As an INTP, I have a word of caution to all Ti heroes, especially younger folks. Don't wait too long to start asking yourself the deeper questions in life on what really matters to you. The earlier you start that journey, the better off you will be if you have children (and the far better off they will be). Don't wait until they start to figure out the world on their own without your guidance because then you will be allowing the world to raise your children, not yourself. Don't wake up some morning regretting putting this off because once you do realize what matters in life, it could be too late to do anything about it. Your children, their future, and all our futures depend on fathers stepping up to that plate.
Damn it, ya did it again with the timing!! I understood how the gateway’s work on paper but always struggled understand how they worked dynamically in my life for some reason. Now I finally see how things work, as well as the error I’ve been making recently. Thanx for saving my ass Raka
Video came out at a great time, i just experienced an istp chaotic transition into a demonic infp today. Fortunately I've learned that I should focus on making them feel that I care about how they feel and what they want and remind them that we both value fairness and can work together towards a common goal. It seems that the transition is often caused by my outcome focus clashing with their ability to progress a situation. For example, today it was that I told them not to buy our flight tickets, they said I'm going to buy them you can't stop me. I convinced them to wait just five minutes and got crucial information that completely changed the date of the tickets that we ended up buying and also saved a lot of money. 😅
From my experience, all I have to do is 1.ask myself two questions: What and why. This stops me from overthinking, helps me see the reality of the situation, and helps me assert myself (assertiveness is just an action, not only words). If I don't, I end up not letting myself be myself, instead I force myself to be something/think in a way that doesn't line up who I am subconsciously, which ends up making my anxiety sky rocket, leads me into a pit and sends me into my feelings. 2. Staying grounded. I just use my senses to see what's around me. You can look up techniques on Google. 3. Bell Robinson 5 second rule 4. Being real with myself and realizing that even the smallest step will end up being a leap over time. 5. Check myself with outside sources and take the time to verify them through my own experience and knowledge. 5. STOP COPPING, JUST BE YOU IN REAL TIME AND IF YOU DONT LIKE SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR LIFE, OR WANT TO BE SOMETHING ELSE THEN TAKE THE NECESSARY STEPS TO BECOME SOMEONE WHO IS AND DOES WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. DO NOT PRETEND LIKE YOU ARE IT, BECAUSE IF YOU ONLY PRETEND AND LIE TO YOURSELF, YOU WILL NEVER GROW. A TH-camr called, Julianhimself, helped me tremendously. That's where I got the 1st rule. He also helped me overcome my trauma with his "letting go" technique. That's literally it. As long as you practice those rules every day, you will be able to be yourself, find yourself, overcome anxiety, and transform yourself to whatever you want to be. Edit: I forgot to mention that you need a solid foundation first, and the way I did that was distancing myself from sources that told me how to think, like red pill and mbti for an example. And focused on emotional maturity. A youtuber called "tykwoandoe" has some pretty good insight and helped me visualize emotional intelligence. He is a dating coach, but I would advise you to focus on emotional maturity instead of the girls. 2nd edit: I just watched this video, and it does line up with what I just said.
What are you even talking about? Have you ever heard of CG Jung? If not, why are you using his typology (or, MBTI typology)? Jung would have turned in his grave if he knew what kind of arbitrary categories you are presenting!
Well, to a certain a point, all scientific labels and nomenclatures are arbitrary. The facts remain facts regardless of however it pleases us to call them. What matters is whether or not the arbitrary categories we're using is useful, and how and when it is useful for us to understand better the said facts. For what I can see, "pessimistic", "guidance" and "gateway" functions is the form these fellows here from this channel chose to apply to the science. Before rejecting and looking down at it, our focus should be figuring out if these categories are useful. If they can help us to understand better the behavior and psyche of each other, I'll be using it, too. From the moment they stop being fit for the task,, I will move to some other point of view, to some other set of "arbitrary categories". It is just inevitable. Now, if the problem is that the kind of content on this TH-cam channel does not look like something CG Jung would say, you are aware that psychology changes over time, aren't you? I mean, Ven if you use his work as a basis for your own knowledge, you still are gonna come up with some original thoughts yourself. (So, then there would be abundance of "Meinungen".
As an INTP, I have a word of caution to all Ti heroes, especially younger folks. Don't wait too long to start asking yourself the deeper questions in life on what really matters to you. The earlier you start that journey, the better off you will be if you have children (and the far better off they will be). Don't wait until they start to figure out the world on their own without your guidance because then you will be allowing the world to raise your children, not yourself. Don't wake up some morning regretting putting this off because once you do realize what matters in life, it could be too late to do anything about it. Your children, their future, and all our futures depend on fathers stepping up to that plate.
This episode is pretty radical. Tubular, some may even say.
What else to expect from a Te user
Damn it, ya did it again with the timing!! I understood how the gateway’s work on paper but always struggled understand how they worked dynamically in my life for some reason. Now I finally see how things work, as well as the error I’ve been making recently. Thanx for saving my ass Raka
I was delving into gateway concepts a few days ago. Great vid, Chris!
Video came out at a great time, i just experienced an istp chaotic transition into a demonic infp today. Fortunately I've learned that I should focus on making them feel that I care about how they feel and what they want and remind them that we both value fairness and can work together towards a common goal. It seems that the transition is often caused by my outcome focus clashing with their ability to progress a situation.
For example, today it was that I told them not to buy our flight tickets, they said I'm going to buy them you can't stop me. I convinced them to wait just five minutes and got crucial information that completely changed the date of the tickets that we ended up buying and also saved a lot of money. 😅
This is an awesome lecture. Thank you!!! Well done!
12:14 Most important part of the video for me.
what are the similarities and differences with the INTP?
I wanna know too
I want to know it
istps get more bitches
intps are more boyfriend/husband material
@@qasimimtiaz9668 totally off topic
So what should ISTPs focus on to deal with their social anxiety ?
From my experience, all I have to do is 1.ask myself two questions: What and why.
This stops me from overthinking, helps me see the reality of the situation, and helps me assert myself (assertiveness is just an action, not only words). If I don't, I end up not letting myself be myself, instead I force myself to be something/think in a way that doesn't line up who I am subconsciously, which ends up making my anxiety sky rocket, leads me into a pit and sends me into my feelings.
2. Staying grounded. I just use my senses to see what's around me. You can look up techniques on Google.
3. Bell Robinson 5 second rule
4. Being real with myself and realizing that even the smallest step will end up being a leap over time.
5. Check myself with outside sources and take the time to verify them through my own experience and knowledge.
5. STOP COPPING, JUST BE YOU IN REAL TIME AND IF YOU DONT LIKE SOMETHING ABOUT YOUR LIFE, OR WANT TO BE SOMETHING ELSE THEN TAKE THE NECESSARY STEPS TO BECOME SOMEONE WHO IS AND DOES WHAT YOU WANT TO DO. DO NOT PRETEND LIKE YOU ARE IT, BECAUSE IF YOU ONLY PRETEND AND LIE TO YOURSELF, YOU WILL NEVER GROW.
A TH-camr called, Julianhimself, helped me tremendously. That's where I got the 1st rule. He also helped me overcome my trauma with his "letting go" technique. That's literally it. As long as you practice those rules every day, you will be able to be yourself, find yourself, overcome anxiety, and transform yourself to whatever you want to be.
Edit: I forgot to mention that you need a solid foundation first, and the way I did that was distancing myself from sources that told me how to think, like red pill and mbti for an example. And focused on emotional maturity. A youtuber called "tykwoandoe" has some pretty good insight and helped me visualize emotional intelligence. He is a dating coach, but I would advise you to focus on emotional maturity instead of the girls.
2nd edit: I just watched this video, and it does line up with what I just said.
Grow Fe into an aspirational function.. gateway to the ENFJ subconscious
Listen to others. And practice.
"pessimistic" function????
for istp, it is se and fe
nice
What are you even talking about? Have you ever heard of CG Jung? If not, why are you using his typology (or, MBTI typology)? Jung would have turned in his grave if he knew what kind of arbitrary categories you are presenting!
Well, to a certain a point, all scientific labels and nomenclatures are arbitrary. The facts remain facts regardless of however it pleases us to call them. What matters is whether or not the arbitrary categories we're using is useful, and how and when it is useful for us to understand better the said facts.
For what I can see, "pessimistic", "guidance" and "gateway" functions is the form these fellows here from this channel chose to apply to the science.
Before rejecting and looking down at it, our focus should be figuring out if these categories are useful. If they can help us to understand better the behavior and psyche of each other, I'll be using it, too. From the moment they stop being fit for the task,, I will move to some other point of view, to some other set of "arbitrary categories".
It is just inevitable.
Now, if the problem is that the kind of content on this TH-cam channel does not look like something CG Jung would say, you are aware that psychology changes over time, aren't you? I mean, Ven if you use his work as a basis for your own knowledge, you still are gonna come up with some original thoughts yourself. (So, then there would be abundance of "Meinungen".
@@soumavoz8949 Very well said. 👍