Have not watched your video yet, but I know a guy in Arizona married a province, girl, spent a lot of money to get her here, within two years they were divorced, and she is playing the field now. Looking for better, and my ber-in-law married a with a Thai mom with a teenage daughter, as soon as They got their papers, she bailed… There are no guarantees, even if you think you found the right one.
I brought mine here when she was 21 and I was 40. Still together and doing well 13 years later. I had a friend who brought his over a year later, 11 years later she has left him, not for someone younger or anything like that, she just. got tired of being his personal maid and enduring his alcoholism. Now he's one of the ones warning to not bring one here. Sometimes we need to hear both sides of the story.
I married a Thai girl I met online. We now live in southern California. In other words, I broke all the rules. Lol! Why? Well, I can't live in SE Asia, so if I wanted this type of girl, I was going to have to bring her here, and the only way to do that is to marry. The solution? I got a strict, enforceable prenup. So, if she decides to bail, she will only get a predetermined amount that is what I'm comfortable giving her based on the time she has spent with me. If she bails, I'll find another young, cute Thai or Filipina to replace her with. No harm, no foul.
I brought mine here. There are lots of unfinished business and money to be made i would be a fool to walk away it all for a woman. We are doing good so far but at the same time, i am always aware that i didnt bring a slave. If she goes, she goes.
My Filipina was living and working in Italy and came over on a visiting visa. She had multiple entries 10 year visa. She had 4 sisters living in the United States. She is 10 year's older than myself. How much younger do she wants 😂 our 20th wedding anniversary has passed. Every year our permanent address was in the United States and our vacation homes (she owned before marriage) in Philippines. I'm retired at 51 in 2021. Everyone thought I'll be the one trading her for the younger model.
Your channel is like my SANITY. 🙏🏾 Every time I mention about marrying & bringin a Filipina back to the STATES, brothers assume I'm lookin for a BAR 🍸 GIRL to bring over. Ps. Traveling first time to the Philippines 🇵🇭 January 15th 2025.
Another great video smooth! You are absolutely right, brother. If you got a good one, there is no problem bringing them back to your home country in the west. You will not have any problems. As matter fact, they will be more loyal to you and more committed to you. I know I went on my rant about not wanting to live in the west in your last video. That was about me, not wanting to live in the west anymore. But if I wanted to stay here, no doubt I would bring my Filipina here. I think most of these guys who don’t want to bring their Filipina are concerned she’s going to leave them for a younger man. They are insecure in themselves or they picked the wrong woman. I love the Philippines! It’s like the wild wild West! I have lived in abundance for so long that I find it refreshing experiencing the simple life they have in the province. There’s a lot wrong with the Philippines. But the police aren’t whipping black peoples asses shooting us. there’s no mass shootings to worry about. There’s no toxic ass Maga BS going over there. Kids aren’t going to school shooting up the place. Yes, they’re poor extreme poverty. I spent time in the middle of it with them. Had a feast and felt like family. Brother, there are some of us out there that are just done with living in the west. You know you hear about those guys that get fed up with all the BS, sell all their possessions get rid of all forms of communication and just go up in the mountains and live with the monks? That’s where I’m at.😂 But before I go to that extreme, I’ll just move to the Philippines😂💯👊🏾🇵🇭 Have the Philippines as my home base and slow travel Southeast Asia. Yes that is how I will spend my retirement. until I’m too damn old to travel. But once I leave for good, I’m not coming back to the west.
@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308 I hear you, brother. Like I said to everyone, do what's best for you, live your life the way you pleased. Hell, you work hard your whole life to acquire what you have. Enjoy the fruits of your labor. Stay blessed
I brought my ex wife and children to Canada.Shortly after her arrival the "me too" movement started.Constantly being told by MSM that all men are "toxic" and "abusive".She befriended other Filipina's and other woman from foreign countries who were brought and got divorced.The influence of all advertising and television shows and films with the message "you should get divorced,you dont need a man" got to her.She was expecting to get into subsidized government housing.She tried to claim "abuse" to social workers.They are trained to know if someone is making false claims and they rejected her claims.She moved from womans shelter to womans shelter till she ran out of places to stay as she refused to take any apartment she was offered as it was full market price.Eventually she moved in with some old foreigner here and is bumming off him.
@mikewood4242 Sorry to hear that. I'm going to be honest with you. If she was that easily influenced by others outside your home, then she wasn't the right woman for you.
Though I talk to Filipinas online, the women I talk to do not even talk about coming to the United States. I am weary of those who know all about the U.S. visa process and are eager to see you. It takes getting to know someone first just as if the woman was already over here. The same type of treatment.
Some people attempt to control every aspect of a relationship out of their own insecurities. God and Adam couldn’t control the first female, it’s unrealistic to think you can control one. When you choose the right partner, challenges will arise, but together, you can overcome them. It’s important to find someone to build a life with, not just someone to share a bed with.
Don't lead with money, if she sticks even during conflict and hard times then she is a keeper and you don't have to worry about her. Good video, Smooth. You are always on point. You did a video awhile ago on this same topic and you definitely convinced Rich. We have a video coming out this week on the same topic. Check it out and we will appreciate some feedback. Mad respect for you, Smooth.
Yep... I met my Filipina wife "divorced " in a US bar full of other divorced Filipinas. When out and about the men can't keep their hands or comments to themselves..this also includes other women.
Been married to my Filipina wife for 43yrs. I brought her here. I sent her to college she became a nurse n we had 5 children. My wife takes care of all the finances. We have home n businesses in the Philippines. Fund a good one n bring her home.
My opinion about these women in the Philippines. I'm directing my comment to these men or men American men who go to the Philippines. It can take a year or 2 years or 3 years to find the right woman. But don't settle for the first woman who was giving you attention. You have to vent them out very well. . That's just my opinion and comment here.
Me and my wife been together for two years and she’s coming to America. She’s from the Philippines and one day I don’t understand about all these guys. They always say don’t bring your wife back you had to control her. I’ll be looking at them like she’s not a minion. And she wants to help me financially and help the household and also help my mom and dad and family out and I’m like cool. Everybody might not agree with me but everybody can work online Everybody cannot retire early. I feel like with some guy start talking about that kind of stuff. I feel like the dogs foaming out the mouth. And, like you said big dog, they never mentioned the success stories. Only thing to focus on the negativity. Love your work, big dog keep it up.
@Jj-vf2cd I truly appreciate your insight, brother. Stay blessed, and thanks for sharing your story. More people need to **hear** that there's more success out here than failure.
but if a man is happy living in the philippines and he can provide for the family, then dont take your filipina to the usa. there is absolutely nothing wrong with your filipina being completely dependent on you financially because most filipinas just wanna stay at home be a full time mom , all they want is to have a husband who will never leave them. having a full time mom has really great benefits for the kids and the man. now if you cant fully provide for the family then tell your wife to get a job so she can help with the finances
I have my long-term Colombian woman who I been with for 3 years I honestly prefer to just keep her where she is at yes I trust her very much but I think it's better to leave her in her own country
Let's face it, most of the guys who believe they shouldn't bring their fiance back to their home country (influenced by Passport Bros) are ill prepared to live in the Philippines in the long term. They simply don't have the money or have the ability to keep the money flowing while they live abroad. 98% would never do it. 98% can never do it. However, Most of them can bring their foreign fiance to their home country on a fiance visa!😮
good video Smooth, but.... I just did a vid with the same title that is coming out next week. Im gonna tell you in advance that you changed my opinion on this with the previous video you did on this topic. You are on point brother! THESE MEN NEED TO VET CAREFULLY BEFORE YOU MARRY A WOMAN. When you have the right one, you dont need to worry about her because she is AN ASSET to you no matter where you live! Thanks again, brother .
It is just part of the game. If she leaves for a better man, you can just replace her. I would not sign an affidavit of support to bring a foreign woman though. The consequences can be really bad. The "hope-ium" that this guy sells will not save you. It is better to have a family in Philippines. The kids can visit you on the summer and winter holidays. You will see those children more than if she divorces you in the USA.
@@smoothlee64 I understand the desire to lie to yourself to justify your choices 😂. But you know what, we are not the same. I actually have things to lose.
Brother, whatever you say. If that makes you feel good about saying it, then go ahead. As for me, I am finished and done with this conversation with you.
I agree with the majority. Don't bring your Filipina to your country. It's not that she is not a good Filipina. It's just an unnecessary risk. It's all about risk tolerance. Mine is low.
@chosen_one1602 It's also an unnecessary risk, even if you're living in the Philippines with no good women. We've all seen and heard those stories, too.
@@smoothlee64 Yes, I am. What I said is the truth. Of course I'll be bitter. Really, there is no such thing as a "good loser" when the entire game is a loss.
@EikaiwaGakko Don't let a loss keep you down. Move on; there are greater things out there waiting for you. We've all been there at one point in our lives.
I laugh when these fools say that you can't bring your wife back to your country, because like you say, it depends entirely on the woman. A monger bringing trying to bring a teen back ain't gonna have much success 🤣 On another note, looking at the country there, I'm always expecting to see the Roadrunner run by with the coyote chasing him... 😂
Why men go finding wives in the Philippines? Why not in other countries like Romania, Latvia, Estonia, Italy or maybe a Chinese Filipina from the Philippines?That because they are looking for helpers, caregivers which will clean their homes and attend to them at old age, a thing Filipinas are good in. But later on they may find that things are not exactly what they wished for.
@@JohnnyIsFree Well; I didn't see Philippine bloggers at their 20's, but only if they are passing by tourists. Suddenly old guyz who should spend their time in home for the aged, get second life in the Philippines. As a young man, having a Filipina wife in the US, your status will drop. For the aged, nothing remains to drop, so marry whoever you want.
Smooth Lee, YOU do NOT qualify as one of those men bring a Filipino woman back to the USA. You met and married your Filipino wife in the Las Vegas, Nevada USA. Show an example of a foreigner man married a Filipina abroad and brought her back to the USA.
I completely disagree with u ..depends on the woman I have a client who married a 25 year old younger they had 2 children in the states they are happily married What your tittle should say be carefully who u marry do your dudilligence not every woman is marriage material..also any country any woman not every marriage works out🤷🏾♂️
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Have not watched your video yet, but I know a guy in Arizona married a province, girl, spent a lot of money to get her here, within two years they were divorced, and she is playing the field now. Looking for better, and my ber-in-law married a with a Thai mom with a teenage daughter, as soon as They got their papers, she bailed… There are no guarantees, even if you think you found the right one.
@@Solo-_-.. You should have watched the video
@@smoothlee64 time reasons.. watching it later👍🏿
So very true. If you bring her back to the US, after 2 or 3 years, she will find another..
@@albertthomas7295 You guys much choose better
If he is a real redpiller he would not be on that situation bro.
I brought mine here when she was 21 and I was 40. Still together and doing well 13 years later. I had a friend who brought his over a year later, 11 years later she has left him, not for someone younger or anything like that, she just. got tired of being his personal maid and enduring his alcoholism. Now he's one of the ones warning to not bring one here. Sometimes we need to hear both sides of the story.
I know the type of men you are talking about, my friend. They never see the fault in themselves. Stay blessed
I married a Thai girl I met online. We now live in southern California. In other words, I broke all the rules. Lol! Why? Well, I can't live in SE Asia, so if I wanted this type of girl, I was going to have to bring her here, and the only way to do that is to marry. The solution? I got a strict, enforceable prenup. So, if she decides to bail, she will only get a predetermined amount that is what I'm comfortable giving her based on the time she has spent with me. If she bails, I'll find another young, cute Thai or Filipina to replace her with. No harm, no foul.
@Nordic_Sky I hear you. Stay blessed, my friend
My wife and I are going on 21 years together and she eats the same food and sounds the same way after all these years.
@@thomasrobinson-r5i God bless 🙌
If you’re with the right women doesn’t matter if you’re in the Philippines or USA. If you’re scared means you’re with the wrong one.❤️🇵🇭🇺🇸🙏🏾
Say out loud, brother. So true
I agree granted you don’t want her to get exposed to toxicity it’s really up to her to bail on you, most women are always looking for an upgrade
Not true. She can be the right woman, but moving her to Compton will change her. It's like saying prison won't change you.
I brought mine here. There are lots of unfinished business and money to be made i would be a fool to walk away it all for a woman. We are doing good so far but at the same time, i am always aware that i didnt bring a slave. If she goes, she goes.
@bigbrother4ever I hear you, brother. Stay blessed
Yes, if 1) you find a good Filipina for you and 2) you are good for her, you don’t have to worry.
@rolandmueller7218 Correct, my friend
My Filipina was living and working in Italy and came over on a visiting visa. She had multiple entries 10 year visa. She had 4 sisters living in the United States. She is 10 year's older than myself. How much younger do she wants 😂 our 20th wedding anniversary has passed. Every year our permanent address was in the United States and our vacation homes (she owned before marriage) in Philippines. I'm retired at 51 in 2021. Everyone thought I'll be the one trading her for the younger model.
@b.coxemba6799 Good for you, my friend.
Smooth...True and False...No one is perfect,Theres The good, The Bad And The Ugly to most situations.
Your channel is like my SANITY. 🙏🏾
Every time I mention about marrying & bringin a Filipina back to the STATES, brothers assume I'm lookin for a BAR 🍸 GIRL to bring over.
Ps. Traveling first time to the Philippines 🇵🇭 January 15th 2025.
@invisiblerevolution Do what makes you happy, my friend
Another great video smooth! You are absolutely right, brother. If you got a good one, there is no problem bringing them back to your home country in the west. You will not have any problems. As matter fact, they will be more loyal to you and more committed to you.
I know I went on my rant about not wanting to live in the west in your last video. That was about me, not wanting to live in the west anymore. But if I wanted to stay here, no doubt I would bring my Filipina here.
I think most of these guys who don’t want to bring their Filipina are concerned she’s going to leave them for a younger man. They are insecure in themselves or they picked the wrong woman.
I love the Philippines! It’s like the wild wild West! I have lived in abundance for so long that I find it refreshing experiencing the simple life they have in the province.
There’s a lot wrong with the Philippines. But the police aren’t whipping black peoples asses shooting us. there’s no mass shootings to worry about. There’s no toxic ass Maga BS going over there.
Kids aren’t going to school shooting up the place. Yes, they’re poor extreme poverty. I spent time in the middle of it with them. Had a feast and felt like family.
Brother, there are some of us out there that are just done with living in the west. You know you hear about those guys that get fed up with all the BS, sell all their possessions get rid of all forms of communication and just go up in the mountains and live with the monks? That’s where I’m at.😂
But before I go to that extreme, I’ll just move to the Philippines😂💯👊🏾🇵🇭
Have the Philippines as my home base and slow travel Southeast Asia. Yes that is how I will spend my retirement. until I’m too damn old to travel. But once I leave for good, I’m not coming back to the west.
@theadaptivefitnesschannel4308 I hear you, brother. Like I said to everyone, do what's best for you, live your life the way you pleased. Hell, you work hard your whole life to acquire what you have. Enjoy the fruits of your labor. Stay blessed
Those old heads that you speak of still have the mentality of a master...have no pity when things go south and they get burnt..
@@BB-dp4kh Truth
That's right. A wife is not a slave, if she goes, she goes.😂
Awesome informative video!
I brought my ex wife and children to Canada.Shortly after her arrival the "me too" movement started.Constantly being told by MSM that all men are "toxic" and "abusive".She befriended other Filipina's and other woman from foreign countries who were brought and got divorced.The influence of all advertising and television shows and films with the message "you should get divorced,you dont need a man" got to her.She was expecting to get into subsidized government housing.She tried to claim "abuse" to social workers.They are trained to know if someone is making false claims and they rejected her claims.She moved from womans shelter to womans shelter till she ran out of places to stay as she refused to take any apartment she was offered as it was full market price.Eventually she moved in with some old foreigner here and is bumming off him.
@mikewood4242 Sorry to hear that. I'm going to be honest with you. If she was that easily influenced by others outside your home, then she wasn't the right woman for you.
Though I talk to Filipinas online, the women I talk to do not even talk about coming to the United States. I am weary of those who know all about the U.S. visa process and are eager to see you. It takes getting to know someone first just as if the woman was already over here. The same type of treatment.
Some people attempt to control every aspect of a relationship out of their own insecurities. God and Adam couldn’t control the first female, it’s unrealistic to think you can control one. When you choose the right partner, challenges will arise, but together, you can overcome them. It’s important to find someone to build a life with, not just someone to share a bed with.
@@justaskKj Couldn't have said it any better. Thanks for your insight 👍🏾
Nice sir
Don't lead with money, if she sticks even during conflict and hard times then she is a keeper and you don't have to worry about her. Good video, Smooth. You are always on point.
You did a video awhile ago on this same topic and you definitely convinced Rich. We have a video coming out this week on the same topic. Check it out and we will appreciate some feedback. Mad respect for you, Smooth.
@bachengcheng876 Thank you so much, my friend. I truly appreciate your insights. Can't wait for the video to be released. Stay blessed.
Yep... I met my Filipina wife "divorced " in a US bar full of other divorced Filipinas. When out and about the men can't keep their hands or comments to themselves..this also includes other women.
Been married to my Filipina wife for 43yrs. I brought her here. I sent her to college she became a nurse n we had 5 children. My wife takes care of all the finances. We have home n businesses in the Philippines. Fund a good one n bring her home.
@dukelopez8988 Your story is the one that needs to be told. Stay blessed, my friend.
Different age, different Filipina . 43 years ago there was no internet, no social media, etc. Those were the good times.
My opinion about these women in the Philippines. I'm directing my comment to these men or men American men who go to the Philippines. It can take a year or 2 years or 3 years to find the right woman. But don't settle for the first woman who was giving you attention. You have to vent them out very well. . That's just my opinion and comment here.
@MichaelMCNeal-b1s Your comment is spot on. Desperate and loneliness cause some men to make silly mistakes
Me and my wife been together for two years and she’s coming to America. She’s from the Philippines and one day I don’t understand about all these guys. They always say don’t bring your wife back you had to control her. I’ll be looking at them like she’s not a minion. And she wants to help me financially and help the household and also help my mom and dad and family out and I’m like cool. Everybody might not agree with me but everybody can work online Everybody cannot retire early. I feel like with some guy start talking about that kind of stuff. I feel like the dogs foaming out the mouth. And, like you said big dog, they never mentioned the success stories. Only thing to focus on the negativity. Love your work, big dog keep it up.
@Jj-vf2cd I truly appreciate your insight, brother. Stay blessed, and thanks for sharing your story. More people need to **hear** that there's more success out here than failure.
You are in love and not thinking with your bigger head. I hope you two don't have too big of an age gap!
@@tubigbomba5417 we only have like a 3 1/2 year age gap nothing crazy
but if a man is happy living in the philippines and he can provide for the family, then dont take your filipina to the usa. there is absolutely nothing wrong with your filipina being completely dependent on you financially because most filipinas just wanna stay at home be a full time mom , all they want is to have a husband who will never leave them. having a full time mom has really great benefits for the kids and the man. now if you cant fully provide for the family then tell your wife to get a job so she can help with the finances
@@boyscout-p3u Did you listen to the video
I have my long-term Colombian woman who I been with for 3 years I honestly prefer to just keep her where she is at yes I trust her very much but I think it's better to leave her in her own country
My goal in the US is to find a beautiful beach, laid back, relaxed life..why would i.move back to the United states
Let's face it, most of the guys who believe they shouldn't bring their fiance back to their home country (influenced by Passport Bros) are ill prepared to live in the Philippines in the long term. They simply don't have the money or have the ability to keep the money flowing while they live abroad. 98% would never do it. 98% can never do it. However, Most of them can bring their foreign fiance to their home country on a fiance visa!😮
these dude come get this easy bar girl thinking they can control them with money, so sad to see men getting worst when it comes to this.
good video Smooth, but.... I just did a vid with the same title that is coming out next week. Im gonna tell you in advance that you changed my opinion on this with the previous video you did on this topic. You are on point brother!
THESE MEN NEED TO VET CAREFULLY BEFORE YOU MARRY A WOMAN. When you have the right one, you dont need to worry about her because she is AN ASSET to you no matter where you live!
Thanks again, brother .
Just like you, brother. More men need to see what you and your lady have is special. Can't wait for the video to be released.
It is just part of the game. If she leaves for a better man, you can just replace her. I would not sign an affidavit of support to bring a foreign woman though. The consequences can be really bad. The "hope-ium" that this guy sells will not save you. It is better to have a family in Philippines. The kids can visit you on the summer and winter holidays. You will see those children more than if she divorces you in the USA.
Okay, I understand the lack of confidence in your choices.
@@smoothlee64 I understand the desire to lie to yourself to justify your choices 😂. But you know what, we are not the same. I actually have things to lose.
@josealbino8532 Yeah, you are special. No one else is. Come on B
@@smoothlee64 I am glad you are able to recognize better men.
Brother, whatever you say. If that makes you feel good about saying it, then go ahead. As for me, I am finished and done with this conversation with you.
I agree with the majority. Don't bring your Filipina to your country. It's not that she is not a good Filipina. It's just an unnecessary risk. It's all about risk tolerance. Mine is low.
@chosen_one1602 It's also an unnecessary risk, even if you're living in the Philippines with no good women. We've all seen and heard those stories, too.
She'll leave you for a more wealthy or whiter man too. This is the case with all asian women, even Japanese, which are higher on the Asian hierarchy.
@EikaiwaGakko You sound very bitter, my friend
@@smoothlee64 Yes, I am. What I said is the truth. Of course I'll be bitter. Really, there is no such thing as a "good loser" when the entire game is a loss.
@EikaiwaGakko Don't let a loss keep you down. Move on; there are greater things out there waiting for you. We've all been there at one point in our lives.
Thank you brother.
I laugh when these fools say that you can't bring your wife back to your country, because like you say, it depends entirely on the woman. A monger bringing trying to bring a teen back ain't gonna have much success 🤣 On another note, looking at the country there, I'm always expecting to see the Roadrunner run by with the coyote chasing him... 😂
@BossHerbie Dawn, bro, you've got jokes. But I understand where you're coming from. Thanks for watching.
Why men go finding wives in the Philippines? Why not in other countries like Romania, Latvia, Estonia, Italy or maybe a Chinese Filipina from the Philippines?That because they are looking for helpers, caregivers which will clean their homes and attend to them at old age, a thing Filipinas are good in. But later on they may find that things are not exactly what they wished for.
You are talking about guys over 65. They are not the only ones looking.
@@JohnnyIsFree Well; I didn't see Philippine bloggers at their 20's, but only if they are passing by tourists. Suddenly old guyz who should spend their time in home for the aged, get second life in the Philippines. As a young man, having a Filipina wife in the US, your status will drop. For the aged, nothing remains to drop, so marry whoever you want.
Smooth Lee, YOU do NOT qualify as one of those men bring a Filipino woman back to the USA. You met and married your Filipino wife in the Las Vegas, Nevada USA. Show an example of a foreigner man married a Filipina abroad and brought her back to the USA.
@lovellthomas2232 What rock are you living under. Or no need to ask. I know what club you belong to
I completely disagree with u ..depends on the woman I have a client who married a 25 year old younger they had 2 children in the states they are happily married
What your tittle should say be carefully who u marry do your dudilligence not every woman is marriage material..also any country any woman not every marriage works out🤷🏾♂️
How could you disagree with saying what i said on the video.
Money talks
@@rainman1405 👍🏾