I've learned to do this for the most part, I care less what ppl think but it's not that I don't care to get to know them or about what they're saying..I've got poor working memory along with auditory processing disorder and eventually accepted that some ppl may find me a bit annoying when I ask them to repeat themselves however at least I'm taking in more of what they're saying and can actually participate and not end up blending into the background wanting to hide..
Oh God, I'm watching videos for more confidence for months now, I've probably seen them all on TH-cam now. Just discovered your channel and love it. You explain it so well. Allot better than everyone else. Your videos need lots more views. Thanks for sharing.
I really love this video and me personal when I am in a conversation I try to handle all the conversation subject even if I don't what we are talking about . I told that If I don't get in the conversation that I am not good enough. doctor I love your video and they help . Go head Keep helping the people
I have had engaged in several conversations where people talked about what interests 'me'. But I always thought that the things interested me was 'minute' topics. So I always let my self flow with the 'important' topics, tryna 'fitin' to that group. But now I know what to do
I, Mistu, commit to taking responsibility for my experience in conversations and will only talk about things that I enjoy and I am responsible to do this
Hi Aziz. At first what you're saying in this video appears to be opposite of what Dale Carnegie talks about. But then from a different angle it does look an improved version of what Dale Carnegie's message is. What he talks about is that we should be only talking about others when we are with them and some how creates an interest in their life. And what you are saying is that we should still be talking about them but focusing on the topics that excite us at the same time. How do you see your message in comparison with Dale Carnegie?
another great epesode aziz. your tips are life changing;; but what if another person wants to talk about his interest;; as the saying goes "IF YOU WANT SOMETHING TO BE DONE FROM SOMEONE THAN TALK ABOUT HIS INTEREST" what are your views on it.
Mihir Dwivedi Great question Mihir. It is incredibly valuable to be able to also talk about what other people are interested in. Being able to become fascinated by their interest, ask questions, and get curious can create great conversations (and great connections). It's also important to talk about what you want to talk about too : )
I like to talk about history, but I don't think its compatible with everyone since not everyone knows history. My mom starts running away from me when I start talking about it haha. Now I am afraid to talk to others about this subject. They will think that I am some kind of a weird nerd.
Because if a person responds to what himself only cares about then the other person will understand that their specific question or statement hasn't been directly responded to... And that says that your not really with me on the specific topic at hand... I said horrible because ppl would easily catch on to that.
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I have read your book ‘Not nice’, totally life changing. Hats off to you.
Helpful video. I took the pledge. Aziz is a rock star! I have his confidence book and it’s been great for me.
Fantastic!
1. Bring up topics that you are interested in
2. Ask questions that you are really interested in
3. shift to something else
Thank you for sharing!
I've learned to do this for the most part, I care less what ppl think but it's not that I don't care to get to know them or about what they're saying..I've got poor working memory along with auditory processing disorder and eventually accepted that some ppl may find me a bit annoying when I ask them to repeat themselves however at least I'm taking in more of what they're saying and can actually participate and not end up blending into the background wanting to hide..
Yes, keep up the great work!
Oh God, I'm watching videos for more confidence for months now, I've probably seen them all on TH-cam now. Just discovered your channel and love it. You explain it so well. Allot better than everyone else. Your videos need lots more views. Thanks for sharing.
So glad you found me!
I really love this video and me personal when I am in a conversation I try to handle all the conversation subject even if I don't what we are talking about . I told that If I don't get in the conversation that I am not good enough. doctor I love your video and they help . Go head Keep helping the people
Thank you, and I will!
I have had engaged in several conversations where people talked about what interests 'me'. But I always thought that the things interested me was 'minute' topics. So I always let my self flow with the 'important' topics, tryna 'fitin' to that group. But now I know what to do
Awesome!
Dr. Aziz! I am so excited about your videos. Can't wait to apply your strategies to improve my life.
This is a great tip. Thanks, Aziz!
wow simply true thanks
Lol I loved the last part, keep doing what you do Dr Aziz!
A1RB0RNE_1 Thanks man!
I really love your videos Dr. Aziz...Just a bit disappointed that it's directed towards men, but your tips are helpful nonetheless. Keep it up :)
I hear you. I'm cooking up more stuff just for women!
+Get More Confidence That's great, can't wait!! (wasn't meant to rhyme lol)
I love what you do thanks for directing me
Thanks man
You're very welcome!
I, Mistu, commit to taking responsibility for my experience in conversations and will only talk about things that I enjoy and I am responsible to do this
Yes!
Hi Aziz. At first what you're saying in this video appears to be opposite of what Dale Carnegie talks about. But then from a different angle it does look an improved version of what Dale Carnegie's message is. What he talks about is that we should be only talking about others when we are with them and some how creates an interest in their life. And what you are saying is that we should still be talking about them but focusing on the topics that excite us at the same time. How do you see your message in comparison with Dale Carnegie?
wow fantastic thank u ur great man
another great epesode aziz. your tips are life changing;;
but what if another person wants to talk about his interest;;
as the saying goes "IF YOU WANT SOMETHING TO BE DONE FROM SOMEONE THAN TALK ABOUT HIS INTEREST"
what are your views on it.
Mihir Dwivedi Great question Mihir.
It is incredibly valuable to be able to also talk about what other people are interested in. Being able to become fascinated by their interest, ask questions, and get curious can create great conversations (and great connections).
It's also important to talk about what you want to talk about too : )
thanks 🙏
Great tips, thanks
You bet!
You frickin' rock dude!
So do you my friend!
I like to talk about history, but I don't think its compatible with everyone since not everyone knows history. My mom starts running away from me when I start talking about it haha. Now I am afraid to talk to others about this subject. They will think that I am some kind of a weird nerd.
Nuclear Dog you ought to be a history professor. You'll get paid to do what you like talking about most xD
Very interesting, thanks)
nnikitaa You are most welcome!
holy shit a video with no dislikes!!!
Cool Knight lol
Cool Knight 4 misguided souls disliked this video :-(
Cool Knight now it's 5
Blurt! my god i'm still thinking about if my blurt it will be appropiate
Starts at 4
Why for men only? I found this interesting. Pretty sure I'm a woman.
GenericGena I hope so, otherwise I'm starting to go gay.
GenericGena Haha, great question. For simplicity sake, I am speaking to men. BUT, 95% of this stuff applies to women too. You can use it all!
+GenericGena you should watch vanessa van edwards videos
MrDubzein Thank you! :) I've subscribed.
0:10 saids the show for men .....
I guess I better leave.... 😭😭😭😝
The advice works for all humans. :)
why is this the show for men? :(
lucyferpena For simplicity sake, I am speaking to men. BUT, 95% of this stuff applies to women too. Enjoy : )
Horrible
How so?
Because if a person responds to what himself only cares about then the other person will understand that their specific question or statement hasn't been directly responded to... And that says that your not really with me on the specific topic at hand... I said horrible because ppl would easily catch on to that.
Plan more intelligent