Yup I'm numb to even begin to trust. That trust is shattered lost enough it's cost a lot of time and I'm behind now. Got nothing to show for the betrayals I've endured just judgement.
In my younger days in a troubled relationship I travelled and met a smart chap and started chatting about relationships. He said he had married twice and the funny thing he told me at the time was if you find someone live with them but don't marry them. He said the moment you marry them they turn into gremlins. On a serious note I think if you're attractive as in the top 5% you will have more options and the partner you will find will make an effort to be the best they are for you. It gets complicated women are social creatures so for men you have to be connected and be in a large social circle and have respect within the group. Only then your partner will make an effort. Sometimes you will have snakes in your circle and these are the people who will jump at the opportunity to put you down and the joke is, these are the people you least expect because of the things you have done for them. I'm much older and learnt a lot. Be selective about who you bring into your life. A good person will not ask for favours or put a person out. Having good positive people in life is super important. In the past I believed everyone is my friend but life taught me otherwise. I agree Roni be the best you can but part of that is I stress being selective of the people in your life.
Absolutely! I think the part about attractive people is what is really upsetting people. Because most people ARE NOT attractive and will NEVER receive "princess treatment" which is exclusively reserved for "princesses." The snakes you speak of are VERY really too. Going on from the aforementioned sage and realistic topic.... these are the people that KNOW they can't and never will have this experience. So they become deadly bitter and WILL try to stop the "deserving" from having it.
I have a different take. Become someone you want to be, and the person right for u will be attracted. I don't like living for some imaginary person in my head. I am single now, but I am not at all less happy than when I was dating. I am more purpose-driven and energized. When u walk away from someone or some bad experience, walk toward yourself.
Life isn’t a fairytale. You could do everything to improve yourself and still end up alone. There’s no fairy godmother keeping all the guys single until they “clean up their room”. You can throw the dice on a relationship or not, but I think what’s really happening is so many guys (and gals, for that matter) just don’t believe anymore. The fairytale has lost its appeal to an ever increasing number of disenchanted people. As a great country singer once put it: “I know an ice cold beer never broke my heart.”
What you say about the odds of finding a good woman may be true. But your solution could hardly be less viable in my opinion/experience. It’s like saying that if you’re hungry, don’t even bother with food brother, It’s all contaminated with salmonella, hormones, pesticides or God knows what. Just drink water. I’m not knocking it by the way. If just having hobbies Is enough for you or anyone else to live a fulfilling and meaningful life or find peace then I’m all for it. But I would strongly suspect that anyone for whom that is actually true does not struggle with romantic loneliness the way that I and many do in the first place. On the other hand, If that’s true of you, then why do I find guys talking like you, commenting on so many videos and channels dedicated to the topic of love and loneliness? Or red pillish content dedicated to complaining about women (virtually always hypocritically in their case) filled with men chronically complaining about women’s behavior and morals while simultaneously pretending to be aloof to it all? Why aren’t you all off brewing beer, or building a cabinet or a stirling engine? I suspect that it’s because you are actually not nearly as dispassionate about the topic of romantic relationships as you would actually need to be to find very much solace at all in your own advice. Even if it was in fact absolutely impossible to find a good woman (which I don’t believe) , or just impossible for me personally (getting ‘warmer’ I must say, though I remain agnostic on the question for now) then many of us will likely simply live our lives out in either abject misery or a delusional sense of hope or some combination of both with moments of distraction sprinkled in between. And then, we will die. Just like everyone else. Perhaps in the wood shop or on the basketball court.
@@David16180 difference being I'm not hungry. I'm in no danger what so ever. Women aren't water, shelter, or food. I have survived a very long time without them and so have a lot of others. Years in and I'm no worse for wear.
And a good partner makes you want to be a better person!
So true, Thanks!
Thank you dear! 🙏🏻♥️
I was kind man and met a woman who totally abused it...
Yup I'm numb to even begin to trust. That trust is shattered lost enough it's cost a lot of time and I'm behind now. Got nothing to show for the betrayals I've endured just judgement.
This is most women these days. Just look at the divorce stats and who initiates them!
Become the love and change and person you wish to be, become and etc.
Thanks
Thank you so much!! 🙏🏻♥️
I didn't know you were spoken for Ms Roni, God bless your union and life
In my younger days in a troubled relationship I travelled and met a smart chap and started chatting about relationships. He said he had married twice and the funny thing he told me at the time was if you find someone live with them but don't marry them. He said the moment you marry them they turn into gremlins. On a serious note I think if you're attractive as in the top 5% you will have more options and the partner you will find will make an effort to be the best they are for you. It gets complicated women are social creatures so for men you have to be connected and be in a large social circle and have respect within the group. Only then your partner will make an effort. Sometimes you will have snakes in your circle and these are the people who will jump at the opportunity to put you down and the joke is, these are the people you least expect because of the things you have done for them. I'm much older and learnt a lot. Be selective about who you bring into your life. A good person will not ask for favours or put a person out. Having good positive people in life is super important. In the past I believed everyone is my friend but life taught me otherwise. I agree Roni be the best you can but part of that is I stress being selective of the people in your life.
Absolutely! I think the part about attractive people is what is really upsetting people. Because most people ARE NOT attractive and will NEVER receive "princess treatment" which is exclusively reserved for "princesses." The snakes you speak of are VERY really too. Going on from the aforementioned sage and realistic topic.... these are the people that KNOW they can't and never will have this experience. So they become deadly bitter and WILL try to stop the "deserving" from having it.
@@GemmaDann Well said !
I have a different take. Become someone you want to be, and the person right for u will be attracted. I don't like living for some imaginary person in my head. I am single now, but I am not at all less happy than when I was dating. I am more purpose-driven and energized. When u walk away from someone or some bad experience, walk toward yourself.
As Yuri said the culture in the US (and other Western countries) has been Subverted !
Find yourself first
*The Real Question:* How do I know/ figure out who's right for me?
Cheers 🍺
But where?
Don't. They aren't worth it bros. Get a hobby. Girls like this are one in ten thousand now.
Life isn’t a fairytale. You could do everything to improve yourself and still end up alone. There’s no fairy godmother keeping all the guys single until they “clean up their room”. You can throw the dice on a relationship or not, but I think what’s really happening is so many guys (and gals, for that matter) just don’t believe anymore. The fairytale has lost its appeal to an ever increasing number of disenchanted people. As a great country singer once put it: “I know an ice cold beer never broke my heart.”
What you say about the odds of finding a good woman may be true. But your solution could hardly be less viable in my opinion/experience.
It’s like saying that if you’re hungry, don’t even bother with food brother, It’s all contaminated with salmonella, hormones, pesticides or God knows what. Just drink water.
I’m not knocking it by the way. If just having hobbies Is enough for you or anyone else to live a fulfilling and meaningful life or find peace then I’m all for it.
But I would strongly suspect that anyone for whom that is actually true does not struggle with romantic loneliness the way that I and many do in the first place.
On the other hand, If that’s true of you, then why do I find guys talking like you, commenting on so many videos and channels dedicated to the topic of love and loneliness? Or red pillish content dedicated to complaining about women (virtually always hypocritically in their case) filled with men chronically complaining about women’s behavior and morals while simultaneously pretending to be aloof to it all?
Why aren’t you all off brewing beer, or building a cabinet or a stirling engine? I suspect that it’s because you are actually not nearly as dispassionate about the topic of romantic relationships as you would actually need to be to find very much solace at all in your own advice.
Even if it was in fact absolutely impossible to find a good woman (which I don’t believe) , or just impossible for me personally (getting ‘warmer’ I must say, though I remain agnostic on the question for now) then many of us will likely simply live our lives out in either abject misery or a delusional sense of hope or some combination of both with moments of distraction sprinkled in between. And then, we will die. Just like everyone else. Perhaps in the wood shop or on the basketball court.
@@David16180 difference being I'm not hungry. I'm in no danger what so ever. Women aren't water, shelter, or food. I have survived a very long time without them and so have a lot of others. Years in and I'm no worse for wear.
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