This is possibly my nerdiest video yet. But it also is hopefully among my more helpful videos. Hopefully understanding this material can turn some of your flakes into dates. And for more nerdy theories that REALLY work in a big way, check out systembytodd.com
Todd, amazing and insightful. One thought, I think it's actually a bell curve because in any meeting there is a very slight chance it could either be the worst or best experience of her life. Check out IBM's Watson Projections for ESPN Fantasy Football and look at their graphs. I think they're projecting basically the same thing as you are here... In the same way girls are projecting the potential outcome of meeting up with you, they're projecting the potential outcome of a player's performance. They also orient their curve with %probability on the y-axis. Might be easier to work with that way, idk. Anyway, thanks for breaking down social interactions into an understandable language for all us slightly autistic nerds out there. strong work.
How stoned were you when coming up with this graph? If a girls likes you and is seeing you as a catch she will miss her grandmothers funeral to meet up with you. If she is iffy then she really isn’t that into you and to hell with that, fighting an uphill battle the entire time
Thank you Statistics Professor ! In my case girls and specially White girls simply come to me without making me to make the first move, but I am still lonely.
Our father basically said they are like children who are deciding which is the shiniest toy to play with each day, so be shiny. I'll give you a like because you're on the right track though.
Rahul Nair Actually women don’t need graphs, it’s us guys who are logical that need it to predict probabilities and ratios. 😂 They just go with their emotions. Spike their buying temperatures and close the deal when they’re hot before they get cold.
1.make it man to women(flirting) 2.spend some time(make ur set long) 3. increase ur value(by telling high value stories) 4. Share positive experience (build stories what includes both of u)
the video creator who supposedly knows about the dating scene and should be well read on the subject should have mentioned the book "THE RULES" which teaches women to flake on men to manipulate them.
It never was irrational to me. At the end of the day, she doesn’t know you. Even if you’re amazing to her, it’s no telling what else she has going on - no matter how great you are, you’re still a maybe up against all of her sure things.
I don't get why guys are so hung up on girls flaking. It is inappropriate behavior but I've flaked girls out of laziness or because of other priorities. The more options you have the less you value others' attention or presence.
@@Protestan88 Because it "Appeared" to have been irrational. I could careless. I really like his content so I watched the vid. Yes, many will see it as common sense to some it will be a light bulb. Still great vid no matter how much you already knew.
@@mastaskep Humans can be irrational quite often. The video is hot air. Basic common sense intellectualized. Todd has good content. This is just grasping at straws. Women aren't that complicated. Thinking so much about what matters to them to this extent automatically puts you at a disadvantage. But let PUAs fool you into thinking that there's some magical solution to dating girls. Hell, you can learn more watching dating coaches for women, and reading women's comments that are quite similar as to their frustration from guys flaking.
no this man is doing a great disservice. he mentions the book "THE RULES" exactly zero times. He isn't a good dating coach. This dude would watch you get gamed by a girl and laugh at you for being such a simp.
@@campsitez2355 he'd probably do a video teaching fools not to get gamed by being a simp too so others could learn from it. You're entitled to your opinion, but I really don't care about it and I think you're totally wrong. Yes, he gains from his videos, but he also offers valuable information for "simps" so they might enlighten themselves
You are fucking amazing. Looking at all of my past experiences, this model fits PERFECTLY! At a time when almost all pickup instructors and companies are failing I'm very happy that you're going strong.
The thing is guys are the same: we also see work, friends and other activities as higher positives than meeting a girl, but the difference is that we purposely set all that aside and actually put effort in to meeting the girl. Girls on the other hand do not. Why they do not is what this video should be about.
The best part about this is that by increasing your volume of approaches/dates, mathematically speaking, there will be at least a few girls being willing to take the risk for a net positive outcome. Just by having a sheer greater number of women in your life, your chances of getting laid increase dramatically. Even with shit game. (With premise, of course.)
actually, in some cases women can flake for no reason at all. they may just get the feeling that you aren't right for them or in the moment they may decide they don't want to meet with you and that is that. women are not very logical at all, they act mainly on emotions. your graph does make sense though: a chick will select other things in her life over you if she perceives that you aren't as valuable as those other things. a very concept basic, but true. one thing you should mention is whether spending more time with the girl and texting her more is worth the expected value of the set. in my opinion, in many cases it isn't. to use a poker analogy: if you only have 35% equity in the girl, and you have the option to invest more time and texting into her vs just leaving the set, it may actually be beneficial to just leave the set. the expected value would be better if you leave because in the long run you are saving your time, energy, effort, etc. on the other hand, if the equity of the girl was higher because she was giving off dtf signals, she's much hotter, receptive to escalation etc. then in this case you should invest more time since the pay off is much better and more likely
A graph diagram of why women flake! Absolutely brilliant! I love this level of break down! I love science especially when it comes to finally understanding women!
Todd, it is absolutely incredible how simple you broke it all down. halfway through the video I could recognise myself choosing something more compelling in the past. Amazing!
Back in the day when you were with RSD, you had a video talking about making an ethos, pathos, and logos case for the girl going home with you (through subcommunication) could you revisit that idea potentially? I'm particularly interested in the "it logically makes sense for the girl" part of it
You mentioned that spending more time with her improves the downside, but wouldn't it also limit the upside? Because she's spent all this time with you so she has a pretty good idea of what you'll be like on a date. So yes, she knows that you won't be terrible, but she also knows that you probably won't be amazing either if you had an average set that went on for a long time.
Thank you, Todd! This video really helped me deal with some negative thoughts concerning my results in game. Your video brought more peace into my life. I think we have such a strong, biological drive to spend all our free time thinking about women. But fully committing to that drive can be damaging if you don't have enough self love. You are one of the reasons I decided to become an entrepreneur, so thank you for that! :)
Todd you gotta write a book about all this man... you just have to put it all down on paper in a systematicall way... no one else can do it like you can. I just hope to one day get my hands on a 500 page pickup bible that's gonna change my life.
There is also the factor of emotion. Even though women have rational explanations to flake, there are a lot of scientific evidence that people make choices based on emotion, not logic. Taking in consideration that women's humor tend to be more volatile, due to hormones and the like, her humor can vary randomly making her have different priorities. That would be represented by the X-axis (middle line) shifting upward or downward randomly.
the decision of whether to see you or no by the woman is rationnal but since the man has a very small piece of the information used to take the decision (only how the interaction seemed to go) it can feel super random.
That last date I literally slammed my probability of a negative outcome straight to 1! (Tried kissing her, things went completely wrong!) - Remember guys, without hard times you won't see success!
I have been doing the online dating thing for a bit now, and i noticed some patterns for me. 90% of the time the girl will flake for the meeting. Now out of those times she flakes, its about 50/50 she will offer an alternative day. If she does offer the reschedule, we usually end up meeting up and have a good date / pulling. If she doesn't offer an alternative day then it doesn't really go anywhere.
One thing that helps is giving a girl multiple social media accounts and working on your social media in general... It gives her a higher likely in her mind you will be a bad time when she sees you giving others a good time... Without having to spend all of time with her having shared experiences.. useful when you don't know a girl well
Thats probably the most logical explanation for flaking that anyone can make. He should start his own "Game University". But flaking in general is always a question of necessity. Does the girl feel that she needs you. If not, shes gonna have her other activitys like todd said. Necessities rule the world. If you make yourself mediocre and replaceable, you already lost. Im gonna make more Videos about seduction on my channel in future. Good Video Todd. Love it as always!
Todd, where can I meet women more often besides at work when you dont have friends you can go out to the club with? At work is a decent place, but taking risk in the work place is dangerous now of days because if you are a beginner, you can come off as nervous/awkward and women feel it and they think you are taking advantage of them. Not the case....at all. I have two friends who dont go out often, and when i go out intentionally to shop without a true purpose I can tell women are not attracted to me. When I was applying for jobs, out to get specific items, on the job in stores picking items for customers, I felt the attraction. I cant always get jobs where I have that purpose and Im always around women. I need ideas to put me in positions like that. Most men who are natural dot look around for activities. They just do it with friends they built up growing up. Need also ideas to provide value to men to make friends, but not come off as needy. A friend/guy others look up to. A way of getting high value male friends as well. thanks Todd
How to become an expert at anything: find a complex way of explaining something simple :) in Todd's case what he is saying is: don't do anything thats gonna affect the relationship badly, be a high value man, offer her something that is better than what she currently has...
Excellent breakdown, love it. As someone who studied statistics, it's weird to see a normal distribution curve with probability being on the x axis instead of the y axis.
Todd, I love that you codify this shit for us man. It's funny how once you start thinking like a poker player, you start viewing everything in life as ranges and EV. I do that too lmao
I really like the style of Todd! It's pure game and the theory behind it, logically explained even with graphics like a business school class👍 Not some kind of RSD high vibration, bragging, trauma release, present to the moment, Tony Robbins ripp off bullshit!!
Perspective. 2 events can effect a girl entirely differently based on her individual beliefs. Just like you said there about the breakup of the boyfriend. Understandable. Sharing's caring 🤷🏼♂️
its still oftentimes irrational.....it might make sense using that womans logic...but only to her. Is there a way to get her to explain it like this so you know what youre dealing with? in my experience a lot of women dont necessarily come out and explain it rationally when they do flake.
This shit is great.. I was literally just thinking "God I wish Todd would just use graphs to explain the high dimensional spatial shit he's talking about"
This guy I met 5 weeks ago is texting me often to meet with him again and I can't get myself to reply. He's so sweet, kind of handsome, and trust worthy. He must be so confused right now. But the thing is we met at the Mc donalds while I was waiting for my friend. I ate with his friend and him after they insisted. I like him but he knew everyone there so well that I can tell he goes there everyday. He's kinda chubby too. I'm into healthy living, quiet fit and often in gyms. That time we met was like my first time in 5 years or so and only because nothing else was open. So that was a turn off for me. He's also less advanced in his career despite being 10 years older. But very gentlemanly. I went to my fav restaurant with him 2 weeks ago. he paid for everything. opened doors, ladies first and everything. Sooooo sweet. But other than sweet, he's pretty vanilla. Can tell he doesn't read often and isn't as smart as me as well. So I don't want to meet with him. On the other hand, I don't want to hurt his feelings by being totally honest, so I just ignore his texts.
Listening to Todd you get to understand A VERY BASIC POINT: DATING IS COMPLICATED as there are MANY FACTORS involved, MANY OF WHICH THE GUY DOES NOT CONTROL. In my view, Todd is "THE BEST" PUA.
Todd, I just realized that one of your videos in this channel is no longer available "How I Pull Difficult Sets Infield Pull Breakdown" that had been uploaded on JUL-6-2019. Do you have a website or link where we can go and check any video that might have been deleted from here. Today I found out that you tube is shutting some of the PUA channels and I wonder if that's the reason why this particular video is no longer available. If you tube forced you to take the video down please let us know if there is anything that we can do (us subscribers) to tell you tube this new policy is damn STUPID and we will let you tube now that they cannot suppress freedom of expression and I am more than willing to start supporting any other sharing videos websites (you tube competitors) from now on. I mean it if you know of some kind of petition or movement i can sign up for to force you tube to revert its latest decisions please let us know. And keep rocking with all the great material you upload, literally watching your videos everyday makes my life a bit easier cuz it provides me with hope not only about women but in my self-growth as well. God bless you man.
Todd I love all your videos man, they’ve really helped me change my general mindset on women I’ve had forever. Thank you. My problem is when I’m with a girl I (like/feel comfortable with) I automatically go into the be my genuine self mode. That person is overly caring and more sensitive than he would like to be and very often it backfires on me. The result being I struggle to be able to close effectively like I‘ve practiced for. Do you have any tips on how I can alter this mindset/feeling I tend to fall into?
Me: *just wants to hook up* Todd: SO HERE'S THE EQUATION TO CALCULARE THE CIRCUMFERENCE OF THE SUN JK, great video, really gives perspective on things, as usual
Damn... you have a point. For some reason I just tend to do positive emotions as up and negative emotions as down in a lot of my models, so I think that's why this orientation occurred to me.
Hey Todd, since actually going out is probably the biggest sticking point in most peoples game, my question is how you can attain a mindset, that gets you comfortable with the idea of going out, to talk to women. In my specific case, I live in a suburban town, so I need to pay a ton of money to get to the city, if I'd want to do daygame regularly, even though I'm still a high school student, just to approach women there, which in itself isn't a idea I'm internally actually confortable with, even having done an approach that wasn't even that bad of an interaction, once a few days ago. Going through all that effort in order to talk to girls just doesn't seem plausible and practical to me. Was there a time in your life, when you could relate to that, and what thought pattern did you go through, that got you to go out and talk to stranger women, although you were terrible at it and what should somebody in a situation like me do about that? Thanks a lot! ^^
This is possibly my nerdiest video yet. But it also is hopefully among my more helpful videos. Hopefully understanding this material can turn some of your flakes into dates. And for more nerdy theories that REALLY work in a big way, check out systembytodd.com
Todd, amazing and insightful. One thought, I think it's actually a bell curve because in any meeting there is a very slight chance it could either be the worst or best experience of her life.
Check out IBM's Watson Projections for ESPN Fantasy Football and look at their graphs. I think they're projecting basically the same thing as you are here... In the same way girls are projecting the potential outcome of meeting up with you, they're projecting the potential outcome of a player's performance.
They also orient their curve with %probability on the y-axis. Might be easier to work with that way, idk. Anyway, thanks for breaking down social interactions into an understandable language for all us slightly autistic nerds out there. strong work.
Your mechanical engineerness is showing lol
How stoned were you when coming up with this graph? If a girls likes you and is seeing you as a catch she will miss her grandmothers funeral to meet up with you. If she is iffy then she really isn’t that into you and to hell with that, fighting an uphill battle the entire time
Thank you Statistics Professor ! In my case girls and specially White girls simply come to me without making me to make the first move, but I am still lonely.
This was great stuff
If this were a class in university I’d never skip
Were
hahaз
Valentine university
@@livingsimpleproperties4132 shut up and take my money
Here's a better lesson, yo th-cam.com/video/lRGeaANta84/w-d-xo.html
When women become so complicated that guys have to resort to graphs and probability.
Our father basically said they are like children who are deciding which is the shiniest toy to play with each day, so be shiny. I'll give you a like because you're on the right track though.
Hilarious 😂
Rahul Nair
Actually women don’t need graphs, it’s us guys who are logical that need it to predict probabilities and ratios. 😂
They just go with their emotions. Spike their buying temperatures and close the deal when they’re hot before they get cold.
Amen! A diagram could never accurately explain the random nature of women lol
loool!!!
Bahahaha Todd pulling out the graphs like he's explaining macroeconomics
Thought same shit
As a student of economics, I thought the same thing.
No, he's not explaining macroeconomics.
He's teaching.....game theory. Heehee!
It might as well be macroeconomics given the complexity of women and game.
Gorilla Team Tutors dating is economics
No one.
Literally no one:
Todd: I'm gonna give you a mathematical model for why Women Flake
Not no one. I asked him.
Jim James lol c:
this whole "no one:" shit HAS GOT to stop, please.
there's a book called "THE RULES" and this random youtuber mentions it exactly zero times. he is of no help to you guys.
@@jimjames1079 Thank God
1.make it man to women(flirting)
2.spend some time(make ur set long)
3. increase ur value(by telling high value stories)
4. Share positive experience (build stories what includes both of u)
It is crazy how much breaking it down logically, mathematically or scientifically really helps.
the video creator who supposedly knows about the dating scene and should be well read on the subject should have mentioned the book "THE RULES" which teaches women to flake on men to manipulate them.
Damn bro. I never thought someone would be able to crack, what appeared to look like, irrational behavior lol
It never was irrational to me. At the end of the day, she doesn’t know you. Even if you’re amazing to her, it’s no telling what else she has going on - no matter how great you are, you’re still a maybe up against all of her sure things.
@@chrisjfox8715 Yea that's why I said "appeared"
I don't get why guys are so hung up on girls flaking. It is inappropriate behavior but I've flaked girls out of laziness or because of other priorities. The more options you have the less you value others' attention or presence.
@@Protestan88 Because it "Appeared" to have been irrational. I could careless. I really like his content so I watched the vid. Yes, many will see it as common sense to some it will be a light bulb. Still great vid no matter how much you already knew.
@@mastaskep Humans can be irrational quite often. The video is hot air. Basic common sense intellectualized. Todd has good content. This is just grasping at straws. Women aren't that complicated. Thinking so much about what matters to them to this extent automatically puts you at a disadvantage. But let PUAs fool you into thinking that there's some magical solution to dating girls. Hell, you can learn more watching dating coaches for women, and reading women's comments that are quite similar as to their frustration from guys flaking.
You are actually turning into a uni professor :P
Would attend.
You're a dumb fuck
he is already
@@MB-oc1nw no u
is he was actually educated he would mention the book "THE RULES" which teaches women how to manipulate men.
I'd like to date, but I want an engineer to explain women to me using graphs and charts.
Todd: _"Say no more, say no more..."_
This man is a national treasure. God bless the USA, and God bless Todd!
in Todd we trust
Tyler man 🙁
ha
no this man is doing a great disservice. he mentions the book "THE RULES" exactly zero times. He isn't a good dating coach. This dude would watch you get gamed by a girl and laugh at you for being such a simp.
@@campsitez2355 he'd probably do a video teaching fools not to get gamed by being a simp too so others could learn from it. You're entitled to your opinion, but I really don't care about it and I think you're totally wrong. Yes, he gains from his videos, but he also offers valuable information for "simps" so they might enlighten themselves
Girls Lockeroom: Sports class is boring!
Guys Lockeroom:
who else feels like they didnt just learn game but also statistics
Redfolgers22 lmaoooooo
You are fucking amazing. Looking at all of my past experiences, this model fits PERFECTLY! At a time when almost all pickup instructors and companies are failing I'm very happy that you're going strong.
The thing is guys are the same: we also see work, friends and other activities as higher positives than meeting a girl, but the difference is that we purposely set all that aside and actually put effort in to meeting the girl. Girls on the other hand do not. Why they do not is what this video should be about.
Michael Rauwerdink good point 👍
the way girls think about time allocation and valuation of how they spend their time needs careful study......haha
They don't because we do
The best part about this is that by increasing your volume of approaches/dates, mathematically speaking, there will be at least a few girls being willing to take the risk for a net positive outcome. Just by having a sheer greater number of women in your life, your chances of getting laid increase dramatically. Even with shit game. (With premise, of course.)
PUA Calculus 069; I'm glad universities are considering this class now. ;)
The fact i understood this that well is incredible, Todd never leave youtube please.
Get a girl out : this 👆
Get a guy out : no need graph
actually, in some cases women can flake for no reason at all. they may just get the feeling that you aren't right for them or in the moment they may decide they don't want to meet with you and that is that. women are not very logical at all, they act mainly on emotions. your graph does make sense though: a chick will select other things in her life over you if she perceives that you aren't as valuable as those other things. a very concept basic, but true.
one thing you should mention is whether spending more time with the girl and texting her more is worth the expected value of the set. in my opinion, in many cases it isn't. to use a poker analogy: if you only have 35% equity in the girl, and you have the option to invest more time and texting into her vs just leaving the set, it may actually be beneficial to just leave the set. the expected value would be better if you leave because in the long run you are saving your time, energy, effort, etc. on the other hand, if the equity of the girl was higher because she was giving off dtf signals, she's much hotter, receptive to escalation etc. then in this case you should invest more time since the pay off is much better and more likely
No they flake because they're often cock teasers.
A graph diagram of why women flake! Absolutely brilliant! I love this level of break down! I love science especially when it comes to finally understanding women!
Thumbnail looks like atleanx videos lol.
Why flaky girls are KILLING your gains
@@theamazingempiricist Lolololololol
Lol
@@theamazingempiricist Hahahahaha
Todd, it is absolutely incredible how simple you broke it all down. halfway through the video I could recognise myself choosing something more compelling in the past. Amazing!
Back in the day when you were with RSD, you had a video talking about making an ethos, pathos, and logos case for the girl going home with you (through subcommunication) could you revisit that idea potentially? I'm particularly interested in the "it logically makes sense for the girl" part of it
It's just mind blowing to see how he breaks down how the game works....
You mentioned that spending more time with her improves the downside, but wouldn't it also limit the upside? Because she's spent all this time with you so she has a pretty good idea of what you'll be like on a date. So yes, she knows that you won't be terrible, but she also knows that you probably won't be amazing either if you had an average set that went on for a long time.
That’s why the trend flattens out over time
You're assuming your max upside is lower than what's possible. Selling yourself short budd
Damn whipping out the square root functions
This is GREAT content Todd. There is nothing like this out anywhere else that explains this effectively. Thanks for being nerdy
Thank you, Todd! This video really helped me deal with some negative thoughts concerning my results in game. Your video brought more peace into my life. I think we have such a strong, biological drive to spend all our free time thinking about women. But fully committing to that drive can be damaging if you don't have enough self love. You are one of the reasons I decided to become an entrepreneur, so thank you for that! :)
Todd you’re a genius man
I cant believe this dude even has a formula! I fucking love this guy! lol
Todd: “I am going to prove mathematically why you get no bitches.”
so i just have to be her boyfriend before meeting her so im all set in ,
Lol
Todd you gotta write a book about all this man... you just have to put it all down on paper in a systematicall way... no one else can do it like you can. I just hope to one day get my hands on a 500 page pickup bible that's gonna change my life.
"Systematical" He has all of this in his product The System xD
Loved working with you man, living with my gf in mexico now helping people get fit
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There is also the factor of emotion. Even though women have rational explanations to flake, there are a lot of scientific evidence that people make choices based on emotion, not logic. Taking in consideration that women's humor tend to be more volatile, due to hormones and the like, her humor can vary randomly making her have different priorities. That would be represented by the X-axis (middle line) shifting upward or downward randomly.
Wow! Phenomenal that you broke this down with an easily understandable graph. Should go in the books with the crazy chart
It's 100% rational. If she flakes on you, it's cuz there's someone else she's more excited about. But two can play at that game ha.
Yep 🎉
the decision of whether to see you or no by the woman is rationnal but since the man has a very small piece of the information used to take the decision (only how the interaction seemed to go) it can feel super random.
Yup. Nailed it
no one: nothing
Todd: the downside is reduced, because, you know, in the worst case you have value ...
The worst case is definitely my goal lmao
That last date I literally slammed my probability of a negative outcome straight to 1! (Tried kissing her, things went completely wrong!) - Remember guys, without hard times you won't see success!
Thanx Todd! A relevant video drops exactly when needed as usual.
The graph and your explanation makes alot of sense. I appreciate the illustrations as it helps visualize what you're saying much better. 👍🏼👍🏼👍🏼
Because they can get away with it and have plenty of options. There saved you 17 minutes of your time.
13:30 I love the sound effect
This gives me Anxiety ima be having this graph in my head while talking to strangers lol
Every time I watch Todd, I'm like...why didn't I think of that?
Seems easy to think of but it's not. Todd is just on a different level.
ur a god todd! got my first one by internalising your courses(daygame, women), wish you all the success that you very well deserve!!
Keep approaching.
These graphs are well-Rooted. 🤓
*slow clap
I have been doing the online dating thing for a bit now, and i noticed some patterns for me. 90% of the time the girl will flake for the meeting. Now out of those times she flakes, its about 50/50 she will offer an alternative day. If she does offer the reschedule, we usually end up meeting up and have a good date / pulling. If she doesn't offer an alternative day then it doesn't really go anywhere.
Great stuff Todd, I love seeing real-world phenomena explained with graphs.
You are taking it to another level.
The lossless I suffered watching this reminded me why I failed math and English in school.
One thing that helps is giving a girl multiple social media accounts and working on your social media in general... It gives her a higher likely in her mind you will be a bad time when she sees you giving others a good time... Without having to spend all of time with her having shared experiences.. useful when you don't know a girl well
3:38 when a men stands at white board explain women and dating to others men...
the world is just FCKUP.
Wait I think I need my old calculus textbook, hold on a minute...
Thats probably the most logical explanation for flaking that anyone can make. He should start his own "Game University". But flaking in general is always a question of necessity. Does the girl feel that she needs you. If not, shes gonna have her other activitys like todd said.
Necessities rule the world. If you make yourself mediocre and replaceable, you already lost. Im gonna make more Videos about seduction on my channel in future. Good Video Todd. Love it as always!
My man Todd is ON POINT with these last two videos
Absolutely brilliant video Todd! Keep it up mate!
I'm starting to realize that pickup is the hardest way to get girls. There has to be an easier way...
Definately one of your best videos...amazing work
Todd,
where can I meet women more often besides at work when you dont have friends you can go out to the club with?
At work is a decent place, but taking risk in the work place is dangerous now of days because if you are a beginner, you can come off as nervous/awkward and women feel it and they think you are taking advantage of them. Not the case....at all.
I have two friends who dont go out often, and when i go out intentionally to shop without a true purpose I can tell women are not attracted to me. When I was applying for jobs, out to get specific items, on the job in stores picking items for customers, I felt the attraction.
I cant always get jobs where I have that purpose and Im always around women. I need ideas to put me in positions like that. Most men who are natural dot look around for activities. They just do it with friends they built up growing up.
Need also ideas to provide value to men to make friends, but not come off as needy. A friend/guy others look up to. A way of getting high value male friends as well.
thanks Todd
How to become an expert at anything: find a complex way of explaining something simple :) in Todd's case what he is saying is: don't do anything thats gonna affect the relationship badly, be a high value man, offer her something that is better than what she currently has...
Excellent breakdown, love it. As someone who studied statistics, it's weird to see a normal distribution curve with probability being on the x axis instead of the y axis.
This is genius. Clears things up very well. Hats off buddy
Todd, I love that you codify this shit for us man. It's funny how once you start thinking like a poker player, you start viewing everything in life as ranges and EV. I do that too lmao
I really like the style of Todd! It's pure game and the theory behind it, logically explained even with graphics like a business school class👍
Not some kind of RSD high vibration, bragging, trauma release, present to the moment, Tony Robbins ripp off bullshit!!
Perspective. 2 events can effect a girl entirely differently based on her individual beliefs. Just like you said there about the breakup of the boyfriend. Understandable. Sharing's caring 🤷🏼♂️
its still oftentimes irrational.....it might make sense using that womans logic...but only to her. Is there a way to get her to explain it like this so you know what youre dealing with? in my experience a lot of women dont necessarily come out and explain it rationally when they do flake.
I flake out when I feel like I'm doing him a favor by going out. Love the graph. Math speaks truth😀
Haha awesome thanks for your comment!
This shit is great.. I was literally just thinking "God I wish Todd would just use graphs to explain the high dimensional spatial shit he's talking about"
This guy I met 5 weeks ago is texting me often to meet with him again and I can't get myself to reply. He's so sweet, kind of handsome, and trust worthy. He must be so confused right now. But the thing is we met at the Mc donalds while I was waiting for my friend. I ate with his friend and him after they insisted. I like him but he knew everyone there so well that I can tell he goes there everyday. He's kinda chubby too. I'm into healthy living, quiet fit and often in gyms. That time we met was like my first time in 5 years or so and only because nothing else was open. So that was a turn off for me. He's also less advanced in his career despite being 10 years older. But very gentlemanly. I went to my fav restaurant with him 2 weeks ago. he paid for everything. opened doors, ladies first and everything. Sooooo sweet. But other than sweet, he's pretty vanilla. Can tell he doesn't read often and isn't as smart as me as well. So I don't want to meet with him. On the other hand, I don't want to hurt his feelings by being totally honest, so I just ignore his texts.
Thanks for the example
Listening to Todd you get to understand A VERY BASIC POINT: DATING IS COMPLICATED as there are MANY FACTORS involved, MANY OF WHICH THE GUY DOES NOT CONTROL. In my view, Todd is "THE BEST" PUA.
Todd, I just realized that one of your videos in this channel is no longer available "How I Pull Difficult Sets Infield Pull Breakdown" that had been uploaded on JUL-6-2019. Do you have a website or link where we can go and check any video that might have been deleted from here. Today I found out that you tube is shutting some of the PUA channels and I wonder if that's the reason why this particular video is no longer available. If you tube forced you to take the video down please let us know if there is anything that we can do (us subscribers) to tell you tube this new policy is damn STUPID and we will let you tube now that they cannot suppress freedom of expression and I am more than willing to start supporting any other sharing videos websites (you tube competitors) from now on. I mean it if you know of some kind of petition or movement i can sign up for to force you tube to revert its latest decisions please let us know. And keep rocking with all the great material you upload, literally watching your videos everyday makes my life a bit easier cuz it provides me with hope not only about women but in my self-growth as well. God bless you man.
As stated in previous videos...... In Todd we trust.
Awesome video Todd. If you can, I would like to see more logical breakdowns 👌
Flake is so popular in Romania bro haahahaha You should visit.
Superb. I'm a visual guy so this makes absolute sense to me. Great job!
Thank you Todd I wondered whyy this happens to me so often. You really explained the reasons behind such behavior. Cheers,
I love this kind of videos! The graph makes it way easier to understand and to explain (i guess?)! :)
The more I watch these videos the less I actually want to deal with any of this shit
exactly.....like who wants to be a specimen of judgment in a wacked out graph???????
Women having some more accountability would also be good, instead of always pandering to them.
As an engineering student I really appreciate that haha what if you take derivative of the function what would that be?
Figure it out. It would be rate of change in outcome's value with respect to probability
It would like an arrow. As if you took each curve and turned them upside down.
www.wolframalpha.com/input/?i=Derivate+sqr%28x%29
@@marcusryden6732 that takes care of the top portion since sqrt(x) will not give u negative values haha we are so boring
Todd I love all your videos man, they’ve really helped me change my general mindset on women I’ve had forever. Thank you. My problem is when I’m with a girl I (like/feel comfortable with) I automatically go into the be my genuine self mode. That person is overly caring and more sensitive than he would like to be and very often it backfires on me. The result being I struggle to be able to close effectively like I‘ve practiced for. Do you have any tips on how I can alter this mindset/feeling I tend to fall into?
Me: *just wants to hook up*
Todd: SO HERE'S THE EQUATION TO CALCULARE THE CIRCUMFERENCE OF THE SUN
JK, great video, really gives perspective on things, as usual
love the use of graphs! :D
Great stuff man! I would have switched the two axes since the probability is the dependent variable and your behaviors the independent variable.
Damn... you have a point. For some reason I just tend to do positive emotions as up and negative emotions as down in a lot of my models, so I think that's why this orientation occurred to me.
THe graph is incorrect the low probability is to your left and high probability is to the right.. please clarify
Hey Todd, since actually going out is probably the biggest sticking point in most peoples game, my question is how you can attain a mindset, that gets you comfortable with the idea of going out, to talk to women.
In my specific case, I live in a suburban town, so I need to pay a ton of money to get to the city, if I'd want to do daygame regularly, even though I'm still a high school student, just to approach women there, which in itself isn't a idea I'm internally actually confortable with, even having done an approach that wasn't even that bad of an interaction, once a few days ago. Going through all that effort in order to talk to girls just doesn't seem plausible and practical to me. Was there a time in your life, when you could relate to that, and what thought pattern did you go through, that got you to go out and talk to stranger women, although you were terrible at it and what should somebody in a situation like me do about that?
Thanks a lot! ^^
Ahh.. I am not very compelling.
More valuable than most paid program videos
Hi Todd this is just like a Bell Curve. I think its fair to say that you want to be beyond the 1 Standard Deviation to have a chance.
it's like nuclear physics.
Very Good video todd!,real good explanation, could you do one on narrative also very explanatory!
Todd is god of new dating era thooo
What does it mean if she has a boyfriend/fiance yet is still open to coming to see you as "friends"? How does that work into your graph?
You know shit's about to get serious when you see Todd in front of a whiteboard
A mastermind. Complex illogic to simple logic in 7 minutes
High level shit. Todd going deep
i came here for trig graphs.. i got graphs on outcomes and future predictions of female interactions. Thanks, awesome video