Q&A with My Boyfriend | Age Difference? Language Barrier? | Dating in Korea

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  • @caricakes
    @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +194

    💕 Our boyfriend tag: th-cam.com/video/nau45Fa0E8E/w-d-xo.html
    💖 FAQ
    What’s my job? (Non-teaching job in korea) - bit.ly/3aeNl6x
    Where do I live? (Korean apartment tour) - bit.ly/2kJK1Hk
    Where am I from? - bit.ly/2xzc7hz

    • @lofiguy8136
      @lofiguy8136 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      My 💓 is shattered

    • @madamhummingbird
      @madamhummingbird 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      You guys adorable

    • @chasingfurtherdreams5991
      @chasingfurtherdreams5991 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love how you guys are very clearly good friends, not just romantic/flirting... friendship is the most solid foundation for a relationship in my opinion

    • @mboihk3796
      @mboihk3796 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i'm born in 1983 and I married in 2016 and people still think i'm still young to marry... Asian gene 😂

  • @lindaa2802
    @lindaa2802 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1185

    My daughter asked her husband if he wanted to take a German class together. He replied "why, so we can miscommunication in two languages?".

    • @shyofshyness
      @shyofshyness 3 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      Trust me miscomms in two languages get you further than in one

    • @brennathecatlover4360
      @brennathecatlover4360 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I find that funny tbh lol

  • @sukiyo1122
    @sukiyo1122 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3928

    Finally someone who doesn't use 'my korean boyfriend' in the title. thank you!

    • @chaunti123
      @chaunti123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +179

      Welma there’s literally nothing wrong with it. but ppl like to make a big deal out of it :/

    • @and-xl2ey
      @and-xl2ey 5 ปีที่แล้ว +31

      chaunti2turnt there is

    • @chaunti123
      @chaunti123 5 ปีที่แล้ว +141

      y’all a buncha weirdos ew how. there’s nothing wrong with pointing out your interracial/international relationship. ppl just make a big deal out of it. yes hes her boyfriend, but he’s also her KOREAN boyfriend. a completely different race, nationality, culture than her. people are interested in the difference

    • @muwahibahmedidriz7869
      @muwahibahmedidriz7869 5 ปีที่แล้ว +212

      @@chaunti123 its tho
      im black and if i would be dating a white guy? Would i write My white boyfriend?

    • @버그준
      @버그준 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Nothing wrong with it...

  • @esel2297
    @esel2297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1823

    8:17 “I really think traveling is about discovering yourself.. unless you wanna go to Disneyland” wise words😌

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      hehehehe one day i will get him to see the magic of disney! mark my words!!!

    • @esel2297
      @esel2297 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Marked :D

    • @kurt.archive
      @kurt.archive 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      but i just hate theme parks hahaha maybe i do need blessing from Disney

    • @bxngtanbby9681
      @bxngtanbby9681 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ARMY 💜💜

  • @madisonmiles830
    @madisonmiles830 3 ปีที่แล้ว +205

    "so we can waste time on youtube. JUST LIKE YOU GUYS!" I WAS NOT EXPECTING TO BE CALLED OUT LIKE THAT

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      😂😂😂

    • @ibnuhazar366
      @ibnuhazar366 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      So true I was like being slapped out of nowhere

  • @faithm6260
    @faithm6260 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1578

    he has such a cool and open perspective on things!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

      he's great ㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠㅠ

    • @multikimberification
      @multikimberification 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      He is so charming.. something of his calm and poised ambience is just hot hot

  • @marco_k_7787
    @marco_k_7787 5 ปีที่แล้ว +833

    your boyfriend looks like so unique type of good person. he kinda like reminds me of my own youth :). hope you guys get along well for good.

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      heheh thank you, im sure we will!

    • @christinethornhill
      @christinethornhill 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too , lots of love to you from England ❤️

    • @kritikaushal7906
      @kritikaushal7906 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      True your bf, is really cool .. he's so understanding .. rare catch

    • @alexandragray61
      @alexandragray61 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      It made me think the same when i saw him 😊
      I think he has a good aura ✨👌🏻

    • @user-vc5rp7nf8f
      @user-vc5rp7nf8f 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      cari's quite pretty and pretty cool. wouldn't mind having a gf like her

  • @jessoliveri516
    @jessoliveri516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1010

    The language barrier question - that is me and my boyfriend TO A T. My boyfriend (who's also Korean) and I communicate primarily in English. The longer we are together, the more I use slang with him and speak at my normal pace. But overall, he says he can understand me well because I speak a little slower and more clearly than others. HOWEVER, we also have these weird conversations/arguments over something like colors. I'll call something blue, and he will be like, "no, it's SKY blue." But I love it - it makes for hilarious stories later.

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +120

      hahahah yes!! i feel like he's made me so much more aware of the words i choose and their meaning cause if i say something just a little bit off he's after me!! hahahahah

    • @Orangeyougladx3
      @Orangeyougladx3 5 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      this is so weird, i teach in korea and my kids always fight me on sky blue too ahahha i just say blue and they explode everytime

    • @jessoliveri516
      @jessoliveri516 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      @@Orangeyougladx3 Ohhh yeah. When I taught elementary, I had the exact same experience!

    • @kaylapinkley8399
      @kaylapinkley8399 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I have a Korean boyfriend too and we have the exact same issue lol

    • @Emeand33
      @Emeand33 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      nothingg lmao what’s sky blue in Korean?

  • @rachelsyrup
    @rachelsyrup 5 ปีที่แล้ว +411

    "I'm busy watching Brooklyn 99."
    "She majored in communication but I don't BELIEVE in communication."
    👌😂

  • @Missorangeade
    @Missorangeade 5 ปีที่แล้ว +72

    It’s so rare to see couples encouraging solo travel, I thought I was a bit weird for enjoying it so much, so thank you ❤️

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      yesssss!!! its great :')

  • @franf45
    @franf45 4 ปีที่แล้ว +159

    I was actually trying to guess if he was a born and raised Korean, he doesn’t have much of an accent when speaking in English. You guys look really good together.

    • @meddy0811
      @meddy0811 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      Agreed! I think the only thing that stood out to me was the way he used "actually" in his sentences. The way he used actually sometimes a native would use "i guess"

  • @jspazzin13
    @jspazzin13 4 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    “The middle of Wyoming” “I don’t even know where that is” Kurt is out here saying what most Americans think too

  • @jackiehello
    @jackiehello 5 ปีที่แล้ว +184

    it feels like you're super comfortable with each other :) i ship it. stay warm!!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      heheheh thank you!

  • @Kitty-lj7eg
    @Kitty-lj7eg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +852

    Your boyfriend looks like high school student... but you two are so matchy together!! Happy couple!! :))

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +336

      whenever he orders alcohol he gets carded cause no one believes he's old enough hahahaha

    • @Kitty-lj7eg
      @Kitty-lj7eg 5 ปีที่แล้ว +32

      @@caricakes hahaha... you look young too, he looks super young. lol

    • @Kt-cn2rq
      @Kt-cn2rq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@caricakes lol still do. More fun when see your real age.

    • @Nazey09
      @Nazey09 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Funny, I thought he would be childish but he is right, he is very mentally mature and wise but looks 15. Lol

  • @Willstonez
    @Willstonez 5 ปีที่แล้ว +150

    Omg if he starts doing content on Korean films or anything, I'm there. He's the best.

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      hahha he's excited to do it!!

    • @Sergeantpaprika
      @Sergeantpaprika 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same!!

    • @guiltypleasure5176
      @guiltypleasure5176 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I have been told that Koreans or asians in general look young for their age

  • @hazeylulu
    @hazeylulu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +279

    His english is 👌👌

    • @aliceluc9159
      @aliceluc9159 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      yeah is very special that a Korean can speak so fluently english👌

  • @rye-victoriabrown6808
    @rye-victoriabrown6808 5 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    You two are just so enjoyable to watch and listen to

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      gahhh thank you so much!!

  • @naz5928
    @naz5928 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Ok I need to comment again. So the whole thing you guys said about traveling, I totally agree with it! I always tell people how important it is to solo travel at least once in your lifetime. Also, what you guys have is exactly the kind of relationship I want. You give each other space and respect each other's opinions and that's really important. 💗💗

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      💕💕💕 we’re really lucky!!

  • @joyce_lui
    @joyce_lui 5 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    Wow, your boyfriend should definitely have his own channel to share his interests! I was actually curious about what he was going to say about pi at the end haha...

  • @silverfox9648
    @silverfox9648 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Ohh your boyfriend is the cutest😄 looking forward to more videos with him that he actually enjoys filming😂❤️

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      hehhehe thank you!

  • @tina333li
    @tina333li 5 ปีที่แล้ว +108

    Ooh! Actually, yes please to Korean film and music recommendations. Also your Q&A's together are quite sweet...so how about a Q&A about music and movies ;)

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      🤗🤗🤗

  • @TabeaLa
    @TabeaLa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    When you guys were to mention your mutual fav kdrama I guessed "Reply" series. I thought you would mention it, since its truly one of the most authentic and realistic kdramas that contents meaningful values. Of course, that's only my opinion but its the one and only kdrama I would always recommend!^^

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      yessss they did such a good job with 1997!!

    • @TabeaLa
      @TabeaLa 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@caricakes Yep absolutely love 1997 and my second fav is 1988! It's so fascinating to me how those series are able to awaken such a strong feeling of nostalgia in me although I didn't live at any of those specific eras. Contains a bit of a magical feeling.☄

  • @lina_byoui
    @lina_byoui 5 ปีที่แล้ว +192

    you guys are the cutest ahh i love the chemistry :')

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      gahhh thank you!

  • @shreyabooked9309
    @shreyabooked9309 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I've just started binging this channel a couple of weeks back (I've been following Cari Can Read for a while now) so it's just so sweet to watch this and know that you guys are married now and everything!

  • @selasninelives
    @selasninelives 5 ปีที่แล้ว +131

    I accidentally watched your ghibli visit in japan, and now im here watching all your videos. I can say that you two are amazingly beautiful in such a way that you are very calm, open, and mature in a lot of aspects in life (which is very rare in vlogger cause they mostly do exaggerate lot of things, anyway im babbling too much). Since im here may i request about your favorite films or list of films/series that is a must-watch? Thank you. Have a nice day to you two~

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      thank you so much! we're actually going to be posting a vid about favorite films soon! (kurt will join for this one!)

  • @gellichan09
    @gellichan09 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You both seem like such an intelligent couple. All the best to you guys and happy new year!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      aw thanks! happy new year!

  • @wendymartinez3057
    @wendymartinez3057 5 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    That’s true! You speak English in a easy way 😂😂😂 thank you for that!! And you two are too cute!!! ❤️

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      my friends back home make fun of me though hahahhah and thank YOU!

  • @nhiv2615
    @nhiv2615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    i had my first solo traveling experience in nyc the week after thanksgiving and it was amazing! i’m hopefully moving to korea next year and i’m so excited to do all of the solo traveling around the country 😭

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      omg yay!!! im so glad you liked it, solo travel can be hard sometimes. and travel in korea is AMAZING!!

    • @nhiv2615
      @nhiv2615 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      cari cakes i think it helps that ive done small things by myself just around my city-eating at restaurants, grocery shopping, watching movies. i agree that it’s a good way to discover yourself, for sure. 👌🏻
      sidenote, and i hope this isn’t weird lmao but you’re probably my favorite youtuber living in korea, so i hope we get a chance to maybe meet one day once i move there!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its definitely something to ease into^^ im glad you did! and awwww thank you!! i really need to organize more meet ups theyre so fun!! good luck with your move!!

    • @nhiv2615
      @nhiv2615 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      cari cakes i’d definitely go to one if you did! you are the sweetest, thank you!! 😭❤️

  • @withcharmtospare
    @withcharmtospare 5 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    Adorable! I look forward to him getting all worked up about math in the middle of a movie review 😁

  • @frankjansson7563
    @frankjansson7563 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I know this is an old video. But omg how cute you two where. And im so glad to know that fast forward to present day i know your still cute together. Stay happy

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  ปีที่แล้ว +5

      thank you :')

  • @mikapaddy
    @mikapaddy 5 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I agree with the Coffee Prince part! Also, please make him watch Reply 1997!!! It’s really gooood!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Im working on him muhahhaha

    • @lourdesr.a3878
      @lourdesr.a3878 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      It’s my favourite drama!! Al the season are amazing, but my favourite one is 1988 is the funniest one

  • @luisbanegassaybe6685
    @luisbanegassaybe6685 5 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    He was staying in Saint-Denis...oh boy....”real” French experience ㅋㅋ큐ㅠㅠ

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hehehehe

    • @annieranai2198
      @annieranai2198 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Seine Saint-Denis style 😉

  • @thatnursevicky9118
    @thatnursevicky9118 5 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    Ohmygosh. Totally loved this one =) Per usual, you inspire in the most organic and authentic way. I love the validation I got from both of you regarding solo travel and knowing one's self better because this is one of the reasons I love to do solo travel. Thank you =)

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      its the best reason to travel!!! and thank you so much!!

  • @parnessianparpio1320
    @parnessianparpio1320 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Girl you got a good man. He is so smart and a gentleman. I hope the best for you guys. 💕💕

  • @zohreh5339
    @zohreh5339 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I LOVE how independent you both are while in a relationship

  • @tengchuyu
    @tengchuyu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +22

    !! Looking forward to the videos on Korean film & art :3

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      yeeee thank you!

  • @delaneyevering
    @delaneyevering 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    You guys are the cutest 😍 and you have intelligent conversations and I can see why you get along so well.

  • @mrjinkorea
    @mrjinkorea 5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Great video. Thanks Cari. Best wishes to you and your boyfriend. He seems like a pretty good guy. Happy New Year

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      he's alright ;) and thank you!! happy new year!!

  • @HeyIAmNixo
    @HeyIAmNixo 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you guys are adorable!! Honestly the whole solo-travel thing, need to find a person like that you understand the value of traveling alone !! Hope 2019 has greeted you well!

  • @DanNak
    @DanNak 5 ปีที่แล้ว +433

    Haha I love that you and your boyfriend both agree that he is mentally older 😋

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      yeah hahah theres no question about that 😂

    • @kurt.archive
      @kurt.archive 5 ปีที่แล้ว +24

      but I like cari is not! sometimes I sick of myself being old man honestly haha

    • @Emeand33
      @Emeand33 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Kurt Lee omg you guys are so cute I can’t-

  • @giangviet222
    @giangviet222 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    5:08 Yes!!! You has such a great accent/ voice for English learner!
    Though I can speak english like a bilingual but tbh your english so easy to listen to

  • @responsibleregalia
    @responsibleregalia 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    He is so cute. And I love what he said about how traveling is really about finding yourself.

  • @miaquinn5791
    @miaquinn5791 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    This couple are currently married, according to the last video I saw of her looking for a new place to live. 🥰🥰

  • @valeriag9443
    @valeriag9443 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I like that this is more like YALL are having a conversation and are letting us into it

  • @bubu_lubu
    @bubu_lubu 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    loved this video! It’s so fun to watch you two together~ also please please encourage him to make another video it seems he has a lot of interesting things to share !! Happy New Years in advance 💗

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you!! Happy new yearnn

  • @LexieLouLou
    @LexieLouLou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I can see why non-native speakers would be able to understand you better than most of us Americans! You have good diction, and you don't have an unpleasant accent. I speak really fast and have a southern accent, and even people in my day-to-day life have trouble understanding me if I'm prattling on without making an effort to speak clearly. I'm really worried no one will be able to understand me when I go abroad ;_;

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i used to speak really fast but being here and surrounded by people who couldnt understand me, i slowed down :) im sure you'll learn how to be understood too^^ i love southern accents!

  • @GH-bb6uf
    @GH-bb6uf 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Woah you’re so lucky to have each other. He is so mature and I really like his perspective and the way he sees things. I hope I can find someone who understands me like that in the future .
    Love your videos by the way❤️

  • @kimdechavu4043
    @kimdechavu4043 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Kurt seems to be really protective towards her and that s kinda cute. What a lovely couple ❤️💙🤍

  • @whatsakenzie6175
    @whatsakenzie6175 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I’m a teacher here in Korea and I feel so bad for my boyfriend sometimes because I naturally talk really fast 😭 he’ll just tell me “I’m pretending to understand right now” and that’s when I know I need to calm down LOL. Otherwise, language isn’t an issue.

  • @1ovesyou
    @1ovesyou 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    That is the cutest thumbnail I've ever seen !!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      awww thanks!!

  • @kimhuff8798
    @kimhuff8798 5 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I really love you two together! I would love to hear about Korean movies and Music. I’ve watched one Korean movie so far ( Train to Busan) and I loved it.. I love a good horror movie. 💖

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      he HATES horror so you'll have to get your recommendations from me (who loves them haha) and thank you!!!

    • @kimhuff8798
      @kimhuff8798 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Miss Dolkapots thank you for the recommendation!!! I’ll check that out tonight!!! ❤️

  • @sunnysidebingsu
    @sunnysidebingsu 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Really admire your dynamics. Like how you guys can be independent and so the relationship doesn't seem suffocating. Intellectuals!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hehehe thank you!

  • @tszx
    @tszx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I love it! You are so cute together hahaha the age mentally physical made me laugh. I think that what your boyfriend said about travelling solo is the best way to describe why travel alone.
    Thanks for sharing, and Happy New Year in advance to both of you

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much!! and happy happy new year!

  • @seward9
    @seward9 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    99!!!!! It is very true you speak slowly. As a french, i don’t need subtitles watching your videos, which is more simple.

  • @Xxxchewittxxx
    @Xxxchewittxxx 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Came as soon as I saw the intastory about it ! By far my favourite youtuber I discovered this year

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      omg you're too kind ㅠㅠ thank you!!

  • @rebeccaheart
    @rebeccaheart 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    So refreshing to see a TH-cam couple that’s original and soulfully real

  • @keshiachristelle5112
    @keshiachristelle5112 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    thank you for the bf screen time, he is funny to watch. he is such an interesting character. hahaha 😄
    love you both, always entertaining. #goals 😍

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hehehh thank you!!

  • @swicheroo1
    @swicheroo1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My wife of almost 20 years is Korean from Korea. She came to the States for school. But even after 3 years, she did not have much spoken English. So, when we started dating, every communication was in English. I was getting my PhD in English Lit. And all my friends were getting PhD's at a major research university--often in English Lit. Within a year, her English was amazing. I didn't realize that half the reason why she liked me was because I was totally improving her English. I was like a walking English lesson.

  • @101drummerchick
    @101drummerchick 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    8:30-8:34
    Friend: "Like in the middle of Wyoming?"
    Me, an American: "I don't even know where that is."

  • @untitled1464
    @untitled1464 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    The blue color description is also evidence of how for example, people perceive color differently based on their language. in Japanese there are specific words for blue, versus in English everything that looks blue or is blue is just that, versus in Japanese there are different words for different shades of blue, there’s even a study published on this, i read this years ago but can’t remember where i found it. I guess Korean is similar to Japanese in that sense due to your boyfriend’s frustration of “why is that JUST blue?” it also makes me realize how broad english is, not a super detailed language and thus as a person with synesthesia it’s quite difficult to describe colours, LOL

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I more meant that in korean, my goal is to be simply understood (since im not fluent yet) so im okay to be general whereas my boyfriend (who is fluent in english) is more concerned with making his exact feeling understood so he wants to know more specific words.

    • @untitled1464
      @untitled1464 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caricakes of course! my comment was just my own personal reaction to myself as a native English speaker and your bf's mention of colours reminded me of my own experiences with English, lol i can b very random in comments haha, it's really fascinating hearing about communication through different languages :)

  • @yuletaorillo9765
    @yuletaorillo9765 5 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    As a fellow You Tube addict,I felt attacked when he pointed at the camera 😂😂😂😂

  • @TiffanyN
    @TiffanyN 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You both are adorable. I'm glad he's getting more comfortable with the camera. But nooo keep doing more q&as!!😊

  • @MrsLPAmy
    @MrsLPAmy 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    To be honest if you had told me, he was Korean - American or something, I would have believed it. Great video, thank you!

  • @MQ-rg7mk
    @MQ-rg7mk 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Got the notification and Immediately dropped everything. Hi cari 👋🏻

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      omg thank you!!!

  • @kat.f1940
    @kat.f1940 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sooo true! I think i found your channel because i'm interested in South Korea and its culture but i also like a lot how you speak!! It's so calm and you're so expressive that it's a pleasure to hear you and practise english oral comprenhension by watching your videos!

  • @AprilWanders
    @AprilWanders 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I just love watching you two communicate with each other it feels very chill and fun. 😁

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😊😊😊

  • @peacelife
    @peacelife 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Aww! Glad you guys found one another. I think watching TV shows/drama about the country is the quickest way to learn the language and understand the culture and humor. Friends were my show aha. He is def way more Americanize than the other Korean partner I saw on the other TH-cam channel. So glad I found your channel. Very relaxing to watch and it is like listening to a friend.

  • @HeyitsKimberlee
    @HeyitsKimberlee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +109

    Ohhh it always threw me off when my Korean friends would overuse “hard.” For whatever reason, the way we use the word “tough” to describe something just fits better than “hard.” OR just saying “wow that’s a tough situation, you must be sad” my Korean friends would just say aw your so hard lol and I’d be like noppppe that doesn’t sound right lol

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      right?! that was always a weird one for me too hahahha

    • @kurt.archive
      @kurt.archive 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      YEAH. tough is much more accurate for that sense

    • @me9981
      @me9981 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      It's not that they are over using it. It's just that english and korean are 2 completely different languages and if for example a korean person is learning english he/she will firstly use newly learned english words in a way he/she would use it in a korean language....or vice versa of course.
      And when that happens you'll get some...odd sentences hahaha
      I dont know if I explained it well...

    • @HeyitsKimberlee
      @HeyitsKimberlee 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      me oh of course, I know that. On the flip side, I spent my time in Korea with very beginner knowledge of Korean and asked the same questions/used the same phrases over and over to my Korean friends too :)

    • @Minmin-jy1gq
      @Minmin-jy1gq 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I guess it depends on where you're from. Here in New Zealand English is one of 3 official languages (the others are Maori and NZ sign language) and the most widely spoken of the three. We use the words 'tough' and 'hard' interchangeably, which often results in hilarious reactions from new immigrants and tourists who aren't used to it.
      eg; "He's hard to handle = he's tough/difficult to deal with or my personal favourite "I'm hard". The latter isn't used much by the younger generations since we're well aware of the potential lols, but you might occasionally hear an older person use it to refer to themselves as strong or tough.

  • @euniceopena9522
    @euniceopena9522 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    I can’t help but smile the whole time I was watching. You are both cute! And I admire how both of you are not afraid of doing things alone - as individuals. I agree with solo travel and I, too, loved it since I’ve tried it. Happy New year to you, guys! 💕

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      happy happy new year!!!

  • @satsukihatake2915
    @satsukihatake2915 5 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Aiii the editing had me laughing so hard. Thanks for a great vid :)

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      hehehe thanks for watching!

  • @keikoo
    @keikoo 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1. Kurt is precious
    2. Didn't kno you were taking questions. Woulda asked one

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @fernandanahir7595
    @fernandanahir7595 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This is SO interesting!!! Loads of love from Argentina 🇦🇷❤️

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      thank you thank you!!!

  • @karenkingrey6142
    @karenkingrey6142 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I hope y’all do more videos together. It’s great to get to know another aspect of your life. 😊

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you!!!

  • @maryr329
    @maryr329 5 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I think you just single-handedly reduced the number or NYC subway riders by mentioning the rat king. I want to hear more about the middle school runaway, too!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      good!! maybe nyc will finally clean up place haha

  • @saretin86
    @saretin86 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    After Rachel and Jun, you guys are my favorite couple on the internet. :)

  • @nanasadie2879
    @nanasadie2879 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You two are so cute! Have a wonderful trip, guys! About the way you speak... it is so true. I considered commenting this before, i can understand everything you say that's why i thought you were an english teacher!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      hehehe just a natrually (often frustratingly) slow talked ;) and thank you!!!!

  • @laura-md3ue
    @laura-md3ue 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    you and your boyfriend are both so cute and funny! I think it would be so fun to hang out with you guys, I really like yours and your boyfriend's opinions and taste in certain things uwu, thank you for sharing this cari

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hehehe thank you!!!

  • @rose-bd2fe
    @rose-bd2fe 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I laughed when I saw the bunny video next to your boyfriends face 😂 I wish you two the best 💜

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Its like his twin!!! Hahhaha

  • @heyitspetra6356
    @heyitspetra6356 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    you all should watch meteor garden and good morning call!! you can’t stop watching it once you started and currently i’m watching accidentally in love which is really good too

  • @BtsArmy-lh3yw
    @BtsArmy-lh3yw 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your boyfriend is so special I really like him for you , you deserves each other ❤️ be always happy , like this video a lot !!

  • @kevinyeohck
    @kevinyeohck 5 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    That bunny GIF is uncanny! I need to give Brooklyn Nine-Nine another go. Enjoy Hong Kong and we don't mind video content about math on this channel. Maybe as a sidebar before you end the video for like...a minute. 🧮🤓 Ok not.

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      dont give him any ideas!!!! hahahhaha

  • @omisha797
    @omisha797 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Both of you are lovely together!!!! This is such a happy video!! Makes me soo happy

  • @swoonscapades
    @swoonscapades 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm dying at the beginning with the bunny, that was so cute 😅 Gah, i love you both. You guys are so adorable together! 💖 I was about to say "more videos together pls because I love these" but then I got to the part where you mention he doesn't like doing this very much, BUT I would definitely love that video where you both talk about Korean movies and films. Tbh I wouldn't even mind the math video but that's just because I'm similar to your boyfriend in terms of interests and the way we think (you mentioned once he was really logical, I think) 😅 Also, he mentioned that when you travel you go to places people probably wouldn't go or think to go.. but that's exactly why I love your travel videos. The places you explore are so unconventional and it's why I subscribed to you when your Korean travel videos popped up on my recommendations. I felt like I had already seen the same things about Korea over and over, but your videos showed a more unique, fresh side of the country that didn't feel "mainstream-y" if that makes sense and I love it. I feel like you do that about all the places you visit in general and I adore that! So I'm actually really glad you go to "weird" parts of countries 😅 ❤

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      awww thank you so much! i like traveling to weird places muhahaha happy new year!

  • @Futureactress1999
    @Futureactress1999 5 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    You two are such a cute couple omg yas love your videos cari💜💙💜💙

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      kyaaaaa thanks as always!!!

  • @hesokaaa8419
    @hesokaaa8419 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I really love your videos and enjoy your videos cus u r looking so honest and simple in all of your vlogs🌷

  • @seaniandp
    @seaniandp 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    ONLY 2 YEARS GAP, THAT IS OKAY GUYS! :) YOU GUYS LOOK SO GREAT!

  • @sarahc8954
    @sarahc8954 5 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Thank you for sharing/ talking about solo travel!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      its something we both think is so important!!

  • @hihello3862
    @hihello3862 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    aww this was cute. hope you feel better! stay warm!

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      we're feeling much better thank you!!!

    • @hihello3862
      @hihello3862 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@caricakes you are welcome love !

  • @xAnicsi
    @xAnicsi 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Your boyfriend totally should make his own youtube channel, I bet he'd instantly have tons of supportive subscribers haha You guys are super cute. Thanks for making my break from work worthwhile! I feel refreshed now

  • @futureturns3057
    @futureturns3057 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    You guys are just too cute 😍 Your boyfriend seems like a really cool, funny, open-minded person ~ Totally agree with you guys about having solo travel time, even if travelling together!! ~ Hope you both have lots of fun in Hong Kong and have a lovely, adventurous and happy New Year ✨

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      thank you so much!! happy new year to you too

  • @K.S.00.
    @K.S.00. 5 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    you are such a cute couple 😊and thank you like always for the Nightvideo (i Call them like that because i nearly always Watch them befor going to sleep, its like a routine😂)

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      awww yay!!! sweet dreams!!

  • @jennybassam5515
    @jennybassam5515 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi ,i am English and I love Korean dramas I watched them all the time , I came across them by accident and they are so good they kept me going during lockdown,

  • @VixenViVi
    @VixenViVi 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    coffee prince is my first and favorite drama, Im glad you guys love it too ^^ it was a big part of me discovering my love of korea and korean language.

  • @mokshasharma2603
    @mokshasharma2603 5 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Ou I just started the replay series because there's more than one apparently !? So now I'm going to be neglecting human necessities for kdramas 🤧😂

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      1997 is the best for sure!!

  • @chih-ninglin8298
    @chih-ninglin8298 5 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    HaHa here is a person watching your TH-cam to learn English ,too! Also I love your lifestyle and attitude : )
    Happy new year~
    Please give us more stories ~

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Happy new year!! Thank youuuu~

  • @asutkaprosh2492
    @asutkaprosh2492 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    you two are adorable :) and I totally agree on solo traveling.. been doing that for about 15 years now.. love to see how supportive you guys are of each other

  • @sulimar957
    @sulimar957 5 ปีที่แล้ว +41

    “To be fair” 😂😂😂 I love your boyfriend

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      😂😂😂

    • @miyuki1319
      @miyuki1319 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I love ur profile.. Dat is suga frm BTS.. Love him so much.. Though m into all BTS members.. M bias is Namjoon..💜😍😘😊⚜❤️ BTS ARMY.

  • @MrBug-qp1zz
    @MrBug-qp1zz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Homie is just there snacking. Appreciate😔💖 yall cute

  • @Jenny10161
    @Jenny10161 5 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You guys are soo cute! I'm glad he's more comfortable being on camera now.
    Have a fun trip! When you got to hongkong, will you be taking any solo trips?

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i think we'll b sticking together for that trip since i've been there before so i dont have any places i am dying to go to, i want to see how he likes it^^ and thank you!!

  • @btslovhq764
    @btslovhq764 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    y’all so cute 🥺😡💖💖💖

    • @caricakes
      @caricakes  5 ปีที่แล้ว

      😂😂😂