Part 1 -Messed up mom- Termination Hearing
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Congratulations on your sobriety. That is great. ❤ There’s nothing like sobriety after you climb some very hard obstacles, physically, mentally and emotionally, you get to appreciate everything you have with a clear head. Many more years of sobriety to you
A 2 year old calling a 4 year old mommy is just heartbreaking 😢
Ya 😢
OH MY GOSH! That is terrible!
It was that fact, and the fact that one of the other siblings, Mia, had to call Lennox to get the mother to wish her daughter happy birthday. But no gifts or cards. Heartbreaking. ❤❤❤
She sounds like an amazing foster mom. I wish they were all like her.
Yeah wish she was foster to adopt. No telling where or with who they'll end up.
I was just thinking that and came to say so. I'm also super impressed by her ability to work around the objections and get the evidence in so smoothly and naturally. Seems like a gem to me. Not my type, but I'm sure her partner is a content man. ☺🤠👍
@@LauraLancealot the problem with foster to adopt she will lose the financial support from the state, this can include WIC, Medicaid & Food Stamps. Im in no way saying she's doing it for the $$$, but we all know how expensive kids are. She may not be able to afford the kids without the state's assistance.
In WV, when we adopt from foster (I have 4 amazingly awesome adopted kids) we lost the state's backing. Luckily, we are blessed to provide for our family but I won't lie, the monthly income and other state support really helps.
Want to know something heartbreaking? When fostering we get $850/month per child. We only have to provide receipts that at least $85 is being spent on the child. Absolutely appalling. You'd think there'd be more oversight ensuring the money is going to the child or at least to living expenses.
Little Memphis getting on her foster mom's back and giggling was so sweet. Made me smile. I'm glad the entire panel got to see how happy she is.
At what time stamp was that
43:35 its blurred out but you can still somewhat make it out
You'd think the mom would smile, cry, show some kind of emotion when she saw Memphis but there was nothing. On the other hand it shows everyone how trusting and close Memphis is to her foster mom. Good job foster mom and thank God there are people out there that take on the care and love for kids that need it so badly.
Which one is the mom??? I can't tell
@@suchafknladyyymarissa on the bottom camera continues to move
Ahhhh thank you ✊🏾
I watch a lot of these kind of cases where the mom will not show any emotion and I just don't get it.. I would be devastated if someone took my babies
Not far into the foster mom's testimony and I absolutely love her and I'm thankful she's a foster parent even if just for a temporary. Her dedication to ensuring the children she takes on get acclimated to their new "normal" while feeling safe and comforted is a blessing. I just love her. 24:55
Yup she's one of the good ones
I was also very impressed with her. It takes a very patient, loving person to do what she does. I could not do it. She is special.
Agreed! I love her! She has great instincts. It would be so easy to dismiss some of those symptoms early in a placement with such traumatized children. But she got right on it and sought help and tried to figure it out. She's so very invested in these girls and working through all their issues. She's not just caring for them, she's rehabbing them.
That foster mom is absolutely amazing 👏. I'm glad that the kids were put with an amazing foster parent. They deserve to be with someone caring, loving and willing.
Only 20 minutes in and the defense attorney has a huge attitude. He can defend his client without the chip on his shoulder.
Every time he opened his mouth I cringed 😒 huge attitude problem
Hearsay this and that. He sounds like a pain in the arsh.
REAL!! like i get they have a job too and have to defend their client but you can go about it respectfully and professionally.
@@RichelleW yea those are the actual rules of court... Hearsay is not allowed. That is literally his job
Arrogant dicks like him are too Arrogant to realise they're not doing ANY favour to their client by behaving like that!!!
Long term foster placements are very hard. My Mum fostered for 30 years, newborns to the age of 3 or 4, a very important time in a baby/child's emotional and physical development. You could always see the pure love and attachment between the children and my parents. I still do not know how heart breaking it must have been at the end of the placement, for the child, and certainly my Mum and Dad. I got attached, and I wasn't even living at home then. It takes very special people to bring love and a balance to a sometimes very cruel world ❤️
I'm sure you have told them how proud and in awe you are, they sound like wonderful people.. it'd be a shame if not.
My neighbours are foster parents, still fostering and they are in their 70’s. Lovely, caring people. It takes special people to foster, that’s for sure 😊
I desperately want to be a foster parent to provide some semblance of love, support and normalcy for suffering children. However, my husband does not want to because of the heartbreak that comes with it.
im a long term foster carer, honestly i love my foster son to death that i refer to him as my child, best and hardest thing i have ever done.
I was gifted to worse than I had come from.
It was rare to have a good foster home.
I had one outta 17 moves that felt like home.
Your parents make a difference when their intentions are all from a heart.
Constipation is indicative of stress...these babies were taking care of themselves, and the reason they exibited these symptoms was because they felt like they were finally safe and free to be babies...so everything that they were holding back came to the surface...
I worked in a residential placement for kids where the majority come from abuse and trauma, and I cannot count how many had bowel issues, even some that will continue to have bowel issues the rest of their lives. Many people don’t realize this is yet another difficulty these kids have.
I was a foster parent to four children. I can tell you that this is a wonderful foster home. The amount of time, care, and all of the extra things she noticed about these kids. Very few people would have taken the time to figure out exactly what was wrong. I believe most Foster People would get angry at the child for crying. Instead of finding out what was wrong. I became a social worker after my own children we're grown. I ended up working with foster moms. There are a lot of people who do it for the money, with this lady is truly invested in the best care of the children. I'm extremely proud of her.
Well said ma'am. 🤠👍☺
Absolutely AGREE!!!
@@markgado8782 Thanks so much!
@@ricktaylor4real Thank you, Rick!
I hope Robin is having a lovely day wherever she is
She seems great, doesn't she?
@@lostineggsaisle she really does. I'm so glad those babies are with her
When my niece had scheduled visits with the father of her child they usually scheduled them at McDonald's and she never told her it was for a visit with dad because he never showed. That way, it was just a lunch at McDonald's and no expectations on the child's part. It was something they had to go thru to get his visits terminated until he got his act together....still hasn't.
Hats off to that Foster mom!!! Amazing, caring and empathetic
The foster mother is tremendous. I am so impressed by her. She has gone so far beyond the scope of her basic responsibility didn’t hesitate to say yes when asked if she would stay on. Remarkable human being
I’m a foster parent and it’s so important that kids who are bonded keep the bond. I would take these babies!
It's beautiful to know that these babies had such solidarity, loyalty and love for one another. The two year old wanted to be potty trained because sister was? Adorable!!
They bonded because they had no choice-it was self preservation against the mother!
@@catherineeckstein2705 Absolutely it was. Beautiful, nonetheless 🥰
@@reedo9002 actually it was sad, because Memphis, a 2 yo, referred to her 4 yo sister, Lennox, as “mother”-nothing “beautiful” about it-it put an unnecessary emotional burden on a 4 yo child.
@@catherineeckstein2705 Whoah. That's F*CKED.
@@reedo9002 did you not hear that part?
Thank you Robin for taking care of these children. I hope you see these messages of love and support. God bless everyone ,who opens up their home and hearts, to give children a loving & SAFE place to be. ❤ not all heroes wear capes.
It would literally KILL me to have my kids in foster care, being cared for by a stranger in a strange home. Imagining how scared, confused, and lonely they would be, would eat me alive! Maybe it's because I know how it feels, because I was in foster care. But I imagine most good loving parents would feel that way!
Right! Just imagine being that child in foster care and being separated from your siblings… not knowing when you will see, talk, or spend time with them again. I hope this mom and dad get their life together, and show their children what a normal life is. It’s possible for the parents to get clean… they just have to WANT it
It did kill me... it was the hardest thing I've ever been through...because I knew how bonded my kids were to me and how hard it was going to be for them. Thankfully we had a great foster family that made it a bit easier. And my twins were able to stay together. I see how parents can just keep using to avoid those feelings.. and it often seems like an impossible task to get your kids back.
@@noonecares8932Yes, thank you. It is possible..I did get clean and got my kids home and have been clean 6yrs now. Having such a big and supportive family really helped a lot. I don't think I could have done it alone.
Some mothers just need to let go, and let their children live a better life.
I'm glad these babies had caring people fighting for them.
U could literally ALWAYS tell which ones are the parents by their inability to keep the damn camera still and their stupid angle choices, it never EVER fails and it’s quite irritating 😤😤
I am SO with you on that! I get the reasons why Zoom court was started, and certainly see the benefits continuing it, but I wish the judges would shut that sh*t down the second it happens, and if they have to say it more than twice…. call the parents IN! They must show up AT the courthouse and go on a computer there (so everyone else is not inconvenienced as well). Just horrible court behavior on most of these; I remember when courts were held with respect and even a bit of (healthy) fear. We need that brought back.
Omg yessss!!
I've seen her other hearing. She's pretty chill in this one. So far, anyway.
I love my kids. And they know it, and feel it. It is heartbreaking that there are kids out there going through these things. It's not fair.
Wish I had a mother like u miss Lisa 🥺😩
Tooth pain is the absolute worst!! So many medical issues that were ignored. Makes me so angry!! I wouldn’t be able to show my face on video if I was a bad parent like this!
I feel like tooth and stomach/gastro are both some of the worst pain wise. So many nerves in both areas so that’s just unbelievable mom could ignore them. I know my son had horrible gastro issues as a baby and we were in and out of the dr office, Er, and specialist for months. Which also happened to be at the height of the swine flu back in 2009ish. So we both ended up catching that and had to be hospitalized in a quarantined area. But I would do it all over again if it meant solving his pain. Sitting by and letting your child suffer is absolutely abuse. But I really want to know how 3 kids test positive?? How is that even possible? Is meth second hand smoke a thing? I don’t know how that all works. Did they have to smoke it? Accidentally eat it? I don’t know the methods of ingestion for it and I don’t even know how I’d ask google that. I had to pause so maybe they answer it, but I doubt it. This case just broke my heart. I’m glad the foster mom noticed the issues so quickly and acted, she didn’t hesitate at all to not only care for their physical well being but she also worked on their emotional well being and showed them real love. She still is putting them first more then mom was with her stupid pictures.
@@Sara-xk1ns Mom is driving me nuts. Stay still and listen to the hearing. She disappeared a whole bunch of times and moved too much.
@@Sara-xk1ns meth seeps into everything, it's so toxic. They didn't have to smoke it or eat it, only be in close proximity with it.
@@Sara-xk1ns This is what I found about second hand exposure to meth:
"Contaminated surfaces, due to someone who has used meth touching the surface or previously airborne residue that has settled, can expose others through dermal absorption due to skin contact with the contaminated area or through ingestion if hands are then put in mouths without cleaning. The probability of such exposure causing someone to experience symptoms is low, especially in relation to exposure in a public setting."
So they likely never got "high", but would have tested positive. Still a big health concern.
@@anonymoose116I think the scariest thing is the mom emptying out the water from a meth bong or some people put juice in them. It’s not like a weed bong the meth water will look just like clean water but in reality a drink of it could probally make a child overdose in minutes.
I'm going to be a mom in August, and for the life of me, I could never imagine being so negligent and so much of a failure to my child that I'd end up in a call like this. These poor little kids deserve someone who would die for them and I'm glad they found such a good caregiver.
Drugs are hell. I just wish these people would agree to get fixed so they can’t have kids. It should be a free service if they so desire. That way they can live the way they want without harming innocent babies.
Drugs come first… no matter what. It doesn’t matter who hurts . I’ve never been in trouble with CPS, but I’ve been clean for over 10 yrs. I’ll never go back down that path. Would have NEVER imagined me being a drug addict.
I am a recovering addict, and I had my daughter august 23rd. I have been clean for a long time but I have felt guilt for if I were to ever go back to that life in the future and wonder how moms can do that…I am so blessed to be a mom. Sometimes, mothers can have babies and feel nothing. It’s hard to be empathetic towards them being in these situations, even as a once addict myself
Hope there r stable fathers in the picture and u both provide a stable lifestyle.
@@beer1403 a stable single mom is better than 2 drug addicts who beat each other and let their 4 year old get 6 cavities and a cracked molar. I agree that kids need the mom and a dad but one parent that loves them is at least better than this
That foster mom is an angel with a beautiful soul.
Seeing the little one come wrap her arms around the foster mom was so precious ❤
Bless these sweet children. Hearing the medical and potty training issues is heartbreaking.
Mom was arrested on 1/24/22 & 12/5/22 for possession of meth. Yes her last arrest was a month before this hearing!
Meth is one helluva drug...I pray the mom gets her life together for her kids' sakes!
@@MissTXTee yeah meth is pure evil...not something to get tangled up with it's so scary because a person will keep doing it for days on end and eventually end up in a psychosis as a result of lack of sleep.
@@MissTXTee she loves the drugs more.
@@MissTXTee While it’s certainly possible, sadly the success ratios for that are extremely low!! 🤦🏼♂️🤷♂️☮️
Seeing her levels that she tested at, I almost fell out of my chair. Hair was at over 35k
Edit to add that I just saw the kids levels. Why!!! How can you do that to babies?!?!?!
I fostered a 3 year old who arrived into my care with about 10 cavities in his teeth. I think childhood neglect is more prevalent then we know. We are just seeing the ones who end up in the system. Heartbreaking.
You make an excellent point, society only sees the children who's parents are caught and found severely wanting.
The mother can not just sit still… “and there go I”
I’m 2 years sober at 37 years old with my first child- my 5 month old baby girl. I am so glad i didn’t have any children during my 21 years in active addiction.
I agree with a previous person's comment about the creep of an attorney......he is hateful and catty with a huge attitude! The foster mom is wonderful and well spoken and is doing a super job! Thanks to her for being a foster mom
Agreed. Well said. 👏
I cannot imagine neglecting my children the way this mother neglected hers. Multiple dental issues, constipation....I can't even fathom how painful and uncomfortable this poor child was. This mother should not have her kids, and I hope she doesn't have any more. She's clearly not capable of caring for them.
Edit: I wish I had a foster parent like this one. She genuinely cares for these kiddos.
Apparently it wasn't the 1st time she had her kids removed either
@@ingloriousbetch4302I really don't understand how you could put your kids through that AGAIN. KNOWING how hard it is.
bless this foster mom for loving those girls like their sorry momma never has
43:20
Watching Memphis come in and climb up on foster mom without fear and then laugh as she was piggybacked out of the room was heartwarming. It’s a testament to the level of her care she is receiving from her foster mom.
That's what I hated as a caseworker when children were to be adopted and their in regular foster hones. These children will go back when moved again. I am retired and still remain compassionate with these issues !😪 for these children. I probably shouldn't be looking cat this as it produces flashbacks
Tested positive for the children. Damn it . Care enough to let go of an ego based need to keep your children.
It's insane how long it takes to remove a child in real danger and quick they remove the child for personality conflict.
It really shouldn't be a quick or easy thing, for the state to take your kids.
@@awkwardautistic I said a child in real true danger where it has been shown in physical and in the home.
I took my grandchildren I didn't wait for the damn state they would be dead or worse still being neglected and witnessing the heavy dv in the home.
It shouldn't take death to hel0 a child in danger.
You are speaking on something that is not any part of my point... valid child abuse evidence or child speaking out.
Yea...it should be very easy and immediate when there's proof of abuse, neglect or exposure to drugs
I had MAJOR dental issues after having radiation treatment and now have dentures. I can't imagine being 4 yrs old and dealing with this pain.
I'm so glad my kids don't have this mess and I pray for these children God protect and keep these children close to you they need all the help they can get help them have a good life and to break the cycle of abuse to their own in your name I pray amen
Dear sweet Mary and Mother.... (fill in the curse words here) ... not only is she using meth but the CHILDREN are positive?!? Please keep those precious children far far FAR away! 🤬
I just heard that part myself 😢 I can’t believe this!
How does that happen? She gives it to them? Or is it second hand meth smoke?
Either way she needs to be in PRISON
It’s clear those babies got the foster mom they needed and I am so happy for them!
I had a child in foster care (no fault of my own and all "charges" were dismissed) for a time, and I ALWAYS brought gifts and snacks and such to visits for my kiddo. I saw her 3 times a week and had to travel 3 hours each way for each visit. I did it. My kiddo is my world and I bent over backwards to get her home. She has been back in my sole custody for 5 years now, and I STILL bend over backwards to make sure she has everything she needs. If I don't have it or can't get it, I reach out to my support group and find help. That's what you do as a parent.
This mother doesn’t seem too interested in what is happening with her children. So incredibly sad 😢
Atp she should just sign them over to miss Robin
So mom keeps disappearing from the screen, long enough to get a puff of the pipe and even a quick shot before returning, it’s really obvious to someone like me who used for over thirty years, not meth but heroin and when you’ve been doing it for a while, having a shot can be done very quickly! She’s so addicted, it’s sad!
If you're referring to shooting up intravenously it really isn't that fast, especially heroin, even meth has to be prepared, drawn up, you need to tie off, get a vein, inject, wipe the blood, experience it fully for at least 2 minutes or so before you'll be able to converse with any sense about you, I do know about heroin, in past, not meth directly but I've seen people do it, I don't think you've ever injected any street drug, so zip it you sound stupid
She's a drinker. I think they literally mean a shot of alcohol
Oh nevermind I read your comment before fully reading the other one
It does take a little while to cook a shot up, and I don’t know about you but my veins are shite small and scratty to begin with. I really don’t think you can cook up a shot and hit a nice juicy vein. It always took me ages. Ages!
This mother Mrs Shartey ( dunno if I spelled that right), her drug of choice is meth, and this was the 3rd time of having her kids removed, as the kids had fkin METH in their systems. 😠😠😠
Lol, get me
I’ve been watching all of these and am totally engrossed with these alongside parole hearings. This mum didn’t address any of her kiddie’s really serious health issues, this super foster mum is right on the ball. Just what these children need I reckon. 😊😊
The foster mom has done more care for them babies than that sorry az egg donor has done. How tf can a baby have 6 cavities and a broke tooth is insane
At the young ages of 2&4 that's abuse alone I bet she don't suffer from toothaches 😩🙄
These sisters will always be bonded and have this experience together, I hope they lean on each other as they grow 💜💜💜
What a wonderful woman the foster mom is! May God bless her always! I wish all foster parents were as kind and dedicated as she is
Years ago they didn't test for drugs when a child is born, now they do. I wonder why that got away from the medical profession. Neither one of them are suited to raise these children at this time. They're thriving now. These attorneys are playing house with their lives. There's a place!
So excited to have a TH-cam suggestion of your channel. I’ll take all the court channels I can get!! 🤣
I've never seen any of your videos before but I really loved this and the input you added! I wish every foster parent would be just like her. These poor girls. And the mom is so irritating. The judge needs to tell her to stop turning her camera off and stop moving around. Most judges I've watched wouldn't accept that.
Family cases are hard to digest. These beautiful babies deserve so much more.
Been watching a lot of parole hearings and this popped up so I'm giving it a try.... I can tell this will be interesting but sad as well. Thx for sharing!
Bio Mom is a trip…modest apron like dress, showing pictures periodically BUT never changes expressions!
I think she has a dress over a T-shirt which I find weird but what’s even stranger that she was actually removing her weave at the same exact time they’re talking about her hair follicle test and the fact that she died her hair she clearly has issues I haven’t listen to the rest of it I’m only at the part where she removed her weave and stuff off camera
@@Gemini61I think you meant she “dyed” her hair…
@@catherineeckstein2705 Yeah I use talk or voice text so I don’t have a chance sometimes to look at it before I send it so it just says what it wants sometimes I sound real stupid I need to I guess edit it first thank you though
@@Gemini61 haha no worries
Everyone in this thread ❤ so kind to each other! 19:58 I came here to look for anyone else who thought it was weird she so intentionally displays the photos… like yeah - we know they’re *your* kids, lady… but do *you*? 😢 and yes- I caught the smile. I felt this sense it was in satisfaction. She doesn’t care as much about what the children have suffered, as she does about winning, or at least tamping down the flame of the foster mother, who is the only light in their lives right now ❤
I had subconsciously just accepted the fact that professor Snape was attending this zoom hearing until 53 minutes in! Then my brain suddenly was like "WTH!" 😂 Great commentary and interesting if sad case. Subscribed.👍
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I’m just happy I’m not the only one who thought so lol
Sorry but who ? Please explain Thanks so much
@@raintree3383 Professor Snape from the Harry Potter Series.
That’s it!! I was trying to place her!! Thank you! That was getting frustrating lol
If we had a 3rd bedroom I would consider applying for fostering. After reading into it, I know they are badly needed.
I’m considering it myself
@@Heda568 yawl please do but for a lovely Jamaican lady named miss Audrey Clark I'd probably have offed myself in foster care I was bounced around so much nobody wanted me nobody cared im still trying to locate her but if u have the means please please please please please please adopt/foster
Beyond heartbreaking! Mom had no problem going on drug runs but couldn't go to the services to get he kids back. Ridiculous
The lawyer asked if the foster mom was blaming the mother for not showing up at visits that were discontinued by the court and she said no. However, I would say that’s absolutely the fault if the mother because there would be no need for visitation had she not been drugged out and neglectful to her kids.
43:28 one of the kids shows up for a cuddle... you can see they enjoy each other
Im surprised they allowed her to appear by zoom with the kids in the house. Ive had childcare issues and requested to appear by zoom and the court said no because it wasn’t appropriately for my child to be in the home for the hearing.
You can’t be a good parent when using drugs! If you are using drugs, you should not be able to have custody of your children. This woman is proving time and time again that drugs are more important to her than her children.
I hope that these children stay in a stable environment and their mother finds sobriety.
This mom, sitting silently in the shadows in her "grey gardens" home is giving me the creeps
lol right’s mom can’t just put phone down.. it’s very telling been hitting that pipe or needle
I dont understand how the findings of the drug screen are "hearsay". There documented findings/results from a legitimate test.
They hadn't been admitted yet as exhibits so at that point it was hearsay. It's silly to me too
I realize this is in the best interest of the children. It doesn't make it any easier to hear "im terminating your parental rights". But thats only bc i would go above and beyond the courts orders to keep my child. Thank you for this content❤
She just went and took off her wig mid-court proceeding. 🤦🏻♀️😂😂I have now seen it all.
LOL I missed that
Time stamp please 😩😩😩😩😩
53.25 ish@@danetspeaks8708
That "mother" is having a hard time keeping her eyes open.
What an incredibly sad state that kids are even being put into these positions. Thank goodness for all of those wonderful ppl who open their homes and hearts.
The defense lawyer can object all he wants because by objecting about the girls health,education,personal issues it makes him and mom look like their just trying to hide those things ?
It’s so cool that some states have termination by jury.
The defense or moms lawyer, is RUDE A F!!! They need to know EVERYTHING. Nothing should be off limits for determining termination of parental rights... this mom is nothing but an incubator for kids she does not care about. Every kid should be out of her custody.
Medical records/doctors visits are supposed to be submitted to the department's atty/court in the first place. If the case worker did that, this hearsay crap wouldn't be warranted.
Is the mother starring in her own Victorian ghost creep show?!!! What the heck!?
"Miss Memphis, the Visitor" climbed on foster mums back i believe because she picked up on the distress in FM's voice having to talk about the impact of the no shows on the children.❤❤❤ 43:26
She's a legend with a beautiful heart.
My grandchildren are the same in parental roles with each other vs allowing me to guide them.
It's take many days and nights of building trust even in my own bloods heart.
Understanding that they thought because I am mother to mom I would act the same or treat them the way she did.
To change the generational curse I have to work twice as hard to change some intense issues.
I have been willing to turn the ship around for their sake.
My daughter refuses to comply in 3 yrs not one condition has been fulfilled.
Thank you for being there for them
@@OnTropolis I couldn't imagine not being there for fear where they might all end up.
The system is just not fit to fix any issues however when done correctly they can save lives.
Many reflections I make and I try to see through their eyes.
Love is wanting our parents no matter how good or bad children crave what is their heart... Mommy and Daddy .
I hoped for reunification but at this point it would do more harm than good.
Excuses not comply will never get them all back together only work and admittance will get my girls near their absent and addicted parents.
My daughter has a bachelor degree in nursing and lost her license after loosing her job.
She blames child support on reason license is gone but won't pay a dollar to show effort.
Robin you are awesome!! Never give up on these girls! ❤
When they said drug test for the kids my stomach dropped. SMH
I had a 10 month old baby on my caseload once that tested higher than her mother, just from mom and her friends smoking meth in the living room continuously with the child sitting there. 😢
@@waypay1 that’s so sad 💔
@@waypay1 omg
This is beyond sad 😢for these girls.
This foster mother seems really good.
Watch Ms. Ramirez ( bottom row, second from left) around 54:03 and a few sec after. She flabbergasted when “mom” takes off her weave and dangles it in front of the camera. She’s trying not to crack up. 🤣🤦🏻♀️
She looked at whoever was in the room with her like "did you just see that sht?" 😂
Good Lord
These poor kids
My God
Why the hell cant they report what the damn doctors find . Its not damn hearsay its MEDICAL EVIDENCE!!
Who has seen the Losing Isaiah 1995 movie with Halle Berry? The court scene at the end.....Made me "a Man" cry.
I am not being mean but for a split second I thought Professor Snape was in on this Zoom! (Sorry Amanda Rehov, bad camera angle! Lol) Thank you for the great content from your newest subscriber. Cheers!❤️🇨🇦
Not seeing your children on the open visits, tells me she picks and chooses when it's convenient to her!
In my experience with fostering parents were not allowed to call or contact me at all for any reason. I was to report that immediately and the only communication was allowed at visits. I never understood that. In many cases having access to the parents is helpful. But the case workers would not allow it.
Of course the baby sister relied on her older sister for comfort in such a traumatic event... She is literally the only thing she knew...
The children had meth in their system but it sounds like you're defending this mother.
@@nicoledoubleyou pointing out facts and things I have had happen are in no way defending the mother. I never stated that the kids didn't have meth in their system. People can have different opinions and experiences and even be critical of the system and still not be in defense of the mother.
People are multifaceted like that
Hearings from about a year ago on this case are on TH-cam, too, including testimony that the mom did not keep Lennox’s gastro appts. & her gastro meds up-to-date, & the dental problems. Poor little girl. Her long term medical/dental problems were ignored by the parents even tho’ they knew about them. They were very nonchalant about them. The mom had the same atty. she has for this hearing.
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I have special needs children so their potty training is way off. I sometimes forget how early some kids can figure it out. Sounds like foster mom is doing a great job.
1:02:18 the children were positive? 😢 No wonder the kids were sick!
Yes all three had quite significant levels in their system :(
Mom is a little hyper .Bless there little heart.🙏🤍🙏
Mom's excuse was she was driving somebody to get Matt to sell for gas money? Wouldn't the mess cost the money that the gas would have been paid with? That sounds like the excuse somebody who's awake for days on meth with me
Those kids being positive for drugs should be an immediate termination for a drug like meth in their system. There should be no question a child is not a plant you do not get to do whatever you want to to a human being just because they're little
Very very very very sad case.
I'm really surprised that the court did not redact the womans social security number.
Feel sorry for her children!
Mother made sure in her video that she had pics of her kids
Did she just take a wig off mid hearing while talking about her hair follicle test!? That’s probably what she used which is why it came back inconclusive!!
That lawyer objecting. Dude, she’s sharing a medical diagnosis. Not opinion.
It’s amazing how many resources, time, and effort are spent on deadbeat parents who don’t appreciate it
Ummm did I just see her take her hair off??? And in court 🤣🤣
Yep!
Interesting, eh?! 😅
It always amazes me how you could have the audio muted and tell by just presentation who is the person having issues in life. Almost all of them can’t sit still, and are constantly on and off camera, re adjusting, moving seats while everyone else is still, and paying attention for the most part.
I mean I would’ve thought that they would’ve been a reaction from either one of the parents when their daughter came in and was being so cute I mean I know she was blurred out but you would think they actually could see her and not one reaction from their faces could be detected
The mom's Facebook is so sad to look at. You see that there was a time [seemingly] when she wasn't this much of a mess.
It's sad. She was a beautiful woman and is so sucked up now. Her pictures with her newborn in 2017..I'm assuming is the older child..she looked like a happy caring mom. I just can't understand it.
And I am one that should. I am raising my daughters three children. I adopted her youngest to get him out of foster care. My daughter turned to meth after having her first child. It's heartbreaking.
@@dougntoni11111I’m so sorry to hear that. There is hope though, I hope your daughter can get out of the grips of that. God bless you for taking on her children- I have seen many addicts recover so don’t give up hope.
It must take a class act to defend a drugged out mom who wants to continue to abuse and neglect her children it’s obvious by the issues the children had when they came to her that the mom isn’t qualified to care for these babies. The lawyer who defends a continuing addict who wants to bring these children back into the chaos is a piece of crap.
It's their job genius. They get paid to do the best they can to represent the client no matter what, which is one of the rights in this country. They aren't allowed to have a personal stake. They have to present the facts from the defendant's side even if they don't like it.
Someone has to do it. Defendants have a right to a lawyer. Even pieces of shit.
Thank Heaven for foster parents. We never hear these stories. ❤