Just a little message to my viewers and an idea for a future video

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 27 ธ.ค. 2023

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  • @tmusa2002
    @tmusa2002 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +50

    In other words, you’re keeping it real. I think that’s why most of us are here. ☮️

    • @Hossak
      @Hossak 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

      Agree 100%. If people want lies and illusions- there are tens (probably 100s) of millions of people who post that daily.

  • @CheekClapper69420
    @CheekClapper69420 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +55

    Not positive enough...pff. there's something called toxic positivity. Pretending everything is fine and sunshine and rainbows while you want to yeet yourself
    Aaron, you're relatable af bro, please keep being yourself! Positive or negative

  • @SOak145
    @SOak145 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +30

    I genuinely feel like you should just be as natural (positive/neutral/negative) as you want Aaron. Goes without saying with it being your channel obviously. Keep up the daily grind. Your videos mean a lot to me and many others. I just personally enjoy when you upload stuff, positive or negative, I like tuning in to see how you're doing just generally as a person in life really and I appreciate your raw candidness and honesty, I really appreciate you opening yourself up to your community, it's very brave of you.

  • @georgec2894
    @georgec2894 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Long time subscriber, first time commenter. It's so easy for people like me to listen, relate, but not interact because we're going through a slightly more bearable phase ourselves. Then it hits us like a truck over the festive season and it compels us to comment and remind you and all the viewers that you are not alone feeling the way you do. Be yourself and you'll attract the right audience.

    • @aaronsjournal139
      @aaronsjournal139  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Glad you decided to reach out!

    • @shondajackson914
      @shondajackson914 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @aaronsjournal139, people often don’t understand when someone is not in a happy-go-lucky headspace. A lot of times, people have overly positive lives and they don’t understand that isn’t the experience for everyone. As an example, someone with 50+ friends can’t possibly understand social isolation. Don’t beat yourself up. Your life is your life. Let those people bounce to a channel that better suits their needs.

    • @georgec2894
      @georgec2894 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      @@aaronsjournal139 Great channel - honest and relatable.

  • @ShivaCVIII
    @ShivaCVIII 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Beware of the tyranny of positive thinking. Digestion is more important than trying to be positive all the time. Digesting both positive and negative experiences.

    • @eyepodwalkman6247
      @eyepodwalkman6247 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🌄🌹🐻🐕 The employment video should be interesting. That's been my biggest challenge.

    • @YanksandBritsProductions
      @YanksandBritsProductions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eyepodwalkman6247
      When you say that’s been your biggest challenge, what do you actually mean?
      Do you mean working with other people?

    • @YanksandBritsProductions
      @YanksandBritsProductions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Positive thinking brings positive results, simple as that.
      We should all feed off it day in day out.
      None of my family and relatives who have become very successful in life gone there by thinking Negatively.
      Many millions of people out there sit in front of tv and feed of Negative BS, as in the News and many other things …… then wonder why they are full of fear and negativity.
      Negative thinking will obviously bring negative results.
      When we see or meet a Very Confident person, that is because they have basically filled their life and thought system with Positive Thinking, and that obviously brings positive results.
      No disrespect to this guy here but recently he was talking about the attraction or dating a female, well show me one female that is attracted to Negativity.
      Most females are attracted to a Strong Confident Man, none of us can get away from that ….. and it’s totally natural for a female to be that way.
      And obviously a female is attracted to other things too, sense of humour, wealth Etc.
      No one is Born Confident, Confidence is developed over a period of time, and obviously with levels of success that that person achieves in life.
      And that is obviously one reason on display here, this guy thinks he’s not achieved much in life at his current age.
      That obviously is Negative BS, he basically puts no value or very little on things that he has achieved, such as his driving license that obviously makes him a living.
      I’m not sure if he is a CDL driver or not, but whatever license he holds he should be saying to himself I have Achieved this and it Means something.
      Why that particular thing, because Millions of people out there Don’t have what he has.
      I don’t know him very well but I think he is looking in all the wrong places for answer.
      When it comes to females and dating or marriage, obviously he would love to be in a relationship or happily married, but he is putting out Negative vibes, as in Desperate vibes …… again No disrespect to him, But Females are Not attracted to those type of vibes.
      But He can change that, will He, has He tried, only He knows that.
      I have No clue if he has looked into the tools out there that are available, self help tools.
      But Many Millions of people will go by a self help book and read a tiny bit and put it down for a few months or even years.
      Thennnn say omg that book was BS.
      Buttttt is it the Book, or is it Them …… as the old saying goes, you can lead a horse to water, but you can’t force it to drink. 🤔

    • @eyepodwalkman6247
      @eyepodwalkman6247 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@YanksandBritsProductions Working with other people and being mistreated by employers. Fortunately the last 13 years I've been doing work that I'm good at without much coworker interaction.

    • @YanksandBritsProductions
      @YanksandBritsProductions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@eyepodwalkman6247
      I totally get what you are saying, I have felt the same way here in England over many years.
      Thing is, we kinda get this crazy idea that we are strange, or we are the Only ones who feel like that.
      Their are Manyyyyy Millions of people out there Exactly the same.
      I’ve dreaded going into work many times over the years at different jobs I’ve worked.
      One of the tricks is obviously to find/ look for employment you really like and want to do or love, but you still could end up working with coworkers we don’t get along with …… it’s basically called Life.
      Their are ways and mean’s around it all, as in Self Employment Etc.
      Butttt as my brother puts it who is a Therapist here in England, their is No magic pill out there for all of life’s problems and issues.
      Hence the reason you got people who go live in the countryside or wilderness away from people.
      But obviously that brings along loads of other different challenges.

  • @faithivy705
    @faithivy705 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Just be yourself, it’s your channel. The people who leave are probably mostly ones with personal expectations for your life. Which is a weird behavior, and added stress for you. Keep doing your own thing. I enjoy your content for its authenticity.

    • @Lbf5677
      @Lbf5677 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      It's his channel but you're telling him to just be himself
      (Kidding 😂)

    • @faithivy705
      @faithivy705 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Lbf5677 Sentiment over semantics.

    • @Lbf5677
      @Lbf5677 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@faithivy705 I was 😃 joking

    • @faithivy705
      @faithivy705 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Lbf5677 Oh 😆

  • @senai795
    @senai795 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Nice video, looking forward to your next one about employment. A lot of people have been laid off this year so I think many people will be interested on this topic.

  • @HandilyHandlingHandles
    @HandilyHandlingHandles 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Half the reason I watch you is BECAUSE you say exactly how you feel without sugar coating it. I can RELATE to that. When I'm with friends and family, I always feel like I'm forced to act positive and pretend what I'm feeling and going through mentally doesn't bother me. Positive or negative, as long as you speak whatever is on your mind, you'll continue to have a following of true supporters! In the end, even a few thousand people consistently watching is still a huge number. And I'm sure you've helped a good percentage of those people, including me, just by being yourself! Love ya man!
    Edit: Look forward to you talking about your struggles with employment. I'm 30 years old and have struggled to hold down a job. I've had a few jobs that I LOVED, but I always end up having one crappy week or day where I just decide not to go in anymore because of sudden irrational anxiety.. And I ALWAYS regret doing so almost immediately after. Curious to see if you were/are in a similar situation.

    • @sadieadler4383
      @sadieadler4383 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Should I quit my job after four months of working there I've always kinda hated working there but my family insists that I stay there because it's convenient for my brothers and we're stuck working together I don't enjoy being around family 24/7 but I have no other options nobody else will hire me and this is my first job at 20 years of age idk what to do tbh I wish I could get into trucking but I can't drive at the moment.

    • @HandilyHandlingHandles
      @HandilyHandlingHandles 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@sadieadler4383 Sorry for the late reply, didn't get notified for some reason... I'd say try to stick it out until you have a solid plan or something else in the works. From my own experience, not having a job to force you to get up and moving and conform to a proper eating/sleeping schedule each day can rapidly degrade your physical and mental health. Plus, for your first job, sticking it out for a year or more will look better on your resume and can increase your odds of getting the job you truly want!
      I know you probably hear this often, but you're still so young so consider the shitty jobs you put up with now as laying the groundwork for your future! In the meantime, you can do your research and maybe even write down step by step what you'd need to do to in order to accomplish what you really would like to do. Having a well thought out plan may also make your family more likely to support your endeavors! Small steps!
      Also, one thing I've learned throughout the years is, when you're sending out job applications, don't be afraid to apply to some jobs that you'd NEVER expect to get. Some jobs will list requirements that make it seem like they'd only hire people with lots of experience, but are actually secretly willing to train those with little to no experience if they show enough motivation to learn. Worst that can happen is no response back 😉.

  • @SteveJohnson-ov6xt
    @SteveJohnson-ov6xt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Amen Aaron. I'm with you brother. My life is in the toilet and I come here to commiserate with like minded people like you. I get your overall mindset and that things are dark for you. Life sometimes seems to constantly kick you in the junk so I get it. But I am here for you brother in anyway I can be. I'm not sunshine and roses either. We have to stick together and struggle against life and how it can grind you down.

  • @mazze84
    @mazze84 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    It’s your channel my man! I’m here for you, not for anything else dude! Have a good new years

  • @priscillabottomley3218
    @priscillabottomley3218 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Hi Aaron, I always get a sense of how courageous you are to be able to make your videos. That in itself is a powerful and positive thing. Anybody who says otherwise should be ignored. I'm really glad to have found your channel and I also want to add your music is another aspect of your positivity. I love your music. It takes me out of my head. Things aren't always rosey, but that's ok. I have yet met anyone who's life is. Thank you for making all your videos. And I look forward to seeing you in the next video. Stay safe out there. ❣️

  • @sandytriplett-kv2ns
    @sandytriplett-kv2ns 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    What a beautiful, honest soul. Sending you love from Arizona 😊

  • @Adriano-vr9wj
    @Adriano-vr9wj 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Fvck this toxic fake positivity, mate! Be true to yourself and thank you for your sincerity, Aaron.

  • @EDarien
    @EDarien 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I always took this channel as your journal, not meant for inspiration for others. I figure the videos are you getting your own feelings out, talking to yourself, and us, but really just getting your own stuff out there. If people happen to watch and connect, then great. If not, then that's on them, but at least you can keep posting for yourself.

  • @JLKeener77
    @JLKeener77 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Aaron, I like your channel exactly the way it is. Don’t change anything unless you want to.

  • @JonasMatthewBahta
    @JonasMatthewBahta 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    I don’t blame you dude, I kind of struggle with the same things as you do and I mean at the end the day all we are doing is expressing our frustrations and feelings on this platform because given our situation, we don’t really have anybody to share it with and worst of all we don’t have the support to get through challenges like couples do, as well as somebody to talk and share positive things with like most others. We have every right to talk about anything positive or negative. If somebody doesn’t like what we share, they are more than welcome to watch something else. I think most importantly, the folks that complain were too negative didn’t have to do as much as we did, and are somewhat lazier than us, but quick to criticize us because of our result.

  • @daabee236
    @daabee236 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    To that person who unsubscribed: Don’t let the door hit ya on your way out.
    I subscribed because you’re relatable. If you just faked it then your acting and we watch enough scripted tv and what not. IMO
    Well wishes man!

  • @dearestbrotherfrank
    @dearestbrotherfrank 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Normies are gonna norm... I wouldn't give them a second thought Aaron.

    • @aaronsjournal139
      @aaronsjournal139  6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Pretty much. I saw your video about normies btw. Spot on.

  • @pointthirteen2234
    @pointthirteen2234 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Aaron you are as real as it gets, people don't like reality; that's why they all hate on an honest man. People want to be lied to; and it's a crying shame how some people put up that front in order to appease others, only to rope at a later time, then they say things like "I wonder why he didn't say anything before" because when you say something as a man that is even slightly unpleased about your situation, you are immediately attacked.
    There are those of us who appreciate truth and honesty.

  • @brianmeen2158
    @brianmeen2158 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Aaron I think the worst thing you could do(both for yourself and your channel) is to be fake.. you are a guy with autism and depression and other struggles and many of us can relate - we don’t come here to see a guy put on a phony front .

  • @liamodonovan6610
    @liamodonovan6610 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are quite relatable iam also on the spectrum

  • @stephanieshifrin4285
    @stephanieshifrin4285 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The internet is such a weird place 😂 just keep rocking on Aaron.

  • @willimina362
    @willimina362 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like that your channel is your reality that you’re sharing with your viewers. Keep it going whether it’s positive or negative.. it’s yours.

  • @mikesmidlife
    @mikesmidlife 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It's your journey and you're not here to make those positivity cravers feel better about themselves. Thank you for including us in your life.

  • @Endymion766
    @Endymion766 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I will never understand people who complain that the ice cream shop serves only ice cream and not roast beef. It certainly seems to be a Gen Z thing. I have no expectations of Aaron's content. I just like keeping up with him regardless of what he posts. It's just nice knowing there's others out there going through the similar things I am.

  • @marcb.cardlab6750
    @marcb.cardlab6750 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I enjoy your content because i can wholeheartedly relate to you. You share your thoughts, feelings and reflections based on who you are; and i think that you're pretty damn cool, Aaron!

  • @SPORE_SPORTS
    @SPORE_SPORTS 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You just keep being yourself. People will watch or not period. You are honest and that is better than just faking positivity.

  • @natty-ice
    @natty-ice 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I appreciate everything you share here, there are many things you share and speak on that remind me I'm not alone and there's others out there who have experienced and can understand my struggle - you keep it real, and I really need that
    thank you

  • @Hossak
    @Hossak 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    People are too used to disney stories and lies from others. Real life is messy, difficult, awkward and occasionally good - sometimes great but always real. Read any autobiography and I am sorry, it is normally filled to the brim with lies, exaggerations and outright falsehoods etc. Don't apologize for being who you are, this could be a long road and I really appreciate you sharing your issues unadulterated. Keep strong!

  • @steelearmstrong9616
    @steelearmstrong9616 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’ve watched video you post Aaron and I’ve enjoyed them all. Thanku

  • @imnottellingyoumyname3050
    @imnottellingyoumyname3050 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Nah dude your videos are dope. It's personally awesome having someone share their problems. Makes you realise you're not the only one. We all appreciate it.

  • @HalfJapMarine
    @HalfJapMarine 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this video. I had a pretty bad social situation at work today despite trying to be earnest and this made me feel not so alone in that struggle. I really do appreciate your honest content.

  • @you_mad
    @you_mad 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Long time subscriber. Bro, you just be you. That's why I follow you

  • @gamevies9254
    @gamevies9254 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I've always percieved this channel as authentic. I appreciate your honesty about how you feel, even if it isn't always super upbeat. It's actually kinda refreshing.

  • @ThruTheMatrix
    @ThruTheMatrix 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Super positive people make me laugh. They are usually all face like everything is going great, but behind all that is one troubled soul

  • @eliteteamkiller319
    @eliteteamkiller319 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Dude I 100% feel you on this.

  • @AvocadoRoyalty
    @AvocadoRoyalty 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I like that you are genuine & real person & not a fake person just putting up a false picture. You have no idea how many people will be helped in long term by you being sincere & expressing your feelings & life. You be you !

  • @kayligo
    @kayligo 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m here because you keep it real and that’s relatable

  • @Steenogreeno
    @Steenogreeno 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You have a fan for life here. I’ve dealt with similar issues of yours. It’s like the world expects everyone to constantly have a positive outlook and not look at the arbitrary aspects of life. Sometimes life sucks and people who say to just remain positive may have not dealt with much adversity in their lives.

  • @alandynamite2012
    @alandynamite2012 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Love it Aaron. Just be genuine.

  • @makefoxhoundgreatagain842
    @makefoxhoundgreatagain842 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aaron how you holding up dude? Remember you're never alone feeling this way it's part of the universal human condition to feel alone and more often than not people who you think have amazing lives because of social media usually don't they just project a false image and only show the good aspects of their lives. Often they're just as miserable as everyone else. Keep on keeping on brother your channel keeps it real!

  • @YeahNah100
    @YeahNah100 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keepin it Real. 👍👍

    • @YeahNah100
      @YeahNah100 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is one of your best videos. Respect

  • @sadieadler4383
    @sadieadler4383 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah I don't blame you for not being positive all the time I feel you bro nobody understands how hard it is to be like this and always feel like you're less than for being different from everyone else I've always felt like more of an observer than an actual participant in my life I don't do anything really productive tbh and this Christmas really took the little contentment I had away from my bones litterally stuck spending money on family members I don't care about I didn't ask to be born into this miserable existence and I still don't even have a debit card or anything so I'm always stuck paying in cash it's such a hassle and I hate my job too.

  • @slackerman4161
    @slackerman4161 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Can’t wait for the employment video !try to post soon!

  • @brianrose6945
    @brianrose6945 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aaron. Very much alike me. I’d love to talk to you and maybe we can bounce around ideas.

  • @tigerbear3038
    @tigerbear3038 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    While being positive will probably serve you better , given your hardships, you are perfectly entitled to the negative emotions that you are feeling. Feel free to vent. No need to keep up with the pretenses

  • @KayakDreadgirl
    @KayakDreadgirl 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just continue being you Aaron. ❤

  • @williamread8186
    @williamread8186 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I follow you because I can totally relate to what you are going through because I am also autistic. I wish I could talk to you directly because I think we could enrich each other. Actually I think you are quite an impressive person from what I see. For me autism is a lot more than a social struggle, it is a struggle at every thing I try to do I am referring to speaking, writing, athletics, just about everything so I know how much this sucks. I wish for the best for you.

  • @braveheartproduction2323
    @braveheartproduction2323 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hey Arron. Keep doing what you’re doing.
    I hope that you don’t take this the wrong way. But I use your videos as motivation and as a constant reminder of what could and will happen if I don’t start getting my shit together whilst I’m still in my 20’s.
    I don’t know if I mentioned this. But I’m a 24 year old male with Aspergers. So everything that you talk about is relatable af.
    But if I can avoid being in a position like you (no offense) then I will do everything in my power to do so.
    And it’s not so much of succeeding, even though success is fantastic. I mean, no one in their right mind loves failing. But I’m autistic, so I’m last person to talk about people in their “right mind.”
    But I just don’t want to be someone like you 20 years later. Living a life full of regrets.
    Obviously it’s impossible for us to have a life with “any” sort of regrets. Because as we grow, our brains don’t fully develop. But as long as I don’t live a life “full” of regrets then that’s what I want more out of life, then just succeeding just for the sake of it.
    Anyway, sorry for this long comment. We’re here for you bro, keep doing what you’re doing.

  • @you_mad
    @you_mad 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I follow you because you are yourself. You are amazing bro, don't pay attention to pathetic people

  • @amasvodka
    @amasvodka 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Being born with autism is an INCREDIBLE disadvantage, but for your own sake, don't give up and resign until psychotherapy, social training and other forms of help are fully explored. As someone with autism myself whose entire life has been changed by seeking professional help, I believe it is our duty to at least encourage our autistic brothers and sisters to explore these possible ways to improve your life.

  • @debbiejohnson7758
    @debbiejohnson7758 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Keep keeping it 💯👌💪!! The real ones will stay. The others can go!

  • @XruQy
    @XruQy 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aaron ... you don't know me ... obviously, but please keep doing what you do now ... nowadays, everything has to be happy happy joy joy, to be accepted. At least your genuine. This channel is to express yourself, and people have a choice to follow you. Just express whatever you want to express. You are, and I do mean this, you are a good, sensitive, chap!

  • @melvinjensen978
    @melvinjensen978 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Some do not understand the struggles of a lonely man. Many men are lonely now a days. Don't let it bother you if people do not want to watch or subscribe, you do you. Make the video you want, not what they want to see.

  • @brockdangelo4309
    @brockdangelo4309 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What’s up Aaron. Props for opening yourself to the entire internet. You’ve got a good thing going here man, and your not dead or ill, so what’s there to angry about? Frustration is internal, and looking elsewhere won’t help. My piece of advice, do some things that have minimal effort, and large returns. Start small, maybe get an invisiline to straighten out your smile. Don’t take this the wrong way, but stop being a whiner. Your doing something great here, and it would be could be an awesome turnaround story. Making sad sack, loser, videos isn’t going get people to keep coming back to support you. They will abandon you. It evolutionary, we always need to progress forwards. Anyway, I think your doing good, so keep it up. 👌

  • @wolfiewolfdog9771
    @wolfiewolfdog9771 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    If they can’t handle it, they don’t understand nor do they want to understand what we go through.
    They came to the wrong place and should go watch MrBeast or whatever mind numbing content they need to get through their day.
    Keep it up these people came for the truth, not false positivity.

  • @robertwilson7736
    @robertwilson7736 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What are you talking about you've made a good series

  • @jherod2024
    @jherod2024 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hi Aaron, I am still subbed to your channel. I appreciate your honesty and your willingness to set the record straight. Here’s what I would tell my friend, which I’d like to share with you.
    I think you do overshare your personal life, but it’s your channel and you have the right to do so. People (viewers) get invested and either will want to see you succeed in your life or will want to watch your downfall. People are wired that way and if you react back, it might not work in your favor as it can draw more “trolls.”
    What I find that changes the way people react to a vlogger is if you deceive them and then get caught. Please keep that in mind as you continue to vlog. Never lie or pretend to your viewers about personal things that cause them to get more invested.
    I’ve seen several TH-cam vloggers who’ve made that mistake and they become hated by most viewers. Wishing you all the best!

    • @jherod2024
      @jherod2024 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Btw, when I stated the part about lying, I wasn’t accusing you of this. It has more to do with vloggers who are not forthright with audience, trauma dump, and then attempt to gaslight their audience for asking questions or giving valid criticisms.

  • @-kattya-
    @-kattya- 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    you don't have to be positive at all if there is no reason for it, you are not here to entertain us, your viewrs, you just tell us about your life, it's your journal, it really doesn't have to have an agenda. life is like that, unpredictible and happy ending is absolutely not guaranteed. we are here for your story no matter how it goes or how it ends (I hope all of it makes sense, English is my 2nd language)

  • @jenniferthompson6280
    @jenniferthompson6280 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    May i suggest trying paxil, if you haven't? It completely changed me in the best way within a mnths time. I also had a nervous tic where i continually ran my fingers thru my hair, i notice you have a tic too? Paxil even took that away aling with the anxiety) depression. .pls concider trying it, youve got nothing to loose if it doesn't do the trick, but i have high hopes rhat it would..youll thank me later.

  • @thecoloursofthemage
    @thecoloursofthemage 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If people leave for those reasons, fuck em. You put your heart out on this channel. If they want entertainment, they can fuck off to Entertainment Tonight. 😊

  • @Darksky600
    @Darksky600 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Lol, some people are idiots. Just be yourself.

  • @brianseohio
    @brianseohio 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You don't owe anything to anyone man, just be you. Ppl can't relate unless they've been there.

  • @snafu22
    @snafu22 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    don’t change bro. this is where i go on you tube to get back to reality instead of all the fluff and bs from other channels. i find it doesn’t make me feel so alone or abnormal. Haters are going to hate but screw them.

  • @nataliefigures5332
    @nataliefigures5332 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I wouldn't say your always negative. Your genuine life is not sunshine and rainbows. Would rather watch people like you than a bunch of fakes any day 🙂

  • @ClairenParkerontheRoad
    @ClairenParkerontheRoad 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah being home in my parents' neighborhood is really hard for me. So many yuppies and I was just never the girl next door. Oh well...

  • @sauronthegreat489
    @sauronthegreat489 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Just explore things! I've actually found the explanation of some negative philosophy to bevquite fruitful. The just work harder bruh stuff just wore me down and taught little.

  • @caylarabdk8389
    @caylarabdk8389 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    there are people on the internet who dislike when some speak of the sad state of reality. i don't know why, but don't let them bother you.

  • @Lbf5677
    @Lbf5677 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What if you actually put roses,teddy bears and puppies in your apartment?
    (Just kidding)
    Would love to hear about the dreaded interviews. I struggle with them now

  • @ELFBOYMUSIC
    @ELFBOYMUSIC 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Don’t train the lobster, be the lobster.

  • @YanksandBritsProductions
    @YanksandBritsProductions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey buddy, just wanted to say that none of my comments were intended to pee you off in any way, but sometimes I can go on a little, as in Writing a book …..LOL
    Hope your having a great day, Hi from the Brit 👍

  • @yvonnemarie57
    @yvonnemarie57 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hard to be positive in this evil world. Just be YOU.😊

  • @ChiefWombatCuddler
    @ChiefWombatCuddler 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hahahaha, yeah I get what you're saying. Look bruh, just do what you want to do. This is your VLOG/Journal, you get to steer it wherever you want to. Won't lie I'm not as a hardcore follower as most are, but I definitely drop in from time to time to get a different perspective on what someone older than me, who is in a sort of similar situation is facing. We're here because you're either entertaining or relatable to most of us. It's a double edged sword, because some people will either expect an unrealistic underdog tale they saw in a Hollywood movie take place, while others may try to form pseudo or straight up parasocial relationships. Whatever happens try to make the best of things in whatever way you can manage. Only you know your limitations and boundaries.

  • @YanksandBritsProductions
    @YanksandBritsProductions 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If a person is Negative and not Positive, it’s not so difficult to change that mindset.
    I’m sure that you would sooner be a lot more of a positive person, just because a person has suffered from depression most of their life doesn’t mean they can’t change that.
    I myself have suffered from depression on and off all my life.
    Your subconscious mind has been fed the wrong type of food, if a person’s subconscious is Fed negative over periods of time then obviously they will have a negative attitude towards things.
    How do we change that, we feed our mind’s Positivity.
    We shut off as much Negativity as possible, in other words …… Don’t watch any Negative News programs, Don’t engage in any form of Negative conversation with anyone.
    If a person is around Negative people, then get them out of your life as Fast as you can, Drop them like a bad habit.
    Regardless of if they are close friends or family, their Negativity will Only bring You down.
    These are Life changing actions that we must All do, Not just you buddy.
    If our mind is not fed Positivity day & night, then Obviously it will be Starved of it.
    If we starve ourselves of food, do we live …… No of course not.
    Your confidence and self esteem are Low, so the opposite of that is what you need to aim for.
    How do you do that, you feed your subconscious mind night & day with Positivity.
    How do you do that, First simple steps are along the line of getting yourself some tools as in Norman Vincent Peales book The Power of Positive Thinking.
    You don’t just read a book like that Once, Read it Over & Over again.
    Those tools are out there to help people change things, if a Mechanic doesn’t use the tools to change an engine, How the hell is he supposed to get the job done! 🤔
    The Tools are out there to do the job, but if people don’t pick them up and use them, how on earth do you complete the job.
    You drive truck, I guess that’s how you deliver items, well tomorrow put the items on your Back and try and deliver them that way …… see if that works for you.
    In other words, the Truck is your Tool to do the job that you need to do it. 🤷‍♂️
    I remember a guy who I was working with years ago, he was a Very positive mined person, Why because he used those tools Daily.
    He gave me a simple exercise to do, this is it:
    Read this over and over Every day.
    I am a Very Attractive Guy, Woman are Very attracted to me.
    Woman Love my personality.
    Woman Love my Sense of Humour.
    I am a Very Positive Minded Person.
    I Will achieve the things in life that I want to achieve.
    As first I was sceptical like anyone would be, but I was a single guy and was depressed because of that.
    After a few days of Reading that over and over again, it starts to get into your subconscious mind, and changes your mindset.
    You start to act totally different around females, you have lots more Confidence …… and That is something Females are Very attracted to.
    A Safe opens with a Combination of Numbers, a female is attracted to a Male by a combination of things, Confidence, Looks, how they dress, Etc.
    If a guy doesn’t have Confidence to talk to a female, then that Confidence can be developed, No one is born Full of confidence, …… Confidence is developed over a short and long term process.
    Are we born wealthy …… No of course not, wealth is Developed over a period of time, some times it takes years, and sometimes only months.
    No one is born wealthy, obviously some people in life are left a lot of money from parents Etc, but the Vast majority of people achieve wealth over a period of time.
    Our situations can be turned around real fast, but we all have to pick up those tools first, if we want different results we gotta Change things.
    And start with what they call baby steps so we don’t get Overwhelmed. 👍

  • @There.Is.Only.Now.
    @There.Is.Only.Now. 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    As a matter of fact in the past your personality brought me a juggle here and there. I think you are unintentionally funny i remember when you read peoples comments i was walking down the streets on my way to the gym and started laughing because of your reaction to a comment (some guy got kicked it the nuts by a girl or something) and you were like huch yeah kids can be brutal. If someone just waits for you to say something funny why would he watch your videos

  • @laxativz
    @laxativz 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I hope that you are remembering to use the channel as an outlet for your thought and feelings only, and not letting become a lifestyle of loneliness. After all , you want to have a relationship right? It's hard to do that with a channel devoted to your own suffering to upkeep and add to.

  • @roselavender2222
    @roselavender2222 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    The ones unsubbing coz they think you're too negative were mostly newer subs, and probably didn't understand your journey. Not to worry, it happens to all channels.

  • @user-zl5pu2cr5r
    @user-zl5pu2cr5r 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    To me it seems like some coaching could help you to achieve your dreams.
    If you like we can have some sessions for free.
    1. You look great for your age. More like late 30
    2. I have a few friends who have married with 45-49 yo and made children and have families.
    It seems like you have your life well together and what is mainly missing is a family for you to enjoy and care for (?)
    This one you can do. There need to be some coaching though to figure out what limiting believes are stopping you.
    If you like we can have some free coaching sessions.
    (With the rate of your aging it seems you have like 50-60 y in front of you! )
    You can make any dream come true. 95% of it is mental work though.
    I can relate with being alone by the way.
    I had a burnout and went into alone mode for 7 years. Not speaking to any of my friends or family for a long time.
    Stopping all hobbies, work, relationships… then Covid hit ( I felt strangely kind of more normal during that time. )
    Let‘s have a Zoom or whatsapp call, if you like?

  • @hivisboys
    @hivisboys 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Its fine if you're just honest. there's going to be comments with every type of advice/ criticism. I think we just want to know about your life/ experience or at least what you are willing to share.

  • @astroranger5528
    @astroranger5528 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hey Aaron, I wouldn't take any notice of those who say 'they're leaving' it's literally a bunch of trolls, if you look at socialblade, and enter your username - you can clearly see you're not losing any subscribers, we're all here to stay, and shouldn't feel ashamed of expressing your genuine thoughts and emotions, they're completely valid, and that's why we subscribed in the first place, because you're genuine, and we care about you. Try not to let the trolls get to you, they're just that, basement dwelling trolls.

  • @astroboirap
    @astroboirap 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It's hard to be positive when you're a 45 year old lonely truck driver :(
    *sad honk* 🚚

  • @bobbybobberton6373
    @bobbybobberton6373 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Your channel is dope PRECISELY because it’s not feel good uplifting bs. Real is real

  • @stickyfinger100
    @stickyfinger100 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Being lonely is just a state of mind , Learn to feel comfortable and appreciated in your own space , Being self sufficient isn't a negative its a positive , The less people in your life The less BS - Stress in your life. Don't fall for the Cinderella , Prince charming crap of society's conditioning of life's lies.... Girlfriend , Marriage , Kids , Big house , Major debt $$$$$$ ect.. Many People in the real world envy you mate. You don't know how well you have got it.

  • @obiwankenobi661
    @obiwankenobi661 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    dude, best advice i can give you is learn a few things about astrology and find a pisces woman. i am dead serious.
    i have no idea how to help men with autism, thats a level above my expertise, but dealing with- and learning about people i have come to appreciate astrology as something that works. its not perfect, but it will increase your chances by orders of magnitude if you focus on women of water signs, theyre the only ones who are capable of appreciating someone who is neurodivergent. you dont have to believe me, just try.

  • @itsonthetab
    @itsonthetab 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    New video coming soon?

  • @NewLife2028
    @NewLife2028 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Aaron, I´m looking for a man like you for friendship in this realm: I´m a gay married Trump supporter, which I state because it says a great deal of me in few words. Although I was born in the US and never studied foreign languages before, on May 1 2021, I started studying Spanish and from there, have decided to identify as a Spaniard. We will retire to Ireland and Spain, split half the year in 2028. I would love to find an American friend or two to join us, teach them Spanish and share our interests as family. That´s my goal for 2024, to find at least two to take with us like brothers and then, we´ll make the rest of the family in Europe. I just got back from Ireland and I made contacts with French, German, Spanish and Irish. When departing the plane, the Germans I met hugged us tightly and held the grip as if they'd known us for years! The French, notorious for their pronunciation of French, did roll their eyes but smiled and continued teaching us. The only assholes were the British, so, I guess it´s an English language thing! Anyway, any man interested, this is not sexual but brotherhood please contact. Love your channel and wish you the best in 2024. Your videos are very attractive and I hope they serve you well.

  • @slackerman4161
    @slackerman4161 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Keep making videos! Just because Everyone doesn’t agree with some of your opinions doesn’t mean you should stop the channel .
    It’s okay to disagree with people if everyone agreed with the same talking points we will all be democrats! 😂
    Keep up the great channel !

  • @KYLE-zo4bm
    @KYLE-zo4bm 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    makes no sense ill be positive when i have a positive life why else would you be positive

  • @Router994
    @Router994 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    go to asia and get yourself a girl easily

    • @ttephi3667
      @ttephi3667 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Let's not be a cliché.

    • @ChiefWombatCuddler
      @ChiefWombatCuddler 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

      He doesn't want to because he believes he won't be able to learn whatever languages and customs he needs. Which is perfectly understandable, since he's on the spectrum. Plus unless you're going to be an expat, going that route opens you up to women who just want you for the green card.

  • @miffedcuttlefish6139
    @miffedcuttlefish6139 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You can't live for others that you'll never truly be able to help, Aaron. Just remind yourself about WHY you created this channel, and have fun with it. The people who will empathize with you, and bear a bit of your burden are the ones who will stick around. Whether or not you know us personally. 🫶🏼

  • @ClairenParkerontheRoad
    @ClairenParkerontheRoad 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeah being home in my parents' neighborhood is really hard for me. So many yuppies and I was just never the girl next door. Oh well...