Instead of Saying You Can't Do It, Say This Instead | Lilian Garcia on Women of Impact
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 มิ.ย. 2024
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Best known as the first female announcer in the history of WWE, Lilian Garcia has had a long, extraordinary and surprising career as a host, singer, songwriter, and executive producer. On this episode of Women of Impact with Lisa Bilyeu, Lilian Garcia shares how she learned to always ask how to do something instead of saying she can’t do it. Along the way, she describes her struggles with marriage and wanting to have children, the stress she experienced as a perfectionist, and why she has decided to be herself and trust that it’s enough.
SHOW NOTES:
Lilian describes the first time she ever announced for the WWE and how afraid she was [4:04]
Lilian advocates asking “how” instead of saying “I can’t” [7:35]
Lilian describes the stress she used to experience by being a perfectionist [8:31]
“If it’s causing you stress and you love it, keep at it.” [11:31]
Lilian talks about her first marriage, why she stayed, and why she eventually left [13:12]
Lilian describes her second marriage and the realization that she wanted kids [19:08]
Lilian talks about going to Personal Success Institute and how it changed her [23:54]
Lilian advocates always being yourself and trusting that it’s enough [27:00]
Lisa and Lilian discuss how much is imprinted on us from a young age [29:12]
Lilian explains what it was like being a woman in the WWE [32:25]
Lilian talks about how her dedication has helped her in MMA [35:02]
Lilian encourages people to stop lying about their age [37:37]
Lilian and Lisa discuss why we need to stop judging each other based on age [43:48]
Lilian shares her superpower [48:09]
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Hurray Hurray! I LOVED the topic on aging!! I'm 61 and would not trade it for anything...I got married at 60 to my truest love and also became a yoga instructor that year! I take good care of myself and love my life. Next year I'm starting a new life with my love and recreating my business!! You can do anything at any age! Thank you Thank you both!
@Leslie O'Leary Why wait until next year to begin your new life?? Life is now!! 💪
Leslie O'Leary BOOM!! Love that so much! Definitely with you on the age thing. Life changing perspective!! 😉💕
Kathy Hansen YESSSSS 💪🏻💪🏻💪🏻
And you look amazing. Excellent :)))
You are so inspiring! Thanks for sharing! 💖
Don’t focus on what you CANNOT do, focus on what you CAN do. In this way you set your mind in motion searching for solutions and possibilities 😊
Lindsey Spiteri Bellizzi well said! 💪🏻👏🏻💯
@@LisaBilyeu Thanks :))
I just turned 50!! Yes! I needed this SO much. I've live in fear and being so shy all my life. I feel like I just gave myself permission to start living. I'm soaking all this up! I love you Lilian and Lisa!
Hapa Sai whoop! Glad the episode resonated lovely 😊💕
My god, the only thing that outdoes Lilian's unmatched beauty is her mind. What a great thinker, and a wonderful human being.
Luu Sapphire LOL! Agreed!! 💪🏻👏🏻💯❤️
Liiiiisaaaaaaa you have gone next level with your interviews. It's just a matter of time this channel is going to hit million subscribers. I bet. Keep getting this terrific women
Barbie16661 awwww thanks so much! 😊
Barbie16661 BOOM!! Thank you!! ❤️
I made it a morning habit to watch an episode of Women of impact, before starting my day and GOSH it changed my life. I've never been any happier and self-confident. Thank you, Lisa for this show. It's a blessing from the universe to have you serving people with ur creativity ❤️
I'm 23 and sometimes I feel old.. I feel like I should have my life together at this point.. I work a 9-5 but I feel like I should be doing so much more.
Keillan Hadden thank you so much for sharing!! If you feel you should be doing more, then one step at a time, do more 😉😘💕 YOU GOT THIS!
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Being Authentic!
Never heard of Lillian Garcia but definitely a true inspiration. Thanks Lisa for always bringing the best of the best.
Valerie Gonzales aww 🥰 pleasure! ❤️❤️
Powerful introduction and an inspiring message that can be very helpful to many.
1) Refocus your energy
2) Conquer your competition
3) Always ask, "How can I do it?"
4) Be engrained in exposing yourself to experiential learning.
5) Find the right FIT to be the best representation of yourself.
6) Model yourself of the person you want to be.
7) Make a commitment.
8) Embrace every moment and situation positively.
9) Respect everyone's space and at the same time staying true to your job scope.
10) Be authentic.
Wow! lot more nuggets I have taken from this beautiful interview. Thank you so much for this profound sharing. Regards from Malaysia.
Nirmala Nagalingam amazing breakdown! Thanks so much 🙏🏻 Glad you enjoyed the episode ❤️
@@LisaBilyeu I sincerely want to thank you too, for putting in such great efforts in reaching out to many ladies who truly need inspirational guidance like this. Sending you my GRATITUDE wave from Malaysia.
Nirmala Nagalingam Aww thank YOU! 💕
@@LisaBilyeu 💞❤️🌹
soooooooooooooooooooooooo resonate with internalizing if we're not happy in a relationship!!!!! We're so conditioned to make decisions based on logic and the way things look on the surface, so it feels wrong or like we should be guilty if we're not happy when everything on the outside checks out. LOVEEEE this reminder to be fully in our power of making decisions based on how we FEEL!
Honestly this is the most powerful interview I have watched all year. Reframing age in that way is mindblowing. What an inspiring badass woman. God I'm in love with her.
Britt Jane FELT THAT! 🙏🏻💕
This became my favourite channel... so many incredible women, such great interviews! This one being no exception:) Thank you
This has to be one of my favourite interview. It is so powerful and very inspiring to build a strong mindset. Thank you Lisa😍
Shurrty Lechumanan ❤️🙌🏻
This is marvellous Lisa! I have no words to thank you more. With every episode, it’s becoming better and better!! I am learning so much from these powerful personalities at a time when I’m so confused about my own career
Poppy Ningthmch that’s so great!! Really glad you’re finding value in our content. Thanks so much for commenting ❤️💕
Poppy Ningthmch so pleased to hear that! Thanks sweetie!
Women of Impact Thank you tons ♥️♥️♥️
Lisa Bilyeu 😘😘 Thank you ☺️
All this negativity about age colour weight height ND all this negative labels beliefs is dueto competition.
I can so relate to the Middle/High School trauma that lingers subconsciously. The glass shattering moment came for me when my husband finally assured me that all those little girls were just jealous! Not profound in any way. But there was some part of me that couldn't see past that feeling of childhood rejection, even though I could point it out for fellow women, students, and friends. Amazing the effect bullying can have.
HIfoxyroxy 💯🎯❤️
I LOVE your interviews Lisa! I have gotten to where I listen to them almost every week. Oh my gosh Lilian was just a wealth of WISDOM! Thank you for this!
"The wrinkles are worth it!"
YES!
As someone who is moving forward in harmony my own health issues, I want to thank you Lisa for pushing through your own health challenges and continuing to create such encouraging content! 💛
Blessings!
Anne Wheeler felt that! Thank you 😊 and haha... Yes... the wrinkles are worth it!! 👏🏻🙌🏻
i need to go back and deal with my childhood scares because yes, they always still show up. it has cost me sooo much.
time to face them and heal
Cynthia Uzoka totally get it and with you 💪🏻 YOU GOT THIS! 💕💕
Women of Impact thank you Lisa. You, Tom and your guests are really helping people. God bless you all.
Cynthia Uzoka same to you lovely 😊
Hey gf! I recently started trauma based therapy aling w DBT for anxiety. Its been years and years of me trying to heal from the pain on my childhood but the trauma based therapy helped me to address everything in a safe way and because of this i feel FREE!!! Keep working on you, bc you are worth it n we do get better! 💗🙌🏼 Stay strong gf! 💗
Annica DeJesus LOVE this show of support! Thank you! 💕💕
Loved the age topic. I'm in my 50s as well and I notice people apologize to me before hand when they want to ask my age thinking that I will be offended. I totally agree that not telling the truth just causes anxiety.
Micaela Harris hits hard doesn’t it!? 💥
OMG FIRE LOVE I will have to watch this again. I fking LOVE it! From one end to the other. I cant believe how fast this hour went by. YESSSS!!
Beautiful interview!
Wow! This women is so relatable and incredible.
Another awesome episode, I love this show so much! Soon you’ll have 100k subscribers yay! 🎉
The wealthy Soul whoop!! Thank you!!! 🙏🏻💕 Glad you enjoy our content 😊
Can I like this more than once?! Please!!! Gosh I loved this!!! The topic on aging was the golden nugget!!! YESSS!!!
LibaD haha!! YES!!! Like like loooove!! 💓💓 😘🙏🏻💕
Such an inspiration, what a super human being. I love her mind. She is amazing.
O H. M Y. G O S H..So incredible!!! Brought back much memories!!! Totally in resonance with this Spectacular woman! Thank you Lisa and LILIAN 😍❤😍
Supriya G awesome! Thank you! 🙌🏻❤️
Such a great message and such a great episode. Love what you are doing with the show and the message and intention that is the driving force behind each and every guest and the whole of Women of Impact. Do you have a p.o. box that subscribers can send things to?
Chelsea Mauger thanks so much! Let me check and I’ll have someone get back to you!
Very insightful when she talked about triggers🙏🌿
Go back to the past to heal your wounds and move forward ❤️
This was such a great podcast!!
EdwardBloom89 THANK YOU! 🙏🏻
Great interview! Loved the comment it's okay to look your age or older!!!
Wow, this intro got me wow, thanks girls for this powerful episode😍✨🙏😘
Mai Mohamed ❤️❤️
BRAVO!!!
I'm "Starting Over"
at 81 cuz, as OPRAH says: "If You're Still Breathing, You have a Reason for being here."
My Bucket List is Auspicious, Audacious, Ambitious, BUT(Saving Grace???) Altruistic.
It's high time we ignorantly ignore the stored away Education ( Formal OR Self Taught), Experience , Genius AND Wisdom of our Elderly by locking them away in Cold, Impersonal Nursing Homes where loneliness Withers away their Genuis and death becomes a welcome refuge.
I have a plan that can help rescue their Genuis & become a invaluable resource for rescuing our World from its present Self-Destruct-Mode and seek assistance from competent, caring others in making my Auspicious, Audacious, Ambitious BUT Altruistic Bucket List a REALITY!!!!
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Thank you!
Lisas interviews are such are undiscovered gem for a larger population. Oh and the sneakers sooo cute!
Merike Sutt 😊🙏🏻💕
As Tom Bilyeu would say it’s all about neuroscience. Every time we get triggered we generate an automatic response that is hard-wired, which includes the thought (based on a belief), the associated feeling and then the action. In my experience the way to break that cycle is by weakening that response that is in fact wired in your brain. You’ve got to insert a different thought (an alternative explanation which is a technique often fought in therapy), associate a different feeling and take a different action. And it won’t feel good, and it won’t feel right, and it will feel like you are lying to yourself and playing pretend because that is not your normal, that is not what you are used to. But the longer you practice the new response the more normal it will become. Look at people around you and pay attention to them responding to the same situation in a completely different way. Look at situations when you responded in a different way and things were still ok and even better. This is the evidence that will help to convince your mind that there is an alternative way and it will be easier to adopt it.
Sasha Motovylets Beautifully said!! Thanks so much for taking the time to write this 😊💕💪🏻
This was so inspiring. Age is NOTHING but a number. I try to remember that every day.
Rachel Sloane 💯🎯👏🏻
Cool part about the age lying 👍saw the introduction and it grabbed my attention 🤜🤛 p.s hope you and Tom live forever 😉
Stephen Odey haha! Love that!! Thank you 🙏🏻🙌🏻💕
This is sooooo great video , thank you for this I can sooooo relate to some of the area's of what Lilian G. said.
I presently struggle with perfection, and childhood teasing I wear eyeglasses , and darkskinn, and the way I talked just so many area's of my life that I had issues. That has and still struggle with.
Linda Dallas glad you enjoyed it ❤️
What a legend👍 i resonated with her story to the core. I wish i could give LIKE more than once. ❤❤
Lucky Love you ❤️❤️
I loved this one... 💙
I have goosebumps
Kalyani Somani Yep! Hear that! 💕
Excellent 👍
Super great interview - I'm 53 also :)
The best 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I loved this episode ..
Alyaa Adel ❤️
Beautiful 💕
I just thought what we say you look younger than your age/older than your age or just your age.... what are we comparing it to? What does it mean to look like you are twenty? or 40 or 70? Cos all of us look different when we age. So just found that interesting :D Great show as always. Really hit me with the 62 is considered young when dead but old when alive. Never thought that. :0
Alisa Miettinen awesome reframe isn’t it! 🤯💕
NLP has a model for clearing imprinted neurology. Every experience has a beginning a middle and end and emotional content that's tied to it.
If you relive The Experience backwards at high speed the experience will stay but the emotional content becomes uncoupled from the experience. I like to describe it as taking the sting out
🦋amen! You get one life stop caring what others think
Lara Smith YES YES YES!!!!!
She’s not 53! She looks good!
Suzie Q lol!! Doesn’t she just!? 🙌🏻😍❤️
13:46
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Annica DeJesus 💕💕💕💕
@@LisaBilyeu i absolutely love this channel, it has helped me to rejoin my life. Thank you.
Annica Dennison amazing!! So happy to be part of your journey lovely 😊❤️
Yes it is the Bible in action ! don't say " i can't" because Jesus say "you can do all through Christ "