Classic Divorce Court: What A Man, What A Man

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    Camille says she has known Darryl most of her life, but began a romantic relationship with him in 2009. Camille says they hit it off romantically and everything was going well. Camille says in the beginning Darryl was attentive, a harder worker and handy. She says about a year later he started to hang around a bad crowd, stopped working, stayed out late and had no respect for their relationship. She broke up with him for about a month and Darryl begged her to come back. She decided to give him another chance and they were married July 2011. Again, things were going well until she found texts from other women and even one who was requesting a paternity test. Camille says she loves her husband but doesn’t know if she can make this marriage work anymore.
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  • @nannynewsviews542
    @nannynewsviews542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +375

    He isn't ready to be married and have a family. He won't lead, and is disrespectful to the marriage.
    Sir you're broke and cheating......pick a struggle

    • @assiabenslimane2589
      @assiabenslimane2589 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Is the broke one that cheat ..from my observation

    • @mssmith8923
      @mssmith8923 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂m🤣😂😂don’t kill me

    • @niggaflies
      @niggaflies 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@assiabenslimane2589 Why date broke men then? Median income is 50k, you women have options. Why date broke men?

    • @kailalove3547
      @kailalove3547 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😭😭😭

    • @shadowkissed2370
      @shadowkissed2370 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@niggaflies she said he he wasn't broke when they were dating.

  • @coppercoloredlifestyle9498
    @coppercoloredlifestyle9498 4 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    She was the clean up woman. She made him better for another woman. She shouldn’t have been with him until he proved himself worthy of being able to take care of himself.

    • @TT-th1gb
      @TT-th1gb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Fact fact

    • @ericaashley4244
      @ericaashley4244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Agreed

    • @justjahki2149
      @justjahki2149 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      C'mon @coppercolored preach to me. I receive it 👂🏾👂🏾👂🏾

    • @bishop12340
      @bishop12340 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Omg I love that song ‘clean up women’

    • @beverlyhall4578
      @beverlyhall4578 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      AS a retired C.O. Supervisor I see this happen too many times. Women getting either ex convicts. People they have three strokes against them. Try being by yourself. These guys /gals are not ready for a strong personality.

  • @thearough
    @thearough 4 ปีที่แล้ว +415

    I want EVERY SINGLE necklace Judge Toler wears. How does she hit me with a stunner every episode.

    • @moooovies1234
      @moooovies1234 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes! If you're interested in owning unique masterpieces of your own, email me at mrstuzor@gmail.com

    • @rainbowpandasays8851
      @rainbowpandasays8851 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same girl ,same 🙋‍♀️

    • @lorrainepowell3764
      @lorrainepowell3764 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Lol..🤷🏾‍♀️

    • @getdadoeent7906
      @getdadoeent7906 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes and Lauren lake’s be stunning 😍 also most of the women on there wear them as well

    • @lovegoddess2040
      @lovegoddess2040 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She is the number one stunner what what what! 🎶🎶🎶💎💎💎

  • @MonaLisaFire
    @MonaLisaFire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +710

    We as women, including myself, need to do better and pick better partners especially if there are kids involved

    • @tag3893
      @tag3893 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I totally agree with you sister

    • @scream1237
      @scream1237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      On behalf of all the people that have to listen to women WHINE all the time about how hard life is when u don’t make better choices....BRAVO, get the msg out!

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I loved your ''including myself''.

    • @tonyhard6452
      @tonyhard6452 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      💯😇

    • @antayafairless9028
      @antayafairless9028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Sure..but blaming the victim isn't cool either. Plenty of men..AND women pretend to be good people and then change once you get serious..or married. She even said he changed when they got married . Yes it's on us to choose but...some people are good liars and manipulators.

  • @sophistic8dladi3
    @sophistic8dladi3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +554

    She's lucky she didn't lose her daycare license having an ex felon driving students around. And drunk at that smh

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

      Buckeyecat2002 That’s not the issue, felons around kids could be a big problem in some areas. She really should have considered that when she became involved with him.

    • @wyldflower03
      @wyldflower03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      Charles Anderson
      ✨Felons are one thing sex offenders is another

    • @sophistic8dladi3
      @sophistic8dladi3 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      In my state individuals with criminal records cant work with the venerable populations ie. The disabled, children, or the elderly. And he may very well be good with kids

    • @charlesanderson1422
      @charlesanderson1422 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Meia Meia Not in the great state of California. A felon is severely restricted as to what type of work he can get, what type, if any professional license he can whole, and the population he can work with, and around. She would have been legally required to inform the parents of the children of his status.Equally important, he has a drinking problem, that she had to have known about before they moved in together. She said he had been drinking on the day of the accident, how she didn’t get sued is a mystery. This woman clearly has issues, because this man is going to cause her far more problems than he’s worth. He has way to much baggage.

    • @MP-nj1qy
      @MP-nj1qy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Britt 421 yeah, seriously, that’s crazy. She should be ashamed to even mention that on national tv.

  • @PHCP325
    @PHCP325 3 ปีที่แล้ว +227

    I watch this for educational purposes. The advice be on point and very applicable to real life

    • @sandrabradford9723
      @sandrabradford9723 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      YES

    • @kharmaclayton8966
      @kharmaclayton8966 2 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Same lol that I was the only one

    • @dwaynespotford8450
      @dwaynespotford8450 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      So true I have applied things she said in my relationship.

    • @farellfarai7711
      @farellfarai7711 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Personally l learn something new daily.... by just watching a few episodes per day

    • @questionresearch8721
      @questionresearch8721 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Me too.

  • @I3lackVeNoM911
    @I3lackVeNoM911 4 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    The show will never be the same again without Judge Lynn 😔

    • @dawonfields4662
      @dawonfields4662 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      It's not like she died lol

    • @VashtiPerry
      @VashtiPerry 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's okay

    • @meghanmoore4871
      @meghanmoore4871 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      She quit 🤔

    • @midnitemoon577
      @midnitemoon577 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      I definitely will always miss her. She was perfect for this show and role as a divorce court judge. She was serious yet cheerful too. She was fair and soooo wise. I still have her words of advice come to me when making difficult decisions sometimes.

    • @ThatDamnTaurus
      @ThatDamnTaurus 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      💯💯

  • @abuhuraira3685
    @abuhuraira3685 4 ปีที่แล้ว +273

    Always strive to give your spouse the very best of yourself
    Not what's left over after you gave your best to everyone else

    • @christianebatama5511
      @christianebatama5511 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Preach preach

    • @mrk7201
      @mrk7201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Very well said Mr Abu Huraira

    • @TT-th1gb
      @TT-th1gb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Abu Huraira Spoken like a true mature King 👑💫

    • @jaehorton4687
      @jaehorton4687 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      👏🏽👏🏽

    • @MsRhondaRandy
      @MsRhondaRandy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I've NEVER heard this put together so well!

  • @misslauren6798
    @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +407

    Why do women put up with this crap? You're crazy for coming on Divorce Court to ask judge Lynn to tell him to act right. JUST LEAVE!!

    • @joaniexms4201
      @joaniexms4201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Maybe it’s because their head and heart is always hurting but still give them chances they lost and when coming to Judge Lynn she will tell them straight maybe

    • @KingRose339
      @KingRose339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Because they remember how it used to be and think they can get that back but that’s not how it works 🙄

    • @deelee5244
      @deelee5244 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Lauren Kindred low self esteem

    • @darrellwilliams9850
      @darrellwilliams9850 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lauren Kindred Exactly

    • @misslauren6798
      @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @goody 2 shoes YES! I am also thoroughly amazed at how many women allow it!!

  • @NotYourTypicalNegro
    @NotYourTypicalNegro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +218

    He wasted his time in prison. Didn't take the time to examine himself or read any books. Sad.

    • @scream1237
      @scream1237 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Like if she could get a well read man...do better to get better goes both ways....this is the best she can do...

    • @carriemtsh9648
      @carriemtsh9648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Probably he had women like her sending him money and he thought he was Gods gift to the ladies

    • @crissoa
      @crissoa 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Some men actually like prison... if you know what I mean

  • @carriemtsh9648
    @carriemtsh9648 3 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    She is so kind, full of love and sympathy for him; she feels guilty to leave him; she has tried her best and hasn’t worked; he just enjoying to be a kept man;I pray she realises she can’t save someone who doesn’t wanna be saved.

    • @babajibagte
      @babajibagte 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      th-cam.com/video/w02j3zUePeU/w-d-xo.html

    • @Rae777
      @Rae777 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      He went right from prison to a long term relationship. She's a wonderful woman. He was always going to have a hard time adjusting with that, but he should've demonstrated more effort. He needs to be single until he gets more accommodated. I hate that it's so difficult for both of them.

    • @missmimz7455
      @missmimz7455 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Well said 😊

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 ปีที่แล้ว

      He still hasn't learned his lesson Not ready to be really committed seriously..

    • @kattiethomas4687
      @kattiethomas4687 ปีที่แล้ว

      He's not really accustomed to being overly dedicated.

  • @ninadrake2167
    @ninadrake2167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +308

    This man is emotionally immature, only married her for a place to stay, and someone to put up with his shenanigans, while he runs the streets drinking and sleeping around.
    #StopMarryingAndTakingInTheseWorthless
    Fools

    • @marxcapitalistadk4845
      @marxcapitalistadk4845 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You are Drake s moms??? Suspect

    • @edwardhein1435
      @edwardhein1435 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree , are these women weak.

    • @scream1237
      @scream1237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      5 kids , 400lbs....It’s either this dude or Jesus at this point.

    • @joanstephens8050
      @joanstephens8050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      You're right he just looking a steady place to lay his head: some of these women put up with too much nonsense:, what example is she setting for her children .

    • @tammygrantt
      @tammygrantt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly

  • @jenowens9990
    @jenowens9990 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

    That man needs to be single! Girl cut your loses!!! ✌🏾✌🏾 I think he posted the picture by accident but purposely took the picture!! 📸😳

    • @juanjuan2x
      @juanjuan2x 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed because he probably was trying to take the easy way out by having her see the picture and thought she would leave him.

  • @123CREATIONS
    @123CREATIONS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +286

    How you drinking and driving with the child in the car?!?! Are you serious? I guess he wants to go back to prison. Smdh

    • @ChocolateSunshine1
      @ChocolateSunshine1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      HE HIS OWN WORSE ENEMY.. she better run before they both don't have shit

    • @msdecemberloveangel8236
      @msdecemberloveangel8236 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Looks to me thats where he's heading

  • @jasminej6281
    @jasminej6281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +85

    Oh, he want to be free, let him be free and do nothing. He think being responsible working adult that keeps trying to get things done is a prison. Well, it's called life, in real word. Do you sister. You're stunning strong woman.

    • @milleberitaag2100
      @milleberitaag2100 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      If he posted it by accident.. why not remove it fast at heLL!???

    • @jasminej6281
      @jasminej6281 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@milleberitaag2100 lol he's too childish

  • @muziquebox
    @muziquebox 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    It is SOOOO refreshing to hear someone correct the whole 180 vs 360 degree difference! Thank you judge!

    • @teadrayoung84
      @teadrayoung84 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes indeed. I'm guilty of it myself. This episode was educational in more ways than one. I think the plaintiff learned a new word that day

    • @johnmahan4757
      @johnmahan4757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Amen brother!!😂

  • @kdaye7647
    @kdaye7647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    He reminds me of my husband. He has a background too. But he is working. The part of him staying out until the next morning like u single and not helping in the home or participating in his children or my child life. I'm over it! I've helped him start a business, did very well, then he stopped it to do something else bcuz he follows his friends that don't have a damn thing. Then we started another business. Once again made great money. But then his friends became more important and things just went downhill. I'm sick of him and someone else can deal with the b.s. Now I'm leaving him and moving into my new home he going crazy. Bcuz his HELP won't be around. I'M DONE. MEN LIKE HIM IS VERY TIRING.

    • @mogetit5999
      @mogetit5999 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Blessings on your journey moving forward

    • @debratownsend5495
      @debratownsend5495 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Narcissist to the FULLEST

    • @nononsense5182
      @nononsense5182 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Some people are hard headed..😑
      Don't have time to school an adult 🥱

  • @laurenhall878
    @laurenhall878 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Thank you for NOT saying 360! And thank you Judge for educating the people on the difference! Sorry, pet peeve of mine. LOL

    • @johnmahan4757
      @johnmahan4757 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Mine too😂 A geometry refresher

  • @ddnquestion1
    @ddnquestion1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +87

    CAMILLE, KICK THIS BUM TO THE CURB ROLE MODEL AIN'T IN HIM, ANY-WHERE!!!!

    • @TT-th1gb
      @TT-th1gb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Facccts

  • @RedAmazon52
    @RedAmazon52 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    He is still institutionalized mentally. and feels that he's missed out on the fun which is not her fault. She was a lifeline and he took it. They both need to move on and each get what they need. Somebody else.

    • @dennwilliams3342
      @dennwilliams3342 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Classic love after and during lockup case study

  • @ck.5218
    @ck.5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +92

    Excuses ..he’s full of excuses , using being in prison..to how he feels like he’s still there so he can do what he wants..
    He could have it all but , simply put he’s no good.. I know people like him.. good for a min and back to their old self and they go through life like that because they rely on other people having a good heart..
    She should , and this being an old episode , I hope she did get rid of him.

    • @ck.5218
      @ck.5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @Buckeyecat2002
      Maybe he woke up to himself ..

  • @g4do
    @g4do 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    People don't take wedding vows seriously at all . It's as if the words are purely ceremonial. ...for better or worse, till death do you part ... heavyweight words for featherweight lovers. Love conquers all!! Remember to always make sure you pick the right person to marry. Never pick someone because they make your private parts feel good . In fact, you should teach your children not to have sex at all until they find a person that can and will wait until marriage. Choose a mate that has a brain, that has their priorities together, that is financially responsible... never choose someone that's messier than you are. What's wrong with our people these days?

    • @bluu_ice6554
      @bluu_ice6554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Sounds good but kids these days are having sex in junior high.

    • @sugarplum2467
      @sugarplum2467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I mean, the act of marriage is a ceremony based in Christianity and most people who get married aren't Christian, so the issue starts there. Marriage is nothing more than a legal contract. You can make a promise to someone without ever getting married and if you aren't heavily religious and following that religion 100% (virgin til marriage etc etc) there's really no meaning to a wedding ceremony.

    • @SlashTheWeasel
      @SlashTheWeasel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I agree with you but seems now days its not there anymore. Divorce rates are high and we live in throw away society. People are living together and not getting married (which I don't believe in. When I let man live with me I was engaged to marry him in couple of weeks. Still happily married today for 15 years). Weddings are nothing more than huge eloborate affairs that cost fortune which people go in debt for. And for what? I mean really? Its not house to live in.

    • @g4do
      @g4do 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@SlashTheWeasel I too am married ... 8 years now . Me and my wife are the best of friends and we have 4 children. Every relationship has its ups and downs but it comes down weather you picked a sex partner or a life partner. These days , with no examples of what love is , people choose great sexual partners, but don't look at what kind of person they've decided to be with. Today's music and television shows don't really show what love is and lots of people run away from church like it's a plague so they miss out on the lessons that teach what love is , how to endure hardships and how to choose the perfect life mate. It will take this generation's adults to learn and teach our next generation how to be more than sex addicts.

    • @g4do
      @g4do 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@sugarplum2467 marriage is not an act , it's a commitment. Yes it's a ceremony, but it's a serious ceremony. You don't have to be Christian to appreciate the importance of marriage. But you you do have to be mature . The problem with this generation is immaturity. From teens to 50+ , immaturity is a massive problem. You can love and respect if you don't know what it is . Beyond definition.

  • @debisybesma5855
    @debisybesma5855 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    the airwaves are no longer the same without this smart, funny, wonderful lady!!!

  • @subekennedy9554
    @subekennedy9554 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    Her makeup is done nicely lol I love her lip color on her

    • @Kuttie03
      @Kuttie03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      sube kennedy she is really pretty too.

    • @laptop24ful
      @laptop24ful 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kuttiesmith03 qq SQ

    • @jenniferhewitt9331
      @jenniferhewitt9331 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Mary'sGaming tt

    • @ryniepan3038
      @ryniepan3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @IMJSANYUmad did you miss the part where he got incarcerated twice, stopped working, started not coming home, started cheating, and basically abandoned her and the children?

    • @ryniepan3038
      @ryniepan3038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @IMJSANYUmad not saying she’s in the right for hitting him but damn it sounds to me like he’s a horrible person

  • @melissakbj
    @melissakbj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    When that pic went out on fb he said he sobered up quickly 😆

    • @darkstar5260
      @darkstar5260 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @Buckeyecat2002 …..YES.CUZ...………...IT SAID THAT SOME-ONE WAS BE-HIND HIM...…...

    • @peacheskong2245
      @peacheskong2245 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@darkstar5260 Noooo😂😂😂

  • @geenal360
    @geenal360 4 ปีที่แล้ว +156

    He still feels like he is in prison? Um is their bars at the house? Wearing a jumpsuit? Three meals a day at certain times? Men in the shower? Men on ya? You sound like you Forgot Prison life- at the rate you are going - you will be back. She's going to be fine and more happy without an extra mouth to feed, clothe and wait for.

    • @ck.5218
      @ck.5218 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @Jan Johnson
      go check out her face book.. she’s stunning now and not fat..

    • @coriesmith2633
      @coriesmith2633 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Kathy Marie and even if she was that doesn’t mean anything! She just wanted her husband to behave like a husband and not out running the streets until the next morning sleeping with random women and bringing his mess knocking on her door

    • @djpswaggerdreamlikeaboss2366
      @djpswaggerdreamlikeaboss2366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@janjohnson2061 stfu you stupid as fuck.

    • @djpswaggerdreamlikeaboss2366
      @djpswaggerdreamlikeaboss2366 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@coriesmith2633 exactly

    • @djpswaggerdreamlikeaboss2366
      @djpswaggerdreamlikeaboss2366 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@ck.5218 who Cares about her size. She very beautiful fat or skinny.

  • @empressleah2615
    @empressleah2615 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    I can’t believe they are married to be honest , just how he is , him being a felon and has the nerve to be cheating carelessly if he was doing this before y’all got married she should have ran because when your trying to set an good example for your daughter you don’t marry let alone fool with a man like this ever . I understand she loves him but you can love somebody & have the sense enough to know he is not a good choice say no and wait for a man that is everything she needs .

  • @HTAnderson76
    @HTAnderson76 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    This was like an episode of Love After LockUp

    • @dainiellecoco720
      @dainiellecoco720 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Mona Scott finna see this 😂

    • @1kam607
      @1kam607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      LOL

    • @MsRhondaRandy
      @MsRhondaRandy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      HA! HA! HA! HA!....good one.

  • @sharonsmalls6846
    @sharonsmalls6846 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    Listen to his tone when he’s discussing putting out his resume, and she’s encouraging him to call back concerning their decision. That sums it up, he’s resentful about her encouragement. I would have put him out because he’s a negative influence on her children. I know they had horrendous arguments after he posted the nude picture and the driving under the influence with the children. He’s a headache.

    • @ChocolateSunshine1
      @ChocolateSunshine1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I hate this kind of man that CAN COMPLAIN ABOUT THE VERY DAMN PERSON TRYING TO HELP THEM but can't see that THEY ARE THE DAMN PROBLEM

    • @vernonwhitehead8375
      @vernonwhitehead8375 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I understand the stress that he incount have an prison record plus been an black men .He can enrolled in an Community College an why didn't he take classes while locked up? They are free. Education opens any doors.

  • @BrileyGabriel
    @BrileyGabriel 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    She picked a two time excon to be the man to be a good "role model" for her kids! Makes sense! smh

    • @telishawilliams5395
      @telishawilliams5395 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      None at all. She was not thinking with her head

  • @donnellbarber9733
    @donnellbarber9733 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    The stuff women accept and put up with is mind blowing. A man who brings nothing to the table shouldn't be allowed to sit at the table this mess is sad

  • @nzurimoja1845
    @nzurimoja1845 2 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Many men who have been incarcerated act like this….I believe subconsciously they don’t feel they deserve good because of their incarceration, so when they get out they start self sabotaging.

  • @tiffanybeckom7348
    @tiffanybeckom7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +158

    You posting it was not the issue. The issue is that you were with another woman, where's the empathy? She's definitely a bbw, shout out to my chocolate sistas.

    • @peteroyebimpe3835
      @peteroyebimpe3835 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      My full loads of love to you chocolate Sis.

    • @tiffanybeckom7348
      @tiffanybeckom7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @3165dwayne Shame on you.

    • @loadedpipe1311
      @loadedpipe1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      She puts her hands on him and that's a major sin.

    • @tiffanybeckom7348
      @tiffanybeckom7348 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@loadedpipe1311 Agree but, why be in a miserable relationship when they can just both leave each other and be happy.

    • @loadedpipe1311
      @loadedpipe1311 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @3165dwayne Fat positivity only exist foe women. God forbid you are a man and short, you doomed.😂

  • @keishasmith379
    @keishasmith379 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    She probably shouldnt have married him until he was ready to be married. He just got out and mayb needs time to adjust.

    • @Michelle-pn9xt
      @Michelle-pn9xt 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      He deos not need time to adjust. He does not want to be married.

  • @thefulltimeshow6293
    @thefulltimeshow6293 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    It's funny how they just gloss over her hitting him like that was even said let that be the other way around all hell would break loose...ijs

    • @brishaberries0101
      @brishaberries0101 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Its nothing to talk about she knew she was wrong she said she felt bad about it.

    • @tabithabrown5280
      @tabithabrown5280 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      She said she was wrong. Never did it again.

  • @lifewithsulmy7504
    @lifewithsulmy7504 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    All these cases make me thankful I was picky and waited to get married til 30. I was a little more mature at 30. Man, I dodged some bullets. Married almost 6 years now and we still have some issues but we are mature enough to get through it.
    BUT still cheaters were swiftly gotten rid of, no second chances.

  • @AshleyMarieMommy
    @AshleyMarieMommy 2 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    She’s not being bossy she’s making a request for her requirements for what she wants in her life. You don’t want work. If you want a job tell them show them you want the job. The thing they see him for what she don’t accept that she sees!

  • @piggnorfleet3521
    @piggnorfleet3521 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Cant beat a man into loving you..... damn he past trifling like really

  • @26socialbutterfly
    @26socialbutterfly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    He was NOT ready to be in a committed relationship...she was just thirsty..for any man

  • @lioniahilaire3127
    @lioniahilaire3127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I bet she still waiting on that $800 🙄

  • @carshathomas1115
    @carshathomas1115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Cut him loose and see how he will get his shit together and step up and or create himself a job and business

  • @antoneiafoster5227
    @antoneiafoster5227 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    Yea he made himself look bad but I can say he was honest and he owned up to what he was responsible for🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @thevectorhouse1113
      @thevectorhouse1113 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes he was honest and owned up to it. After that admission if the change is only going to last 30 days he might as well leave but he won't because no one else will put up with that crap and he needs some where to live. Sad

  • @hammondpolk4050
    @hammondpolk4050 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Firstly, she is a really attractive woman who needs to be treated like the queen she is secondly, he NEEDS to get his act together and be that man who his significant other can really depend on. Not just financially, but physically and spiritually also. Be a better man. Put that best foot forward. It can be done!

  • @asiablackgrl6482
    @asiablackgrl6482 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I’m sad she has him around her children. I would be petrified 😱

  • @melanieross0073
    @melanieross0073 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    She doing everything for him. Why should he want a job?

    • @TheReddman68
      @TheReddman68 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Hell LOOK AT HER who got they SH going on messing around with THAT

    • @123CREATIONS
      @123CREATIONS 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

      Listen Linda!!! Some women will take any man over a real one! Even if that means she has to raise him! 🤔😬

    • @maxinesamilton6240
      @maxinesamilton6240 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      @@TheReddman68 she could do a lot better. He not a prize

    • @59thanks61
      @59thanks61 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Exactly, she's enabling him

  • @taezaj123
    @taezaj123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    #I #Was #Told #LowSelfEsteem
    #Invites #AnyoneAndThing
    #ToTheTable
    You get what you keep asking for...
    Know your #WORTH😒😒😒

  • @terrancebaxter1339
    @terrancebaxter1339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He made reference to the fact that she'd hit him like three times and the judge judge just completely ignored him

    • @dreambigbigger1622
      @dreambigbigger1622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      That's cause she dun swung on her man when he on that bull jive

    • @ISayToMyself
      @ISayToMyself 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      I was just about to say that. She needs to stop putting her hands on the man. Abuse is abuse regardless of the gender.

    • @dreambigbigger1622
      @dreambigbigger1622 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ISayToMyself amen

    • @MonaLisaFire
      @MonaLisaFire 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I understand her anger as I've done the same, but we all need to keep our hands to ourselves

    • @d820m
      @d820m 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      If he put his hands on her, he'd be treated like he was the second coming of Ike Turner

  • @aaprii333
    @aaprii333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Alright Miss! She pulled off the pronunciation of "conciliatory" pretty well👍

    • @mikemiketrill
      @mikemiketrill 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      😂😂😂I swear I was thinking that myself

    • @lorrainepowell3764
      @lorrainepowell3764 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      She learned something, bet she use that word again and again, good job Judge,teach my people.

    • @nicole8809
      @nicole8809 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I was holding my breath 😂😂😂

  • @calamityjane5484
    @calamityjane5484 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She's actually very pretty and level-headed and her husband ain't it.

  • @tipdog36
    @tipdog36 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I slapped him....because I was angry. What if he slapped her because he was angry 🤔

  • @scream1237
    @scream1237 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    5 kids, 400lbs , man is a broke drunk , multiple x felon....proudly proclaims..”I’ma BOSS!!!”...😂

  • @sharonjackson268
    @sharonjackson268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Y would you want to put this dude over your kids? I'm angry with her.
    Chile please.

    • @joeroot9142
      @joeroot9142 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🚩

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I didn't hear that part 🤔 neglecting her kids but the toxic relationship is what harms the kids

  • @francesmorales1094
    @francesmorales1094 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Making good choices will always have a good outcome in anyone’s life. The focus is to make yourself proud first, then the rest will fall into place.

  • @feliciahepburn2854
    @feliciahepburn2854 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    You went over to these messy women’s house to drink and smoke KNOWING their messy?? You’re fault sir...

  • @blacdharma2381
    @blacdharma2381 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I wanna see judge and Miss iyanla Link up and just talk... the. wisdom btw the two is just 🥰🥰🥰🥰 and The judge from Paternity court she's good too

  • @QueenASMR2019
    @QueenASMR2019 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    If they don't hire you, create your own job! Quit waiting for someone to give you a job. He can cut grass, drive lyft, become a courier, deliver groceries, clean houses, cut hair, dog walk, etc.... Come on man!

  • @sharonray3588
    @sharonray3588 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    She put that students life in danger, he has a suspended license and she knew he had a drinking problem. That kid’s parents trusted her and she failed them. That angers me! You can be as weak as you want over a man but you have not right dragging other people’s kids into that bullshit!

  • @CherylJ7501
    @CherylJ7501 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow, her complexion is BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @ecfog7120
    @ecfog7120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I've never before heard of someone accidentally taking a photo, and then accidentally posting it... You have to first open the camera, then take the photo, then hit share, then choose the app, then hit post/upload... That's just too much of a process for it be an accident

  • @kimberlydillard1090
    @kimberlydillard1090 4 ปีที่แล้ว +31

    He's saying that he a handyman. Besides being a handyman you still need a full-time job cuz a handyman ain't bringing in enough money. That type of work is not guaranteed. That man got too much time on his hands. He out there messing around with other women coming home when he feel like it and running games on her.

  • @sherienichol1580
    @sherienichol1580 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I can’t be with no man that ain’t got no job!!!

    • @johnmahan4757
      @johnmahan4757 ปีที่แล้ว

      Ain't nothing goin on but the rent 🎶

  • @sharonjackson268
    @sharonjackson268 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ex con driving other people kids. She needs to be sued. While intoxicated.
    Smh...

  • @markharley237
    @markharley237 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    It’s crazy because if a man smacked his woman on different occasions because she came home too late he would be the devil but when a woman does it it’s normal

  • @trusno7751
    @trusno7751 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Lady don't run, sprint up outta there! This dude is using you for a sleeping bag, he gone cheat on you every chance he get, i hate to say it, but it is what it is at this stage inda game! Love yourself and build your self-esteem back up...Cuzin gotta quit drinking and hanging out, thats bad for building up generational wealth for yall family structure. ..-Trusno

  • @SmartLazyMillionaire
    @SmartLazyMillionaire 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When someone shows you who they are, believe them.

  • @Singlehood2Marriage
    @Singlehood2Marriage 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I’m glad Mr. Merriweather is becoming a BETTER CITIZEN.... ( they wrong for that ending 😩😩😩)

  • @yellagirl419
    @yellagirl419 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Judge Toler read him so right! He had a weird calmness that I didnt like and the wife seemed to be careful of what she was able to tell the judge I pray she took Judge advice

  • @man-ebro5040
    @man-ebro5040 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He's going to stop drinking and driving and work on becoming a better citizen 😂😂

  • @tasbar7743
    @tasbar7743 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I sobered up imstantly 😂😂😂Too funny

  • @ItsSimplyJulie
    @ItsSimplyJulie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Girl, tell him to get the steppin'!

  • @carshathomas1115
    @carshathomas1115 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He needs out of prison therapy and or support group that help foster getting a job, housing, and get back credentials to vote etcetera

  • @ISayToMyself
    @ISayToMyself 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    She’s trying to build a man. You can’t make him be a man. This ain’t the same as marrying “potential.” He may need a life coach. A mentor of some sort. Is he part of an ex-con men’s group at church?

  • @seanjohn6932
    @seanjohn6932 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    This dude is so calm with everything, how could someone be angry with this dude, why are women picking up these incarcerated brothers, who think they need to let loose because being in a home with a woman, reminds him of being in prison. This is a very strange marriage, good luck to the both of you guys.

  • @kdaye7647
    @kdaye7647 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    JUDGE IS ON POINT!!

  • @1kam607
    @1kam607 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    i need a drink after that depressing episode

  • @hectorsilva4330
    @hectorsilva4330 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I knew someone that wanted to see hurt, jobless, and with nothing to support myself with. I did one thing and it was to accept entrapment is in all sizes and to stop the cycle you have to be positive and ready to say no and cut them loose.

  • @rebeccamaysmartin8065
    @rebeccamaysmartin8065 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They are both in my PRAYERS! She's BELLA/BEAUTIFUL!!!

  • @TheNaphisa03
    @TheNaphisa03 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

    Pretty girl.

  • @Hello-rq9yx
    @Hello-rq9yx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Just need to complement on how gorgeous this lady is😘

  • @bethehype5339
    @bethehype5339 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Not we can lead you home cause we live there too 🤣😂🤣😂🤣

  • @immortal-fatexx7040
    @immortal-fatexx7040 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'll never understand the people who bring a civil case with absolutely no evidence. I can understand verbal contracts are hard to prove but a bill to repair a car it's so simple to provide. She's lucky that he was honest and the judge awarded it to her. And it's not just her, sometimes I'm absolutely shocked at how many people bring a case forth and leave their evidence at home.

  • @shavondagwynn2697
    @shavondagwynn2697 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I love Toler she said I would be back doing it at day 31

  • @trukweenskinkissedbythesun
    @trukweenskinkissedbythesun 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    She's so BEAUTIFUL !!!

  • @onlythestrong04
    @onlythestrong04 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    The courage some women have to just slap theor husbands is just shocking to me and they just act like it's normal wow.

    • @sharongantt1848
      @sharongantt1848 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Well see the bad thing about putting hands on someone is he's already been to jail twice and that would be number 3. I do not believe it's right for anyone to put their hands on one another. I would🏃.

    • @V.Hansen.
      @V.Hansen. 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Pfff. I'll slap you too if I have to go find you when you should be home.

  • @multyz1
    @multyz1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Do you have to be incarcerated to get a good woman?

    • @raqui174
      @raqui174 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Wanna find out 😅

    • @beb5407
      @beb5407 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No way yuck 🤢

    • @nickycarter916
      @nickycarter916 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Apparently

  • @chiquitaswoope1600
    @chiquitaswoope1600 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Judge Lynn the show isnot the same. I truly miss you. Much love and peace to you. ⭐⭐⭐⭐⭐

  • @DanQuestTM
    @DanQuestTM 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Yes, I do believe he posted the pics by accident. No one will do that to themselves and especially knowing he has a wife and children.

    • @angelsweet9611
      @angelsweet9611 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Oh you don’t know some men

    • @DanQuestTM
      @DanQuestTM 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@angelsweet9611 You do have a point but can any prove he done it?

  • @lunamonetmonroe
    @lunamonetmonroe 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Working on becoming a better citizen? 🤔 What about working on becoming a better father at the very least if they’re not working their marriage out....

  • @patfrancis109
    @patfrancis109 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    She could have done better than that. Sometimes people are desperate so they will settle for less.🤣😆🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @blazeovich
    @blazeovich 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    What's wrong with Black America?
    These men are drowning and nobody's helping.
    And these women have had just about enough!
    Who's ever gon' fix this? Is it ever gon' be fixed?
    There are tears in my eyes and a crack in my heart.
    I ache. How I ache. I pray, and I hope something changes soon for the better.

    • @aaprii333
      @aaprii333 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I feel u😰😰😣😣😡😭😭

  • @NotYourTypicalNegro
    @NotYourTypicalNegro ปีที่แล้ว +3

    This guy is an example of the failure of the prison. All it does is reinforce the sense of irresponsibility these men came to prison with. They sit in a jail cell or dorm all day doing nothing. And when they come home they don't think they have to do anything. That comment he made about "Well, if I wasn't here you'd have to do it anyway", was very telling. That's a prison mentality, as well as a child like one.

  • @tessa4181
    @tessa4181 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I wonder if judge Toler’s kids watch her show😂

    • @lisareid3336
      @lisareid3336 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      They live with the show..God Blessed them

  • @barbararichmond2167
    @barbararichmond2167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    I have always said that the best way to end a love affair is to marry it .

  • @worldhealthrn
    @worldhealthrn 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Beautiful and reasonable woman...he probably wasn't 100% ready to settle down but nice guy overall... it's hard to come back from being locked up if ur not strong, focused and determined

  • @kimmerryjohnz6039
    @kimmerryjohnz6039 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Love 😍 makes we the ladies to forget about whom we really are. Any man you pick from the 🚮 today turns his back on you tomorrow why are we not learning from divorce court

  • @ChocolateSunshine1
    @ChocolateSunshine1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    some PEOPLE TRULY STAY IN THIER OWN WAY. Seems like he found a good woman trying to love him and he busy wanting to be a damn kid again and run the streets. NOTHING MAKES ME MADDER THAN A MAN CALLING A WOMAN CONTROLLING ...but then you find out he half assing it, doing the wrong things , fucking up and the TRUTH IS SHE ISN'T TRYING TO CONTROL, HIM SHE IS TRYING TO SAVE HIM. I agree with the judge. DONT DROWN FOR NOBODY. if all he got is partying and excuses... BYE SIR! The same woman they grateful for and appreciative in the beginning …. they get sick of when THEY HAVE TO GET THEIR SHIT TOGETHER!

  • @indianajones443
    @indianajones443 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Moral of the story: never try to repeat words that you've never used before. 😁

  • @gwenettethacker9533
    @gwenettethacker9533 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    She is so beautiful. Hope she moves on.

  • @winniedhaouadi1973
    @winniedhaouadi1973 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Hahaha the naked pic Just happens
    Boem

  • @titannafinley5242
    @titannafinley5242 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    You know once that you show that you are out there reaching for something to get your foot in the door and you have to keep up with showing effort in this relationship to see that you can get out there in the world and show that you can support you and your family. In a marriage it takes two to make it throughout the entire deal. Once you said "I do" then its time to pay the piper with what you have to offer in that marriage. You have to maintain that you want to stick this out and show her something in this without lagging behind and get a job.