Casual, feminine, artsy I also created 5 deal breakers in relation to my clothes 1. Natural fibers 2. Good quality 3. Non itchy 4. Fits well 5. Practical for lifestyle
Allison Bornstein and the 3 word method are brilliant. As a personal stylist, I had a pretty good handle on my style yet it took me about 3 weeks to nail my 3 words down - they are classic, elegant, & sophisticated. It really helped me to fine tune my style; now that I'm applying these words I find that I'm experimenting more with my style in a completely different way and I love it! 😃
Oh my gosh I love all of this! Truly just this three word method has helped me buy smarter and I've already started to see my outfits change because of them. Thanks so much for such a thoughtful comment ❤️
Your video is the best out there to help people understand the 3 word method. Thank you 😊 My and I’m still working on mine is •Practical • Timeless •Mystical I wear lots of black, and that’s exactly where I feel comfortable. I been wearing the same cloths since teen and I don’t think I’ll ever dress differently and when I do I feel so uncomfortable as I’m wearing a costume. So yes, black black all the way!!
Thank you! I appreciate this exercise - and Allison Bornstein for her genius! I struggled A LOT with my fashion POV for this stage of my life, but I feel that "Effortless, 70's Boho and Grateful" most align with who I am.
Versatile, soft, cozy. I'm retired. I may be cleaning, working out, shopping, or eating lunch with a friend. I so like dark colors because I am blonde. But never harsh. But I am drawn to soft color. And I am a homebody.
@@terrypurvis2535 I sent my friend Sydnie some suggestions for her 3 words and this morning we were talking about how that could be a fun series. I'll be sure to include yours if I go through with it! I think it would be a lot of fun 🥰
I think my immediate first 3 words are comfortable, feminine, confident. Im definitely going to be thinking about it more and maybe theyll change! This is really fun to figure out
Textured, Timeless, Serene. I want my clothes to feel wonderful to touch, and against my skin, and I also don't want to be fussing with them all the time, so nothing cropped or clingy.
Just like you Amanda I came up with 3 words to identify my style fashion, I tweeked them today after watching Allison's video and yours. My 3 words are: 1- 1-Textured-layered because of my love for fabrics and patterns that speak to me. I take pride in my creativity, versatility and my roots 🌍 2-Timeless because of my appreciation for minimal and classic style that are priceless and timeless ⏳️ 3-Authentic because I want to honor my essence as a romantic by letting my curves swerve. I want to feel genuinely and authentically me in everything that I wear ♾️
Oh my goodness well done!! Seems like you've really nailed down the perfect words for you! Love how much intention and research you've done in this process 🥰🤍 Thanks for such a thoughtful comment!
Comfortable, feminine and inspired are my 3 words. I'm Indian and an artist so I also looove incorporating ethnic designs and patterns with my everyday wardrobe. I'm so excited to explore my style further! ❤
I was watching Alyssa Beltempo today and she made mentioned of you and Allison. These videos are so on time today because I literally came up with my three words last week. I am so excited about my new fashion journey moving forward. Thank you for this video! I need to get my hands on that book asap 😊
Oh my goodness WHATTT! I love Alyssa! 🥹😭😭 That is wild to me she's one of my TH-cam crushes! So happy you enjoyed it love. It's honestly changed the way I think about my wardrobe and creating my collection. All the best with yours!!
Effortless, polished, and feminine -- Truly a fantastic and insightful video! I've been dabbling in figuring out what my personal style is for a while now (I've always felt I had 4 different styles for different moods, so it's been difficult) but this technique helped me realize how to make all four more cohesive together. Can't wait to watch more of your style content! I'm obsessed!
My 3 words is Tailored, Old europe and Quirky .... so if I look like an eccentric Lady in her old english Manor in the countryside that could only afford to keep the stable boy as an employee I achieved my look! LOL so think English equestrian style from the 1940s with a dash of italian exuberance
I COULD NOT LOVE THIS MORE!!! Also Valerie I can already tell you have such a fun personality. Truly keep being you because all of this sounds like someone who loves life and is confident in who they are ❤ Love it!
@ thank you!! I was thinking to change strong for fearless, but that’s more my personality than my personal style! 😂 I really want to start building a new capsule wardrobe after loosing lots of weight and moving into a new chapter of life- think it’s time for a hard reset x
Feminine, Textured & Romantic are mine. I want to add more texture to my looks with layering, jewelery and accessories. This was so helpful and informative. Thanks!
Lets see.. Word #1. Comfortable. Jeans. T-shirt. Jacket. I've got to feel physically good in my clothes before anything else and that's definitely reflected in my current closet. #2 Thematic is totally new to but I think it fits, I love a good recurring theme/pattern. All of my favorite styles, regardless of whether I'd actually wear them, are super hardcore themed. Goth, Lolita, steampunk, all styles that are so themed they're almost costume-y. I used to say whimsical but I'm realizing that's because to me, really leaning into a theme *is* whimsical but whimsicality(?) as a style alone feels more "fantasy" based which isn't really me. #3 now this is where im really struggling. Authentic, confident, quirky, and playful all kinda feel right..ugh. At the end of the day I just know that I want Main Character Energy. I think I'll come back to this. Definitely subscribing tho.
Sporty, Feminine, & Svelte. After so many videos I finally did the exercise and you are so spot on. I can feel my wardrobe & closet vibes much clearer by crafting my 3 style words. Thank u and AB!🎉
Eclectic, ethereal and fairy-like I was debating between mystical and playful since I want to feel like a fairy in clothes I wear. I think the word fairy-like combines those two nicely ☺
@@AmandaWeldon I have took a lot inspiration from cottage core bohemian style and different harajuku styles (in example, mori kei, fairy kei and sweet lolita) 😊 And I love colors 🎨
Oversized, Editorial, Fun ☺️ My goal is to feel like a character from The Devil Wears Prada while also wearing more random novelty pieces, like my dad jackets or Barbie earrings ♥️
You know there’s probably 1000 people per day reading your comment and not saying anything and hoping that you start your own TH-cam channel. I am one of them.
Your video was really helpful!! I tried to find my words before but nothing stuck. Now I think I’ve found them, thank you!! They are simple, ornate (still unsure), smart
Cozy might mean confident to you. If you’re comfortable your confidant. You can be comfortable and confident in tight cloths. I wouldn’t be but some people could feel awkward in loser cloths. It’s a lot to think about! Thank you.
I'm 68 and I am a competitive/ performance dancer.I have different wardrobes for each genre of dance( latin, countr, swing)So I get to be many different" identities" if you will😊
my words would have to by cozy, flattering, and comfortable. And I have another one that I dont have anything that fits, but I wish I did, which is architectural.
Layered is such a good one for fall and winter! I am thinking more and more about how these words can change season to season and I'm curious if you think yours would be different in summer 🤍 I love this exercise so much haha
You know what's weird. We moved to NY in my early 20s and worked there for the next 10 years. After that I have moved to so many countries and cities but I guess NY stayed 😊 I hadn't thought of NY as my inspiration.
This was a such a fun and informative video :) My 3 words would be comfortable (I work in a kindergarten), scandinavian-chic (if that is a word) and effortless :)
I am lost too….!!! This video inspired me but I am struggling to identify my 3 words, specially now that I am working from home and my “practical” clothes changed…. I used to have a clear picture when I was working in an office, but now, I can be in pajamas all day and that is messing with my mood😢
Military, Sexy, Rebellious. For a long time I was playing with tailored&edgy but they didn’t feel quite right. I realised all my shirts have lapels and I love structure but not any old structure…it will be interesting to play with my wardrobe using these words 😁
Casual, Classic, classy-I’m 75 and frequently get compliments on my style. You gals are keeping me stylish😂
Oh I love it!!!
Casual, feminine, artsy I also created 5 deal breakers in relation to my clothes 1. Natural fibers 2. Good quality 3. Non itchy 4. Fits well 5. Practical for lifestyle
These are the perfect rules! I love these three words too I think we have similar style for sure!
Allison Bornstein and the 3 word method are brilliant. As a personal stylist, I had a pretty good handle on my style yet it took me about 3 weeks to nail my 3 words down - they are classic, elegant, & sophisticated. It really helped me to fine tune my style; now that I'm applying these words I find that I'm experimenting more with my style in a completely different way and I love it! 😃
Oh my gosh I love all of this! Truly just this three word method has helped me buy smarter and I've already started to see my outfits change because of them. Thanks so much for such a thoughtful comment ❤️
Versatile, minimal, playful. I love minimal silhouettes in minimal colors, bold colors and prints which make me feel like I can do anything in them ❤️
OH I LOVVEEE PLAYFUL! I can 100% see this one too. Versatile is such a good word for being able to do anything in your styles!
Your video is the best out there to help people understand the 3 word method. Thank you 😊
My and I’m still working on mine is •Practical • Timeless •Mystical I wear lots of black, and that’s exactly where I feel comfortable. I been wearing the same cloths since teen and I don’t think I’ll ever dress differently and when I do I feel so uncomfortable as I’m wearing a costume. So yes, black black all the way!!
Classic, timeless and graceful. This was a fun and very informative video. I love hearing your words and reading the words others have chosen, too. ❤
Thank you! I appreciate this exercise - and Allison Bornstein for her genius! I struggled A LOT with my fashion POV for this stage of my life, but I feel that "Effortless, 70's Boho and Grateful" most align with who I am.
Oh I love these! I feel like you these three words really must speak to who you are and your personality ❤ Love it so much
🥹 Thank you! I look forward to learning and curating my perfect wardrobe with you! ❤️🙏🏾❤️
Versatile, soft, cozy. I'm retired. I may be cleaning, working out, shopping, or eating lunch with a friend. I so like dark colors because I am blonde. But never harsh. But I am drawn to soft color. And I am a homebody.
I love this all so much! I can 100% picture this whole wardrobe and it just feels like a warm hug ❤
@@AmandaWeldon , you need to do a video for me. ❤️ I could use some suggestions.
@@terrypurvis2535 I sent my friend Sydnie some suggestions for her 3 words and this morning we were talking about how that could be a fun series. I'll be sure to include yours if I go through with it! I think it would be a lot of fun 🥰
@@AmandaWeldon ❤️
Athletic, timeless, composed. Thanks for distilling this method down.
I think my immediate first 3 words are comfortable, feminine, confident.
Im definitely going to be thinking about it more and maybe theyll change! This is really fun to figure out
structured, polished, empowered.
Textured, Timeless, Serene. I want my clothes to feel wonderful to touch, and against my skin, and I also don't want to be fussing with them all the time, so nothing cropped or clingy.
Casual, Timeless, Confident. I would love for you to do an entire video on how you did your mood board for those of us who haven't used Canva.
You're in luck darling! I have it already!! If you just search under my videos it's one about how to create a Vision Board and it's included in that 🥰
Love her and her book. I’m 73 and have read it twice❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️ casual,classic, chic
Just like you Amanda I came up with 3 words to identify my style fashion, I tweeked them today after watching Allison's video and yours.
My 3 words are: 1- 1-Textured-layered because of my love for fabrics and patterns that speak to me. I take pride in my creativity, versatility and my roots 🌍
2-Timeless because of my appreciation for minimal and classic style that are priceless and timeless ⏳️
3-Authentic because I want to honor my essence as a romantic by letting my curves swerve. I want to feel genuinely and authentically me in everything that I wear ♾️
Oh my goodness well done!! Seems like you've really nailed down the perfect words for you! Love how much intention and research you've done in this process 🥰🤍 Thanks for such a thoughtful comment!
Effortless. Classic. Inspired. Yay! I’m so excited to get dressed tomorrow!
Comfortable, feminine and inspired are my 3 words. I'm Indian and an artist so I also looove incorporating ethnic designs and patterns with my everyday wardrobe. I'm so excited to explore my style further! ❤
~functional
~timeless
~effortless
Absolute perfection!
Question 🙋🏻♀️ does your closet has lots of blacks? Cause I have the same two words.
Layered, artistic, authentic
Love those one! Artistic makes me so happy!
You motivated me to buy and read the book. I finished paring down my closet and getting closer to finding “my” style. Thank you!
Aw that makes me so happy! 🥰🥰
I was watching Alyssa Beltempo today and she made mentioned of you and Allison. These videos are so on time today because I literally came up with my three words last week. I am so excited about my new fashion journey moving forward. Thank you for this video! I need to get my hands on that book asap 😊
Oh my goodness WHATTT! I love Alyssa! 🥹😭😭 That is wild to me she's one of my TH-cam crushes! So happy you enjoyed it love. It's honestly changed the way I think about my wardrobe and creating my collection. All the best with yours!!
Urban, polished, modest!
Ouuu I love these! I'm picturing it now!
I put on a really detailed outfit with the intent to forget about it and do the work I wish to do well.
Effortless, polished, and feminine -- Truly a fantastic and insightful video! I've been dabbling in figuring out what my personal style is for a while now (I've always felt I had 4 different styles for different moods, so it's been difficult) but this technique helped me realize how to make all four more cohesive together. Can't wait to watch more of your style content! I'm obsessed!
Oh my gosh this has brought the BIGGEST smile to my face! Thanks for watching and leaving such a thoughtful comment! ❤️ Love the sound of your style 🥰
Minimal, elegant and graceful
My 3 words is Tailored, Old europe and Quirky .... so if I look like an eccentric Lady in her old english Manor in the countryside that could only afford to keep the stable boy as an employee I achieved my look! LOL so think English equestrian style from the 1940s with a dash of italian exuberance
I COULD NOT LOVE THIS MORE!!! Also Valerie I can already tell you have such a fun personality. Truly keep being you because all of this sounds like someone who loves life and is confident in who they are ❤ Love it!
Classic , effortless, confident
Edgy, Artistic, Intuitive I wear color, as a teacher, my students wanted my clothes; my eye goes to the one that somewhat stands out.
So much fun!
Comfortable, minimalist and strong
Love these! They all sound like they weave so wonderfully together
@ thank you!! I was thinking to change strong for fearless, but that’s more my personality than my personal style! 😂
I really want to start building a new capsule wardrobe after loosing lots of weight and moving into a new chapter of life- think it’s time for a hard reset x
Comfortable, timeless, youthful
Minimal, Luxurious and Graceful -- great video! Thanks!
Thank you so much for watching!
I really enjoyed this video thank you. 😊 My words are: 1. Comfortable 2. Timeless 3. Peaceful
Oh I'm so happy to hear! Love Peaceful what a wonderful word!!
Preppy, polished, confident. My clothes must be fitted, easy to care for, versatile, durable, and comfortable.
Feminine, Textured & Romantic are mine. I want to add more texture to my looks with layering, jewelery and accessories. This was so helpful and informative. Thanks!
Oh I love that you used textured and explained further! Such a fun one!
Comfortable, Elegant, Confident
Thanks for this!
You're so welcome! Thank you for watching!
Comfortable, Classic, Confident ❤
Lets see..
Word #1. Comfortable. Jeans. T-shirt. Jacket. I've got to feel physically good in my clothes before anything else and that's definitely reflected in my current closet.
#2 Thematic is totally new to but I think it fits, I love a good recurring theme/pattern. All of my favorite styles, regardless of whether I'd actually wear them, are super hardcore themed. Goth, Lolita, steampunk, all styles that are so themed they're almost costume-y. I used to say whimsical but I'm realizing that's because to me, really leaning into a theme *is* whimsical but whimsicality(?) as a style alone feels more "fantasy" based which isn't really me.
#3 now this is where im really struggling. Authentic, confident, quirky, and playful all kinda feel right..ugh. At the end of the day I just know that I want Main Character Energy. I think I'll come back to this. Definitely subscribing tho.
This is the best explanation and helpful than a bunch of videos out here ❤
I can't believe our first, practical word is the same! My three words are cosy, grunge-y and fresh
Sporty, Feminine, & Svelte. After so many videos I finally did the exercise and you are so spot on. I can feel my wardrobe & closet vibes much clearer by crafting my 3 style words. Thank u and AB!🎉
Eclectic, ethereal and fairy-like
I was debating between mystical and playful since I want to feel like a fairy in clothes I wear. I think the word fairy-like combines those two nicely ☺
Oh my gosh I LOVE FAIRY-LIKE how fun!!! That legit makes me smile ear to ear and now I want to see your dream wardrobe haha 🥰
@@AmandaWeldon I have took a lot inspiration from cottage core bohemian style and different harajuku styles (in example, mori kei, fairy kei and sweet lolita) 😊 And I love colors 🎨
Oversized, Editorial, Fun ☺️
My goal is to feel like a character from The Devil Wears Prada while also wearing more random novelty pieces, like my dad jackets or Barbie earrings ♥️
Oh my gosh SO MUCH FUN!!!
this is such a mood
You know there’s probably 1000 people per day reading your comment and not saying anything and hoping that you start your own TH-cam channel. I am one of them.
@@Lightcode oh my god this is literally the sweetest comment I’ve ever read, thank you so much!!! 🥹🥹
I promise if I start one I’ll let you know ;))
Minimal, Chic, Confident. Love this video💗
Aw thanks so much for watching! Love those words!
Comfortable, artistic & quirky. I also like slouchy, beachie & relaxed.
Oh so good! Isn't it wild how just three words can help you envision a whole wardrobe/personality!?
Oversized, chic, cool. Cannot wait to declutter my wardrobe with these three words in mind!
Aw lovely! Great words!
Comfortable, elegant, and timeless
Timeless will always be one of my favourite words for this! I can totally picture these ones 🥰So good!
Preppy, chic and quirky. Thanks for all the research! 😊
Oh I love quirky!!! Makes me think of Jess from New Girl if you've seen the show and her style just makes me so, so happy!
Your video was really helpful!! I tried to find my words before but nothing stuck. Now I think I’ve found them, thank you!! They are simple, ornate (still unsure), smart
Effortless, Classy, Serene.
Comfortable, whimsical, & feminine ✨️
Cozy, feathery, secure :)
Cozy might mean confident to you. If you’re comfortable your confidant. You can be comfortable and confident in tight cloths. I wouldn’t be but some people could feel awkward in loser cloths. It’s a lot to think about! Thank you.
Easy, timeless, and romantic 💝
A very nice one, Amanda!❤
Comfortable, Chic, and still debating in the 3rd 😅 Great video 💕
Oh I love it!! I can already visualize the look you're going for! 🥰 Thanks for watching beauty!
Comfortable , bold and fearless. Great video x
Classic, Sophisticated, Vibrant
Oh I LOVEEEE Vibrant! Such a fun word especially when mixed with Sophisticated! Now I want to see your wardrobe 🥰
I'm 68 and I am a competitive/ performance dancer.I have different wardrobes for each genre of dance( latin, countr, swing)So I get to be many different" identities" if you will😊
effortless, elegant, and svelte
SUCH GOOD ONES!
Literally taking notes in this video ✍ btw been loving your content lately! I feel like you're really finding your stride
Oh my gosh this means so much to me! Thank you angel! 🥹
Effortless chic secure ❤amazing concept!
Oh I love Secure! Great words 🥰🥰
Comfortable, artistic, authentic ❤❤ thanks for this video!!
My pleasure 🥰🥰 LOVE THOSE WORDS!
Comfortable, stylish, beautiful
Comfortable, vintage-inspired, playful 💃
8:40 looks amazing
Comfortable, romantic, beautiful …. Great video just subscribed!
So happy to have you! These are great words! 🥰🥰
I wish it was colder where I live (Australia) because I love autumn/winter clothes
I feel you! The part of India I live in doesn't have winters and I haven't been able to layers at all.
Same! I live in South Africa and layering ends up being too warm mostly
Functional, statement, secure 😊
my words would have to by cozy, flattering, and comfortable. And I have another one that I dont have anything that fits, but I wish I did, which is architectural.
Layered, innovative, playful. Thanks for the video, loved the content.
Layered is such a good one for fall and winter! I am thinking more and more about how these words can change season to season and I'm curious if you think yours would be different in summer 🤍 I love this exercise so much haha
Very well done video and of all the videos out there really helped me with the 3 words so thank you! Natural, Luxurious, Cozy :)
Oh I'm so happy to hear! Also love those!
Functional, Sophisticated and Edgy
Love "edgy" this says "Chic New Yorker" to me and I am livinnnngg for it!
You know what's weird. We moved to NY in my early 20s and worked there for the next 10 years. After that I have moved to so many countries and cities but I guess NY stayed 😊 I hadn't thought of NY as my inspiration.
Feminine, elevated and lively/energetic ✿ ❀ ❊
Minimal, Artistic, Fearless!
Fearless is such a fun one!! Great three words 🥰
Effortles-comfy, chic-feminine and serene-confident
My next book🧐
Aw lovely!
Casual classic confident
Casual, tailored, bright
Casual tailored classic (if at work -or- flowy romantic sexy (if on date/at home) are my words!
Classic, Edgy, Colourful
Classic,effortless,minimal
Comfortable, edgy, confident. I have no idea how to make that happen when I’ve been at home for years and literally living in PJ bottoms and sweaters
Brand new subscriber here...earlier today for Allison, too. 😊❤ I appreciate the content!
Aw lovely! So happy to have you here Heather! 🤍
This was a such a fun and informative video :) My 3 words would be comfortable (I work in a kindergarten), scandinavian-chic (if that is a word) and effortless :)
Effortless, sophisticated, pretty
Textured, vintage-chic and I’m still searching for the third one :D
Effortless, polished and timeless are mine but I thing where I want it to go is effortless, polished, and feminine
I’m only certain of one so far
1. Appropriate; To fit, functionality/utility, my age, occasion/environment, to my conscious consumer habits.
This inspired me to make vision board and now i am so lost 😂 we need some style support group where we can analyze each others boards lol
Aw I LOVE THAT! Maybe we need a cozy nook on the internet to talk style haha I'm on it 👀😂
I am lost too….!!! This video inspired me but I am struggling to identify my 3 words, specially now that I am working from home and my “practical” clothes changed…. I used to have a clear picture when I was working in an office, but now, I can be in pajamas all day and that is messing with my mood😢
Eclectic/Artsy/ Confident
(New & Vintage/ Monet to Mondrian/Wear it & Mean it) 😊
😊😊😊😊😊😊 love it
Comfortable, Bohemian, Intuitive
Love those words!
Effortless/Monochromatic
Vintage/Bohemian
Cozy
Military, Sexy, Rebellious. For a long time I was playing with tailored&edgy but they didn’t feel quite right. I realised all my shirts have lapels and I love structure but not any old structure…it will be interesting to play with my wardrobe using these words 😁
classic, academic, rebellious!
Ouu I LOVE "Academic" I feel like I can perfectly picture that! So fun!
Feminine, classic and elegant
Casual, classic & cute ❤
Aw I feel like I can picture your style perfectly with these three words 🥰🥰
Comfortable, feminine and chill :)
Comfortable, classic, feminine.
I’ve added additional ‘rules’ though as I love breathable fabrics, so clothes are hardly ever synthetic.
Love Allison, love this video! Well done! BTW: your hair is gorgeous.❤️ 3 words: Comfortable, Soft, Minimal
Aw thank you so much so kind of you! Your three words make me feel so cozy! I love them