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To government aur private company to bohot zyada nichod leti hai. Father to phir bhi daya kha lega. Aur jin bachho mao exceptional koi skill hogi vo father k niche kaam karege hi nahi. Virat kohli. Apj abdul kalaam. Dhoni. Bohot sare log hai. Father k business mai ek comfort zone milta hai. Ye lalach bhi to hai.
Idk about others but my father told me all profit margins and how to manage staff, their salaries, he told me from where i can buy raw materials and apart if i get some personal orders he calls to his contacts and help me arrange the product and he allows me to use his labour for my clients. All of this just for one goal so that i could learn how to run a business. Sometimes he even pays money to buy the products and i sell those items on credit And i also use his space. Me n my wife stays in there house and we love to carter them
Very True; Narcissism is Very Normal in our society, Most Dramas and Movies teach narcissism as a Mahan Trait in Indian Society. We need to Educate, like guruji. This is not normal. Narcissistic abuse hurts our kids and makes them narcissistic to next generation. We need to STOP this Cycle, By Promoting BOUNDARIES in relationships… The General Older Indian parent need to understand, once the Kids get married; they become your extended Family. Even young person must Hold a Job for at least few years. Family business destroys the families in most cases.. kids need to know they must be independent ASAP; if you are 13 years old you still must learn how to make Some money on the side, like selling something online. Something very small is better than waiting to finish college and start life at 22-23. I went to work and started making little money at age 9
I agree I as parent and my child are working together I being on dominant side. Your views has opened My eyes. From tomarrow on ward i am going to pay 70 k per month to my child with freedom to stay with me in buisnesss or starting any his own set up. He is just 22 For last 3 year we are working together. He want to go to austrelia for his MBA Your views give me clarity and oppertunity to work upon myself as Better parent. Millions of thanks❤❤❤
15 se 35 साल mental टॉर्चर के बाद सर्च करते हुए narccisitic parentes के बारे में पढ़ा तो आंखे खुली, फिर आप मिले और 2 सालों की मेहनत के बाद मेंटल हेल्थ में 50% सुधार हुआ है। प्रीस्तितियां नही बदली पर attitude badla है।
Best video till now, my father own a bakery shop , in 2017 i left my job as a .net developer and came into the family business ( same thinking ki chla chlaya business hai , khud ka boss bnunga ) now its been 7 years and same thing’s happening which you mentioned in the video, still I remember those independent job days , weekend off , clubbing , shopping etc, now there is no weekend no off, just baithe raho galle pe, and confidence bhi lost hogya hai ab dobara job krne ka ..😢
@@RaJ2x4please don't join your family business until you have hotel's or any big business otherwise life jhand ho jayegi hmlogo ki tarah hmlog naukar robot slave bngye hai bhai khud se pyar kro ab selfish bn jao duniya Bahut MC hai sch me personal life kisi ke haatho me na jane do..
Sir, Pitaji chotu ki tarah treat karte hai. Unke mann par saap lootey hain when we take a break. Now Sir, we don't need anything emotionally, physically and financially from him. ❤
Bhai robot slave bngye hai aisha slave jisko monthly salary pocket money tak nhi milti na koi freedom na koi independence na koi privacy upar se joint family ka dukh aur hai mujhe
GuruJi jo ladke fase hue hain unke lie kya way out hai. Because abhi adhi life nikali hai and adhi to ache se nikalna chahta hu. Ek video ispe b bnado. May god give you a very healthy and long life as you are bringing out real problems of society which no one else is talking about.
I can relate so much to this video. Even though I was the one who came up with an idea and founded the business, did a lot of hard work initially to make it succeed when my family was in a financial turmoil and still do however all paper work got registered in my parent's name. I felt as if I was second class in my own business and now they've more part in it than me. Whatever I say isn't taken seriously only for them to realise later that I was right, until then they've burnt a lot of money. Have to ask for things as if I'm begging, can't travel for years although I made it clear for years. Now I'll just focus on my goal. Although I'll say my parents are still good compared to what you described in the video and want good for me, even if it means me doing something else. They couldn't see me as a founder and never even got equal respect. At the end they'll treat me like their son therefore I'll never get the same respect, money, value, status that I deserve. It also weakens the relation making it not worth it. Please make a video on whether one should stay in India to take care of their parents or go abroad for better future. On the flip side the son/ daughter also might get some care from their parents which they won't abroad.
Aapane bilkul sahi Kaha Ghar Ke business ke Karan Ham abhi tak Kuchh Nahin Kar Paye mere husband 50 sal ke hone ke a gaye lekin Koi savings Nahin Hai sasur Ji Ne business ko apney under mai rekha hu hai
Are same meri bua ke husband ke saath hua hai unke sasur abhi tak jinda hai business bhi apne haath me leke rkha hai unke husband ko bhi buisness ka malik nhi bnnn e de rhe aur unke beta jo ab 23 saal ka hogya hai uski life bhi jhand krne me lage hue hai bhai kbhi kbhi lgta hai business family curse hai
Agar buisness poori tareke se bete ko mile tabhi kro warna nhi wo bas yhi bolte rhenge ki sab kuch tumhara hai but actually me yhi bolke bccho ko manipulate kr diya jata hai phir hm jaise bcche marne lgte hai 😢
Sir, Marawaris & Gujrathis kaise handle karate hai bachcha ko aise situation mai, aur generation to generations kaise business age leke jate hai espe video banaye pl. Ku ki ye situation vaha bhi hogi.
In gujarat and generally one child is sent to usa or European union for export and all and if siblings depending upon abilities subsidiary banadi jaati hai
Bhai bccho ko manipulate Kiya jata hai brainwash krke unko business me FSA diya jata hai mere saath yhi hua jab bhi mujhko order marte hai bas mn me thi hota hai bolne ka ki mai tera naukar nhi hu smjha aur esko bol bhi nhi skte
Mere saath bhi 😭😭 mera doctor bn eka sapna tha mera padhai churwa diya jabardasti business me include Kiya aur ab Naukar bngya hu unka bas monthly salary ya pagar ya pocket money kuch bhi nahi dete na car chalane ki permission na kuch n akhi aao na khi jao sirf enhi logo ke aage peechhe ghumo mere dost log job leke life enjoy kr rhe atleast independent freedom hai unke pass apan toh bas naukar robot slave bngye hai
Mera dost h uske papa ki ki company h,ek din uske gar gya to dekha maine jaise uske papa aye wo and uski mummy kaapne lage ,haye papa aa gaye haye papa aa gaye,ye kam karo wo kaam karo...baap k chahre pe bhi stress ki power stres h ,sala uske baap ate hi sab ki tight hogi 😢
@@lokeshjani are yaar mujhko problem nhi hai dad ke business se but I don't want to live the joint family of my dad,all are toxic, my grandmother is the main problem with whom I don't want to live but my dad is the sharvan Kumar for him who cares her very much and he's a donkey for him whatever she says my dad follow it gadho ki tarah aur mere dad ko dikhta bhi nhi hai kaise wo unki budhiya amma meri ,meri maa bhno ki jindgi me aag lga ke rkhi hui hai bchpn se mai usko jhela hu but aur nhi jhel skta mar jaunga bc lekin mai eske saath nhi rhunga mai chahta hu ki mai dad mom alag rhe hai alag business ho alag ghr ho lekin mere dad joint family se niklna nhi chah rhe and I don't want to live there 😭
Ekdam sahi baat kar rahe Mere brother ne bhi papa ka kaam nahi kiya usne apna alag business kiya usi field main jisse papa aur bhai dono ka mutual benifits thy.. Papa ghar chalate thy aur bhai property banaya jisse rent mile aur factory lagayi.. Aaj 45 age main sub independent bana chuka set business, different source of income.
Mere papa ka business tha 2 crore turnover ka. Maine join Kiya. Par mai nikal gya usme se. 50k pm ki job karne lag gya. Never join father's business. Ghulaam ban jaoge.
Can i talk to you in person, facing same issue, and few days left to choose, family business or job and between Nashik/mumbai Dad has 2cr turn over business, and If I do job I get 50 K totally confused Whats your current status?
@@RaJ2x4 my father had business with 2 crore turnover. But living under father in professional life is not a good choice. I joined government job with 50000 in hand salary. As we live in Village 50k is not a bad salary.
Bhai galti se bhi father's business mat karna ..... Coz their is always a difference.....u both cud be good enough for the world but their will always be a clash ..... It sucks ....my 10 year experience..... Ab chah kar bhi nahi chhod sakta .....
@@PAPA.-_RANJEET69 thank for rply ek aur rasta nikla hai , mere dad ke shop ke pass hamara ek aur shop hai , vo vacent hai , kya miane waha apna kud ka business start kar lena cheye ,, , whaha papa interfer nai kar paaegey , ye kia toh after 10 years shop ke good will waha transfer ho jaye and jo baap dad ka mehnat hai business mai vo waisete na ho ,, ye fir job lelu
Mere saath same hua hai ,ab toh mera career bhi barbaad kr diya mere dad ne .. 😢 mai pora gulam bnke rah gya unke business me .. mujhko manipulate kiya ki mujhe tumhari jarurat hai but wo mujhko apna slave bna kr rakh diye mujhe toh salary bhi nhi milti na din ke 100 rupya bhi nhi milte na Mai mangta hu na wo mere account me paise dalte hai .. poori life kharab kr diya unhone ghr pe car hai wo bhi chlane ko nhi dete sirf aur upar se joint family hai mai aur jaan ka dushman bna hua ye joint family mere dad ke business me uncle bhi involve hai pta nhi kya soch ke mere dad ne meri life kharab kr dii sirf business ka khud Malik bnne ke chakkar me
In traditional business communities as well, now children are encouraged to start something on own . Guidance is given till established well. Many changes are due to marriage market. Today,nobody can rely on family/business name alone.
You are absolutely right! I have seen two brothers completely destroyed by the father’s ego. Although I have seen this happens less if both parents and sons are educated and have tech and managerial acumen.
Father's investment and expertise can work as a spring board for the child. I know many business families where the business has grown with family members working together. All have designated areas of work, decision making and pay.
@@सक्षम-मराठी true, but I think this video gives a good perspective to father's so that they do not mistreat their children sometimes unknowingly because children don't realise or just don't speak up. I still believe a father easing their children into their business is the best option but both should be aware of the pitfalls.
ID, absolutely correct.. A point to be added the beti of the family ko bhi advantage milta hai and they treat and turn around the suitation she as per her choice, if bahu beta revolt they are asked to leave the house stating this is our house we are malik...
Please make a video on parenting. Many parents who were low income which now have accumulated good wealth don't want to give its exposure to child because they think that money can spoil the kids and the child will not do hard work
After working for more than 20 years as an independent professional, I joined my father's business and think that I have done a blunder. Even at 75 he is so controlling and has made situation for every one in my family including my brothers very suffocating
Father's business vs job abroad ... which one ..one is already established and in abroad everything has to start from zero ...but quality of life ..is good there ..🤔🤔🤔
Sir, this episode is completely resembling 100% to me, all business and property given to younger brother and suffering lot now at present time suit filed for property rights, FIR for house hold things. Please answer to my question ,what I will do next ?
ID ,,,, ID ,,,, ID ,,,,, your each and every word ID ,,,, ID ,,,, ID ! But big unanswered question is : at the age of 33 ,,, still being a chotu,,, What to do ???????
The pitaji should make the son(s) to have a short internship. Once the boy(s) start handling the business or defined aspects, turn the firm into a partnership or corporatise. With pre/re defined responsibilities and kras. Pay salaries commensurating with the tasks. And ensure harmony and eventually only be a mentor.
Yes there are narcissistic parents for their own selfish needs they are not allowing growth of their son Dominant mother in law controlling her husband , both having pension to their accounts.son thinking as I am only son will get all the property,but from backside husband's sister extracting money. Don't allowing son to far away, as parents want on call driver, servant in their son
@@RaJ2x4 no , it's the parents will, they can give whatever to their daughter In this case husband's sister is currently in her second marriage, her husband doesn't bother about her, so she had ivf and had a child,she is permanently living at her mother's house since 3 years in excuse of baby , baby is 2 years old, her husband living in Bangalore And he shamelessly asks 60,000 rupees in short notice And this mother gives money as she has fear that since it's my daughter's second marriage and what if this second husband also runs away
ID my dad did not teach me about his business and when I set out to do my own work he expected me to earn more than the business my grandfather had built
Thank you Sir....I am the victim of such situation and over the period of time business of my parents collapsed...... because I was just managing the things properly and my younger brother was productive only without managing skills at all.
Best way is property aur aise narrisist parents ko bye bye bolo aur aapne raste chalo.. chahe mehal se zopde mein aajao... Lekin this is the best advice.
Koi mere papa bhi muhje business sahi se nahi sikhaya, lekin unki sabhi conversation sun sun ke mene 1 year me pura business mere surrounding le liya although I am not angry on my father, he gives me whatever amount of money I want and he trust me on my decision ❤️
Yeh sirf apne se pehle wali generation ki problem hai, I being 27 feel that hum and aage aane wali generation aisa nai karegi, we are open-minded and practical. Neither we seek sympathy nor are we willing to give it. Calmness, composure and mutual respect hai hamari generation mein especially if not raised in a joint family, varna emotional drama and befizul ki sense of responsibility jagate hain and dramebazzi mein fasate hain.
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Yes, when a son works for father....father doesn't pay whether in farming or business 😅😅
🤣🤣🤣
To government aur private company to bohot zyada nichod leti hai. Father to phir bhi daya kha lega. Aur jin bachho mao exceptional koi skill hogi vo father k niche kaam karege hi nahi. Virat kohli. Apj abdul kalaam. Dhoni. Bohot sare log hai. Father k business mai ek comfort zone milta hai. Ye lalach bhi to hai.
Sabse complex problem tab aati hai jab bola jaata hai ki yeh business ne hi tujhe paal pos ke bada kia hai
Ha bhai emotional damage dete hai😢
Idk about others
but my father told me all profit margins and how to manage staff, their salaries, he told me from where i can buy raw materials and apart if i get some personal orders he calls to his contacts and help me arrange the product and he allows me to use his labour for my clients. All of this just for one goal so that i could learn how to run a business. Sometimes he even pays money to buy the products and i sell those items on credit
And i also use his space. Me n my wife stays in there house and we love to carter them
This can only happen in baniya family. This video is not for your community. You are fortunate.
Sir , irony is that hamare country mein parents ko bhagwan bana diya hai and nobody can say anything to them .
Sabse pehle to mujhe samjhna pada atithi devo bhava nahi hota.
How you behave with any guest they behave same with you when you visit thrm as guest @@prateek0710
Very True; Narcissism is Very Normal in our society, Most Dramas and Movies teach narcissism as a Mahan Trait in Indian Society.
We need to Educate, like guruji. This is not normal. Narcissistic abuse hurts our kids and makes them narcissistic to next generation.
We need to STOP this Cycle, By Promoting BOUNDARIES in relationships…
The General Older Indian parent need to understand, once the Kids get married; they become your extended Family.
Even young person must Hold a Job for at least few years.
Family business destroys the families in most cases..
kids need to know they must be independent ASAP; if you are 13 years old you still must learn how to make Some money on the side, like selling something online.
Something very small is better than waiting to finish college and start life at 22-23.
I went to work and started making little money at age 9
I agree
I as parent and my child are working together
I being on dominant side.
Your views has opened
My eyes.
From tomarrow on ward i am going to pay
70 k per month to my child with freedom to stay with me in buisnesss or starting any his own set up.
He is just 22
For last 3 year we are working together.
He want to go to austrelia for his MBA
Your views give me clarity and oppertunity to work upon myself as
Better parent.
Millions of thanks❤❤❤
Such a great man u r .. impossible to believe ... outstanding that u understood the problem great
Good❤
15 se 35 साल mental टॉर्चर के बाद सर्च करते हुए narccisitic parentes के बारे में पढ़ा तो आंखे खुली, फिर आप मिले और 2 सालों की मेहनत के बाद मेंटल हेल्थ में 50% सुधार हुआ है। प्रीस्तितियां नही बदली पर attitude badla है।
Keep going
All the best
Best video till now, my father own a bakery shop , in 2017 i left my job as a .net developer and came into the family business ( same thinking ki chla chlaya business hai , khud ka boss bnunga ) now its been 7 years and same thing’s happening which you mentioned in the video, still I remember those independent job days , weekend off , clubbing , shopping etc, now there is no weekend no off, just baithe raho galle pe, and confidence bhi lost hogya hai ab dobara job krne ka ..😢
Can i talk to you in person, facing same issue, and few days left to choose, family business or job and between Nashik /mumbai
@@RaJ2x4please don't join your family business until you have hotel's or any big business otherwise life jhand ho jayegi hmlogo ki tarah hmlog naukar robot slave bngye hai bhai khud se pyar kro ab selfish bn jao duniya Bahut MC hai sch me personal life kisi ke haatho me na jane do..
Sir, Pitaji chotu ki tarah treat karte hai. Unke mann par saap lootey hain when we take a break. Now Sir, we don't need anything emotionally, physically and financially from him. ❤
Bhai robot slave bngye hai aisha slave jisko monthly salary pocket money tak nhi milti na koi freedom na koi independence na koi privacy upar se joint family ka dukh aur hai mujhe
GuruJi jo ladke fase hue hain unke lie kya way out hai. Because abhi adhi life nikali hai and adhi to ache se nikalna chahta hu. Ek video ispe b bnado. May god give you a very healthy and long life as you are bringing out real problems of society which no one else is talking about.
Loved the case study..... it is a reality for many ...thank you for bringing clarity
ID. Plz continue case studies they are real mirror of our society 🙏
I can relate so much to this video. Even though I was the one who came up with an idea and founded the business, did a lot of hard work initially to make it succeed when my family was in a financial turmoil and still do however all paper work got registered in my parent's name. I felt as if I was second class in my own business and now they've more part in it than me. Whatever I say isn't taken seriously only for them to realise later that I was right, until then they've burnt a lot of money. Have to ask for things as if I'm begging, can't travel for years although I made it clear for years. Now I'll just focus on my goal. Although I'll say my parents are still good compared to what you described in the video and want good for me, even if it means me doing something else. They couldn't see me as a founder and never even got equal respect. At the end they'll treat me like their son therefore I'll never get the same respect, money, value, status that I deserve. It also weakens the relation making it not worth it. Please make a video on whether one should stay in India to take care of their parents or go abroad for better future. On the flip side the son/ daughter also might get some care from their parents which they won't abroad.
Same condition with Me
I left my parents for teaching
Father ki samjhdari hi esme rol karti he
YES, please....Case study continue rehna chahiye.....
Aap ne bilkul sach kaha sir
Aapane bilkul sahi Kaha Ghar Ke business ke Karan Ham abhi tak Kuchh Nahin Kar Paye mere husband 50 sal ke hone ke a gaye lekin Koi savings Nahin Hai sasur Ji Ne business ko apney under mai rekha hu hai
sad😂
Are same meri bua ke husband ke saath hua hai unke sasur abhi tak jinda hai business bhi apne haath me leke rkha hai unke husband ko bhi buisness ka malik nhi bnnn e de rhe aur unke beta jo ab 23 saal ka hogya hai uski life bhi jhand krne me lage hue hai bhai kbhi kbhi lgta hai business family curse hai
I think jab parents achhe ho, aur business sikha ke bcche ko pura business de de chalane ke liye to koi problem nahi aati.
Aati hai baccha sab brbaad kr deta hai...
In my opinion yeh sab opposite hota hai, jaisa Maine aas pass dekha hai, bachche father ko discard kar dete hai. Business sara betey ka ho jata hai
khi baap bura khi beta
Agar buisness poori tareke se bete ko mile tabhi kro warna nhi wo bas yhi bolte rhenge ki sab kuch tumhara hai but actually me yhi bolke bccho ko manipulate kr diya jata hai phir hm jaise bcche marne lgte hai 😢
Sir, Marawaris & Gujrathis kaise handle karate hai bachcha ko aise situation mai, aur generation to generations kaise business age leke jate hai espe video banaye pl. Ku ki ye situation vaha bhi hogi.
Nation wants to know
change horaha hai yeh bhi
@sangolifesutras plz make a video on this too...
In gujarat and generally one child is sent to usa or European union for export and all and if siblings depending upon abilities subsidiary banadi jaati hai
Bhai bccho ko manipulate Kiya jata hai brainwash krke unko business me FSA diya jata hai mere saath yhi hua jab bhi mujhko order marte hai bas mn me thi hota hai bolne ka ki mai tera naukar nhi hu smjha aur esko bol bhi nhi skte
Mere saath bilkul Esa hi hua hai sir jindgi kharaab hai
Kya hua tha apke sath
Mere saath bhi 😭😭 mera doctor bn eka sapna tha mera padhai churwa diya jabardasti business me include Kiya aur ab Naukar bngya hu unka bas monthly salary ya pagar ya pocket money kuch bhi nahi dete na car chalane ki permission na kuch n akhi aao na khi jao sirf enhi logo ke aage peechhe ghumo mere dost log job leke life enjoy kr rhe atleast independent freedom hai unke pass apan toh bas naukar robot slave bngye hai
@@abhaysoni926 same here bro. But i am 24 years old so thinking to change course of my life by joining a job.
Mera dost h uske papa ki ki company h,ek din uske gar gya to dekha maine jaise uske papa aye wo and uski mummy kaapne lage ,haye papa aa gaye haye papa aa gaye,ye kam karo wo kaam karo...baap k chahre pe bhi stress ki power stres h ,sala uske baap ate hi sab ki tight hogi 😢
Bahut se family ki yhi khane hai 😅
TITLE- 1] BETA BAAP KA GULAAM BNE YA DUNIYA KA
2] FAMILY BUSINESS KA HIDDEN DUKH
3] LAALA KE BETE KA DUKH -DARD -PIIDA
Laala ka bete ka dukh hm jaise log hi smjh skte hai kyuki mai khud seth ka beta hu jo ab naukar robot bngya hu unka
@@abhaysoni926 kaha se ho bhai aap?
@lokeshjani up Lucknow
@@lokeshjani are yaar mujhko problem nhi hai dad ke business se but I don't want to live the joint family of my dad,all are toxic, my grandmother is the main problem with whom I don't want to live but my dad is the sharvan Kumar for him who cares her very much and he's a donkey for him whatever she says my dad follow it gadho ki tarah aur mere dad ko dikhta bhi nhi hai kaise wo unki budhiya amma meri ,meri maa bhno ki jindgi me aag lga ke rkhi hui hai bchpn se mai usko jhela hu but aur nhi jhel skta mar jaunga bc lekin mai eske saath nhi rhunga mai chahta hu ki mai dad mom alag rhe hai alag business ho alag ghr ho lekin mere dad joint family se niklna nhi chah rhe and I don't want to live there 😭
Ekdam sahi baat kar rahe
Mere brother ne bhi papa ka kaam nahi kiya usne apna alag business kiya usi field main jisse papa aur bhai dono ka mutual benifits thy.. Papa ghar chalate thy aur bhai property banaya jisse rent mile aur factory lagayi.. Aaj 45 age main sub independent bana chuka set business, different source of income.
Mere papa ka business tha 2 crore turnover ka. Maine join Kiya. Par mai nikal gya usme se. 50k pm ki job karne lag gya. Never join father's business. Ghulaam ban jaoge.
Can i talk to you in person, facing same issue, and few days left to choose, family business or job and between Nashik/mumbai
Dad has 2cr turn over business, and If I do job I get 50 K totally confused
Whats your current status?
@@RaJ2x4 my father had business with 2 crore turnover. But living under father in professional life is not a good choice. I joined government job with 50000 in hand salary. As we live in Village 50k is not a bad salary.
Bhai galti se bhi father's business mat karna .....
Coz their is always a difference.....u both cud be good enough for the world but their will always be a clash .....
It sucks ....my 10 year experience.....
Ab chah kar bhi nahi chhod sakta .....
@@PAPA.-_RANJEET69 thank for rply
ek aur rasta nikla hai ,
mere dad ke shop ke pass hamara ek aur shop hai , vo vacent hai ,
kya miane waha apna kud ka business start kar lena cheye ,, , whaha papa interfer nai kar paaegey , ye kia toh after 10 years shop ke good will waha transfer ho jaye and jo baap dad ka mehnat hai business mai vo waisete na ho ,, ye fir job lelu
Mere saath same hua hai ,ab toh mera career bhi barbaad kr diya mere dad ne .. 😢 mai pora gulam bnke rah gya unke business me .. mujhko manipulate kiya ki mujhe tumhari jarurat hai but wo mujhko apna slave bna kr rakh diye mujhe toh salary bhi nhi milti na din ke 100 rupya bhi nhi milte na Mai mangta hu na wo mere account me paise dalte hai .. poori life kharab kr diya unhone ghr pe car hai wo bhi chlane ko nhi dete sirf aur upar se joint family hai mai aur jaan ka dushman bna hua ye joint family mere dad ke business me uncle bhi involve hai pta nhi kya soch ke mere dad ne meri life kharab kr dii sirf business ka khud Malik bnne ke chakkar me
In traditional business communities as well, now children are encouraged to start something on own . Guidance is given till established well. Many changes are due to marriage market. Today,nobody can rely on family/business name alone.
You are absolutely right! I have seen two brothers completely destroyed by the father’s ego. Although I have seen this happens less if both parents and sons are educated and have tech and managerial acumen.
Jab sector mei business hai uss sector mei job karo 5-10 saal
Taki exposure mile
Timely video. Gives a lot of clarity. Thank you sir. Have great Sunday.
Father's investment and expertise can work as a spring board for the child.
I know many business families where the business has grown with family members working together. All have designated areas of work, decision making and pay.
@@सक्षम-मराठी true, but I think this video gives a good perspective to father's so that they do not mistreat their children sometimes unknowingly because children don't realise or just don't speak up. I still believe a father easing their children into their business is the best option but both should be aware of the pitfalls.
We need more people like you
sahi kha sir...mere khud ke aisa he case hai...khud ke bete bahu ko naukar ke tara treat karte hai
Sir great information, we need more videos in this topic , very factual
ID, absolutely correct.. A point to be added the beti of the family ko bhi advantage milta hai and they treat and turn around the suitation she as per her choice, if bahu beta revolt they are asked to leave the house stating this is our house we are malik...
Best video & advice.....word to word true
Id
Please make a video on parenting. Many parents who were low income which now have accumulated good wealth don't want to give its exposure to child because they think that money can spoil the kids and the child will not do hard work
They dont trust the upbringing and schooling they gave their children ... they believe their child will be the most spoilt in the whole neighbourhood.
Salute for discussing such issues
धंधे की आत्मा लेकिन पिता परमात्मा😊
I love what you said, from Pakistan.
Another awesome video guruji 👍
Deeply insightful🙏
Thank You so very much sir🙏😇
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Good you are talking about narcism
Father's business vs jobs abroad
Job khi bhi kro India ya abroad bas naukar na bnnna apne baap ka jo hm jaiso ke saath ho rha hai tum mt fsna esme
One of your finest videos. Absolutely spot on. Seen this with all my cousins
ID .... Or jab mere haath me sab kuch ayeg tab Tak mai khud adhed Umar ka ho jaaunga... Tab business bada karne ka Naa man hoga na energy
Aapki baat 100%sahi h sir ,beta dhande me noker aur bahurani is treated like noukrani
Very apt and to the point
You are absolutely right ❤❤❤
I completely agree with what you said. 💯
गुरुजी आप तो ऐसा ऐसा content लाते हो मज़ा ही आ जाता हैं
What a topic sir. Great.
Without experience 60,70,80 hzar ki naukari😂😂😂 what a joke
After working for more than 20 years as an independent professional, I joined my father's business and think that I have done a blunder. Even at 75 he is so controlling and has made situation for every one in my family including my brothers very suffocating
Haha..Wo khud kisi Ko Koi Bhi Kaam Nahn Kerne denge.. Uska Ilzaam bhi AP PE hi lagainge
100% agree with you guruji
True to the core
Golden Words 😢
😂😂😊😊😊 sahi hai sir
100% true guruji
Currently seeing narcissistic parents in our society how both are destroying sons second marriage as well😢 as
I D ..relatable in every household 👍
OMG...as a naukriwala ye to pata hi nahi tha....feeling so sad for that guy working in father's business
I can relate with this situation.
Excellent 🎉🎉🎉😂😂
Father's business vs job abroad ... which one ..one is already established and in abroad everything has to start from zero ...but quality of life ..is good there ..🤔🤔🤔
Sir, this episode is completely resembling 100% to me, all business and property given to younger brother and suffering lot now at present time suit filed for property rights, FIR for house hold things. Please answer to my question ,what I will do next ?
Guruji tells harsh truth ....that's why I respect you sir❤
100% CORRECT
ID ,,,, ID ,,,, ID ,,,,, your each and every word ID ,,,, ID ,,,, ID !
But big unanswered question is : at the age of 33 ,,, still being a chotu,,, What to do ???????
hi ...same situation of my husband
The pitaji should make the son(s) to have a short internship. Once the boy(s) start handling the business or defined aspects, turn the firm into a partnership or corporatise. With pre/re defined responsibilities and kras. Pay salaries commensurating with the tasks. And ensure harmony and eventually only be a mentor.
Yes there are narcissistic parents for their own selfish needs they are not allowing growth of their son
Dominant mother in law controlling her husband , both having pension to their accounts.son thinking as I am only son will get all the property,but from backside husband's sister extracting money.
Don't allowing son to far away, as parents want on call driver, servant in their son
Can we stop sister from extracting money legally?
@@RaJ2x4 no , it's the parents will, they can give whatever to their daughter
In this case husband's sister is currently in her second marriage, her husband doesn't bother about her, so she had ivf and had a child,she is permanently living at her mother's house since 3 years in excuse of baby , baby is 2 years old, her husband living in Bangalore
And he shamelessly asks 60,000 rupees in short notice
And this mother gives money as she has fear that since it's my daughter's second marriage and what if this second husband also runs away
Better the son stands in his own leg s even his salary is less than staying with the narcissist father's business
@@jp6838 exactly 100%' true
Myself 34 now. Sir kya jab humm buddhe ho jaayenge toh hum bhi aise dhoort aur girra hua act karrenge ???
Yes you have no option
You are absolutely right sir. Nobody has had the guts to talk about it
100 % correct...
Guru ji good 👍 advice
100 % TRUE GUIDANCE. NOT ANY ONE SUGGESTION.ALL ASPECTS COVERED.
ID my dad did not teach me about his business and when I set out to do my own work he expected me to earn more than the business my grandfather had built
True. Seen this.
Very informative
Sir humare saath ise bhi bura hua hai humare apne business main bhi bhaut interfere raha hai father ka
Sir your sessions are really good...and practical...thank you for all these sessions.
Nicely explained
I am a lucky one ❤
Thank you sir hame guide karne k liye thank u 🙏 so much
Best scenario is when the farher empowers the child to grow,steps back a little and has clear cut distribution of work and profits
Sir mutual understanding is the only key and elders are responsible for that.
Thank you Sir....I am the victim of such situation and over the period of time business of my parents collapsed...... because I was just managing the things properly and my younger brother was productive only without managing skills at all.
Best way is property aur aise narrisist parents ko bye bye bolo aur aapne raste chalo.. chahe mehal se zopde mein aajao... Lekin this is the best advice.
Sir,
Thank you.
Respect and wishes from Lahore Pakistan.
💯 id...my past.... At present it is second marriage after divorce
Koi mere papa bhi muhje business sahi se nahi sikhaya, lekin unki sabhi conversation sun sun ke mene 1 year me pura business mere surrounding le liya although I am not angry on my father, he gives me whatever amount of money I want and he trust me on my decision ❤️
Uncle g ap topic bda hi unique aur sochne pr majboor krne vala chunte ho
Id bahut aache case study h sir please karte rahe
I agree
A son should work independently for atleast a decade to understand duniyadari before joining family business
Isi mai toh maza hai sir jab khandani kaam milta h toh maza he alg hai mai 3 gen ka hu jo khandani kaam sambal rha hu or proud feel hota h
True
Very true
Reality
Kash ye video aapne 11 saal pehle share kiya hota
Yeh sirf apne se pehle wali generation ki problem hai, I being 27 feel that hum and aage aane wali generation aisa nai karegi, we are open-minded and practical. Neither we seek sympathy nor are we willing to give it. Calmness, composure and mutual respect hai hamari generation mein especially if not raised in a joint family, varna emotional drama and befizul ki sense of responsibility jagate hain and dramebazzi mein fasate hain.