People often talk about it like one day you are suicidal and the next day not, which shows a lack of understanding. Most people who commit suicide battle with it and have a hard life for a long time before making that decision.
Exactly right. People who haven’t experienced it think it’s some transient mood that will pass after a few weeks. The reality, however, is that suicidal ideation and depression can wear you down year after year until you just can’t take it anymore. David Foster Wallace uses the analogy of people jumping from burning buildings: they don’t jump because they want to fall to their deaths, they jump because the falling is preferable to the flames.
@@elliotlee9577 I absolutely HATE when people say stuff like this! IT makes NO SENSE to a person suffering. You also didn't say how it's a blessing what do you do with all of this pain????!!
Why don't we have the right? If we didn't create it, then it seems to me that we are forced to live here in existence consciously. Why wouldn't the creator make us perfect from the beginning? Why are there so many tricky processes involved?
We aren't forced here.. We are born out of existence. Who says we didn't exist before this life? Who can say for sure? Perfection is but an idea... If you live with enough involvement, you can see perfection in even the most disturbing or disgusting things out there. An earthquake can be a burp from mother nature. A heap of shit can be the birthplace of new life. It's truly a matter of perspective. You don't have the right because nature doesn't give out rights. She just gives you life and the ability to make choices. There is no need for fear or powerlessness in the face of life. These are, if you look closely, stupid choices made out of unconsciousness..
P Yogananda explains why evil exists in the world. He said something similar to ‘if it was perfect here on Earth, no one would leave on his own accord. So when suffering happens, it gives you the opportunity to seek God, and to take that path.’ He also explains how it was necessary for Judas to betray Christ so the story of how good/love/God overcomes evil. It’s necessary to have both. So that we can seek God and the goodness within us. If we’re struggling to figure that out, that’s ok, but maybe that’s the point. Maybe then we haven’t found the goodness within us or the love within us that is of God 🙏🏽🤍
It is depressing to think you don’t even have the choice to want to live or not no choice eating no choice drinking no choice sleeping no choice breathing and they talk about freedom of choice what a horseshit this existence is
I have existed for 60 years and have never had happiness in my life. I live in constant pain and depression with no will to live another day. Why should I stay?
I DID NOT sign a contract in my mothers womb saying, "Yes I wish to be born and have people f*** me over most of my life." So I SHOULD have the right to die peacefully. There i said it!!! It's my life. Now should I try to change it? Of course! But how many times have i tried to change it? Years...years.....years! And how many people have I helped and assisted over the years? Plenty! How much money i gave to homeless people. Plenty! How many times have I ASKED homeless people to pray for ME?! Not me pray for them but them for me. Plenty! No I want 2 go.
You are free to do or choose whatever it is that you want to do even if that means suicide. You shouldn't do it before you understand and realize the nature of life because it is not the right way of doing so because you will still feel like you should of have done things better than you would have if you ended your life before this realization has happened. There are two ways of quitting a game. The most popular way is to give up, the second one is to beat the game after having played it and feel accomplished enough to no longer require it.
Isn’t it a bit selfish to say that? We didn’t create it so we can’t take it back? Why are we bought into this world and forced to live for someone else’s sake?
I think life has no meaning if u only think for urself think about the people u love and work for them and make them happpy don’t think about ur happiness and eventually u will be happy or satisfied if u can make someone happy
It is my belief that Your body and soul joined together and decided to come to this Earth as YOU. YOUR physical being is your vehicle taking your soul through these many life experiences. You were not FORCED to be here, it was your desire , … decision made prior to your arrival to Earth. In my opinion you are living for YOU, for the sake of your SOUL. My guide has taught me that suicide is not the “ideal “ way to depart the Earth, because there truly is much more to experience, however my guide says you will not be punished or unloved for doing so. ❤
I have a question????? What if you wake up every morning wishing you didn't you see things but you can't say what it is or you get a first class one way trip straight to the nutthouse then is it OK
What when there's a 'bad deal ' with everyone even parents family ? What when you have a bad deal with yourself you hate yourself you repeating mistakes
I’m glad this guy has been able to turn this daily horror that some of us have to gj through in to a fucking comedy session. The only moments of pure peace I get are the few seconds that I go through EVERY FUCKING DAY where I come to the realization that I have the power to end it all.
I have an autoimmune disease that is making my bones deteriorate. And my wife passed away two weeks ago yesterday. The pain is starting to become unbearable. I can have surgery to repair some of the damage. But, it is a progressive disease. It is only going to get worse. I really don't want to be here anymore.
Pla watch Joe dispenza..there are testimonials of people who have healed thir auto immune diseases through specific meditation. Turn around your life and let other people derive motivation from you. You can also listen to Dolores Cannon... You have to help urself..take first few steps until you gain momentum..good luck brother
May some miracle happen and you get to live your life disease free and enjoy some part of it happily even if it is a small amount of time may God free you from pain.
@neeti933 Thank you so much. The doctors put me on a new medication, and it seems to be helping with the inflammation, but I have a new problem. Two weeks ago, I was leaving the chiropractors office, and I tripped and fell on a pipe and fractured my left hip. Now, I am stuck in bed until it heals.
@Anass.s Thank you for your kind words. Both of your comments made me feel just a little bit better this morning. You guys made my day! Keep making a difference it does not go unnoticed.
making fun? really? deep misunderstanding/ignorance. Suicide is never about good or bad deal. It is just a confirmation of a process - that the person already stop living and the restart seems not possible and mere survival is too painful. I'm all in for jokes, but suicide? think twice.
I believe it was our choice to come here to help,only so many will be able to achieve that goal,so people that depart should not be looked at as selfish,they tried as much as they could to survive...love you Stephen always,we WILL see each other again I PROMISE...i miss you so much 🙏🙏💔
I am sorry to intervene but I want to say that there are no promises in life and missing someone is only a memory that will be forgotten as time passess and as one grows older the feeling of missing someone also changes while new things replace the forgotten past. Life can become a sad situation but there´s nothing that can be done, and surelly life is not worth living under certain conditions to which one must act according to one´s intelligence and forget what any goru says.
The older I get the more I believe that there are entities who feed on our negative emotions they created all the religions and made suicide a big sin. So people that want commit suicide are very upset and full of negative emotions it’s all you can eat for them of course they don’t want to lose them
me too, I believe societies that prevent suicide are slave-based structures. Forcing people to live lives where they feel dead , its worse to create living dead then allow what needs to die end
@@harshatearth5158 I'm so sorry, trying to send love over the Internet. Some people sense the world hardship coming in the next decade and don't want to live through it. 3 of my family members died the year before COVID and my mother in law died 2 months before the shutdowns. I'm not saying this is the reason but just throwing it out there. I hope you heal in whatever way possible❤️🩹
Which of this applies to people with mental disorders? There's now way out of personality disorder. There's no way out of depression, if you had it for years and need medication to keep it under control. The mind processes all the information we are exposed to, how it can be my friend in the way to enlightenment when it malfunctions randomly. It is a dimension of hell I dream of getting out of. I got this life, no one asked me, but I also got free will to do what I chose to. The problem are people who tell me "you can't", even though the peoblem is not theirs.
You can get out of depression, spirituality is the only cure. Not medications. People who are depressed their whole life and didn't commit suicide, payed of a lot of karmic debt. People who struggle in life, gain the most knowledge
@@kevinh1792 I don't give a butt about any debt. You just said what Christianity is saying and justified suffering people are subjected to through direct or indirect actions of others.
@@JorgeForge the fact you don't give a butt about it, doesn't change the fact it maybe has to occure, was meant to be. You already agreed upon things for you to happen before you incarnate. It all depends on previous lives you had
@@kevinh1792 and who is checking your fact?. lmao. and even though I am a god believer, I don't stupidly force anyone to believe in spirituality like you. facts 🤡. "spirituality is the only cure. Not medications", dude how do you even know that's the only way. therapy and talk left the chat. yk when you are giving someone a reason you should also take the case that they can be atheist, in that case, all your mythology will leave the chat since they don't believe it. and i'm getting very angry over ur comment so I will stop.
my father was convicted of molesting my litte sister...and i don't know if he did anything to me when i was small because i was too young to remember...my memory of my visits with him are choppy and that makes me feel like i forgot because my memories were painful
@@al.g9534😟95% seem to have a choppy past. That's memory subconsciously stored ..which may later produce ill effects on the body. Ending life means destroying the body . How that is going to help when its your mind which gives the sense of hopelessness You should kill the mind ...not the body. The mind is a conglomerate of thoughts memories and emotions. Now the million dollar question is how to kill the mind and not the body. According to Hindiism and some other cultures the spirit within leaves the body at death and takes any other physical form. . So from one lifetime anguish to another ... which we can never fore read😊
What about tremendous physical pain? You are citing things like family and career problems as reason for suicide and make it seem like people do it for trivial reasons . But there are people who are in real pain where only death offers relief
People look at suffering cancer patients, people on life support and say "enough is enough. Don't let them suffer anymore." But when we can't see the mental suffering, because we don't have the same empathy for mental disorders and how much we suffer. It's bullshit. I literally exist because people make me be here.
"Just sit here. Suddenly it will be worthwhile. I'll make it worthwhile ". I live because of this. If I say it to society. They will laugh at me. But it's okay. I'll still sit and live and strive for what you gonna do.
Guruji I choose a bad career...there is no one guide me the right way...is it my fault????My friend do better than me...I just want to be a civil servant and don't think about backup plan and want to live a simple,peaceful life...then why it happens???I don't want this life...there is nothing in my life...when i see my doctors,Engineer friends i thought i waste my life...what to do now???I can't concentrate in anything...
I'm not suicidal.but I have no option it's either go back on the street or end my suffering ive been on the street and I can't do it again.im not looking for new start I'm asking to end my suffering
Never, are you a burden! There is a reason for your Earth presence…prior to coming to Earth, your soul and body made a contract to come here and this contract is your life plan with Soul plan. If you feel you are a burden, then you have allowed your mind to control you and put you in this situation… YOU HAVE TO LIFT OUT OF IT… everyday little by little find something positive to think about…. Even if it is only for a few minutes… today, a little bird landed on this pole next to me and it began to sing the most beautiful little song and it kept on looking at me… as if to say.. “ do you like my song?” I started talking to it and thanking it because 1.. I am scared of birds, but I did not fear it, and 2) I felt it was singing just for me, it knew I was sad. You see, I didn’t let it scare me or allow my mind to go into the fear and flight mode…I loved it… it became a positive for me. If you suffer from depression get some help, but if it is your past experiences and life choices make you feel,Ike a burden, then…. Time for a readjustment.
What if the life is a constant mishap and there's no purpose,no hope and no meaning to it anymore! Is that a good enough reason? I respect Sadhguru ji! But how lame it is to tell someone that you've not initiated your life to begin with and thus you dont have the right to end it but if you're living terribly then its your respondibility to rectify it. That's also fine as long as there's a possibility. But when everything boils down to nothing and there's no way out, what other option is left! Giving up on anything worthwhile( even life itself ) is not a crime to me anymore, provided you've taken the best step forward to sustain it. That means yes, I don't ALWAYS see suicide as something wrong. We often say, suicide is not a solution. Sometimes you beg to ask, what is! Why dont we say, suffering cant be the mode of sustaince! We all agree to the last statement and yet it seems that sometimes we forget it esp when it comes to others and end up giving more weightage to the preceeding statement!
Feelings of abandonment and nobody to love after having your son murdered is not so easy to overcome. Yet trying to be a decent man and getting walked over time and time again doesn't make it any easier. I'm 45 now. Single, no kids. A history of violent abuse as a child from my own father and yet nobody looks at that side of me. I have always had a sense of "no purpose" in life after all of this. If I do try and speak out people back off real quick and I'm seen as being unreasonable for saying I don't belong in this realm. I really don't. Even trying to justify reasons for my outcome, such as " maybe I'm being punished for a past life's misdemeanor" but this isn't my past life, this is the NOW! and now is when I don't really need to exist anymore.
The question was really smart, but answer was not. Its true that I didn't create my life, but I didn't ask for it as well. What i will do with something wich i never wanted.
I don't feel much, I lost my fiancee bcz of me..I don't want to live this life with all the regrets. If I follow my soul I go out of rules of society..my human self is not satisfied anyhow.
Why should we not have the right to end our lives, just because we did not create it? Let´s be clear, to some life is not a gift but an unbearable burden. Take an individual with a chronic or even terminal illness, why should he see more virtue continuing an unspeakable suffering than bringing up the courage aiming to end it? We have the capability to end our lives, so let us respect those who choose to do so because life has tortured them so much. What hypocritical society are we living in? What a mambo jambo is this talk? And, if a "creator" really existed and was not a made up projection by us humans, he would either be utterly incompetent or simply evil.
Suicide thoughts come when all situations are bitter like cow dung. Like sauce, you need sweet situations in life, though yoga, meditation, taking vacation, beaches, etc .
Please leave a comment if you want more info. I have been studying Sadhgurus teachings for a few years now. It’s very difficult to understand lol!!! 😂😁😄😄
@@Unkonwushsba2115 any reason why you think so?, although even I really did not like this video, but will not really jump to a conclusion that he is a fraud.
My dad was watching this video a few months before he committed suicide. Please if you see this and are considering taking your life, you matter to someone… my dad and I didn’t have a good relationship but I wish he reached out to me before he decided to leave this world. You matter to someone. I have to live the rest of my life at only 21 years old without a father to walk me down the aisle when I get married and only one grandpa for my kids. Please stay, life is worth living. Even if it’s just for you.
I want to commit it ,, because of my dad !! He is very arrogant to me, he taunts me for evrything , he makes me feel like failure, he compares me with all other students , I have my own passion but my parents will never allow me to do it , they only want me to follow their own path 😢 Can u give me any advice?? They are not ready listen to me .., and I don't want to play a game by saying that I would die if u won't agree .. I want it from them with their whole heartedly .. I don't want their support ,, if they won't disturb me it's enough ... I love to make films .. I also made short films with my freinds .. and I'm very good at it ... but my dad he burned my camera and he broke all my system so that I don't do that again
Theosophy and near death experiences show that suicide results in a life within the lower astral plane, so that is hellish but temporary. It is no doubt used to work out karmic debts that people may try to escape. A selfless motive like in the case of Socrates would NOT result in this. Souls are held to the samskara or debt for a lifetime and they would have to bear it in the astral body. This plane is pleasant in the higher subdivisions but suicides are punished by karmic law so souls learn how to cope with karmic debts. Using karmic cleansing methods skillfully and often is key. Also, to live well in the astral world, addiction to earthly pleasures should be avoided since they are unavailable in the astral body.
I see it as an option. Why should anyone be forced to stay alive ? They did not come in the world by their choice. Atleast let them go with their choice.
Buddy buddy you will get out of your health related issue but then the real carrier related issue will come and you will not be able to solve and will eventually......start thinking to take wrong step😢
I find no wisdom in this man . He starts from the perspective that his advise is based on a higher wisdom when all i hear is another opinion on the passing of seasons disguised in an eastern motif and humor . We dont all find pleasure in the " little " things of life . And no simply not thinking about problems or relaxing your mind isnt going to solve anything. You still have the issue . He alwayse ignores that .
Bad deal don't stay permanent, therefore one has to change or bear it through the short period. So it's not justify to end owns life. One has the responsibility for your parents, your spouse family and yourself
Thank you for snapping me out of that mind game I was losing just now. I never look up things like this never looking for answers just more things to fuel the flame. Thank you for this perspective.
Then change who you think you are by working on your pyschology. Its proven to work by millions of people making changes to their thinnking the tools are there .
Very shallow answer. Unnecessary irrelevant joke about the cow dung tomato sauce. Suicidal tendency has many stages. Yes someone might get a situational impulse to do it, but in most of the real suicidal cases, the victim would have thought over things for a very long time.. they are feeling helpless from all sides with no solution in sight. They might sure be wrong but you cannot mock at them.
People who have actually commited suicide and came back hear their testimonies .Suicides dont escape their problems , but have to come right back into embodiment into the same situations . Better to work on your pyschology instead in this life .
Bruh just because he doesnt approve of suicides doesnt mean he is a sad guru infact he is doing a gods work here possibly preventing many potential suicides that could have taken place
Why is preventing suicide good? Suicide is extremely hard and almost always implies a very broken person. This guys is trying to pile on guilt to make people in extreme suffering be torrtured longer for no reason, expcept so people like you and him can do your vitrue signally. People know when it is time to go, they don't need to guilt trip. A realy guru would help them gently cross over. This guy is phony as shit. Like a televangelist. @@berryyy8151
People often talk about it like one day you are suicidal and the next day not, which shows a lack of understanding. Most people who commit suicide battle with it and have a hard life for a long time before making that decision.
The pain and suffering and hurt we go before we take our life
Yes
Same here probably my last day is tomorrow
Please don't do it...seek help@@sudipsimkhada1891
Exactly right. People who haven’t experienced it think it’s some transient mood that will pass after a few weeks.
The reality, however, is that suicidal ideation and depression can wear you down year after year until you just can’t take it anymore. David Foster Wallace uses the analogy of people jumping from burning buildings: they don’t jump because they want to fall to their deaths, they jump because the falling is preferable to the flames.
I feel so much emotional pain I just can’t handle it anymore
Pain can be the biggest blessing if you understand it
Please do inner engineer offered by sadhguru. It helped my friend get rid of suicidal tendencies, and drastically changed my life as well
@@elliotlee9577 I absolutely HATE when people say stuff like this! IT makes NO SENSE to a person suffering. You also didn't say how it's a blessing what do you do with all of this pain????!!
@@tmc1373 pain is a chance to know your limits. Your self. The path to enlightenment
@@elliotlee9577okay. And when you reach your limits?
Why don't we have the right? If we didn't create it, then it seems to me that we are forced to live here in existence consciously. Why wouldn't the creator make us perfect from the beginning? Why are there so many tricky processes involved?
We aren't forced here.. We are born out of existence. Who says we didn't exist before this life? Who can say for sure? Perfection is but an idea... If you live with enough involvement, you can see perfection in even the most disturbing or disgusting things out there. An earthquake can be a burp from mother nature. A heap of shit can be the birthplace of new life. It's truly a matter of perspective.
You don't have the right because nature doesn't give out rights. She just gives you life and the ability to make choices. There is no need for fear or powerlessness in the face of life. These are, if you look closely, stupid choices made out of unconsciousness..
P Yogananda explains why evil exists in the world. He said something similar to ‘if it was perfect here on Earth, no one would leave on his own accord. So when suffering happens, it gives you the opportunity to seek God, and to take that path.’ He also explains how it was necessary for Judas to betray Christ so the story of how good/love/God overcomes evil. It’s necessary to have both. So that we can seek God and the goodness within us. If we’re struggling to figure that out, that’s ok, but maybe that’s the point. Maybe then we haven’t found the goodness within us or the love within us that is of God 🙏🏽🤍
It is depressing to think you don’t even have the choice to want to live or not no choice eating no choice drinking no choice sleeping no choice breathing and they talk about freedom of choice what a horseshit this existence is
Life was never meant to be easy
You are totally right bro, If god will read this comment then he'll be ahamed of himself.
this was weird its easy to go against suicide when your life is perfectly fine
You are absolutely right
Exactly..fucking hypocrites. It’s just like a rich person telling you they don’t care about money. Let’s see how You’d feel if You didn’t have it.
That's true but even with the perfect life when we don't feel like living what should we do ???
@@anitashrestha-ss1yn not the perfect life if you feel like that. Unless you mean perfect on paper..what’s missing?
Correct
I have existed for 60 years and have never had happiness in my life.
I live in constant pain and depression with no will to live another day.
Why should I stay?
U can change ur circumstance
@@gosuhenkenot that easy
@@gosuhenke how u know they haven't tried?!
We just need the balls to do it. If we aren’t strong enough to end it then we done deserve the peace that comes with it.
@@gosuhenkebro he ain't a kid 💀,, he is uncle
What if things have been going bad for 30 years
Not just yesterday and tommorow happy
@@user-pj1wv1ns9x97% percent of attempts are unsuccessful lol, you mean 100%. You can't die if you only "attempt."
Please do inner engineering by sadhguru
Same here
Are you safe.
True what if it has been for decades… I feel there is safety in death… this world and this life have been hopeless throughout
I DID NOT sign a contract in my mothers womb saying, "Yes I wish to be born and have people f*** me over most of my life." So I SHOULD have the right to die peacefully. There i said it!!! It's my life. Now should I try to change it? Of course! But how many times have i tried to change it? Years...years.....years! And how many people have I helped and assisted over the years? Plenty! How much money i gave to homeless people. Plenty! How many times have I ASKED homeless people to pray for ME?! Not me pray for them but them for me. Plenty! No I want 2 go.
I wish I could cheer you up but to say "everything will get better" is so pathetic and a lie
Bro world needs people like you❤❤
1:29 yeah we didn't created it... But we are suffering it. What about that?
Suffering comes from our actions
Suicide is not punished in the afterlife
How do you know?
@@TheBeatSmash how do we not know
@@TheBeatSmash he don't
Then what are you waiting for 😂😂😂
@@praveenm6204 he's not waiting for anything. he's giving his point. stop laughing clown.
But I don't want this life. I want different life. I don't want this life,
Me too
You are free to do or choose whatever it is that you want to do even if that means suicide.
You shouldn't do it before you understand and realize the nature of life because it is not the right way of doing so because you will still feel like you should of have done things better than you would have if you ended your life before this realization has happened.
There are two ways of quitting a game. The most popular way is to give up, the second one is to beat the game after having played it and feel accomplished enough to no longer require it.
I'm also going to die in some days and u won't believe I feel so happy and light ...finally I will free from this hell 😊
You have no way of knowing there's a different life, as far as you're concerned, you only live once
How is beating the game a way of quitting. You are not making sense.@@camtonyray666
Isn’t it a bit selfish to say that? We didn’t create it so we can’t take it back? Why are we bought into this world and forced to live for someone else’s sake?
I think life has no meaning if u only think for urself think about the people u love and work for them and make them happpy don’t think about ur happiness and eventually u will be happy or satisfied if u can make someone happy
It is my belief that Your body and soul joined together and decided to come to this Earth as YOU. YOUR physical being is your vehicle taking your soul through these many life experiences. You were not FORCED to be here, it was your desire , … decision made prior to your arrival to Earth. In my opinion you are living for YOU, for the sake of your SOUL. My guide has taught me that suicide is not the “ideal “ way to depart the Earth, because there truly is much more to experience, however my guide says you will not be punished or unloved for doing so. ❤
Just a day before I stopped believing in god. I suggest u to do the same. It just doesn't make sense.
@@TheClevengersYes its said like that😢
I have a question????? What if you wake up every morning wishing you didn't you see things but you can't say what it is or you get a first class one way trip straight to the nutthouse then is it OK
What when there's a 'bad deal ' with everyone even parents family ? What when you have a bad deal with yourself you hate yourself you repeating mistakes
I’m glad this guy has been able to turn this daily horror that some of us have to gj through in to a fucking comedy session. The only moments of pure peace I get are the few seconds that I go through EVERY FUCKING DAY where I come to the realization that I have the power to end it all.
I have an autoimmune disease that is making my bones deteriorate. And my wife passed away two weeks ago yesterday.
The pain is starting to become unbearable.
I can have surgery to repair some of the damage. But, it is a progressive disease. It is only going to get worse. I really don't want to be here anymore.
May God be with you brother
Pla watch Joe dispenza..there are testimonials of people who have healed thir auto immune diseases through specific meditation. Turn around your life and let other people derive motivation from you.
You can also listen to Dolores Cannon...
You have to help urself..take first few steps until you gain momentum..good luck brother
May some miracle happen and you get to live your life disease free and enjoy some part of it happily even if it is a small amount of time may God free you from pain.
@neeti933 Thank you so much. The doctors put me on a new medication, and it seems to be helping with the inflammation, but I have a new problem.
Two weeks ago, I was leaving the chiropractors office, and I tripped and fell on a pipe and fractured my left hip.
Now, I am stuck in bed until it heals.
@Anass.s Thank you for your kind words. Both of your comments made me feel just a little bit better this morning. You guys made my day! Keep making a difference it does not go unnoticed.
making fun? really? deep misunderstanding/ignorance. Suicide is never about good or bad deal. It is just a confirmation of a process - that the person already stop living and the restart seems not possible and mere survival is too painful. I'm all in for jokes, but suicide? think twice.
Very well said. Suicidal people are walking corpses.
I believe it was our choice to come here to help,only so many will be able to achieve that goal,so people that depart should not be looked at as selfish,they tried as much as they could to survive...love you Stephen always,we WILL see each other again I PROMISE...i miss you so much 🙏🙏💔
I am sorry to intervene but I want to say that there are no promises in life and missing someone is only a memory that will be forgotten as time passess and as one grows older the feeling of missing someone also changes while new things replace the forgotten past.
Life can become a sad situation but there´s nothing that can be done, and surelly life is not worth living under certain conditions to which one must act according to one´s intelligence and forget what any goru says.
I never would have chosen to live in this world. Never.
The older I get the more I believe that there are entities who feed on our negative emotions they created all the religions and made suicide a big sin. So people that want commit suicide are very upset and full of negative emotions it’s all you can eat for them of course they don’t want to lose them
me too, I believe societies that prevent suicide are slave-based structures. Forcing people to live lives where they feel dead , its worse to create living dead then allow what needs to die end
That's an interesting thought!
My wife committed suicide last month.. unable to find the reason
@@harshatearth5158 I'm so sorry, trying to send love over the Internet. Some people sense the world hardship coming in the next decade and don't want to live through it. 3 of my family members died the year before COVID and my mother in law died 2 months before the shutdowns. I'm not saying this is the reason but just throwing it out there. I hope you heal in whatever way possible❤️🩹
@@harshatearth5158 I am so sorry.
Which of this applies to people with mental disorders? There's now way out of personality disorder. There's no way out of depression, if you had it for years and need medication to keep it under control. The mind processes all the information we are exposed to, how it can be my friend in the way to enlightenment when it malfunctions randomly. It is a dimension of hell I dream of getting out of.
I got this life, no one asked me, but I also got free will to do what I chose to. The problem are people who tell me "you can't", even though the peoblem is not theirs.
You can get out of depression, spirituality is the only cure. Not medications. People who are depressed their whole life and didn't commit suicide, payed of a lot of karmic debt. People who struggle in life, gain the most knowledge
@@kevinh1792 I don't give a butt about any debt. You just said what Christianity is saying and justified suffering people are subjected to through direct or indirect actions of others.
@@JorgeForge the fact you don't give a butt about it, doesn't change the fact it maybe has to occure, was meant to be. You already agreed upon things for you to happen before you incarnate. It all depends on previous lives you had
Bullshit @@kevinh1792
@@kevinh1792 and who is checking your fact?. lmao. and even though I am a god believer, I don't stupidly force anyone to believe in spirituality like you. facts 🤡. "spirituality is the only cure. Not medications", dude how do you even know that's the only way. therapy and talk left the chat.
yk when you are giving someone a reason you should also take the case that they can be atheist, in that case, all your mythology will leave the chat since they don't believe it. and i'm getting very angry over ur comment so I will stop.
What about bad deal with own family?
my father was convicted of molesting my litte sister...and i don't know if he did anything to me when i was small because i was too young to remember...my memory of my visits with him are choppy and that makes me feel like i forgot because my memories were painful
@@al.g9534😟95% seem to have a choppy past. That's memory subconsciously stored ..which may later produce ill effects on the body. Ending life means destroying the body . How that is going to help when its your mind which gives the sense of hopelessness
You should kill the mind ...not the body. The mind is a conglomerate of thoughts memories and emotions.
Now the million dollar question is how to kill the mind and not the body.
According to Hindiism and some other cultures the spirit within leaves the body at death and takes any other physical form. .
So from one lifetime anguish to another ... which we can never fore read😊
Life is very unfair. I'll rather prefer to die than living a life of loser. I wish i was never born.
What about tremendous physical pain? You are citing things like family and career problems as reason for suicide and make it seem like people do it for trivial reasons . But there are people who are in real pain where only death offers relief
People look at suffering cancer patients, people on life support and say "enough is enough. Don't let them suffer anymore." But when we can't see the mental suffering, because we don't have the same empathy for mental disorders and how much we suffer. It's bullshit. I literally exist because people make me be here.
Life is like a gift that becomes obsolete.
"Just sit here. Suddenly it will be worthwhile. I'll make it worthwhile ".
I live because of this. If I say it to society. They will laugh at me. But it's okay. I'll still sit and live and strive for what you gonna do.
Guruji I choose a bad career...there is no one guide me the right way...is it my fault????My friend do better than me...I just want to be a civil servant and don't think about backup plan and want to live a simple,peaceful life...then why it happens???I don't want this life...there is nothing in my life...when i see my doctors,Engineer friends i thought i waste my life...what to do now???I can't concentrate in anything...
Do what you love or love what u do
Suicide karlo aise bhi jinese kuchh nahi honga
Do f u king hard work. Ur life is better than me atleast.
Same situation bro
When ever i feel depressed,i will see this vedio and get motivation to live happy..
I'm not suicidal.but I have no option it's either go back on the street or end my suffering ive been on the street and I can't do it again.im not looking for new start I'm asking to end my suffering
Same here I hate this society and existence
Well my life is bleek fo 20yrs so far so now still next to 0 joy what do i do now do i suffer for 20yrs more?
Will some on end me?
What i believe is I'm a burden on everyone
Me too
Likewise, NO ONE Is going to miss me 😢
Nooo bro, the best people always think that, your on a ilusion
@@skttazinrx3395 I just feel that no matter how much try I fail I just keep quiet I don't like sound like always complaining
Me too.
A burden
Never, are you a burden! There is a reason for your Earth presence…prior to coming to Earth, your soul and body made a contract to come here and this contract is your life plan with Soul plan. If you feel you are a burden, then you have allowed your mind to control you and put you in this situation… YOU HAVE TO LIFT OUT OF IT… everyday little by little find something positive to think about…. Even if it is only for a few minutes… today, a little bird landed on this pole next to me and it began to sing the most beautiful little song and it kept on looking at me… as if to say.. “ do you like my song?” I started talking to it and thanking it because 1.. I am scared of birds, but I did not fear it, and 2) I felt it was singing just for me, it knew I was sad. You see, I didn’t let it scare me or allow my mind to go into the fear and flight mode…I loved it… it became a positive for me. If you suffer from depression get some help, but if it is your past experiences and life choices make you feel,Ike a burden, then…. Time for a readjustment.
What if the life is a constant mishap and there's no purpose,no hope and no meaning to it anymore! Is that a good enough reason?
I respect Sadhguru ji! But how lame it is to tell someone that you've not initiated your life to begin with and thus you dont have the right to end it but if you're living terribly then its your respondibility to rectify it. That's also fine as long as there's a possibility. But when everything boils down to nothing and there's no way out, what other option is left!
Giving up on anything worthwhile( even life itself ) is not a crime to me anymore, provided you've taken the best step forward to sustain it. That means yes, I don't ALWAYS see suicide as something wrong.
We often say, suicide is not a solution. Sometimes you beg to ask, what is!
Why dont we say, suffering cant be the mode of sustaince! We all agree to the last statement and yet it seems that sometimes we forget it esp when it comes to others and end up giving more weightage to the preceeding statement!
No career no mrg no peace in family black magic health issue i dont want this life.
What do you do when you run out of tomato sauce and all you have to eat is shit?
Feelings of abandonment and nobody to love after having your son murdered is not so easy to overcome. Yet trying to be a decent man and getting walked over time and time again doesn't make it any easier. I'm 45 now. Single, no kids. A history of violent abuse as a child from my own father and yet nobody looks at that side of me. I have always had a sense of "no purpose" in life after all of this. If I do try and speak out people back off real quick and I'm seen as being unreasonable for saying I don't belong in this realm. I really don't. Even trying to justify reasons for my outcome, such as " maybe I'm being punished for a past life's misdemeanor" but this isn't my past life, this is the NOW! and now is when I don't really need to exist anymore.
so now cant even die peacefully
What I dislike most about life is that either I didn't create it or forgot.
The question was really smart, but answer was not. Its true that I didn't create my life, but I didn't ask for it as well. What i will do with something wich i never wanted.
My younger brother died this way ....can anyone tell me if he ever get shaanti
I don't feel much, I lost my fiancee bcz of me..I don't want to live this life with all the regrets. If I follow my soul I go out of rules of society..my human self is not satisfied anyhow.
Hi are you okay?
Why should we not have the right to end our lives, just because we did not create it? Let´s be clear, to some life is not a gift but an unbearable burden. Take an individual with a chronic or even terminal illness, why should he see more virtue continuing an unspeakable suffering than bringing up the courage aiming to end it? We have the capability to end our lives, so let us respect those who choose to do so because life has tortured them so much. What hypocritical society are we living in? What a mambo jambo is this talk? And, if a "creator" really existed and was not a made up projection by us humans, he would either be utterly incompetent or simply evil.
True
Can someone explain what he said? I couldn’t understand anything
SAME!
Suicide thoughts come when all situations are bitter like cow dung.
Like sauce, you need sweet situations in life, though yoga, meditation, taking vacation, beaches, etc .
aah, silly and cute. he was also like that, I cry when I think about him.
But why come back ? ?
Please leave a comment if you want more info. I have been studying Sadhgurus teachings for a few years now. It’s very difficult to understand lol!!! 😂😁😄😄
lol
He is a fraud
@@Unkonwushsba2115 any reason why you think so?, although even I really did not like this video, but will not really jump to a conclusion that he is a fraud.
he said "we dont have electricity in the house" in case you were wondering.
I know most of the people who is thinking to s***** only came to see this video…😢 sometimes life is very difficult Sadguru 😢
I'm thinking of it right now. Tell me why I shouldnt?
Sadhguru, I have no way out, I have to,
Please forgive me
My dad was watching this video a few months before he committed suicide. Please if you see this and are considering taking your life, you matter to someone… my dad and I didn’t have a good relationship but I wish he reached out to me before he decided to leave this world. You matter to someone. I have to live the rest of my life at only 21 years old without a father to walk me down the aisle when I get married and only one grandpa for my kids. Please stay, life is worth living. Even if it’s just for you.
I want to commit it ,, because of my dad !!
He is very arrogant to me, he taunts me for evrything , he makes me feel like failure, he compares me with all other students , I have my own passion but my parents will never allow me to do it , they only want me to follow their own path 😢
Can u give me any advice?? They are not ready listen to me .., and I don't want to play a game by saying that I would die if u won't agree .. I want it from them with their whole heartedly .. I don't want their support ,, if they won't disturb me it's enough ...
I love to make films .. I also made short films with my freinds .. and I'm very good at it ... but my dad he burned my camera and he broke all my system so that I don't do that again
If health is worse how to overcome?
M also dealing with tht
Me also,both physical and mental with narcissistic parents. Itni pareshaniyo se jiya nahi ja sakta hai 😢
@@aadityasarkar5392Same here. Health Career Finances. Thinking of committing suicide.
Theosophy and near death experiences show that suicide results in a life within the lower astral plane, so that is hellish but temporary. It is no doubt used to work out karmic debts that people may try to escape. A selfless motive like in the case of Socrates would NOT result in this. Souls are held to the samskara or debt for a lifetime and they would have to bear it in the astral body. This plane is pleasant in the higher subdivisions but suicides are punished by karmic law so souls learn how to cope with karmic debts. Using karmic cleansing methods skillfully and often is key. Also, to live well in the astral world, addiction to earthly pleasures should be avoided since they are unavailable in the astral body.
Talk is easy .
I see it as an option. Why should anyone be forced to stay alive ? They did not come in the world by their choice. Atleast let them go with their choice.
What's a better way to say F U back to your creator for the bad deal?
What does "leaving the body" mean? Is it the same as suicide?
What if you have bad deal with health and no matter how much u try you don't get out of it?
Buddy buddy you will get out of your health related issue but then the real carrier related issue will come and you will not be able to solve and will eventually......start thinking to take wrong step😢
Ehez nincs magyar felirat? :(
This video may be a bad deal…
I find no wisdom in this man . He starts from the perspective that his advise is based on a higher wisdom when all i hear is another opinion on the passing of seasons disguised in an eastern motif and humor . We dont all find pleasure in the " little " things of life . And no simply not thinking about problems or relaxing your mind isnt going to solve anything. You still have the issue . He alwayse ignores that .
what did he say atg 1:04
Hi,
He said, "if you have a bad deal, you can come to Isha Yoga Centre".
Thank you.
When you are always unlucky like me
Why no captions? 😑
Who would want to?
Hes so interesting
Wow may be there is something true what this man talks about suicide but it is so much left out that it is a at the nonsense.
Sadhguru, I don't have a larger purpose, I am good for nothing. .......
Just a couch potato
Bad deal don't stay permanent, therefore one has to change or bear it through the short period. So it's not justify to end owns life. One has the responsibility for your parents, your spouse family and yourself
Thank you for snapping me out of that mind game I was losing just now. I never look up things like this never looking for answers just more things to fuel the flame. Thank you for this perspective.
This man is not serious at all !!! Such a stupid one to talk about this complicated theme!
😂😂😂😂😂😂because he doesn't know the concept
yes, it's a very deep and sensitive topic and I don't like many things about him in this one. but ig it still works for some people. you are beautiful
I don't want to live anymore
Then change who you think you are by working on your pyschology. Its proven to work by millions of people making changes to their thinnking the tools are there .
May b you get better in future.may b good things in your life waiting for u.dont ever stop
Maybe horrible things are waiting for you, both are equally possible.
@@TheFracturedfuture So what?
@@Aditya.S1 So stop acting like the future will be all sunshine and rainbows.
🙏🏼
Very good answer
Sadghuru is satanic but some things are wise and funny
😂wtf😂😂😂😂😂
Thank you for this God
Are you also thinking about this nowdays?
@@ajaynagwani..
God is fraud
Very shallow answer. Unnecessary irrelevant joke about the cow dung tomato sauce. Suicidal tendency has many stages. Yes someone might get a situational impulse to do it, but in most of the real suicidal cases, the victim would have thought over things for a very long time.. they are feeling helpless from all sides with no solution in sight. They might sure be wrong but you cannot mock at them.
People who have actually commited suicide and came back hear their testimonies .Suicides dont escape their problems , but have to come right back into embodiment into the same situations . Better to work on your pyschology instead in this life .
Same situations again? 🙂🙂... bhagwan ji aise kaise kr skte hai ...I belive he is loving
Sadhguru mean just to take a damn holiday,😂 Not something else shit.
th-cam.com/video/68OWKq-aEOI/w-d-xo.htmlsi=1IhykI8hicC2WKDi i find this answer of sadhguru more acceptable than this video
Nice thumb nail lol
This is BS
This fake has no idea at all.
again such a non-answer from soothguru
You won’t come back again.
I truly hope so.
This place SUCKS!!! Why would anyone want to come back here!
Unfortunately there's no way to verify it, except dying, but who you're going to tell then?
Yes.
this guy is a sad GURU
this guy has an army of 10 million devotees around the world, Jean
@@mydogsbestfren hitler and Staline too
Bruh just because he doesnt approve of suicides doesnt mean he is a sad guru infact he is doing a gods work here possibly preventing many potential suicides that could have taken place
Why is preventing suicide good? Suicide is extremely hard and almost always implies a very broken person. This guys is trying to pile on guilt to make people in extreme suffering be torrtured longer for no reason, expcept so people like you and him can do your vitrue signally. People know when it is time to go, they don't need to guilt trip. A realy guru would help them gently cross over. This guy is phony as shit. Like a televangelist. @@berryyy8151
Wrong
Whatever happens it’s supposed to happen. So NOTHING is wrong. 🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇬🇾🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇺🇸🇵🇸🇵🇸🇺🇸🇵🇸🇺🇸🇵🇸🇺🇸🇵🇸🇺🇸🇵🇸🇺🇸🇬🇾
He is madhouse 😂😂😂😂
Thank you for this God
Consequences of Suicide: th-cam.com/video/WXEv3vEbIIs/w-d-xo.html
This guy sis not God, he isa scam artist.