At some point, we realize that the implosion of our narcissistic relationships were acts of grace. Enjoy your peace these holidays everyone. thank you, Andrew. ☮
"It will never be enough". So true, Andrew. No matter how much you love, care and give to them, it is never enough. They are opportunists who just use, abuse and discard
The hawk is showing us solitary, freedom, energy, rising above all. The sky is his limit. After we have left everything behind us, we are also ready to soar to new hights. I am happy you met this beautiful hawk, our friend, again. Thank you!🌲🦅❤🌲
5 years of hell, finally starting to feel like a human agsin. A pain I never wish to repeat ever again. Feels like it's going to take years to be myself again, even if that's possible. I need thank God for being there for me thru my toughest times of my life
It does take years so be patient with yourself. You’ll have great days where you feel completely back to your old self and then the next day, no rhyme or reason it feels like you’re back to square one or at least headed that way. It’s really hard to wrap your head around the fact that these people are evil. They aren’t just disordered. They are evil. They enjoyed hurting you and lying to you and destroying your reputation. Those are the things that bring them their version of joy. They are vile and disgusting. Always look at their actions and never listen to their words because their actions will tell you everything you need to know as far as how they feel about you.
They always have to be right They know it all. They rewrite history. They do not sincerely self reflect. They will always get the last word. They will not change. Silence has become golden. Thank you for inspiring hope to me and those who have felt gutted. Thank you so much ❤
Andrew, you are not alone either, thank you for leading the community to the quickest way out of this We love you too. We really appreciate you, you've got to be more beautiful than ever right now❤THANK YOU❤🎄🌟
It really is. I called all the area dv programs and supports and staff.are.short. psych is low staffed. Today my now.ex who I can't leave, no where to go. I have to get into disabled housing. This isn't working out. I can't fix this and I'm becoming someone I don't even know. I'm so broken right now. I have low energy and um so overwhelmed. This is a psychological warfare who lies and lies. I believe I'm going to get out of here. I am determined to get my life back even if I gotta go through it. I won't give up my cat who's 10 and my life. I am devastated how low my partner went. Used Christmas as a weapon to get leverage in a stupid fking argument. I have had it. My artificial tree I have had and did nicely I literally picked it up unplugged it, broke it in pieces and threw the stupid thing at the wall. He was in the kitchen. I wanted to call someone and I literally for.thr first time had no one to call. I tried and it was really use less. I'm waiting for my Healthcare care partner and understand thisnis going no where. I have never acted out so rachett. I just had had it and now I know I'm dDon. I won't take this abuse. I'll give it back. I am in no shape.
well my closest friends get it cause they been through it (same narcisist) and kenna and craig both saw through Nat day one however i get your point. I dont think any of the ones the narcist is using will see it till they betray them
Hawks are one of my favorite birds. The Narc never cared about me and never will. You are correct, they don't change, I kept going back, thinking the Narc would change, the Narc only got worse. Thanks to your videos and others, the education has really helped me. Thank you, Andrew🥰
With all honestly if you still believe they will change Slap yourself and wake the damn up They're not a joke For your own sanity for your health just walk away Take the high road yes it's difficult but we are all almost on the top of the mountain either it's mountain of difference or mountain of healing you should take the steps I'm thankful I took high road and healed I'm really thankful I found Andrew And as he always say you're not here by coincidence so wake up and remember to dust your old version of yourself and heal then embrace your new galvanized version Have a good day
“a hawk often symbolizes clear vision, heightened awareness, power, freedom, and the ability to see beyond the obvious; it's considered a messenger from the spirit world, encouraging you to look at situations from a higher perspective and utilize your intuition to navigate challenges effectively.” This is so You, Andrew. They are attracted to your authenticity and protect your beautiful energy. I hope everyone had a nice Christmas Day . A day of peace is the greatest gift ,I could ever want! Thank you Andrew and community I love you all and if I didn’t have this safe place -I don’t think I could get through these holidays 🙏❤️🦋
The hawk is protecting and guiding you, Andrew! Thanks again for sharing your wisdom. I've only heard from 2 flying monkeys so far this holiday - Mr. N has not hoovered - I'm grateful!
That is a very difficult concept to accept ( the narc is sadly a lost cause, ) Hard to accept that the only one doing any changing is me! Sure glad I took those glasses off!😅
Yes. That was my mom. The keeper of the information. She wanted everyone to tell her as much personal information as possible - and would use that against you to triangulate. If you figured out who she was - which out of 5 kids I was the only one - she would narc rage at me when I didn’t comply.
It happens to the best of us. We have the ability to introspect, empathize, and thus change our own actions. So it’s unfathomable that the other person cannot. That’s why we need the wisdom and study this type of toxic personality like we have a test coming up. We do have a test! The test is when they Hoover, when you meet someone else who consistently shows toxic behaviors. We learn how to say no. We learn the glossary and the terms and thus become educated. You will make it out of the fog. You will see with fresh vision. Don’t give up. I hope to see you at the top of the mountain. 💫🙋🏼♂️💫
Your freedom & peace is priceless ✨️ rebuilding your life takes alot of strength,healing and understanding. These's dark evil souls do not ever change! You can only start to heal when you get the message that Andrew tells us all on his channel nearly ever day. Get control of your own life & remove these's disgusting shivering snakes out of your life for good. 🙌 blessings hope everyone finds the strength 💪 🙏 to a much happier drama free life ✨️ ❤ 🌈
The things he does from times to times.. I have to revisit your channel, get my mind straight. He is the covert type, so he uses the dogs as leverage, threatens suicide..So I broke no contact, made this phonecall..only to reset my boundaries, make peace, stop all these phonecalls from random numbers... All i ended up is with another visit to your channel. Guys dont break no contact for no reason. Not that I would ever go back, I just added some sadness, guilt and frustration to my much prefered solitude. Lesson learned. Thank you once again for being here🙏💪💛
When you believe something can change... you unfortunately are in ignorance to the narcissist who can't change. Your beautiful empathy & good nature is working against you. Sadly you will only incur heartache & wasted time. Education of who they are is key! Be Well, Be Wise 🌈 🎀😘
My son is captured by his narcissist wife and goes from believing she's narcissistic to believing she's not and he can somehow change her. Unfortunately his decision is tearing his family apart. Edit: I've experienced that the narcissist is naturally drawn to the empath, and can fake the idea that they need help. Ask me how i know this. Thank you again Andrew for a wonderful video packed with great information!
I fell for the same false hope that my sister could change. What I discovered is that they are changed, to other people, just not you, their target. I’ve witness my covert narc sister, flip to her vulnerable side, of that covert narcissism, and allow herself to be inferior, around a mutual friend, and admit that she was wrong, on something, which they don’t do, all because she chose to but around me, she chooses to be superior, dominant, controlling, competitive, belittling and destroying me just because of her weird narcissistic disorder that she wants to revel in and experience on a target, that being me. Well, once I discovered that, I was over my hopes and dreams of her changing because I realized that her bullying me, was letting her experience her sadism and that she was getting a dopamine hit off of that and that there was no way that she would ever give up that drug because her narcissism makes her feel self entitled. So yes they’re changed, around others, just not you, their target.
I work with some very abusive people. I've gotten sucked in in the past month. After keeping quiet for the past year, I'm cracking. I want to leave this toxic place....but the pay is phenomenal. Starting over is starting over. My mental health is suffering now. I have to try to leave this toxic situation.
So sorry! I was in a toxic work place. I tried to make it work, but it got worse and worse and it got so bad I was crying every day. They ganged up on me, and by the time I left, I was completely broken. Maybe you can start looking for a job that pays as well before it gets so bad that you end up on disability like I did. It sucked so bad trying to put myself back together. Good luck! Never believe them when they get hateful! Never share ANYTHING about yourself! And I would suggest not trying to talk to the boss or HR about the bullying, because these people have usually carefully made sure they have control over those people.
My X must have had something everyone could see but me. I remember traveling he ALWAYS got the random search at customs, and he ALWAYS had drug dealers approach him with whatever they were selling. How can I be so blind?
Now that I look back ... I didn't have the knowledge and education. But now it all makes sense. 🎉❤😊 Freedom feels so good. My mind has been opened to NPD. Thank you for all of your help. Your dedication to this education is priceless. ❤😊🎉🎉😊 I believe this behavior is very demonic.
Great video Andrew!!! Experiencing the dark night was the ultimate challenge. Surviving it provides such an understanding of what it is, and also an understanding of why you cant wish for others to experience it. All I wish for everyone is clarity and peace. ✌❤
Not only I tried to fix the unfixable among a group of colleagues, I was also played. All along they were scheming behind my back. When the new supply was ready they discarded me. Now, they are trying to hoover me back in. It took about 6 months. I've blocked most of them and I am not responding to any texts. Just yesterday one of them sent a "Merry Christmas" text to me. I was kinda disgusted to see it.
A year ago they saw no value in me and yes it hurt. A year later my feelings are way different. Today my value is through the roof. I laugh again 🤣 I sleep with dreams again. I look forward to another day instead of hope it would all come to a end. I started to rebuild old relationships but most of all I feel God next to me again.
Te dark night of the soul is existential crisis. We can define an existential crisis in different ways. It can be an identity crisis (when you are not sure who you are or if you know yourself at all), a crisis of meaning (when you don't see any purpose in your life) or a crisis of a certain age (eg "mid-life crisis"). An existential crisis can encompass some or all of these aspects. It is called "existential" because it concerns our entire life, our entire existence.
Happy Boxing Day...to those in England and former British Colonies of the Caribbean, BIG DAY over there...look up the history of Boxing day,,interesting...The whole week should be time off..
I dont have a Hawk, per say, but I have Bluejays. They screeching loudly, get in groups of about 5 or 6. I'm not sure what their message is, but I've even named them all as "Picky" and "Pickette" in memory of my late sister, Robin, who was a victim of narcissistic abuse. RIP. ❤
These Narcs are really scary They can rage on you one day then the next day invite you to dinner ( their choice of course ) They are the nice guy / gal to the neighbors And a raging , manipulative , conniving , sneaky person behind closed doors , throwing milk jugs at you in the grocery store because you wanted a different kind , slammed doors pouting -when you throw up a boundary or say NO Child like behaviors behind closed doors Throwing over bookshelf’s , try to scare you in the car with their driving making you flinch I’m sorry but who does this stuff ? If you suspect your with a narc, just RUN At one time … way back I thought Andrew’s messages were a bit rough on the narcs But not anymore They make complete sense to me now Narcs hate their selves and make you pay for it
Dungeon of destruction described our /his home perfectly. As soon as we married and I moved in I was captured in his web… but I got free. Never going back. Thank you for the video Andrew. Be well family. Love and appreciate you all
I MUST remind myself that his 30-something year old "girlfriend" in Thailand is not going to be the love of this 65-year old Narc's life. It still hurts like a MOTHER. 😞💔😭
So sorry! One day it won't anymore. You won't give af what the old wrinkly jerk is doing. 😘 I promise you it gets better. But you're right, for a while it HURTS LIKE A MOTHER!
@SilentThundersnow 😔 I'm patiently awaiting that pinnacle of indifference. I just wish I could fast forward. Thank you for your words of encouragement 🙏🏻☺️
We should teach children from 7 years of age the telltale signs of narcissism/bullying and encourage them to collect the evidence and report it to teachers. We need to STAMP IT OUT from an early age
A Belated Merry Christmas to you Andrew and Your Team! Be Blessed Brother! Not to lift you up in pride, as encouragement, you bring honor to the Name Andrew. Thank You Brother!
A narcissistic Christmas story When I was 5 years old my narcissistic father put my younger sisters and I on a ferris wheel with his buddy the owner who was drunk and forgot to click the bar the bar that held us in place. We all fell off but me first suffering the most damage. After surgery a family friend had come by with a box of turtles. I was in and out of consciousness so did not request one until a few hours later. My mom went to grab me one both my arms were broken and let me know all was eaten there were none left. I was okay with it in too much pain but every birthday and Christmas she would get me a box of turtles. This year my 1st Christmas of NC I have been sick and alone. My children showed up to wish me well and each showed up with a box of turtles. Merry Christmas You can do this.
Even when I was in kindergarten, I never allowed anyone to treat me badly. In elementary school, I verbally defended myself against a violent teacher. I have never allowed a woman to use me, which is why I have been alone my entire life. Most people are immature and have narcissistic traits. You just can't defend yourself against your own mother. Yes, later against the beatings, but for a long time I was unable to defend myself against the emotional abuse, which has many facets. I never lied or said what she wanted to hear - ever. But until you break off contact, you will be abused in one way or another. I am a very collegial person, but privately I have made it a point to stand by my opinions and not let anyone get away with serious misconduct. Once you give in, it is seen as weakness. Your own family shouldn't treat you disrespectfully either. For a long time it seemed absurd to me to demand respect from my mother. But it is absurd to have to demand respect at all.
i have an eviction court date the 13th to let the truth free since my parents are evicting me and my gf after i got my wisdom teeth out and stopped smoking weed my mom got me for years i feel like a free man cant believe i didnt know what a narcassist was my whole life, praying for those who havent had the light bulb moment yet ❤🙏
Hey Andrew we'll Sunday is the New Year's Eve party and I am prepared for what might be asked me from the flying monkeys all I can tell them is I choose not to answer if they ask me who I'm dating that's the best response that I think will work wish me luck Andrew
IME, hawks have certain trees they use as bases or to survey their territory from. There is a very big old tree at my work that often has three different species in it - the smallest, Kestrels about half way up, Sparrowhawks in the upper third and the largest, Perrigrines at the very top and they also have their nest in the highest branches. In my garden, I have a young Scots Pine which attracts a pair of Sparrowhaks. So long as I move slowly/quietly, they will sit there for ages, watching me as I go about. Not seen a kestrel for a long time though but they are still in the area.
I fell for the same false hope that my sister could change. What I discovered is that they are changed, to other people, just not you, their target. I’ve witness my covert narc sister, flip to her vulnerable side, of that covert narcissism, and allow herself to be inferior, around a mutual friend, and admit that she was wrong, on something, which they don’t do, all because she chose to but around me, she chooses to be superior, dominant, controlling, competitive, belittling and destroying me just because of her weird narcissistic disorder that she wants to revel in and experience on a target, that being me. Well, once I discovered that, I was over my hopes and dreams of her changing because I realized that her bullying me, was letting her experience her sadism and that she was getting a dopamine hit off of that and that there was no way that she would ever give up that drug because her narcissism makes her feel self entitled. So yes they’re changed, around others, just not you, their target.
Most of my family still thinks I’m crazy or that there was no reason I could not have left the narcissist I was with sooner than I did. Of course I did. I left every month and then every month -guess what happened? Yep hoovering. I wanted to believe things would change and that maybe this time he was serious about it. As you’ve said multiple times, nobody teaches you this stuff in school my family has never dealt with it before. It hurts to think that the people I love I think I am mentally ill when I am not. I was just with a narcissist. People will not understand until it happens to them.
I cant delete him, we have shared custody 😢 But everything you said is true. That moment (or series of events) when I realised he doesn't care was just awful, its a rape of the soul and my soul was full of hope and trust all those years back then...
The narcissist will go on with his/her dirty deeds...but the empath who knows who he/she is has the superpower...like little Cindy-lou Who and the village of Whoville had something the Grinch didn't. Unfortunately, a malevolent narcissist will probably not have a "good-grinch" transformation. Don't hold your breath for it! Just get away! I have been thinking about that story, as well as that of Ebenezer Scrooge...
When I left this was my song & I went up Solsbury Hill in April 2022. When you leave make sure you never go back. Climbing up on Solsbury Hill I could see the city light Wind was blowing, time stood still Eagle flew out of the night He was something to observe Came in close, I heard a voice Standing, stretching every nerve Had to listen, had no choice I did not believe the information Just had to trust imagination My heart going boom, boom, boom "Son", he said, "grab your things, I've come to take you home" To keep in silence I resigned My friends would think I was a nut Turning water into wine Open doors would soon be shut So I went from day to day Though my life was in a rut 'Til I thought of what I'll say Which connection I should cut I was feeling part of the scenery I walked right out of the machinery My heart going boom, boom, boom "Hey", he said, "grab your things, I've come to take you home" (Hey, back home) When illusion spin her net I'm never where I want to be And liberty she pirouettes When I think that I am free Watched by empty silhouettes Who close their eyes but still can see No one taught them etiquette I will show another me Today I don't need a replacement I'll tell them what the smile on my face meant My heart going boom, boom, boom "Hey", I said, "you can keep my things, they've come to take me home"
GOOD morning Andrew,, It is fanastic to see you among this forest/ with the sign of FREEDOM ,, which is the Hawk!! We are ALL FREE,, the only way to live!! We only have 1 LIFE!! 🇫🇷🙏🌟🌳take it for you!! Lovly Sign ,,, The Hawk is enjoying seeing you Andrew🙏🌟
My choice is either stay in this country illegally now that I'm divorced before I got citizenship or go back home and go no contact after just being discarded by my narc. We have 2 kids. I don't want to leave them with the narc but it's looking like I can't stay. I don't know what to do.
I never experienced a dark night of the soul. Everyone is unique to their switch on of their genetics. 🧬 fancy themed words are diversitys fraudulent frame. Over time I peeled away my consciousness units shell. Remembering the darkness is what taught me the most. 🖤🤍⬆️🖤🤍neutrality…😊Thank you.
At some point, we realize that the implosion of our narcissistic relationships were acts of grace. Enjoy your peace these holidays everyone. thank you, Andrew. ☮
"It will never be enough". So true, Andrew. No matter how much you love, care and give to them, it is never enough. They are opportunists who just use, abuse and discard
Most people don't have a clue how bad it can be or get. Thank you for your video.
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Exactly
I get you Andrew. Divorced 4 years after 30+ years of narcissistic abuse. I thank God every day I'm out
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@NARCDAILYYouAreNotAlone namaste
The hawk is showing us solitary, freedom, energy, rising above all.
The sky is his limit.
After we have left everything behind us, we are also ready to soar to new hights.
I am happy you met this beautiful hawk, our friend, again.
Thank you!🌲🦅❤🌲
Welcome..🙏💜😌🦅⛰️✨
5 years of hell, finally starting to feel like a human agsin.
A pain I never wish to repeat ever again.
Feels like it's going to take years to be myself again, even if that's possible.
I need thank God for being there for me thru my toughest times of my life
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It does take years so be patient with yourself. You’ll have great days where you feel completely back to your old self and then the next day, no rhyme or reason it feels like you’re back to square one or at least headed that way. It’s really hard to wrap your head around the fact that these people are evil. They aren’t just disordered. They are evil. They enjoyed hurting you and lying to you and destroying your reputation. Those are the things that bring them their version of joy. They are vile and disgusting. Always look at their actions and never listen to their words because their actions will tell you everything you need to know as far as how they feel about you.
Your videos are getting better, more clear, more powerful…your supporters are grateful , this is real guidance! Bless u friend
They always have to be right
They know it all.
They rewrite history.
They do not sincerely self reflect.
They will always get the last word.
They will not change.
Silence has become golden. Thank you for inspiring hope to me and those who have felt gutted. Thank you so much ❤
Welcome..🙏💜⛰️✨
Be open to everything and attached to Nothing 👍. . . Thank you
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Andrew, you are not alone either, thank you for leading the community to the quickest way out of this
We love you too. We really appreciate you, you've got to be more beautiful than ever right now❤THANK YOU❤🎄🌟
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Even your closest friends just don’t get it. They mean well, but they have a limit. It’s so alienating. 😢😢😢😢
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It really is. I called all the area dv programs and supports and staff.are.short. psych is low staffed. Today my now.ex who I can't leave, no where to go. I have to get into disabled housing. This isn't working out.
I can't fix this and I'm becoming someone I don't even know. I'm so broken right now. I have low energy and um so overwhelmed. This is a psychological warfare who lies and lies. I believe I'm going to get out of here. I am determined to get my life back even if I gotta go through it. I won't give up my cat who's 10 and my life. I am devastated how low my partner went. Used Christmas as a weapon to get leverage in a stupid fking argument. I have had it. My artificial tree I have had and did nicely I literally picked it up unplugged it, broke it in pieces and threw the stupid thing at the wall. He was in the kitchen.
I wanted to call someone and I literally for.thr first time had no one to call. I tried and it was really use less. I'm waiting for my Healthcare care partner and understand thisnis going no where. I have never acted out so rachett. I just had had it and now I know I'm dDon. I won't take this abuse. I'll give it back. I am in no shape.
well my closest friends get it cause they been through it (same narcisist)
and kenna and craig both saw through Nat day one
however i get your point. I dont think any of the ones the narcist is using will see it till they betray them
Thank you, Andrew.
I lost decades of real life, not knowing the evil next to me.
His boss, family, and work friends will never know what he is. 😢
I agree some of my friends didn’t and some don’t speak anymore which is even worse
Hawks are one of my favorite birds. The Narc never cared about me and never will. You are correct, they don't change, I kept going back, thinking the Narc would change, the Narc only got worse. Thanks to your videos and others, the education has really helped me. Thank you, Andrew🥰
With all honestly if you still believe they will change
Slap yourself and wake the damn up
They're not a joke
For your own sanity for your health just walk away
Take the high road yes it's difficult but we are all almost on the top of the mountain either it's mountain of difference or mountain of healing you should take the steps
I'm thankful I took high road and healed
I'm really thankful I found Andrew
And as he always say you're not here by coincidence so wake up and remember to dust your old version of yourself and heal then embrace your new galvanized version
Have a good day
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Agreed 💯
I remind myself that life with a relatively healthy human would get better over time. With them, it gets progressively worse.
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100% facts!
“a hawk often symbolizes clear vision, heightened awareness, power, freedom, and the ability to see beyond the obvious; it's considered a messenger from the spirit world, encouraging you to look at situations from a higher perspective and utilize your intuition to navigate challenges effectively.”
This is so You, Andrew. They are attracted to your authenticity and protect your beautiful energy. I hope everyone had a nice Christmas Day . A day of peace is the greatest gift ,I could ever want! Thank you Andrew and community I love you all and if I didn’t have this safe place -I don’t think I could get through these holidays 🙏❤️🦋
Thank you for sharing..😌🙏💜⛰️✨🦅
I stayed strung along 33+ years. Tribe, stay out.❣️
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The hawk is protecting and guiding you, Andrew! Thanks again for sharing your wisdom. I've only heard from 2 flying monkeys so far this holiday - Mr. N has not hoovered - I'm grateful!
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That is a very difficult concept to accept ( the narc is sadly a lost cause, )
Hard to accept that the only one doing any changing is me!
Sure glad I took those glasses off!😅
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I like that you point out nature to us, Andrew. 🙂👍
Thank you..🙏💜⛰️✨🦅🌲🌊
Yes. That was my mom. The keeper of the information. She wanted everyone to tell her as much personal information as possible - and would use that against you to triangulate. If you figured out who she was - which out of 5 kids I was the only one - she would narc rage at me when I didn’t comply.
It happens to the best of us. We have the ability to introspect, empathize, and thus change our own actions. So it’s unfathomable that the other person cannot. That’s why we need the wisdom and study this type of toxic personality like we have a test coming up. We do have a test! The test is when they Hoover, when you meet someone else who consistently shows toxic behaviors. We learn how to say no. We learn the glossary and the terms and thus become educated. You will make it out of the fog. You will see with fresh vision. Don’t give up. I hope to see you at the top of the mountain. 💫🙋🏼♂️💫
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Nice! I love hawks!
Everything changed when I went no contact and kept it that way. I’m in control of my life. TY Andrew for everything you do! 🙏🏼
Welcome..😌💜🙏⛰️✨🦅
Your freedom & peace is priceless ✨️ rebuilding your life takes alot of strength,healing and understanding. These's dark evil souls do not ever change! You can only start to heal when you get the message that Andrew tells us all on his channel nearly ever day. Get control of your own life & remove these's disgusting shivering snakes out of your life for good. 🙌 blessings hope everyone finds the strength 💪 🙏 to a much happier drama free life ✨️ ❤ 🌈
ugh i am not having a great night i am happy to see you andrew hope you had a great christmas 🎄 beautiful carolina woods
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I love how happy the hawk made him.
Amen ♥️ ✝️ 🐑 🙏 🕊
The things he does from times to times.. I have to revisit your channel, get my mind straight. He is the covert type, so he uses the dogs as leverage, threatens suicide..So I broke no contact, made this phonecall..only to reset my boundaries, make peace, stop all these phonecalls from random numbers... All i ended up is with another visit to your channel. Guys dont break no contact for no reason. Not that I would ever go back, I just added some sadness, guilt and frustration to my much prefered solitude. Lesson learned. Thank you once again for being here🙏💪💛
Welcome..🙏💜😌
When you believe something can change... you unfortunately are in ignorance to the narcissist who can't change. Your beautiful empathy & good nature is working against you. Sadly you will only incur heartache
& wasted time. Education of who they are is key!
Be Well, Be Wise
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Hello lovebug. Surviving of the holidays 🎉 ❤😊🍬🧁
So many of these comments help Empaths and injured targets. Yours are consistent
and presents the plain truth. 🙌👍
My son is captured by his narcissist wife and goes from believing she's narcissistic to believing she's not and he can somehow change her. Unfortunately his decision is tearing his family apart.
Edit: I've experienced that the narcissist is naturally drawn to the empath, and can fake the idea that they need help. Ask me how i know this. Thank you again Andrew for a wonderful video packed with great information!
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I fell for the same false hope that my sister could change. What I discovered is that they are changed, to other people, just not you, their target.
I’ve witness my covert narc sister, flip to her vulnerable side, of that covert narcissism, and allow herself to be inferior, around a mutual friend, and admit that she was wrong, on something, which they don’t do, all because she chose to but around me, she chooses to be superior, dominant, controlling, competitive, belittling and destroying me just because of her weird narcissistic disorder that she wants to revel in and experience on a target, that being me. Well, once I discovered that, I was over my hopes and dreams of her changing because I realized that her bullying me, was letting her experience her sadism and that she was getting a dopamine hit off of that and that there was no way that she would ever give up that drug because her narcissism makes her feel self entitled.
So yes they’re changed, around others, just not you, their target.
I work with some very abusive people. I've gotten sucked in in the past month. After keeping quiet for the past year, I'm cracking. I want to leave this toxic place....but the pay is phenomenal. Starting over is starting over. My mental health is suffering now. I have to try to leave this toxic situation.
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So sorry! I was in a toxic work place. I tried to make it work, but it got worse and worse and it got so bad I was crying every day. They ganged up on me, and by the time I left, I was completely broken. Maybe you can start looking for a job that pays as well before it gets so bad that you end up on disability like I did. It sucked so bad trying to put myself back together. Good luck! Never believe them when they get hateful! Never share ANYTHING about yourself! And I would suggest not trying to talk to the boss or HR about the bullying, because these people have usually carefully made sure they have control over those people.
Go see a psychologist who can help you to deal with bullies.
My X must have had something everyone could see but me. I remember traveling he ALWAYS got the random search at customs, and he ALWAYS had drug dealers approach him with whatever they were selling. How can I be so blind?
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Did he use drugs? Takes one to know one. Maybe they saw the signs.
Or allergies,lol, right? Red eyes.
Beautiful day in the Carolinas...
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Andrew, I’ve been listening to all your videos for quite some time now and this one was truly beautiful. Thank you.❤❤
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The hawk is my spirit Animal
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Your videos help me a lot.Thank you
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Now that I look back ... I didn't have the knowledge and education. But now it all makes sense. 🎉❤😊 Freedom feels so good. My mind has been opened to NPD. Thank you for all of your help. Your dedication to this education is priceless. ❤😊🎉🎉😊 I believe this behavior is very demonic.
Great video Andrew!!!
Experiencing the dark night was the ultimate challenge. Surviving it provides such an understanding of what it is, and also an understanding of why you cant wish for others to experience it. All I wish for everyone is clarity and peace.
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So glad you made it through Chaz & glad you are amongst those who understand & appreciate you! 🤗❤
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Not only I tried to fix the unfixable among a group of colleagues, I was also played. All along they were scheming behind my back. When the new supply was ready they discarded me. Now, they are trying to hoover me back in. It took about 6 months. I've blocked most of them and I am not responding to any texts. Just yesterday one of them sent a "Merry Christmas" text to me. I was kinda disgusted to see it.
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I love this hawk. Toxic free 🦅🧘🏾♀️
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Andrew knows as he walked the path so listen and learn ..the great outdoors Hawks have special meaning...
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Good evening Andrew ❤ I'm sending you and everyone positive energy
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A year ago they saw no value in me and yes it hurt. A year later my feelings are way different. Today my value is through the roof. I laugh again 🤣 I sleep with dreams again. I look forward to another day instead of hope it would all come to a end. I started to rebuild old relationships but most of all I feel God next to me again.
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Hi friend . Hope you are soaring.
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8 weeks no contact and healing in beautiful South Carolina. Thank you for sharing your insights. 😊
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Another excellent video! 🙏🏼 And I love the feathered friend in the background, ...such a good omen per se 💕
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Truth.
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Would love to see you speak publicly Andrew, ❤ from the UK to everybody xx
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@@michelledeaves7063 that would be great I’m in the Uk
Te dark night of the soul is existential crisis.
We can define an existential crisis in different ways. It can be an identity crisis (when you are not sure who you are or if you know yourself at all), a crisis of meaning (when you don't see any purpose in your life) or a crisis of a certain age (eg "mid-life crisis"). An existential crisis can encompass some or all of these aspects. It is called "existential" because it concerns our entire life, our entire existence.
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Happy Boxing Day...to those in England and former British Colonies of the Caribbean, BIG DAY over there...look up the history of Boxing day,,interesting...The whole week should be time off..
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Happy boxing day from UK , hope your having a blessed holiday 🙏 ✨️
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We have a lot of hawks in Suffolk they are amazing to watch ❤
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We have eagles and Salmon here. Nope they do not change, they are incapable.
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Brilliant work andrew ❤
Struggling with faith in humanity ✓
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Faith is ok, AFTER they've earned the trust. I used to trust people up front. I never do that anymore. 🫶
That’s good! It’s just a phase, don’t worry. It’s part of the healing process.
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I dont have a Hawk, per say, but I have Bluejays. They screeching loudly, get in groups of about 5 or 6. I'm not sure what their message is, but I've even named them all as "Picky" and "Pickette" in memory of my late sister, Robin, who was a victim of narcissistic abuse. RIP. ❤
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These Narcs are really scary
They can rage on you one day then the next day invite you to dinner ( their choice of course )
They are the nice guy / gal to the neighbors
And a raging , manipulative , conniving , sneaky person behind closed doors , throwing milk jugs at you in the grocery store because you wanted a different kind , slammed doors pouting -when you throw up a boundary or say NO
Child like behaviors behind closed doors
Throwing over bookshelf’s , try to scare you in the car with their driving making you flinch
I’m sorry but who does this stuff ?
If you suspect your with a narc,
just RUN
At one time … way back I thought Andrew’s messages were a bit rough on the narcs
But not anymore
They make complete sense to me now
Narcs hate their selves and make you pay for it
Its unbelievable Andrew 😮.......
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Spot ON !
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Dungeon of destruction described our /his home perfectly. As soon as we married and I moved in I was captured in his web… but I got free. Never going back. Thank you for the video Andrew. Be well family. Love and appreciate you all
I MUST remind myself that his 30-something year old "girlfriend" in Thailand is not going to be the love of this 65-year old Narc's life. It still hurts like a MOTHER. 😞💔😭
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So sorry! One day it won't anymore. You won't give af what the old wrinkly jerk is doing. 😘
I promise you it gets better.
But you're right, for a while it HURTS LIKE A MOTHER!
@SilentThundersnow 😔 I'm patiently awaiting that pinnacle of indifference. I just wish I could fast forward. Thank you for your words of encouragement 🙏🏻☺️
Bless you Renee. Stay close to God, he will help you.
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I experienced it
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We should teach children from 7 years of age the telltale signs of narcissism/bullying and encourage them to collect the evidence and report it to teachers. We need to STAMP IT OUT from an early age
Some of us were under a rock in Agartha when we had the Big Bang. 🦋🌀💗🤓😁
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Hi precious... little tuff moments of missing friends that are no longer here. New chapters are new chapters.
Love to you sweetie 😘
A Belated Merry Christmas to you Andrew and Your Team! Be Blessed Brother! Not to lift you up in pride, as encouragement, you bring honor to the Name Andrew. Thank You Brother!
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Superb setting showing us the fresh path to freedom. Happy holidays to you and everyone. Thank you Andrew 🎉
I am free. I am a lone wolf and have peace! Merry Christmas and Happy New Year 2025!
A narcissistic Christmas story
When I was 5 years old my narcissistic father put my younger sisters and I on a ferris wheel with his buddy the owner who was drunk and forgot to click the bar the bar that held us in place. We all fell off but me first suffering the most damage. After surgery a family friend had come by with a box of turtles. I was in and out of consciousness so did not request one until a few hours later. My mom went to grab me one both my arms were broken and let me know all was eaten there were none left.
I was okay with it in too much pain but every birthday and Christmas she would get me a box of turtles.
This year my 1st Christmas of NC I have been sick and alone. My children showed up to wish me well and each showed up with a box of turtles.
Merry Christmas
You can do this.
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They are everywhere!! What’s the problem?
Even when I was in kindergarten, I never allowed anyone to treat me badly. In elementary school, I verbally defended myself against a violent teacher.
I have never allowed a woman to use me, which is why I have been alone my entire life. Most people are immature and have narcissistic traits.
You just can't defend yourself against your own mother. Yes, later against the beatings, but for a long time I was unable to defend myself against the emotional abuse, which has many facets.
I never lied or said what she wanted to hear - ever.
But until you break off contact, you will be abused in one way or another.
I am a very collegial person, but privately I have made it a point to stand by my opinions and not let anyone get away with serious misconduct.
Once you give in, it is seen as weakness.
Your own family shouldn't treat you disrespectfully either. For a long time it seemed absurd to me to demand respect from my mother. But it is absurd to have to demand respect at all.
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I just got an elephant stamp in my test for knowlage in action.. thank you again andrew... love that hawk..❤
i have an eviction court date the 13th to let the truth free since my parents are evicting me and my gf after i got my wisdom teeth out and stopped smoking weed my mom got me for years i feel like a free man cant believe i didnt know what a narcassist was my whole life, praying for those who havent had the light bulb moment yet ❤🙏
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Hey Andrew we'll Sunday is the New Year's Eve party and I am prepared for what might be asked me from the flying monkeys all I can tell them is I choose not to answer if they ask me who I'm dating that's the best response that I think will work wish me luck Andrew
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This was my biggest mistake, but i've learned my lesson. Love your videos Andrew.
IME, hawks have certain trees they use as bases or to survey their territory from. There is a very big old tree at my work that often has three different species in it - the smallest, Kestrels about half way up, Sparrowhawks in the upper third and the largest, Perrigrines at the very top and they also have their nest in the highest branches. In my garden, I have a young Scots Pine which attracts a pair of Sparrowhaks. So long as I move slowly/quietly, they will sit there for ages, watching me as I go about. Not seen a kestrel for a long time though but they are still in the area.
You're the hawk whisperer 😅 ❤
I fell for the same false hope that my sister could change. What I discovered is that they are changed, to other people, just not you, their target.
I’ve witness my covert narc sister, flip to her vulnerable side, of that covert narcissism, and allow herself to be inferior, around a mutual friend, and admit that she was wrong, on something, which they don’t do, all because she chose to but around me, she chooses to be superior, dominant, controlling, competitive, belittling and destroying me just because of her weird narcissistic disorder that she wants to revel in and experience on a target, that being me. Well, once I discovered that, I was over my hopes and dreams of her changing because I realized that her bullying me, was letting her experience her sadism and that she was getting a dopamine hit off of that and that there was no way that she would ever give up that drug because her narcissism makes her feel self entitled.
So yes they’re changed, around others, just not you, their target.
Hawks represent getting a bigger view.
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Most of my family still thinks I’m crazy or that there was no reason I could not have left the narcissist I was with sooner than I did. Of course I did. I left every month and then every month -guess what happened? Yep hoovering. I wanted to believe things would change and that maybe this time he was serious about it. As you’ve said multiple times, nobody teaches you this stuff in school my family has never dealt with it before. It hurts to think that the people I love I think I am mentally ill when I am not. I was just with a narcissist. People will not understand until it happens to them.
I cant delete him, we have shared custody 😢
But everything you said is true. That moment (or series of events) when I realised he doesn't care was just awful, its a rape of the soul and my soul was full of hope and trust all those years back then...
The narcissist will go on with his/her dirty deeds...but the empath who knows who he/she is has the superpower...like little Cindy-lou Who and the village of Whoville had something the Grinch didn't. Unfortunately, a malevolent narcissist will probably not have a "good-grinch" transformation. Don't hold your breath for it! Just get away! I have been thinking about that story, as well as that of Ebenezer Scrooge...
Hawks are protection.
When I left this was my song & I went up Solsbury Hill in April 2022. When you leave make sure you never go back.
Climbing up on Solsbury Hill
I could see the city light
Wind was blowing, time stood still
Eagle flew out of the night
He was something to observe
Came in close, I heard a voice
Standing, stretching every nerve
Had to listen, had no choice
I did not believe the information
Just had to trust imagination
My heart going boom, boom, boom
"Son", he said, "grab your things, I've come to take you home"
To keep in silence I resigned
My friends would think I was a nut
Turning water into wine
Open doors would soon be shut
So I went from day to day
Though my life was in a rut
'Til I thought of what I'll say
Which connection I should cut
I was feeling part of the scenery
I walked right out of the machinery
My heart going boom, boom, boom
"Hey", he said, "grab your things, I've come to take you home"
(Hey, back home)
When illusion spin her net
I'm never where I want to be
And liberty she pirouettes
When I think that I am free
Watched by empty silhouettes
Who close their eyes but still can see
No one taught them etiquette
I will show another me
Today I don't need a replacement
I'll tell them what the smile on my face meant
My heart going boom, boom, boom
"Hey", I said, "you can keep my things, they've come to take me home"
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GOOD morning Andrew,, It is fanastic to see you among this forest/ with the sign of FREEDOM ,, which is the Hawk!! We are ALL FREE,, the only way to live!! We only have 1 LIFE!! 🇫🇷🙏🌟🌳take it for you!! Lovly Sign ,,, The Hawk is enjoying seeing you Andrew🙏🌟
My choice is either stay in this country illegally now that I'm divorced before I got citizenship or go back home and go no contact after just being discarded by my narc. We have 2 kids. I don't want to leave them with the narc but it's looking like I can't stay. I don't know what to do.
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Stay in the country illegally.
@@bonnielee7134 That was a stupid advice and yes, I am a 100% legal US citizen for 20+ years.
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I'm not sure if one person in my life briefly was a narcissist or not...if I did I could heal,I think
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Yes I did experience the dark night of the soul I did not think I would get my life back. But for me thats in the past now
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Me too 😢
I never experienced a dark night of the soul. Everyone is unique to their switch on of their genetics. 🧬 fancy themed words are diversitys fraudulent frame. Over time I peeled away my consciousness units shell. Remembering the darkness is what taught me the most. 🖤🤍⬆️🖤🤍neutrality…😊Thank you.
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