Classic Divorce Court: Sexy Chocolate

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  • @huglife1079
    @huglife1079 4 ปีที่แล้ว +480

    We as men have to do better. Too many men think they can just leave and abandon their kids. It’s unacceptable. Not for a minute, hour, day, week, anything!! It’s not fair to the children to do that.

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      💯

    • @antayafairless9028
      @antayafairless9028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      We as PEOPLE need to do better honestly...it's not just men who do awful things xo

    • @privatelifejust_4me
      @privatelifejust_4me 3 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@antayafairless9028 Yet he was taking accountability unlike most men.

    • @TB-fk4qm
      @TB-fk4qm 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Amen!!!!

    • @October3074
      @October3074 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@antayafairless9028 that wasn't necessary; he mentioned men in this instance due 2 the case here.

  • @lontrelllewis8247
    @lontrelllewis8247 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

    (RULE #1 IN RELATIONSHIPS) Never let your partner be the one responsible for your happiness. (RULE #2 IN RELATIONSHIPS) Never forget rule #1.

    • @sirisaacmormont5445
      @sirisaacmormont5445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Fucking testify.

    • @genesiasheree
      @genesiasheree 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I have learned this the hard way

    • @RareGem123
      @RareGem123 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I never realise that this was my biggest problem due to my insecurities.

  • @JasmineCrump
    @JasmineCrump 4 ปีที่แล้ว +322

    He’s too emotional and insecure. He wasn’t ready to be a husband. You don’t EVER leave your family! Especially, when your woman is pregnant. I don’t think he’s completely trifling. However, he clearly needs therapy.

    • @jeffreylaury6549
      @jeffreylaury6549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      There's lots of men that are depressed and mental health issues but are afraid to tell someone because of being labeled as weak or not tough enough. Especially in the black community. Women have all the resources for themselves in dealing mental health and abuse. NOT MEN

    • @mariel.4566
      @mariel.4566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Jeffrey Laury not true black women have it the worst, we have to do because we know we can’t depend on no one to help us. We have all types of mental problems but we have to be there for the kids and family. We have to put our big girl panties on and keep it moving because we have children/people depending on us.

    • @antayafairless9028
      @antayafairless9028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@jeffreylaury6549 women have ALL the resources ?! Come on. Your comment didn't even touch on the fact that ..he has all the resources as well!!!! No one will say "sorry I will not see you as a therapist because you are male ". If someone labels him that sucks but YOU STILL GO! you still get help! Saying men don't have the resources is straight up misinformation. I absolutely agree men are sometimes labelled as weak but honestly as a woman in therapy I also have been so you sitting there and making it seem like women have it easy is silly. The comment you are replying to is CORRECT. he does need therapy ...that's on him and this is no one's fault but his own. It's on us to get mental help.

    • @antayafairless9028
      @antayafairless9028 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@mariel.4566 yeah that comment upsets me. Women have plenty of issues and men have the exact same resources....no one will go "sorry I cannot see you as a therapist because you are male " insanity. Yes some IDIOTS label men getting help as weak but so what ? They need to get over it and get help anyways. I hope this man gets help.

    • @lovette7684
      @lovette7684 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Agree that I don't think he is completely trifling, but he doesn't have the skills/tools/examples to do better. I feel sorry for us women having to raise these men.

  • @cynthiakila1161
    @cynthiakila1161 4 ปีที่แล้ว +476

    Don’t trust women but have 4 children . These people are a walking contradiction .

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      So true

    • @SunflowerBabeTeeTea
      @SunflowerBabeTeeTea 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That was my exact thought!

    • @caldwell4129
      @caldwell4129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      it's a man thing... women my never understand... men cant take cheating..especially if they truly in love... I c a man that's trying monitor his feelings an just knows he cant take being cheated on... I think it's a input output thing..

    • @misslauren6798
      @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

      @@caldwell4129 It's a PEOPLE thing. PEOPLE are damaged by being cheated on. How many episodes of this show have we seen women tracking and trailing, checking phones, snapping on random women for looking at their man the "wrong" way? But she still stays and keeps having kids by him. DEFINITELY not a sex/gender thing.

    • @caldwell4129
      @caldwell4129 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@misslauren6798 I understand..I'm just saying from a mans point of view.. an dealing an knowing guys.. it something about a woman letting another man up inside her when it supposed to belong to her man... it does something to a man that causes him to never love like he once love... an a black man that's a good man or not so good of a man ..doesn't like to feel he a sucker ... so they try not to love but so much. He wants her that's y he kept putting kids in her ...hoping no one else wants her.. because he knows how guys are.. an guys not starting ready made family's they may pretend to.. to get what they want... that's his frame of thought... this is how guy think when they dealing with someone they really love... I'm referring to good guys... but most black American women dont want a good man anyway..

  • @cathywangari4740
    @cathywangari4740 4 ปีที่แล้ว +317

    I wish we could all be wise and so beautiful like Judge Toller

    • @brianvaughan9629
      @brianvaughan9629 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      You can love yourself and demand respect.. Don't let anyone treat you like shit

    • @GiftedVisionary
      @GiftedVisionary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      called common sense.

    • @Veteran0831
      @Veteran0831 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      You'll never live long enough to make all the mistakes there are to make, so be wise enough to learn from others mistakes and well beauty is in the eye of the beholder.

    • @RR-ko6ue
      @RR-ko6ue 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Awwwh.

    • @raqui174
      @raqui174 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@GiftedVisionary which is not so common.. plus knowing better does not mean you do better

  • @rosalindphillips542
    @rosalindphillips542 4 ปีที่แล้ว +280

    The fact that he left the 1 year old baby in the basement by himself. Hes not man ENOUGH to be with her.

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Agreed

    • @zee.234
      @zee.234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Or any other woman for that matter

    • @ortaegahenry6493
      @ortaegahenry6493 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Omg unbelievable man a dam shame

  • @CetribeaBurundibwiza-tz5le
    @CetribeaBurundibwiza-tz5le 4 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    I am glad that I am training my sons to cook, clean and do laundry. I don't want my daughters in law to suffer

    • @AngieTheENTJ
      @AngieTheENTJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thank you! ❤❤❤

    • @brittanynorris2313
      @brittanynorris2313 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

    • @CetribeaBurundibwiza-tz5le
      @CetribeaBurundibwiza-tz5le 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I started a homeschool channel " Kazi Mzazi ", anyone who is interested in homeschool can subscribe 😍

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +281

    There is no way I could ever be with a dude like him. His insecurities are unattractive, depressing and and exhausting.

    • @thecoolestmomever4396
      @thecoolestmomever4396 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      He is disgusting and he sounds so ignorant

    • @suciojay1604
      @suciojay1604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      I don't know how women put up with that BS. I wouldn't raise a daughter to accept that from a man. Insecurities are very unattractive, and uncontrolled/unmitigated fears ruins your life.

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@suciojay1604 Here here. I dated a guy who was insecure and tried to isolate me, but that didn't work! That's why I don't know where that person is

    • @suciojay1604
      @suciojay1604 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@erinjohnson4273 good for you for escaping.

    • @erinjohnson4273
      @erinjohnson4273 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@suciojay1604 I was way too strong minded. And even though I've been out of a relationship for two years, I'm letting my real King find me

  • @misslauren6798
    @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    I'm side-eyeing this dude!! Letting his insecurities get the best of him, then up and disappearing. As a potential wife, I might be afraid for my security. 🤔 I'm so glad he's aware though!! I HOPE he gets counseling!!!

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I doubt he will tho. Sadly

  • @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154
    @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +130

    He can't trust himself. He wants her to be there for only him. He is a loser. He is too sensitive. I love the BBW group. It is beautiful.

    • @misslauren6798
      @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @ There is somebody for everyone. (Just watch My 600 Lb Life, damn near all these people have spouses or significant others.) You could have kept that particular opinion to yourself...🙄

    • @misslauren6798
      @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @ "He's a loser. He's too sensitive." 2 Separate statements. She didn't say he was a loser BECAUSE he was too sensitive. I happen to agree with the "he's a loser" part...Because of the way he did his woman.
      And her insult was specific to THIS dude. Your insult was about weight and skin tone and could easily be applied to LOTS of people, men and women. So don't try to turn it into a sex/gender thing. The original commenter just COMPLIMENTED a Big women, then you reply insulted a big woman, and threw in an insult about skin tone.

    • @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154
      @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @ But, he is a loser,and, too sensitive. And, other things. She is faithful, honest. She is a good woman.

    • @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154
      @afroatheist-isnowafroantit6154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@misslauren6798 Thank you.

    • @tamikaburles6789
      @tamikaburles6789 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @ what a disgusting thing to say , im glad not everyone is as shallow and judgemental as you , otherwise you will be single for life , cause believe it or not you can look the best and still be an ugly person , but based on your comments im sure you have heard that before , have a nice day

  • @RianneDoller
    @RianneDoller 3 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    This is what we call a silly man😅😅🤣. So involved in his own mind, he'll destroy his own happiness

  • @AlwonDomz
    @AlwonDomz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    These are my favorite type of episodes. Honest and Positive Learning experiences.

  • @openheartsavagemind6443
    @openheartsavagemind6443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +119

    Anytime a man says I need to go get myself together means he's scoping out the environment for another woman and when he can't find another woman that can deal with his crap, he comes back.

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Facts

    • @msyoshi85
      @msyoshi85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      💯 from experience.

    • @deshanaewilliams2464
      @deshanaewilliams2464 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      That's actually not always true.

    • @patkimpell549
      @patkimpell549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Men are not that difficult as women think what you mentioned is kind of something a woman would do but he sees something and men for sure are not going to walk away from a woman unless he has a good reason to

    • @bridgetts4767
      @bridgetts4767 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Open Heart, Savage Mind that is so true!

  • @misslauren6798
    @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I love Judge Lynn and all of her wisdom!! She is awesome!!

  • @margueritetedford-jenkins5506
    @margueritetedford-jenkins5506 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    Sounds like my ex-husband when we first started to date. I didn't know that he was showing signs of insecurity, narcissism, misogyny, and impending misery. Took me 20 years to leave after abuse of every level: physical, emotional, mental, verbal, sexual, and financial.
    My advice: run, Run, RUN!

  • @butyoucancallmesam
    @butyoucancallmesam 4 ปีที่แล้ว +44

    "Did he find himself? Where was he?" Lol

  • @naturalcurlyhair8331
    @naturalcurlyhair8331 4 ปีที่แล้ว +75

    So quick, to get you pregnant having child after child but hesitant on marriage( not a wedding) but marriage. Increasingly

    • @AngieTheENTJ
      @AngieTheENTJ 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      He's a common breed of dusty in Dustystan and she is a common brainwashed damsel who gets distressed by him. Let me end there because the dust is too much...I'm starting to sneeze 😷🧹🧹🧹

    • @cadillacdeville5828
      @cadillacdeville5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Gurlllll 😂

    • @DawnNa_22
      @DawnNa_22 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      The mere fact that he said he wants to be careful who he gives his heart to but he had no problem having 3 children with her is astounding.

    • @IceWhiteice22
      @IceWhiteice22 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know right, I though they married until late in the show.

  • @sya286
    @sya286 4 ปีที่แล้ว +68

    Damn the twins are sooo stinkin cute

  • @totalmrmeanor7586
    @totalmrmeanor7586 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    The problem is...his mother spoiled him and invest all his life into HER!

  • @ninadrake2167
    @ninadrake2167 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    He’s way too insecure for any woman!

    • @franknitti1190
      @franknitti1190 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      He knows what goes on at those BBW woman's club events and Facebook groups. I thought everybody knew what that was all about.

  • @UniquelyDesigned
    @UniquelyDesigned 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I love the judge...... she's beautiful inside and out. I would love to just sit and converse with her.

  • @amilllion1
    @amilllion1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    It's the "I don't want to lose her and I love her so much , gotta watch her" . But help her oh no that's not my job🙄, for me

    • @allendixon1044
      @allendixon1044 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      There's just not enough love in this world pretty baby

  • @thatdandyandy
    @thatdandyandy 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    i love judge lynn so much omg she's a literal QUEEN

  • @rodcooper7532
    @rodcooper7532 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

    I can totally relate..losing yourself in a relationship.im working on getting back on track

    • @quadashabailey6775
      @quadashabailey6775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Same here but I’m trying to get myself back together again

  • @hangtyme765
    @hangtyme765 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

    What a difference an episode makes. This woman was far more sensible (and likable) in this episode as opposed to the episode with her other man.

    • @InfiniteUmbra
      @InfiniteUmbra 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Other man? She was on here before?

    • @celeste8389
      @celeste8389 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@InfiniteUmbra judge started the case by explaining that. Watch the episode from the start...

  • @Monika-bc3dq
    @Monika-bc3dq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    He has one of best women that ever appeared on this show and he will lose her (if he hasn't already since it's old episode).

  • @colleenthecatlady2344
    @colleenthecatlady2344 4 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    He's soooooooo immature and self-centered!!!

  • @anneghata9614
    @anneghata9614 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    He kinda reminded me of a four-year-old, the way he was behaving and responding. But I think they’re a good couple and could be great once he settles himself. God bless them - and Judge Lynn too 🙏🏽

  • @Vesselofpurpose1975
    @Vesselofpurpose1975 2 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Ohhh love this judge. You are super cute and intelligent. Very unbiased too.

  • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
    @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    These shows is like relationship control.. Ew.. I'm gonna be single forever.
    They ALWAYS want a woman to be traditional.... While they refuse to be a traditional man.. Make me sick...

  • @gailsmith836
    @gailsmith836 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Judge Toler's necklace is pretty. They always are.

  • @maesams6212
    @maesams6212 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    He left in such a cowardly manner!

  • @sugarplum2467
    @sugarplum2467 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    28 years old, 5 children. Holy crap.....do you have a savings account for ALL 5 to have dreams, hobbies and a college education?

  • @Reahkb2
    @Reahkb2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Why the men keep coming to court saying that they expect the women to do the household duties when BOTH of them are working? Dat doesn't make any sense. If the women support the home financially then the men should support in the household duties. Simple.

  • @ronnimartin7033
    @ronnimartin7033 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    3:15 in. He's simple and silly. And he's somebody's father. Wow.

  • @IrenaDeacon
    @IrenaDeacon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    "They are hood to me"
    "You know what im saaaying?"😁😄🤔
    Hmmm LOL he doesn't exactly speak like prince Charles 😂to be calling women hood based on age and relationship status.✋

    • @Blessings22513
      @Blessings22513 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      In his defense I do the same. People are pretty easy to read if you pay attention

  • @The.Wellerman
    @The.Wellerman 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    This man is special.

  • @yolanivyolani7201
    @yolanivyolani7201 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    🤣🤣🤣 this dude though still throwing tantrums at his age

  • @Thinabean
    @Thinabean 4 ปีที่แล้ว +38

    He is a grown child

  • @mraims2plez
    @mraims2plez 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    If it weren't for their love for each other, I would say he needs to be by himself to learn to take care of himself. You can't take care of anybody else if you can't take care of yourself.

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    There is no way he would even get pass the dating phase with me, if we even got that far. He's a complete and utter mess and she saw THIS. You knew and stayed, sooooo 🙄🙄🙄🙄

  • @jo-annbastings
    @jo-annbastings 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I had that kind of husband for 25 years. Every time I had a girls night once in the blue moon and he asked me the time I will be back, I used to answer « How should I know, I’m not gone yet!» At the end, I couldn’t take no more his clingyness, jealousy and ‘perfect’ picture of himself. I left. Today we still are in contact and surprisingly we became good friends. But sometimes I can see why I did the right thing by leaving him.

  • @beeautifuldreamer2211
    @beeautifuldreamer2211 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    This is why ladies you need to protect your uterus at all cost cuz these dudes will turn little boy on you real quick and throw children on you and Scurt out the door like nothing happened🥴🙄

  • @miaf.ritchie9417
    @miaf.ritchie9417 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Shr needs to fund out if he's cheating, she's very trusting. That bounce out the house doesn't sit well at all.

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Why in the intro it showed them spreading to be at their wedding already; she had on the gown and his Tux, but then he called her a fiance.

  • @manij1913
    @manij1913 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Immediately no . IMMEDIATELY NO. Just off the story of leaving the one year old and how he feels about relationship responsibilities. Other than that they have hope but I would’ve been completely done after that

  • @aw8119
    @aw8119 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    The title reeled me in and the content maintained my interest. This was a good one!

  • @mermaidtingzzz
    @mermaidtingzzz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    His repression is why he's so insecure. There's literally nothing she's doing that could cause him to be so insecure. Methinks there's another underlying issue.

    • @shirleycarter6976
      @shirleycarter6976 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      She needs to send this man back to his mama too much insecure he is just a damn headache

  • @GiftedVisionary
    @GiftedVisionary 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    sounds like he want someone to tell him what to do daily. like a lil robot.

    • @IrenaDeacon
      @IrenaDeacon 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Lol ur not wrong

  • @brandancharles3292
    @brandancharles3292 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He has low self esteem. Any person that is insecure without having a reason to be is a person with low self esteem

  • @INDIGO.GODDESS_573
    @INDIGO.GODDESS_573 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    A lot of men act like they can't multi task... unless it's cheating.. They have no problem juggling women..
    TF.. You mean the whole house is a woman's job.. I will never be with a man who has that mindset..
    .. THIS IS OUR HOUSE, WE ARE THE ADULTS, WE ARE THE PARENTS, WE WILL MAINTAIN AND RUN THIS HOUSE TOGETHER. PERIODT..

  • @ouraniamurphy8022
    @ouraniamurphy8022 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I miss so much Judge Toler!!! She is an amazing woman!!!!!

  • @kedahals7520
    @kedahals7520 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Smh.....I really don't want anything like this relationship. I hope he finds himself.

  • @loganAFC
    @loganAFC ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This man is a joke. How can he leave his son like that? I’m sure he’ll leave her again.

  • @jeffreylaury6549
    @jeffreylaury6549 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    The good thing is he admits he's insecure and was hurt badly in other relationships. He needs counseling and mens group. THERE'S not many places for men to go for their issues and not be labeled as weak or not mentally tough. Women have all the resources for these types of things.

  • @kimberlyowens4558
    @kimberlyowens4558 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I got a bad feeling about this guy, I know it's 3yrs later but this Queen needs to leave before SHE LOOSES HERSELF. Wow their babies are beautiful 😊

  • @misslauren6798
    @misslauren6798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Those look like wedding pictures already!

  • @synetriajackson9576
    @synetriajackson9576 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I'm sorry him just up and leaving like that I wouldn't trust him to be there when times get hard I wouldn't have taken him back

  • @nelly._.8128
    @nelly._.8128 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    2:31 LMFAOOOOOO! Look at the dude’s face on the right! I’m dead 😂

  • @HealingEraWithTricia
    @HealingEraWithTricia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    I'm not gon hold you up, their wedding photos were infact sexy chocolate! 🍫🍫

    • @treasurechest3955
      @treasurechest3955 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where did you see their wedding photos? I want to see them too! 💜💜

    • @treasurechest3955
      @treasurechest3955 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Where did you see their wedding photos? I wanna see them too! 💜💜

    • @HealingEraWithTricia
      @HealingEraWithTricia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@treasurechest3955 they showed the wedding photos in the first seconds of the show

  • @Tree372000
    @Tree372000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    He's too damn sensitive

  • @londonkhareem6515
    @londonkhareem6515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Poor lady, he is just so draining.

  • @tracycarter5997
    @tracycarter5997 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Isn't it wonderful that guys can just choose to leave to find themselves.

  • @lauryjerry1566
    @lauryjerry1566 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I always loose myself in a relationship..dont know how i can unlearn that!

  • @renguerra4165
    @renguerra4165 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He is very immature and insecure. She needs to run.

  • @silatikalaluka3847
    @silatikalaluka3847 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    They both seem to be very honest and quite respectful though .
    I loooove them together ❤️

  • @tiffanyadams2956
    @tiffanyadams2956 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I cannot believe he left the baby! I am seriously very disgusted. He’s scary. I’d never be able to fully trust him. He sounds like the type that would kill the whole family in their sleep. Smh.

    • @sirisaacmormont5445
      @sirisaacmormont5445 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I don’t know how you could ever trust a man after that shit

  • @JustineTeeVee
    @JustineTeeVee 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Judge Lynn Toler is a gift from God

  • @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324
    @rpcrealpeopleconsulting6324 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    why did they move the comment section....i swear these bored techies have nothing better to do omg

  • @kmiller6587
    @kmiller6587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    One of the best things about my marriage is that we both have our own thing. We aren't afraid to grow and exist outside of each other because we know we maintain our union.
    He seems to want her to be consumed with him because he's afraid of her having a life outside of him.

  • @dimitrageorgiadi5087
    @dimitrageorgiadi5087 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    The kids are so cute! My goodness.

  • @superaniya8895
    @superaniya8895 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    They are lieing about the age this lady is not 28

    • @catribabates7438
      @catribabates7438 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m with u hell I am 45 l thought 💭 she was a couple of years younger then me at the most!!

  • @2015humblebeginningzb
    @2015humblebeginningzb 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Her focus should have been divorcing her husband that she's separated from before she entered a WHOLE new relationship

    • @misslc7864
      @misslc7864 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree. She jumped into this relationship before healing. Now she is four years in with three more kids

  • @danielgraves6409
    @danielgraves6409 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    She gets that look and then expresses what is truly goin on in that relationship

  • @SlashTheWeasel
    @SlashTheWeasel 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for posting all these old episodes

  • @edunlap6594
    @edunlap6594 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Ladies, this is how YOU LOSE YOUR BEAUTY DEALING WITH MEN LIKE THIS. It has an effect on YOUR CHILDREN TOO. Ugh!🤬

  • @dennwilliams3342
    @dennwilliams3342 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He’s so much into her and loves her sooooo much that he won’t marry her. All cap 🧢

  • @queenj7990
    @queenj7990 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Why be in a relationship when you haven’t recovered from your past relationship. If you are traumatised from your past relationship, make sure you stay outta the next relationship until you are healed. That way you’ll give 100% in the relationship and not have your partner put 100% whilst you put 50%

  • @savtrill333
    @savtrill333 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's a different meaning of "BBW" but I support both BBW'S 😂😅😂💚💚💚💯

  • @guest4796
    @guest4796 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Wow you have three children by her and you don’t trust her 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @LuvBlackDaria
    @LuvBlackDaria 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    He sounds like a typical man these days who want want traditional roles when it benefits them. He's a big baby, but she created it by doing everything for him. She set this dynamic, and now, after 3 kids, she realizes she can't continue. She should have seen that before the kids and bounced. I have nothing for her. Go ahead and marry him and be an official family.

  • @c.alexander7775
    @c.alexander7775 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Dis is a before your vows episode but wasn't that wedding photos in the beginning 🤨

  • @kalimbaayinde25
    @kalimbaayinde25 2 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Im glad he knows that God needs to be first in his life.

  • @dspenderella9671
    @dspenderella9671 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I want to know what happened to this couple with those beautiful baby boys.

  • @twilderlm2559
    @twilderlm2559 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Judge be handing out the marriage license b/c they be having kids.
    She wants 2 keep families 2gether.
    But somex these Women need 2 let him go / lock the door behind him...

  • @Lionessbehavior213
    @Lionessbehavior213 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I love Judges expression at the end 9:11- 9:20 😂 “you a good guy, I was fussing at you but I like you” awww 😂 💕

  • @saralein4941
    @saralein4941 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No because if a woman tells me that she’s pregnant with twins then you need to believe that

  • @desmondlester1790
    @desmondlester1790 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That's a grown woman trust her or leave her it's that simple.

  • @miztinkerbellno2
    @miztinkerbellno2 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    He actually said it right...scared and insecure. He needs to get his act together.

  • @S.C-s7g
    @S.C-s7g 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Ha! Get up and left after ate all da food lol woooowwwwww ummmm he cane back for shelter and more food HA!

  • @deniseholloway
    @deniseholloway 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

    Brother in stripe shirt looks mean as hell!

  • @phillanderbryant9050
    @phillanderbryant9050 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    No No No you two are going into counseling i will never let you two off without the work -- BEST WISHES TO YOU BOTH!!!!!

  • @peaceseeker7672
    @peaceseeker7672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    He acts like my brother want the wife to do everything and he doesn't feel the need to do his part to help maintain his own home and Affairs . lazy butt

  • @titanniki412
    @titanniki412 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    That's what I did with my Beautiful Queen GF, now Ex!!
    I INVESTED SO MUCH TIME IN HER I LOST MYSELF!!!
    That's what I think ruined our relationship!!

  • @CHARLUCOFC
    @CHARLUCOFC 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This episode feels really real compared to some of them. They're all grown adults and they all act like it. When it's like that Judge Toler gives her best advice in my opinion.

  • @cadillacdeville5828
    @cadillacdeville5828 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    So kept producing kids with someone WHO WOULDN'T marry you and CLEARLY A MESS! That's on you.

  • @amandachirongoma3692
    @amandachirongoma3692 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Judge Lynn!! She’s so cute! Watched 19:15-19:20 about a dozen times 😂 🥰

  • @izumiruki
    @izumiruki 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    **snorts** My dad runs his own company and he STILL helps my mum with cooking and cleaning when she has too much on her plate.
    I believe that housechores should be shared between the couple (if their children are too young to help that is).
    The lady should leave his arse. He's only gonna stress her out.

  • @allybee9772
    @allybee9772 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Grown folks gone do what they want to do regardless of all the checking up on and investigating you do.

  • @ronkeanimashaun156
    @ronkeanimashaun156 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What a baby of a so called man. That you would leave your one year old son alone bcoz you want to talk to his wife 😢