Women are like a shadow; if you follow them, they flee. If you flee, they follow you." Women are cool, but they shouldn't be the gears that make your world revolve. You make your own life revolve. Focus on yourself, respect yourself, build yourself - this positive energy creates a natural attraction.
1. Having no intention 2. Qualifying yourself 3. Making the conversation too PG or not taking risks 4. Failing in her qualifying tests 5. Not breaking the rapport: always seeking rapport not teasing her or nagging her 6. Confusing compliments with flirting 7. not having 'Bits' or stories to tell when transitioning. Have lovely day
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
well said. This is especially true for attractive high quality women who are always getting attention from the guys. They get sick of beta males always wanting them, but when a guy they find attractive is not always blowing up their phones it really turns them on.
@@sammaloney1746 What's obvious is that none of you actually know anything about how attraction works, hence why you sit here sucking up to this clown when no women are supporting him.
Huge amount of value from Bobby in this video . Only thing I would add to that list is that nice guy's will tend to over-talk on a date if the lady isn't saying much. They can't tolerate any silence... .she can though!
Thanks. Shit, this is a mistake I don't ever wanna make. I haven't gone out with anyone yet because I was too focused on my hobbies and job. Now I'm about to get close to my 30s and I really gotta take this seriously or I'll die alone. Since it's gonna be my first time, hope I get to make the best quality time when I get on a date with someone, I can already imagine running out of things to say though, not to mention I never flirted before. I wish I could find some conversation examples about flirting somewhere leading to how the guy gets her number, gives her the kiss on the first date and maybe even take her home to escalate things and seal the deal.
@@sayareyes3387 my advice would be to play 'I speak, you speak' with her. It's a kind of game where you initiate conversation then wait for her to initiate the rule is you STAY SILENT until she does.!. I play this with travel partners on long journeys and its really liberating.
@@BobbyRio Conversation has to have a nice flow and on occasion it can go through rabbit holes. Once the communication is hitting that tipping point, end it “I got things to do or an appointment to catch up with. I’ll see you here again tomorrow to continue it” If she likes too “let me get your number” if she doesn’t come back to that spot to continue don’t send a text or a call. Leave it up to her to come back to that spot to talk and when she dose you know she wants you or likes you”
seriously hoping your stuff sinks into my head, guess ive been lucky previous years but this time around i really want that upgrade in girl. 8yrs single and enjoyed the party too much, now that im sobering up, things are working. old formula wasnt working so along with sobering up im hoping your style of formula will work. Thankyou Bobby
For the nice guys who have made these mistakes and perpetually do so, this is the advice to hear. I used to make these mistakes. Imagine waking up to a women and she asks you” what did you think? Will you see me again?”You respond and say “ it was better than I would have thought. Your the best thing I ever had.” That’s a nice guy thing.
"Qualifying her" Another way to say this that I discovered is interested vs interesting. It is so much easier to be interested than trying to be interesting. Keep her talking about herself. You get info and it's way easier.
And as far as I am concerned, the only thing that a "nice guy" gets wrong is to not let the woman take the initiatives. I, personally prefer having the woman initiate. And most good and wise men (regardless of whether they are "nice" or not) prefer the same. And I don't just mean initiating sex,; but initiating the first greeting, the first date, and the first kiss as well. When a woman takes the initiatives, the communication is clear; there are no games; women get to be in control and have whatever they want; men don't experience performance anxiety, and feel more accepted and relaxed; and both the man and the woman enjoy each other's company more. And it won't matter if the man is good, bad, naughty, or nice because all of that becomes irrelevant when a woman initiatives and takes control. Also, women get to feel empowered, men don't have to worry about coming across as "creepy"; both the man and the woman are happier and more fulfilled; and men don't have to worry about "getting the 7 things wrong". Contrary to what most women think, the majority of men won't feel intimidated if a woman initiates, and even acts aggressively. In fact, when a woman initates and acts aggressively, both she and her man feel confident, and it brings a sense of playfulness to the relationship. And, nowadays, thanks to sexual harassment politics, female initiating is practically considered MANDATORY. Therefore, gone are the days when men took all the initiatives! Now it's your turn, ladies! And, Bobby, you could save a lot of time on all of this dating advice that you give to men, if you will strongly exhort women to take the initiatives and take control. If you really do care about improving male-female relationships overall, you will heed what I say! So it is time for all you women to unleash your inner tigress; take the initiative and take control. You will find romantic relationships so much more fulfilling.
Man! I can't get enough of what you have to offer! Every video has its own insight and you are such a brilliant one along with the sincere intention to help that I get from you. Although I personally don't go with ladies who need an entertainer which there is not much of it out there!! but it is a good chance to understand the order of things. I'll do my best to spread these videos to handful of people. Thank you for the knowledge.
Nice advice for sure. I like your channel as you often talk about important topics often missed by young men. There’s one thing though that I am not totally sure if I got right. There are two different things here. One is the guy who meets a girl in a bar and wants to find a way to take her to bed as soon as possible. That’s the goal. The other is the guy who meets a girl, likes her and wants to develop a friendship, understand and know who she is, how she is , etc because he sees her as a potential long term partner. I personally never went to bed with a woman on a first date.
Why can’t a woman just directly say, “there’s no chemistry between us, I don’t want to waste yours or mines time so I think it’s best to move on”? Seems immature that they can’t directly speak their mind
As a guy you have to create the chemistry through flirting and teasing and then she will be attracted to you. Dan bacon is another dating coach to listen to.
Guys don't listen to this. Find yourself and your confidence first. Find out what your passions are. Love the man that you've become and continue to learn and grow. If you haven't done this then you aren't ready to find a partner. Once you have found yourself, you'll see how silly these videos are. Just be yourself and you will see that some women will want you and some won't and that's okay. Don't try so hard or be manipulative to get into someone's pants.
Exactly. He acts like being nice is a hindrance. If it's who a guy is, then they should be that, instead of changing who they are because Bobby told them to.
Bobby, loving all the material which is helping me with women and helping me in my job search as well. Wanted to know if the videos for the "verbal stack" teaching are available somewhere? (from Feb 2024)
hey, right now they are not. however, I believe next month we'll be doing an encore of the training. If you're on my email list, you'll get notified when it happens. Glad you're enjoying the material!
I think I just fail everything. I never bring anything sexual into a conversation on a date. I wouldn't know what is too little or too much. Im exhausted trying to know how to get out of the friend zone garbage.
There was a nice First Dates date on the TV, about a year ago. The couple had no real connection during the dinner. So, still eating, they know it would lead to nothing. They both thought so. Then, because the man knew everything is lost, said: i do kinky sex. And then she said: me too. So, at the end of the tv program you see them both on pictures and they were still together. It was here on the Dutch 🇳🇱 tv.
Very good videos. They are very informative. And yeah it’s sad a lot of guys in our generation can’t get a girl. Especially guys that have disabilities.
4 Steps to Verbal Game: Basically, 4 steps of conversation to move the focus to any objective. The message could be a man getting a woman's phone number. Could be a man closing a sale on a product. Is that about right?
All good accept #5 if I understood right “Break Rapport” I believe it VERY necessary to keep RAPPORT, I think meant to “change the subject” I believe it necessary to not leave her off balance, you don’t wish to be off balance; that not healthy. To be political correct either, for example R rated stuff you don’t speak to children about. Could say “Yes by not taking about R rated stuff “ in appropriate way” to children... THAN... That way ... a child doesn’t know what to do when the issue comes up in front of them when they are alone. RIGHT? We really protected the children, RIGHT. Controversial subjects have to be told children in a appropriate way, or to have left them not knowing what to do, if alone. Not to tell children R rated stuff protects children right? Remember... being positive ...requires dealing with the negative in appropriate way to then be a positive. Negative stuff doesn’t go away because it is ignored; actually to ignore negative makes “negative” A LOT WORSE. Today’s society shows results of ignoring negative, “negative” is worse than prior 1950s.
Told this gal half my age I found her on fb. She said, "ewww, you weirdo. Why would you be looking me up on fb?" I said, "I was curious how you spelled your first name and I just happened to figure it out." She then asked, "how I knew it was her?" I said,"recognized her photo." She walked away.. ...of course that sunk into her brain. ...So she came back and started talking to me a little more, and I shared that I was curious how she presents herself on social media. Then she said that she doesn't even know my name. So I gave her my name and she couldn't find me on fb. Lol so I told her I spell my name incorrectly to keep a lower profile. So I helped her find my profile, and I asked her to scan my public profile and let me know if I have anything inappropriate showing on my public profile (hinting that I didn't expect her to want to connect with me on fb) and of course, she sent the friend request.
@@pinnedyfinalstand.4298 not really. This girl I'm referring to has a boyfriend right now. So if I convinced her to leave or cheat on her boyfriend then, she'd just do the same thing to me. And if I showed her that I'm the type of guy who messes with women in relationships, then if she has any morals, then naturally I'll blow any chance I have with her..
Hey Bobby Rio i would like access to bionic verbal game triad program I sat down for onehour and 27 mins and really wanted to buy the program because i do not know the phases of conversation like u were saying..social comfort, attraction, etc..andi keep losing out I can relate to U bobby need urgent help, but the link seems to not work can you reply with it for me please to buy the program
Hey, great advice. I recently met a female, although true I found myself being needy and ultimately pushing her away. Is there anyway I could reignite that ‘spark’ or to “win her back”?
NEVER CHASE HER, let her chase u. Do not blow up her phone. Never agree to be friends; that show weakness. Be masculine and give her the feeling you dont need or want her. Show her u are willing to walk away. Be more confident in all ways; better attitude, better dressed, new goals, better future for yourself, etc. U need to prove to her, that she lossed out on you. Show her that she inspired you to be a better person and set your eyes on bigger and better women. Show her u have options. Be mysterious. Ask yourself: how would james bond act? If she is interested again, then game on, but if not, you are 10x better than her, and u deserve 10x better. You set the terms. Write this down: You don't get what u deserve, u only get what u negotiate. Be confident and masculine. ALL GIRLS WANT A MAN, not a boy
Reality flirting with a woman doesn't exist in my language or brain. I just have no clue, compliment is easy, call the woman, beautiful, gorgeous, etc, but apparently they don't like it. I hate feeling like my dating days are over. There seems no point any more. Just to fail, be rejected or me make every mistake possible.
Compliments should be limited....Don't call her beautiful more than a few times when getting to know her....Slow down, let her initiate messaging more, end messaging conversations after 15 minutes with an excuse.
When I was younger one day I was playing computer and the lady we lived with came in to fix it after I told her it was messing up and I didn't know why. So I moved out of my seat onto the bed away from the computer to wait for her to fix it. She was wearing a dress so when she bent down to mess with something I literally showed everything. I had no idea what to say and I felt to awquard to say anything so she ended up doing it again like five times lol.
LMAO! You should take a hint from the fact that it's only dudes pretending that what Bobby is saying is revolutionary. Why do you think that is? Bobby doesn't know women. He just tells insecure dudes that he does to take their money.
No, he really isn't. He's the Reddit douchebag, who cares more about what he wants out of women than what they actually want out of him. He doesn't know women. He just pretends to for insecure manlet views.
If she even suggest anything about sex or not going home with you...like hey we aint doin it...you shut up and be good because your going to doing it...
With a woman it works like this; talk as if she arrives into you world. Not you go into her world. So this way you don’t fail by talking to a girl that has no attraction. Secondly you are the one that filters by social and personal cues, actions, behaviour or even circumstances. Key point is to assess the parameters, her response & what’s happening. If she is the type to say “Hello” and keep walking, that’s a clue either she is either testing you to see if you’ll chase. How, because she gave you some attention and you as the man reacts oh how about I strike a conversation. Well that’s where he failed. She was happy to say Hello so you respond like wise until she wants to finally have a proper conversation. Secondly look at how she behaves with other men, that means if she dose the same things. Just keep it friendship material. Don’t try and flirt because she just wants attention and fun. Occasionally throw a joke. The ball is always in her court. Thirdly always shadow her never get clingy, talk about personal things but keep it superficial and non judgemental. Don’t make it clingy or deep and eventually it feels creepy. Then allow circumstances to push you both together, like your at an amusement park and your both on a ride. She feels scared, tell her sit next to me and hold my hands. I’ll make you feel good. She will then gravitate and hold onto your arm and then when the ride is over, look over into her eyes “Baby it wasn’t that bad, let’s go for ice cream”. She will either do two things if she says yes than the next phase kicks into gear. If she got slightly worked up and a little uncomfortable and she says No “That’s ok, have a nice day” move on with what your doing. If she says yes. Then have ice cream talk about what makes her scared and how you made her feel slightly confident to handle it” Then walk away and say you want to try another ride. A woman is all about the moment & a set of domino’s. If they begin to fall in the right direction, pretty much you got it good.
I don't get why the heck it is needed to learn all this procedures because they way you are is defective... I seen people having girlfriends and relationships since high school and they didn't learn any of these rules and things they just had them... I just can't fake all the time. I don't even know why am have so many nice guy traits.
It's programmed in to you from your personal observations/experiences, advice/influence from parents and family, and all the media you absorb every day.
All the mistakes are just the videos like that, that can make her feel like she is soo much different thing in universe 🤣🤣🤣 if it's not there then there is nothing very much complicated ever in this world 🤭🤭🤭
... 😷 ... The world of Man shall fall: Darkness rises and Light to meet it... ...and the Light shines in Darkness; and the Darkness overcomes it not... -- John 1: 5. If women are angels, there is no need for Laws... Virtue cannot so inoculate thine old stock but ye shall relish of it in this wicked generation... Get thee to a nunnery, go. Farewell. Why woulds't thou be a breeder of sinners? Or, if thou wilt needs marry, marry a fool, for wise men know well enough what monsters you make of them. To a nunnery, go, and quickly too. LEAVE…!!! 🥺 For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places... -- EMPHESIANS: 6: 12 Knight Templar ... 😔 ...
A bunch a bullshit. Just focus on your own live and goals and fun. If a women likes you she will let you know, of you like her too thatn it should work. Anything other than being yourself is trying to hars.
@@humbertobaez2104 I guarantee you he's trash with women. Bobby is an insecure manlet, who masks his insecurities by treating women like inferior beings.
Women are like a shadow; if you follow them, they flee. If you flee, they follow you." Women are cool, but they shouldn't be the gears that make your world revolve. You make your own life revolve. Focus on yourself, respect yourself, build yourself - this positive energy creates a natural attraction.
Awesome...exactly
Finally, some proper advice!
Well said....
I agreed 😊
Love it brotha!
1. Having no intention
2. Qualifying yourself
3. Making the conversation too PG or not taking risks
4. Failing in her qualifying tests
5. Not breaking the rapport: always seeking rapport not teasing her or nagging her
6. Confusing compliments with flirting
7. not having 'Bits' or stories to tell when transitioning.
Have lovely day
@ e m - Sounds like a WHOLE lot of fun . . . .
A woman's attraction for a man grows when she feels that the man is better than her. She has to work for your attention and approval then her attraction will grow
well said. This is especially true for attractive high quality women who are always getting attention from the guys. They get sick of beta males always wanting them, but when a guy they find attractive is not always blowing up their phones it really turns them on.
Absolutely correct!
That isn't actually true.
@@FrizzKid05 Are you gonna back up your position or just disagree with the obvious arbitrarily!
@@sammaloney1746 What's obvious is that none of you actually know anything about how attraction works, hence why you sit here sucking up to this clown when no women are supporting him.
Huge amount of value from Bobby in this video . Only thing I would add to that list is that nice guy's will tend to over-talk on a date if the lady isn't saying much. They can't tolerate any silence... .she can though!
agreed. That's a good one to add. Feeling the need to fill every silence by blabbering on. Def a nice guy mistake.
Thanks. Shit, this is a mistake I don't ever wanna make. I haven't gone out with anyone yet because I was too focused on my hobbies and job. Now I'm about to get close to my 30s and I really gotta take this seriously or I'll die alone. Since it's gonna be my first time, hope I get to make the best quality time when I get on a date with someone, I can already imagine running out of things to say though, not to mention I never flirted before. I wish I could find some conversation examples about flirting somewhere leading to how the guy gets her number, gives her the kiss on the first date and maybe even take her home to escalate things and seal the deal.
@@sayareyes3387 my advice would be to play 'I speak, you speak' with her. It's a kind of game where you initiate conversation then wait for her to initiate the rule is you STAY SILENT until she does.!. I play this with travel partners on long journeys and its really liberating.
I do what Craig Ferguson does, “ok, you’re ready for the awkward silence pause?”
@@BobbyRio Conversation has to have a nice flow and on occasion it can go through rabbit holes. Once the communication is hitting that tipping point, end it “I got things to do or an appointment to catch up with. I’ll see you here again tomorrow to continue it” If she likes too “let me get your number” if she doesn’t come back to that spot to continue don’t send a text or a call. Leave it up to her to come back to that spot to talk and when she dose you know she wants you or likes you”
seriously hoping your stuff sinks into my head, guess ive been lucky previous years but this time around i really want that upgrade in girl. 8yrs single and enjoyed the party too much, now that im sobering up, things are working. old formula wasnt working so along with sobering up im hoping your style of formula will work. Thankyou Bobby
Nice guys don't finish last, they finish first... All over their computer screens.
😂😂😂 this hit too close to home
Best words of wisdom ever! 🤣🤣
Dang bro 🤪
😅😄😂
🤣😂
For the nice guys who have made these mistakes and perpetually do so, this is the advice to hear. I used to make these mistakes. Imagine waking up to a women and she asks you” what did you think? Will you see me again?”You respond and say “ it was better than I would have thought. Your the best thing I ever had.” That’s a nice guy thing.
Forget trying to impress them. Focus on improving yourself and let the pick you.
"Qualifying her" Another way to say this that I discovered is interested vs interesting. It is so much easier to be interested than trying to be interesting. Keep her talking about herself. You get info and it's way easier.
And as far as I am concerned, the only thing that a "nice guy" gets wrong is to not let the woman take the initiatives. I, personally prefer having the woman initiate. And most good and wise men (regardless of whether they are "nice" or not) prefer the same. And I don't just mean initiating sex,; but initiating the first greeting, the first date, and the first kiss as well. When a woman takes the initiatives, the communication is clear; there are no games; women get to be in control and have whatever they want; men don't experience performance anxiety, and feel more accepted and relaxed; and both the man and the woman enjoy each other's company more. And it won't matter if the man is good, bad, naughty, or nice because all of that becomes irrelevant when a woman initiatives and takes control. Also, women get to feel empowered, men don't have to worry about coming across as "creepy"; both the man and the woman are happier and more fulfilled; and men don't have to worry about "getting the 7 things wrong". Contrary to what most women think, the majority of men won't feel intimidated if a woman initiates, and even acts aggressively. In fact, when a woman initates and acts aggressively, both she and her man feel confident, and it brings a sense of playfulness to the relationship. And, nowadays, thanks to sexual harassment politics, female initiating is practically considered MANDATORY. Therefore, gone are the days when men took all the initiatives! Now it's your turn, ladies!
And, Bobby, you could save a lot of time on all of this dating advice that you give to men, if you will strongly exhort women to take the initiatives and take control. If you really do care about improving male-female relationships overall, you will heed what I say!
So it is time for all you women to unleash your inner tigress; take the initiative and take control. You will find romantic relationships so much more fulfilling.
..... Phenomenal video. Very thorough, and comprehensive. Bravo!
Man! I can't get enough of what you have to offer! Every video has its own insight and you are such a brilliant one along with the sincere intention to help that I get from you.
Although I personally don't go with ladies who need an entertainer which there is not much of it out there!! but it is a good chance to understand the order of things.
I'll do my best to spread these videos to handful of people. Thank you for the knowledge.
Nice advice for sure. I like your channel as you often talk about important topics often missed by young men.
There’s one thing though that I am not totally sure if I got right.
There are two different things here. One is the guy who meets a girl in a bar and wants to find a way to take her to bed as soon as possible. That’s the goal.
The other is the guy who meets a girl, likes her and wants to develop a friendship, understand and know who she is, how she is , etc because he sees her as a potential long term partner.
I personally never went to bed with a woman on a first date.
Her: I'm not going home with you
Me: my bottle of chloroform says different.
Why can’t a woman just directly say, “there’s no chemistry between us, I don’t want to waste yours or mines time so I think it’s best to move on”? Seems immature that they can’t directly speak their mind
As a guy you have to create the chemistry through flirting and teasing and then she will be attracted to you.
Dan bacon is another dating coach to listen to.
"Your such a nice guy " kiss of death!
Guys don't listen to this. Find yourself and your confidence first. Find out what your passions are. Love the man that you've become and continue to learn and grow. If you haven't done this then you aren't ready to find a partner. Once you have found yourself, you'll see how silly these videos are. Just be yourself and you will see that some women will want you and some won't and that's okay. Don't try so hard or be manipulative to get into someone's pants.
Exactly. He acts like being nice is a hindrance. If it's who a guy is, then they should be that, instead of changing who they are because Bobby told them to.
@ F K 05 - Does it seem like men need to "manipulate " more ?
@@FrizzKid05 If you're good looking enough to pull off being a nice guy (or the total asshole), you're one of the lucky ones 👍🏼
Very good bobby..thanks for these inputs
I'm both an intro and the nice guy type.... Im going through it right now... It sucks!
Patience! It’ll take time. Read the book “the way of the superior man”
Read "the alpha male"
Hey same here. I’d like to join “club intro & nice”.
Bobby, loving all the material which is helping me with women and helping me in my job search as well. Wanted to know if the videos for the "verbal stack" teaching are available somewhere? (from Feb 2024)
hey, right now they are not. however, I believe next month we'll be doing an encore of the training. If you're on my email list, you'll get notified when it happens. Glad you're enjoying the material!
I think I just fail everything. I never bring anything sexual into a conversation on a date. I wouldn't know what is too little or too much. Im exhausted trying to know how to get out of the friend zone garbage.
I have no wine collection nor a dog.... However, I do have a handcuff and bed.
There was a nice First Dates date on the TV, about a year ago. The couple had no real connection during the dinner. So, still eating, they know it would lead to nothing. They both thought so. Then, because the man knew everything is lost, said: i do kinky sex. And then she said: me too. So, at the end of the tv program you see them both on pictures and they were still together. It was here on the Dutch 🇳🇱 tv.
Very good videos. They are very informative. And yeah it’s sad a lot of guys in our generation can’t get a girl. Especially guys that have disabilities.
Always spitting facts
4 Steps to Verbal Game: Basically, 4 steps of conversation to move the focus to any objective. The message could be a man getting a woman's phone number. Could be a man closing a sale on a product. Is that about right?
Really could use your help Bobby
All good accept #5 if I understood right “Break Rapport” I believe it VERY necessary to keep RAPPORT, I think meant to “change the subject”
I believe it necessary to not leave her off balance, you don’t wish to be off balance; that not healthy. To be political correct either, for example R rated stuff you don’t speak to children about. Could say “Yes by not taking about R rated stuff “ in appropriate way” to children... THAN... That way ... a child doesn’t know what to do when the issue comes up in front of them when they are alone. RIGHT?
We really protected the children, RIGHT.
Controversial subjects have to be told children in a appropriate way, or to have left them not knowing what to do, if alone. Not to tell children R rated stuff protects children right?
Remember... being positive ...requires dealing with the negative in appropriate way to then be a positive. Negative stuff doesn’t go away because it is ignored; actually to ignore negative makes “negative” A LOT WORSE.
Today’s society shows results of ignoring negative, “negative” is worse than prior 1950s.
Told this gal half my age I found her on fb. She said, "ewww, you weirdo. Why would you be looking me up on fb?" I said, "I was curious how you spelled your first name and I just happened to figure it out." She then asked, "how I knew it was her?" I said,"recognized her photo." She walked away.. ...of course that sunk into her brain. ...So she came back and started talking to me a little more, and I shared that I was curious how she presents herself on social media. Then she said that she doesn't even know my name. So I gave her my name and she couldn't find me on fb. Lol so I told her I spell my name incorrectly to keep a lower profile. So I helped her find my profile, and I asked her to scan my public profile and let me know if I have anything inappropriate showing on my public profile (hinting that I didn't expect her to want to connect with me on fb) and of course, she sent the friend request.
@@pinnedyfinalstand.4298 not really. This girl I'm referring to has a boyfriend right now. So if I convinced her to leave or cheat on her boyfriend then, she'd just do the same thing to me. And if I showed her that I'm the type of guy who messes with women in relationships, then if she has any morals, then naturally I'll blow any chance I have with her..
@@pinnedyfinalstand.4298...and I don't go back to exes.
@@pinnedyfinalstand.4298 huh ? I don't love anyone who doesn't love me
writing notes down like im in 4th period
Take notes on how NOT to act. Listening to Bobby is a great way to get rejected by women.
10:14 whoa Johnny Sins is that you? 😂😂
Hey Bobby Rio i would like access to bionic verbal game triad program I sat down for onehour and 27 mins and really wanted to buy the program because i do not know the phases of conversation like u were saying..social comfort, attraction, etc..andi keep losing out I can relate to U bobby need urgent help, but the link seems to not work can you reply with it for me please to buy the program
So basically be a dog! But be cool an nice at the same time Lmaoooo
Hey, great advice. I recently met a female, although true I found myself being needy and ultimately pushing her away. Is there anyway I could reignite that ‘spark’ or to “win her back”?
yes, if you still have contact with her for sure... i plenty of videos on my channel that cover some ways to do it.
Evaluate what you did wrong.
NEVER CHASE HER, let her chase u. Do not blow up her phone. Never agree to be friends; that show weakness. Be masculine and give her the feeling you dont need or want her. Show her u are willing to walk away. Be more confident in all ways; better attitude, better dressed, new goals, better future for yourself, etc. U need to prove to her, that she lossed out on you. Show her that she inspired you to be a better person and set your eyes on bigger and better women. Show her u have options. Be mysterious. Ask yourself: how would james bond act? If she is interested again, then game on, but if not, you are 10x better than her, and u deserve 10x better. You set the terms. Write this down: You don't get what u deserve, u only get what u negotiate. Be confident and masculine. ALL GIRLS WANT A MAN, not a boy
I’m a nice guy and an introvert Bobby I admit it.
Reality flirting with a woman doesn't exist in my language or brain. I just have no clue, compliment is easy, call the woman, beautiful, gorgeous, etc, but apparently they don't like it. I hate feeling like my dating days are over. There seems no point any more. Just to fail, be rejected or me make every mistake possible.
Compliments should be limited....Don't call her beautiful more than a few times when getting to know her....Slow down, let her initiate messaging more, end messaging conversations after 15 minutes with an excuse.
in the end though if a woman aint into you theres no point even attempting to flirt, there has to be sumin...a touch a look
Your videos are amazing
Oh man im a house painter and love it haha
When I was younger one day I was playing computer and the lady we lived with came in to fix it after I told her it was messing up and I didn't know why. So I moved out of my seat onto the bed away from the computer to wait for her to fix it. She was wearing a dress so when she bent down to mess with something I literally showed everything. I had no idea what to say and I felt to awquard to say anything so she ended up doing it again like five times lol.
Felt like he was addressing me directly because I'm guilty of all these things.
LMAO! You should take a hint from the fact that it's only dudes pretending that what Bobby is saying is revolutionary.
Why do you think that is? Bobby doesn't know women. He just tells insecure dudes that he does to take their money.
Nice guys hide their intentions
Yo Barby hows it goin?
Bobby looks like the ultimate nice guy pretending to be edgy
God damn teddy bear lol
He’s a teacher/instructor so he has to come off nice.
As "Italian playboy", I could add some more tips. Anyway he is very very good as teacher. Guys... LISTEN to BOBBY!!!!!
No, he really isn't. He's the Reddit douchebag, who cares more about what he wants out of women than what they actually want out of him.
He doesn't know women. He just pretends to for insecure manlet views.
Hey, italian playboy wanna help me out for sometime to teach me what you want to 😂
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Nice guy finish first and bad guys finish in her face
I want to play this at the Sundance film festival as an offensive art piece
Find a common interest to get her to like you.
Honestly have no idea how I never thought about making everything about her
me realizing that I fall for all of these issues, gonna take a good amount to fix it.....
There’s a big difference in flirting and compliments
“That’s a nice dress” is a compliment
“… I’d love to take it off of you” is flirting.
It's like you've watched 2 and a half men and decided to make a career out of it
Ok Bobby, What about your busy and try to find time for her but she acts like "txt two wards even if you have told her you don't like that"
The way he explains seeding the interaction is really bad. Do not do this, unattached from outcomes is the way. Great advice outside of that
If she even suggest anything about sex or not going home with you...like hey we aint doin it...you shut up and be good because your going to doing it...
Lol test you confidence
Hi does John has TH-cam channel?
no he doesn't.
Still teach verbal game?
Your videos are really great. I can see all the mistakes I made. I can only imagine how much better the scrambler must be
So what do you do after you get her phone number
With a woman it works like this; talk as if she arrives into you world. Not you go into her world. So this way you don’t fail by talking to a girl that has no attraction.
Secondly you are the one that filters by social and personal cues, actions, behaviour or even circumstances. Key point is to assess the parameters, her response & what’s happening. If she is the type to say “Hello” and keep walking, that’s a clue either she is either testing you to see if you’ll chase. How, because she gave you some attention and you as the man reacts oh how about I strike a conversation. Well that’s where he failed. She was happy to say Hello so you respond like wise until she wants to finally have a proper conversation. Secondly look at how she behaves with other men, that means if she dose the same things. Just keep it friendship material. Don’t try and flirt because she just wants attention and fun. Occasionally throw a joke. The ball is always in her court.
Thirdly always shadow her never get clingy, talk about personal things but keep it superficial and non judgemental. Don’t make it clingy or deep and eventually it feels creepy. Then allow circumstances to push you both together, like your at an amusement park and your both on a ride. She feels scared, tell her sit next to me and hold my hands. I’ll make you feel good. She will then gravitate and hold onto your arm and then when the ride is over, look over into her eyes “Baby it wasn’t that bad, let’s go for ice cream”. She will either do two things if she says yes than the next phase kicks into gear. If she got slightly worked up and a little uncomfortable and she says No “That’s ok, have a nice day” move on with what your doing. If she says yes. Then have ice cream talk about what makes her scared and how you made her feel slightly confident to handle it” Then walk away and say you want to try another ride. A woman is all about the moment & a set of domino’s. If they begin to fall in the right direction, pretty much you got it good.
#7 . Think of a band. They play the favorites for the people, not a bunch of "new tunes"...
Practice, practice practice
How many girls have you boinked?
I don't get why the heck it is needed to learn all this procedures because they way you are is defective... I seen people having girlfriends and relationships since high school and they didn't learn any of these rules and things they just had them... I just can't fake all the time.
I don't even know why am have so many nice guy traits.
It's programmed in to you from your personal observations/experiences, advice/influence from parents and family, and all the media you absorb every day.
The bits part is still confusing
You'd think that a women loves a guy who cares and loves someone women's psychology horrible
The Dennis method in real life
Rocket science and Brian surgery seem so simple compared to getting it right with women.
All the mistakes are just the videos like that, that can make her feel like she is soo much different thing in universe 🤣🤣🤣 if it's not there then there is nothing very much complicated ever in this world 🤭🤭🤭
Women only look at personality if you're tall, muscular and hot. For the rest of us, trying is a waste of time.
nice guys are very rarely actually nice guys
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I rather have a Mack or Pimp mindset than this
My mask and knife always win
Why is it that some guys seem bitter and butthurt ?
Isn’t this all a bit … I don’t know … calculated?
How to ask a girl out and to get to konw them
I will prefer to Die single ...thanks
I threw up 3 times in the first 5 minutes
Yeah me too. It’s baffling to me how pathetic his videos and the comments are.
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This man knows nothing about women...
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The world of Man shall fall:
Darkness rises and Light to meet it...
...and the Light shines in Darkness; and the Darkness overcomes it not...
-- John 1: 5.
If women are angels, there is no need for Laws...
Virtue cannot so inoculate thine old stock but ye shall relish of it in this wicked generation...
Get thee to a nunnery, go. Farewell. Why woulds't thou be a breeder of sinners? Or, if thou wilt needs marry, marry a fool, for wise men know well enough what monsters you make of them. To a nunnery, go, and quickly too. LEAVE…!!! 🥺
For we wrestle not against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places...
-- EMPHESIANS: 6: 12
Knight Templar
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Too long just make it short video
A bunch a bullshit. Just focus on your own live and goals and fun. If a women likes you she will let you know, of you like her too thatn it should work.
Anything other than being yourself is trying to hars.
Damm there’s nobody here
Make a lot of money 💰 problem solved
The terminology is wrong. It should be called Self Respecting Man.
Nice guy flirting fails: having this guys accent, that alone is gonna keep this guy celibate for the rest of time
does that make you feel better about yourself? hope so.
@@BobbyRio Sure makes me feel worse for you 😂
@Rass of South Georgia Island Dude he does better with women you probably ever could. You're pathetic hahahahaha!!!!
@@humbertobaez2104 I guarantee you he's trash with women. Bobby is an insecure manlet, who masks his insecurities by treating women like inferior beings.
@@BobbyRio not possible to buy this triad stack course anymore :/