How to know a man isn’t interested?

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  • @priscillapie
    @priscillapie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3595

    Why can’t men leave the women they’re not interested in alone !

    • @ladennayoung2939
      @ladennayoung2939 4 ปีที่แล้ว +507

      YES! That is what I'm saying. I think it's stupid to reach out to her in the first place.

    • @angeladrain5088
      @angeladrain5088 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      Priscilla Pie You’d think. I’ve been saying this for years. It’s not numbers, it’s more of us so for every no they get, there are maybe 50 women that will say yes.

    • @selinamk3233
      @selinamk3233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Bro Tony, can you answer this question in a video please?

    • @rozh8321
      @rozh8321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      PERIOAAAD

    • @michellelucius7973
      @michellelucius7973 4 ปีที่แล้ว +183

      Okay like why do you keep coming back !!! I’m not calling you

  • @geieffect6698
    @geieffect6698 ปีที่แล้ว +152

    If he's not into you.... It's God's protection 🙏

  • @nicolebakoussis6852
    @nicolebakoussis6852 4 ปีที่แล้ว +259

    If a man disappear he don't want you

  • @kimberlyanderson3301
    @kimberlyanderson3301 3 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    Every women knows in her heart if a man wants her or not. She just has to love herself enough to be honest with herself,and then do something about it. That means move on.

  • @roxceismith8547
    @roxceismith8547 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2891

    Loving someone who does not love you is like waiting for a ship at the airport.....Trust your instincts

    • @4seasons546
      @4seasons546 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      Roxcei Smith that’s funny 😂

    • @intriguingmind9435
      @intriguingmind9435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

      Well said

    • @shanrica
      @shanrica 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Damn

    • @queenateeba4803
      @queenateeba4803 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Love this you better say that🙌🏽🙌🏽🙌🏽 nothing but the truth honey

    • @ShakeshaWilliams
      @ShakeshaWilliams 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      This analogy is perfect

  • @AD_2314
    @AD_2314 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1206

    When he’s interested he MAKES IT KNOWN.

    • @georgiemoran4442
      @georgiemoran4442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      👍 yes amen so true

    • @cathymcdonaldfemale820
      @cathymcdonaldfemale820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Ive been meeting the ones thats not showing any interest.

    • @lesliehill332
      @lesliehill332 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      YESSSSSSSS....and NO stammering in PROCLAMING!!!!

    • @tieguyscollectibles9767
      @tieguyscollectibles9767 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Weird because when he let's it be known women walk away the attraction fades

    • @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858
      @SVAsianPhilippinesGo6858 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      What if he made it known in the beginning.. then just ghosted basically.

  • @percyastronautstatus.8780
    @percyastronautstatus.8780 3 ปีที่แล้ว +115

    If a man WANT you ..you will KNOW it ..it won't be a mystery

  • @DG-on9dz
    @DG-on9dz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +377

    “He wants the woman he can’t have, and you want the man you can’t have.” This world is messed up. 😂

    • @adlihkristopher7324
      @adlihkristopher7324 3 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      it's not the world🌍that's mess up it's the people in the world🌍

    • @vickie6662
      @vickie6662 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts

    • @Angel-dd6nz
      @Angel-dd6nz 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I laughed so hard

    • @kondrasnell7542
      @kondrasnell7542 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yep it’s always that way I tell people that all the time I said y’all need to stop wanting people outside y’all league if your considered a 5 why you want a man that is in the 10 league he is only going to mistreat you because he knows you ain’t his type

    • @umummiii4759
      @umummiii4759 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣

  • @staceythorpe7938
    @staceythorpe7938 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1648

    Never make someone a priority if you are an option to them.

    • @preciousluv3922
      @preciousluv3922 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Periodt

    • @natashaboggs4332
      @natashaboggs4332 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Right.

    • @rdot8869
      @rdot8869 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

      I told a woman that too many of them are going after that small select group and ignoring the many who are available and she denied it. I also explained that the man they are all going after have no need to settle down because women are constantly throwing it after them, and she got insulted. The truth hurts.

    • @dipmeingloss
      @dipmeingloss 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      💯

    • @consuelastewart5331
      @consuelastewart5331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Exactly

  • @Weneed2talk
    @Weneed2talk 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2094

    Just stay single and work on self until the right person comes along

  • @leahr9038
    @leahr9038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +357

    Dating is depressing. I just want to be myself and not have to worry about everything.

    • @lionessontherise2403
      @lionessontherise2403 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Girl yes new to this mess after a decade I'm already done ✅

    • @malenyusay3892
      @malenyusay3892 2 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Same, girl. Being alone is better sometimes.

    • @RS33381
      @RS33381 2 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      I been going through hell…even the talking stage so painful. Trying to figure the man out.

    • @rogers5622
      @rogers5622 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@malenyusay3892 it's so ridiculous and sad .

    • @ebonyeverything2751
      @ebonyeverything2751 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@RS33381 damn, that's the fun part. Maybe that's a sign that you're talking to the wrong people to begin with.

  • @cyndiet4960
    @cyndiet4960 3 ปีที่แล้ว +111

    I completely agree if a man wants u, he will make time for u but don't chase him. If he wants u, he will come and get u. Make him work for it

  • @vanaphill2454
    @vanaphill2454 4 ปีที่แล้ว +883

    He don't call. If he don't call he ain't thinking bout you.

    • @georgiemoran4442
      @georgiemoran4442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      So true

    • @sguillory5923
      @sguillory5923 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      As simple as that sounds, it's very true!

    • @user-zx5xw4yw2e
      @user-zx5xw4yw2e 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@sguillory5923 ..But isn't it pretty smothering to call someone every day as if there's nothing else to do

    • @QueenOfPrinciple
      @QueenOfPrinciple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@user-zx5xw4yw2e it's some men that must hear his lady voice once a day.

    • @jackieadele11
      @jackieadele11 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That too

  • @swayze2403
    @swayze2403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2426

    People MAKE TIME for WHO and WHAT they want. PERIOD!

    • @tammeracalisha5575
      @tammeracalisha5575 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Swayze 💯💯💯💯

    • @haniyyahrasheed1296
      @haniyyahrasheed1296 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Swayze period !

    • @naisolanellius9849
      @naisolanellius9849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I agree

    • @ysmithriley
      @ysmithriley 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      @Swayze ABSOLUTELY! If they're not rearranging their schedules to make some quality time to see you, YOU'RE NOT THE ONE!

    • @IrishCassidy
      @IrishCassidy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Unfortunately, in my case, this is true.

  • @rareroseglosses1554
    @rareroseglosses1554 2 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    Men look for convenience and a place holder until the one he really wants comes

  • @Proudmuslimah123
    @Proudmuslimah123 3 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    I'm literally in tears because I know for sure that i've wasted sooooooooooo much of my time 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

    • @skyfall1481
      @skyfall1481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You have to hurt and be uncomfortable to learn and grow. That’s life. Next time will be better, you’re not alone.

    • @MelindaMary-jy5ms
      @MelindaMary-jy5ms 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It is ok. It’s only a lesson learned. Grateful that we won’t waste our time EVER again!! ❤

  • @goddesswarrioress6123
    @goddesswarrioress6123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +836

    What a waste of life waiting and focusing on just getting a man

  • @maplebucket74
    @maplebucket74 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1442

    Thats why its good to mirror their behavior and dont catch feelings.

    • @missmarymack3457
      @missmarymack3457 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Maplebucket 74 yes indeed!!

    • @akuasalaam490
      @akuasalaam490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

      Stay emotionally UNINVESTED.

    • @jodynanci
      @jodynanci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +41

      I don't even give them the time of day

    • @mazadasworld
      @mazadasworld 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Catch feelings once lockdown is over 😎

    • @marciawade9101
      @marciawade9101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yep. Deadly!

  • @234forte
    @234forte 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Whenever you call a man complicated, he's not into you.

  • @everyroseenterprises2226
    @everyroseenterprises2226 3 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    Well single men in their 60 s out here trying to be players. I'm not marrying no old used up player. I deserve better.

    • @keylablacc561
      @keylablacc561 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Yup now da old heads want a younger woman to settle dwn with after dey all used up & worn out uughhh nope I’m not ready for it

    • @nyarifitnesstherapy5195
      @nyarifitnesstherapy5195 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      😂

  • @phillyflytee9849
    @phillyflytee9849 4 ปีที่แล้ว +877

    Seriously when I don’t hear from a man. I keep it moving. I’ve learned from my brothers teachings.

    • @1agelessbeauty
      @1agelessbeauty 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Preach, my sister. Pluck him, and keep it pushing.

    • @phillyflytee9849
      @phillyflytee9849 3 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      @@1agelessbeauty Yes I never chase. I replace with no problem. He, He❤️💯

    • @kristenmiiiller7778
      @kristenmiiiller7778 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facts 💯💯

    • @nadinemartin9512
      @nadinemartin9512 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Yup. Next

    • @toniemillsap8910
      @toniemillsap8910 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Amen. I love my brothers. Thank you brothers for all your love, support and good advice.

  • @laj4186
    @laj4186 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1506

    When a man is interested in you, it's UNDENIABLE. There is no uncertainty or question if he's interested. If you have to ask the answer is NO! Learn this early on and never waste your own time.

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Yup, the answer is in the uncertainty.

    • @queenbaee8514
      @queenbaee8514 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      Omg had to learn this fr 😕😕

    • @hollygamble15
      @hollygamble15 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      exactly what my momma tells me, she's never been wrong yet and it's never led me astray 🤞

    • @dorisrobinson3742
      @dorisrobinson3742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Holly Rey in

    • @georgiemoran4442
      @georgiemoran4442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      That's so perfectly said

  • @terrybrown7510
    @terrybrown7510 3 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    We should not confuse interest with desire. When a guy desires you he also will pursue, , for a time. Weed them out by not giving up the cookies. True intentions and interest are not based on sexual interaction.

  • @lovetinker6
    @lovetinker6 4 ปีที่แล้ว +137

    He hooked me and pretended like he was interested now he don’t even call or text anymore smh .. your videos have been helping me so much

    • @missg7012
      @missg7012 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      I'm in the same boat too....what a waste of time!! Telling me what he felt l wanted to hear. Not impressed. Now l need to keep it moving - for my own peace of mind.

    • @lovetinker6
      @lovetinker6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@missg7012 exactly

    • @quettalogan3295
      @quettalogan3295 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Sound Like He Manipulated And Love Bombed You

    • @lovetinker6
      @lovetinker6 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@quettalogan3295 basically

    • @tashaequeen8935
      @tashaequeen8935 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      All I can do is smh because this exactly what I'm going through. I hate games these so called men play it's sad..💔🙆🏽

  • @Itchpls
    @Itchpls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +712

    When a man not into you he will disappear quick.. he’s not consistent, always making excuses, brief text/ conversation, you are not one of his priorities..

    • @pamelaclarkson6001
      @pamelaclarkson6001 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Shawn J I’ve experienced this lately after about three weeks of this on and off vagueness I just messaged that I couldn’t be arsed with it and blocked him xx

    • @lykke7970
      @lykke7970 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@pamelaclarkson6001 Pamela block him all the way!! BLOCK!

    • @katrinataylor600
      @katrinataylor600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😭

    • @kgabomolele3346
      @kgabomolele3346 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn. I really am losing him.

    • @tanyahudson6272
      @tanyahudson6272 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's right

  • @tomikacox360
    @tomikacox360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +238

    His actions simply show it. He doesn't pursue! He isn't investing!

    • @lmusima3275
      @lmusima3275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      He’s giving bread crumbs or excuses

  • @lovelylove6193
    @lovelylove6193 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    The first sign that I learned is, they won't text or call you first. If you are the one who is constantly getting ahold of him first to hang out or to just talk, then he is clearly not interested, PERIOD!!!. If he was, then he would be doing all of the initiaitng and pursuing.

  • @crystalcleardestiny8604
    @crystalcleardestiny8604 3 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    Before I even watch the video I'm going to give my choices:
    1. He doesn't call you.
    2. He doesn't make you a priority. He fits you in when he can.
    3. He shows no interest in you as a person/your hobbies/your goals/your favorite foods/favorite movies/favorite color, etc.
    4. He doesn't include you in his plans.
    5. He's only interested in sex/your body/how you look. His interests is only physical.
    Ummm, I can't think of nothing else. Now let's watch the video. *click play*

  • @DynamicallyDC
    @DynamicallyDC 4 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    You want me but what do you want me for!? A man thats interested should be bringing the table to the table!! 📢🔝

    • @lisathomas2171
      @lisathomas2171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Demetria Calvin 💯💯

    • @kaoshi_kutie
      @kaoshi_kutie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Amen!!!♥️🔥👏🏽

    • @queedelisa
      @queedelisa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Period

    • @NursingHubPro
      @NursingHubPro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Demetria Calvin Amen!

    • @demetriusbrown2742
      @demetriusbrown2742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Oh my God! You have my name and my brother's. LOL!!!

  • @jamakadavis5748
    @jamakadavis5748 4 ปีที่แล้ว +547

    He on social media ALL day he got time..

    • @girlnextdoor5153
      @girlnextdoor5153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      💯

    • @geneinnewade1278
      @geneinnewade1278 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Girl

    • @lashellanderson7773
      @lashellanderson7773 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

      Sure do can't text good morning or nothing doesn't want to invite you no where but wants u run to him when wants you too. I just cut this guy off completely today fuckem I can do without a selfish ass man at this point in my 30s I've given up on men completely

    • @NerdyWhatup
      @NerdyWhatup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      okaaay!!!!

    • @summerdior459
      @summerdior459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      CTFU🥴😂🤣😂🤣😂😂

  • @DELIVERANCE-TODAY
    @DELIVERANCE-TODAY 3 ปีที่แล้ว +107

    "It's determined by the time he gives you." Powerful! Thanks.

  • @Sweetheartkethy305
    @Sweetheartkethy305 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

    You know the ones that get me are the men who actually think you're sitting around waiting for him. It truly blows my mind when they assume that they have you secured and focused on just them. Chile listen....

  • @saiyansnake
    @saiyansnake 4 ปีที่แล้ว +734

    When a man is interested in a woman, he *WILL* find time to get on a video call or at least a phone call with her... even if he's the busiest man on earth.
    He *WILL* find money to take her on a date, or get her a birthday/X-mas gifts even if he is the brokest man on earth.

    • @pinkishdiamondz
      @pinkishdiamondz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Noted

    • @wowso4
      @wowso4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      saiyansnake so true

    • @danicacrowther4609
      @danicacrowther4609 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      🙌🏾🙌🏾

    • @aomfnm
      @aomfnm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      True. This loser doesn’t even remember my bday smh

    • @milliemartin6490
      @milliemartin6490 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      @@aomfnm oh definitely kick him to the curb sis

  • @llanneg.v.c545
    @llanneg.v.c545 4 ปีที่แล้ว +697

    1. If he doesn’t mind leaving you hanging or leaving opportunity for someone else to catch you
    2. If he’ll allow you to pay for your half; not too chivalrous; go w/the flow energy
    3. If he is too busy or claims to be
    4. If has time to give but doesn’t give it ie...doesn’t call
    5. If he isn’t trying “to make love to your mind,” (trying to get to know you)
    6. If he doesn’t mind you hanging out with other men

    • @cindycinn2724
      @cindycinn2724 3 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      7. He will let another man hit you shove you and insult you and spit on you and he don't care...he will say I didn't see that

    • @QueenOfPrinciple
      @QueenOfPrinciple 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@cindycinn2724 definitely, not interested. ...smh

    • @natashaconover2536
      @natashaconover2536 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@arbitrarylib right 😩😩🤣🤣 I said shit let me pretend I didn’t see that list lol

    • @furyisuponu
      @furyisuponu ปีที่แล้ว +6

      #2 is debatable because some men want to know their woman/partners aint just cheap/using them for freebies etc. Also with the chivalrous argument, ive met some woman that actually didnt like the car opening stuff and flower bringing etc. Said it was cheesy lol.

    • @tinyking11
      @tinyking11 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      💯💯🔥🙌🏽

  • @002Zully
    @002Zully 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    “You’re no longer just thirsty, now you’re dehydrated” 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I’ve been there 😩

  • @AndieAllDay
    @AndieAllDay 2 ปีที่แล้ว +136

    AMEN! That's why the Bible says to guard your heart! Actions speaks louder than words and words confirm how you feel. If a man doesn't express that he wants you never assume that he does. Women have to learn to guard their hearts and compartmentalize the men that are interested in them. Character supersedes everything! GREAT VIDEO!

    • @tlc6756
      @tlc6756 ปีที่แล้ว

      That's true wisdom, thanks.

  • @ypayne9871
    @ypayne9871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +454

    I once was a victim of a " man who wasn't interested in me" But, will never be in that place again. Thanks Tony.

    • @divinelyblessedkb
      @divinelyblessedkb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Me too! Put me through the wilderness.

    • @ypayne9871
      @ypayne9871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      @@divinelyblessedkb lol the wilderness is where we find the Lord.

    • @divinelyblessedkb
      @divinelyblessedkb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@ypayne9871 And you are right! Because it brought me even closer to God! 🙋🙌💃✨

    • @tanyahudson6272
      @tanyahudson6272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      We mostly all have been and it's ok. We learn from our mistakes.

    • @shatariholmes6063
      @shatariholmes6063 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I know the feeling

  • @vchild
    @vchild 4 ปีที่แล้ว +612

    I lied on God plenty of times.. Talking bout we are annointed. The devil is a liar!! God don't send no mess and confusion. The God I serve operates in ORDER not out of ORDER... Amen? Good message Tony. Thank you.

  • @NAJErEa91
    @NAJErEa91 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    "DONT TRUST NO TEXTS FROM A MAN." I NEEDED TO HEAR THAT SMH THANKS TONY :)

    • @zen_mindset1
      @zen_mindset1 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Facts and avoids talking on the phone....smh

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Some men prefer in person interactions

  • @mandia469
    @mandia469 4 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    He look like a tall, glass of chocolate milk in the Sahara Dessert! You went from thirsty to dehydrated!!! 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @TuBella14
    @TuBella14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +369

    I absolutely hate it when men act as if they are prime ministers of somebody’s country 😒. Sir if you don’t go clock in & clock out & get on this phone, you are NOT that busy.💀

    • @ellee.444
      @ellee.444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Tu Bella 🤣🤣🤣 honestly!

    • @Channyb89
      @Channyb89 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      “Prime ministers of somebody’s country.” I’m done 🤣🤣🤣🤣

    • @angelicaangel2624
      @angelicaangel2624 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Love this 😂

    • @TuBella14
      @TuBella14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Chantal Brown Sis I’m so serious 😒 just fake busy 😂💀

    • @irenealex1600
      @irenealex1600 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@TuBella14 your talking to me, he's busy like oxygen

  • @Beautifullybyg
    @Beautifullybyg 4 ปีที่แล้ว +556

    So true! Basically a man knows straight out the gate what he really wants. It's up to the woman to determine what she wants and carry herself accordingly.

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

    • @purpleflowers149
      @purpleflowers149 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I'm looking at some of these comments a man knows what he wants from the jump , it's up to you to decide if you should continue to talk to this person or just leave this person alone, the red flags be in the conversation sometimes pay attention

    • @redfather5342
      @redfather5342 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Wrong wrong wrong

  • @aomfnm
    @aomfnm 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    Wow you are so right. I would fantasize about him all day and give him much more credit than he deserved! I made him look and sound so good to me, that he could do no wrong 😑

  • @jodynanci
    @jodynanci 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    Facts. That was me 3 years ago, so in love with a playa. I've been single for 3 years now because I needed to work on myself and so far I see through the bullshit and won't even entertain any of these guys. Well said sir

  •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +637

    My daddy used to say a man who opens his wallet has opened his heart. My mom told me that a man that likes/ loves you will trot the circumference of the earth to get to you.
    This advice has been true my whole life

    • @cecea665
      @cecea665 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Facts

    • @pallana3701
      @pallana3701 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      My mama told me Never buy a man shoes
      Or else he gonna use them same shoes to walk out on you🤷🏽‍♀️
      But that’s My Mama

    • @bxndo5ive
      @bxndo5ive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      H&B V. Facts your mama was right.

    • @genj6630
      @genj6630 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Your dad gave great advice. Sadly have never met a guy that was really in to me.

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Gen J I highly doubt that!! There are many people for everyone. I bet you have just overlooked those and go for a “type”.

  • @louwil67
    @louwil67 4 ปีที่แล้ว +563

    Tony said “All of a sudden he’s more busy than Barack Obama.” I’m hollering 💀💀💀💀😩😩😩😂😂😂😂💯💯💯💯💯

    • @birdie4223
      @birdie4223 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤫❤️

    • @dreamteam8667
      @dreamteam8667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      THAT WAS FUNNY. I'M GOING TO SAY THAT TO MEN I'M TOTALLY NOT INTERESTED IN.

    • @summerdior459
      @summerdior459 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      😂🤣😂🤣😂🤣😂

    • @CharCharJars
      @CharCharJars 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂

    • @Lee-tg2of
      @Lee-tg2of 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was rolling 😂

  • @drusillacole3270
    @drusillacole3270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    This makes being single the greatest thing I have ever done for myself ❤️

    • @mmommo-hx4dx
      @mmommo-hx4dx 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      heck yes

  • @roses4me451
    @roses4me451 3 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    I saw this online: "The love that you're WAITING to receive from someone else; you should already be giving it to yourself FIRST!" Now that was a word!

  • @theslaygoddessperfect9995
    @theslaygoddessperfect9995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +332

    I’m getting sick of man .I still believe in love tho

    • @liztaylor456
      @liztaylor456 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Don’t be sick of men.. just expand your horizons. It’s a whole World out here, explore ❤️

    • @dreamteam8667
      @dreamteam8667 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@liztaylor456 YESSSSSS

    • @cathymcdonaldfemale820
      @cathymcdonaldfemale820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I am sick of a man too. Can't deal with them anymore. Toxic.

    • @inthecloudswithskye7036
      @inthecloudswithskye7036 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@cathymcdonaldfemale820 me too..

    • @jujumama
      @jujumama 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Love can exist but not when people act the way that they do most of the time

  • @maseengmasitha6212
    @maseengmasitha6212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +488

    It was so painful to listen to this, but it is empowering. I just got played, and it hurts because I think I'm smart, but someone managed to do this to me. I let him do this to me.

    • @shelial.341
      @shelial.341 3 ปีที่แล้ว +74

      Same here. . .I thought I was smart enough to detect the bs, but got TOTALLY played!

    • @mizzgudlyfe1418
      @mizzgudlyfe1418 3 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Me too 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @ericaallen5216
      @ericaallen5216 3 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Me too, it hurt like hell.

    • @clarityroseb6136
      @clarityroseb6136 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Me too 😩

    • @themimster88
      @themimster88 3 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      Me too. But I removed myself immediately upon understanding I was an option. He can't get a returned call, returned text, nada ...

  • @user-uy1vu6xl3x
    @user-uy1vu6xl3x 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That’s right never trust a man who is texting you. THANKS I SAID PLENTY OF TIMES!!! Confirmation 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @tesswakefield1420
    @tesswakefield1420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I’m turning into a nun guys are too complicated 😂

  • @harrietcarlock2986
    @harrietcarlock2986 4 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    He's building his time with other women

    • @marycurlee2163
      @marycurlee2163 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Each women thinks she got the ring on the finger too and will display the fake ring too to make sure you know they got him in the bag exspecially when we use to have church. Seen it happen alot just to let you know to back off l am pulling this fish for dinner.

  • @ericalevene3125
    @ericalevene3125 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    I am glad I have enough discernment to rid men who are a waste of space. There was this one, who only texted me back for a few days and told him if he cant call me then stop text8ng me.
    So he stopped all together and I saved my time and not waste it with.......a waste man.

    • @rozh8321
      @rozh8321 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Goodnite and good riddance boo❤❤❤🤣🤣🤣

  • @gwill3097
    @gwill3097 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    I NEEDED to hear this! I was.on the fence about whether someone was "into" me and you hit on EVERY ONE of my uncertainties.... I now know he's not into me 🤷🏽‍♀️ thanks for helping me to walk away

  • @jroyal2229
    @jroyal2229 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I try to give a man a chance but, it’s just not working out. They turn out to be just what you said Tony. I rather stay single & wait for the right man that know my worth than to waste my time wondering if he’s really into me. I refuse to be treated like a piece of celery on a side plate of chicken wings.

  • @lcjones4682
    @lcjones4682 4 ปีที่แล้ว +349

    I think women just need to trust themselves. I can look back and I KNEW when a man wasn’t truly interested...I just didn’t want to accept it because I liked him. But God gave us instinct and we need to pay attention to that nudging. And men do think if you’re a certain age and still single you must be desperate. But you have to get to the place where you trust God and willing to wait for the man who goes over and beyond to show you he wants you and only you.

    • @tanyahudson6272
      @tanyahudson6272 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen

    • @imanirhodes3180
      @imanirhodes3180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      You know what Us women know right from the first second that he is not into us.. But somehow (Y'all know how us women can be somehow🙄🤦‍♀️😂) we don't accept it or Take it at face value and end up playing ourselves!
      YESSS! I SAID IT..
      Men don't play us,
      We play ourselves! 😭😭😂😏
      We KNOW but again we are hard-headed🤣🙄😭🤦‍♀️

  • @ShyXoxo1920
    @ShyXoxo1920 4 ปีที่แล้ว +285

    Your imitation of the woman’s voice “ohhh” and smacking of the lips/rolling eyes be having me DEAD 💀🤣🤣

  • @stephanie3506
    @stephanie3506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I gotta be honest, I really don't want to talk on the phone for an hour myself with most men. The conversations just aren't that stimulating most of the time.

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      True🙄

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      When I know he dumb. I just play bored😂 one hour on the phone.. Nigga's be boring us to death🙄🤦‍♀️😂😂

    • @NutsNBerries
      @NutsNBerries 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmaooo so true...be carrying the whole conversation

    • @anissa2361
      @anissa2361 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@PriyankaGupta-ew1li Lol, yes! 😂

    • @Ashley-oi2uw
      @Ashley-oi2uw 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true

  •  2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I will never understand…if a man isn’t ready for a relationship why disturb a woman’s peace? What 👏🏾 is 👏🏾 the 👏🏾 point? Leave us alone if you’re only good at playing games. Life is way to short to be playing games. If you’re not into her, leave her alone.

  • @linnaewillis619
    @linnaewillis619 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    When you ask a man what do you want me for, they get mad

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      😂

    • @sg5720
      @sg5720 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      True. , just mine got mad cause he could not understand why I don’t see that he is the lucky one to have me😉

    • @laina1976
      @laina1976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I just asked a man that lol. He chased me for 2 years. I finally gave him chance hanging out spending time and stuff. This fool is pulling away now. So i ask him why you do all that chasing now i give you a chance and you acting stupid. Smh.

  • @indriadrayton1132
    @indriadrayton1132 4 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    No! He's texting because his wife doesn't hear him talking cause, he's texting you instead. It's easier that way.... Pour the glass of milk down the sink, it's spoiled.

    • @ClowneryAtItsFinest
      @ClowneryAtItsFinest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Months back I had this very same theory. My ex friend swore up and down that I was thinking too much into it. I've dropped her ass since then!
      It's good to know that great minds think alike 😉.

    • @kelamo7067
      @kelamo7067 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      indria drayton Chiiiiiiiiiiiiiile...

    • @bxndo5ive
      @bxndo5ive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      Oh yeah if he hardly calls and always texts he fasho has a woman.

    • @georgiemoran4442
      @georgiemoran4442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      So true lay right by side u n think ur 😴 a sleep n there he is texting her

    • @georgiemoran4442
      @georgiemoran4442 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ClowneryAtItsFinest good for u n u deserve better n I do to

  • @sunnyday3117
    @sunnyday3117 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Sometimes a man can be interested and do all the things you’ve spoke on but in an unhealthy manner due to previous trust issues and ruins something that could’ve been powerful and beautiful. I call it “The Over-thinker”

  • @Koukouna154
    @Koukouna154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    When he said “not LPN, keep working” Lawwwd I spit out my food 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @simplysimone7174
    @simplysimone7174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +247

    If only I could go back 10 years and apply all of this new knowledge. I was definitely falling for the one who did NOT want me and running away from the good man aka “the creep” smh 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @diva-nicole9089
      @diva-nicole9089 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      You and me both(smh) every time I hear Tony's messages I think just that.

    • @kenishalperkins
      @kenishalperkins 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Amen !! I need the last 20 years back

    •  4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Damn that's sad

    • @patty8945
      @patty8945 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I wish I knew it years ago as well.

  • @NekoleOnYT
    @NekoleOnYT 4 ปีที่แล้ว +541

    “A woman needs a man with character, substance, faith, dreams and goals... coupled with ambition.” -T. Gaskins

    • @sophiachin1262
      @sophiachin1262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen

    • @Beautiful13818
      @Beautiful13818 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Amen

    • @1973onigiri
      @1973onigiri 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Good luck... Guys like that are taken so soon...my being married...

    • @shanaqueenbee
      @shanaqueenbee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Say this until u fall asleep ladies

  • @imanirhodes3180
    @imanirhodes3180 3 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    It has been so hard for me to finish this specific video.. I’ve had to come back multiple times because the words hurt so much. I’m realizing that the person I was in a relationship with for 3 1/2 years was no longer interested in me. Whew thanks again Tony!

    • @Gstarp
      @Gstarp 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Sorry ❤️

    • @katkos2750
      @katkos2750 2 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It must have been a blessing in disguise because God's rejection is our protection !

  • @chumasitali7803
    @chumasitali7803 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Everytime he does that voice i be rolling on the floor🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @lalarodgers3141
    @lalarodgers3141 4 ปีที่แล้ว +283

    Its crazy because I use too be that "girl" that use to say "girl he is too nice", "I need somebody that's not always on me" etc etc but now that I know better and I'm much wiser, I have a "Man" that calls me everyday, plan dates, plan trips have his own car, house, a good job and just like to be around me and guess what I'm enjoying every bit of it. Thank God for Growth(on my part) Note: He has a busy schedule but he makes time for me

    • @ayessacamara3995
      @ayessacamara3995 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      We praise the Lord!

    • @bosslady9108
      @bosslady9108 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Congratulations.....💏

    • @dinnipinni4810
      @dinnipinni4810 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      So nice 🥰

    • @thinishot
      @thinishot 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Then why are you watching this video?
      Because you know something or you looking for something.

    • @lalarodgers3141
      @lalarodgers3141 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@thinishot No not at all..I'm subscribed to Toni, so its comes on my feed.

  • @NurseNotRatched
    @NurseNotRatched 4 ปีที่แล้ว +353

    Good info Mr. Gaskins 👌🏽
    I’m a nurse practitioner & I’ll never ever ever disclose my salary to a man who’s not going to be my husband again. Learned the hard way 🤦🏽‍♀️

    • @Drg_ielevateminds
      @Drg_ielevateminds 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

      I am an NP too! I just tell men I am a health coach!

    • @itsme3k
      @itsme3k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      Never disclose your salary, these men will use and abuse you.

    • @NurseNotRatched
      @NurseNotRatched 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Gina B Good idea! I’ll have to use that!

    • @queenofthesouth4205
      @queenofthesouth4205 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Never ever ever!!!

    • @gorgeouslymade1754
      @gorgeouslymade1754 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      These opportunists are googling salaries ...lol I normally say I’m in Accounting.. never mention that I have a MBA 🤣

  • @rhut579
    @rhut579 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Based on this video, I don’t think anyone I have every dated was into me.☹️It’s good to understand the differences.

  • @godsgirl3175
    @godsgirl3175 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Some people talk just to talk so called dating coaches....this man here is doing God's Light ✨ work!!!! Bringing about and clarity to God's children...All praises to The Most High 🙏🏽

  • @bre_s9164
    @bre_s9164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +142

    When you get the notification that Tony made a video. 🏃🏽‍♀️💨

    • @TuBella14
      @TuBella14 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Flawless Imperfection be bout to break my finger 😂

    • @bre_s9164
      @bre_s9164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m tryna tell you sis! 😂

    • @jayleeh9459
      @jayleeh9459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes! Lol👀👃👂

    • @viewly390
      @viewly390 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Flawless Imperfection with the quickness

    • @bre_s9164
      @bre_s9164 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Sashisroyal One right!!! 😂😂

  • @dswannbeautyartist
    @dswannbeautyartist 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    “You want me but what do you want me for”. I hear that as some people ain’t looking for love their looking for help

  • @1funkateer847
    @1funkateer847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I'm an older lady and a widow, just getting back out there. A lot of this is common sense, but we lose all that when our emotions get involved. Good information here, and you are laugh out loud funny!

  • @Markitta21
    @Markitta21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I just cannot! LOL How did I miss this video!?! A lot of good points made Tony but I was literally hollering throughout the whole thing. The analogies & imitations were spot on 😄

  • @Itchpls
    @Itchpls 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Car chronicles, hotel chronicles... Love them all 😂😂

    • @j-tenn226
      @j-tenn226 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bedroom chronicles, office chronicles

  • @BlkMagickGaia3
    @BlkMagickGaia3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    If he let's you pay/go Dutch, he's not that into you.

    • @runningcloud1751
      @runningcloud1751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      This is an original dance to the music nuance " be a man about it; not a boy with it" ,my saying to put a male in his place ( make him think) kinda a put down and make him rethink the behavior /situation . So Tony this is a gift to you apply it , as you will. Please feel free to ad it to your brand... Virgin married, first born, Nana, all round single, good girl, chased contemporary single, qualified, old fashion girl, modern woman and cosmopolitan lady.

    • @ajura8926
      @ajura8926 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Uh not sure about this my husband and I have been together for 16years and on our first date I actually paid for it.

    • @adrianarenee3331
      @adrianarenee3331 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ajura8926 that’s because he knew you could be used to pay for everything. That’s not a good thing.

  • @goldenlifelove7251
    @goldenlifelove7251 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Good, accurate message! You definitely mentioned a lot of red flags I saw in the last man I was getting to know. I'm so glad I decided to stop letting him play games w/ me & not appreciate & treat me like the amazing, beautiful woman I am.

  • @vchild
    @vchild 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I had to go back and listen to this again. This is good stuff. Ladies you need to put this on repeat

  • @chrisparker6249
    @chrisparker6249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +320

    Success is a process and time ALWAYS tells the TRUTH. The urge to rush into anything is not of God but our own spirit. We can't assume that God has his hand on every relationship because it looks and feel right....pray for discernment.

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      @@PreciousForReal It's important to support, motivate, and uplift each other. And women must know that all makes don't operate or move the same.

    • @AE-106
      @AE-106 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@chrisparker6249 Blessings my brothah

    • @chrisparker6249
      @chrisparker6249 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@AE-106 🙏

    • @Gfamily4
      @Gfamily4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen🙌

    • @nikkyshamz2696
      @nikkyshamz2696 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯💯💯

  • @lucilleduncan5187
    @lucilleduncan5187 4 ปีที่แล้ว +116

    Been there done that..I fell in love with a man that was ALWAYS TOO BUSY.he would get mad and what to argue when i would mention the lack of time.
    It ain't that much busy in the world.

    • @missj5564
      @missj5564 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      Too busy means he is not interested.

    • @rozh8321
      @rozh8321 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Aint🤦🙄

    • @brieze1233
      @brieze1233 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Been there.. now blocked

    • @k.s.alexander9427
      @k.s.alexander9427 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You were something to pass the time for him, and he was probably a narcissist too

    • @PriyankaGupta-ew1li
      @PriyankaGupta-ew1li 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You know what Us women know right from the first second that he is not into us.. But somehow (Y'all know how us women can be somehow🙄🤦‍♀️😂) we don't accept it or Take it at face value and end up playing ourselves!
      YESSS! I SAID IT..
      Men don't play us,
      We play ourselves! 😭😭😂😏
      We KNOW but again we are hard-headed!!🤣🙄😭😭😭🤦‍♀️

  • @beautytyc7
    @beautytyc7 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your wisdom and your sense of humor. I'm gaining more wisdom and laughter at the same time, lol. You really know what you talking about. That old school teaching that never changes. Thank you for sharing. God bless you.

  • @sharmawade5498
    @sharmawade5498 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love your messages… You are always on point and hilarious!!! Thank you so much for being the voice for women and for schooling men on their crap and teaching them how to treat women. Men need to know how to come correct, or don’t come at all!

  • @mirandasmith8501
    @mirandasmith8501 4 ปีที่แล้ว +201

    Make sure he don't need you for a green card, a place to stay, a ride to work, and for financial reasons. Ask what he want you for, look at his character.

    • @Afrocreolebombshelle
      @Afrocreolebombshelle 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Miranda Moore they may not be honest

    • @susamgray2483
      @susamgray2483 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      @@Afrocreolebombshelle They may not be honest but you as a woman..You gotta be Smart...When a man tries to come on too strong and too fast just do a background check on him as if he applying for a job..Do a criminal check and credit check and domestic violence check and STD check and check to see how long he can hold a job and how many kids he has and do he take care of them and how many times he been married...Did I cover everything

    • @kikikiki3216
      @kikikiki3216 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@susamgray2483 home truth...

    • @lmusima3275
      @lmusima3275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He shouldn’t be looking for a place holder

    • @lmusima3275
      @lmusima3275 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      In the past I used to meet these Nigerian guys who used to pander me with cheesy lines saying “I think I’ve seen you somewhere before. You’re so beautiful.” I’d simply ignore them. Next thing you know they’re getting married to a British woman

  • @irishbenton9194
    @irishbenton9194 4 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    I have laughed so hard on these female gestures " girlllll" this is so brutally honest. Thank God for men standing up telling the truth

  • @annoitedone831
    @annoitedone831 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    You are off the change! God Bless You and thanks for this advice.

  • @Letsbuildabetterworld23
    @Letsbuildabetterworld23 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So many coaches on TH-cam... what he says, makes more sense to me than others.

  • @goddessyvonne7753
    @goddessyvonne7753 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

    When he does not take you out on a dateWhen he only textWhen he does not ask you how your day wentWhen he start talking crazyWhen he call once a monthWhen he say God sent you to meWhen he say you are my soul mateWhen he make empty promisesWhen he broke

  • @lionelluva
    @lionelluva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    Tony and his female mannerisms - “OHHHHHHHH” 😂😂😂😂, but he’s telling NO lies

    • @tanitrarobinson7477
      @tanitrarobinson7477 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      What gets me...laying on ya byke(back) lol lol

    • @lionelluva
      @lionelluva 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@tanitrarobinson7477 LMBOOOOOO yes!

    • @lisathomas2171
      @lisathomas2171 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Yes he kills me I always laugh when I hear him start lol 😂😭

    • @BluDrop5
      @BluDrop5 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@tanitrarobinson7477 I love his accent!

    • @Mantoa_R91
      @Mantoa_R91 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      A.G. 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🙌🏽🙌🏽

  • @domoney4011
    @domoney4011 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this man. He cracks me up! 😂 Amazing how he says the truth with so much humor.

  • @latonyawrenn1435
    @latonyawrenn1435 ปีที่แล้ว

    Brother Tony is dropping pure truth in this video! Thank you so much. This is really helping me right now.

  • @luulips
    @luulips 4 ปีที่แล้ว +339

    I have to tell you Tony, when you said talk everyday for an hour I thought you were crazy and that was impossible. Well this man I’m talking to our first phone conversation was for 6 hours. Yes 6 hours! I couldn’t believe it. Didn’t think it was possible. We’re both in our early 60s, retired partially disabled so we have lots of time. We talk everyday. Its been a couple months since exchanging numbers and we still can talk for hours. He talks 3 times more than I but I don’t get tired of listening to him so far at least lol. We both want the same things for our future. We’ll see as things progress.

    • @PeaceBeStill-
      @PeaceBeStill- 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Nice 💞

    • @EbonyCOliver
      @EbonyCOliver 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

      You are NOT in your sixties... lookin good lady!

    • @luulips
      @luulips 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Ebony Oliver awe shucks thank you 😊

    • @saphinawest
      @saphinawest 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      60’s??? You look AHMAZING! Keep us updated! Lol❤️

    • @denisegladden-peters4435
      @denisegladden-peters4435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      How cool is that! Wishing the best!

  • @chantellew5810
    @chantellew5810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +77

    I'll rather just change my number , move on & just completely focus on myself & make myself a priority and love ME . At least I won't have to question whether the love is real or not 🤷🏾‍♀️💯🤦🏾‍♀️ Js

    • @shamyareid5025
      @shamyareid5025 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I’m going through something with someone now and I think that’s the best idea I have ever heard all day

  • @lashondatalbert4185
    @lashondatalbert4185 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    It's 11:15 pm I'm suppose to be sleeping but I ran across your videos and I'm hooked!!! OMG 😂...I'm over here taking notes and everything!!!

  • @katserna6966
    @katserna6966 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    😂😂🎯You hit it right on the head. God Bless You and your family Always.

  • @sharicebryant8149
    @sharicebryant8149 4 ปีที่แล้ว +228

    Be blessed tony! You’re so right abt us women thinking half effort is sexy and mysterious. We love men that are vague bc we can dream up our own versions of how things will go in the relationship. It’s sad. Wise up, ladies. The man that puts in effort actually likes you and that’s okay lol.

  • @SoultanicalsTube
    @SoultanicalsTube 4 ปีที่แล้ว +149

    This was Hilarious! 🤣 But Seriously Ladies, we have to remember that we ARE the PRIZE! We have to stop making excuses for lackadaisical behavior. Know your worth! ✌🏾

  • @orionapollo1613
    @orionapollo1613 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Thank you so much, Tony. I needed to hear this from You, today. Wow! I appreciate your enlightenment. Amen.

  • @abbyhemp509
    @abbyhemp509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You join st snatched me out of a horrible mood and now you got me over here DyiNn laughing 😂🤣🥰🤗👏👏🙌 thank you so much. I had no idea how I was going to get out of that funk.