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As an Asian, I know the difficulty of saying, "I love you,” to my parents. As you can see, the parents also don't know how to react to such a statement. They downplay it or say thank you. It's not that there's no love, but it's quite hard!
In Brazil, where I'm from, it's different. Parents here (most) are loving. If you tell them you love them, chances are they'll make an even sweeter statement. If I mentioned this to my mother or father, they would shower me with loving words. This is just one of many cultural differences.
Is very interesting for me to see this perspective. As a Mexican, I can say that most of us are very warm and affectionate. I’ve never said a “goodbye” to my parents without an “I love you”. I call them every now and then to just see how are they doing and tell them that I love them. There’s not a day that goes by without my father sending me a text and telling me that he loves me. This makes me feel so grateful for all the love I have received from my parents and the confidence I have to go and give them a big hug anytime ❤
Keep trying to reach to your parents dont let their reaction be a break to your relationship because life is too short to be wishy washy in showering your parents with love even if its embarrassing lol
I’m American so saying “I love you” to my parents and my kids is an everyday thing, but my ex husband is Asian and always had a hard time saying it, but showed love in other ways. I can see how it makes the phrase “I love you” feel that much more special and touching when it is finally said ❤
I don’t know. Despite it being said all the time, I still feel that it’s very touching and special to say “I love you” to my loved ones. I don’t share that bond with anyone else but them.
I’m not even suicidal or anything like that but I just took the train alone after a disagreement with my dad and he thought I had jumped (he had literally talked to police in the area), so I wonder what this would do to him
Yeah. We don't usually say "I love you" to show our love. We show it with our actions and how we care and treasure each other. I can't say I LOVE YOU when I really love someone (parent, friend, partner) not because I'm shy, in fact it's not my love language. I show them with my actions.
Same. Words are good but actions are better. Of course saying "I love you" to the people we care for is also good. Since it makes people happy to hear those words from the one they love as well. By the way, did you guys eat yet? Make sure to eat and don't skip meals, take care of yourselves especially these times of pandemic :>
As an American I do find it very sweet how the parents respond by SHOWING their love in some way. It seems to me that a lot of Asian cultures value acts that demonstrate love more than verbally saying it. Several of the parents made sure their kid had food to eat, asked if they were okay, or offered money, said "Make sure you come home early to be safe," or some other way to show their affection. They were saying "I love you" back, in their way.
@lσяєиα it's just that most of Asians are not use to it.. The love language are most of the time, are you okay? How is everything? Eat healthy. Need money? It's just an Asian thing
(In Spanish we have "te quiero" and "te amo", the second it's much stronger than the first). When I was a kid, one day I started to say "te quiero" to my family members but I never learned to say "te amo". It doesn't mean that I love them less, it's just than I'm used to say the other thing. I hope when I'm an adult I can say it
Which is exactly why you should say it, there's growth in the uncomfortable, but do it at your own pace, friend. The most important thing is that we love ourselves first and foremost. Remember: emotional vulnerability is a strenght :)
I love that so many of the parents respond with, “thank you my child”, or, “make sure you eat/rest,” that’s just how they know how to say, “I love you too.”
3:45 The nervous laugh after “I love you” tells you it’s not expressed often how much she loves her.. sad but also happy moment. Gotta Cherish our loved ones❤️
Not for me... I tell my mom I love her everyday and Hug her mostly everyday and not she’s soo annoyed of it and sometimes she just yell at me for hugging or saying I love you 🤦🏻♀️
2nd gen Chinese American here. No problem saying "I love you" in English and my folks will say it back. Would never consider saying it in Chinese haha. It just feels weird.
I never say it face to face....it's so weird...and after all my parents don't say it to my too lol😂 but i want know whats we feel when we say 'ily' Sry for my English broken *~*
As an American, I say, "I love you" to my parents all the time, and seeing how much courage it takes to say the same thing in another country, it makes me sad
maybe because ily is a big word for us and we prefer to express love in many ways instead of saying those three words verbally,,, and we do have the thought that if 'i love you' is normalized it would lack the meaning of it over time, its a very sacred word for us
Me sorprende que no sea común que entre familiares se digan “Te amo” en Asia, yo cada vez que veo a mis padres y familiares no paro de repetirles que los amo, hay que aprovechar a las personas cuando las tenemos, no sabemos cuándo será la última vez que les diremos “Te amo” que hermoso video, lo admito derrame un par de lagrimas :’)
Si no es común escucharlo al igual que no hay mucho afecto por eso es que hay muchos suicidios, pero claro si hay personas que son afectuosos y dicen lo que sienten..
Мне кажется это у всех так. Кто-то может легко сказать своим близким людям, а кто-то просто стесняется. Я вот тоже стесняюсь говорить маме и папе, что люблю их. Я это ни кому не говорю. Кроме своим домашним питомцам и своим племянникам. А так я стесняюсь говорить : я люблю тебя. Но среди моих знакомых, есть те кто не стесняется говорить. Их большинство. Когда я говорю, что люблю своим родителям. Они думают, что мне что нибудь нужно. Деньги примеру. (хотя я каждую неделю их получаю и не нуждаюсь в них).
Desde chiquita me acostumbré a solo decir "te quiero" ahora que soy adolescente aún no se me quita esa mala costumbre, no es que no los ame es solo que si digo "te amo" van a pensar que estoy híper dramática :(
That girl from 3:55 wauted to hear"I love you too" thats the moment my heart 💔 brake and then next girl when her mom said "thats so touching" I statred crying so bad
Dear parents, just because your child is smiling at their phone, doesn't mean they have boyfriend or girlfriend, they are just watching this masterpiece
For Asian cultures, I think it's sad that we can't even say I Love You casually. But that, in its way, is also why when it is said between parents and their children, it means so much more
Yesss! Though i am east asian, me and my parents do say “i love you” lots so i cant relate to lots of this. However i do know that we express love through different things! for example; food this may just be me i dunno
I disagree. On the opposite, I don't like those: "I love you, mom" "love you, too. Bye" kinda talks. "I love you" to me is supposed to be a very very very strong and serious expression because of the meanings and responsibilities behind it. I don't like people just use it like "hello" types of expression. Similar to, in a relationship, I would use "I like you" instead of "I love you" in most cases, unless I really think the girl in front of me is "the one".
As an Asian I think it's sad that parents in the west don't smack their kids when the kids do something wrong. Just saying.... the cultural difference doesn't mean it's good or bad. So when it comes to these kind of things, there's nothing to be "sad" about really :)
we express "i love you" in a different ways. like asking "have you eaten?", "do you want me to buy you something?" , "you want money?". it just weird to say directly "i love you" in mostly asian country as it means i love you as sexually. so yeah we express our love with action not by words that speak louder than action.
@@pwills122 because of our culture, of course we love our parents and our parents know that very well so we don’t have say it. It’s like saying “sky is blue” to your parent, it’s sound very wired right?haha
This made me cry a lot. My dad passed away when I was 12 and my mom when I was 16. What I would give to just have 1 more conversation with them, to ask them questions adult to adult. I never was told “I’m proud of you” or was praised in anyway, I knew I was loved but then it went away. If I ever have kids I want them to get the childhood and love that I couldn’t get and be the full time parent that I didn’t have. But man the things I would do to just hear one time “I love you, and I’m proud of you son”.
Sorry for your lost, and you're tough guy.. amazing, I hope you're have long live and surrounded by happiness with your own family .. semangat, bang..ganbatte
Mostly everyone's parents said something about their health or their doing which means they really care about their children. You can tell they were all happy when their child said," I love you"
no ... maybe some people feel akward to that ... but not all .. I Think those parents on the video was just worried for their child .. afraid that their child facing some problems that's why asking if their short in money .. pls .pardon my grammar 😅😅😅😅
The girl crying after telling her mom she loves her made me emotional. It’s kind of heartbreaking that Asians rarely say that to their parents/kids. I know love is shown in other ways but sometimes it so refreshing to actually hear those words from the people you love and vice versa.
“Asians” is a very broad term. This is Chinese culture. Many south East Asian countries tell their parents they love them just as much if not more than western countries.
@@bellaaaahhh I am a Asian too and I kid you not I haven't nor my parents say that we love each other if I say them this they will think I am about to die or in danger something
@@bellaaaahhh your statement is kinda ironic cuz "Southeast Asia" is also a broad term. Cuz I'm from Southeast Asia and I know many families who don't say I love u to each other lol
it’s so interesting to see how hard it is not only for parents to say ‘i love you’ but most likely their kids as well due to growing up un-used to it. well i’m glad that if they have a good relationship with their loved ones they can express that through their actions at least!
Im 37 and have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. I realized that after seeing my kids for the first time, that you will never truly understand how much your parents love you until you have children on your own. Please, tell your parents that you love them. The sacrifices they made may not be apparent, but are being made daily. I'll do anything for my children, and I know that my parents did the same for me.
Their phrases like eat more,come early,dont u need a money all of these are their love expression. They use it but,when we hear the in main words like "I love you" is so deep and heartouching
Saying I love you to asian parents be like: "Are you drunk?" "You need money?" "What do you want this time?" "You did something wrong?" "Are you okay? You're not suicidal right?" "Are you sick?" "Is this a prank?" "It's a lie. You better talk gracefully to me, do your chores if you really love me, your room is a mess! *endless lecture*"
For me (a Mexican who live in Mexico) is totally normal say to my mom and dad “I love you” or give they hugs every day. I don’t know why for someone’s it’s really difficult say “I love you” to her parents
Instead of saying I love you back the parents also say come back home early or its cold outside.. Just because they dont say it doesn't mean they dont love them.. They obviously care and the love is within that
Saying “I love you too” isn’t the only way to express your love for people you know?? I told my mom that I love her one time and I haven’t said it in a while to her before that. She just laughed cuz she felt embarrassed since it’s been a long time since I told her that lol. Maybe the other parents were feeling the same way. Idk 🤷♀️ just a hunch.
It’s so hard for me to tell my parents that i love them, which i really do. Feels like you’re stuck in between, to tell them and feel awkward or to shut up and feel sorry for not telling them. Worst feeling ever
THEY DON'T HAVE TO. Because they already did every single second for years and years and years.... when they gave you birth, when they fed you, when they admitted you to school, when they took you to the park, when they gave you safe shelter to live, when they bought you a toy, when they took you to the doctor when you were sick...... That's "Love" . Everyday. Every second.
A very different cultural feel 💚 brought me to tears. I tell my parents often how much I love and appreciate them. Both of them lost their parents as young adults and I want to make sure they know how loved they are.
Honestly, if your parents don't teach you to say "I love you" since very young, it's so hard to do it when you grew up. It's not only Asians but people all around the world.
I mean it's not like they didn't teach me but it's just so hard like i would start tearing up and that is NOT what I want (I hate crying so i try to avoid it as much as I can lol)
Its not like a thing to teach . In asia we show our love through acts . Its like saying blood is red . You already know that they love you and they know that you love them . parents also say i love you rarely .
As an Asian American, “I love you” isn’t normally spoken in an average Asian American household unless they are extremely close or it’s directed to or from your grandparents. Since saying “I love you” isn’t a norm, Asian parents assume their child is in some sort of trouble or is in need of some cash when they receive this three lettered phrase. This doesn’t usually apply to younger ages. My mother and I used to have a thing where we just randomly say I love you and then respond I love you more and so forth. I was like 6 though. This is for anyone that doesn’t understand why these people are sort of cringing before saying it.
That is so true. In Asia we express our love by doing stuff for others n not saying stuff. Maybe that is why I felt so awkward while the entire video was going on
@@goodlife1302 yeah I'm fine too. I am glad you're okay. I lost my dad when I was 3, barely remember anything from that time. So idk how it is like to lose a parent. Though, I can see the pain in my elder brother's eyes cause he was around 10 so he knows it much better. Idk what I would do if i lose my mom. Since we are Christians, we get message From God while praying and He said that our family must pray cause mom's life is short. We are constantly praying that God prolongs her life . I am keeping my faith that God will not make me an orphan right now.
It's sad that the children were hoping that their parents would say ' I love you' back yet only a very few actually did🥺 You could tell many of them were disappointed to not here that response.
It’s not that they don’t love them back it just that they can’t express. But their love is more deep then we can ever think. Parents love are unconditional
Yeah, same happened in the parents saying I love you to their children video. I think because they feel awkward since it never happened before and they dont know how to respond.
I’m Asian, I called my mom to do this. It went like this. Me: “Hi mom.” Mom: “Yes?” Me: “am I disturbing you right now?” Mom: “No, I was making lunch. What do you want?” Me: “I wanted to say I love you” Mom: “Ok what’s wrong?” Me: “Nothing, I just wanted to tell you” Mom: “Don’t lie, what’s going on *switches languages*” Me: “Nothing- I just wanted to tell you 😭” Mom: ”If you say so, you better not be lying. Don’t forget to come home and do your chores and homework” Me: “Yes ma’am 😭😂”
Asians (parents) do not easily, readily show/ express their love to children... and we were never taught how to 'reciprocate' such love. This is priceless 😌
@@truelovewontwait ummm wtf that really pisses me off like what’s the point in even having kids if you can’t provide enough love for them. Like the whole idea of even having a child is to provide it with enough emotional and mental as well as discipline ofc but love must always be the number one thing in the family or otherwise it won’t work. Like how tf do you expect children to become stable adults if they never had that parental love. I swear my advice to ppl who have “difficulties expressing their love for their children” (which btw is inexcusable like stop trying to be the victim in this situation cuz that’s just basically neglect and you’re just making yourself look stupid) is that if you don’t know how to show love to your kids then you’re obviously not mature enough to have them given the fact that you’re acting like a child yourself
@@its_just_me6183 well to be fair, parents show love in many ways. Especially when it comes to Asian parents, it’s in their actions. But yeah, nevertheless, words are powerful, and it would be so much better if parents knew how to verbally send the message across as well. It makes a huge difference
The way the parents suddenly goes silent for a moment after hearing the “I love you “ word means that they really not used to hear it more often and didn’t really expect it,but you can hear their cheerful voice after hearing it.
Me: *calls mom* Mom: “yeah hello?” Me: “I love you” Mom: “what do you mean what’s going on are you gonna hurt yourself please don’t do this it’s not the answer don’t you hang up on me keep me on call-“ Me: “I just wanted to say I love you I’m okay-“ Mom: “oh okay love you too”
Indeed the words that are difficult to express are "I love you" to our parents, I cried seeing this because I never said those words to my parents too;
If you’ve never said ily to your parents say it to them now and if you find it weird just text them no matter what they’re your parents and they are the reason you exist so even if they hate you they still are your parents. T-T
@ARMY AN BLINK Don't worry, those words will be with you if you or should you ever have children. Raise them well and fill them with the love you missed, one day, you'll be on the receiving end of those words.
I literally call my mother if i ever miss her. After every single interaction or conversation I'll end it with an I love you. I still teared up watching this.
It’s just a joke. Asian parents tend to say something like that when they hear “i love you” from their children because they’re shy :))) My parents alse make the same joke. Lol I guess it’s just an Asian thing. 🥰
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4:07 我哭了。。。 谢谢大树君的影片给了我们尤其是在外地工作的游子们一丝丝的温暖～老实说，由于新冠肺炎在马来西亚爆发，所以春节到现在我都还没回过家，一直在城市打拼，真的很差想念爸爸妈妈，那天听爸爸说妈妈的膝盖又痛了，我突然觉得很无助，帮不到妈妈什么也做不了什么。。。
这支影片给了我力量打电话回家跟妈妈表达我对她的想念～希望大家都能好好的。
其实什么名气钱财都不必家人健康来得重要♥️
Animal cruelty might be a good topic.
I am a mother and my father that they are treated with a harsh and destroyed, and I will always be sick.
Asian Kids: “I love you!”
Asian Parents: “Are you high?”
😂 It be like that
Oi deadass HAHAHAHA
All parents
I can relate xD
are you H.I.G.H?!
Kids: "I love you"
Parents: "What happened?"
"Did you do something wrong?"
"Do you need something?"
HAHHAHAHAHA
🤧🤣pls , My parent either think this or i want money
That would be my parents as if I did something wrong or I needed something from them LMAO 😂
Damn its true
I agree with everyone
😂😂😂dont forget
Do u need money?
Are u short on money?😂
As an Asian, I know the difficulty of saying, "I love you,” to my parents. As you can see, the parents also don't know how to react to such a statement. They downplay it or say thank you. It's not that there's no love, but it's quite hard!
It's awkward because they were never into this lovey dovey parents stuff lol
Arab parents too
In Brazil, where I'm from, it's different. Parents here (most) are loving. If you tell them you love them, chances are they'll make an even sweeter statement. If I mentioned this to my mother or father, they would shower me with loving words. This is just one of many cultural differences.
Is very interesting for me to see this perspective. As a Mexican, I can say that most of us are very warm and affectionate. I’ve never said a “goodbye” to my parents without an “I love you”. I call them every now and then to just see how are they doing and tell them that I love them. There’s not a day that goes by without my father sending me a text and telling me that he loves me. This makes me feel so grateful for all the love I have received from my parents and the confidence I have to go and give them a big hug anytime ❤
Keep trying to reach to your parents dont let their reaction be a break to your relationship because life is too short to be wishy washy in showering your parents with love even if its embarrassing lol
I’m American so saying “I love you” to my parents and my kids is an everyday thing, but my ex husband is Asian and always had a hard time saying it, but showed love in other ways. I can see how it makes the phrase “I love you” feel that much more special and touching when it is finally said ❤
I don’t know. Despite it being said all the time, I still feel that it’s very touching and special to say “I love you” to my loved ones. I don’t share that bond with anyone else but them.
I think since it's like the norm in America it doesn't hold as much meaning most of the time, in my family it's just how we say good bye lol
if I suddenly call my parents out of nowhere and tell them "I love you" they will think I'm close to committing suicide...
Exactly 😅😅😅
I’m not even suicidal or anything like that but I just took the train alone after a disagreement with my dad and he thought I had jumped (he had literally talked to police in the area), so I wonder what this would do to him
exactly my thoughts hskajsjaja
😂
me too😂
How Asians say I love you:
"Did you eat yet?"
"Make sure you eat."
"Wanna eat?"
Yeah. We don't usually say "I love you" to show our love. We show it with our actions and how we care and treasure each other. I can't say I LOVE YOU when I really love someone (parent, friend, partner) not because I'm shy, in fact it's not my love language. I show them with my actions.
@@niloofarnavaei3752 same here
Don't why tears are welling up……
Same. Words are good but actions are better. Of course saying "I love you" to the people we care for is also good. Since it makes people happy to hear those words from the one they love as well. By the way, did you guys eat yet? Make sure to eat and don't skip meals, take care of yourselves especially these times of pandemic :>
@@niloofarnavaei3752 I always said it as a kid to my Asian parents
3:43 when she laughs but it's to conceal that strong emotion and urge to cry, you can see it in her eyes~
As an American I do find it very sweet how the parents respond by SHOWING their love in some way. It seems to me that a lot of Asian cultures value acts that demonstrate love more than verbally saying it. Several of the parents made sure their kid had food to eat, asked if they were okay, or offered money, said "Make sure you come home early to be safe," or some other way to show their affection. They were saying "I love you" back, in their way.
Very accurate! ❤
You got it
" I love you "
" Oh, you are short of money , are you? "
Asian's parents type
actually every parent on earth 😂😂 i’m from france and they just the same lol
everyone's parents are like that xD
All parent types 🥺🤧
That means I love you too
@@Mangapassion6 so true !!!! i'm from france too
Their childrens: "I love you"
The parents: "want my money?"
:(
I’m lucky it’s not like that they’d just say i love u too 💗
@@daisymemes2168 lucky you.. and not me;)
Im related 😑
It's Asian parents way to say I love you too 😂
「愛してるよ」って言われて、お金のこととか何も聞かずにまずは「私も愛してるよ」って返す親になろうと思った。
「何が足りない」は親の言っ方「愛してる」と思ういます
我觉得对父母说：“我爱你” 是应该做的事，可是呢 对我来说 我说不出口。不是没那个勇气，只是觉得很尴尬很奇怪 我爱他们但说不出口。
@lσяєиα it's just that most of Asians are not use to it.. The love language are most of the time, are you okay? How is everything? Eat healthy. Need money?
It's just an Asian thing
(In Spanish we have "te quiero" and "te amo", the second it's much stronger than the first). When I was a kid, one day I started to say "te quiero" to my family members but I never learned to say "te amo". It doesn't mean that I love them less, it's just than I'm used to say the other thing. I hope when I'm an adult I can say it
coe idai você e gringo
Which is exactly why you should say it, there's growth in the uncomfortable, but do it at your own pace, friend. The most important thing is that we love ourselves first and foremost. Remember: emotional vulnerability is a strenght :)
I'm in a country between both Asia and Europe and the phrase "I love you" is always used
A child: "I love you"
Parents: "Ohh you need money"
But for me...
Me:.... I love you....
Mom: WHY WHAT HAPPENED DID A CAR HIT YOU OVER ARE YOU BLEEDING OUT SOMEWHERE OMG
@@astarleah4367 Hahahaa my filipino mom be like: do you have fever?
@@astarleah4367 my Indian mom - "are you sure you slept well last night??"
Hahahaha u right 😭😂😂
en mi caso ella diría: que paso, todo bien???, si estas en casa, no??. djaskdjaskdkas
If I said "I love you" to my parents, they would think I was leaving this world
You made me wheeze while crying 😂😂😂😭
True👍
Hahaha really
if i said "i love you" to my parents, they would think i was leaving this world
Now I'm crying while laughing silly you
I love that so many of the parents respond with, “thank you my child”, or, “make sure you eat/rest,”
that’s just how they know how to say, “I love you too.”
3:45 The nervous laugh after “I love you” tells you it’s not expressed often how much she loves her.. sad but also happy moment. Gotta Cherish our loved ones❤️
“It’s cold outside” “what have you eaten” “do you need money?” I think it all translates to “I love you.”
Literally the best comment ever.😍😘
Thiss
underrated comment ;-;
Exactlyyyy
they are barely to say i love you to their own child it's so sad
Every asian parent ever
“Do u need money?”
“Do you need something?”
“What happened?”
Yeah 🙂😌
Not really, I’m Asian. 🙄
Not for me... I tell my mom I love her everyday and Hug her mostly everyday and not she’s soo annoyed of it and sometimes she just yell at me for hugging or saying I love you 🤦🏻♀️
For my asian mom i think she wont say that cus she dont say those words and i dont said the word ily to them
Low-Key sad
驚人的！多年來從未對父母說過“我愛你”，真是令人印象深刻！
Meanwhile, I tell my parents and siblings that I love them every time I see or speak to them. What a different world we live in.
People have different relationships with their parents, some are distant.
@MariM I'm referring to this video. From the looks of it, this is the whole country of Japan that doesn't say "I love you" very often or at all.
2nd gen Chinese American here. No problem saying "I love you" in English and my folks will say it back. Would never consider saying it in Chinese haha. It just feels weird.
@HiIeric117 that's very interesting! I wonder what makes it so different when saying it in English than Chinese. These differences fascinate me!
@@THE_CRYPT0_C0LLECT0R I suppose its just rarely hearing those words in Chinese that makes it sound so strange haha.
Fun fact- Most of the Asian kids never say I love you to their parents.Also parents never say ily to their kids. They show it using small gestures ❤
Made me think. I've actually never said ily to my parents and vice versa lol.
@@thentantt I love you.
True true
@@elizabethg2428 🥺🖤
@@thentantt it’s gonna be okay I promise I’m here for you. *hugs tightly*
Being an Asian, I can feel that how hard to say "I love you" to your parents.
Not just asia all the world 😩
Actually we don't show by saying, we show by showing.
yesss i can agree with you, i never actually got to say it directly
I never say it face to face....it's so weird...and after all my parents don't say it to my too lol😂 but i want know whats we feel when we say 'ily'
Sry for my English broken *~*
As an asian i used to only say it till i was 5 years old :")
As an American, I say, "I love you" to my parents all the time, and seeing how much courage it takes to say the same thing in another country, it makes me sad
maybe because ily is a big word for us and we prefer to express love in many ways instead of saying those three words verbally,,, and we do have the thought that if 'i love you' is normalized it would lack the meaning of it over time, its a very sacred word for us
its expressed differently worldwide. Not everyone is obviously going to follow American cultural norms.
Why
Me sorprende que no sea común que entre familiares se digan “Te amo” en Asia, yo cada vez que veo a mis padres y familiares no paro de repetirles que los amo, hay que aprovechar a las personas cuando las tenemos, no sabemos cuándo será la última vez que les diremos “Te amo” que hermoso video, lo admito derrame un par de lagrimas :’)
X2 aunque casi no me se expresar siempre le digo a mi familia que los amo
Si no es común escucharlo al igual que no hay mucho afecto por eso es que hay muchos suicidios, pero claro si hay personas que son afectuosos y dicen lo que sienten..
Мне кажется это у всех так. Кто-то может легко сказать своим близким людям, а кто-то просто стесняется. Я вот тоже стесняюсь говорить маме и папе, что люблю их. Я это ни кому не говорю. Кроме своим домашним питомцам и своим племянникам. А так я стесняюсь говорить : я люблю тебя.
Но среди моих знакомых, есть те кто не стесняется говорить. Их большинство.
Когда я говорю, что люблю своим родителям. Они думают, что мне что нибудь нужно. Деньги примеру. (хотя я каждую неделю их получаю и не нуждаюсь в них).
Creo que depende mas de la persona, yo solo le he dicho a mi mamá y a mi hermana que las quiero y se me hizo muy difícil hacerlo
Desde chiquita me acostumbré a solo decir "te quiero" ahora que soy adolescente aún no se me quita esa mala costumbre, no es que no los ame es solo que si digo "te amo" van a pensar que estoy híper dramática :(
Maybe some people aren't comfortable in saying "I love you" to their parents is because their parents don't say that often to them.
yeah and sometimes they have a hard time expressing love and affection to someone
Sometimes in other languages the expression “I love you” can only be used in a romantic sense so there’s no way to say it to a parent
yes true
No matter what, you guys always blame the parents, incredible
@@yeyosilver7067 thats who their kids learn this shit from. Nice try tho
みんな誰かの大切な子なんだなとおもった
Made me cry - so touching. All the parents saying get home early or make sure to get dinner is their way of saying they love them back.
The kids: i love you.
The parent's response:
come back early.
it's cold outside.
buy some food.
they showed their love with full of their heart.
Don’t forget: do you need money?
@@borderlinenocturnal6195 I think that’s also because they are worried about them.
lisa beautiful 🥰🥰😘😘
nah u just love my money.
I have not said i love you to anyone but they know I love them.
Me : "I love you"
My parent :
"Do you need money?"
"Did you do a mistake?"
"You're not sick, are you?"
"Wait, do you lose my Tupperware?"
+"Are you dying?"
the tupperware thingy made me laugh😂 Mother loves tupperware more then me😂
Not the tupperware 😭
parents: are you H.I.G.H.?!
+ "Are you pregnant?"
That girl from 3:55 wauted to hear"I love you too" thats the moment my heart 💔 brake and then next girl when her mom said "thats so touching" I statred crying so bad
"The wind makes my eyes hurt"
Actually she was thrilled ❤️
Asian parents’ way of saying “I love you” to their children:
Food ☺️
Yass
Yes!😀🇵🇭🇵🇭🇵🇭
sampuchelsi 😳😳😳
😃
Yaaa expecially after they scold you 😂 always like that
Dear parents, just because your child is smiling at their phone, doesn't mean they have boyfriend or girlfriend, they are just watching this masterpiece
What smile do you talk about... It's a broken tears😭😭😭😂
i feel the sentence so much! haha that is what my mom would think of me
I'm actually crying my parents would thought i broke up or got my heart broken 😭
I was crying but smiling tooo
But i'm crying😭😭💕
For Asian cultures, I think it's sad that we can't even say I Love You casually. But that, in its way, is also why when it is said between parents and their children, it means so much more
Yesss! Though i am east asian, me and my parents do say “i love you” lots so i cant relate to lots of this. However i do know that we express love through different things! for example; food
this may just be me i dunno
i get irritated when people throw ILY all over the place though. almost devaluing the phrase.
Same in Russian culture
I disagree. On the opposite, I don't like those:
"I love you, mom"
"love you, too. Bye"
kinda talks.
"I love you" to me is supposed to be a very very very strong and serious expression because of the meanings and responsibilities behind it. I don't like people just use it like "hello" types of expression. Similar to, in a relationship, I would use "I like you" instead of "I love you" in most cases, unless I really think the girl in front of me is "the one".
As an Asian I think it's sad that parents in the west don't smack their kids when the kids do something wrong. Just saying.... the cultural difference doesn't mean it's good or bad. So when it comes to these kind of things, there's nothing to be "sad" about really :)
This made me so sad. I tell my kids I love them every day. I cannot imagine not letting the people you love know that.
we express "i love you" in a different ways. like asking "have you eaten?", "do you want me to buy you something?" , "you want money?". it just weird to say directly "i love you" in mostly asian country as it means i love you as sexually. so yeah we express our love with action not by words that speak louder than action.
the father went like " are you out of money?"
and then when she insisted she loves him, he changed his tone and said " are you sure you have enough?"
Its was cute but sad tho😔
Sending money is another way to care for us and that means to show love, isn't it?
ikr :(
Thats how fatherly love too.huhu
@@heaven5154 I feel like he just wanted to send her money - maybe it's his way of showing care
Saying I love you to your parent as Asian kids is not easy, I even got nervous by watching this.
just wondering, why is it hard? (genuinely asking)
@@pwills122 because of our culture, of course we love our parents and our parents know that very well so we don’t have say it.
It’s like saying “sky is blue” to your parent, it’s sound very wired right?haha
@@roseluca8352 thank you for explaining!
ikr
@@roseluca8352 true man 😕
Idk why but we asians fell really nervous
Aaaw this is so wholesome. The Japanese parents were much more taken aback than the Chinese parents, I loved it.
"The wind hurt my eyes"
Its okay, the wind also reach my room. My eyes is hurt now
Me too !
@@1HUFFMAN same here😭
ª Xiao Zhan it's in your profile ?
@@leslyerodriguez5728 yes
Omg same
if I said I love you randomly over a call my parents would probably think im disappearing forever sksjsjd
Yea true, they would just start asking me "are you okay?".
@@aestaetic1108 yupppp
Yeah hahahhaah related
Usually the movies people say this before they die😐
Sameeee
愛してるって伝えることができる両親いるのが幸せって気づいた(;_;)
As an asian i know how difficult is saying your parents "i love you." that was truly wholesome.. This Made my day.. Don't know why i'm crying. .
I tell my mom I love her almost everyday she got sick of hearing it 😂
Your mom must be very happy even though she doesn't show it.
@@TreeMan yeah to you are right
Ye
same 😂😂
my mom would be like "who wouldnt love me? , anyway get lost" 😂😂
Omg same. She always get sick of it 😂
I've never say I Love You to my parents... Actually I feel shy to say it...
As long as you say it once, you won't feel shy anymore.
@@TreeMan yes thank u☺
Same but i try to say it as much as posible
Me too 🥺🐥💔
Today was my exam result
This made me cry a lot. My dad passed away when I was 12 and my mom when I was 16. What I would give to just have 1 more conversation with them, to ask them questions adult to adult. I never was told “I’m proud of you” or was praised in anyway, I knew I was loved but then it went away. If I ever have kids I want them to get the childhood and love that I couldn’t get and be the full time parent that I didn’t have. But man the things I would do to just hear one time “I love you, and I’m proud of you son”.
I’m so sorry you lost them so early. If you ever become one, you would be a great parent.
Sorry for your lost, and you're tough guy.. amazing, I hope you're have long live and surrounded by happiness with your own family .. semangat, bang..ganbatte
Mostly everyone's parents said something about their health or their doing which means they really care about their children. You can tell they were all happy when their child said," I love you"
"Dad I love you"
"How much money do u need?"
😂😂💀✊
That'll be my dad😂😂
I felt it deep😂😂
Yup😂😂😂
My dad also be like that..many times when i just go and hug him, he asks it..😂😂
Typical Asian dad 😍😂
First girl: “I love you.”
Dad: “Are you short of money?”
Savage! Lmao! 🤣🤣
LOL 🤣
😂😂
So emotional to see people say " i love you" to their parents💗💗
To say “I love you” to our family especially our parents is very important, because love is meant to be spoken.❤
Western Parents:
👶🏻: I love you
👫: I love you too 🤗
Asian Parents:
👶🏻: I love you
👫: ........... (awkward moment)
Not all some of us really say it and our parents response with "i love you too" With smile
no ... maybe some people feel akward to that ... but not all ..
I Think those parents on the video was just worried for their child .. afraid that their child facing some problems that's why asking if their short in money ..
pls .pardon my grammar 😅😅😅😅
Maybe because they show more in action rather than words I guess
Lol I live with my parents because I am less than 14 and when I tell my parents ily they never reply or even say a word.
well i don't say i love you back because it sounds wrong 👁👄👁😭
The girl crying after telling her mom she loves her made me emotional. It’s kind of heartbreaking that Asians rarely say that to their parents/kids. I know love is shown in other ways but sometimes it so refreshing to actually hear those words from the people you love and vice versa.
“Asians” is a very broad term. This is Chinese culture. Many south East Asian countries tell their parents they love them just as much if not more than western countries.
@@bellaaaahhh hate to break it to you but Asians parents don't say that they love their kids, but instead they show it
@@bellaaaahhh I am a Asian too and I kid you not I haven't nor my parents say that we love each other if I say them this they will think I am about to die or in danger something
@@bellaaaahhh your statement is kinda ironic cuz "Southeast Asia" is also a broad term. Cuz I'm from Southeast Asia and I know many families who don't say I love u to each other lol
@@bellaaaahhh sorry to break it to u but as someone from south east Asia, I haven’t said the phrase “I love u” to my parents in a few years
This proves how much feeling this word "love "holds .
it’s so interesting to see how hard it is not only for parents to say ‘i love you’ but most likely their kids as well due to growing up un-used to it. well i’m glad that if they have a good relationship with their loved ones they can express that through their actions at least!
Saying "I love you" to your parents is harder than saying that to your crush.
Edit: To be honest, I don't have a crush, but thanks for all the likes 🙂
Lmfaooooo
Exactly
@@user-re9mf3ll6z not all
Yes😣
🤣 yes bcz my parents be like u want money now
I know the “I love you” was sweet, but for me it was the “come home early today” that warmed my heart.
yeah like she felt something could be wrong with her baby ❤
👍👍👍👍
What minute ??
@@katherineval9213 2:14. 4:33
すてきです。お父さんお母さんが生きている間に〝大好き〟って何度も何度も言おうって思いました。
Im 37 and have a 4 year old and a 1 year old. I realized that after seeing my kids for the first time, that you will never truly understand how much your parents love you until you have children on your own. Please, tell your parents that you love them. The sacrifices they made may not be apparent, but are being made daily. I'll do anything for my children, and I know that my parents did the same for me.
The parents asking if their children had eaten is definitely their way of saying “I love you” without actually saying the words lol
True!
Also when they ask if they need money.
True, there are many ways to show and say I love you.
True sometimes actions can express your love more than words can
“The wind makes my eyes hurt.” T_T How to deny you’re crying, blame the wind XD
lolllllll
Soft heart ❤️
same energy as roy mustang's scene in FMA
Shes being sarcastic lmaoo
It must've been the wind~
even though i grew up hearing and saying "i love you" to my mom, i still cried while watching this
Their phrases like eat more,come early,dont u need a money all of these are their love expression. They use it but,when we hear the in main words like "I love you" is so deep and heartouching
Saying I love you to asian parents be like:
"Are you drunk?"
"You need money?"
"What do you want this time?"
"You did something wrong?"
"Are you okay? You're not suicidal right?"
"Are you sick?"
"Is this a prank?"
"It's a lie. You better talk gracefully to me, do your chores if you really love me, your room is a mess! *endless lecture*"
Oh goddd 😂😂😂 if I will say to my Indian mom so she will also like this 😁😁😂😂
My Algerian Mom to 🤣
@@sarakim6861 😂
I'm portuguese but my Mother would be like the last xD and my father would ask me what my intentions are lol
@@6maria94 it's okay mine to 🤣 , they will insul me like my Mom will be like : Oh you daughter of b*tch what did you do ? 🤣
Why is it so difficult to say I love you to our parents
Edit : why did I get so many likes? I don't deserve this :(
It's just awkward..Cause we don't say it enough i guess
Most of us asians don't usually say it. We just respect them as an act of our love to them.
For me (a Mexican who live in Mexico) is totally normal say to my mom and dad “I love you” or give they hugs every day. I don’t know why for someone’s it’s really difficult say “I love you” to her parents
@@peachkawai6947 in case of Asia it's the opposite I guess.. (Sri Lankan)
i dont know but its awkward
Come home early - simple way to respond that you love the person and you care for them ❤️ touching.
I can't even describe how much i love this kind of videos!
I'd like to more videos like this in the future!
I feel bad for the kids.. most of the parents didn’t say “I love you” back, they just say “thank you.” like your supposed to say “I love you too” 😕
Instead of saying I love you back the parents also say come back home early or its cold outside.. Just because they dont say it doesn't mean they dont love them.. They obviously care and the love is within that
I think some of the parents where confused or flustered half of them thought theur child did or wanted somethin
but they say thank you from the bottom of their heart....
sometimes they are very toxic to us but remember they love you so much...
Saying “I love you too” isn’t the only way to express your love for people you know?? I told my mom that I love her one time and I haven’t said it in a while to her before that. She just laughed cuz she felt embarrassed since it’s been a long time since I told her that lol. Maybe the other parents were feeling the same way. Idk 🤷♀️ just a hunch.
Maybe because they're confused or flustered and not often the kids say that to then
Daughter: "Mama, I love you."
Mother: " Did you see any special scenes?"🤣
Yeah my mother will be also like this that's why I will not say 😁😁😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
In what minute?
@@rosaliabogado8848 4:18
真正的愛不需要說出口就能了解
I often say to parents "I love you" ... just three words, but they warm the soul. Thank you for the touching video, I shed tears .🥲🫂❤
It’s so hard for me to tell my parents that i love them, which i really do. Feels like you’re stuck in between, to tell them and feel awkward or to shut up and feel sorry for not telling them. Worst feeling ever
What can we do to prevent this 😭🤧😌
That’s facts
With me it's because she never said it to me and I'm scared if I tell her she won't say it back. I'm 36 and still am scared to tell her.
So true
Better to feel awkward and tell your parents you love them, than to never have the chance to say you love them when their gone 😭
The fact that not all of the parents said “I love you” back.
Asian parents might now say it back but that doesn’t mean they don’t love their kids
It's okay cuz we Asian kids know that they love us 💕
they dont need to
Having a hard time saying it probably
THEY DON'T HAVE TO. Because they already did every single second for years and years and years.... when they gave you birth, when they fed you, when they admitted you to school, when they took you to the park, when they gave you safe shelter to live, when they bought you a toy, when they took you to the doctor when you were sick...... That's "Love" . Everyday. Every second.
A very different cultural feel 💚 brought me to tears.
I tell my parents often how much I love and appreciate them.
Both of them lost their parents as young adults and I want to make sure they know how loved they are.
After hearing the giggle after saying " I love you" made my heart melt ♥ ❤ 💓
Honestly, if your parents don't teach you to say "I love you" since very young, it's so hard to do it when you grew up. It's not only Asians but people all around the world.
That's a fact..😩💜💜
FACTS!
I mean it's not like they didn't teach me but it's just so hard like i would start tearing up and that is NOT what I want (I hate crying so i try to avoid it as much as I can lol)
@@alejandrar127 lol same
Its not like a thing to teach . In asia we show our love through acts . Its like saying blood is red . You already know that they love you and they know that you love them . parents also say i love you rarely .
As an Asian American, “I love you” isn’t normally spoken in an average Asian American household unless they are extremely close or it’s directed to or from your grandparents. Since saying “I love you” isn’t a norm, Asian parents assume their child is in some sort of trouble or is in need of some cash when they receive this three lettered phrase. This doesn’t usually apply to younger ages. My mother and I used to have a thing where we just randomly say I love you and then respond I love you more and so forth. I was like 6 though. This is for anyone that doesn’t understand why these people are sort of cringing before saying it.
That is so true. In Asia we express our love by doing stuff for others n not saying stuff. Maybe that is why I felt so awkward while the entire video was going on
@Emilio Franco no that's not how it is
Thank you for the explanation
This is true.
True, they show love by giving economic stability
看了眼泪流出来了,我想百分之九十没对爸爸 妈妈说过我爱他们,太感动了
I just love how both sides are awkward saying and receiving "i Love you" but they mean it so much, it's just sort of an asian thing ❤️❤️❤️
I wish I could've said "I love you" to my mom before she left this world.
Condolences
How are you now? I can understand you as I am in the same situation
@@goodlife1302 man..I hope you're doing good rn
@@ooogabooogaa I am fine. Life is going on. Let's see what happens. Thanks a lot for asking my friend. I hope you are fine too
@@goodlife1302 yeah I'm fine too. I am glad you're okay. I lost my dad when I was 3, barely remember anything from that time. So idk how it is like to lose a parent. Though, I can see the pain in my elder brother's eyes cause he was around 10 so he knows it much better. Idk what I would do if i lose my mom. Since we are Christians, we get message From God while praying and He said that our family must pray cause mom's life is short. We are constantly praying that God prolongs her life . I am keeping my faith that God will not make me an orphan right now.
It's sad that the children were hoping that their parents would say ' I love you' back yet only a very few actually did🥺 You could tell many of them were disappointed to not here that response.
Parents were taken aback so they automatically functioned in a mode they would usually respond
It’s not that they don’t love them back it just that they can’t express. But their love is more deep then we can ever think. Parents love are unconditional
@@james5717 I can confirm too. Having asian parents, it's very hard for them to express themselves
Yeah, same happened in the parents saying I love you to their children video. I think because they feel awkward since it never happened before and they dont know how to respond.
Because it's like out of the blue
This was very needed. I hope “I love you” as a regular expression becomes more common in cultures where it is difficult to say. Heart opening energy.
She's say her mom i love you" soo she's also emotional 🥺 💜
I’m Asian, I called my mom to do this. It went like this.
Me: “Hi mom.”
Mom: “Yes?”
Me: “am I disturbing you right now?”
Mom: “No, I was making lunch. What do you want?”
Me: “I wanted to say I love you”
Mom: “Ok what’s wrong?”
Me: “Nothing, I just wanted to tell you”
Mom: “Don’t lie, what’s going on *switches languages*”
Me: “Nothing- I just wanted to tell you 😭”
Mom: ”If you say so, you better not be lying. Don’t forget to come home and do your chores and homework”
Me: “Yes ma’am 😭😂”
When saying I love you to your mom turns into a lecture 😂
My mom would say “if you love me you’d have the house always clean” lol
Hhhh a bit real~
🤣🤣
✨😃✨
why do you have a cctv in my family lol
Asians (parents) do not easily, readily show/ express their love to children... and we were never taught how to 'reciprocate' such love. This is priceless 😌
And we must try not to act the same way to our children. Start a new cycle
try
@@truelovewontwait correctly said!!
@@truelovewontwait ummm wtf that really pisses me off like what’s the point in even having kids if you can’t provide enough love for them. Like the whole idea of even having a child is to provide it with enough emotional and mental as well as discipline ofc but love must always be the number one thing in the family or otherwise it won’t work. Like how tf do you expect children to become stable adults if they never had that parental love. I swear my advice to ppl who have “difficulties expressing their love for their children” (which btw is inexcusable like stop trying to be the victim in this situation cuz that’s just basically neglect and you’re just making yourself look stupid) is that if you don’t know how to show love to your kids then you’re obviously not mature enough to have them given the fact that you’re acting like a child yourself
@@its_just_me6183 well to be fair, parents show love in many ways. Especially when it comes to Asian parents, it’s in their actions. But yeah, nevertheless, words are powerful, and it would be so much better if parents knew how to verbally send the message across as well. It makes a huge difference
Tried this with my dad and brother, It was actually good to hear them saying it back.
那么感动，有以后应该说的话 ，但 那么很幸苦 说出口🥺😢。
I never said “I love you” to my parents, I feel embarrassed to say it and I don’t know how to over come this feeling💔
It's alright, we all have same feelings
You don't need a special occasion, you can just burst it out at anytime to them. They love it when they can hear that from their children
Daaaamn you're toxic
I feel the same. I try to say it and some times it works and I say "Iloveuuu~~", so shy hahahaha
I feel you
The way the parents suddenly goes silent for a moment after hearing the “I love you “ word means that they really not used to hear it more often and didn’t really expect it,but you can hear their cheerful voice after hearing it.
Agree
If it was my parents they just say it back😁 we are honestly used to it-
this is so wholesome 😭💕
For some of us who lost both parents ..this is sweet n heartbreaking at the same time 😢😢
Me
"I love you mom. "
Mom
"IS EVERYTHING ALRIGHT?!? WHY ARE YOU SAYING I LOVE YOU?!? WHAT'S HAPPENING?"
Me
*"Tf.."*
🙂😔😟😛
Fr
Fr
Next day: *missing* or *dead*
@@tomie1429 Fr
Me: *calls mom*
Mom: “yeah hello?”
Me: “I love you”
Mom: “what do you mean what’s going on are you gonna hurt yourself please don’t do this it’s not the answer don’t you hang up on me keep me on call-“
Me: “I just wanted to say I love you I’m okay-“
Mom: “oh okay love you too”
same lmao
OMG LMAO
It’s the same for me! She asked if she should call the police…
I say it all the time, at the end of a phone call! Not the beginning.
LMAO
I think so
Yo siempre les digo "te amo" y "te quiero" a mis padres, son realmente importantes para mí.
yea, the "wind" made my eyes hurt too.
It was really heartbreaking to see the nervousness to telling your parent you love them.
Indeed the words that are difficult to express are "I love you" to our parents, I cried seeing this because I never said those words to my parents too;
It's good that I'm not alone crying 😂
I’m crying too lol for that same reason ;; i feel like an idiot because it should be so easy to say, but i’ve never said it to my dad before
If you’ve never said ily to your parents say it to them now and if you find it weird just text them no matter what they’re your parents and they are the reason you exist so even if they hate you they still are your parents. T-T
@ARMY AN BLINK Don't worry, those words will be with you if you or should you ever have children. Raise them well and fill them with the love you missed, one day, you'll be on the receiving end of those words.
I never did to my dad T_T
3:50 She literally turned red and her eyes filled with tears.
Yep,i saw that 😔
These ones are really lucky
I never got the chance to tell my mom how much I loved her before she passed
I literally call my mother if i ever miss her. After every single interaction or conversation I'll end it with an I love you. I still teared up watching this.
"What are u out of money, u just love me for my money?" that made me think deep thoughts.
He is worried for her daughter.
That is literally how most asian parents cope with being shy and flustered hearing their child saying the L word...
Ok
that was a joke
It’s just a joke. Asian parents tend to say something like that when they hear “i love you” from their children because they’re shy :))) My parents alse make the same joke. Lol I guess it’s just an Asian thing. 🥰