I am 26 year old, not yet married. But still I watch your each video and like it so that I can show it to my future partner and work on it. Big help Sirji.. Ye sbhi bate Krna 100% zaroori hai.. You are helping the society..
I was almost teary when u mentioned that working women are being judged everywhere and honestly, not just by others, constant self blame that am unable to raise my child properly.. at the start of video I was bit repulsive to the idea that woman like to spend on things that they can tag.. but as the video continued.. I’d say I am in agreement to a larger percentage (still not 100%).. this video gave me some insight into how some of the relationships (acquaintances) are troubled, and I immediately shared the video.. thanks for this wonderful eye opener.
Yes I completely agree with you that women are judged everywhere they go...and also they never get credit or appreciation of what they do or bring to the table...
I am depressed and want to quit my job because my husband spend all his money on my in laws even they earn a lot, and he expect me to save my earnings for our future and kid . He dont want to spend his money on me.
U can talk and discuss with him politely and please don't quit ur job mam ..every problem have a solution, u just have to be found which u already done , now it's only need to work on it and resolve it as soon as possible. 👍
Gold nuggets. There should be a mandatory pre - wedding course for marital counselling, behaviour, expectations, rights as well as duties which make can work as a launchpad for a successful marriage towards 99% relationships.
India me aise nai hota h. Agar divorce hota h to wife ko bas maintenance amount milta h na ki 50%. Isliye women jyada concerned rehti hain about money kyunki ek insecurity hoti h future ko lekar. Agar aap apne ghar ke liye time effort sab dein career ko neglect karke and ek din after divorce aap kahin ke nahi raho sab choot jaaye.
This is the first time I am hearing someone appreciating women's struggle with the menustrial cycle and harmonal changes. Thank you so much for mentioning it.
My case- I & my wife were both working & earn joint annual salary of more than ₹75 lacs per annum. However she doesn't want to spend anything, she wanted me to buy a new house & manage household expenses entirely without any contribution. I don't expect her to support me financially but for bigger expenses like house purchase it's expected that she supports me financially. She & her parents expect that since I am husband, it's only my responsibility to manage house while her money is only for herself. This situation surely makes me insecure specially with Indian legal system which is skewed towards females. Situation became so worse, we tried a lot to solve it but it didn't work out. Finally we have parted & moved seperate in life..
@@cauliflowerhead2735 you could have been right had you not assumed that she would be earning lesser while keeping your feminist mindset aside. Indeed you could have asked if you required clarity rather than inconveniently judging. Now that we both earn almost equally why is it wrong for her to contribute for home purchase which she & her parents were pressuring me into? Her parents visited my place before marriage and should have pointed out any concerns then rather than cribbing post marriage. They want us to move to a bigger better place without support is total hypocrisy. Plus with our great Indian legal system, i could have been doomed if I had invested alone... Indian rules unfortunately are completely one-sided which doesn't give any confidence...
Today the men calculate the entire earnings of wife and expect her to give it entirely to them for investing in accordance with their wishes (basically property under their control). They want an independent woman to become so dependent that she even buys a saree with his consent. It’s very strange and honestly dangerous.
Exactly same thing happened with me he bought a plot with my money. And had extramarital affair with maid. He beated me .got me out from the rented house. Now I am living in working women hostel . He enjoys with the maid and snatched plot also.
@@Raythelightlife yes he should contribute but not mandatory that it will be equally. Both should be discuss and based on their feasibility they can manage. It's marriage and relationship and not a contract. If you are having such thinking, you shouldn't marry and leave your life freely.
Sir, I feel businessman misuse and does not respect salary of wife. They divert their gains again in business or spend on parents/siblings/niece/nephew to show off and enjoy credit and attention they get. The working lady runs the house, manages expenses of kids and totally at loss be it physically, mentally or financially. They also put savings of wife to recover business loss.
This can happen with men in good jobs earning high income and leading a life of glamour and glitter partying and pubbing. Possible that some women do it too.
I used to spend all my money earlier on household expenditure but after seeing your video my wife has realised her responsibility and now sharing some part of her income. Her money is her money but she should atleast tell where it is going.
Very relevant , practical video....patiyoN ke dil bade hote hain....apni poori salary housewife ke hath pe rakh dete hain..,. working women Kam hi aisa kar pati hai....but what u said make a lot of sense...focus should be building up a beautiful relationship
But sir still there are few points which you need to discuss. Agar wife working hai to husband Ghar kharch bhi wife ko dena band kar dete hai kyu phele k time me aisa nhi hota tha.
Guru ji... kya ker rahe ho?🙏🙏 So much gyan and clarity in a single video, that every couple should watch and make implementation in their life. It can release so much stress from your family and make you and your partner relax and more trustworthy. I have to watch it 2 or 3 times more so that I be able to grasp all points and to understand how our emotions play out here... Once again thank you for such a masterpiece 🎉🎉
My cousin is a govt clerk and earns 30k/40k but his wife is an engineer and earns 1.2lac. but the issue is the wife has to work 24hrs - cooking and managing the household with a toddler and again has to work at office. And brother threatened his wife and kept her ATM with him and told her not to spend a single penny.
@@AnkkitKumarr people like her exist too. Bas baat ye hein ki meri bhabi is a good and sweet person or Mera Bhai kamina hein. They were in love to usne shadi karli or abhi uska ek baccha bhi hein to wo nhi choregi usko as we think. Baki bad ka nhi pata.
Good insight Sir! Kindly cover the aspect of husbands habitual of giving small and big amounts on debts to relatives without sharing with the spouse. When the greedy relatives do not return, he start squeezing house expenses somehow to manage, as pocket is one or sometimes keeps extracting from her savings too. Else stress to tolerate within family but show off outside that financial soundness.
Are sir ke kehne se konsa Maan jaayenge mere papa bhi same krte h apni beti ke course ke liye paise nhi diye but rishtedar ki beti ke liye udhaar de diya 10x amount, ab Roz gaali dete h kya krlo unka
Ladkiya zyada hushiyar banne ke chakkar mein apni marriage break kar leti hn rishta pura khrab kar leta hn pyar ki jagha vyar karne lagti hn ...aur kahi bar ye sab ladki ke ghar wale sikhate hn
Wonderful video totally bang on. I totally agree with uncle. One point you didn't cover is what to do when husband and wife work in family business and husband doesn't give neither salary nor pocket money and nor fixed monthly house expenses. All what he says is maanglo. In today's world if both are equally educated and earning in same business and if you everytime ask and not able to get basic expenses and wife is compromising in each and everything and husband spends lavishly without discussing then you feel you are in trap.
As for money,Husbands should hide a portion of their incomes. As for emotions, Don't open up yourself fully. Everything starts with a GREAT PROMISE. If it's not needed, then great but if ever there comes a time when everything crumbles then that will be your insurance. Don't expect our legal system to do justice. You have to do it yourself. Countries don't fight each other everyday but that doesn't stop them from making sophisticated weapons and missiles. Just in case...
In my case mere husband money nahi dette..but big big spending btta dete hai ..mai gar ke sare spending detail batane me fail ho jate hu...aur bevakoof ka tag mil jata hai
Yahi to trick hai admiyon ki Financially dependent rakho mahila ko Meri mom k sath bhi yehi hua hai Finally mom ne paisa lena hi chor diya, jo kharcha karna hai papa karte hain But usse life me peace aur sukun to nahi rehta kisike
Hello sir, I have started watching your videos since a week or so.... and most of your videos feel like my thoughts are coming out of your mouth. I can relate to all your videos. Thank god, that finally someone (especially someone like you, who is so experienced and well read) is putting it out there cz when I said such things among my family and friends, everybody just dissed me.
This is a very important topic sir Sir thank you for this video 🙏 Money issues are very sensitive topic Between newly married couples because of money issues fights and arguments take place..
Though all your videos are addictive but this is one of the best one. Spot on, to the point and reality of Indian society today. Please make more on barabar karna syndrome ek bete se nikal kar dusre ko bharna
@@geetharavi25, if parents have two or more children and one of them is doing well in life financially and other one is not so good, parents always try to balance financial disparity by giving larger part of their asset to the child who is not so well off. This causes great strain in relationship among siblings and parents. In Hindi it is called BARABAR karna
You clear our thoughts so minutely ki jisko bta rahe ye hona chahiye he is be like yar terko to bahut knowledge hai kaffi research kar rakhi hai m aaise follow sango 😂
sir..paisa dono kaa hai...main thing which is absent since past 3-4 decades is trust faith among couples...u do as many vidoes as possible, but when it comes to money, none of partner will reveal his/her real salary and investments..its just because of lack of trust and future insecuities..if possible make video as to how this trust issue is to be sorted out..then eerything else will fall at its place automatically..this is kalyug sir...its not that easy to trust anybody...blind folded trust should exist among each couple sir..which is next to impossible in this kalyug sir.
In my case its totally different. My husband wants everything to be 50-50... We share house rent and bills exact 50-50. But he is not interested to buy basic necessary foods like fish meat etc...everytime i have to push him...i buy groceries and everyday foods. So it goes on like 70-30. Here i have to pay 70. Coz he doesnt buy any regular staffs for me or for home...he never brings anythjng special for me...i do...i spend...so in a way all his money is being spent and my whole salary gets finished every month...more on he doesnt help me with house chores as well...tell me how to solve this prpblem
I implemented this in my family, 70% of the income will be contributed in the joint account by husband and wife. And for 30%, both can do whatever they want to do with that. Joint account would be used for all the expenses, savings, and investment.
Dono ki salary combined honi chahiye, it should be credited in joint account..or else , wife can transfer her salary from bank account to a joint account with husband ( like we do) . Isse Ghar mein barkat hoti hai. and the biggest thing is both should trust each other. 😊
@@progressivefarmer5583 कल को पति ने छोड़ दिया तो? फिर वो कहां जायेगी? पति उसका अपना घर छुड़वा कर, उसकी अपनी पहचान छुड़वा कर अपने घर लाता है। तो स्त्री का रिस्क ज्यादा होता है। उसका ध्यान तो रखना ही चाहिए
I binged watched ur videos as soon as i discovered ur channel ...u are just fabulous ...im a working woman and i admire ur delivery and communication skill with absolute wit and humour touch while delivering in depth analysis ❤
We both work, we follow this planning, We have made a financial target and my wife keep a track of our financial target. We have created a joint account, both our salary goes there, both are answerable if there is a big spending otherwise we are free to spend sundry expenses. So far we are doing good towards financial target and no major conflicts
I do job for helping my husband..i spend little on me..i know he needs support..kabhie kabhie mazak mein i said you owe that money...but after some year i never talk about..it could hurt him.. indirectly....now we r strong now.. 😀😀
This the another All time Blockbuster vedio ......it should be spread like a fire in whole nation.....
Spend on n invest one
Being judged in every relationship and at workplace…. You have touched the deepest chord……best video…. How you know the real feelings of women. Salute
I am 26 year old, not yet married. But still I watch your each video and like it so that I can show it to my future partner and work on it. Big help Sirji.. Ye sbhi bate Krna 100% zaroori hai.. You are helping the society..
i am 18 but still watching🤣🤣🤣
I am 4 still watching 😂😭
Dont get married. Thats the best thing to do..
@@bignavin10 If you listen to Sirji's videos then you know that is the worst solution🤣🤣
+1
I was almost teary when u mentioned that working women are being judged everywhere and honestly, not just by others, constant self blame that am unable to raise my child properly.. at the start of video I was bit repulsive to the idea that woman like to spend on things that they can tag.. but as the video continued.. I’d say I am in agreement to a larger percentage (still not 100%).. this video gave me some insight into how some of the relationships (acquaintances) are troubled, and I immediately shared the video.. thanks for this wonderful eye opener.
Yes I completely agree with you that women are judged everywhere they go...and also they never get credit or appreciation of what they do or bring to the table...
Amazing comment. Thanks for the insight
Agreed w u, women r constantly judged by other n even their own feelings doinf everything half ass. 😢
I am depressed and want to quit my job because my husband spend all his money on my in laws even they earn a lot, and he expect me to save my earnings for our future and kid . He dont want to spend his money on me.
U can talk and discuss with him politely and please don't quit ur job mam ..every problem have a solution, u just have to be found which u already done , now it's only need to work on it and resolve it as soon as possible. 👍
You don't have to quit job ma'am, make your own security fund, which will be helpful for yourself in the future👍👍👍
Gold nuggets. There should be a mandatory pre - wedding course for marital counselling, behaviour, expectations, rights as well as duties which make can work as a launchpad for a successful marriage towards 99% relationships.
India me aise nai hota h. Agar divorce hota h to wife ko bas maintenance amount milta h na ki 50%. Isliye women jyada concerned rehti hain about money kyunki ek insecurity hoti h future ko lekar. Agar aap apne ghar ke liye time effort sab dein career ko neglect karke and ek din after divorce aap kahin ke nahi raho sab choot jaaye.
My money is my money, and your money is also my money....so true
But that's not fair tbh ..if u r also earning then u must have helped him financially also ...
This is the first time I am hearing someone appreciating women's struggle with the menustrial cycle and harmonal changes. Thank you so much for mentioning it.
My case-
I & my wife were both working & earn joint annual salary of more than ₹75 lacs per annum.
However she doesn't want to spend anything, she wanted me to buy a new house & manage household expenses entirely without any contribution.
I don't expect her to support me financially but for bigger expenses like house purchase it's expected that she supports me financially.
She & her parents expect that since I am husband, it's only my responsibility to manage house while her money is only for herself.
This situation surely makes me insecure specially with Indian legal system which is skewed towards females.
Situation became so worse, we tried a lot to solve it but it didn't work out. Finally we have parted & moved seperate in life..
Best thing u did
@@cauliflowerhead2735 you could have been right had you not assumed that she would be earning lesser while keeping your feminist mindset aside.
Indeed you could have asked if you required clarity rather than inconveniently judging.
Now that we both earn almost equally why is it wrong for her to contribute for home purchase which she & her parents were pressuring me into?
Her parents visited my place before marriage and should have pointed out any concerns then rather than cribbing post marriage.
They want us to move to a bigger better place without support is total hypocrisy.
Plus with our great Indian legal system, i could have been doomed if I had invested alone... Indian rules unfortunately are completely one-sided which doesn't give any confidence...
@@sandeepintown feminism is a cancer which is eating up our society
Next time just keep in mind...yes you did good thing,but i know it's not easy for you ...fact is that parents hi ghar barbad kar dete hai..
This is very sad why girls have this type of mentality
Today the men calculate the entire earnings of wife and expect her to give it entirely to them for investing in accordance with their wishes (basically property under their control). They want an independent woman to become so dependent that she even buys a saree with his consent. It’s very strange and honestly dangerous.
Exactly same thing happened with me he bought a plot with my money. And had extramarital affair with maid. He beated me .got me out from the rented house. Now I am living in working women hostel . He enjoys with the maid and snatched plot also.
sahi hei respect woman 4 wat c did 4 d family, I m lucky 2 hav a lovely wife
Great 👍👍💐💐
Wow
Wife's money is her money
Husband's Money is our Money.
Because housewife is her responsibility and not husband's. To share equal money share equal house responsibility
@@Raythelightlife yes he should contribute but not mandatory that it will be equally. Both should be discuss and based on their feasibility they can manage. It's marriage and relationship and not a contract. If you are having such thinking, you shouldn't marry and leave your life freely.
True
why no equal rights for men ?
Wonderful.. This is how family stays happy.
Lovely suggestions... Balanced and practical
Sir, I feel businessman misuse and does not respect salary of wife. They divert their gains again in business or spend on parents/siblings/niece/nephew to show off and enjoy credit and attention they get. The working lady runs the house, manages expenses of kids and totally at loss be it physically, mentally or financially. They also put savings of wife to recover business loss.
This can happen with men in good jobs earning high income and leading a life of glamour and glitter partying and pubbing. Possible that some women do it too.
Very well said words sir. I am going through the same.
I am 27 and looking for the life partner, learning lot from your videos sir. 🙏🙏
I used to spend all my money earlier on household expenditure but after seeing your video my wife has realised her responsibility and now sharing some part of her income. Her money is her money but she should atleast tell where it is going.
आपके vedios बहुत अच्छे लगते हैं बहुत ही सरल और सहज भाषा और उदाहरणों से आप बड़े complecated मसलों को समझा देते हैं शुक्रिया
Very relevant , practical video....patiyoN ke dil bade hote hain....apni poori salary housewife ke hath pe rakh dete hain..,. working women Kam hi aisa kar pati hai....but what u said make a lot of sense...focus should be building up a beautiful relationship
But sir still there are few points which you need to discuss. Agar wife working hai to husband Ghar kharch bhi wife ko dena band kar dete hai kyu phele k time me aisa nhi hota tha.
Guru ji... kya ker rahe ho?🙏🙏
So much gyan and clarity in a single video, that every couple should watch and make implementation in their life. It can release so much stress from your family and make you and your partner relax and more trustworthy.
I have to watch it 2 or 3 times more so that I be able to grasp all points and to understand how our emotions play out here...
Once again thank you for such a masterpiece 🎉🎉
My cousin is a govt clerk and earns 30k/40k but his wife is an engineer and earns 1.2lac. but the issue is the wife has to work 24hrs - cooking and managing the household with a toddler and again has to work at office. And brother threatened his wife and kept her ATM with him and told her not to spend a single penny.
Aisi ladkiya kaha milti hai bhai 😂
Itna kamane wali kaise shadi kr li 30k wale se?
Forcefully reh rhe kya dono?
@@AnkkitKumarr people like her exist too. Bas baat ye hein ki meri bhabi is a good and sweet person or Mera Bhai kamina hein. They were in love to usne shadi karli or abhi uska ek baccha bhi hein to wo nhi choregi usko as we think. Baki bad ka nhi pata.
@@utopiancity8138 ohhh Love marriage ka scene hai isiliye 😅
Pr fir bhi bhai.....aisi ladkiya Diamond se km nhi ❤️
The issue is the husband is feeling insecure 😢 rather than being supportive and understanding husband.
@@icecreams214 most Men cannot handle wives superior to them.
Superb video hai guruji ❤
Watching this after a year.. it's 2023 Diwali time again 🙏🙏
Awesome video sir.. I wish ye video sabhi working married couple dekhe and samjhe..
Dekhne se kutch nahi hota..moti buddhi wale nahi sunenge
Sir I am viewing all of your videos. These are like SATSANG and teaching art of living for a successful life
Hats off to you sir for your vision
Amazing clarity sir !
This is how relationships are nurtured 🙏
Good insight Sir! Kindly cover the aspect of husbands habitual of giving small and big amounts on debts to relatives without sharing with the spouse. When the greedy relatives do not return, he start squeezing house expenses somehow to manage, as pocket is one or sometimes keeps extracting from her savings too. Else stress to tolerate within family but show off outside that financial soundness.
Are sir ke kehne se konsa Maan jaayenge mere papa bhi same krte h apni beti ke course ke liye paise nhi diye but rishtedar ki beti ke liye udhaar de diya 10x amount, ab Roz gaali dete h kya krlo unka
Very good topic. same situation is facing every working couple and many get divorce due to believe that they personally exploit from counter part.
Ladkiya zyada hushiyar banne ke chakkar mein apni marriage break kar leti hn rishta pura khrab kar leta hn pyar ki jagha vyar karne lagti hn ...aur kahi bar ye sab ladki ke ghar wale sikhate hn
Wonderful video totally bang on. I totally agree with uncle. One point you didn't cover is what to do when husband and wife work in family business and husband doesn't give neither salary nor pocket money and nor fixed monthly house expenses. All what he says is maanglo. In today's world if both are equally educated and earning in same business and if you everytime ask and not able to get basic expenses and wife is compromising in each and everything and husband spends lavishly without discussing then you feel you are in trap.
Actually needed this type of clarity
People feel bad to talk about it but it is bhi crucial.
True , the husband's start providing for his parents and depriving the wife
As for money,Husbands should hide a portion of their incomes.
As for emotions, Don't open up yourself fully.
Everything starts with a GREAT PROMISE.
If it's not needed, then great but if ever there comes a time when everything crumbles then that will be your insurance. Don't expect our legal system to do justice. You have to do it yourself.
Countries don't fight each other everyday but that doesn't stop them from making sophisticated weapons and missiles. Just in case...
Women should also do the same for her future..
Most of women are not aware of investment tools, they are dependent on their spouse for that. Thats why insecurity prevails in their relationship
Bahut acha explain krte h.. and ye real issues h young couples ke.
Exactly Sir, you touched the real problem of my married life 👍
Your videos are really very informative practical. This one is amazing. I have gone addictive of these.👍
Your videos are so close to reality with zero sugar coating ❤ I enjoy watching it. Please continue to share these knowledge 🙏
Kaise bana lete ho aap aise video holistic video no question asked
Bilkul sahi kaha aapane aap ki jo samajh samajhdar e Se Samjhe Aate Hain
Very true Sir .. we as women are judged constantly .. especially working women ..
MAG sir g true knowledge given GOD bless u for bringing a small and slow but significant change in our society 🙏🏻
Superb video. Good clarifications . Helpful for me.
Video is a good blend of tradition and modernity!
Sir extra marital affairs par video banaye🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
In my case mere husband money nahi dette..but big big spending btta dete hai ..mai gar ke sare spending detail batane me fail ho jate hu...aur bevakoof ka tag mil jata hai
Yahi to trick hai admiyon ki
Financially dependent rakho mahila ko
Meri mom k sath bhi yehi hua hai
Finally mom ne paisa lena hi chor diya, jo kharcha karna hai papa karte hain
But usse life me peace aur sukun to nahi rehta kisike
Sir plz make a video on how to handle disagreement regarding children between husband and wife. This one was superb thanku sir .
Excellent sir, may God every man should think like you
Zabardastttttt Mazzaaaaa Aa Gaya, Amit Ji! 🔥♥️🔥
Hello sir, I have started watching your videos since a week or so.... and most of your videos feel like my thoughts are coming out of your mouth. I can relate to all your videos. Thank god, that finally someone (especially someone like you, who is so experienced and well read) is putting it out there cz when I said such things among my family and friends, everybody just dissed me.
TV,car,cellphone,trips to Goa are not good allocation of money if you don't have your own roof and your marriage has not stabilised.
I always crave for improvement this is the content i need for improving my relationship. Dhanyavad shurkiya🎉
Such practical advice! Keep such videos coming. Thanks for enlightening us 🙏🏻
Sir your all videos are great, excellent, very valuable and practical for a good life, family and society. 🙏
Sir, hats off for imbibing beautiful pearls of wisdom. I came across 1 video, was hooked and saw 15 videos back to back. Wonderful!
I am not married yet, bt your videos are very insightful. 😊 keep enlightening our minds sir❤
Sir very informative video. You're a very well knowledgeable person. Thank you for sharing your wisdom.
This is a very important topic sir
Sir thank you for this video 🙏
Money issues are very sensitive topic
Between newly married couples because of money issues fights and arguments take place..
It was a wonderful video. Perfect guidance for couples .
Though all your videos are addictive but this is one of the best one. Spot on, to the point and reality of Indian society today.
Please make more on barabar karna syndrome ek bete se nikal kar dusre ko bharna
What is it sir barabar karna
@@geetharavi25, if parents have two or more children and one of them is doing well in life financially and other one is not so good, parents always try to balance financial disparity by giving larger part of their asset to the child who is not so well off. This causes great strain in relationship among siblings and parents. In Hindi it is called BARABAR karna
You clear our thoughts so minutely ki jisko bta rahe ye hona chahiye he is be like yar terko to bahut knowledge hai kaffi research kar rakhi hai m aaise follow sango 😂
Please continue on numerology videos after your 7 and 4 no.s... I'm eagerly waiting for ur numerology series sir ...please take 3 and 5 no. Now
sir..paisa dono kaa hai...main thing which is absent since past 3-4 decades is trust faith among couples...u do as many vidoes as possible, but when it comes to money, none of partner will reveal his/her real salary and investments..its just because of lack of trust and future insecuities..if possible make video as to how this trust issue is to be sorted out..then eerything else will fall at its place automatically..this is kalyug sir...its not that easy to trust anybody...blind folded trust should exist among each couple sir..which is next to impossible in this kalyug sir.
Sir, I really wish this video of yours goes viral. I want to send this to my would be fiancé but don't have the courage to.
In my case its totally different. My husband wants everything to be 50-50... We share house rent and bills exact 50-50. But he is not interested to buy basic necessary foods like fish meat etc...everytime i have to push him...i buy groceries and everyday foods. So it goes on like 70-30. Here i have to pay 70. Coz he doesnt buy any regular staffs for me or for home...he never brings anythjng special for me...i do...i spend...so in a way all his money is being spent and my whole salary gets finished every month...more on he doesnt help me with house chores as well...tell me how to solve this prpblem
Bad luck that you got stuck with such a selfish person.. hope your life gets better
Since everything is 50:50, household chores should also be 50:50
Please speak to him or someone who knows your husband well... may God solve this problem of yours soon.
Divorce him as he is a coward and have no self respect.
Be strong. Never be weak emotionally.
Dont cook n wash for him. Let him cook for himself.
Great Sir..
Superbly elaborated
Very good video. You explained all points well, with the times. Thx. Children sacrificed, well said ... so they have a share too as a family.
Great video Sir! Thanks for sharing your insight!
Loved your videos Guruji. This time you are on point.
Thank you Sir, for sharing...nobody teaches all this in this day and age...!!!🙏
I implemented this in my family, 70% of the income will be contributed in the joint account by husband and wife. And for 30%, both can do whatever they want to do with that. Joint account would be used for all the expenses, savings, and investment.
We do it too😂
Sir you r just brilliant you told every thing I'm feeling in my marriage thank you so much
Very relevant ! You ve really hit the nail !These days husbands feel his salary is for his parents and siblings !
Very nice video sir...thanks
And apki video's bahut informative hoti h
Dear Sir I am your huge fan, in your each video i wonder 🤔 how could be two strangers be alike.
I always felt in the same way.
Very well made and complete perspective video
Badhiya sir ji... Please thoda details dijiye kyun parents ko palna wrong hai
Much needed topic sir, thank u soo much🙏🏻🙏🏻
Dono ki salary combined honi chahiye, it should be credited in joint account..or else , wife can transfer her salary from bank account to a joint account with husband ( like we do) . Isse Ghar mein barkat hoti hai. and the biggest thing is both should trust each other. 😊
But Husband to generally 3-5X Zyda kamata hai patni se to isme to uska loss ho gya na?
@@gamesbond0074 Please stop calculating profit & loss in all the relationships
Your husband is like my wife.she wants me to spend everything
@@progressivefarmer5583 कल को पति ने छोड़ दिया तो? फिर वो कहां जायेगी?
पति उसका अपना घर छुड़वा कर, उसकी अपनी पहचान छुड़वा कर अपने घर लाता है। तो स्त्री का रिस्क ज्यादा होता है। उसका ध्यान तो रखना ही चाहिए
By God's grace, this is how me and my wife think when it comes to money.
Thank you. Learned some important points.
Bahoot accha laga aur idea bhi hua ky kya karna chahiye.. Aur current situation main kaese handle karna hai
Uncle please make a video on how to manage tax as a couple and basic investments we should do in the initial stage of the marriage.
I could completely relate to the women psychology you described, even I realised this while listening to this. Thank you so much Sir.
So true 100 percent agree no one talks abt these things ...
Excellent video like always..
I binged watched ur videos as soon as i discovered ur channel
...u are just fabulous ...im a working woman and i admire ur delivery and communication skill with absolute wit and humour touch while delivering in depth analysis ❤
Very good video. I am very thankful to you sii❤
एक उम्र
गुस्ताख़ियों के लिये भी
नसीब होनी चाहिये
ये कम्बख़्त ज़िंदगी तो बस,
अदब और लिहाज़
में ही गुज़र गई…
We both work, we follow this planning, We have made a financial target and my wife keep a track of our financial target. We have created a joint account, both our salary goes there, both are answerable if there is a big spending otherwise we are free to spend sundry expenses. So far we are doing good towards financial target and no major conflicts
I do job for helping my husband..i spend little on me..i know he needs support..kabhie kabhie mazak mein i said you owe that money...but after some year i never talk about..it could hurt him.. indirectly....now we r strong now.. 😀😀
Thanks a lot Guruji for bringing video on this topic, i am really very very thankful to you, this really gave clarity to me on many things
Great video sir, thank a lot❤
We extremely need this video
Your videos are amazing sir..from the time today i saw ur first video,i have been looking forward to see more..
How can you think so much in dept..it felt as if you entered our mind
Great regards from dr Heera Lal dayma MBBS dausa raj 🙏🙏
Salute to sir. You are a excellent Life Coach. 💐💐🙏🙏
Soo Accurate & Matured Advices On This Topic Sir🙏🏻
U've Touched Almost Every Categories Abt Money Matters In Relationships.. 👍🏻
You should try and publish this as a book
I am sure it will be on top selling chart soon🎉