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Haan maine 32 years old hun married for 2 years.. please don't spend more than 5-6 lac on marriage if you are from decent background... please save as much money in wedding as possible... money will be used after marriage expenses..like deposit.. buying furniture/washing machine/dish washer.. down payment for new flat...for good honeymoon and trips for couple of years..there is so much couples can do with money saved in wedding..mere toh dost logo ne bhi shaadi maine gift acche nahi diye hain..so don't bother what your friends and Relatives /rishtedar will think...they are least bothered about your marriage
Brother , What do you mean from a decent background. How much money should be earned by someone to be called decent. Give us a rough salary package or income. For example if someone is making 50k per month he or she should spend this amount of money. You are saying 5 to 6 lakh so for that what ammount should be earned ?
@@theflyingcaravans2828 decent means parents were earning good and better financially..if person save 25k out for 50k salary it will take 2 years for person to save 5 lac and there is no financial support from parents for marriage.then wind up every thing in wedding in 1 lac ..do like corona time wedding
Learnings from video- 1. Don't spend money from your pocket. It should be parents' responsibility to spend on marriage. 2. Parents should spend as minimum as possible in wedding and save money to give it to couples for them to start their lives. 3. Don't bargain with priest in weddings.Give him whatever he demands as couple and family will have good blessings. 4. Cut unnecessary expenses and call only close friends and relatives. 5. If one of the parties is not on the same page and they want to add other unnecessary stuff to make wedding look luxurious then tell them to spend. 6. You will thank yourself with money you saved after wedding as it will minimise conflicts b/w couples due to lack of money and make very easy for them to start their new phas of life.
Marry in a temple. Perform all the rituals there. Donate money to mass marriages that happen there. Then just invite everyone after marriage , for Satyanarayana puja. That's it. Never bother about what world says. No one shall come to save you if you are in trouble financially or otherwise.
Go for Corona style marriage. Model 25+25 members only. Family member 5, + Father's relatives 5, + Mother's side +5, Friends 5, Society 5. Food 5 items only . Budget marriage Sahi hai.
Totally agree Guru Ji, I got married 1.5 years ago, that time I did not know about your channel, but my mother (she is also Sangwan) said same thing and we saved a lot of money in marriage, the whole amount saved was given as FD to me and my wife. Now when I talk with my colleagues in office, i see how much ahead i am from all of them because they all did their wedding lavishly.
depend krta h kya kya farmaish rkh rhe ho, mera 40k me sb ho gya tha. Mostly rishtedar apni photo k liye intrested hote h unko digital me bhej do, album jyada bdi mt bnao, skip drone shoot and 4K video. 1080p is enough.
Marry in winter in day time ( electricity , generator money) save Take sherwani and lehanga on rent then return back Do more then one events in same day saves money of multiple fuction
Dahej to dur ki baat h yar, I went to see a girl and her father said the boy will have to pay the marriage expenses. So, I have to feed the daughter for the lifetime and pay for her marriage too. She was working a 8000 Rs. Job in a private hospital and was denying to do any house work. Basically I was bringing a tenant to my house and she will not contribute to anything. Few months later we got a nice and peaceful family who were kind and good. They were ready to pay for the expenses by splitting.
20 years ago, I didn’t have a voice to stand up to my parents that I didn’t want extravagant in my wedding. I was living overseas, was starting my life from scratch. While my parents spent all the money in the wedding, had they gave that money to us I could have started my married life on better base. Sadly, even now when I speak to my relatives in India, not much as changed in their thought process.
@@QamruddinKhan-hf4dn I bought very cheap clothes for all the relatives. Kambal, pant shirt and salwar suit ka kapda sab 14 thousand mein ho gaya tha .
I wanted to give rs 200 to each relative instead of cheap clothes but my jethani thought giving 200 rs salwar suit is better than giving 200 rs note. 😂😂
@@ShashiBharti-dl8ti me Mumbai se hu magar Mera ancestral village fatehpur shekhawati district sikar me he, me muslim hu magar firbhi hamare rajasthani muslim rajput community me rajputi rajasthani rasm chalte he, sivaye orthodox muslims ke yaha abhi mere chachu ki building me muslim rajasthani dost ki wedding jodhpur me predestination hui 90 lakh fukdiue 💀💀 woh paisa garib ko dedete ya education me dedete wese hi hamare muslim community me pade likhe kam he... Me orthodox hu andar se isliye me toh yeh sab nahi karne wala... Asar ki namaz ke baad time jab zada log rehte bhi nahi us time nikah ka elaan karduga 2 min bhi nahi lagte qabool hai bolduga fir chuware baat ke agle din walima, only karibi rishtedar aur gharpe ya compound me biryani khiladuga mushkil se 5000 lagege aur meher alag se, hamare religion me asal shadi kam kharche me karne ko bolte he hamare prophet ne kaha he... Me shadi me lakho rupye fulne se acha wohi paisa invest nahi kardu stock market me? Ajeeb duniya he yaar 💀💀
@@ShashiBharti-dl8ti me Mumbai se hu magar Mera ancestral village fatehpur shekhawati district sikar me he, me muslim hu magar firbhi hamare rajasthani muslim rajput community me rajputi rajasthani rasm chalte he, sivaye orthodox muslims ke yaha abhi mere chachu ki building me muslim rajasthani dost ki wedding jodhpur me predestination hui 90 lakh phunk diye 💀💀 woh paisa garib ko de dete ya education me de dete wese hi hamare muslim community me pade likhe kam he... Me orthodox hu andar se isliye me toh yeh sab nahi karne wala... Asar ki namaz ke baad time jab zada log rehte bhi nahi us time nikah ka elaan kar duga 2 min bhi nahi lagte qabool hai bol duga fir chooware baat ke agle din walima, only karibi rishtedar aur gharpe ya compound me biryani khiladuga mushkil se 5000 lagege aur meher alag se, hamare religion me asal shadi kam kharche me karne ko bolte he hamare prophet ne kaha he... Me shadi me lakho rupye fulne se acha wohi paisa invest nahi kardu stock market me? Ajeeb duniya he yaar 💀💀
One important suggestion...the boy and girls family should spit the wedding expenses 50 - 50 down to the last item... If the boys family does not agree to splitting the expenses 50 - 50 it's red flag and you should not take it lightly as it's an indication of the mentality of the family...
@@anitakotvalourlifeingermany I am not in favour for spending money on wedding.. forget about 50-50..and it is upto the wish of people who wants the show off..20 lac ka 50-50 is 10 lac which is still huge amount..5 lac for entire wedding and 2.5 lac each family makes a sense
Yes, 50-50 only in case number of invitee (guests) cards nearly same from both side otherwise divide the expenses in the same ratio as the numbers of invites from each side.
I wish I could send this video to my FIL Doesn’t earn a dime and he expected all his three sons to spend much more than they could really afford .. Now my husband being in a Govt job was expected being the eldest and in Govt job to bow down to his whims and fancies .. Youngest BIL did not contribute much nor could these people ever talk back to their father Result we are still living in Govt quarter and no home of our own til now Very short sighted family and the brunt is borne by the DIL’s
In south it looks simple but people here also spend too much money on wedding..like for example father ki puri life ki saving 50 lac hain..father will spend 20-25 lac on son/daughter marriage to show off people in society.expenses hall booking 1.5 lac to 2 lac in teir 2 cities... decoration 1 lac...food 2 lac..mandap 50k photographer 2 lac depends on package... chair cover 20k.. marriage sarees 45k for bride..so for different occasions saree cost itself will reach 1 lac there are small small expenses.. which will amount to easily 15-18 lac...and I have not included gold given and taken...pre wedding ...album will cost easily 50k ..other than couples all are making money...and when they shift to new 1 bhk don't have deposit to pay for rented apartment..no money for honeymoon and for rent ....I feel those couples are really lucky who get their own flat or house after marriage ..and parents support them to buy one ..yeah middle class maine alag hi scene hain .. parents apni dekh bhal karana chate hain nayi dhulan se...in all these least paid is shaadi karane wale pandit ji...I feel bad when a pandit ji sitting there in mandap and from his heart and mouth he is wishing couple for great marriage and parents bargin with pandit...rest kisi bhi wedding vendor ko nahi padi.. marriage ki..so couple needs to think about themselves.. especially young people who want to marry.. please don't get in these hi- fi wedding expenses...buy yourself a flat and live very happily..let me tell you just having your own home without emi or loan will make life very easy and happy
Yes you are right. Its been a while, I was thinking to do a budget friendly wedding keeping in mind the wedding wastages, inflation etc. Aisa ladka aur ladke waale v milne chahiye jo is baat ko maturity ke saath samjhe. Let's hope for the best.
In south it looks simple but people here also spend too much money on wedding..like for example father ki puri life ki saving 50 lac hain..father will spend 20-25 lac on son/daughter marriage to show off people in society.expenses hall booking 1.5 lac to 2 lac in teir 2 cities... decoration 1 lac...food 2 lac..mandap 50k photographer 2 lac depends on package... chair cover 20k.. marriage sarees 45k for bride..so for different occasions saree cost itself will reach 1 lac there are small small expenses.. which will amount to easily 15-18 lac...and I have not included gold given and taken...pre wedding ...album will cost easily 50k ..other than couples all are making money...and when they shift to new 1 bhk don't have deposit to pay for rented apartment..no money for honeymoon and for rent ....I feel those couples are really lucky who get their own flat or house after marriage ..and parents support them to buy one ..yeah middle class maine alag hi scene hain .. parents apni dekh bhal karana chate hain nayi dhulan se...in all these least paid is shaadi karane wale pandit ji...I feel bad when a pandit ji sitting there in mandap and from his heart and mouth he is wishing couple for great marriage and parents bargin with pandit...rest kisi bhi wedding vendor ko nahi padi.. marriage ki..so couple needs to think about themselves.. especially young people who want to marry.. please don't get in these hi- fi wedding expenses...buy yourself a flat and live very happily..let me tell you just having your own home without emi or loan will make life very easy and happy
Sir dating , premarital sex and it's impact on marriage pe video banayiye, aajkal ye arrange marriages mein kafi problem karte hain aur divorce ke reason bhi bante hain, kya youth ko date karna chaiye aur kya limit & boundaries honi chaiye indian society aur culture ke hisab se
Agreed with what you said. I have a elder sister who got married into a very rich family as it was a love marriage. My parents spent everything and even took debt to get her married. I am 5 years younger to her and by the time I needed money for education, marriage or getting a house. My parents had none left and on top of that I have to give them money for their old age and other expenses.
I knew this before 10 yrs when i got married ..i told my parents firmly dont spend too much like they did during my elder brother marriage, I always appreciated thier hard earned money n i told this to everyone that i want low key wedding
I got married 3 years ago and only 20 guests were invited in the wedding including our parents 😅. The marriage ceremony took place at a temple. No money exchange took place, only bare minimum gifts were exchanged between both the families. The money that was saved from the low cost marriage function was saved in the form of a plot which was given to my wife by her parents.
Me toh Ghar pe biryani pakwake khiladuga walima me, nikah masjid me asar ki namaz ke baad... Mushkil se 3000 lagege baaki meher alag se dena padega woh excluded he shadi ke kharche se
guruji, i personally make a lot of my short notes on budget wedding tips and your channel is also the primary source of those, its my humble suggestion/idea that kindly bring a detailed webinar of 3 hr hours where you can teach the platinum members about how to become a "wedding consultant" catering to every budget needs in the bracket of 5 lac, 10 lac and 20 lac etc, kindly share your views on my suggestion guruji, love your content and will be joining your platinum membership soon!
we did exactly same... no kiney from parents and only close frnds and relatives were invited tonour love marriage... and still i think that was best decision we made together.. proudly we could say what we did from our money and next year we booked our own villa 🎉🎉... we invested on panditji and photos ( no prewedding though 😅).. no court marriage , all dear ones were there and all rituals were performed 😀
Guru ji aapne ek baat jo बोली @3:32-3:33 , आपके लिए और भी respect आ गयी .. सही में लड़के वाले especially , telling my real life experience .. पंडित जी को पैसे या दक्षिणा नहीं देंगे ठीक से और मंडप पर बहस करते हैं ..
Right sir . mene bahut chaha ki mere bacho ki sadio simple ho lekin n bete ki shadi me suna gaya n beti ki shadi me dono ke sasural walo ne kaha hamari pahli shadi hai dhoom dham se karenge ab kahte hai itna paisa kharch ni karna chahiye tha.acthully bache bhi simple shadi ni chahte .
True that. I am unmarried but can say that I will save atleast 30 lacs by doing a private marriage. I am planning to put the saved money into mutual funds and good quality furniture and gold.
Instead of performing lots of ceremonies for days, the families of bride and groom should select one perticular venue to perform all the ceremonies within that particular day and should split the bill of expenses.
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Haan maine 32 years old hun married for 2 years.. please don't spend more than 5-6 lac on marriage if you are from decent background... please save as much money in wedding as possible... money will be used after marriage expenses..like deposit.. buying furniture/washing machine/dish washer.. down payment for new flat...for good honeymoon and trips for couple of years..there is so much couples can do with money saved in wedding..mere toh dost logo ne bhi shaadi maine gift acche nahi diye hain..so don't bother what your friends and Relatives /rishtedar will think...they are least bothered about your marriage
Brother , What do you mean from a decent background. How much money should be earned by someone to be called decent. Give us a rough salary package or income. For example if someone is making 50k per month he or she should spend this amount of money. You are saying 5 to 6 lakh so for that what ammount should be earned ?
insightful suggestion for a 24 year old like me sir!
@@theflyingcaravans2828 decent means parents were earning good and better financially..if person save 25k out for 50k salary it will take 2 years for person to save 5 lac and there is no financial support from parents for marriage.then wind up every thing in wedding in 1 lac ..do like corona time wedding
@@praveenkumarhugar295 thanks bro
I spent my 6 months salary for my marriage 😅 2 years back
Learnings from video-
1. Don't spend money from your pocket. It should be parents' responsibility to spend on marriage.
2. Parents should spend as minimum as possible in wedding and save money to give it to couples for them to start their lives.
3. Don't bargain with priest in weddings.Give him whatever he demands as couple and family will have good blessings.
4. Cut unnecessary expenses and call only close friends and relatives.
5. If one of the parties is not on the same page and they want to add other unnecessary stuff to make wedding look luxurious then tell them to spend.
6. You will thank yourself with money you saved after wedding as it will minimise conflicts b/w couples due to lack of money and make very easy for them to start their new phas of life.
Marry in a temple. Perform all the rituals there. Donate money to mass marriages that happen there. Then just invite everyone after marriage , for Satyanarayana puja. That's it. Never bother about what world says. No one shall come to save you if you are in trouble financially or otherwise.
i will follow this thank you
100% agree
great idea😂
Go for Corona style marriage. Model 25+25 members only. Family member 5, + Father's relatives 5, + Mother's side +5, Friends 5, Society 5. Food 5 items only . Budget marriage Sahi hai.
This will create further big issues in family...... nobody wants to stop at 5 number,
@@RahulVerma-sm4ge work with safety factor 2, 4, or 6. If money is there, what is the problem?
Correct 😂
perfect solution...
Totally agree Guru Ji,
I got married 1.5 years ago, that time I did not know about your channel, but my mother (she is also Sangwan) said same thing and we saved a lot of money in marriage, the whole amount saved was given as FD to me and my wife. Now when I talk with my colleagues in office, i see how much ahead i am from all of them because they all did their wedding lavishly.
Closed ones ko invite karke kam se kam expenditures karke shaadi honi chahie...focus should be more on shaadi ko nibhana & understanding
Like my sister in law spent money on everything lavishly and purely incapable of earning a single penny😂
Photographer ka alag level ka rate chal raha hain.. minimum 1 lac rupees lelete hain .loot macchi hain
depend krta h kya kya farmaish rkh rhe ho, mera 40k me sb ho gya tha. Mostly rishtedar apni photo k liye intrested hote h unko digital me bhej do, album jyada bdi mt bnao, skip drone shoot and 4K video. 1080p is enough.
Yeah I laughed at photographer for asking 1 lac... Lol we got one in 20k with everything covered
It's better to buy a good camera of 50k and hire a photographer for a week for 20k 😅 simple if photographer asks more money
khud ke camera se photo khichwalo aur online edit karvalo😂😂
Bhai maine toh mobile se hi kiya sab kuch wo bhi sab acche se ho gaya aap ka bhi ho jayega
Marry in winter in day time ( electricity , generator money) save
Take sherwani and lehanga on rent then return back
Do more then one events in same day saves money of multiple fuction
Good Advice
I don't think those heavy sherwanis and wedding suits will get used a second time ever. This is good advice if it can be done
Dahej to dur ki baat h yar, I went to see a girl and her father said the boy will have to pay the marriage expenses. So, I have to feed the daughter for the lifetime and pay for her marriage too. She was working a 8000 Rs. Job in a private hospital and was denying to do any house work. Basically I was bringing a tenant to my house and she will not contribute to anything.
Few months later we got a nice and peaceful family who were kind and good. They were ready to pay for the expenses by splitting.
Needless to say you dodged a missile that day😅
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Answer is Kam se kam 👍😃 .
20 years ago, I didn’t have a voice to stand up to my parents that I didn’t want extravagant in my wedding. I was living overseas, was starting my life from scratch. While my parents spent all the money in the wedding, had they gave that money to us I could have started my married life on better base.
Sadly, even now when I speak to my relatives in India, not much as changed in their thought process.
I spent 1,60,000 on gold
1 lac on reception
40 k on clothes, 5k lehnga, 40 k on furniture.
Rural rajasthan .
I heard that in rajasthan we have to give cloths to each and every relatives?💀💀
@@QamruddinKhan-hf4dn I bought very cheap clothes for all the relatives. Kambal, pant shirt and salwar suit ka kapda sab 14 thousand mein ho gaya tha .
I wanted to give rs 200 to each relative instead of cheap clothes but my jethani thought giving 200 rs salwar suit is better than giving 200 rs note.
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@@ShashiBharti-dl8ti me Mumbai se hu magar Mera ancestral village fatehpur shekhawati district sikar me he, me muslim hu magar firbhi hamare rajasthani muslim rajput community me rajputi rajasthani rasm chalte he, sivaye orthodox muslims ke yaha abhi mere chachu ki building me muslim rajasthani dost ki wedding jodhpur me predestination hui 90 lakh fukdiue 💀💀 woh paisa garib ko dedete ya education me dedete wese hi hamare muslim community me pade likhe kam he... Me orthodox hu andar se isliye me toh yeh sab nahi karne wala... Asar ki namaz ke baad time jab zada log rehte bhi nahi us time nikah ka elaan karduga 2 min bhi nahi lagte qabool hai bolduga fir chuware baat ke agle din walima, only karibi rishtedar aur gharpe ya compound me biryani khiladuga mushkil se 5000 lagege aur meher alag se, hamare religion me asal shadi kam kharche me karne ko bolte he hamare prophet ne kaha he... Me shadi me lakho rupye fulne se acha wohi paisa invest nahi kardu stock market me? Ajeeb duniya he yaar 💀💀
@@ShashiBharti-dl8ti me Mumbai se hu magar Mera ancestral village fatehpur shekhawati district sikar me he, me muslim hu magar firbhi hamare rajasthani muslim rajput community me rajputi rajasthani rasm chalte he, sivaye orthodox muslims ke yaha abhi mere chachu ki building me muslim rajasthani dost ki wedding jodhpur me predestination hui 90 lakh phunk diye 💀💀 woh paisa garib ko de dete ya education me de dete wese hi hamare muslim community me pade likhe kam he... Me orthodox hu andar se isliye me toh yeh sab nahi karne wala... Asar ki namaz ke baad time jab zada log rehte bhi nahi us time nikah ka elaan kar duga 2 min bhi nahi lagte qabool hai bol duga fir chooware baat ke agle din walima, only karibi rishtedar aur gharpe ya compound me biryani khiladuga mushkil se 5000 lagege aur meher alag se, hamare religion me asal shadi kam kharche me karne ko bolte he hamare prophet ne kaha he... Me shadi me lakho rupye fulne se acha wohi paisa invest nahi kardu stock market me? Ajeeb duniya he yaar 💀💀
One important suggestion...the boy and girls family should spit the wedding expenses 50 - 50 down to the last item... If the boys family does not agree to splitting the expenses 50 - 50 it's red flag and you should not take it lightly as it's an indication of the mentality of the family...
Each party should spend according to its wish. No party should dictate other about the money to be spent.
If girl and girls parents only looking in to money, property of boys and demanding expensive things is also a red flag
@@anitakotvalourlifeingermany I am not in favour for spending money on wedding.. forget about 50-50..and it is upto the wish of people who wants the show off..20 lac ka 50-50 is 10 lac which is still huge amount..5 lac for entire wedding and 2.5 lac each family makes a sense
Yes, 50-50 only in case number of invitee (guests) cards nearly same from both side otherwise divide the expenses in the same ratio as the numbers of invites from each side.
Girls must take the initiative of this in their brothers weddings first
I wish I could send this video to my FIL
Doesn’t earn a dime and he expected all his three sons to spend much more than they could really afford .. Now my husband being in a Govt job was expected being the eldest and in Govt job to bow down to his whims and fancies ..
Youngest BIL did not contribute much nor could these people ever talk back to their father
Result we are still living in Govt quarter and no home of our own til now
Very short sighted family and the brunt is borne by the DIL’s
Its a waste of money and time.... People do wedding for the showoff.... People in india dont know the difference between wedding and marriage
Absolutely Right 👍
Save your money for your future and for your family members welfare, not for unnecessary wastage and show-offs in Indian Wedding...
Sir Bahut Sahi Baat Kahi Aapne. I 100% Agree with ur Point. Meri aaj tak ki best videos me se ek hai ye.
In south it looks simple but people here also spend too much money on wedding..like for example father ki puri life ki saving 50 lac hain..father will spend 20-25 lac on son/daughter marriage to show off people in society.expenses hall booking 1.5 lac to 2 lac in teir 2 cities... decoration 1 lac...food 2 lac..mandap 50k photographer 2 lac depends on package... chair cover 20k.. marriage sarees 45k for bride..so for different occasions saree cost itself will reach 1 lac there are small small expenses.. which will amount to easily 15-18 lac...and I have not included gold given and taken...pre wedding ...album will cost easily 50k ..other than couples all are making money...and when they shift to new 1 bhk don't have deposit to pay for rented apartment..no money for honeymoon and for rent ....I feel those couples are really lucky who get their own flat or house after marriage ..and parents support them to buy one ..yeah middle class maine alag hi scene hain .. parents apni dekh bhal karana chate hain nayi dhulan se...in all these least paid is shaadi karane wale pandit ji...I feel bad when a pandit ji sitting there in mandap and from his heart and mouth he is wishing couple for great marriage and parents bargin with pandit...rest kisi bhi wedding vendor ko nahi padi.. marriage ki..so couple needs to think about themselves.. especially young people who want to marry.. please don't get in these hi- fi wedding expenses...buy yourself a flat and live very happily..let me tell you just having your own home without emi or loan will make life very easy and happy
Yes you are right. Its been a while, I was thinking to do a budget friendly wedding keeping in mind the wedding wastages, inflation etc.
Aisa ladka aur ladke waale v milne chahiye jo is baat ko maturity ke saath samjhe. Let's hope for the best.
@@Optimistic_aspirant connect with me for consultation and points to explain for future in-laws for better marriage
Bilkul sahi kaha guruji...
We spent almost 80 lakhs, Including Gold of 40 lakhs.I was the only one trying to save money. I could save 5 lakhs🎉.
South Indian Marriages are simpler
Aisi koi bt nhi h bhai
True, we northern Indians are more hawabaaj
Bhai veham hai tereko . Same apna wala hi haal hai
In south it looks simple but people here also spend too much money on wedding..like for example father ki puri life ki saving 50 lac hain..father will spend 20-25 lac on son/daughter marriage to show off people in society.expenses hall booking 1.5 lac to 2 lac in teir 2 cities... decoration 1 lac...food 2 lac..mandap 50k photographer 2 lac depends on package... chair cover 20k.. marriage sarees 45k for bride..so for different occasions saree cost itself will reach 1 lac there are small small expenses.. which will amount to easily 15-18 lac...and I have not included gold given and taken...pre wedding ...album will cost easily 50k ..other than couples all are making money...and when they shift to new 1 bhk don't have deposit to pay for rented apartment..no money for honeymoon and for rent ....I feel those couples are really lucky who get their own flat or house after marriage ..and parents support them to buy one ..yeah middle class maine alag hi scene hain .. parents apni dekh bhal karana chate hain nayi dhulan se...in all these least paid is shaadi karane wale pandit ji...I feel bad when a pandit ji sitting there in mandap and from his heart and mouth he is wishing couple for great marriage and parents bargin with pandit...rest kisi bhi wedding vendor ko nahi padi.. marriage ki..so couple needs to think about themselves.. especially young people who want to marry.. please don't get in these hi- fi wedding expenses...buy yourself a flat and live very happily..let me tell you just having your own home without emi or loan will make life very easy and happy
Mtlab dikhawa nahi krna ha ab bs ...Sidhi bat no bkwas
सर मेरी शादी तो 7 साल पहले हो गई और यह सब गलतियां करके अब पछता रहा हूं।
Sir dating , premarital sex and it's impact on marriage pe video banayiye, aajkal ye arrange marriages mein kafi problem karte hain aur divorce ke reason bhi bante hain, kya youth ko date karna chaiye aur kya limit & boundaries honi chaiye indian society aur culture ke hisab se
Any advice for new parents as well? Raising a child is also expensive and not all make sense.
13:58 bilkul thik baat kahi
Haha...loved the idea....loved the perspective.... bilkul practical suggestion hai❤
Yes I’m totally agree with you sir…..thankyou
रात में शादी ना हो... देवता नहीं.. दैत्य आते हैं.. आशीर्वाद देने..😂... दिन में देवताओं का आव्हान करना चाहिए
Correct !
Ha, south mai din mai hi hoti Hai, make it unique in north India 🎉
दिन में ही होती है, सुबह 4 बजे ब्रह्म-मूहर्त में
Thank you for taking time to make this video. Very practical and useful. I will apply this in my life.
❤ All ur Videos. Vry True Dr Amitji. Thanx fr sharing ur views n spreading ur gr8 knowledge.
Urs❤
I totally agree with you sir, मंदिर में शादी और खाना best option.
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gayaaaaa ✨🔥✨
Goid advice, I did same 30 years ago, happy for that
Agreed with what you said. I have a elder sister who got married into a very rich family as it was a love marriage. My parents spent everything and even took debt to get her married.
I am 5 years younger to her and by the time I needed money for education, marriage or getting a house. My parents had none left and on top of that I have to give them money for their old age and other expenses.
Guru ji....zandaabaad ji.......kamaal k video bnaate ho mahraaj ji....Jai ho!!!
Sango sir's discussions are always fun and very good for progressive society,
always something to learn,
Very relevant topic. 100% agree with what you said.
I knew this before 10 yrs when i got married ..i told my parents firmly dont spend too much like they did during my elder brother marriage,
I always appreciated thier hard earned money n i told this to everyone that i want low key wedding
I got married 3 years ago and only 20 guests were invited in the wedding including our parents 😅. The marriage ceremony took place at a temple. No money exchange took place, only bare minimum gifts were exchanged between both the families. The money that was saved from the low cost marriage function was saved in the form of a plot which was given to my wife by her parents.
Lucky boy 😂
Bhai mere parents n bhi diya tha plot bt mere pati n bech k car le Li 😂 to show off
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Me toh Ghar pe biryani pakwake khiladuga walima me, nikah masjid me asar ki namaz ke baad... Mushkil se 3000 lagege baaki meher alag se dena padega woh excluded he shadi ke kharche se
bang on amit sir
as always
very practical advice
looking forward to see you settle in a foreign country by march next year 😅
Mere father ne khud hi bhai ki shadi me cost cutting kar di.
125 relatives ki jagah 100 kar diye. 😂
Car ki jagah Bus kar diya
Well said good topic raised by you and it should be done
Very correct and true.
Sir u always guide perfectly I follow u nd happy in life
guruji, i personally make a lot of my short notes on budget wedding tips and your channel is also the primary source of those, its my humble suggestion/idea that kindly bring a detailed webinar of 3 hr hours where you can teach the platinum members about how to become a "wedding consultant" catering to every budget needs in the bracket of 5 lac, 10 lac and 20 lac etc,
kindly share your views on my suggestion guruji,
love your content and will be joining your platinum membership soon!
sir apka baat akdam sahi hay. may bhi apne lie asa type he plan kiye hay.
Bahut Sahi baat apne kahi hai sirji💯
Thank you sir for clarity.
we did exactly same... no kiney from parents and only close frnds and relatives were invited tonour love marriage... and still i think that was best decision we made together.. proudly we could say what we did from our money and next year we booked our own villa 🎉🎉... we invested on panditji and photos ( no prewedding though 😅).. no court marriage , all dear ones were there and all rituals were performed 😀
Absolutely right ✅
You have explained very nicely. Practically it is true
Totally agree with this thought.
Guru ji aapne ek baat jo बोली @3:32-3:33 , आपके लिए और भी respect आ गयी .. सही में लड़के वाले especially , telling my real life experience .. पंडित जी को पैसे या दक्षिणा नहीं देंगे ठीक से और मंडप पर बहस करते हैं ..
Bilkul thik baat kahi...log sab dusre ko dekh ke kharcha Karter hain
Absolutely proper guidance 🙏धन्यवाद🙏🎉
I didn't understand y gurujii said ki parents ne pura shadi ka kharcha karna chaiye????
Yes very right
Money should be utilised properly. Wastage should be avoided
I agree.. Bilkul thek baat hai
Bilkul theek baat khi..and I mean it
Bilkul sahi baat kahi
Bilkul sahi baat kahi .❤
Spot on!!
Must needed gyan
guru ji bht shukriya for this video
Sahi kahaa Sir ❤
Excellent advice.
Great n very true
Thank You with Love sir🤝✨💝
Shadi me loan lekar kharcha karo ki dono ki zindagi emi chukane me lag jaye aur shadi tiki rage😅
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Right sir . mene bahut chaha ki mere bacho ki sadio simple ho lekin n bete ki shadi me suna gaya n beti ki shadi me dono ke sasural walo ne kaha hamari pahli shadi hai dhoom dham se karenge ab kahte hai itna paisa kharch ni karna chahiye tha.acthully bache bhi simple shadi ni chahte .
100 % agree with you sir !!!
Totally agree with you ji.
Sahi bat h Sir....
Bilkul sahi baat Guru Ji.............Zindabaad hai ji aapko Guru Ji
COVID vala example galat tha guruji, mere 2 friends ki hui dono ka yeh saal divorce ka case chal raha
Bilkul Sahi kaha hai Guruji ❤❤
Truee💯
sahi baat hai
Jio jio gurujii great advice will sure connect to ourselves
True that. I am unmarried but can say that I will save atleast 30 lacs by doing a private marriage. I am planning to put the saved money into mutual funds and good quality furniture and gold.
Uncle 2 jodo main ladki bhejo ladki hui hamari
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Accurate
Great content
Sir you are the ultimate clarity giver
Agree with your content 👍
Very true sir 🎉
I agree with what you say. Minimum expenditure on Marriage should be the norm.
Very True... Bilkul sahi hai...
Instead of performing lots of ceremonies for days, the families of bride and groom should select one perticular venue to perform all the ceremonies within that particular day and should split the bill of expenses.
Right advice
Absolutely right
100% sahi
100% agree with you sirji🙏
EXTREMELY GOOD. I'M GOING TO FOLLOW AT MAKE CHANGES IN MY FAMILY.
Guruji ap ki jai ho 🙏 apne charno mein naman 🙏🏻 hum Panditji ko shadi mein koi ruppey nahi deta 2100-3100 mein loog shadi kra lete hai 😭
100% true . Need to be clear on goals parents as well as the couple.
I did my register marriage and keep the money for life time mediclame policy premium.
genuinely correct thing.
Bilkul sahi baat kahi guruji