Ages 0-100 Talk About Their Dating Deal Breakers
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 12 ก.พ. 2019
- We brought in people ages 0-100 to answer some of life’s big questions. In this episode, we asked people "what are your dating deal breakers?" Tell us what you think in the comments below!
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dudeeeeeee the guy who was 0 had such a deep message
hahaaha
where?
@@AlinkaAlicja Whoooosh
Honestly I think we should live by him
I want this to be in order of ages lol
Right? Kind of stressful to watch like this
"I don't like people who judge on looks or personality" I means there's not much else
Right! My ex once asked me if I'd still love her if she were racist, a smoker, etc. and I said "probably not", which she found outrageous. If you are not going to judge people by who they are, where's the point at all...
Don’t judge me by anything 😂
@@Jojosiwo Sorry to break it to you and your self-righteous bullshit, but most humans find other humans attractive based on looks, its psychology, nature.
He's only 12 lol he's still got time to learn. I didn't start dating until I was 16 and that was six years ago.
actions.
One of my deal breakers is people putting down my passions just because they don’t enjoy them too
That's a great point. One of the beautiful parts of being in a relationship is getting to experience new interests through your partner that you may not have otherwise considered. It's an incredible thing when people get excited about something purely because they love seeing their partner get excited about that thing.
Even when you dont enjoy the same things, you should still support each other. My bf is in a club that makes wagons for carneval (its probably something unknown to you) and i dont understand it at all. But because it makes him happy, i also help with painting and in the end, just seeing him happy makes me happy, too
Ok but that first 73yo lady with grey bob looks fabulous
Hania P. I agree, she is beautiful! And 73? Wow
Like seriously super beautiful
Right?!!!
was thinking the same thing!!!
@@angiemathew9005 ikr!
Tipping waiters is an American thing. Don't be upset if someone who does not come from America forgets to tip, it's not out of rudeness
Or if you got bad service. I will not be tipping if I don't think I was treated well.
In Europe we do that too.
I mean, in France if you don’t tip you are considerate as a rude and close-to-your-money person.
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@@woxilde3875 Not whole Europe is like that
Angelina 16 well I have traveled a lot in Europe so
Liars. We can try talking everything out, but if you lie, you'll leave.
1. People who aren’t consistent with how they treat me
2. Liars
3. People who only talk about themselves and expect me to only listen the whole time.
4. People who can only hold simple conversations like small talk.
I really like these I agree
1:35 if you're not judging someone by their personality then what are u supposed to judge them for?
marina what kinds of socks they wear
@@kevinbeltran8118 fair enough
How about you just don't judge people by anything, quite simple.
But he’s just 12 :(
hes a kid bro u know what he meant
That 29 year old is absolutely gorgeous 😍
The babies are the only serious ones
😉
You would think that the older I get{I'm 61}, that I would have less deal breakers..but seem to have more. I cannot be around a smoker. I like someone that communicates well and that I can trust. I agree with that one lady..Honesty..(sometimes the truth hurts,,,but it can also help one improve themselves) Can't handle narrow mindedness..(in religion,music,or politics) There we are back to communication.. One needs to communicate and work things out. Good relationships require a bit of work. They just don't "happen".
So if a relationship is slowly fading away what is it that the couple would communicate about?
Lies are the worst🤥. You can't progress in a relationship with a liar.
That's definitely a big deal breaker. Not only in a romantic relationship, but in friendships as well.
Kindness is the most important thing. Lacking in kindness, fairness, and empathy are huge deal breakers.
Also, pet tarantulas. No thank you.
Sadly thanks to the dunnan-kruger effect, EX. ( humans are defensive so how do you tell an actual terrible person that they're terrible because they will just deny it and there is no authority to make them realize that so youre at a stalemate) its like theres no such thing as a terrible person
"I'm sorry I'm a picky eater, I can't do anything about it..." Sure you can.
If they dont have a sense of humor and if they hate animals... then no
DoubbleHeart are you vegan?
Shame that most people are brainwashed to support slaughterhouses with their money. If that's not "hating animals" then I don't know what is...
@@svea538 vegetarian
DoubbleHeart oh so you only support abusing animals instead of killing them
@@svea538 of course not! I buy all my eggs and dairy products from nice, organic farms
emotional blackmail , dishonesty , putting themselves down , lack of initiative in life , lack of passion for anything , codependency , not sticking up for each other , racism , smoking , ... ;-) probably more :-p :-D
That kid said he doesn’t like people who judge on looks and I was like okay, I’m following you. But if I heard right he said not to judge based on personality and that’s were he lost me
Must haves----
1) Compassionate to humans, animals, & the planet
2) Honesty
3) Open minded
Thats it. If you don't have all three I don't want ya 👋🏼👋🏼
It's okay we don't want you either.
@@austinchandler3079 Who's "we"? ... lmao
Stubborn, hateful, pathological liars?? 🙇🏼♀️🤷🏼♀️
If they’re kind to me and cruel to everyone else. I’ve met so many people who are about that Harlee Quinn/ Joker “let the world burn but save his queen” crap and I can’t stand it. The world is hard, and it is burning. We don’t have to add to that. If you are the type who is, don’t try and suck me into it. I’d rather be alone than make things harder on others
It's actually interesting to see how most of these deal breakers are formed due to past experiences with relationships that either failed or ended in a toxic way to have shaped their thoughts on who they would immediately eliminate in the future. rather than stating generic facts, it's thought of as a pre-determined ideal fixated from a past memory or experience that they would choose not to relive again.
Someone who's on there phone during the date or grammar police
Haha, was gonna take the bait but realized we'd never date 😂 Phone, for sure. Written language is a must.
that last one! ugh! just broke up with my ex because of his lack of communication. i became so drained. worst feeling ever
Mmmmmh what is my deal breaker?!?!?
People who brag !! Oooooh I cannot braggers 😎
i agree with the girl who said close-mindedness is a deal breaker. we don’t know what type of people can come into our lives and change us for the better, so i don’t want to be with somebody who will judge new people for something they may not be able to control.
Being open in various ways is crucial. You don't have to tell your partner all your worst secrets or every thought that comes into your head, but you shouldn't be hiding how you feel. Negative or positive you should be open about it, you're upset with someone? Tell them about it and explain why! You love someone? Say it! Out loud and often. Definitely don't relegate that to texts. And it's not just being open about how you feel, but what you want/need, whether it's a long-term life goal or some bedroom fantasy, you've gotta be on the same page, or at least sharing books.
Ignorance, dishonesty, being excessively immature, not understanding my humor or questioning me and my goals too much, all deal breakers for me
Mine is arrogance and not seeing the other persons point of view.
"it's hard to find a good woman who's conservative"
and you know he's ULTRA conservative because he's American lmao. American Liberals in Europe would be regarded as right wing conservatives or center right. American politics are just all very right wing tbh there isn't really true liberals. And also, that dude is like 90 years old lmao he shouldnt be picky hahaha
That dude had slaves that’s why he wants a woman to have his fucked up ideas too..
@@bulbasaur1232 Lmao what ? Y'all Americans are liberals af in my opinion, compared to France at least
j esco that’s not necessarily true, and a lot of Europe is even more conservative than many parts of America. Speaking as someone who comes from a more liberal area of America, I’ve seen the disparity between left wing Americans and right wing Americans and it’s just as significant as anywhere else in the world, if not more since we’re home to many extremists from either side.
@@bulbasaur1232 I'm guessing you haven't lived in any really liberal cities in the US. Or even been exposed to much of the 'activists' on social media or in the media from the US. Trust me you can find people as about as far left as you can get
1:56 I want to shake this dude's hand. God bless him.
i can highkey relate to the picky eater one
the last one tho... right in the feels
Cheating!!!! everything else can be found out before the relationship even starts 🤷🏾♀️
Over time I've learned my deal breakers are someone who doesn't put time into the relationship, someone who only sees the bad in themselves, and I've also come to not being okay with someone who treats you well but not others. Because eventually they won't treat you well either
a zoo is a great testing ground for a first date..Animals and children have a great invisible sense whether someone is good or not..You can tell a lot by how a person is liked or unliked by animals and children.
Parmesana I don’t know I agree with that, I consider myself a very friendly, open person and my boyfriend’s dog bit me the first time I went to his house because he’s very territorial and doesn’t like “outside” people. The same goes for children, many are shy/uncomfortable around strangers and can mislead you to believe someone is a bad person when they’re not
Parmesana also a lot of people feel uncomfortable about going to the zoo because animal cruelty reasons
1:37 him, his voice... CuūUúùUüûUte
1:08 I need to know where the dress is from! Please someone?
Really beautiful people! They all have beautiful eyes.. (just me?)
Where do I recognise the guy at 0:21?? I really feel that I've seen his face somewhere before
For me, insecurity is the root of all evil. Opens Pandoras box to all sorts of weird/bad behavior
Nah, it just means that someone isn't all that confident. Lol Being insecure isn't "evil". That's just stupid
@@brandothefish it's just a saying, adapted from "The love of money is the root of all evil." It just leads to strange behavior, that's all.
In that case im a super villain
1:22 She looks like Maisie Richardson-Sellers, the girl who plays Rebekah Mickaelson and Eva in The Originals
That last one tho.. so true for me too.
Can we have this age arrangement thing in order, it's really throwing the video off
1:32 "don't judge people by their looks or personality" what else is there to judge them by😂😂
Communication is so important
0:37 and the kid after him are preachers to me
where’s the guy from 0:25 from? he looks so familiar
“it’s hard to find a good woman who’s conservative” hmm i wonder why 🙄
Having conservative values doesn’t equate to being a bad person. For the same reason that being a liberal doesn’t equate to being a good person. I personally have very traditional conservative values but it doesn’t mean I’m sucking trumps dick and shooting out racial slurs.
Yeah it's cause he's in the liberal country of California.
That was my thought, lol. There's a reason it's hard to find a hardcore conservative woman. 🤷
EssieD Because most people have a heart and compassion for others 😂.
@@ready40111 So not the democratic party right?
10 years in & yet to find my deal breaker....open minded tough cookie here🍪 name it, been there, still there.
For me, it would have to be if they tell me they don’t want kids or to adopt in the future.
I felt it when she said... Don't lie to me 😥
28, from one picky eater to another, I feel you, bro.
I appreciate these peoples posture.. they look little uncomfortable.. It makes me believe them more than actors
My deal breaker is someone who doesn't want to do better for themselves. Someone that wants to mooch off of their partner just because they don't want to do/work for anything.
I know this is gonna hurt my confidence somehow lol I'm ready
Making fun of my relatives. That’s something my soon to be ex does and it drives me crazy
The last woman said it all...not saying I disagree with any of the others.
The last lady 🙌🏻
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This is why soul pancake is awesome! what kind of Chanel that's (well known) goes out there way to answer a fans genuine question🤙 not to many now in days 🤷
29 seems chill af
Alex Lewis...I see you😉🙌...God I watch too much Buzzfeed😅
You have any deal breakers because you're married? so that means that your spouse can just do whatever and you don't have any standards as your own individual human being?
THE PICKY EATER ONE. I GET THAT.
The dude who was 84 and talking about how its hard to find a good conservative woman is my idol
Communication omg last one yessss
My deal breaker is when people cant take care of themselves even if I'm twelve I can still wash my own dishes and clean up after myself I especially hate it when men think girls like me should do everything around the house and if you dont like it when I'm out playing video games or sports sorry hun YOU GOT TO GO
Guys who can't handle doing any housekeeping are a waste of time. I have a couple female friends who've had boyfriends that couldn't clean up after themselves, always ticked me off.
Very reasonable!
What is dating deal breakers mean?
my passion is soccer and basketball
Addiction, insecurity, narcissism, basically every quality my ex has
That last one was deep lol
I recognize that a few of these people in the video are actors that I've seen in TV commercials. It makes me think they've been coached and/or scripted.
How they treat their Mom and Dad
The last girl was right on the money man
I have a lot of deal breakers... Probably why I've been single all 22 years of my life.
I feel that people have sooo many deal breakers now that almost nobody is willing to fight for a lasting relationship. I'm not talking about cheating or dishonesty, but like stupid dealbreakers that make no sense. Is so hard to find somebody who will go through everything with you.
@JONES easy, not havin a car or a material thing that the other S.O likes or not one at all, bringing up random insignificant things from the past, etc
Yes
0:44 that 27 year old guy looks like Precious from Lord of the rings.
lack of communication
That 11 year old tho. PREACH!!!👏👏👏
woah they really do start dating younger and younger but a 0 year old just seems a little too young what do u guys think ? (;
Liars, druggies, control freaks, jealousy, inability to talk and work through problems, anger issues, and no sense of humor.
2:19 i really hope i look as young as she does when i’m 51 lol
0:38 is this not Larry King?
Where was the 0 and 100 year old
Honesty!!!!
1:42 - 1:46 is me. Can't stand dishonest and fake people.
73 year old woman is looking really REALLY good!!
sinead is that u
For a love relationship, no religious or conservative people, especially on social issues. I think George Carlin's "Don't be a dick" just about covers it all.
The 28 yr old guy in the red shirt looks sooo familiar to me idk why
wow i wish this was in order of age
Being lied to and being lazy. I can't stand when I have to do everything and I get lied to. Just tell me and we can talk it out.
If people are *mean* , *homaphobic* , *sexist* that’s my deal breaker
Deal breaker...
Double dipping chips! 👋🏾✌🏾
Even if it's just you two around?
You kiss them anyway, so it should be ok!
@@WhatIsItToBurn nah!! 🤣🤣
last one hit
Lack of empathy and communication, for sure
My impressions:
The beach? Like why?
Not tipping? No.
Most of these are good though.
....People who don't brush their teeth after having lunch or any food, ... or in the morning hehe... !!! That's one of my deal breakers :)!!!
Marian. a. You brush your teeth every time after you eat food? I mean twice a day, after breakfast and dinner, and I guess lunch, but what about snacks and stuff like that?
No smoking
No drugs
No excessive alcohol consumption.
No gambling
Umm where was the super low ages? I was just here to see lil babies tryna talk