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Dr Sir, Perfectly said n done!!! One hs 2 live one's life even if u hv no 1 in life. U hv 2 fulfill ur own obligations n strive 2 b a better person without any obligation n indulgence in other's affairs, especially if u hv a grown up marriageable child who hs 2 live his life without any support frm his parents n b d pillar of his future. Aab Maaza Aaaaa Gaya NAAAAAAA ❤😂N Rgds Truly urs, XYZ
हमारी वैदिक व्यवस्था भी ऐसी ही होती थी .... माता पिता अपने पुत्र के विवाह के बाद वानप्रस्थ आश्रम के लिए चले जाते थे ... वानप्रस्थ के दौरान वो अपने स्वास्थ्य को वापस मजबूत बनाते थे, भक्ति और ज्ञान की साधना करते थे, अध्ययन और भ्रमण करते थे, तपस्वियों की सेवा, सामाजिक कार्य करते थे और कभी-कभार 1-2 दिन के लिए घर आते थे, इसलिए बेटे बहू भी उनका बहुत सम्मान करते थे ... जीवन के अंतिम प्रहर में संन्यास ले लेते थे ... इस तरह हमारे यहाँ संयुक्त परिवार नहीं बल्कि छोटे परिवार ही होते थे। वैदिक धर्म के अनुसार 8 साल का और 60 साल का घर में नहीं रहना चाहिए ... यानी कि 8 साल से 25 तक गुरुकुल में रहे और 60 वो आखिरी उम्र है जब व्यक्ति गृहस्थ-आश्रम को छोड़ दे और बेटे बहू के साथ ना रहे ...
Our Vedic system was also like this.... Parents used to go to Vanaprastha Ashram after their son's marriage. During Vanaprastha, they would regain their health, practice devotion and knowledge, study and travel, serve ascetics, do social work, and sometimes visit home for 1-2 days. Therefore, the son and daughter-in-law would respect them a lot. In the last phase of life, they would take Sannyas. In this way, we had not joint families but small families. According to Vedic religion, an 8-year-old and a 60-year-old should not stay at home. That is, from 8 to 25 years old, they should stay in Gurukul, and 60 is the last age when a person should leave the householder's life and not live with the son and daughter-in-law.
@@neerupurohit3378I am 49 years old and my in-laws were old school who raised their son to be a retirement plan. My MIL almost caused a divorce because of her crazy possessiveness. We decided not to have children because my MIL caused so many fights that we felt guilty for bringing forth children in a toxic marriage. My MIL taunted me for not providing a grand-son, but she doesn't realise that she is the biggest source of conflict in our marriage. She is the reason we refused to have children. My husband has a non-existent relationship with his mother but is still forced to care for her because of duty. Indian mothers can destroy their son and DIL's life.
Pls don't take everything at face value. Each person's situation is different. Bachchans, ambanis, shahrukh khan everyone is living with kids. Of course people need to learn to give space and live happily. Also to the person commenting about love marriage, after infatuation is over, you need to live with the person, cultural compatibility is more important than you think- i have done love marriage and trust me when i say this
I stayed with my in inlaws for 3 months after delivery. Itna zeher bhar diya unhone zindagi me unn 3 mahino me. Unki reality mere samne aa gayi. Husband to subah se office chale jate h meri maternity leaves thi, dinbhar unko jhelna padta tha( mil poore time phone par meri bitching karti thi). Ab m unse baat b hi karni band kar di , ab ja k thoda peaceful feel hota h. Hamari mental health sabse pehle aati h baki cheez baad me😊
Mujhe toh 5yrs ke baad woh Ghar se hi nikalna pada... Came to my parents... itna pareshaan kardiya tha... And husband full day at home, dono milke would harass me so much ... Now we are separating...
Takeaways 7 points for parents of boys :- 1. Bahu seva k liye nhi hoti, bete k liye ati hai. 2. Kanyadan ki tarah betadan b krna hoga. Bete p Bahu ka haq hona chahye. 3. Ladke ki sadi tab tak na kre jb tak ghar na ho ya rent p na reh ske. 4. Parents should not stay with couples and hang over them. 5. Apne bete se paise nhi lena chahye. 6. Bahu has no obligations to speak to parents. She has come for husaband not for parents. 7. Give sheetalta to your childrens. Don't question unnecessary to them.
Baki points sahi hai bass 5th point galat sound krta hai...bete k paiso par maa baap ka haq hai par usse over work karake ya kudh wo paisa lekr kisi aur ki madat nahi karni chaiye... basically ladko ko financial bank na smjhe...ladko ko apni responsibilities pata hai aur agar parents over burden karenge to koi bhi snap ho jayega.
I have a 13 year old son. I completely agree... my DIL, whenever she comes, will have her own personality, life, career and priorities. She will be my friend, not daugther not daughter in law.
This is applicable to daughters like me too. 6 years parents sucked all my money and finally I’ve broken my relationship. Me and my husband live separately and handle everything together.
The amount of courage it takes to state these uncomfortable truths on a public platform is insane. You sir, are a gem & asset to this country. Mostly people are either over intellectual/politically correct or absurd/cringe. On a lighter note, only a Jat could think of taking this amount of panga on an almost daily basis.
I stayed with inlaws for 17 long years and suffered like hell.. my physical and mental health was ruined , just because my husband wanted to show to society that they are so mahaan .. like hum saath saath hai .. inlaws tho usse khush the ki grand children are with them.. i was the one who suffered and inturn my first child also suffered due to regular emotional fights 😢😢 Now after long years .. we are living in seperate house .. ab jaake thoda sukoon mila hai .. vo alag baat hai ki abh bhi inlaws ke liye brk fast and khaana mai hi banati hu and mere ghar se hi jaata hai.. par mentally i am at peace
Sir, ladki walo ke liye bhi bnao, what to do by girl herself and her family. please We can't correct the groom side but we can be an intelligent bride side
@@ruchainamdar748 That is so true. Because no matter how intelligent and content a bride you are, the groom's and his family side's stupidity will irritate you everyday which will eventually lead to fights. And because you are the intelligent one you would think "kaha akar fass gay"i. That's the sad reality.
Bahut dukh hain... Ghar nahi le pa rahe married couple, naukri maine gaali milti hain... parents alag tension dete hain..aur inflation bachi kuchi khoon coose leti hain ..aur like older generation millennials and Gen z also don't have social security..aur yeah millennials generation older generation ki sapne poore karne maine lagi hui hain
well put together! We're living in such a dynamic world where life never really gets set unlike what it used to happen in their life. Now life only get sets jab upper ka ticket kat ta hai
Unke bohut monhoos generation thi, 8-10 bhai behen rakho, fir 3 bacche paida kar lo. Fir aurat log to din bhar baate karne me bita deti thi kam ke bich mein. to aaj ke generation ki ladkiya agar unke jaise baat nahi kar rahe hain, serious kam mein busy hain to unko samajh me nahi aati. Unko lagta hain bhav kha rahi hain, aurat hoke aurato ke sath ghul mil kyue nahi rahe hain.
@@bikbik549well said the worst generation is of them because to them if a girl doesn't gossip, does something productive, mehnat karke paise kamaati hai kuch naya seekhne pe dhyan deti hai toh automatically uski image kharab ho jaati hai.. kamaal hai aajkal chindi chugliya karna, ghatiya baate karne wali bahuye zyada behtar ho gyi hai mother-in-laws ke liye
@@tinu0121she married him so can be Bacchan bahu. Why does she not want to be their bahu now ? They took salman ex girlfriend and made her bacchan bahu. She tried to break their family in ungrateful manner. Good that abhishek stood with his parents. If she divorce him, he should marry some other younger woman and have another 2-3 children.
That could be because she may have different brand endorsements which may want her to show up as a self confidant woman rather than showing up as a आज्ञाधारक bahu. Some foreign brands like loreal or Longines might want her to maintain a strong woman face. Don't worry about film stars, they take different decisions.
This is so true. We have to be practical and understand that times are different now and mutual respect among elders and youngsters is very important. Expecting bahu to be your maid is so unfair and absolutely ridiculous.
Parents don't have responsibility to pay for the college education for kids, you may give it as an interest free loan to your kids and they should pay it back from their salary. So that way parents have saving for old age. If they really want to help, then make it maximum upto 50% of contribution. Other 50% must come from son or daughter. Here in Canada, kids take student loan for college education. India will be on same path soon.
All the part is correct there is only one issue here Especially in metro cities Ki if ghar alag kar bhi doge from beta ke parents There is likelihood of wifes side parents intervening in due to a gap Because yeh bhi aaj kal bahuo ka trend hai khud bete ko alag karna hai but personally lady shravan kumar banegi apne parents ke liye
@@shubha2308 see aap to wo centuries wali bahuen nahi ho and tab admio ko bhi Jaan par khelkar paise laane padte they Kuch elite zamindar hata do to Baki ki halat usse bhi kharab thi And modern life mein jab wife khudke parents ka involvement badhane hi wali hai to fir husband kyu na badhaye
Very nice video sir ji, samaaj ko sahi raasta dikhaane k liye aapka bahut bahut aabhaar. Samaaj ki mool ikaai pati patni ka rishta hi h, ye jitna mazboot aur khush haal hoga samaaj aur desh utna hi khush aur majboot hoga, pati patni k beech kisi ko nhi aana chahiye chaahe wo unke maa baap bhai bahan dost koi bhi kyu na ho. Shadi ki parampara Isiliye bani thi taaki bachho ki parwarish achhe se ho sake, lekin aajkl saas bahu ya sasur bahu k jhagdo ki wajah se bahu apne bachho ka paalan poshan laad dulaar se nhi kar paati kyuki wo khud hi udaas irritated and frustrated rahti h apne saas sasur and husband k taano aur vyavhaar se. Result of this is child abuse leading to mentally, physically and psychologically weak next generation.
Most of your videos are totally relatable to my parents, both my brothers have miserable marriages, but still I can't do anything no one is even ready to accept that there is a problem. Sometimes I just forward your videos to my papa. 😂
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Sir, ye bhi bataye jab parents old ho kar jab bilkul bed par aa jaye , bilkul helpless , agar paisa ho aur caretaker bhi rakhe to in bujurgo ko maid bhi marti hai really I have seen this to wo kya kare, kyonki aapki philosphy me to baccho ko maa bap ke liye kuch nahi karna hai wo to apni life enjoy kare aur maa bap ko sad kar marne ke liye chod de. Samaj ke is setup me narak yanhi dekh kar jaye. How you have plan about such situation if become bedridden or paralysed aur koi pani pilane wala bhi na ho.
My boyfriend's mother did love marriage but she has a problem if her son is doing love marriage.. she has separated the kitchen and left the joint family whereas, the whole family is staying together in my boyfriend's grandparents house.. but his mother blames me that after marriage I will not stay in a joint family.. his mother never did a single thing for his grandparents when they were alive.. but they blame me that I will not do seva to them.. his parents can say anything to me and my parents but she cannot tolerate anything against her.. she abuses and says mean things about my mother and sister but no one can say anything to her.
Sir m your subscriber from last 3 years…. Husband didn’t agree to move separate from his parents Aj 4 saal ho gye shadi ko ..parents and nanad ne jeena mushkil kr rakha hai..2din khush ni rhe……ab finally alag ho rhe hai….parents are giving a social boycott to us cuz hum galat ni sehte…abusing my parents…and then not even accepting their mistake…feels like ki maine apne 3 saal waste kr diye for no good 🤕🤕🤕
All the best wishes to the both of you for your life ahead. Here's hoping you are both able to realise your goals as individuals and as a couple 🙏🏻. Kal jo beet gaya use wahaan rehne dijiye ...Aaj ka dekhiye abhi ka dekhiye Mudd mudd ke na dekhiye
@@twinklesharma4486 husband se alag ni rhe….parents se alag ho rhi hu….because they are making our lives miserable…inke kud k pas 3cr property hai…but dil k kodi ka nhi….no financial support at all….ulta husband ki kharche uthate hai sare
Meray toh parents and saas sasur dono hi tension denay walay type kay hain. Na khud khush rehna hai na doosray ko khush rehnay dena hai. Typical lower middle class.
अगर सब कुछ गुरुजी की बातों के अनुसार ही चलता रहा तो बहुत जल्द हमें समाज में ,"कन्या भ्रूण हत्या" की जगह "बालक भ्रूण हत्या" के किस्से सुनने को मिलेंगे ।।
My advise to couples Husband has to take wife stand and wife has to support husband infrint of world..communicate with each other Whatever is the problem...don't keep inside..discuss politely, calmly , in closed doors...sort things together , adjust / twiq things little bit here and there and problem will solve itself
Shadi ke 5 years ghar n hi lo..... Wife domestic violance ka case karke residence right le legi aur enjoy karegi whole life apne parents or boyfriend ke sath........ Jab tak marriage stable n ho jata ghar n hi lo to achha h.....
After about 40 years, AI and robotics will reach unimaginable heights. That time I will get 3-4 beautiful looking female robots from Japan. They will do all the house work.
Ek video working women par bhi banaye kyunki ladkiyo ko job karni chahiye ye sab kehte hai par koi unki problem address nahi karta wo job bhi karti, ghar ke kam bhi karti lekin aadmi jyada contribution nahi deta uper se apni pareshni batao to kehta hai job chod do
Very true sir all old people so called saas sasur, thy enjoyed there life very much but thy want there children always obey thm side by side thy also need money also from thm 😢
Sir, I admire that you are discussing these big problems with the Indian society. In your videos, you seem to only be addressing one part of the problem i.e. Indian parents. Can you please make a video on Indian men who want to stay with their parents in the same house after their wedding? These men are rejecting girls who say no to that. Thank you
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Dr Sir,
Perfectly said n done!!! One hs 2 live one's life even if u hv no 1 in life.
U hv 2 fulfill ur own obligations n strive 2 b a better person without any obligation n indulgence in other's affairs, especially if u hv a grown up marriageable child who hs 2 live his life without any support frm his parents n b d pillar of his future.
Aab Maaza Aaaaa Gaya NAAAAAAA
❤😂N Rgds
Truly urs,
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हमारी वैदिक व्यवस्था भी ऐसी ही होती थी .... माता पिता अपने पुत्र के विवाह के बाद वानप्रस्थ आश्रम के लिए चले जाते थे ... वानप्रस्थ के दौरान वो अपने स्वास्थ्य को वापस मजबूत बनाते थे, भक्ति और ज्ञान की साधना करते थे, अध्ययन और भ्रमण करते थे, तपस्वियों की सेवा, सामाजिक कार्य करते थे और कभी-कभार 1-2 दिन के लिए घर आते थे, इसलिए बेटे बहू भी उनका बहुत सम्मान करते थे ... जीवन के अंतिम प्रहर में संन्यास ले लेते थे ... इस तरह हमारे यहाँ संयुक्त परिवार नहीं बल्कि छोटे परिवार ही होते थे। वैदिक धर्म के अनुसार 8 साल का और 60 साल का घर में नहीं रहना चाहिए ... यानी कि 8 साल से 25 तक गुरुकुल में रहे और 60 वो आखिरी उम्र है जब व्यक्ति गृहस्थ-आश्रम को छोड़ दे और बेटे बहू के साथ ना रहे ...
Our Vedic system was also like this.... Parents used to go to Vanaprastha Ashram after their son's marriage. During Vanaprastha, they would regain their health, practice devotion and knowledge, study and travel, serve ascetics, do social work, and sometimes visit home for 1-2 days. Therefore, the son and daughter-in-law would respect them a lot. In the last phase of life, they would take Sannyas. In this way, we had not joint families but small families. According to Vedic religion, an 8-year-old and a 60-year-old should not stay at home. That is, from 8 to 25 years old, they should stay in Gurukul, and 60 is the last age when a person should leave the householder's life and not live with the son and daughter-in-law.
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My son is 20 years old but this video is preparing me for future.
Same here 👍🏻👍🏻
@@neerupurohit3378I am 49 years old and my in-laws were old school who raised their son to be a retirement plan. My MIL almost caused a divorce because of her crazy possessiveness.
We decided not to have children because my MIL caused so many fights that we felt guilty for bringing forth children in a toxic marriage. My MIL taunted me for not providing a grand-son, but she doesn't realise that she is the biggest source of conflict in our marriage. She is the reason we refused to have children.
My husband has a non-existent relationship with his mother but is still forced to care for her because of duty. Indian mothers can destroy their son and DIL's life.
I am 19 years old 😁
Uncle, accept only love marriage, and that too after they are together for 4-5 years. Arrange marriage is a poison now
Pls don't take everything at face value. Each person's situation is different. Bachchans, ambanis, shahrukh khan everyone is living with kids. Of course people need to learn to give space and live happily. Also to the person commenting about love marriage, after infatuation is over, you need to live with the person, cultural compatibility is more important than you think- i have done love marriage and trust me when i say this
I stayed with my in inlaws for 3 months after delivery. Itna zeher bhar diya unhone zindagi me unn 3 mahino me. Unki reality mere samne aa gayi. Husband to subah se office chale jate h meri maternity leaves thi, dinbhar unko jhelna padta tha( mil poore time phone par meri bitching karti thi). Ab m unse baat b hi karni band kar di , ab ja k thoda peaceful feel hota h. Hamari mental health sabse pehle aati h baki cheez baad me😊
Perfect description of hell! Sorry for your suffering
Mujhe toh 5yrs ke baad woh Ghar se hi nikalna pada... Came to my parents... itna pareshaan kardiya tha... And husband full day at home, dono milke would harass me so much ... Now we are separating...
@@kiranmudnaney divorce common hora hai 😔 😔
एक ही घर में रह कर बात करना बंद कैसे कर दी?
@@mdmusaddique5500 hona chahiye.. Tabhi badlaw aayega.. nahi toh ladkiyon ka soshan jo horaha hai, jo meine sehen kiya woh kabhi band nahi hoga..!
Takeaways
7 points for parents of boys :-
1. Bahu seva k liye nhi hoti, bete k liye ati hai.
2. Kanyadan ki tarah betadan b krna hoga. Bete p Bahu ka haq hona chahye.
3. Ladke ki sadi tab tak na kre jb tak ghar na ho ya rent p na reh ske.
4. Parents should not stay with couples and hang over them.
5. Apne bete se paise nhi lena chahye.
6. Bahu has no obligations to speak to parents. She has come for husaband not for parents.
7. Give sheetalta to your childrens. Don't question unnecessary to them.
Isiliye divorce badh rahe hai parents bahut hi jada interest lete hai
Baki points sahi hai bass 5th point galat sound krta hai...bete k paiso par maa baap ka haq hai par usse over work karake ya kudh wo paisa lekr kisi aur ki madat nahi karni chaiye... basically ladko ko financial bank na smjhe...ladko ko apni responsibilities pata hai aur agar parents over burden karenge to koi bhi snap ho jayega.
@@Kiran-zo1kqusee bhi jyada divorce isliye ho raha hai jab ek ladka kharab kaam karta hai uske parents us cheez pe parda dalte hai
@@Sushmita-e5o parda kyu nahi dalenge unka blood hai jo unhi ke jaisa hoga
I have a 13 year old son. I completely agree... my DIL, whenever she comes, will have her own personality, life, career and priorities. She will be my friend, not daugther not daughter in law.
This is applicable to daughters like me too. 6 years parents sucked all my money and finally I’ve broken my relationship. Me and my husband live separately and handle everything together.
Where is 6th mountain
Better late than never. Now live happily
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The amount of courage it takes to state these uncomfortable truths on a public platform is insane. You sir, are a gem & asset to this country. Mostly people are either over intellectual/politically correct or absurd/cringe. On a lighter note, only a Jat could think of taking this amount of panga on an almost daily basis.
I stayed with inlaws for 17 long years and suffered like hell.. my physical and mental health was ruined , just because my husband wanted to show to society that they are so mahaan .. like hum saath saath hai .. inlaws tho usse khush the ki grand children are with them.. i was the one who suffered and inturn my first child also suffered due to regular emotional fights 😢😢
Now after long years .. we are living in seperate house .. ab jaake thoda sukoon mila hai .. vo alag baat hai ki abh bhi inlaws ke liye brk fast and khaana mai hi banati hu and mere ghar se hi jaata hai.. par mentally i am at peace
Beta & Bahu should not stay with their parents. They don't give privacy even in Bedroom..
This is naked truth from my life.😂😂
Riyal
Pl make a vedio on senior citizens marriages also
Very true
Very true
Lolllll
Sir in my opinion you are a true feminist only..
It's good to hear such things from a man..
Sir, ladki walo ke liye bhi bnao, what to do by girl herself and her family. please
We can't correct the groom side but we can be an intelligent bride side
Unfortunately both sides need to change...how much smart you are, that's just useful till you don't get marrried... everything changes when you do...
@@ruchainamdar748 That is so true. Because no matter how intelligent and content a bride you are, the groom's and his family side's stupidity will irritate you everyday which will eventually lead to fights. And because you are the intelligent one you would think "kaha akar fass gay"i. That's the sad reality.
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Bahut dukh hain... Ghar nahi le pa rahe married couple, naukri maine gaali milti hain... parents alag tension dete hain..aur inflation bachi kuchi khoon coose leti hain ..aur like older generation millennials and Gen z also don't have social security..aur yeah millennials generation older generation ki sapne poore karne maine lagi hui hain
well put together! We're living in such a dynamic world where life never really gets set unlike what it used to happen in their life. Now life only get sets jab upper ka ticket kat ta hai
Unke bohut monhoos generation thi, 8-10 bhai behen rakho, fir 3 bacche paida kar lo. Fir aurat log to din bhar baate karne me bita deti thi kam ke bich mein. to aaj ke generation ki ladkiya agar unke jaise baat nahi kar rahe hain, serious kam mein busy hain to unko samajh me nahi aati. Unko lagta hain bhav kha rahi hain, aurat hoke aurato ke sath ghul mil kyue nahi rahe hain.
@@bikbik549well said the worst generation is of them because to them if a girl doesn't gossip, does something productive, mehnat karke paise kamaati hai kuch naya seekhne pe dhyan deti hai toh automatically uski image kharab ho jaati hai.. kamaal hai aajkal chindi chugliya karna, ghatiya baate karne wali bahuye zyada behtar ho gyi hai mother-in-laws ke liye
Captain Anshuman Singh's case really triggered him 😂 us guru ji us
He has been saying the same he started his channel
Loved your concept of "Sheetalta" . I found answers to many dilemmas & pain by this concept given by you.
Respect to you Guru ji
Aapne sahi kaha ki bahut se logo ko apni ladkiyon se pyaar nahi hota,tabhi un betiyo ki durgati hoti hai
family group me share karne ka mnn horha h but wo "kaache kaatne" wali baat pe bohot kode padenge
saach kadwa hi hota hai kadwa hai tabhi toh asar hota hai dwai ka .. jaise ki neem ki paatiyaan par phayde bahut hai
@@shivkapoor3302 tu mujhe kyu Gyan vaachne aagya.
@@Xaviers101😂😂
Same bhai
Kaache tumhari 😂😂😂 family ne ni kaate?
Bahut dard hai sir
Family mein
Aap ladki ka bhi bata dein
Taki sab apni galtiyan sudhaar ker ek sunder parivaar ki taraf aage bade
If you don't believe that Sangwaan Sir is telling the truth... just look at what is happening with Abhishek/Aishwarya Raai's married life now.
Kya huwaa sab theek tho hai naa
@@rakeshe6979 they are showing up separately for important events and not posing together for cameras.
@tinu0121 oh bhai, aise topics pe time waste mat hi Kiya karo😅
@@tinu0121she married him so can be Bacchan bahu. Why does she not want to be their bahu now ? They took salman ex girlfriend and made her bacchan bahu. She tried to break their family in ungrateful manner. Good that abhishek stood with his parents. If she divorce him, he should marry some other younger woman and have another 2-3 children.
That could be because she may have different brand endorsements which may want her to show up as a self confidant woman rather than showing up as a आज्ञाधारक bahu. Some foreign brands like loreal or Longines might want her to maintain a strong woman face. Don't worry about film stars, they take different decisions.
This is so true. We have to be practical and understand that times are different now and mutual respect among elders and youngsters is very important. Expecting bahu to be your maid is so unfair and absolutely ridiculous.
Kaala Sach , best video ever👏👏
I always enjoy watching your videos. Though a bit blunt, I think someone has to point out the real situation in our society....
Parents don't have responsibility to pay for the college education for kids, you may give it as an interest free loan to your kids and they should pay it back from their salary. So that way parents have saving for old age.
If they really want to help, then make it maximum upto 50% of contribution. Other 50% must come from son or daughter.
Here in Canada, kids take student loan for college education. India will be on same path soon.
All the part is correct there is only one issue here Especially in metro cities
Ki if ghar alag kar bhi doge from beta ke parents
There is likelihood of wifes side parents intervening in due to a gap
Because yeh bhi aaj kal bahuo ka trend hai khud bete ko alag karna hai but personally lady shravan kumar banegi apne parents ke liye
Centuries se bahuen sab kuchh karti aayee hain chupchaap Shrawan kumar ke liye... Ab apna haq maang rahin hain to "lady shrawan kumaar"? Waa bhai waa
@@shubha2308 see aap to wo centuries wali bahuen nahi ho and tab admio ko bhi Jaan par khelkar paise laane padte they
Kuch elite zamindar hata do to Baki ki halat usse bhi kharab thi
And modern life mein jab wife khudke parents ka involvement badhane hi wali hai to fir husband kyu na badhaye
@@BarkaDogaaram Kiya hai? Kisne?
Bhai I m totally agree with your point 👍👍
Haha.. rehna 2024 mein hai guruji par bahu to 1857 wali chahiye ..
1857 wali to kafi krantikari hogi😂
@@arjunsworld205 hahaha true
Salary chaiye bahu se...par padhai karne baithe rooh kamchor hai
Very nice video sir ji, samaaj ko sahi raasta dikhaane k liye aapka bahut bahut aabhaar. Samaaj ki mool ikaai pati patni ka rishta hi h, ye jitna mazboot aur khush haal hoga samaaj aur desh utna hi khush aur majboot hoga, pati patni k beech kisi ko nhi aana chahiye chaahe wo unke maa baap bhai bahan dost koi bhi kyu na ho. Shadi ki parampara Isiliye bani thi taaki bachho ki parwarish achhe se ho sake, lekin aajkl saas bahu ya sasur bahu k jhagdo ki wajah se bahu apne bachho ka paalan poshan laad dulaar se nhi kar paati kyuki wo khud hi udaas irritated and frustrated rahti h apne saas sasur and husband k taano aur vyavhaar se. Result of this is child abuse leading to mentally, physically and psychologically weak next generation.
Guruji is so practical. He depicts the bitter truth and reality.
Well done. Medicine is good, even if bitter. Some people live in a delusion!!! Looking to hear from you of the other side too.
Much appreciable concept . Sir I have two daughters and my point is kanya dan but not beta Dan. Why girls have to leave their house and parents .
Want this type of guru indeed in these days.1000% true😢😢
Sir You are Brutal and Very Honest 💯
Kudos to you for being someone who is showing mirror to the society and reality
आपकी बात का ताजा सबूत है हिमांशु के माता-पिता जिनकी कीमत चाहिए शाहिद बेटे की विधवा से
Maa baap fokat me hi bachhe paida kar rahe hain.
@@shashisinha032 fokat me to kya mtlb hai, itni hi problem hai to apne beto ko sari umar pale bahu lani hi kyu hoti hai
@@shashisinha032 koi ehsaan nahi karte
@@shashisinha032 kya bacche investment hote hai?jiska return chahiye?
@@shashisinha032business tha kya bache paida karne ka?? Profit loss chaiye????
It needs great courage to make such videos .
Someone should be there to raise such topics in society. Hats off to you sango sir!!
Most of your videos are totally relatable to my parents, both my brothers have miserable marriages, but still I can't do anything no one is even ready to accept that there is a problem. Sometimes I just forward your videos to my papa. 😂
I am 22 years old girl ... Going to buy a new flat in pune in 2025 thankyou god universe😊I am very successfull in life ❤
Sir your videos are really refreshing and i really enjoy, learn and laugh a lot while watching 😂😂😂
I wish you the best and hope you'll continue making such great content.
Sir, ye bhi bataye jab parents old ho kar jab bilkul bed par aa jaye , bilkul helpless , agar paisa ho aur caretaker bhi rakhe to in bujurgo ko maid bhi marti hai really I have seen this to wo kya kare, kyonki aapki philosphy me to baccho ko maa bap ke liye kuch nahi karna hai wo to apni life enjoy kare aur maa bap ko sad kar marne ke liye chod de. Samaj ke is setup me narak yanhi dekh kar jaye.
How you have plan about such situation if become bedridden or paralysed aur koi pani pilane wala bhi na ho.
Guru Ji should be our next PM................Zinda dil Zindabaad Amit Sangwan bhai ji.
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You are real Chyanyaka of society.
Superb
Superb
I am in my 50's . I often watch your videos and appriciate your wishdom.
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My boyfriend's mother did love marriage but she has a problem if her son is doing love marriage.. she has separated the kitchen and left the joint family whereas, the whole family is staying together in my boyfriend's grandparents house.. but his mother blames me that after marriage I will not stay in a joint family.. his mother never did a single thing for his grandparents when they were alive.. but they blame me that I will not do seva to them.. his parents can say anything to me and my parents but she cannot tolerate anything against her.. she abuses and says mean things about my mother and sister but no one can say anything to her.
Very nice.. very well said.. tone is what is needed.. sweet words dont strike the brain
Problem is ye video sirf aur durf bahu dekh rahi hai.pati aur saas aise video dekhte hi nahi😢
True
Aisa nhi hai, mai bhi dekh rha
बहुत खूब कही आपने घर घर की कहानी 🙏🙏🙏👌👌👌👌
हमको तो सास ससुर नोच नोच कर खा रहे हैं 😭😭😭
Bitter truths which are most relevant in today's times. Waiting for your vodeo for ladkiwale, Guruji.
एकदम सटीक बात ❤❤
लडकियों की शादी के लिये भी कुछ मार्गदर्शन करें 🙏
Sir m your subscriber from last 3 years….
Husband didn’t agree to move separate from his parents
Aj 4 saal ho gye shadi ko ..parents and nanad ne jeena mushkil kr rakha hai..2din khush ni rhe……ab finally alag ho rhe hai….parents are giving a social boycott to us cuz hum galat ni sehte…abusing my parents…and then not even accepting their mistake…feels like ki maine apne 3 saal waste kr diye for no good 🤕🤕🤕
Hope it'll work out for you.. good luck
All the best wishes to the both of you for your life ahead. Here's hoping you are both able to realise your goals as individuals and as a couple 🙏🏻. Kal jo beet gaya use wahaan rehne dijiye ...Aaj ka dekhiye abhi ka dekhiye
Mudd mudd ke na dekhiye
Aap kya krte ho... Yrr such ab koi keh nhi sktaa acche sath khush dikhne wale couple bhe alag ho rhe h muje to shaadi se phle hi darr lgne lga h..
@@twinklesharma4486 husband se alag ni rhe….parents se alag ho rhi hu….because they are making our lives miserable…inke kud k pas 3cr property hai…but dil k kodi ka nhi….no financial support at all….ulta husband ki kharche uthate hai sare
@@twinklesharma4486 I was working in SBI but posting issues ki vajeh se chor di job after baby
Meray toh parents and saas sasur dono hi tension denay walay type kay hain. Na khud khush rehna hai na doosray ko khush rehnay dena hai. Typical lower middle class.
11.50 baap re sirji.... Kya bole ho aap itni himmat humari sochne ki nahi.... Itna straight forward❤❤❤
Haatssss offff.... Best u r sir❤❤
Very Informative vedio! One vedio for girls' family will be highly welcomed too!
अगर सब कुछ गुरुजी की बातों के अनुसार ही चलता रहा तो बहुत जल्द हमें समाज में ,"कन्या भ्रूण हत्या" की जगह "बालक भ्रूण हत्या" के किस्से सुनने को मिलेंगे ।।
Guruji is back with his OG topic 🎉🎉
गुरुजी ने आपबीती अच्छी बताई है, ऐसे लग रहा है, इनको दिल पर बहुत लगी है
Your videos with good logic and scientific conviction will be life saving for our community. Thank you.
Most respected Guruji, deeply resonates with me. I'm 55 year old. I have suffered a lot
In uncle k beta bahu duniya k sbse lucky beta bahu hoge😂😂
My advise to couples
Husband has to take wife stand and wife has to support husband infrint of world..communicate with each other Whatever is the problem...don't keep inside..discuss politely, calmly , in closed doors...sort things together , adjust / twiq things little bit here and there and problem will solve itself
Sir this is good video from you after a long time. You should stick to these topics. The reason I subscribed you when you were just beginning.
Apke jaise koi sach nahi bol sakta...aur sach karwa hi hote hai. Quite applaud you for your efforts...it's an eye opener
Muja bhi bahut clearty milti h aapke video se my age sixty year do bahu h
Such sir. U r great alarm for girls also who doesn't know their value nd sacrifice their life... Ladko ko samjhaane wala koi to mila...
This is very true...every word of this....by the way my daughter in law is also Sangwan😊
Salam from Pakistan
Salaam bhai jaan
What's the status of minorities in Pakistan?
Pakistan mein to ye problems aur jyada honge as muslims are most orthodox
Jo guruji baat kar rahe h
@@akhilghag5898bachenge tab status hoga na
Yeh sab jagah pahunch jaate hai. Bina bulaye
Kaala sach please 😢❤
Yes Uncle I am planning to buy a house chahe small hi lelu. Separate rehne ka hi rehna hai
Flat hi le lo house ni toh
Shadi ke 5 years ghar n hi lo..... Wife domestic violance ka case karke residence right le legi aur enjoy karegi whole life apne parents or boyfriend ke sath........
Jab tak marriage stable n ho jata ghar n hi lo to achha h.....
@@EquitylearnersHaa bhai, I think initially rent me rehna hi best hai
@@Equitylearners If you're so scared then why even marrying then.
@@Just9n__ Not scared but alert.......
We cant close our eyes towards what is happening in society particularly in metro cities.
I really appreciate someone speaking up …🎉
Guruji agar itna practical ho jaaye sabkuch tab to pyaar rahega hi nahin rishte mein, only give and take waala relation reh jaaega.
Aap har point par detail video banaiyen. It is extremely important. Thank you for creating such videos. ❤
OG is back🔥🔥🔥
LadkeWala is here... Still i would say...Super Great Video
Good video 🎉🎉 लड़की वालों के लिए भी बनाये.....I have both बेटा and बेटी..marriageable age😊
Practical and honest ❤
Very nicely explained..Thank you ji!
One of the best videos I have ever watched on TH-cam! Thank you Sir!
Yes. Truth 💯always speaks for itself Guruji aapse sikha 🙏🙏🙏real kalesh speacialist
Thank you sir..for covering these points
This is so true , thank you sir for throwing light on such topics these really need to be addressed in our troublesome society ❤
Haha, boys parents will do roona pitna after listening this....😂😂😂. I have a boy and I completely agree with you....
Aapki ye video bahut aag lagane waali hai 🔥🔥🤣🤣
Your videos are eye openers for today's harsh real world. Pls continue the good work.
Sir kuchh ladki walon ko bhi samjhao. Aajkal ladkiya na ghar ka kaam kerti hai na baher ka.Bus sare din ma se baat kerti hai
After about 40 years, AI and robotics will reach unimaginable heights. That time I will get 3-4 beautiful looking female robots from Japan. They will do all the house work.
Bhai 2 din ke liye rent pe de dena
KALA SACHHHHH GURUJIIII
TOUCHING FEET 🙏🙏🙏
Geesa aagya guruji, aakhir gyan dee diya 👌
Ek video working women par bhi banaye kyunki ladkiyo ko job karni chahiye ye sab kehte hai par koi unki problem address nahi karta wo job bhi karti, ghar ke kam bhi karti lekin aadmi jyada contribution nahi deta uper se apni pareshni batao to kehta hai job chod do
Bilkul sahi bol rahe ho guru ji...meri saas ko aapki baatein sunke gussa aa gaya tha.
Slap on those who were troubling the young poor war widow.thanku sirjee.hope the video reaches far and wide.
Most hilarious episode ever....😂😂😂 bujorgoo.....❤
Guruji, please make a video about bahu grabbing in-laws property and going separately with husband and her parents will live with her on damaads money
Absolutely right ! Practical suggestions
Very true sir all old people so called saas sasur, thy enjoyed there life very much but thy want there children always obey thm side by side thy also need money also from thm 😢
Waah Guruji Bang on Target.... Bilkul sahi bole
Sir, I admire that you are discussing these big problems with the Indian society. In your videos, you seem to only be addressing one part of the problem i.e. Indian parents. Can you please make a video on Indian men who want to stay with their parents in the same house after their wedding? These men are rejecting girls who say no to that. Thank you
Sir aap cuteness ki dukaan ho sir.... lots of love n respect ❤️
सीधी सच्ची बात। Thank you sir
mere Tauji daadi se pehle chale gaye,. Tauji Lived 63 years, Daadi 96 years
I am happy. We are in top 5. No expectations.And pray they should live happily and we too
Kala sach
The things i want to say from the bottom of my heart are in this video
2 inch chota😅 ,but you tells truth atleast ❤
😂😂 bhai vo height ki baat kar rhe hain 😏
Saadi kro hi nahi, no jhanjhat 😂😂
My MIL exactly talk like this