Very insightful video, I really like what you said about holding yourself to the same standards as you hold others. “Accomodate growth, not interest” It’s funny if someone I know says this to my face I’d probably get defensive and not be very receptive, but when a stranger on yt says I just go “damn he got me good I do most of these”
Please make a video on Istp & Enfp marriages, me and my husband have been waiting on one for the longest aaaahhh!!! Thank you so much for the great content, really enjoyed seeing this knowledge shared by an ENFP on this channel, keep up the good work🙏🏼
I am constantly focused on building a more masculine character (because i've been treated like a beta Fe inferior anxious shit through my early teenage years) to the point where I ruminate heavily on the smallest incidents of the day, how I should have behaved to fit the description of the figure I want to be, and catalog my attitudes about those incidents as mistakes. My impression I have of my role in the hierarchy diminishes every time I make one of these little mistakes. I consider myself very intelligent but misunderstood, despite the fact that I haven't achieved certain results that many of my peers have achieved, despite not following the path that many around me follow. For this I can be considered stupid and intellectually unreliable by many people, and I keep telling myself that I'm doing well to follow my path, despite the fact that I live my life always close to failure, because really nothing that I let me have better conditions stimulates me, and in a childish way I keep procrastinating on what I should do to improve my situation. Fe inferior has become, for me, a burden and a nail that irritates my brain. Avoid conflict but don't do choices with more pros than cons, it gets on my nerves to the point where I can get really hostile and aloof, sometimes reacting aggressively. I'm only 19, and i was isolated throughout my adolescence. I haven't really increased my extraverted functions, and I still don't feel the urge to do so. I've gotten used to my introverted zone, enduring loneliness to the point where I no longer even feel the sense of loneliness itself. And that's why I don't feel the urge to come out of my shell. I am sure that one day the necessary beating will come.
1.All you have to do is rediscover yourself, all behavior is learnt through repetition, so there was a point in your life when it started.Accept the way you are right now,if you don't like it then take steps to change it, and there's is a universal way of doing it right!! These two youtube channels, "jullianhimself" and " Ed Mylett" helped me more than anything bc they helped me build that foundation first. I used to not love myself and had a negative relationship with myself and it was transparent with every aspect of my life, including my social.Rediscover yourself, and if you only use these two as a guide to finding who you really are and what you really beleive you WILL change the perspective you have of yourself and your life.
There's so much I relate to here. But I'm much older, and when I was your age I was blind to all of this stuff. I'm doing OK now, still struggling with a lot but mellower. I hope typology and introspection leads you to a good life.
This is probably the best video I've seen on the subject as a whole. Exposed my deepest issues within myself. And I see where it plays out & how I'm stifled because of it. Thank you
@9:00, you say ISTP is the third man in a relationship. Chase said the exact same thing about wayfarers in his Gamma quadra lecture. Are you guys recycling your content or something? Lol
"Well, it's sh*t anyway so I'm just gonna put in the work bc if it's gonna be sh*t then I may as well work hard in the sh*t". My Ti can't tolerate this nonsensical statement😑.
I think what he meant was: Life is shit anyway, so working related stress cant make it any worse. So if u work u'll only add benefits of it's fruits to your life.
Im pretty sure im a istp but im lazy im depressed i have big big dreams but i feel not hard working at all i haven't worked that hard in my life but ive been through stuff maybe that could affect my personality? Also im not strong i don't know if im wrong about being a istp or im just a depressed istp.
@@RoseMarieMullins Oh ok gotcha gotcha. Simply put, complain when things aren’t going in a positive way. Never be afraid of expressing your needs, emotions, problems & desires. But do it in a respectful way. Do it respectfully by using your feminine intuition to guide a man’s decision making. Allow him to use your intuition to come up with a plan so that he can execute it (This will make him feel masculine). If you feel as if he’s making dumb decisions, complain and guide his decisions. However, he may reveal his reasoning behind his stupidity that could challenge your own understand of the situation, so you’ll have to have good communication & understanding of your partner. In order to do this in a relationship, #1. You need to make sure you’re in a relationship with a man that loves you enough to share his time, attention, & resources with you. #2. Make sure he gives his devotion to you so that you feel safe. #3. Make sure he isn’t projecting a masculine frame onto you. Because this will set you up for failure by putting unreal expectations on you. He should allow you to be emotionally driven because it’s his job to be decision focused (Cuz women’s estrogen makes them aware of their emotions, while men’s Alexithymia allows them to focus on their decision making. Atleast if they aren’t making expedient decisions). Overall, 1. listen listen listen to your man 2. Carefully consider what he is saying 3. Give feedback on what you just heard him tell you 4. Give graditude, EVEN when you don’t feel like it That’s the simplified playbook. Hopes this helps :)
@@RoseMarieMullins Oh ok gotcha gotcha. Simply put, complain when things aren’t going in a positive way. Never be afraid of expressing your needs, emotions, problems & desires. But do it in a respectful way. Do it respectfully by using your feminine intuition to guide a man’s decision making. Allow him to use your intuition to come up with a plan so that he can execute it (This will make him fell masculine). And make sure you aren’t positively investing in another man etc. In order to do this in a relationship, #1. You need to make sure you’re in a relationship with a man that loves you enough to share his time, attention, & resources with you. #2. Make sure he gives his devotion to you so that you feel safe. #3. Make sure he isn’t projecting a masculine frame onto you. Because this will set you up for failure by putting unreal expectations on you. He should allow you to be emotionally driven because it’s his job to be decision focused (Cuz women’s estrogen makes them aware of their emotions, while men’s Alexithymia allows them to focus on their decision making. Atleast if they aren’t making expedient decisions). Overall: 1. Listen listen listen to your man 2. Carefully consider what he is saying 3. Provide feedback on what you just heard from him 4. Give graditude to him even if you don’t feel like it That’s the simplified playbook. Hopes this helps :)
@@RoseMarieMullins Oh ok gotcha gotcha. Simply put, complain when things aren’t going in a positive way. Never be afraid of expressing your needs, emotions, problems & desires. But do it in a respectful way. Do it respectfully by using your feminine intuition to guide a man’s decision making. Allow him to use your intuition to come up with a plan so that he can execute it (This will make him fell masculine). And make sure you aren’t positively investing in another man etc. In order to do this in a relationship, #1. You need to make sure you’re in a relationship with a man that loves you enough to share his time, attention, & resources with you. #2. Make sure he gives his devotion to you so that you feel safe. #3. Make sure he isn’t projecting a masculine frame onto you. Because this will set you up for failure by putting unreal expectations on you. He should allow you to be emotionally driven because it’s his job to be decision focused (Cuz women’s estrogen makes them aware of their emotions, while men’s Alexithymia allows them to focus on their decision making. Atleast if they aren’t making expedient decisions). Overall: 1. Listen listen listen to your man 2. Carefully consider what he is saying 3. Provide feedback on what you just heard from him 4. Give graditude to him even if you don’t feel like it (Hopefully this sends since google keeps deleting this comment) That’s the simplified playbook. Hopes this helps :)
I wouldn't cheat at all. I'm loyal to the bone. It all depends on what each individual values and their belief system. That said though it would be easy to start multiple flings and play around if it wasn't for my morals -istp
Acolyte membership offers you the opportunity to put in a question that will get answered by chase or myself, other than that season 34 will be getting released soon on octagram which will go over each dyad including the isfp/entj dyad
@@christaylorraka4053 yeah I know but like inflation is hitting hard in Europe and I'm just a student with low income maybe later when I'm more stable financially
Wait ISTP aspires towards humility (being humble/modest) isn't that the virtue of INTJ & ESFP? What's with all these contradictions and overlaps? Lol Humility as defined by Google "the quality of having a modest or low view of one's importance."
@Red Robin not only that, but chase often says that all types need to be more humble. So again thus advice given to ISTPs doesn't really mean anything. Its just a rehash of old content.
" to have people respect you". Wait isn't that what the heart temple seeks? Another contradiction and inconsistencies in thought in this new product you guys are trying to sell.
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I’ve listened to this 5 times already. It’s an excellent video. Thank you. -ISTP
I thought I was NTJ for the longest, but this fits so fckn well I don't know what to think anymore lmao
You stay on point with answering questions, its really great!
Very insightful video, I really like what you said about holding yourself to the same standards as you hold others. “Accomodate growth, not interest”
It’s funny if someone I know says this to my face I’d probably get defensive and not be very receptive, but when a stranger on yt says I just go “damn he got me good I do most of these”
Great job Chris. I’m really proud if you! You’re doing a GREAT JOB!🍃💡🍃
Please make a video on Istp & Enfp marriages, me and my husband have been waiting on one for the longest aaaahhh!!! Thank you so much for the great content, really enjoyed seeing this knowledge shared by an ENFP on this channel, keep up the good work🙏🏼
i want more for esfj and intj marriage too
It’s in the journeyman section
I am constantly focused on building a more masculine character (because i've been treated like a beta Fe inferior anxious shit through my early teenage years) to the point where I ruminate heavily on the smallest incidents of the day, how I should have behaved to fit the description of the figure I want to be, and catalog my attitudes about those incidents as mistakes. My impression I have of my role in the hierarchy diminishes every time I make one of these little mistakes.
I consider myself very intelligent but misunderstood, despite the fact that I haven't achieved certain results that many of my peers have achieved, despite not following the path that many around me follow. For this I can be considered stupid and intellectually unreliable by many people, and I keep telling myself that I'm doing well to follow my path, despite the fact that I live my life always close to failure, because really nothing that I let me have better conditions stimulates me, and in a childish way I keep procrastinating on what I should do to improve my situation.
Fe inferior has become, for me, a burden and a nail that irritates my brain. Avoid conflict but don't do choices with more pros than cons, it gets on my nerves to the point where I can get really hostile and aloof, sometimes reacting aggressively. I'm only 19, and i was isolated throughout my adolescence. I haven't really increased my extraverted functions, and I still don't feel the urge to do so. I've gotten used to my introverted zone, enduring loneliness to the point where I no longer even feel the sense of loneliness itself. And that's why I don't feel the urge to come out of my shell.
I am sure that one day the necessary beating will come.
1.All you have to do is rediscover yourself, all behavior is learnt through repetition, so there was a point in your life when it started.Accept the way you are right now,if you don't like it then take steps to change it, and there's is a universal way of doing it right!!
These two youtube channels, "jullianhimself" and " Ed Mylett" helped me more than anything bc they helped me build that foundation first. I used to not love myself and had a negative relationship with myself and it was transparent with every aspect of my life, including my social.Rediscover yourself, and if you only use these two as a guide to finding who you really are and what you really beleive you WILL change the perspective you have of yourself and your life.
There's so much I relate to here. But I'm much older, and when I was your age I was blind to all of this stuff. I'm doing OK now, still struggling with a lot but mellower. I hope typology and introspection leads you to a good life.
This is probably the best video I've seen on the subject as a whole. Exposed my deepest issues within myself. And I see where it plays out & how I'm stifled because of it. Thank you
Please share it
Respect.
This really hits deep, because this is true. 😢
Amazing content finally answered the UDJA question properly and not just blitzing through them I am ISTP (UDUF) quiet often mistyped myself ESTJ
Yep. Accommodate growth. That’s what business is all about.
one of the best lectures in this channel
What a great video 👌
Thank you for your thoughts
@9:00, you say ISTP is the third man in a relationship.
Chase said the exact same thing about wayfarers in his Gamma quadra lecture. Are you guys recycling your content or something? Lol
"Well, it's sh*t anyway so I'm just gonna put in the work bc if it's gonna be sh*t then I may as well work hard in the sh*t".
My Ti can't tolerate this nonsensical statement😑.
And yet I see istp's do this *constantly*
@@christaylorraka4053 my bad, Chris. I didn't know you were an Enfp. I had a hunch but wasn't sure. Ti trickster; makes sense. Keep doing you!
@@calture5086 lmao idk if that was a compliment or insult
what nonsensical about that statement? it's another way of saying - I'm gonna do what im gonna do no matter what
I think what he meant was: Life is shit anyway, so working related stress cant make it any worse. So if u work u'll only add benefits of it's fruits to your life.
Im pretty sure im a istp but im lazy im depressed i have big big dreams but i feel not hard working at all i haven't worked that hard in my life but ive been through stuff maybe that could affect my personality? Also im not strong i don't know if im wrong about being a istp or im just a depressed istp.
2:31 - fuck the world dude. This infj ain't leading any folks
Wow bravo 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
Lol I needed this
How can women stop enabling bad behavior of a partner if you're trying to stay in a polarized relationship?
@@RoseMarieMullins I’m curious, what do you mean by a “polarized relationship?”
@@HuKayers hm i guess specifically here i meant a relationship where the man leads and the woman follows
@@RoseMarieMullins Oh ok gotcha gotcha. Simply put, complain when things aren’t going in a positive way. Never be afraid of expressing your needs, emotions, problems & desires. But do it in a respectful way. Do it respectfully by using your feminine intuition to guide a man’s decision making. Allow him to use your intuition to come up with a plan so that he can execute it (This will make him feel masculine). If you feel as if he’s making dumb decisions, complain and guide his decisions. However, he may reveal his reasoning behind his stupidity that could challenge your own understand of the situation, so you’ll have to have good communication & understanding of your partner.
In order to do this in a relationship, #1. You need to make sure you’re in a relationship with a man that loves you enough to share his time, attention, & resources with you. #2. Make sure he gives his devotion to you so that you feel safe. #3. Make sure he isn’t projecting a masculine frame onto you. Because this will set you up for failure by putting unreal expectations on you. He should allow you to be emotionally driven because it’s his job to be decision focused (Cuz women’s estrogen makes them aware of their emotions, while men’s Alexithymia allows them to focus on their decision making. Atleast if they aren’t making expedient decisions).
Overall,
1. listen listen listen to your man
2. Carefully consider what he is saying
3. Give feedback on what you just heard him tell you
4. Give graditude, EVEN when you don’t feel like it
That’s the simplified playbook. Hopes this helps :)
@@RoseMarieMullins Oh ok gotcha gotcha. Simply put, complain when things aren’t going in a positive way. Never be afraid of expressing your needs, emotions, problems & desires. But do it in a respectful way. Do it respectfully by using your feminine intuition to guide a man’s decision making. Allow him to use your intuition to come up with a plan so that he can execute it (This will make him fell masculine). And make sure you aren’t positively investing in another man etc.
In order to do this in a relationship, #1. You need to make sure you’re in a relationship with a man that loves you enough to share his time, attention, & resources with you. #2. Make sure he gives his devotion to you so that you feel safe. #3. Make sure he isn’t projecting a masculine frame onto you. Because this will set you up for failure by putting unreal expectations on you. He should allow you to be emotionally driven because it’s his job to be decision focused (Cuz women’s estrogen makes them aware of their emotions, while men’s Alexithymia allows them to focus on their decision making. Atleast if they aren’t making expedient decisions).
Overall:
1. Listen listen listen to your man
2. Carefully consider what he is saying
3. Provide feedback on what you just heard from him
4. Give graditude to him even if you don’t feel like it
That’s the simplified playbook. Hopes this helps :)
@@RoseMarieMullins Oh ok gotcha gotcha. Simply put, complain when things aren’t going in a positive way. Never be afraid of expressing your needs, emotions, problems & desires. But do it in a respectful way. Do it respectfully by using your feminine intuition to guide a man’s decision making. Allow him to use your intuition to come up with a plan so that he can execute it (This will make him fell masculine). And make sure you aren’t positively investing in another man etc.
In order to do this in a relationship, #1. You need to make sure you’re in a relationship with a man that loves you enough to share his time, attention, & resources with you. #2. Make sure he gives his devotion to you so that you feel safe. #3. Make sure he isn’t projecting a masculine frame onto you. Because this will set you up for failure by putting unreal expectations on you. He should allow you to be emotionally driven because it’s his job to be decision focused (Cuz women’s estrogen makes them aware of their emotions, while men’s Alexithymia allows them to focus on their decision making. Atleast if they aren’t making expedient decisions).
Overall:
1. Listen listen listen to your man
2. Carefully consider what he is saying
3. Provide feedback on what you just heard from him
4. Give graditude to him even if you don’t feel like it
(Hopefully this sends since google keeps deleting this comment)
That’s the simplified playbook. Hopes this helps :)
What is it like being in love with an ISTP knowing they are type that has no problem cheating on their partner?
I wouldn't cheat at all. I'm loyal to the bone. It all depends on what each individual values and their belief system. That said though it would be easy to start multiple flings and play around if it wasn't for my morals -istp
I thought the legacy part was for ENTJ/ISFP not ESTJ/INFP
When a mind temple goes into shadow it's influenced by body temple
@@malakashraf2801 what theory is it?
eh, each type has left some legacy behind tho...I wouldn't take those labels too close to heart.
@@hnr9lt-pz7bn the temples, there are articles on it on the website
@@aladdout9454 every type has each of the four temples represented. The question is what side of the mind that's attached to.
An ENTJ VIDEO PLEASE
Acolyte membership offers you the opportunity to put in a question that will get answered by chase or myself, other than that season 34 will be getting released soon on octagram which will go over each dyad including the isfp/entj dyad
@@christaylorraka4053 yeah I know but like inflation is hitting hard in Europe and I'm just a student with low income maybe later when I'm more stable financially
@@christaylorraka4053 btw love your take on acolytes answered questions Chris !
@@christaylorraka4053 on the public channel?
Wait ISTP aspires towards humility (being humble/modest) isn't that the virtue of INTJ & ESFP? What's with all these contradictions and overlaps? Lol
Humility as defined by Google
"the quality of having a modest or low view of one's importance."
no humility is admitting you don't know everything which is not the same thing as modesty
@@redrobin7297 your definition is incorrect
@@SS-Typologywhy? because google said so?
@Red Robin no. Because you are making up a definition to fit your with your idea. An idea that isn't even remotely true nor consistent.
@Red Robin not only that, but chase often says that all types need to be more humble. So again thus advice given to ISTPs doesn't really mean anything.
Its just a rehash of old content.
nice
U know ur much better at this @#$ chewing stuff, chase leaves marks 😂😂
" to have people respect you". Wait isn't that what the heart temple seeks?
Another contradiction and inconsistencies in thought in this new product you guys are trying to sell.
Be obstinate to laziness 💪🏻🤍