I suffer from this constantly. I get nauseous to the point of throwing up when the guy I’m dating is talking to other girls even in normal settings. When he interacts with other women, my heart races, I get hot, I get shaky, I can’t breathe. I was hurt very badly in a previous relationship. Even though I have almost no memories of this relationship anymore, the feelings it left me with remain. I have absolutely no trust in men at all. Today, a man I know who has a girlfriend and a child messaged me trying to flirt with me. I spent the morning crying! I am so triggered by infidelity, it leaves me almost disabled. I don’t trust half the human species, and it haunts me. I am losing hope that God will ever heal me. I feel, in a very real sense, brain damaged, completely unable to heal or move forward in life. Anyway sorry for the overshare but I’ve had a very bad day 😭😢 I love your videos, I’ve been watching you for years. And I think theologically we are on the same page (I’m reformed too!).
Omgosh, this was so well written that I could almost feel what you were feeling. Sis, first and foremost your value is in Christ alone, if HE deemed you worthy to die for then the man you are dating with the intentions to one day marry should be treating you with that same value, if not, goodbye. No one should be making you feel this way and making you feel as though you aren't the only one for them. It's a joke. Thats clearly not God's best for you.
Am dealing with this! Get counciling and a safe group a prayer team for you! It sounds like you have trauma and codependency. May the Lord Jesus guide you in here you and may the Holy Spirit inside you help you.
Hi Bethany I am sorry you feel this way and I pray you are healing from this 🤍 I think you should go out of your way to find that Godly community of women ! This is only prayer and laying that at Jesus’ feet. Surrender it to God fully you don’t have to carry that anymore .
Yes I had the green monster once. I had to realize that it wasn’t the person who was wrong but me. All of my insecurities kept me from being happy and just at peace. I had to heal, and then ask God for a guy to enter my life.
I'm so thankful, because it came at the right time for me, i really needed an advice about this. I'm dealing with this in my relationship, and it's being so hard for me to handle. When i was single i thought that i would have this in control, because of my studying with the word of God, and learning more about relationships, but seeing this right now, i know that putting in practice is something completely different. I know that it's a problem that i need to fix in me, and Being honest i'm really grateful for the video!! thank you so much Nastasia!! God bless you!! 🥺💕
Hey Beatriz, 1 John 4:1- says to test the spirits and refers to the trueness of prophets but I think that is a very wise thing to apply in choosing who to date or not. You say that you believe that the problem is in you - can you can talk about with this guy?- Could it also be his behaviour or attitude? Is there an indirect way of broaching the subject? Like: "You and Susie seem to go way back...she seems like a special friend"-- Listen and watch his reaction. If it is just in you, as you say, I know you'll get over it thru God's help. Keep praying and listen to God's wisdom. Sometimes, in love, we must persist and sometimes, we have to let go. Even for bible-believing Christians, the romance department still has it's difficult moments. God's always fighting for you and working all your circumstances for the good of those who love Him and are called to His purpose.
@@kadd4415 in my situation, he truly respects me and i saw that on the last youth retreat we went, and he was always trying to stay away from the other girls, and i saw that every time, and there was also an old woman watching us and she confirmed that to me. Being honest, this is really from me, because the girl who is doing this is a different girl, she is our friend, and she is really the type of girl who is extremely extroverted, And this bothers me a little, and she has a boyfriend. Maybe it could be just her style of talking to others and i'm just being jealous for no reason. I believe that i will overcome that. He is a cute guy, my family and leadership approves him, and till now, there's nothing that i can judge about him, it's just her that i don't feel comfortable. But i think that is just something from my mind. But anyway, thank you for your advice, i really appreciated!! 😊💕❤
Sisss- if he is the guy for you, he would show you by treating you how the Lord thinks of you! Honestly, I can testify because my husband when we were dating was very point blank about this. He was like I dont see you as the world sees you, therefore I can't treat you as the world's men treats you. So, honestly the guy who the Lord has called for you will show you signs of this too!
Omgosh- literally my content idea for this week!! I love this topic, I used to be SOO crazy, jealous when dating but that was such a display of the voids in me that I hadn't let Jesus heal!
When a real MAN is ready his eyes are on the PRIZE 🏆. There are real men out there , but yall need to let God take you through the pain of healing to get ready for that man . God knows what u need , God knows your discomfort. Take it all to Him . Dont forget we are meant to have fun and live life too . If you're not having fun you need to take a step back and reevaluate how your spending your life.
Come on sis! There truly are "real men" out there. My husband always says "there will be pretty girls and guys everywhere, but how one chooses to deal with it is what sets one apart". There are men who think with their spirit and not their you know what and you know who! haha
I am a gay male but I suffer from a lot of these things actually and honestly thank u so much people in the comments included I tried some of these out and it helped so much
Girl I needed this! Thank you! I love how you brought God into the discussion too. ❤ Everything you said is so true. I just hope I remember that when those feelings arise 😭
I’m not dating and haven’t for 5 years. But that is something the Lord is breaking down in my mind. I just think so low of myself that there’s just no possible way anyone would want to date me. And that affects how I treat my brothers in Christ. But the Holy Spirit is transforming my mind in this!!
I always seem to like some one but then they always find someone else. I don’t tell them I like them. They seem better off with each other in my eyes. I get jealous of the idea of being in a relationship. It seems like it’s harder for me than it is for other people.
Hello, new subby here! 🎉❤ I just want to say I really appreciate you’re content and what you’re putting out for the children of God. Thank you for this 🤍
I have a jealousy situation right now so the girl I am talking to is in the military and I really like her but I feel so dumb sometimes because I get all annoyed and mad because I think the worst. The thing is I am a great guy and I think I’m just tripping this video has actually open my eyes especially with god! But what are ways I can prevent this I know my worth but I just idk.
I married a cheater and liar and I had no idea until years into our marriage..over the last two years I have found out so much. It hurts! I wish I would have known this sooner.
Omgosh sis- my heart dropped at this. So so soooo sorry that you had to go through this. Praying that the Lord would bring an abundance and an overflow of healing and comfort but also would repair any confidence that this may have stripped from you! Sending you love x
@@krupaabrokwaa thank you so much for your loving words! And especially your prayers. I have decided to stay in my marriage and he is getting help for his sex addiction.
Start looking into this. Satan tempts and can give away any kingdom. Yahweh tempted and offered any kingdom 🤔 Didnt Jesus say his Father never tempts, that its not eye for an eye, tooth for tooth. Love your any enemy, bless thoughs that curse you, dont take oaths, not a hair on a childs head will ever be harmed. He came to save not to condemn. He said theres no jealousy, malice, darkness in his father. But isnt this the opposite of what Yahweh has done, being seen and sitting in dark clouds, a god that Cursed, jealous god, take an oath or burn, murder children, tear them out of wombs, send 2 bears to murder 40 children for calling a prophet a baldhead. Giving serpents as food to the jews, but didnt Jesus say his father would never give your serpents. And didnt he say no one has ever heard or seen his father. Who was Moses and these other characters in the old testament talking too. Elijah bringing down fire and brimstone from the heavens and when the disciples asked Jesus to do the same, he said you dont know of what Spirit you are. He called the god they follow the father of lies, murderer since the beginning and not his father. Hmmm.. seems like Jesus was rebuking the ot god as he is satan. Theres alot more information that i know now and free from the curse and whats to come. Jesus is here, he is love and the kingdom of God is within.
I suffer from this constantly. I get nauseous to the point of throwing up when the guy I’m dating is talking to other girls even in normal settings. When he interacts with other women, my heart races, I get hot, I get shaky, I can’t breathe. I was hurt very badly in a previous relationship. Even though I have almost no memories of this relationship anymore, the feelings it left me with remain. I have absolutely no trust in men at all. Today, a man I know who has a girlfriend and a child messaged me trying to flirt with me. I spent the morning crying! I am so triggered by infidelity, it leaves me almost disabled. I don’t trust half the human species, and it haunts me. I am losing hope that God will ever heal me. I feel, in a very real sense, brain damaged, completely unable to heal or move forward in life. Anyway sorry for the overshare but I’ve had a very bad day 😭😢 I love your videos, I’ve been watching you for years. And I think theologically we are on the same page (I’m reformed too!).
Omgosh, this was so well written that I could almost feel what you were feeling. Sis, first and foremost your value is in Christ alone, if HE deemed you worthy to die for then the man you are dating with the intentions to one day marry should be treating you with that same value, if not, goodbye. No one should be making you feel this way and making you feel as though you aren't the only one for them. It's a joke. Thats clearly not God's best for you.
Am dealing with this! Get counciling and a safe group a prayer team for you! It sounds like you have trauma and codependency. May the Lord Jesus guide you in here you and may the Holy Spirit inside you help you.
@@lindabrown1905 Thank you Linda
Hi Bethany I am sorry you feel this way and I pray you are healing from this 🤍 I think you should go out of your way to find that Godly community of women ! This is only prayer and laying that at Jesus’ feet. Surrender it to God fully you don’t have to carry that anymore .
Yes I had the green monster once. I had to realize that it wasn’t the person who was wrong but me. All of my insecurities kept me from being happy and just at peace. I had to heal, and then ask God for a guy to enter my life.
Yup to this!!
I'm so thankful, because it came at the right time for me, i really needed an advice about this. I'm dealing with this in my relationship, and it's being so hard for me to handle. When i was single i thought that i would have this in control, because of my studying with the word of God, and learning more about relationships, but seeing this right now, i know that putting in practice is something completely different. I know that it's a problem that i need to fix in me, and Being honest i'm really grateful for the video!! thank you so much Nastasia!! God bless you!! 🥺💕
Hey Beatriz, 1 John 4:1- says to test the spirits and refers to the trueness of prophets but I think that is a very wise thing to apply in choosing who to date or not. You say that you believe that the problem is in you - can you can talk about with this guy?- Could it also be his behaviour or attitude? Is there an indirect way of broaching the subject? Like: "You and Susie seem to go way back...she seems like a special friend"-- Listen and watch his reaction. If it is just in you, as you say, I know you'll get over it thru God's help. Keep praying and listen to God's wisdom. Sometimes, in love, we must persist and sometimes, we have to let go. Even for bible-believing Christians, the romance department still has it's difficult moments. God's always fighting for you and working all your circumstances for the good of those who love Him and are called to His purpose.
@@kadd4415 in my situation, he truly respects me and i saw that on the last youth retreat we went, and he was always trying to stay away from the other girls, and i saw that every time, and there was also an old woman watching us and she confirmed that to me. Being honest, this is really from me, because the girl who is doing this is a different girl, she is our friend, and she is really the type of girl who is extremely extroverted, And this bothers me a little, and she has a boyfriend. Maybe it could be just her style of talking to others and i'm just being jealous for no reason. I believe that i will overcome that. He is a cute guy, my family and leadership approves him, and till now, there's nothing that i can judge about him, it's just her that i don't feel comfortable. But i think that is just something from my mind. But anyway, thank you for your advice, i really appreciated!! 😊💕❤
@@MagicFlower1810 Don't worry about that girl , she ain't YOU
@@Mary-gr3mr thank you Mary!! You're so nice!! 😊❤💕
Sisss- if he is the guy for you, he would show you by treating you how the Lord thinks of you! Honestly, I can testify because my husband when we were dating was very point blank about this. He was like I dont see you as the world sees you, therefore I can't treat you as the world's men treats you. So, honestly the guy who the Lord has called for you will show you signs of this too!
Omgosh- literally my content idea for this week!! I love this topic, I used to be SOO crazy, jealous when dating but that was such a display of the voids in me that I hadn't let Jesus heal!
Well I’m happy I’m not the only one struggling with jealousy. Thank you for this❤
no you're not trust me
When a real MAN is ready his eyes are on the PRIZE 🏆. There are real men out there , but yall need to let God take you through the pain of healing to get ready for that man . God knows what u need , God knows your discomfort. Take it all to Him . Dont forget we are meant to have fun and live life too . If you're not having fun you need to take a step back and reevaluate how your spending your life.
Come on sis! There truly are "real men" out there. My husband always says "there will be pretty girls and guys everywhere, but how one chooses to deal with it is what sets one apart". There are men who think with their spirit and not their you know what and you know who! haha
I am a gay male but I suffer from a lot of these things actually and honestly thank u so much people in the comments included I tried some of these out and it helped so much
Girl I needed this! Thank you! I love how you brought God into the discussion too. ❤ Everything you said is so true. I just hope I remember that when those feelings arise 😭
I’m not dating and haven’t for 5 years. But that is something the Lord is breaking down in my mind. I just think so low of myself that there’s just no possible way anyone would want to date me. And that affects how I treat my brothers in Christ. But the Holy Spirit is transforming my mind in this!!
I always seem to like some one but then they always find someone else. I don’t tell them I like them. They seem better off with each other in my eyes. I get jealous of the idea of being in a relationship. It seems like it’s harder for me than it is for other people.
Literally prayed for guidance on this a few hours ago ❤
Thank you so much for this video Nastasia, it made me save a note in my phone with different quotes/ reminders to myself when jealousy appear.
Hello, new subby here! 🎉❤ I just want to say I really appreciate you’re content and what you’re putting out for the children of God. Thank you for this 🤍
❤ jealousy is ugly. Thank you for sharing your thoughts you are a confident woman.
Useful as always 👍❤ the background music is distracting though!
Good advice very encouraging! I’m gonna share this video!
I have a jealousy situation right now so the girl I am talking to is in the military and I really like her but I feel so dumb sometimes because I get all annoyed and mad because I think the worst. The thing is I am a great guy and I think I’m just tripping this video has actually open my eyes especially with god! But what are ways I can prevent this I know my worth but I just idk.
I married a cheater and liar and I had no idea until years into our marriage..over the last two years I have found out so much. It hurts! I wish I would have known this sooner.
Omgosh sis- my heart dropped at this. So so soooo sorry that you had to go through this. Praying that the Lord would bring an abundance and an overflow of healing and comfort but also would repair any confidence that this may have stripped from you! Sending you love x
@@krupaabrokwaa thank you so much for your loving words! And especially your prayers. I have decided to stay in my marriage and he is getting help for his sex addiction.
Love this video but I don’t think the music fits. it kinda distracted from the serious message. Still love your videos though
I get jealous when my boyfriend talks about his late wife ,i know i shouldnt be jealous,its ruining our relationship,im trying to get over it help!
Amen sista!
Great video
Yup...
You should make a video to talk adout how evil homosexuality is
Start looking into this.
Satan tempts and can give away any kingdom. Yahweh tempted and offered any kingdom 🤔
Didnt Jesus say his Father never tempts, that its not eye for an eye, tooth for tooth. Love your any enemy, bless thoughs that curse you, dont take oaths, not a hair on a childs head will ever be harmed. He came to save not to condemn. He said theres no jealousy, malice, darkness in his father. But isnt this the opposite of what Yahweh has done, being seen and sitting in dark clouds, a god that Cursed, jealous god, take an oath or burn, murder children, tear them out of wombs, send 2 bears to murder 40 children for calling a prophet a baldhead. Giving serpents as food to the jews, but didnt Jesus say his father would never give your serpents. And didnt he say no one has ever heard or seen his father. Who was Moses and these other characters in the old testament talking too. Elijah bringing down fire and brimstone from the heavens and when the disciples asked Jesus to do the same, he said you dont know of what Spirit you are. He called the god they follow the father of lies, murderer since the beginning and not his father. Hmmm.. seems like Jesus was rebuking the ot god as he is satan. Theres alot more information that i know now and free from the curse and whats to come. Jesus is here, he is love and the kingdom of God is within.
Why do you make your videos just for Women
Biblically women are meant to minister to other women or children not to men.
1 Timothy 2:12