about not being as good as the guy before you
@@nelsonporter8387 sad but true , new focus on the here and now , and being open to new explores in life and to each other..,🤔👍✌️😸
I'm not here to watch the TH-cam video, but I'm learning from you. Thanks and be blessed for sharing your wisdom with us.
Everything you say parallels my own experience. I love pleasuring my partner. I find that communicating in bed during sex maximizes pleasure and minimizes things partners don’t like. Just a few words can ease a lot of frustration.
1) Communication
2) Communication
3) Say it with me: Communication
4) Louder, for those in the back: Communication
5) A relationship is a two way street. If only one partner ever shows attraction/interest, does the 'initiating' or 'earning intimacy' acts etc etc for there to be intimacy between the partners, it's time to get back to steps 1) to 4) again and hash out why and how to rebuild, if its possible etc.
A partner who always expects the other to 'earn' their affection and acts of intimacy is selfish and self-centred themselves as they are just as guilty of taking their partner for granted, if not actually more so when you consider said partner with these expectations oft never initiate or earn in their partners time in return, just always assuming, taking their partners interest/attraction for granted.
I just started watching this, I’m 59 years old an damn the #6 is the most important one of all! Communication! You’ll have all the answers to 1 thru 5 with it! I would like to have everyday if I could!
And, when you are in, Lube, Lube, then Lube!
U8 on
@@rawdata678 love
@@rawdata678 and after the lube what comes next?
What a great talk about such a sensitive subject, though in a decent mature fashion. It helps extend joyful sexual experience even beyond any age limit.
I greatly enjoyed this. It was very informative and, I think, succinct. I have one addition to your first topic of scheduling. This can be even more important AND difficult if you have anyone besides the couple in the home, i.e. children, elderly, or even other adults depending on the individual comfort level of each partner. I think that a lot of people get into a strong habit of sex at bedtime because they wait until their dependents are asleep, and after two or more decades that could be difficult to shift to a more open schedule. Working in not just date nights, but fuller times when the dependents are away under other supervision can open those times up throughout these periods in life, and their sporadic nature will help to break any monotony that can set in when schedules are strict-ish. Also, if you only have a date night/morning, use the morning! Mornings have long been one of my favorite times to enjoy sex, but when you have kids in the house you'd need a partner who wakes up with you before the kids do, and you've got to be ready to be interrupted and stop on a dime. Risky in the sense that you may not get to finish, but that also adds an element of game-like fun for me.
These advice videos/columns always center on what the MAN has to do to please the woman. Nothing is ever said about what a woman has to do…
@@zeebest1004 That's a good point, though Dr. Malik could be focusing on it for a reason regarding her specialization. I think I remember seeing videos of hers that focus on how men's equipment works, so that might help. You could browse her video page. If not, I'm sure someone else focuses on it whose stuff is findable if someone's really interested in learning about it.
@@zeebest1004 truth is, there are lots of advice videos from men about how to increase their performance or how to raise their partner's pleasure. They have some use, but this one really looked at it from the woman's point of view and made it pretty clear that being thoughtful about what she wants is the way to mutual satisfaction. I give these women urologists a lot of credit for not blaming the woman's problems on the men.
As a man I want to say that. The communication aspect is very very true. If a woman does not communicate why she does not want to have sex, or the problems that she's having. She will make the man feel rejected. He will take it personally.
I am soooooo appreciative of this particular topic
Thank you for taking the time to help with this sensitive subject.
This was a great discussion well done to both of you.
This was the best video I’ve played to date on this subject. Now to conquer that communication barrier.
Awesome video. I'm sure many of us are learning from them. Thanks for sharing
Thank you for speaking frankly and simply. I could understand all you said. It's too late for my marriage, not that sex was the only problem, but ignorance in this area didn't help. At least now i won't die an ignorant Klingon :)
I'm going to pass this video on to my adult boy and girl, just to be sure they don't miss out.
This video is like a cheat sheet to the test! Things your partner wants but doesn't always communicate! Great job and I look forward to more videos!
Just don't lean on the scheduled sex thing for too long though. Long term issues are sure to arise
"Things your partner wants but doesn't always communicate!"
Shouldn't THAT be the first and foremost concern???
Fabulous video! You, ladies, should be declared a national treasure!
Wow! Great points! I want it every day, and my girl likes it about 3 times a week. It's the only thing we fight about. Great info!
Communication and being open/non-judgemental is HUGE!!!
Excellent presentation! As and old retired scientist who had a heart attack in his youth at 65 years old I began having election loss during sex. My wife rejected me even with viagra correcting the problem caused by blood pressure medication. Your video has helped me improve our relationship after over 50 years of marriage, rearing 5 children and having 10 grandchildren! GET THE WORD OUT!
Election loss? Well, the midterms are upon us, so I guess you’re in luck!
@@judeirwin2222 hey, more than 50% of politicial candidates experience election loss.
@@judeirwin2222 election loss leads to erection loss
I don't get what u want to say
@@jedimaibam1660 should have been "erections", not "elections",
Great Podcast, you both covered the known and unknown for some in a very professional down to earth fashion. I believe the key to any great relationship is "Communication". This although was last on your list, and right behind "Honesty" in my opinion it is paramount! At least the both holds true in my relationship (turned Marriage). Keep up the wonderful instructional teachings, both of you. I hope more people, men & women alike stumble across your Podcasts as I have done. Honestly there's so much garbage out there (especially on TH-cam), that provides bad information. I find it a pleasure to listen to healthy, knowledgeable and myth busting truths from professionals. Warmest of Regards to you both!
I agree with every word you said , "Honesty " part especially.
Doc I love your work, please keep up.
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Disinterest in sex can also fall on the male. Especially as men get into middle age. I also believe partners get into habits of masturbation and lose interest in the mutual act of sex. Laziness, avoiding the emotional expenditure, etc. Porn is hindering a lot of sex lives.
Yeah,if your wife won't have sex with you,that can happen.....
I agree with you. I think it’s something going on with me. I don’t desire sex but happy to take out pron from time to time.
Excellent! Practical and pragmatic. Summarized all important information succinctly.
Well rounded, very worthwhile discussion from 2 MD's (whose occupational bias is to specialize in the extreme).
well, i must say, i am a great LOVER !! in fact, i am soooo good, i have gotten the whole process down to under 3 minutes : )
Nice
Dont fool your self son.
@@thelastdracolich1237 just foolin around Drac.......loosin up...have a giggle
Aaaaaaaand boom goes the dynamite
😂🤣😁👍🏽
For years I've always felt like I was doing something wrong and that my wife was just having sex with me because it was her Job as my partner and was never really enjoying it. But we are doing ALL THESE THINGS! And have been for years. Thank you so much. I feel so much more confident!
Thank you for all the great information! I have been learning a lot from your videos.
All good points ma’am. Some people have difficulty talking about sexuality though and shy away from it.
As usual, two minds are better than one, very complimentary and informative.
Yeah, they compliment each other alright. They’re both saying the same one sided thing.
These tips are extremely helpful and priceless 💯👍🏼🙏💕.
Thanks so much for these informative videos, learned a great deal from you
And looking forward to learning even more.
This channel is really magnificent and you are doing a great job of educating people Dr. Malik. 🙏✨😊
Your revelations are spot on, no pun intended. Reading Jong in the 70's, inducing women to tell me what they want, but mostly learning from women 10 plus years of age over my age caused me to want to get this right. Then, of course, cause women to tell me their needs and to take it slow and in the order most desired to her as a unique being. Many had little help from their mother or friends, to know that it is ok to demand what they want. Desire can be overwhelming and can best be handled as if peeling an onion. The man and his parts are an accessory to the woman, and full female pleasure is much more spectacular than his own. Gobble up a quick dinner, or enjoy a fine 4 course meal ? Some men can't get it right. Also, some women are unwilling to let a "turned out man" show them what they yearn to experience. I can tell you truly that it makes a loving man live a dilemma, to find a real love and self aware lover in one person. Women are the masters, if they know it. The whole of her body is sexual. Men are not so lucky.....we can only experience through her. His orgasm has more to do with procreation. Many men are good guides and can easily do just as needed, but must be nudged constantly in the ever changing world of female pleasure. Your info glosses over this, I think. Just shop around and see who is a good guy, by seeking simple sensual experiences without full blown sex, as you peel your own onion, and then demand satisfaction. If you are not afraid. Be the boss mother nature made you to be.
I love this comment so much.
Men - learn from this guy!
@@Thenoobestgirl The main thrust of my comment is to women. Demand proper attention from a man/men. Shop around, ladies. Read my comment again, Noobest Girl. The burden is on YOU! Men will do what you want and need. Any worth their salt.
This is an amazing video. Every bit of it is worth millions.
Wow! Your video really very informative in a positive way. Thank you so much, Doctor.
Rena and Kelly, absolutely awesome! Truly sisters to us all. You are both helping make the world more awesome via education and compassion. From the bottom of my heart, thank you and may The Creator bless you both and your efforts x
What's wierd about this is my fiance name is Rena and her mom's name is Kelli.
This was very informative lots of what you already know but do not apply anymore. So an excellent refresher. Most of if not all the posts I have seen are on the same subject, what men need to do to pleasure their partners. I have never seen anything posted on what woman should be doing to pleasure their men. There is a lot women are unaware of and it leaves us frustrated and unfulfilled in the end. Just a thought. It would be of mutual benefit to both partners.
That was really nice to listen to, and very very interesting. I'm tired of listening to online " sex-perts " who have no scientific or medical background. I've have never heard the information in this video before, but it just feels right, and it feels like it's grounded in real science,....and I appreciate that. Thank you both.
We often see our men and women in the military and salute them, thanking them for their service. Well…I am certain I am joined by MANY men and women both in AND out of uniform when I say to you both…Thank You for YOUR service! This most excellent video serves as a lesson, refresher course, and most importantly, a beautifully structured REMINDER that will spice up our sex lives, and in many cases REAWAKEN our spirits of experimentation and FUN in and out of our bedrooms. Two PLEASURE SOLDIERS reporting to us from the front lines of the PLEASURE BRIGADE! How cool is THIS?! ❤️❤️❤️
USA has always been in war since 1776.
It's a company and war is their business model.
Example the tv-program 60 minutes asked former minister Albright if it was worth to go in Iraq. There where 500.000 children been killed for nothing. Madeleine said it was worth it. The elite has no empathy. And then brainwash Americans to be so patriotic.
Thank you for your service. A B52 bombing Vietnam and Laos every 8 minutes for years. Thank you for your m murder ING service 10.000 km from home. Why people don't think for them selves or parent teach their children moral?
Great perspectives on treating your mate/partner...an great exchange of ideas for both.... Doctors...be safe
You are so right, my partner and I talk about everything, we always talk about what she likes or does not like and honestly it’s helped a lot in both of us being satisfied. Communication as been crucial and beneficial for us. 🙏🏿
I really like Dr. Kelly!!! She is awesome and explains very professional. Thank you
This is the best video I have seen in YEARS!
Really nice presentation, and great team work. Thanks
Wonderful!!! Thank you for sharing!
Thank you guys for all the infos !!! It is amazing how valuable those info are!!! :)
Omg thank you so much ladies, lots of helpful info🙂
It isn’t just in the bedroom (not referring to other rooms, or semi public places), it’s the small details.
One thing I like doing is when she is in the shower is, I take a towel and place it in the dryer to heat it up. When she gets out of the bath or shower, a hot towel is ready for her. A small token of thoughtfulness goes a long ways.
I’ve done this. When it’s over it’s over nothing you do can bring it back
I find more success in flushing all 4 toilets in the house in quick succession. Nothing else gets noticed.
Great tip
Thanks for improving life conditions in our planet
Some great info, yes communication is important but sometimes hard to do cause you do worry what your partner might think or say. Awesome info thank you
HIghly informative and educational. Thanks for the wisdom.
I loved the movie "Hysteria". This is a great. Informative episode. Thanks!
It's good you women are around to inform us of this subject.
This is a really helpful video. Men need a no-bullshit approach/get to the point, kind of information on matters involving women and romance. At least I know I do. I need more stuff like this. I'm tired of videos that are either fluffed up with entertainment, indirect, or just straight up biased BS.
Thank you ladies! That was excellent!
Yes to scientifically informed opinions on sexuality!
No to furious revengeful feminism!
Thanks for the great tips/advice. Could you add something about healthy sexual relationships through and beyond menopause? Reigniting an ember that has burned out. This would be super appreciated.
Patient and compassionate lover always help rekindle the fire back to life , ✌️💪👍🦋😸🔥🌹🙏 open minds can overcome all obstacles in life.. love unbounded.💙😔🤙🖖
Talk to her and tell her you would like to get intimate, and if you can please her first!!!! Because we men don’t take long for sure. That works for me! If you can’t talk then I think the marriage is over.
Love your videos. It has helped in so many ways!!!
I listened to an audio book “She Comes First”. I can’t remember the author but this book really helped me to improve my technique and helped me to pleasure my partners even more.
My grandpa taught me about the little boy in the boat when I was just a young teenage boy, he knew what he was talking about.
I've been with my wife for 12 years and our intimacy is still very strong. We have a wonderful relationship and a very strong bond. I have always taken care to put her pleasure first and it definitely works well for both of us. Pleasure your woman and she will reciprocate very generously 👍.we always communicate with each other and be very open about what we want.
This guy def knows what's goin on
congratulations thats great , 12 years your basically just passing the honeymoon phase....i can tell you from 38 years of marriage and after working, kids grand kids "change of life" etc things WILL be different..not being negative just giving you a heads up..enjoy that great intimacy while you can...when you get my age a good nap is what it's all about....lol..
Amen!!
Sometimes that works...........................not ALWAYS...
@@dwightdodd3734 true, but it's worth a shot. If it doesn't work for your relationship then try a different approach.
As a guy I learned having your partner help you release all of your initial pressure first helps a lot. Even if she just holds a fleshlight for you. Then while you are in recovery mode you can take your time and explore her body and firing up her nerve endings. After you helped her get hers everything will feel a lot better and you can last longer.
Thank You...looking forward to your course, even at 65...Awesome info, much needed...Thank You again
Great podcast this matches what I have learned and understand thank you and keep it up🌹.
I do SO wish I had been exposed to this in high school. It seems criminal to let young men loose in the world without this knowledge.
Yes, I feel like this video is perfect for 16-year-old boys. To be honest, if you haven't figured this stuff out by the time you're 30, you're probably a selfish person and are not trying to learn. Don't be shocked if your wife is hooking up with a mail man.
@@LordHolley do women know all the ways of how to pkease a man by 30? An astounding no, so whonis the selfish one, sex involves more than a woman
I wish I had known this information a few years ago..... As a 68 year old man my wife pleasure is always top on my list of priority and I make she get herself off first. Man I really could have been the bomb in my earlier youthfulness
Goes along with what you've said, I've found the focus on the foreplay with a long backrub. Her being relaxed has been instrumental in my experience. Rubbing everything but what us neanderthals want to focus on. Briefly brushing those areas, then instead focusing on the area around them. Then paying more attention to those bits slowly increasing the stimulation I've been able to coax multiple Os even before involving toys. One longer session lead to the discovery that spare towels should be kept under the foot of the bed.
Wish I knew all this long ago!
Very informative - thanks. TBH after 40 years of marriage Me and Mrs have managed to capture most of the facts raised, Lucky us!
Communicate with your partner. Results are magnificent. This is solid advice.
If it yields any change in behavior at all, it’s likely to be perfunctory, obligatory, guilt driven sex.
Glenn you been dreaming. Lol
@@donmax2315 it’s been working for me for 45 years .
Love your videos , and you have great ideas for tricks to make it happen!!!!
Good information, learned new things from this video . Thank you for this !!! With gods grace we are happy till now , will be useful in coming years as we become old 👍🏻
You are a blessing! "Making Relationships Great Again!"
🦆🎺 🎺 🎺
Outstanding advice. Wish, I knew this decades ago. Thank you so much ladies. Men, just listen & learn.
I just need a special 90 seconds 🤔🤔. But seriously. This was a fantastic interview and guest. Thanks to both doctors🙏🏻
I’m glad I was able to figure this out young, I tend to focus more on my Parter first before I focus on myself, the result? She can’t have enough and is always ready for it anytime! The communication on what makes it work and what doesn’t is of huge help and also understanding that, it’s okay to not finish from time to time, if it’s either me, or her, just having a good time for both should be a priority and it doesn’t have an end goal. :)
I found this interview very enlightening and helpful. I realized that sex isn't solely about intercourse; and that there are some simple things I can do to enhance my wife's desire for intimacy. I will definitely be revisiting this video. 😉
True. I also suggest listening to Dan Savage's podcast.
Remember! Communicate is the first step! Ask her in the bed how do you like sex and do exactly the way she said. Forplay I found out is number one. Get her going and it’s all yours from there . Been married 33 years and still can’t get enough!
@@captainkirk7702 Exactly. That's the key difference between homosexuals and heterosexuals. Gays and lesbians will communicate, check what each other is into, while heterosexuals just assume. A lot of the assumptions are made by the men (especially) because of all the porn they've watched, which is usually a poor depiction of sex, the aim of which is not female pleasure.
Maybe I'll try to slip her some extacy I heard that increased libido in women. Save alot time communicating with the same BS she already knows
both sex and love are things.
intimacy is becoming one with another. most people dont realise this.
Dr. Rena,you’re help to all deserves a salute,taboo subjects need delicate handling,people keep mum although it’s very important part of your life, you should not go against Nature.don’t suppress or don’t over indulge
Great one. Knew my communication plan within project management had a role in my personal life and having coitus. Could you possibly do one on ASD prep for intimacy with a NT partner and vice versa.
This was really helpful. Scheduling has always been the issues for me... Lemme show this to my wife if hears it from you guys maybe she would believe me then.😊😊😊
Most of this type of advice is predicated on the assumption that both partners are openly desirous of discussing this topic, finding mutually satisfying ways of increasing pleasures and trying new things, and working together to appreciate each other's desires and expectations. But in real life, I find that when one of the partners does not think this way, there is just no way to steer in this direction. In fact, one partner may well be upset, annoyed, and strictly avoid any such efforts or discussions, and there is no way around this.
It sounds like somebody settled, then.
I understand what you are saying but I would not settle just because my significant other demands it. I would demand otherwise and prevail upon her whether she wants to or not. Because she would be being completely unreasonable.
@@soulstorm8806 That’s really the point of dating: to learn enough about the other person so you can determine how much you would have to change for a more permanent relationship and if you are willing to do so.
The important thing is that both are honest. If one says they are unwilling to change a particular characteristic and the other says it’s ok but expecting that they can change the other person’s mind later, that is a form of cheating.
I had three friends that got into a messed up love triangle because the first woman wanted an open relationship with another female. The second female ended up with the male while the first female was ousted.
Then, the second female married the male knowing the male did NOT want another child. They ended up having a child together.
That’s the danger of emotional rhetoric. Even sweet words can lead people astray. Everybody needs to know exactly where the boundaries are BEFORE making any deeper commitments.
I’ve been single for most of a dozen years. Just recently I made an attempt at a relationship with a long time friend. I specifically told her that I was far less emotional than I once was and that I am not looking to be anybody’s emotional support for every little thing. She knew that going in, and within two weeks she was crying about how I show more affection for my dog than her. Everybody that knows me knows that my dog is practically my kid. SHE knew that. Dogs are veritable two year old human children their whole lives, and I understand that. I am willing to be responsible for a two-year old’s emotions, but not a grown adult’s emotions.
So, there are a lot of factors involved in relationships of all types, and one has to be willing to acknowledge what other people want. I wasn’t willing to provide for all of her desires so we ended it quick enough that it didn’t negatively impact our friendship. Moreover, she wasn’t what I was looking for regarding a long term relationship either. Had we broached that subject, I would have explained that as well.
There is nothing wrong with admitting that somebody is not right for you. Everything is wrong about hiding that determination to get what you want out of another person until something better comes along. Do everybody a favor and be honest up front so they do not feel bitter about you wasting their time.
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Dude the way u type if u spoke in a similar fashion i can imagine you wouldn't struggle to explain anything beautifully.
Really very good stuff. All women need to hear this. Very educative. Always send videos.
I think it is men who need this information more.... As a woman I worked with once said... "Men suck.... And in all the wrong places!"
Nice, so much useful info, thank you, i'll be sure to use all of it...
Thank you ladies that was very insightful.
As a 30 year old... I learned today. Thank you for this!
I’m 59 and it’s still great and I think it’s even better!
Well do your thins oldfarts
Nice video dr.
Your always a inspiration to me.