For me, one of the most attractive things in men is movement; how they hold their shoulders, how they walk, how they turn to look at something, etc. Movement and body language shows everything about people, and I feel a lot of that is missed on tinder or hot or not. People are either attractive or they aren't, and after that you decide if you like what's on their profile, and after That- you decide if you believe them, or if they're making it up.... There is a lot left unsaid on Tinder
I met my girlfriend on tinder! Everything here is really true, tinder took the pressure and stress out of dating, and that attitude helped me be a little more relaxed and open. I love my girlfriend, and tinder put us together :)
Hey! I met my boyfriend off tinder too and we've been in a serious relationship for a while now :) It's crazy how compatible we are and how well we click together.
Senor Swag Tinder is an online dating app. In a nutshell, you download it onto your phone, pull some photos off Facebook, and by choosing people based on their photos, you can match up with people nearby who match you back, and you're thrown into a chat.
SoulPancake Ooh, thanks a lot for the info :D! And here i was, thinking that a person's personality was more important than their appearance, haha :v It's a scary tool in the hands of the impressionable huehue.
Mike Walters No worries, I spent 2 weeks on it - got one match. But then I'm also hyper specific and did not realize at the time that Tinder is primarily used for hook-ups.
+LucJenson Oh, dear..but then what did you look for? And more importantly did you get what you wanted? I presume you actually wanted a girlfriend, a proper girlfriend. Did you get her? I mean, I just want to see if it works it is so curious. And I have no idea of this tinder..never have seen it. I have heard about it first in this video and I looked up the word in the dictionnary..and it didn't match it gave the meaning of literal tinder..(:
I've never used Tinder or any other type of dating site, maybe that's why I'm still single lol. I'm just a cheesy romantic who likes the idea of meeting someone somewhere random, offline. But I think these social platforms are great for anyone who likes them. Love can find you in endless amounts of ways.
I know I'm getting to this video late, but I actually met my boyfriend on Tinder about a month after this was posted. I was on the app for months, and I could sit there for hours sometimes wading through the good and the bad. I loved not having to worry about rejection or needing to reject because of the way the matching system works. Granted, towards the end, my optimism had lowered nearly back to where it was when I downloaded the app, but I came across the perfect guy just before I threw in the towel. Funny thing is, he had only been on the app for a few days. We both deleted it after our first date, and I've been a Tinder advocate ever since!
This kind of apps sure can help you to find a date, some fun and feel more confident... But the real problem isn't to find someone but to stick with your choice. The real danger is deeper. Once you realized which flues your partner has, you start to think how easily you can date a new person, so you start to idealize your relationship.
I am next to uninterested in all things dating-app-related but I'll listen to Julian talk about it on Soul Pancake stuff. Whatever it is you are doing with the pacing or the tone or whatever it is, is working. Maybe it is the lab coat and the optimism. UGH. OPTIMISM.
I usually like your content but I am going to be dead critical of this one. I appreciate your conclusions about the psychology of optimism and its role in creating resilience but all this DEEP BULLSHIT about the gamefication of dating... HELL NO! 1st - everyone knows Tinder is just about hooking up and increasing your chances at casual sex (at least here in London, but I am pretty sure it is the same in SanFran or wherever you are) 2nd - You didn't consider the real science behind dating/meeting someone special; and that is RESONANCE. When you actually meet someone you immediately experience some form of appreciation or rejection based on the sensory perception their system has on our system (look, touch, smell). Then we go on talking and are able to deepen that resonance by gauging at their mind/heart through their words and the way they speak to us. If you reduce all of that by simply liking or disliking them based on a photoshopped pic or two... then your chances at meeting someone you really like decrease instead of increasing. That's because it's just a game of statistics. For guys it's all about liking as many pretty girls as possible... in the end you are bound to be liked by someone. For ladies, it's exactly the same plus trying to gauge guys intentions with some casual conversation. What you end up with is just EXHAUSTION and Despondence. All these people to date, not knowing what you really want (and what they want), some casual sex and a lot of frustrated hopes. Keep it real mate. Start by meeting people in person (house parties, exhibitions, yoga studios, courses, seminars, trainings). Then make an effort to understand them. That is fundamental to understand yourself as well, for if you don't know/love yourself there is no way you can know and love anyone else
scriblemaker You'd be surprised how balanced and emotionally intelligent people doing yoga can be. And yes, when I go there I also very much enjoy the panorama.
If you go into this knowing exactly what you want and don't want, and having that on your profile, then this video is exactly right. If Tinder didn't work, so many people wouldn't be on it. As for booty calls, I know that's true for a majority of the users, but not all. I had "Looking for a date, not a booty call" as the first line on my profile. Guess what? Now I'm in a relationship with someone I met on the app. You really don't have to be such a pessimist.
Does Tinder make you more positive and hopeful or more delusional? Just because you get many "matches" doesn't necessarily mean they're real. Tinder is very superficial, so be careful. Have fun, but date smart and be realistic :)
That can't be right, dating apps have made me more pessimistic. Maybe in the short term, it does make you more optimistic. But after you've used these things for more than a year, you just become even more pessimistic than before.
I love how some people are certain that this app is for hook ups yet there are bunch of people who are commenting that they met their girlfriend or boyfriend on it. One guy even met his wife on it. My tinder experience was not good. Broken heart. Long story short... if you and I are on it and we are looking for something serious then chances are there are bunch of other people like us.
I am a guy, and I have gotten no matches ?? I just sit there and like every girl without even seeing who I am liking just to see if I get a match? But I still get no match ? What's going on? Scam app?
...in my case, low optimism is because it seems like every guy I meet only wants sex. I don't think tinder would help improve my attitude towards my dating future :P
I started using tinder right after i broke up with my gf and suprisingly most of the girls just wanted a one night stand it was good at the beginning but just makes you miss the connection you used to have i wish i had a good exoerience form tinder cause it really removrs the pressure of making the first move
Going on the comment about playing games. There was a game I got REALLY into called Hollow Knight. And I really enjoyed it, up to a point. I beat the boss, got the credits. But I knew there were more options, more things to find. But from that point on, the game got way more difficult for me to handle and I stopped enjoying it. It's frustrating to fight the same boss over and over again and get nowhere. But this late in the game, I ran out of places to explore and come back to later.
Tbh, I've given up on tinder. I don't see it like a game. Constantly failing at a game makes me try and try, like you described. Continuously failing at tinder and dating has just made me give up entirely =/ nice video though.
I'm highly disappointed in this information. While the evidence might show that tinder can potentially increase romantic optimism you have to incorporate the realism of how attractive your participants are. In the real world, average individuals show less attractive features and or try to make themselves look highly attractive. With an ap that is heavily based on how you look compared to who you are, the likeliness of getting a positive result of such a product is drastically low. The individuals that part took in this video where all fairly attractive. In a way it seems like the statistics you demonstrated are manipulated, or they simply cannot apply to every tinder user. Tinder overall is a very shallow concept based application. With a generation full of young people obsessed with appearance, entertainment, and pleasures the use of tinder generally is based on how attractive you are to sleep with, not a place to genuinely find love. I made a profile in the hopes of getting something positive, but only received sexual invites and pointless converstion that usually ended due to someone wanting to sleep with me. So is this the science of sex or love? Tinder maybe a fun "love game", but really it's nothing of the sort; it's a shallow place to find sexual gain. I'm sure some users actually want love, but if seems most don't. The science of love is something I really enjoy watching. However this video doesn't seem to be really accurate.
I didn't believe in online dating because you think everyone's goes on it to hook up, and yes some people do. I went on tinder because I was ill for 3 years and I didn't meet anyone and I decided one night I went on tinder and I meet this guy and we have been on a couple of dates and his my boyfriend now. So you never know you meet someone you like. :)
Oh, dear, I am so sorry for you. This is such a fashion now to disappear even from longer relationships without a word. People did that before but now it has become an epidemic. WE live in an era of irresponsibility.
Well, try to think of the good part: you do not hate him, so you are not destroying yourself. Then, he definitely was not worthy of you, so off he went. Somebody nicer will turn up, look out. Think of the good part: you had a lovely time with him, and now you have memories. If you had never met a guy you would be just plain lonely and there would be nothing to think back on! And trust me, there are girls who have no memories...I mean not good ones. I do not count the hook ups, those are not memories one is fond of. Cheer up. Others love you. (:
Ok, it's precisely year around since I did "Deactivate" - "Delete" myself from lot of social networks except Google (cuz of my Android) and TH-cam. I made my own Blog just to replace beeing freinds with thouhsands of people who does not care about me as freind, but just wants my attention. Since then I've tried a lot of live dating stuff unsuccessfully. Tinder is based on Facebook account so I don't want to "Activate" Facebook account - I can't register to Tinder, beeing like that deletes possibility of perverts or fakes like Qeep etc. I use "Hot or Not", cuz I can be safe on it or just cuz I can ( allows Google - e-mail registered users ). From my experience there is a lot of problems that includes: pictures beeing pictures - looking good, but sadly reality kicks, if you are shy guy you won't be the one written to, your bio - interests are actually very rarely rewieved (pictures - if the package looks not the best - you are doomed), you have to be correct and very experienced talking with others, one mistake - wrong word can be counterprogressive - big time, etc. Anyway, the point is - It may give you experience and knowlage. You will feel safer and maybe even get lucky, but if you have compromised situation with your self confidence and pshysical situation you may have more hard times than without this app thingy. I suggest to try, but not for long, if your hopes ain't getting satisfied for a month or two - just leave it.
Milo C. "Mutilating" you say will research the meaning of this word and try to do better. (It was 04:00 AM no miracles I was typing meaningful bullshit.) Well I wrote like usually, if you can follow the thought process of mine - you can understand. Maybe I'm going slightly mad, but if that's the reason of my unsuccessful experiences then I'm ok with it. :)
I had a really bad experience using tinder! Most guys are just looking for a hook up. I went on a couple dates with a guy who I ended up finding out was bi. I really didn't know how to feel. He also didn't tell me he had slept with 8 men/ women in the past 6 months. And to top it off he's never been tested. I'm more upset that he wasn't responsible and put me at a higher risk because of his sexual orientation. If you're gonna have sex get tested so you're not only protecting yourself, you're protecting others. I also think that your sexual orientation should be shown so people know what they're getting themselves into.
kayjay111111 about 20-30 percent has herpes in the US alone.... you can potentially catch it through kissing and sharing a drink. Condoms also can't protect from syphilis necessarily. Fact is there is no such thing as safe sex anymore.. regardless of whether you're having it with men or women, long term partners or casual encounters. The best thing you can do is always wear a condom or abstain. Finding someone you trust would be great if you're into monogamy... but people do tend to lie so again - condoms. "This message was brought to you by WHO"
Seriously, I'm petrified. I can understand use of technology (I use it A LOT myself) in various aspects of life. But I think that love or acceptance of others has to be felt by your heart, not by challenging yourself by clicking YES or NO. I agree, that we judge people on a sight subconsciously, but making a game-like experience of it? Wouldn't it be nicer to make a game aiming at getting to know as many personality traits as it's possible by simple talking to people? Wouldn't it be more meaningful? Get to know my personality AND my appearance, but focus on who I am inside? It starts to be more shallow than picking a dog from a shelter, because when you pick a dog you try to get to know as much as you can - would it be suitable for your pace of life, does it like children or is jealous of other people or animals playing with you. Why we start picking others as products in a supermarket? "I'll have low-fat. Nope, this one has a broken package, I won't take it". I wonder if the people have become more optimistic, because they picked 'no', so they don't feel lonely in rejection. Orwell and Huxley - you were so right.
How come these young, beautiful and friendly participants in the video have problems to find somebody? You just need to go out and keep your eyes open. If you can find them on the screen of your phone you can also find them standing in front of you. And you get a lot more impressions.
I hate tinder the girl who I am in a complicated relationship with uses it she says she uses it to make new friends and I don't really like it I'm afraid she'll meet someone better than me
What app are these people using. I used Tinder and after months of no matches I felt like seeing what a bullet tasted like at a couple of hundred miles per second.
Try that in China/Japan/Korea...my brown male friends can't get much matches, no matter there are zillions options bcz these girls are only interested in Caucasians (apart from their own race) and sometimes they even specifically say: I'm looking for a German guy.
This app seems good at first glance, but if you look closer, they're all actually judging the people by the looks. What about the substance? Their personality?
For me, one of the most attractive things in men is movement; how they hold their shoulders, how they walk, how they turn to look at something, etc. Movement and body language shows everything about people, and I feel a lot of that is missed on tinder or hot or not. People are either attractive or they aren't, and after that you decide if you like what's on their profile, and after That- you decide if you believe them, or if they're making it up....
There is a lot left unsaid on Tinder
Shelby Veloz cool!!
I met my girlfriend on tinder! Everything here is really true, tinder took the pressure and stress out of dating, and that attitude helped me be a little more relaxed and open. I love my girlfriend, and tinder put us together :)
+Bailey Blue Thanks for sharing and we're glad it worked out for you! Thanks for watching!
Hey! I met my boyfriend off tinder too and we've been in a serious relationship for a while now :) It's crazy how compatible we are and how well we click together.
+Bailey Blue Happy for you..
Found the single guy
Tell me you are still together ❤😢
I've just realised why it's called Tinder, because it used to spark up a fire, a relationship..
Me too 😂
It has to be science because he is wearing a white coat.
No wonder many people have a problem "finding love". We spend most of our time obsessing about logistics and what we think love looks and feels like.
Or some of us are just naturally shy and have faced I fair share of rejection in the past which kills our optimism.
***** Amen.
***** I was addressing the issue of "love" from a perspective of shallowness.
"Needle in the gaystack" >.< It is confusingly clever!!!!!!!11
and what's tinder?
Senor Swag Tinder is an online dating app. In a nutshell, you download it onto your phone, pull some photos off Facebook, and by choosing people based on their photos, you can match up with people nearby who match you back, and you're thrown into a chat.
SoulPancake Ooh, thanks a lot for the info :D! And here i was, thinking that a person's personality was more important than their appearance, haha :v
It's a scary tool in the hands of the impressionable huehue.
Senor Swag Its like JACK'D / GRINDR ;]
I heart Julian! This blew my mind... dating as a game. But a game to learn about myself not a game GAME. Thanks Soul Pancake. You are my new favorite.
Ok, I need to find Julian on Tinder...
I love how he looks like Dexter all grown up. =)
These people are incredibly better at Tinder than I am haha
i barely got 7 matches in my tinder career
tomerca10 I've gotten like 5 and replies from 2 of them lol
Mike Walters No worries, I spent 2 weeks on it - got one match. But then I'm also hyper specific and did not realize at the time that Tinder is primarily used for hook-ups.
LucJenson hczfyzvv
+LucJenson Oh, dear..but then what did you look for? And more importantly did you get what you wanted? I presume you actually wanted a girlfriend, a proper girlfriend. Did you get her? I mean, I just want to see if it works it is so curious. And I have no idea of this tinder..never have seen it. I have heard about it first in this video and I looked up the word in the dictionnary..and it didn't match it gave the meaning of literal tinder..(:
This is my favourite Soul Pancake thing, it's awesome :)
I will tell her that she looks like my mom, lmfao
Downloading Tinder now out of pure curiosity haha
same....
Horror awaits....
Don't worry. You won't see too much action.
I've never used Tinder or any other type of dating site, maybe that's why I'm still single lol. I'm just a cheesy romantic who likes the idea of meeting someone somewhere random, offline. But I think these social platforms are great for anyone who likes them. Love can find you in endless amounts of ways.
more science of happiness in the future? it's what got me to subscribe
Even though I have found love this is still my favorite soul pancake series, keep it up!
This channel had such good, innovative, interesting content!!
I know I'm getting to this video late, but I actually met my boyfriend on Tinder about a month after this was posted. I was on the app for months, and I could sit there for hours sometimes wading through the good and the bad. I loved not having to worry about rejection or needing to reject because of the way the matching system works. Granted, towards the end, my optimism had lowered nearly back to where it was when I downloaded the app, but I came across the perfect guy just before I threw in the towel. Funny thing is, he had only been on the app for a few days. We both deleted it after our first date, and I've been a Tinder advocate ever since!
Tinder only works for people who are 7-10 on the attractiveness scale.
SoulPancake always makes me smile.
I wish this was still continuing, this series was so cool
I met my wife on tinder
This kind of apps sure can help you to find a date, some fun and feel more confident... But the real problem isn't to find someone but to stick with your choice. The real danger is deeper. Once you realized which flues your partner has, you start to think how easily you can date a new person, so you start to idealize your relationship.
Ha! I love these videos & Julian! So good.
I am next to uninterested in all things dating-app-related but I'll listen to Julian talk about it on Soul Pancake stuff. Whatever it is you are doing with the pacing or the tone or whatever it is, is working. Maybe it is the lab coat and the optimism. UGH. OPTIMISM.
I think it'd be interesting to see how people who actually go on dates through Tinder end up,
I usually like your content but I am going to be dead critical of this one. I appreciate your conclusions about the psychology of optimism and its role in creating resilience but all this DEEP BULLSHIT about the gamefication of dating... HELL NO!
1st - everyone knows Tinder is just about hooking up and increasing your chances at casual sex (at least here in London, but I am pretty sure it is the same in SanFran or wherever you are)
2nd - You didn't consider the real science behind dating/meeting someone special; and that is RESONANCE. When you actually meet someone you immediately experience some form of appreciation or rejection based on the sensory perception their system has on our system (look, touch, smell). Then we go on talking and are able to deepen that resonance by gauging at their mind/heart through their words and the way they speak to us.
If you reduce all of that by simply liking or disliking them based on a photoshopped pic or two... then your chances at meeting someone you really like decrease instead of increasing. That's because it's just a game of statistics. For guys it's all about liking as many pretty girls as possible... in the end you are bound to be liked by someone. For ladies, it's exactly the same plus trying to gauge guys intentions with some casual conversation.
What you end up with is just EXHAUSTION and Despondence. All these people to date, not knowing what you really want (and what they want), some casual sex and a lot of frustrated hopes.
Keep it real mate. Start by meeting people in person (house parties, exhibitions, yoga studios, courses, seminars, trainings). Then make an effort to understand them. That is fundamental to understand yourself as well, for if you don't know/love yourself there is no way you can know and love anyone else
not gonna lie, i was nodding at the comment but then i read yoga studio...
scriblemaker
You'd be surprised how balanced and emotionally intelligent people doing yoga can be. And yes, when I go there I also very much enjoy the panorama.
If you go into this knowing exactly what you want and don't want, and having that on your profile, then this video is exactly right. If Tinder didn't work, so many people wouldn't be on it. As for booty calls, I know that's true for a majority of the users, but not all. I had "Looking for a date, not a booty call" as the first line on my profile. Guess what? Now I'm in a relationship with someone I met on the app. You really don't have to be such a pessimist.
actually having tried tinder for myself I revoke my previous comment. tinder is what you make of it like most things in life.
Wow… The video is interesting. Dating someone through gaming apps was exciting. Testing yourself how optimistic you are in having relationship.
His ears are so cute! x)
ember fly I have enough ears to go around.
Seriously, they're huge.
jhug111 cute eats like Dumbo? Lol :-))
Love you Julian
I loveeee Julian
is this a 7 minute ad? I liked it.
Oh my god that bean cushion looks sooooooo comfy. 😍😍
Science of Love is really really great!
Tinder make sense when I look at it as a game for desensitizing people to rejection.
The ending though :D 6:34
Does Tinder make you more positive and hopeful or more delusional? Just because you get many "matches" doesn't necessarily mean they're real. Tinder is very superficial, so be careful. Have fun, but date smart and be realistic :)
My sister caught her friend's boyfriend cheating on Tinder
Jane McGonigal! I love her! But this app also sounds pretty cool - I've thought about using it for a little while and maybe I should soon.
"Ryan!?" XD -that got me
Tinder should pay these guys for doing an excellent ad!
Tinder should pay these guys for pretending that men actually get lots of messages from women.
Loved how this love video finally added a gay guy :) thanks soul pancake! :)
That can't be right, dating apps have made me more pessimistic. Maybe in the short term, it does make you more optimistic. But after you've used these things for more than a year, you just become even more pessimistic than before.
I love how some people are certain that this app is for hook ups yet there are bunch of people who are commenting that they met their girlfriend or boyfriend on it. One guy even met his wife on it. My tinder experience was not good. Broken heart. Long story short... if you and I are on it and we are looking for something serious then chances are there are bunch of other people like us.
Ryan's adorable , obviously he'd get a ton of messages !
I am a guy, and I have gotten no matches ??
I just sit there and like every girl without even seeing who I am liking just to see if I get a match?
But I still get no match ? What's going on? Scam app?
Brandon Weaver
Unless you're a woman. You can be fat and ugly and it's OK. Female privilege is very real.
oh i absolutely believe that. but that applies only to direct interaction. face to face. thats not how tinder works.
LOVE THE SCIENCE!! :)
Heart and Soul is the song they are playing the beginning
...in my case, low optimism is because it seems like every guy I meet only wants sex. I don't think tinder would help improve my attitude towards my dating future :P
I started using tinder right after i broke up with my gf and suprisingly most of the girls just wanted a one night stand it was good at the beginning but just makes you miss the connection you used to have i wish i had a good exoerience form tinder cause it really removrs the pressure of making the first move
I don't really understand this apps this tinder, but I love this exercise and I love their results and all. Well, in a few words that is... (:
"You wanna... PLAY with me?" 😂
I love his face, it's great
Going on the comment about playing games. There was a game I got REALLY into called Hollow Knight. And I really enjoyed it, up to a point. I beat the boss, got the credits. But I knew there were more options, more things to find. But from that point on, the game got way more difficult for me to handle and I stopped enjoying it. It's frustrating to fight the same boss over and over again and get nowhere. But this late in the game, I ran out of places to explore and come back to later.
Tbh, I've given up on tinder. I don't see it like a game. Constantly failing at a game makes me try and try, like you described. Continuously failing at tinder and dating has just made me give up entirely =/ nice video though.
I'm highly disappointed in this information.
While the evidence might show that tinder can potentially increase romantic optimism you have to incorporate the realism of how attractive your participants are.
In the real world, average individuals show less attractive features and or try to make themselves look highly attractive. With an ap that is heavily based on how you look compared to who you are, the likeliness of getting a positive result of such a product is drastically low.
The individuals that part took in this video where all fairly attractive. In a way it seems like the statistics you demonstrated are manipulated, or they simply cannot apply to every tinder user.
Tinder overall is a very shallow concept based application. With a generation full of young people obsessed with appearance, entertainment, and pleasures the use of tinder generally is based on how attractive you are to sleep with, not a place to genuinely find love.
I made a profile in the hopes of getting something positive, but only received sexual invites and pointless converstion that usually ended due to someone wanting to sleep with me.
So is this the science of sex or love? Tinder maybe a fun "love game", but really it's nothing of the sort; it's a shallow place to find sexual gain.
I'm sure some users actually want love, but if seems most don't.
The science of love is something I really enjoy watching. However this video doesn't seem to be really accurate.
Did these folk not realize 99% of people on tinder are just looking for a lay, and not a date?
Joined tinder out of curiosity. Ive been on for about a week and not a single match. It's not really increased my optimism that much.
I didn't believe in online dating because you think everyone's goes on it to hook up, and yes some people do. I went on tinder because I was ill for 3 years and I didn't meet anyone and I decided one night I went on tinder and I meet this guy and we have been on a couple of dates and his my boyfriend now.
So you never know you meet someone you like. :)
+rebecca Ashton WoW! I am Happy for you..(:
I met my ex on tinder... we were in love but after 5 months he ghosted me. He left with no aparent reason. So I guess I wont try tinder again.
Oh, dear, I am so sorry for you. This is such a fashion now to disappear even from longer relationships without a word. People did that before but now it has become an epidemic. WE live in an era of irresponsibility.
It is terrible, I'm trying to get over it, it is so unfair. I cannot even hate him because I don't know the reason.
Well, try to think of the good part: you do not hate him, so you are not destroying yourself. Then, he definitely was not worthy of you, so off he went. Somebody nicer will turn up, look out. Think of the good part: you had a lovely time with him, and now you have memories. If you had never met a guy you would be just plain lonely and there would be nothing to think back on! And trust me, there are girls who have no memories...I mean not good ones. I do not count the hook ups, those are not memories one is fond of. Cheer up. Others love you. (:
Oh How I love this show...... I love it too much
It'd be great if I could even get the app running. Verification doesn't work.
Very cool!
How come there aren't any comments? This is kind of eerie
yet they dont say how tinder is used for sex
Ok, it's precisely year around since I did "Deactivate" - "Delete" myself from lot of social networks except Google (cuz of my Android) and TH-cam. I made my own Blog just to replace beeing freinds with thouhsands of people who does not care about me as freind, but just wants my attention. Since then I've tried a lot of live dating stuff unsuccessfully. Tinder is based on Facebook account so I don't want to "Activate" Facebook account - I can't register to Tinder, beeing like that deletes possibility of perverts or fakes like Qeep etc. I use "Hot or Not", cuz I can be safe on it or just cuz I can ( allows Google - e-mail registered users ). From my experience there is a lot of problems that includes: pictures beeing pictures - looking good, but sadly reality kicks, if you are shy guy you won't be the one written to, your bio - interests are actually very rarely rewieved (pictures - if the package looks not the best - you are doomed), you have to be correct and very experienced talking with others, one mistake - wrong word can be counterprogressive - big time, etc. Anyway, the point is - It may give you experience and knowlage. You will feel safer and maybe even get lucky, but if you have compromised situation with your self confidence and pshysical situation you may have more hard times than without this app thingy. I suggest to try, but not for long, if your hopes ain't getting satisfied for a month or two - just leave it.
Please stop mutilating the English language!
Also, you might be crazy! :D
Milo C. "Mutilating" you say will research the meaning of this word and try to do better. (It was 04:00 AM no miracles I was typing meaningful bullshit.) Well I wrote like usually, if you can follow the thought process of mine - you can understand. Maybe I'm going slightly mad, but if that's the reason of my unsuccessful experiences then I'm ok with it. :)
I had a really bad experience using tinder! Most guys are just looking for a hook up. I went on a couple dates with a guy who I ended up finding out was bi. I really didn't know how to feel. He also didn't tell me he had slept with 8 men/ women in the past 6 months. And to top it off he's never been tested. I'm more upset that he wasn't responsible and put me at a higher risk because of his sexual orientation. If you're gonna have sex get tested so you're not only protecting yourself, you're protecting others. I also think that your sexual orientation should be shown so people know what they're getting themselves into.
kayjay111111 about 20-30 percent has herpes in the US alone.... you can potentially catch it through kissing and sharing a drink. Condoms also can't protect from syphilis necessarily. Fact is there is no such thing as safe sex anymore.. regardless of whether you're having it with men or women, long term partners or casual encounters. The best thing you can do is always wear a condom or abstain. Finding someone you trust would be great if you're into monogamy... but people do tend to lie so again - condoms. "This message was brought to you by WHO"
Ew u fucked him
Tinder made me less optimistic because NO ONE EVER RESPONDS AFTER MATCHING WITH ME. I definitely deleted the app.
80% fail in video games? baby im tryna get to Challenger, Best Tinder NA
step 1: be attractive
SoulPancake i have a suggestion for a experiment. Is love at first sight real? or How do sometimes best friends fall in love? dftba!
Seriously, I'm petrified. I can understand use of technology (I use it A LOT myself) in various aspects of life. But I think that love or acceptance of others has to be felt by your heart, not by challenging yourself by clicking YES or NO. I agree, that we judge people on a sight subconsciously, but making a game-like experience of it? Wouldn't it be nicer to make a game aiming at getting to know as many personality traits as it's possible by simple talking to people? Wouldn't it be more meaningful? Get to know my personality AND my appearance, but focus on who I am inside? It starts to be more shallow than picking a dog from a shelter, because when you pick a dog you try to get to know as much as you can - would it be suitable for your pace of life, does it like children or is jealous of other people or animals playing with you. Why we start picking others as products in a supermarket? "I'll have low-fat. Nope, this one has a broken package, I won't take it". I wonder if the people have become more optimistic, because they picked 'no', so they don't feel lonely in rejection. Orwell and Huxley - you were so right.
Too bad it just reinforces vanity and shallowness haha.
am I the only one who wants to meet someone in real life, and go through all of the confusing heartbending trials of love
real love
I will play I'm just scared of commitment! lol
Aww I would swipe right for Julian hehe :3
Does Julian actually have a Tinder? If so, I might actually consider joining. :)
How old do you have to be to join this app?
My views on "love" is still the same as it was before I joined tinder. Still in that 12% range, maybe less.
I don't understand the point lol! So rejection isn't that bad when you're rejected because theres millions of people out in the world?
How come these young, beautiful and friendly participants in the video have problems to find somebody?
You just need to go out and keep your eyes open. If you can find them on the screen of your phone you can also find them standing in front of you. And you get a lot more impressions.
I decided to try Tinder after watching this video. It made me more pessimistic.
i am close to being the first guy to comment on this fantastic video
Soul Pancake... SUHb-scr- eye-be!
I hate tinder the girl who I am in a complicated relationship with uses it she says she uses it to make new friends and I don't really like it I'm afraid she'll meet someone better than me
I liked the part with the car chase.
What app are these people using. I used Tinder and after months of no matches I felt like seeing what a bullet tasted like at a couple of hundred miles per second.
Heart and Soul!!
Is this an infomercial?
My question is: How the hell do all these people get so many likes, matches, and messages in just 20 mins??!
Try that in China/Japan/Korea...my brown male friends can't get much matches, no matter there are zillions options bcz these girls are only interested in Caucasians (apart from their own race) and sometimes they even specifically say: I'm looking for a German guy.
I'm not failing 80% of the time when my kd is so high an I'm hitting so many feeds
Number one question: IS JULIAN SINGLE?!
Hate how you have to link it to your Facebook. Still didn't stop me from logging in. Lol
The science of DIVORCE
This app seems good at first glance, but if you look closer, they're all actually judging the people by the looks. What about the substance? Their personality?
So moral of the story is I need to get on tinder?
" ok Bunny Ears is gonna be a no"
Except people are not... gold coins? They're people with feelings?
Yea right my luck is so bad I'll get a match on tinder and they still won't reply ☹️
The girl with the blue jumper is pretty hot
Am I the only one who couldn't stop hearing the ping pong ball? 😡