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“She’s the daughter you actually wanted.”
Hits hard.
Fr
I feel her I feel like my best friend Kayleigh is the daughter my mum really wanted not me I've always felt that she loves her more than me
Real.
so true
Real.
The fact that she said "That's not fair" rather than "That's not true" says alot
I swear that’s playing the victim
Why would she lie and gaslight her own daughter and say that she didnt say something that she did say?
@@kpopggfan2524 i think they meant it as a reassurance "that's not true that i felt that way" (like the mom cld have just said it at the spur of the moment /in heat of emotions kind of thing.) so it's not that she's dispelling tt she didn't SAY it but dispelling that she ddint mean it
Yea.. I feel like she really does like kamala more than devi... and she didn't even look like she cared about what was going on
@@mish8183 she did say "what? I don't like you? That's not true!" Right before this scene.
The worst part is the mom didn't even care that Devi felt that way. She didn't try to deny it or offer any reassurance at all.
Well welcome to the Indian household it is not uncommon here
It happens a lot in Hispanic household also (Im Mexican)
It’s just messed up in my opinion, no one deserves terrible parents because that’s mainly how they become terrible ppl
@@Its_Me_Ashi_ i feel sorry for you
@Tre no other cultures aren't as sensitive like, its not that deep we can handle it and it tbh makes us stronger.
The fact that she said “that’s not fair” instead of “that’s not true” about Devi hit hard🥶😭
is your life that sad that you have to steal top comments to be popular? 💀☠️
WTF ur that jealous u r so pathetic lol😂 I actually find this funny @paradise89 I just commented smth funny but he fact that u think I’m sad you’ve probably never left your room before u must really have no life in order to make other people comment things like crap poor little baby😂💀🫢
@@paradisexoxouwuwhat if he didn’t see it? Is there a reason to say “is ur life that sad…” bro chill out
@@paradisexoxouwuIs your life that sad that you have to be rude to random strangers on the internet?
@@paradisexoxouwuis ur life that sad that u get offended by random comments on the internet?
ok but their character and relationship development in season 3 is just so beautiful 😭
What episode is this
Fr
@@geromedeath7245season 1 dont know the episode but it she be towards the end of the season
@@geromedeath7245 S1 E9
Ok but their character and relationship development in season 3 is just sobeauridul
No one ever talks about how hard it is to lose your most supportive parent while you still have one left but they ignore their own battles within themselves so they also ignore you too
It happened to a friend of mine, a woman and when her father died she was left with a mother that loved her but was not supportive. Trap with a negative system that drow her down all the time (and later on also her daughter) and with a violent brother. She ran, but she never recovered. She was not gifted academically and she was never able to grow a steel-plated skin. Maybe because she was so little when her father died, or maybe because she was sick from an early age.
It happened to me
It happened to me my dad loves me so much but he couldn’t stand mom and left for other woman when I was only 3 years old and ever since that happened my own biological mother hates me and she lay all her love attention on my cousin 😢
I FINALLY GOT SOMEONE TO 1K
yes
"Fair is not everyone getting the same thing, fair is everyone getting what they deserve"
-young Sheldon
movie?
@@booiosit’s a series called young sheldon
@@Morpheusial it’s a spin-off of The Big Bang Theory following Sheldon’s childhood and it’s on Netflix
Isn’t that equality vs equity but ok
ain’t no way
"I wish you were the one that died that night"
That line hit deep. Devi a savage
Nah you should never ever say that to someone
@@sarahyeates ik but still..
@@Lala_TaylorsVersion saying something like that doesn't make anyone a savage
@@sarahyeates kk sry i can change the comment if u want
Ya
I know Devi can be so crazy sometimes but the trauma that she has experienced is so immense I kinda don’t blame her..
Omg same
finally someone said it
Fr, I got my own problems but I don’t think I’d be able to handle that stuff that happened/happens to Devi.
Fr
That’s what’s me and my mom be saying she crazy but people never stop and ask them self why she is and don’t put themselves in her shoes
why was i shocked i literally watched this show 80 times
Yeah me too, love this show, but everytime I rewatch it I still get like the same feelings like I’m watching it for the first time
@BestiesForever2182 never have I ever
Same
Honestly she was fine until she said the last thing and how she wished nalini died last night doesn't fail to make jaw drop there.
Because with every word it gets worse 😔
"all kids deserve parents, but not all parents deserve kids"
-someone wise
What abt spoiled brats? They're r kids who abuse their parents yk..
@@bl_eb3rry_.No, I get ur point but all kids still deserve parents. Any kids. Good observation though! Happy Easter
Someone very young, dumb na biased apparently
@@alwaysharper thanks but it just gets me so irritated when I hear someone saying that kids r always nice a sweet and never abusing bc my lil sister always push my mom to do things even though she knows my mom back is hurting and that she's sick but yea u have a good point! And ty happy Easter 4 u too
@@bl_eb3rry_. tysm!! We both have good points. My mom's back is broken sadly.
Devi has every right to be the crazy person who hides everything and her mom doesent deserve her.
What show is this? Thanks
@@pamlew338never have I ever
Nope she can’t be a selfish crazy person just cuz of the trauma she had, but Nalini should go easy on her abit. She’s a good mom. She just doesn’t understand how to deal with devi and her emotions
her mother was also going through soo much her husband also died and she was also going to really hard time😢😢
I felt bad for devi too but this dosen't make her mother bad
Yall are soo wild. She left her grandmother’s wedding to hook up, she lied to her mom and friend on multiple occasions, and she cheated. Think about Nalini’s position in this, dealing with a daughter who constantly disobeys her. You guys act like adults can’t make mistakes and excuse everything an almost 18 yr old does. Yes, she said something wrong in the heat of the moment, was it wrong? Yeah, but just like how everyone’s looking at the trauma for Devi, look at how most likely Nalini was brung. Shes from India, and she most likely had high expectations set on her, because most of the stuff in this show is pretty unrealistic. Nalini probably sacrificed a lot to come to America for Devi’s future. It’s not black and white. It’s so weird when people pick side on two morally gray characters because not everyone is perfect. She eventually owns up.
The words “I wish you were the one that died that night.” Is absolutely spectacular writing and takes a huge step in story telling
The fuck? Not even.
bruh what 💀
Ahm, just to enlighten you, those words don't have much impact these days because they're really common and I've heard them in many TV shows
I think it's sarcasm guys... I think 😅
Ok
Devi's Mom is the adult. Devi is a child. She's a grown woman talking shit about her own kid and Devi is a teenager who lost her Dad and has a Mom who she knows said that she wasn't wanted.
true
@Cosmic Boba even if it is common, it should not be. do u know how it effects the mind of a kid. just bcz u are an adult doesn't mean u can say whatever u want and still want us to not get hurt, bcz if we do the same then we are rude, brat and a$$ hole kids but if a parent says that the. they are trying to discipline their kids? but thats how u not discipline ur kids bcz ur kid is only gonna hate u with ur insensitive words. literally there are no consequences for adults if they act really bad to kids but there should be
@Cosmic Boba if Devi makes choices that reflects her character then so does her mother makes choices that reflects her character, i won't say that what Devi said was right, but remember, kids learn from their parents. Her mom sh!t talked about her and as a sane human she will get hurt by those words, and it should not be invalidated just bcz she is a teenager who doesn't know anything so say whatever u want to say about her. Teenagers need assurance and emotional support. Her mother also needs to reflect not only Devi, they both should be redeeming for the things they have said to each other.
@Cosmic Boba Just bcz Devi is a teenager and her mother is adult, she can say anything, in fact her mother should be more responsible of what she is saying bcz she is an adult.
And there are parents who don't smack their kid and sh!t talk, yeah they are hard to find but Their are and it is bcz they actually took the responsibility of caring for a kid not bcz everyone told them to so they should be doing what everyone is doing (out of topic)
And there are not perfect parents but there are good parents who know what they are doing.
@Cosmic Boba and Devi literally lost her father who was her only emotional support system. And of course Devi would get mad bcz her mother didn't ask what she is going to do bcz as much he is the husband of her mother, he is also her father, so she does have a say in what should be done with his stuff, her mother's moving own is unhealthy way bcz she is ignorant, impulsive and inconsiderate. Yeah her mother feelings are valid but just bcz they are valid doesn't give her the permission to do anything she wants. And IF THE MOTHER IS TRYING TO MOOVE ON THEN SO IS DEVI, u are talking like her mother is only one suffering from grief and has the only right to grieve over it. Devi also lost someone she loved.
And i won't excuse devi's other behaviour bcz they are wrong but acting like her mother being sad and grieving is the only logical thing when Devi also has total right to.
Devi and ginny would be THAT one best friend pair we need
ONG YESSSS
I need to see that
Omg yesss
Fr
Maybe
As someone who has a mother who has said horrible things to my face about me my entire life and has a father who is there for me beyond everything, thick and thin. If I lost my father and heard my mother say that, I'd 100% react like this too. That statement is an emotional reaction to the pain the mother caused her, and she wants to inflict the same pain.
So true!!
Same and truth!!!
Lost my dad - neither one would be a good option anyways 💀.
@@mir0h2714same, dad is M.I.A and mom told me to off myself, “the world would be better without me”
What your Mother never did was process the hurt, the feelings & come to terms with it, so she did that to you.
Completely on Devi’s side. I grew up being told how my birther prayed to have me. But then she abused and neglected me. Either by words or actions, children who feel unloved or unwanted are not obligated to tip toe around their parents feelings.
Your mother was not obligated to serve you, but to confron you to the correct way of behaving and thinking in society. She is a failure for doing such a poor job at that, not for her "abuse" of you
@@TableGrables nah dude, she's also a failure for abusing her child. A parents job is to take care of their kid, watching and helping them grow, and to make sure they feel mentally well. While not obligated to "serve", if you wanted and tried for a child, you shouldn't just neglect them because it's not right
@@TableGrables wow. Your mentality sucks
@@TableGrables well, technically, she is obligated to. She is obligated to take care of and treat her child with respect. Bringing them up without any form of abuse or mistreatment, that is by law what she is meant to do. She was just clearly a terrible mother who abused her child emotionally and physically, who had no right to have ever had to chance to bear a child.
Sending more love to you. Stay strong ❤
When a parent acts as if your trauma is nothing, but says all you are wanting is attention, but their wrong. Your not grabbing for attention, your begging for help, you wish for something they never gave, which could be love. My own mother has done the same thing and she remembers things differently, but certain things can leave an impression that doesn't go away, it leaves behind trauma and have lasting effects later in life. I suffered and so has my younger sisters, my mother just doesn't see it, she blinded by her own dramatic nature and playing off that everything is okay. She will victimize herself, when someone points out the wrong she has done, im the only child thats ever caused her to face whats shes done to me and understand what she did was wrong, my younger sisters no longer talk to about her any serious issues that she will perceive as a mental problem, which its not. I love my mom, i wish she'd understand that how she remembers it, is not the same as how i remember it
i can’t even explain how much i relate to this comment. my mom is EXACTLY like that. i just wish she would show some love.
Needs to send this to my mom
it brings me comfort that some of us have lived the same life. i’m so sorry your mother was as awful as mine.
I’m going through something very similar
Unfortunately I’ve had too many close calls as a result of my pain and lack of familial support.
I’m glad you can love your mother inspite if the pain she has caused you
@@thesmittenkitten7778I was in the same situation with my dad . I was always jealous of other people's beautiful relationship with their fathers, so I started reminding myself everyone has problems. A bud can bloom if it's strong enough. We can get through this and make sure this kind of history does not repeat itself. The trauma cycle is real and can be broken with a lot of effort. ❤❤
The fact the mom didnt even try to resure devi. Now i understand why devi is the way she is.
devi had actually trauma and she didn't "brag" abt it. she never wanted self made mommy issues. meanwhile ginny went through nothing as much and was so desperate for mummy issues
rightttt
Bro her mom killed 3 people how was she desperate
Edit: I started a war😭
@@Peyton-mh2vkbut Ginny had nothing to complain about. Georgia did her best to keep her kids safe and Ginny just acted like an ungrateful brat.
@@Peyton-mh2vkI mean, does it directly affect her? I haven’t watched the show in full, but at least one of those people was a dude actively harassing Ginny.
ginny didnt go through nothing she was having trouble w the fact that her mom k1lled someone yeah it was to protect her but you dont think finding out someone close to you is a murderer would affect a person in any way? she literally had a nightmare ab georgia trying to suff0cat3 + georgia brushing it off her georgia is a good mom but even her parenting had some flaws ginny wasnt the best angel ever but she did go through stuff
Context: Devi's mom attempted to sell her father's bike which he was really attached to. When Devi tried to convince her mother otherwise, she flatly ignored her feelings. This really hurt Devi. Whatever Devi said was an expression of all the rage that she had been consuming so far. From her mother comparing Devi with her cousin, her father's death, her leg injury, her issues with Ben and Paxton to her mom selling something that was so close to her father's memory. This is very natural among teenagers and I can totally empathize considering how many times i have said some really fucked up things to my mom and instantly regretted. Besides, I think Devi's mom was going wayy to far disciplining her. She was being inconsiderate and oblivious of Devi's feelings. Small things like these really affect a person especially when ur a teenager. Boundaries are requisite for a child's well being but not to an extent that life becomes too suffocating to live.
What’s this show?
Show name
@@Timothy_Million never have I ever
@@moldy_grandpa7867 thank you
Indian and Pakistani parents are very similar. It's not far from the truth
exactly thank you, her pain is like rarely talked about, all we hear is oh she two-timed ben and Paxton, that's all we hear!!
Isn't that the writers fault.
@@woon1che222 no it's the viewer's fault because we only focusing on cheating instead of mental health!!
@@basilhenry-eyo6522i understand she went through a lot but that doesn’t excuse her actions, she’s super annoying in the show and she constantly plays the victim! I’ve been through a lot in my life but I don’t use my pain as an excuse to hurt people. Devi is an awful person
@@arjunmanya2642 Another thing I don’t understand is when you guys keep saying oh she shouldn’t use her pain to treat others like crap, when all she wants is to be seen as normal, by others as ever since her dad died and she lost her legs for three months, people think she’s either crazy or pity her so the only logical thing she can do as a teenager that would make them see she is normal is getting a boyfriend!
@@basilhenry-eyo6522 getting a boyfriend is perfectly fine, but cheating on him with another guy isn’t. I understand she’s been through a lot but so have many other people in the world, who don’t have a victim mentality. Instead they get up and keep going forward trying to be the best person they can.
Devi's lines be hitting my heart deeply
This is the mommy issue ginny wanted with georgia.😂
lol
LMAO
lmao
Ginny never wanted mommy isssues Georgie was always neglecting ginny’s trauma
@@Sturniolovfxx lol , you are probably one of those fake depressed person who just need attention
if you make your children feel this way, you deserve all of this 10 times over again. there’s no excuses, no amount of sorry’s you can give, just actions.
My parents still make me feel this way. Ive told them. Many times and after 32 years they still haven’t said sorry. I even told them ive never heard them say sorry to anyone ever including me and they still wont say it. Some people are just lost causes.
Damn...
@@Lady420Ganja
How many 'Thank You's will it suffice for them raising u?
@@killerpsycho1164 The parents chose to have a child,we didn't ask to be born
@@roxirock5455 You can’t ask to be born. Your parent did you a favor and gave you a chance at life. The reasoning of you didn’t ask to be born is basically saying that you don’t care about the people and things in your life.
Proof that a mothers love is not always the strongest thing
You clearly haven’t watched the show
Tbf she was a really good mother for most of the show except this 1 moment. You can't expect people to be perfect
I can't see a "mother's love" in this.
U haven’t watched the show have u 🙄
Allah love us 70 times more than our mother.. And thats just fact
My heart aches for Devi. This was devastating.
How I see it is that Devi is a teenager here, not an adult, if her mom, being older and more emotionally mature, said that, then devi is probably gonna say something worse , it's not okay be so hurtful, but teenagers do it all the time, I wouldn't say that she went too far here. We usually have less control over our emotions and words at that age. And I think a lot of people with some degree of freedom have talked like this when they were teenagers, especially if they had any emotional trauma.
It's not just teens, rude is rude, she crossed a line with the last sentence
Yeah it's never okay but teenagers aren't emotionally mature and also Devi was traumatized wich her mom was too but as a adult
@@luzura348 to be honest are we going to completely forget that her mum has also said something,she may not of said it to her face but she still heard it
True sometimes teenagers say mean things to their parents and even as a young adult you’re going to argue with your parents at times. Most people only stop arguing with their parents once they have already moved out. Overall though I think they were both wrong for saying what they said but it definitely is understandable why Devi reacted the way that she did.
@@luzura348 yh but she’s still growing and maturing, she hasn’t even seen half of what her mom has seen, don’t act like u never went through a moment where u lost control by being blinded by emotions, i feel bad for both of them
“You’re words cut deep deeper then any blade”
I recently watched that episode. Lmao.
@@BakeBMDeezy w
~Zabuza
I agree with you
Your
I cant explain how much I relate to the pain that was involved in this scene. I had overheard my sister tell her boyfriend I wasn't her sister anymore while I was pretending to sleep. We are okay right now and we still love each other to death, but that morning permanently scarred me and my relationship with my sister.
Me too. My sister told me straight to my face she introduced me to her friends as her cousin. She was so proud telling me that too. I can tell she said that to hurt me but that wasn't just words to me. It was personal. I felt like she betrayed me. Now I learned not to care so much about her. I feel that it will only hurt me. I'm kind of passive aggressive to her now. I still love her but I don't want to feel that type of pain again.
why did she say that tho?
The way I can relate to this💔 on my birthday I got drunk and I drove two hours to see my sister to do these things I guess I called her big like house when I was drunk and next day she tried on some pants I told her they look tight cs she wears a 7 1/2 and they were a 6 and they told me ab wearing together clothes gives you an infection and she called me a hater and jealous and a Bit*h to her friend. My intentions were never to be a hater💔 because I am not one especially for my sister. If someone told me I had a big head and laughed I’d laugh aswell and I went to try on a hat the next day and they said it was tight I wouldn’t think that an call them a bit*ch? Bro what? And call a random person Idek? could’ve called our momma or sumn
I overheard my mom telling her new husband that she was counting down the days till I graduate and that just bc I'm her daughter and she has to love me doesn't mean she has to like me
@@chaotic_9427😢
I love that her mom said “that’s not fair” instead of “that’s not true”
Why would she say "that's not true" of Devi overheard her? That's literally gaslighting and it only makes the problem worst
@@eliteayanokoji8637 she didn’t try and defend herself. She could have said “you don’t hear all the times I praise you? You don’t see me there to protect you the moment you need help?” She could have said anything. It would have been gaslighting but it’s crazy that she didn’t care enough to defend herself that was my point
She didn’t have to say anything. She could have listened to Devi and apologized
@@smithsunleashed very true she should have stayed quiet
@@meganliles2003 no amount of consolation will make up for the pain of hearing that ur an unwanted child directly from ur parent's mouth
how did the mom keep a straight face??? if i were the mom i’d be bursting out crying
Ikr? Proves that she doesn’t fully care for her daughter, or maybe at all
Because she knew damn well she was right and it was deserved
Because the women doesnt actually care about her kid
Welcome to the asian community :)
welcome to the african community 🙀🙀
If I said those words my mother would have took me to Devi’s father🕊
Edit: TYSM FOR 92K LIKES!!❤️
FRRRR
lmao
Took me a sec to get it 🥰🥰
But same
same😃
Yall, IN the show the mother did say that for her losing some fucking music sheet.
Devi didnt cross a line, She just wants a parent, somebody who is meant to guide and love her so she grows into an amazing person to love her and care for her. Her father cared and loved for her.
Imagine your a child left and stuck with somebody who doesn’t love you, doesn’t even want you. Then turns around and says it was the heat of the moment. NO PARENT should ever treat their child like that.
The mother fully deserved those words, those works awakened her sight to being able to see her child needs to actually be loved.
Lines where already crossed when her dad died infront of her.
Never thought I would have to edit a comment; please try to refrain from acting like babies in the comments and taking this too personally and deep. I’m not saying Devi is an amazing little angel, but I’m just saying people don’t need to treat their kids this way and say what refers to this edit, as when I first saw this short I saw others say “Devis mom never said that”. So please, at least try to be a decent human being and leave it be. Like the high boys at my school would say; “it’s not that deep.”
Anywho, have a good day and please, If you’re going through anything of abuse with your parents or anybody seek help. Some of y’all make me worry fr.
this should be pinned
It's an Indian parent thing we're they will be like control ur daughter to their husband it's normal it's not deep, it doesnt mean she doesnt love her daughter and if you watch the show she cares for devi a lot. Devi is white washed that all so doesnt know how to handel a desi house hold she shouldn't have said I wish u were the who died that night is a horrible thing to say
Frrrr I’m so tired of ppl saying Devi is a horrible person she’s a teen who is going through shit cause she lost her dad and for a while lost the ability to walk but yeah
Frrrr! The difference is one is an actual CHILD and the other is a parent who willingly gave birth to her. She put way too much pressure on Devi and never showed her real appreciation for her achievements. A lot of people here saying 'well that's the asian standard' to show off how good your child is in things but that's seriously messed up. This finally opened her eyes to seeing how hurt her daughter was
@@anaksayangdisini816 she appreciated devi more than other Indian parents
Devi didn't say the hurtful thing first. Her mother did. So no they're not equally horrible. She's an angsty teen who lost her music sheet. Her mother said she's no daughter of mine over that. Imagine how you'd feel.
exactly! she took it to heart bc she’s always fought with her mom since she was a young teen , she thought her mom actually meant it and it hurt her feelings just like any other person
If your child has the courage to say that to you don't blame them. Blame the parent for not giving them the love and attention they needed.
Fr
i lost my dad when i was little. i genuinely think he cared about me more than my mom ever will. i love my mom, but i wish she would make me feel as loved as other kids get to feel.
I'm so sorry lovely her ya go here some safe energy ❤
Parents only want you when your young.. The day your old.. They won't treat you better just a bit bad..
I have both parents and I never felt loved and i know they just despise me
I feel the same, I lost my dad at a really young age and I feel he loved me more, I totally understand
people say Devi’s all crazy and stuff but like people don’t understand what she’s been though at a young age experiencing so much stuff.
“I wish you were the one that died that night” I felt that
Hello fellow Cobra Kai fan
Devi’s lines hit hard😭😭😭
So true
Frl
episode n season?
For real
So true 😭😭😭
Devi has every right to be mad. If parents can say such words then what's wrong with the child saying it?
Gratitude and Appreciation only go so far, we're all human. And age has no superiority not does the role.
THIS, if a child calling out their own mother is being "disrespectful" then why is it if a parent does that, its suddenly okay??
so?
“I know I’m just a burden to you, so you can go to India alone. Or you can Kamala with you, she the daughter you actually wanted” damn I can feel the pain
After my dad died I'd argue a lot more than usual with my mum. My dad died a few months before my college entrance exams which are brutal in my country. I'd always been an honors student but grief took a toll on me. One day I got incredibly angry at my mum and told her to go to hell (she was basically saying that I amounted to zero due to my inability to focus on my exams and my drop in mock exam grades) and she said "keep saying that and you might send me there just like you did with your father". I told her I wished it was her that died that night too then.
I take it back now ofc, but you all have to understand that the parent that remains should give their child double the love, affection, care and understanding. Otherwise they don't feel loved and cared for so they want to a)fight back and hurt you back and b) bring back the other parent who they think could give them those things
Only sane comment here. People really underestimate the power of grief.
Your mother deserve better
Yeah, most people over here doesn't even know what grief is called. They are all sitting here commenting like her dad dying is hurting her same as her middle school breakup.
Ask anyone in this comment section who are judging Devi for that one line, that if they actually lost someone close to them in their life and they would give us the answer why we should ignore those comments.
If your mom said that to you I'm sorry but she deserved to hear much worse from you and zero apologies. She sounds abusive af ngl. Pressuring you n telling you you will amount to zero just for marks on a mock test is not okay under normal circumstances let alone when you're dealing with so much grief. And she KNOWS a lil about that grief having lost her husband(unless she's an emotionless person) so she really knew how much saying you sent your father to hell n will send her too would hurt you. She wanted to hurt you worst. I hope you have gone no contact or at least low contact with this awful woman before she destroys whatever life you make for yourself. Ppl don't realise how bad psychological abuse is but the way you nonchalantly said about the stuff she's said to you sounds like she does this a LOT to the pointbthat you've forgotten you deserve better. Hope you get to escape her abd heal n be happy. What an awful person tbh. Who says horrible shit like that AS A GROWN ADULT WOMAN WITH A CHILD OLD ENOUGH TO TAKE MOCK TESTS.
Your mom should have never told you that in the first place. She should have provided extra support and understand that you were still grieving.
I wish we saw more scenes of Devi’s grief cycle rather than the whole Paxton Ben situation. I get that she got into that because she was avoiding her grief and didn’t want to think about it, but I wish we could see Devi breakdown more and she and her mom support each other a little bit more here. Nalini lost her husband too you know!
this is the unprocessed grief talking. the father was the glue that held them together and now they are breaking down trying to figure out how to cope.
You know the actors are good when you get emotional😢
She had every right to say what she did. It doesn't matter that it was her mother. If someone makes you feel like shit they make you feel like shit and your response should always be the same no matter if they are family or some random stranger. She had every right to feel her feelings.
Thank you.
The people in this comment section are seriously concerning with how they are addressing this.
@@CamdenKaneakaNeptunesdaughter me too! I read them in horror.
I so agree with this. People walk around and act like their actions don’t affect others, and then they get upset when they’re called out on it. Call them out always!!!
You can't fight your parents like they're friends like they don't respect me they treat me like shit so I'll tell them to die. It's different devi wasn't wrong here but not entirely right too. And lastly it does matter if someone is your mother or father.
@@mubbun168 you 100% can tell your parents how you feel. Your feelings matter. Your parents are just people. They are not higher than you. They do not deserve respect if they don't give it. Davi had every right to speak her mind.
I'm on Devi’s side. My mom told me to move out because no one wanted me here. And then when she apologised, I didn’t forgive her because all her apologies are meaningless. My dad banned me from my phone because I didn’t forgive her. Devi does stupid stuff because her mom doesn’t treat her like a daughter. You’re supposed to treat your daughter like a child not a mistake. Devi does bad things because no one was there to teach her
I feel thisss … my mom has recently started treating with such coldness and saying such disgusting things towards me tbh… it truly hurts and it makes me feel sad that I won’t have a close relationship with my mother like most people do but it is what is even tho I wish I could change it… things will never be the same and idk if I will forgive her for the things she has said to me. 😢
@@beepboop3k same, I don't think I'll ever forgive her for making me feel unwanted and unloved
what is this movie
@@booiosits a show
@@booiosnever have i ever, and it’s available on netflix
Props to Maitreyi Ramakrishnan, her acting in this scene and as Devi in general was so good
This show made me cry sm
“I wish you were the one that died that night.” Broke my heart 💔😭
Same here. And more so because it reminds me of what my mom told me that my grandma told her on the day of the funeral of my uncle - my grandma's favorite son. My grandma treated my mom as the black sheep even when my mom would help my grandparents out with everything. My grandpa.on the hand, never did.
Fair? That’s her honest reaction and emotions to something you said! How is that not fair?!?!
Bro she lost her husband too. When you lose somebody you don’t act like yourself
@@SerenitoneStudiosshe said to her husband before he died and devi heard it.
Ok but this show is such an accurate portrayal of how different people process grief differently
Exactly
“I wish you where the one who died last night” that hits super hard😮😢
Devi has every right to want a better life for herself, and that's what she's saying when she says she wishes it was her mom instead. If you're a grown adult who f'd up this bad, you should be able to handle the repercussions-- a child who despises you.
Fr, my dad died a year ago he was the only one i could talk with relate to aftually be happy with im alwyas angry at my mom and shes angry at me i know its bad but i actually do wish my mom died instead of my dad
I cant blame Devi
I know what it feels like to know your mom/dad doesnt want you.
Like, you actually wish he/she was gone from your life because it like a stab in the heart everytime you see her/him.
love how there’s an emotional scene with an upset mother and teen daughter who just lost her father and they’re having a serious fight and there’s just this chill club music playing in the background 🥰 how suitable! 👏
Bro. Tf is wrong with u??? This is clearly a sad edit, it’s not “cHilL CLuB muSIc” its just a song.
r u deaf
any mother and child would be really hurt from those two experiences.
I’m honestly on Devi’s side. I can’t believe her mum would do that
Whats the series called?
@@Babbie..Melody never have i ever
@@Babbie..Melody never have i ever
@@k1arse tysm
@@thepositivenoobs9249 tysm
Comparison
Kamala is the daughter she always wanted i can feel her pain both in her eyes and heart
I can feel it too
Devi was right, if she is such a bad parent to say that Devi isn't her daughter, that's really bad. Devi had every right to say that and she loved Devi less than her father loved her. and if your gonna make your daughter feel like a mistake you desevered that alot ngl.
I love the way nalini improved as a mum so much during all the episodes
People think Devi is crazy and mean but she has been through a lot and I don’t judge her, she is my favorite ❤
I feel Devi's pain tremendously. I lost my dad 3 years ago due to drugs and alcohol addiction. My dad was my best friend, the only one who worked in the house, and was the best father I could ever ask for. My mother never did anything to help out, and I still to this day believe it was her fault for my dad not being here anymore because he would've never gotten depressed or became addicted to drugs if she just cared about him more. I still blame my mom for everything and my opinion will never change. I often feel like Devi, and sometimes wish my mom was the one who suffered because no one in the world could replace my dad. He was the only parent that cared about me and my siblings and my mom couldn't give less of a damn. She will never change and I have to live like this for the rest of my life. I know I may sound selfish and inconsiderate, but this is how I feel. The pain never goes away no matter how badly you want it to.😢
What’s the name of the show?
omg.. I’m so sorry for your loss:(( I hope ur feeling better
Hey, we might have different situations but I feel your pain. I’m really sorry you have to go through all of that. I really hope you get to be away from your mom and find a true bestfriend as a gift from your dad who’s already in a better place now. I’m sure he’s watching over you while hoping that you’ll feel better and experience the best things this life can offer.
@@sheena_inks never have i ever
@@OOOO0OOOO0001___ thank youu
when she said "I wish you were the one that died that night." hit so hard.
That’s sad the “mother” didn’t even care😢
If you make your child who’s looked up to you for a while is pushed to the limit to say something like this to you. You completely deserve it. Meeting you did something to make your child act like that.
FR I FELT SO BAD 4 HER bc she was just protective and sad after her dad died
My mom often said me when I was little and if did something wrong: I wish you were dead, then I’ll say all that one of my daughter is dead. I’m fifty orphan. She was one person who was must care about me. But I grew up with this words and violence(she beat me). I’m so unhappy now, guys. I don’t know how to love myself. I accepted that she was so selfish, emotional unstable, but every time when I want to care about her, I remember all things that she did and said. That’s why dear mothers love your babies and tell how you love and care about them.
Well, even if your mother doesn't love someone or a special little furry friend will, to them you could their whole world, your mother doesnt understand she has something more precious than life itself. Dont give up hope just yet.
These are the some traits of Narcissts... It's fact Narcisst mothers and fathers exit.....
god i love this show
Ppl saying she crossed a line don't know what its like to be entirely unloved by a single parent that doesn't even pretend to like you 💀
I would've (and have) gone farther. 👍🏼
I have been . Don't assume that .
@@Pinterest_Finaticc and everyone reacts to things differently. I’ve never seen the show but her response is a normal one that most people would have😂
Devi’s father was so nice he truly loved that house 😊
That last line hits so hard but Devi's mom was literally talking shit about Devi the night before the father died. We heard it, she was too hard on Devi. Nitpicked everything
The acting is immaculate in this scene.
Also beautiful editing skills!
I didn’t wish death on my mom when she told me I was supposed to be aborted but the pain of just feeling unwanted in the most basic sense of the word, and it was done by one of the most impactful person in my life at that time was hard to laugh off. (Soul destroying honestly) It’s better now and I am still working on loving myself and forgiving.
I hope if you have ever felt like this or are feeling it the overbearing entity that presides over existence (I call mine the universe) wanted you here and that comforted me deeply
Edit: Grammer lol
i know how much it hurts to be told that you're not wanted, or not someones child, my dad said it to me out of anger when he found out i was in a relationship, it was a big mess and i was 15, me and my dads relationship hasn't been the same since.. it's been scarred.. and probably always will be, I can't forgive him, not yet, i need time
It’s lowkey weird as well. Probably wouldn’t think twice if you were a boy.
@@khrystal718 lmao, what.
Do boys not have feelings or something now?
@@OraKogamiSan you really thought you did something 😂 goofy 🤡 should have sat in your dirty ass bed and ate your food
@@OraKogamiSan no they were saying that the father might have not cared that she was in a relationship if she was a boy
@@user11871 oooh alr alr, tysm^^
I am obsessed with the show right now and that is really sad to hear that the mom said that too
i talk like that to my mom and she’d backslap me😭✋
but you have to understand why she said that!!
@@basilhenry-eyo6522 i do understand
Really? I feel like if I wished death upon my Mom she would just be really hurt.
@@njyawndra8609 really? And you don’t think Devi was hurt when her mom said she was not her daughter or that she was a burden to her. You don’t think she was hurt when her mom called her crazy?
@@basilhenry-eyo6522 Wtf are you talking about? Nobody is talking about Devi.
I hate so much when people assume that you have to love unconditionally any relative. I also don't have a good mother and some cousins who have always mistreated me and I'm tired of being judged for not liking them
It might be just me, but I think what Nani said was just as hurtful as what Devi said. Like mother like daughter, both their words seem to really hurt people.
The difference was that Nani never said that to Devi, she was just ranting to her own husband about how difficult their child was being, which all parents do.
@@kpopggfan2524 Doesn’t make it right.
@@ryland5719 i didnt say it was right. My point was that Nani didnt say that to hurt Devi, while Devi said what she said intentionally to hurt her mother.
“I wish you were the one who died that night” hits hard….😢😢
Wow seeing someone act out the same conversation I had with my father when I was a teen is mind boggling. The parent that wanted me died, the parent that didn’t lives.
when i tell you my jaw dropped at this moment it literally dropped
I know parents don't mean it when they say such things.... They just say it in anger... But it really hurts children... As a child who had to hear such things I can totally relate to her... I know my parents never meant it but it still did hurt me... And whenever I am sad about something or my parents upset me about anything the first thing that come to my mind are their words and i think am I really a burden or disgrace to them. Am I really the worst thing that happened to them. I think parents should think about the feelings of children before saying hurtful words😞😞
this scene actually made me cry.
Villains aren’t born, they are made
Why is no one talking about how devi just casually says " I wish u were the one that died that night". It is probably one of the most hurtful things that a person can ever say.
Honestly, both of there pain isn’t looked at properly.
For Devi, almost the whole fandom looks at her as a “cheater” and being “crazy” instead of people realizing what she actually went through. (For the people who don’t know, she lost her dad at an orchestra concert from having a heart attack. She also got legs paralyzed for some time.)
For Nalini, it was hard for her to take care of Devi on her own. She was being both the mom and dad for Devi. She onky wanted the best for her. She was also hurting a lot when she was “dating” doctor Jackson and she just wanted to feel loved. Also, Devi was being very disrespectful to her too.
Edit: Also, Her mom shouldn’t have said that abt her own daughter. The mom might be going through a lot too but she shouldn’t have said that and it was all because she lost a dumb music sheet. bffr, shm🤦🏻♀️.
And before anybody else says “she was disrespectful to her mom though.” yes ik but Nalini was wrong for that.
“Oops I cheated on you, it’s because my dad died years ago”
@@Inaazxo people have a habit of doing things they normally wouldn’t do after a huge traumatic event. I mean that doesn’t make her actions ok but it’s not unusual to see her doing different things to mask her pain
@@achanacampbell994 which is not normal and shouldn’t be looked at as such
@@Inaazxo because it self sabotaging and a form of self harm. She doesn't think she worthy enough for said partner so she does stuff to push them away.
@@ripwakez955 no one said it wasn't normal but y'all act like y'all are saints and you're sht don't stink as well.
Im not crying you are 😭
Being Indian I related to how Devi felt. I never had my father say that but getting the approval from an Indian parent is super hard unless you were to basically do whatever they say. It's not just Indian parents but I've always considered myself the black sheep of my family and I felt Devi was too. It's not bad but it comes with struggles.
P.s. it was not okay of Devi to say that but she is young and when I was young I probably would have responded the same way
no but fr this scene made me cry- 😭
movie name ?
@@younlqre series not a movie and it’s called never have i ever
@@kissesfromkelll ok tysm
I feel bad for the mom cause she does love Devi, she was also going through one of the hardest times in her life and said things she regretted, Devi felt that way and it was real, but she didn't have the full story or understanding
Doesn't make her mom saying that ok and the mom could've reassured in that moment saying she does love her but instead she makes it about her self by saying it's not fair
“The world is not fair”-my mother 👩
Oh my god. I never thought I would relate to Devi so much 😭 The universe took my mom in the middle of a huge storm of her trying to figure out how we would leave my dad, or how to fix him.
I grew up in a household where demeaning words were told as if it was normal and that adults are always right. I get sexually molested, touched as a child and as a early teen in public transports by strangers but i don’t have the guts to speak up to my parents that someone is doing wrong cause i felt they wouldn’t trust me. I think those people could see through the eyes of my parents otherwise how did it happen so often that i m in a public transport and strangers could just randomly touch me while the lights are off etc. Anyway i blamed myself for being a coward but now that am an adult i know that parents are people we as a child when we were kids should feel save when people were hurting us.Now people will say its a Indian thing but nope my husband and a lot of people here in Kolkata has a different childhood than i do. So yeah not everybody has scary parents
The mom didn't even look sad when she said the last part she looked furious. Shows how much she really doesn't care about anyone but herself.
Edit: honestly if you care if I watched the show or not why don't you care about something that actually matters yall gonna pay my cable so I can have a "valid opinion" on a stupid TV show?
Ikr I was waiting for someone to point that out
Did you even watch the show?
@@atharvadeshpande6907 does it matter? Lol it's a show
@@TwiinArmagedonsyes it does matter because It proves your horrible at reading into shit
@TwiinArmagedons the point is if you watched the show, you would know how false your statement is. So what does it being a show have to do with what the other person said?
for those saying she went too far.. no she didn't.. when your parent makes you feel that way... that's exactly how she made her daughter feel.. just because she is her mother does not give her the right to treat her daughter that way.. to make her feel unwanted and unloved.. and whatever caused her to finally say the truth.. she needed a wake up call to realize how she was hurting her daughter. i been that unwanted daughter.. that burden .. i been there my whole life.. so i take the daughter's side in this. i have not seen the show but clips here and there but not alot to know the whole thing. but on an honest opinion.. if this was true... it didn't go far at all.. that's exactly how her mother made her feel...
She didnt say that TO Devi. She and her husband were having a conversation after Devi was very difficult and disrespectful, and she said that out of frustration, IN PRIVATE. Devi was just eavesdropping.
@@kpopggfan2524 That's even worse though. You should never say that about your children ever, not to them directly or to anyone else.
@aphrodite parents are people too.
Can u stop w the “..” after every single sentence
@@Lilith816 thats not something worse, even i think about that i would cry a lot but now after a time i understand this is what every parent does. A parent is also a human if the children vent so can the parent you can't just destroy someone's private space right? Devi was extremely disrespectful too, and her mother foolish for not understanding what her daughter is going through both needed to improve their life not Devi to sob about something that hurts everyday when to us this is natural. and Devi's mother that everyone can't live life under someone's imaginary view.
Devi changed so much from when she started and ended therapy (first to last episode) and that’s why we r proud of her ❤️
When your child says this when they are old enough to have a memory and a conscience, you KNOW you messed up somewhere are a parent. I said it to my toxic ex-auntie after she not only verbally abused me, but left me out in the doorstep when I was 5 years old. She was awful to my mother, father, grandparents and sister, and she never apologised for it. I don’t care how old I get or how long it is until I see her daughters (my old cousins) again. I do not regret telling her to die and I hope someday I am told by her daughters that she’s fulfilled my wishes. She caused too much pain and suffering to our family and I’m scarred by how she acted. I’d go far enough to say that if she doesn’t die of natural causes, I hope the smoking and the drugs kill her off.
I don’t usually wish this kind of thing on people, but she has lingered around our family, stalked us online, sent nasty comments to my grandparents for nearly 5 years and has brainwashed her kids into acting just like her…
I can relate so much to devi my mom is so disrespectful and complains about how we mess up her life and plans when I came home with mail and my neighbor came up to us the next day saying I dropped some she called me useless and wishes i would use my brain I wouldn’t say this to my mom straight up I love her but sometimes you can’t control your anger.