Those are very good points. I will add may be few. 1. If an American invite you for dinner at home, thank them for dinner and after dinner, offer to help to clean. I know in India, that is considered an anathema. And in America also, most host would not take your help in cleaning up. But still, it is considered polite to offer to help. The reason is because everyone is so busy in America. Even a small help is highly appreciated. 2. If you are invited for dinner at home, take a gift. It could be as small as a pack of chocolates. It does not have to be expensive. But token of appreciation is highly admired. 3. Know your host's bed time and leave 1/2 hour before that. Everyone has plans for next day in America. They are scheduled tightly. 4. If you planned with an American, and you wish to change it to another time and date, then think of their inconvenience. The way I did was as follows: "You and I have planned to meet on XXX date and YYY time. Would it be same for you if I change it? Ask for new date and time that would be equally convenient for them. If that works for you as well then, it’s OK. 5. Any cancellation should be well in advance. I would not cancel anything with any American if it is less than a week away. 6. Do not be a "return freak". Businesses do return purchased items here. But if you are there every other day, returning what you bought, then they will flag you in their system. There is no problem in returning something that you did not like. Personally, I almost never return anything I bought. 7. You cannot haggle for price, but you can ask if there are discount coupons available, or if the item you are buying will go on sale? There is no harm in asking, "are you authorized to give me a discount? If yes, then can you please give me a discount?" There are purchases, in which haggling is common even in America. That is in big ticket items, such as buying a home, or buying a car. Getting body work done on your car. But Americans do not haggle for pocket change. But asking for discount (not demanding it), is honorable.
In my 4 years in USA, all your points are very important. Your video series is the most accurate representation of life in USA. Thank you for taking the time off your busy schedule to make these informative sessions.
Dear Prof: The bargaining/haggling rule is not strictly true. For example, when one buys a new car, if one does not bargain for the best price/deal, the car dealers will take him/her to cleaners. When one buys a house, one does not take the list price. One makes a counter offer. In a recession, sellers are desperate and will accept a low ball offer particularly if one offers cash. I bought a condo in Florida at the height of the "GREAT RECESSION" this way. Obviously, one does not go to Walmart/Target/Home Depot ... and start bargaining!
Theres nothing wrong with negotiating prices at mainstream stores like the ones you've mentioned here. Items sold at these types of stores have a markup in the 30 to 50 percent range, so it would be foolish not to negotiate. That being said, these stores still need to make a profit to cover cost and of course, remain competitive in their respective industries, so you, as the consumer, have to convince store managers it's worth their while to negotiate the price of an item. Everything in business is up for negotiation.
Paying 15% tip in America is the norm. If you are not happy with the service, then you can reduce it. In some cases, however, waiter or beautician may seek feedback for lowered tip. They have to pay tax on tips. IRS does not accept them saying zero as tip income. They have to report tip money as income. IRS expects that restaurant sales will include 8% tips. If a waiter reports X income from salary, IRS will bump up their income to 1.08X and charge tax on that. So if no one pays tips, then waiter has to pay tax on income, they never had. On the other hand why 15% rule is good? Well some people pay 10% tip, some pay nothing. So if many people pay 15%, then average may come out to be about 10%. So waiters are sensitive to less than 15% tip. If you pay less than that, sometimes (not always), they may seek feedback about quality of their service. These days , I leave tip, even if I am getting a take out.
Making employees rely on tips is an easy way to improve profit margins by paying below par wages .. tipping as a habit needs to be discouraged so that employers pay atleast minimum wages - when you tip , the tip first covers the min wage and any additional money goes to the employee - it is not on top of their usual wages
Thank you so much for this video Dr. Sambhara. I made some of the mistakes you mentioned and realized that later. At once, when I was a master's student, I was working on an on-campus job where I had to check the internet connection in campus student housing. There was an American student worker in the building, and she was opening the doors for my friends and me to check the internet connections. I was casually conversing with my friend in my regional language when she walked beside us. When she heard our conversation and couldn't understand the same, she asked, "if we were bitching about her?" From that day, I made it a habit to converse in English whenever I'm with Americans or people of any other nationality.
Hi Friend I think points you highlighted it's not only relavant to western world . Every Indians shoul need to adopt it. Regardless he/she immigrating to west or not . Great job Proffesor 👏 You are a true teacher spreading etiquette and helping to realize facts of life in developed parts of Word . Good Job keep it up 👍 From Kerala , India
I've lived in both in India and the US for years and have to say, I really enjoyed this video and for the most part, would have to agree with what you've said. Interesting video. I bet it likely really helps those who may not have experience or friends/family in the US to learn from.
few insights for your next video 1. never take food laced with turmeric and hing (asafoetida) to your office. 2. always take gifts when invited to the party. 3. never spit on the road. keep surrounding clean. always clean up your mess when using public restroom. 4. always appreciate other people's job. no job is too small or not important 5. always write emails with the proper salutation. never use Sir or Madam. always refer gentleman with last name and a lady with the first name 6. do not try to help people until asked. most Indians have a bad habit of either helping people or trying to misuse the meaning of help by intentionally making people work. if you take help, offer something in return. for example, if someone replaced your tire, offer them a drink, beer or maybe a dinner. 7. never shake your head to represent yes or no. always speak upfront.
This video is very on point. You summarized essentially what a newcomer learns in the first few years by themselves. I still find it strange that people don’t follow the local strategy - when in Rome be a Roman. Thanks for spreading this knowledge.
This video was very helpful. Thank you Professor. I am very thankful for the thoughts you put in your content. In one of your points where you mentioned- not to speak in your language in the presence of Americans; I feel this should also apply amongst Indians who come from different regions and speak different languages. I have felt excluded many a times and literally feel are they bitching about me since am their boss. In an incident that happened recently at my work place,I told an associate to do a job. He told his manager to do it in his language and just left. When I asked him why didn’t he inform me he said he had delegated it to his manager who he was friends with. That was really unprofessional. However, he apologized for his behavior and again passed a remark on me in his language. In a multilingual environment we must stick to English even when we talk to Indians.
1. Being on time: Being on time is really important. 11:00 am and 11:01 am are not the same and even a minute late is considered rude. 2. Silence is golden: Saying no can be impolite. The best thing to do in America is to substitute a no with silence. Just don't respond. Trust me, even when you don't respond (ghost), you will see the person you ghosted the next morning, smile, and ask how their weekend was. The greeting has no bearing on the ghosting. Older Americans consider ghosting to be rude, but younger Americans love it. Also, if a tough situation comes up, many Americans substitute the answer with silence, both younger and older alike (I speak out of personal experience). 3. Conveying disagreement: In other countries, if you disagree, the norm is to increase your voice's volume. But in America, you have to stay calm and communicate disagreement in a low voice, no matter how ridiculous the other person is being. 4. Staring: It is rude to stare. If you stare too much, people will look at you and say "HI!" That's an indication that they've noted that you were staring.
Many younger Americans consider ghosting to be very rude too, it's a risky tactic. It's better to just say "I'll have to think about it" for requests or "I don't know", "I'm not sure" for touchy subjects if you are dealing with passive-aggressive types. For non-passive-aggressive Americans just be honest and direct (you can still say I don't know if that's the truth) they will respect you more.
Three good points, although I don't quite agree with number 2. I actually think the Professor is right, that a kind and polite "no" (without raising your voice) is the easiest way to go.
Sir I liked the video, in India we have a more informal and casual way of speaking while we talk to people in our neighbourhood and community, which I feel is very good. In all the western nations, including UK where I am currently residing, everybody keeps a distance, which seems to be more of a formal nature. When it comes to societal bonding, I feel India has better closeness than the western counterparts.
Comment #15. America is a free country. Nobody will judge you if you are acting stupid or not. If people don't like you, then you don't have to make them like you. You be yourself. So be free and exercise your freedom in USA which is not available in India.
You are also a cultural ambassador of the country of your birth/origin. As a person of Indian origin, I cannot even dream of misrepresenting my country. Rather, I wish to build-upon or at least uphold the respect that other Indians earned before me.
Very useful video ! One of the point that you probably missed is how as part of the communication skills we are not supposed to interrupt someone. It may not be US related but still in general desis make this mistake here. It’s considered very rude to interrupt while the other person is talking. Overall great video!
One important one you mentioned in another aspect......I am not trying to be disparaging here. But this problem do exist and it is high time it is spelled out clearly in the open. Americans/Canadians hate the curry smell in the clothes, jackets and in your car. In my company lot of desi people got offended when people got email not to store jackets in common closets which are not smell neutral. The email did not explicitly target a particular smell, rather politely mentioned people can be allergic to certain smells. So all my Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi brothers and sisters, yes the problem exists and you better take care of it.
I would like to add that please try to make friends from other cultures and countries. It is essential to assimilate into the society and have the ability to hold a meaningful conversation other than talking general topics like weather. In short, have the ability to exchange your views and cultures.
Point 16: Don't touch people. Point 17: Pay at least 15% tip when you dine out. Most restaurants now charge a minimum 15% gratuity for a team of 6 or more people. Point 18: If you are dining out or otherwise being provided a service, please develop a habit of saying thank you even though you are paying for the service. Point no last: When you talk to someone talk to that person with continuous eye contact.
6:38, Professor, you said that while entering, let women and children go first. Children are small, and it's valid for them to go first, but why Women first? As both men and women are equal. I don't remember where, but I read somewhere that Americans don't care if he/she is a man/woman. For them, it's a Human. No special treatment is provided on the basis of gender in America. Just curious to know, was it wrong that I read, or is it the truth?
Some Americans feel that way but they are a minority. An immigrant will earn more respect by treating women with extra consideration. The very few people who might scold an American for showing unequal kindnesses would never dare to scold an immigrant for it and everyone else will hold the immigrant in high esteem for setting a good example of traditional values.
You have an interesting point. Some "liberated" women will get insulted if you let them go first or hold a door for them, but, wolfsmith is correct in his comment. I live in a rural area, and I am elderly and handicapped, and when I go through the Post Office door with packages, it is not unusual for a woman to hold the door for me, or even to offer to carry my packages!
HI Chaitanya! Great video! But most of the tips that you gave are I think applicable living in any country (including India), which people should follow regardless. But yes, some of the tips are super helpful( experienced here in US) like not invading the personal space.
Hello Sir , I am Watching your video now , when i am already in America but U really appreciate your work and i am totally agree with your points Also i want to add one very important thing which i personally feel is American are very particular about time which i like the most Thanks again for making such video to helping others to understand the culture difference
2 more things: 1) Be punctual and respect the time of others. 2) If you have RSVPd for an event, and if your plans change, please inform. Do not take others for granted by not showing up
I feel like this isn’t something that’s just an American thing. I’m from India and I follow this with the people I know. It should be more a people thing than an Indian thing. In general it’s impolite to just barge into someone’s room or ask them when they’re getting married or comment on their appearance
Please follow the traffic rules, esp the stop sign, learn the right of way, don't rush as if you are in a race to reach first. Don't show the poor mentality in any grocery stores, leave the shopping cart in the designated place. You will be held responsible for the leaving the cart unattended in the middle of the parking lot. Don't hit and run, in the parking lot, don't think no one is watching, there are cameras everywhere. Place your contact number if you hit a parked car. Can't just take off. There are consequences for running from the scene.
Nobody is walking around in US rating people how culturally fitting others are. Consciously fitting into stereotypes is the last thing you want to do. Just show your personality and live free.
OP is right. Just be yourself. If you need to make so many changes within yourself to fit in a society, there's probably something wrong with you rather than your whole culture.
This is sign of a civilized society. India me koi civilized nahi hai. Yahan pe sirf koi road pe jaao to log bewajah honking karenge. Kisi se milo to sidha personal question puchenge like ki tumhari girlfriend kaun hai kya karti hai etc. And worst part is indian don't follow any rules. And breaking rule is considered cool here.
Sir it would be great if you could make video on pros and cons of living in America vs in India, as a lot students are confused as to whether they should pursue their masters and settle in India or USA.Thank you.
Great points .. living abroad I would say - please do not stare at other people , even if you want to check them out.. please it’s highly uncomfortable and rude
A message to the owner of the channel: you are doing a great job sensitizing Indians who are already here or want to come here. A couple of things i want to add: (regarding food) please do not burp, slurp or use your fingers to lick your food when no one else is. Find your corner to do it seperately please. Spoons and forks are quite cheap too.
Sir am a in intern of bachelors of Ayurveda and medicine and surgery (BAMS) ..... an ayurvedic doctor .. am 22 ... its my dream to come and settle in USA... is there any possibility in any way... as i want to spread ayurveda as much as i can ... will be waiting soon for ur rply sir..
5:29 I disagree. You shouldn’t switch your language to English when you’re next to an American if they’re not part of the conversation. What gives them the right to know what you’re talking about? That’s validating racists who keep whining “we're in America, speak English!”. Be proud you can speak a second language.
Your hard work is not ignored. It is very commendable. I am humbled.
Those are very good points. I will add may be few.
1. If an American invite you for dinner at home, thank them for dinner and after dinner, offer to help to clean. I know in India, that is considered an anathema. And in America also, most host would not take your help in cleaning up. But still, it is considered polite to offer to help. The reason is because everyone is so busy in America. Even a small help is highly appreciated.
2. If you are invited for dinner at home, take a gift. It could be as small as a pack of chocolates. It does not have to be expensive. But token of appreciation is highly admired.
3. Know your host's bed time and leave 1/2 hour before that. Everyone has plans for next day in America. They are scheduled tightly.
4. If you planned with an American, and you wish to change it to another time and date, then think of their inconvenience. The way I did was as follows: "You and I have planned to meet on XXX date and YYY time. Would it be same for you if I change it? Ask for new date and time that would be equally convenient for them. If that works for you as well then, it’s OK.
5. Any cancellation should be well in advance. I would not cancel anything with any American if it is less than a week away.
6. Do not be a "return freak". Businesses do return purchased items here. But if you are there every other day, returning what you bought, then they will flag you in their system. There is no problem in returning something that you did not like. Personally, I almost never return anything I bought.
7. You cannot haggle for price, but you can ask if there are discount coupons available, or if the item you are buying will go on sale? There is no harm in asking, "are you authorized to give me a discount? If yes, then can you please give me a discount?" There are purchases, in which haggling is common even in America. That is in big ticket items, such as buying a home, or buying a car. Getting body work done on your car. But Americans do not haggle for pocket change. But asking for discount (not demanding it), is honorable.
excellent points sir
Thank you @@DesiAmericanProfessor
@@SupreethGaddam , Thanks to you.
Also add the point, people without fluent American accent are seen as aliens
@@DesiAmericanProfessor sir meeru telunga ?
I avoid these mistakes in India and people think I am weird
They think I am different , I think they all are same
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In my 4 years in USA, all your points are very important. Your video series is the most accurate representation of life in USA. Thank you for taking the time off your busy schedule to make these informative sessions.
Imagine little Kids telling dad in India Kids -- Dad u should knock the door before entering my room
Dad-- 1 Jhapad padega to akal thikane a jayegi 🤣
US me baccho ko marne par jail ho skti hai
This channel is growing and getting better everyday. So much potential.
Thank you
All points discussed and addressed here are 100% accurate. I have also observed the same thing when I was studying MS in Australia.
Dear Prof: The bargaining/haggling rule is not strictly true. For example, when one buys a new car, if one does not bargain for the best price/deal, the car dealers will take him/her to cleaners. When one buys a house, one does not take the list price. One makes a counter offer. In a recession, sellers are desperate and will accept a low ball offer particularly if one offers cash. I bought a condo in Florida at the height of the "GREAT RECESSION" this way.
Obviously, one does not go to Walmart/Target/Home Depot ... and start bargaining!
Theres nothing wrong with negotiating prices at mainstream stores like the ones you've mentioned here. Items sold at these types of stores have a markup in the 30 to 50 percent range, so it would be foolish not to negotiate. That being said, these stores still need to make a profit to cover cost and of course, remain competitive in their respective industries, so you, as the consumer, have to convince store managers it's worth their while to negotiate the price of an item. Everything in business is up for negotiation.
You have missed the most important part. Immigrants usually don't tip well or don't tip at all.
yes, great point!
Paying 15% tip in America is the norm. If you are not happy with the service, then you can reduce it. In some cases, however, waiter or beautician may seek feedback for lowered tip. They have to pay tax on tips. IRS does not accept them saying zero as tip income. They have to report tip money as income. IRS expects that restaurant sales will include 8% tips. If a waiter reports X income from salary, IRS will bump up their income to 1.08X and charge tax on that. So if no one pays tips, then waiter has to pay tax on income, they never had. On the other hand why 15% rule is good? Well some people pay 10% tip, some pay nothing. So if many people pay 15%, then average may come out to be about 10%. So waiters are sensitive to less than 15% tip. If you pay less than that, sometimes (not always), they may seek feedback about quality of their service. These days , I leave tip, even if I am getting a take out.
Making employees rely on tips is an easy way to improve profit margins by paying below par wages .. tipping as a habit needs to be discouraged so that employers pay atleast minimum wages - when you tip , the tip first covers the min wage and any additional money goes to the employee - it is not on top of their usual wages
@@CuteNeha777 your name describes you very well
In UK you don't say bring, you would say 'would you please get me a plate?'
Very good, I'm already following these in India and maybe most people in Mumbai
Thank you so much for this video Dr. Sambhara. I made some of the mistakes you mentioned and realized that later.
At once, when I was a master's student, I was working on an on-campus job where I had to check the internet connection in campus student housing.
There was an American student worker in the building, and she was opening the doors for my friends and me to check the internet connections.
I was casually conversing with my friend in my regional language when she walked beside us.
When she heard our conversation and couldn't understand the same, she asked, "if we were bitching about her?"
From that day, I made it a habit to converse in English whenever I'm with Americans or people of any other nationality.
Hi Friend
I think points you highlighted it's not only relavant to western world .
Every Indians shoul need to adopt it. Regardless he/she immigrating to west or not .
Great job Proffesor 👏 You are a true teacher spreading etiquette and helping to realize facts of life in developed parts of Word .
Good Job keep it up 👍
From Kerala , India
ഓക്കെ സിർ
I've lived in both in India and the US for years and have to say, I really enjoyed this video and for the most part, would have to agree with what you've said. Interesting video. I bet it likely really helps those who may not have experience or friends/family in the US to learn from.
Dir, This is one of the most useful posts. Wish that I learned this 20 years back. Thank you very much
Glad you enjoyed it!
Another important thing is - do not honk unnecessarily, at least when the signal is red ;)
very good point, but people do not do it here anyhow. They quickly learn about this
Mostly Indians wont do it here. Not because Indians are polite- but because they are afraid of a buckshot going up their ass.
so buddy r u also in usa
few insights for your next video
1. never take food laced with turmeric and hing (asafoetida) to your office.
2. always take gifts when invited to the party.
3. never spit on the road. keep surrounding clean. always clean up your mess when using public restroom.
4. always appreciate other people's job. no job is too small or not important
5. always write emails with the proper salutation. never use Sir or Madam. always refer gentleman with last name and a lady with the first name
6. do not try to help people until asked. most Indians have a bad habit of either helping people or trying to misuse the meaning of help by intentionally making people work. if you take help, offer something in return. for example, if someone replaced your tire, offer them a drink, beer or maybe a dinner.
7. never shake your head to represent yes or no. always speak upfront.
This video is very on point. You summarized essentially what a newcomer learns in the first few years by themselves. I still find it strange that people don’t follow the local strategy - when in Rome be a Roman. Thanks for spreading this knowledge.
This video was very helpful. Thank you Professor. I am very thankful for the thoughts you put in your content.
In one of your points where you mentioned- not to speak in your language in the presence of Americans; I feel this should also apply amongst Indians who come from different regions and speak different languages. I have felt excluded many a times and literally feel are they bitching about me since am their boss. In an incident that happened recently at my work place,I told an associate to do a job. He told his manager to do it in his language and just left. When I asked him why didn’t he inform me he said he had delegated it to his manager who he was friends with. That was really unprofessional. However, he apologized for his behavior and again passed a remark on me in his language. In a multilingual environment we must stick to English even when we talk to Indians.
1. Being on time: Being on time is really important. 11:00 am and 11:01 am are not the same and even a minute late is considered rude.
2. Silence is golden: Saying no can be impolite. The best thing to do in America is to substitute a no with silence. Just don't respond. Trust me, even when you don't respond (ghost), you will see the person you ghosted the next morning, smile, and ask how their weekend was. The greeting has no bearing on the ghosting. Older Americans consider ghosting to be rude, but younger Americans love it. Also, if a tough situation comes up, many Americans substitute the answer with silence, both younger and older alike (I speak out of personal experience).
3. Conveying disagreement: In other countries, if you disagree, the norm is to increase your voice's volume. But in America, you have to stay calm and communicate disagreement in a low voice, no matter how ridiculous the other person is being.
4. Staring: It is rude to stare. If you stare too much, people will look at you and say "HI!" That's an indication that they've noted that you were staring.
great points Sir
Many younger Americans consider ghosting to be very rude too, it's a risky tactic. It's better to just say "I'll have to think about it" for requests or "I don't know", "I'm not sure" for touchy subjects if you are dealing with passive-aggressive types. For non-passive-aggressive Americans just be honest and direct (you can still say I don't know if that's the truth) they will respect you more.
Three good points, although I don't quite agree with number 2. I actually think the Professor is right, that a kind and polite "no" (without raising your voice) is the easiest way to go.
Sir I liked the video, in India we have a more informal and casual way of speaking while we talk to people in our neighbourhood and community, which I feel is very good. In all the western nations, including UK where I am currently residing, everybody keeps a distance, which seems to be more of a formal nature. When it comes to societal bonding, I feel India has better closeness than the western counterparts.
Comment #15. America is a free country. Nobody will judge you if you are acting stupid or not. If people don't like you, then you don't have to make them like you. You be yourself. So be free and exercise your freedom in USA which is not available in India.
You are also a cultural ambassador of the country of your birth/origin.
As a person of Indian origin, I cannot even dream of misrepresenting my country.
Rather, I wish to build-upon or at least uphold the respect that other Indians earned before me.
I was searching for an iPad Pro review on TH-cam and ended up watching all your videos and became your subscriber. I'm from Sydney, Australia.
Thank you Sir
Why U Delete This Video
Nice information सर जी।
I've no intention of going to America. Don't know why I am still watching all your videos. 😅
Try doing these things in your home country! At least some people would respect you :)
Very useful video !
One of the point that you probably missed is how as part of the communication skills we are not supposed to interrupt someone. It may not be US related but still in general desis make this mistake here. It’s considered very rude to interrupt while the other person is talking.
Overall great video!
One important one you mentioned in another aspect......I am not trying to be disparaging here. But this problem do exist and it is high time it is spelled out clearly in the open.
Americans/Canadians hate the curry smell in the clothes, jackets and in your car. In my company lot of desi people got offended when people got email not to store jackets in common closets which are not smell neutral. The email did not explicitly target a particular smell, rather politely mentioned people can be allergic to certain smells. So all my Indian, Pakistani, Bangladeshi brothers and sisters, yes the problem exists and you better take care of it.
I would like to add that please try to make friends from other cultures and countries. It is essential to assimilate into the society and have the ability to hold a meaningful conversation other than talking general topics like weather. In short, have the ability to exchange your views and cultures.
Point 16:
Don't touch people.
Point 17:
Pay at least 15% tip when you dine out. Most restaurants now charge a minimum 15% gratuity for a team of 6 or more people.
Point 18:
If you are dining out or otherwise being provided a service, please develop a habit of saying thank you even though you are paying for the service.
Point no last:
When you talk to someone talk to that person with continuous eye contact.
Great information sir .
These things are so similiar to UK as well !! Gurss that most western etiquettes are similiar !!
Cool... Very Useful sir ☺️👍🏻
Good sharing.of dos n don'ts.one more point on right of way n yielding while driving.
make a video on what americans would love to see/hear you doing....it's not apple polishing but may come handy to many
Sir Plz Help me
Which Exam is better SAT or Act
You can please make part 2 of this video including points missed in this video , it is very much needed 🙏
Superlike! Everyone coming to the US should watch
7:25 that was hilarious 😂🤣
Mere ko to ENGLish hi nahi aati mai kaise America jaaounga
Good content sir :)
Just a small suggestion, background music pitch seems more than required. It would be better music is kept low.
Noted
Today I following you. Apne meri ankhe khol Di america ane ka sonch Raha tha mai..
10:35, Is there any fine for seeing into the camera while driving?
not that I know of. It is not very safe though
6:38, Professor, you said that while entering, let women and children go first. Children are small, and it's valid for them to go first, but why Women first? As both men and women are equal. I don't remember where, but I read somewhere that Americans don't care if he/she is a man/woman. For them, it's a Human. No special treatment is provided on the basis of gender in America. Just curious to know, was it wrong that I read, or is it the truth?
Some Americans feel that way but they are a minority. An immigrant will earn more respect by treating women with extra consideration. The very few people who might scold an American for showing unequal kindnesses would never dare to scold an immigrant for it and everyone else will hold the immigrant in high esteem for setting a good example of traditional values.
@@wolfsmith Great!
You have an interesting point. Some "liberated" women will get insulted if you let them go first or hold a door for them, but, wolfsmith is correct in his comment. I live in a rural area, and I am elderly and handicapped, and when I go through the Post Office door with packages, it is not unusual for a woman to hold the door for me, or even to offer to carry my packages!
....its a sign of respect towards women. Won’t you like someone paying respect to your mother, daughter or sister?
Thanks Professor...
Very nice and very informative
I loved your Hindi and you are funny too.. just subscribed 😊👍🏼
Nice"beralu adanu sir" thank you
Good job sir, you really care about your viewers. 👍🏻
Professor is back with priceless content appreciate u r efforts sir...Thnx for 5:00 to 5:02.
Ha ha love it the ladies standing in the parking spot was hilarious!
American culture is very good. 👍
All cultures are good or bad in some way.
16- Not holding the door for others behind you.
HI Chaitanya! Great video! But most of the tips that you gave are I think applicable living in any country (including India), which people should follow regardless. But yes, some of the tips are super helpful( experienced here in US) like not invading the personal space.
Thanks for sharing!
These Are Good Manners. 👍
This was very much helpful prof.
Do you have US passport?
Hello Sir , I am Watching your video now , when i am already in America but U really appreciate your work and i am totally agree with your points Also i want to add one very important thing which i personally feel is American are very particular about time which i like the most
Thanks again for making such video to helping others to understand the culture difference
Plz you can make part 2 this video
Great videos sir. I get so much knowledge from your videos. Thanks
2 more things:
1) Be punctual and respect the time of others.
2) If you have RSVPd for an event, and if your plans change, please inform. Do not take others for granted by not showing up
I feel like this isn’t something that’s just an American thing. I’m from India and I follow this with the people I know. It should be more a people thing than an Indian thing. In general it’s impolite to just barge into someone’s room or ask them when they’re getting married or comment on their appearance
Whites always taunt and mock Indians on their accent,food, culture. Indian Kids face horrible levels of racism in the US
Hahahaha .. nice video and i liked your jokes.. 😂😂
Good points. What happened to those asians trying to block and take the parking space?
In malls do not overtake others or do not try to get the thing before they do if they are ahead of you.
Thanks
Germans do the same, they know english but never speak in english
I can definitely attest to that working in a German company.
Also the French and the Japanese
@@nbaballer8227 ya, with me in Bombardier Berlin and VW.
you are awsmm prof i have also done one negative comment in one of your vedios but there also i was crt and herre also
I replied to your "negative comment" to show you that you were wrong
@@DesiAmericanProfessor yes prof i was thanks for teaching me this lesson thanks again
these are some basic etiquettes everyone would appreciate
Very well compiled!!
Only legends have seen this video before it was uploaded 😎😎😂
It had more than 500 views. More than 500 legends.
I want a part 2
Why he's moving so much?
it was fun
1. Being unprofessional.
2. Not keeping your promises.
Thank you for good information my friend.
Glad it was helpful!
Please follow the traffic rules, esp the stop sign, learn the right of way, don't rush as if you are in a race to reach first. Don't show the poor mentality in any grocery stores, leave the shopping cart in the designated place. You will be held responsible for the leaving the cart unattended in the middle of the parking lot. Don't hit and run, in the parking lot, don't think no one is watching, there are cameras everywhere. Place your contact number if you hit a parked car. Can't just take off. There are consequences for running from the scene.
Well said, Professor great points to people who want to come to the US.
Good points and a nice reminder for even those who have lived in US for a while.
Extremely good points, the most obvious ones for Indians is the "deodorant" issue- heard from so many people that Indians smell !
Nobody is walking around in US rating people how culturally fitting others are. Consciously fitting into stereotypes is the last thing you want to do. Just show your personality and live free.
Doesnt mean you can freely show personality of a ruffian.
OP is right. Just be yourself. If you need to make so many changes within yourself to fit in a society, there's probably something wrong with you rather than your whole culture.
@American professor "Aare bhai tum toh popular hogaye youtube par. So many suscribers"
Sir how do you now telugu?
Are you from telugu region?
parents from Andhra, although I never lived in Andhra/Telangana, I learned Telugu at home from my parents
next video has a Telugu version too :)
Good one bro . So useful for us when we come there. Telugu ha bro?
This is sign of a civilized society.
India me koi civilized nahi hai. Yahan pe sirf koi road pe jaao to log bewajah honking karenge. Kisi se milo to sidha personal question puchenge like ki tumhari girlfriend kaun hai kya karti hai etc.
And worst part is indian don't follow any rules.
And breaking rule is considered cool here.
Yeah present scenario clearly showing how civilized they're 😏
did you get a green card in eb1b?
Nice editing and great content 👌
Thank you so much 😀
Nice video, when we migrate to other countries, we should maintain their rules and regulation adopt their culture
Sir it would be great if you could make video on pros and cons of living in America vs in India, as a lot students are confused as to whether they should pursue their masters and settle in India or USA.Thank you.
Great suggestions! Thank you.
Great points .. living abroad I would say - please do not stare at other people , even if you want to check them out.. please it’s highly uncomfortable and rude
No music please,cant listen u r say
These are just common sense things. I know them naturally. It’s funny how nobody knows them
I think u had lots of common sense!
A message to the owner of the channel: you are doing a great job sensitizing Indians who are already here or want to come here. A couple of things i want to add: (regarding food) please do not burp, slurp or use your fingers to lick your food when no one else is. Find your corner to do it seperately please. Spoons and forks are quite cheap too.
Informational as usual, Point out more mistakes if you can. Glad that I learned new things.
Sir am a in intern of bachelors of Ayurveda and medicine and surgery (BAMS) ..... an ayurvedic doctor .. am 22 ... its my dream to come and settle in USA... is there any possibility in any way... as i want to spread ayurveda as much as i can ... will be waiting soon for ur rply sir..
Good all tips were correct
5:29 I disagree. You shouldn’t switch your language to English when you’re next to an American if they’re not part of the conversation. What gives them the right to know what you’re talking about? That’s validating racists who keep whining “we're in America, speak English!”. Be proud you can speak a second language.
Then don't go there live your own country
Mistake #16: Very loud inappropriate background music in video. Just kidding sir, all points are good :)
Really enjoyed the vdo specially that climbing part dialogue
I am from America and I love the smell of Indian food. Seriously, but I see why it can be an issue.
Annayya meru Telugu lo matladuthe chala Baga anipisthundhi.
very nice video.