Cautionary Tale: I was all about looks, height, bank account and what he driving! Now: Godly, short, kind, no drink, smoke or cursing. At 59 I was blessed to finally get what is really important! It is amazing folks to be in a truly loving and liberating relationship. Don’t be like me and get the lesson too late. I wasted so many years with that preference Nonsense. Be Blessed🙏🏽💕😊
in fact looking for a certain look is idiotic..even if its a man..so yeah a man who ghost a beautiful woman because he wants a specific look..as TG said..a look he can control lol
@@earthreign you out here submitting to a boyfriend you crazy! Tony have vids about submitting to your HUSBAND. And basing love off looks y’all are nuts
"Be with someone you is comparable to you" -TG if you don't want that then you have to become what you are attracted to and what you want to attract. By putting in the work on yourself.
lmaooo this video had me cracking up 🤣 I’ve been watching a few of your videos in this Single and Ready category, and I really love hearing a man’s perspective in a respectful and to the point manner, but the humor definitely keeps it light. I have full intentions of watching all of them, and utilizing them. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼✨
This is good stuff here!!! Thanks, Mr. Gaskins! Note: I'm a big woman...two big folks together is too much going on for me. It is too hot for all that. It's not a grease fire, though. 🤣🤣🤣
You were so revolutionary with your ideas back in the day Tony. I loved your video on this topic last year. It’s never too late to receive your teachings and I’m glad I’m listening now. Thank you!
Even though it’s not my season to be pursued, I think it would be a great exercise to write down my preferences and standards just to see for myself so I’ll know once this season of my life changes.
If people want someone who is slimmer than them , they may need to level up. This may mean that you need to work on losing weight and eating healthy etc,if they want to attract people they want.
My main standard is he has to be a Godly man but I'll have to admit that looks does matter to me. I can't find myself to like a guy if I'm not attracted to him. I believe there are decent men out there that i'll be attracted to and i'm not saying the man has to be 6ft and have specific features. What I do know is that my type likes me.
I tare me up some Bacon , the Christian person will say. Lol 🤣🤣🤣 this one was funny to me Bro Tony am loving this series on standards/ preferences am single now not ready but am in learning stage of my life. After a 12 year relationship, Nah I'll continue to relearn all over.
I desire everything God has for me but I it's a man to be in my life thats fine but if it's not God's will it's fine you women need to fall in love with Jesus thanknu lord 🙏💓♥❤💛💖🙏💓
I’m 23 and my boyfriend of 1 year is very wonderful. He asked me to marry him but I’m a bit worried because he’s having issues. He’s hearing voices in his head and he talks to them. This happens almost everyday, so he’s barely present with me. He’s always having delusions.I’ asked him to get help but he won’t. I’m not sure what to do
It's important for him to get mental health medication and therapy. If he isn't taking care of his mental health or his physical health, he is not ready to be a husband. He has to be healthy spiritually, mentality, and emotionally. Plus why are you thinking of marriage so young, live a little more before you decide to marry. Blessings to you both.🙏💖
Change his diet, get on a juice and fruit and veggie cleanse, try the Daniel fast and read the Bible together, spend time outdoors, journal, and share with him inviting him to the journal. Learn about his past, learn about his heart, and work out together. Create affirmations together.
@Helena XxxX Thank you hun for your response. ❤️ yes I think he needs deliverance. Me and my boyfriend are both African. He told me recently he went to a juju( spiritual person) to do magic to get a large amount of money. He did end up getting the large amount of money. Ever since he have been under spiritual attack. He keeps telling me it’s going to get better once we get married but I don’t think so. I love him a lot but I need to put my self firsr
Cautionary Tale: I was all about looks, height, bank account and what he driving! Now: Godly, short, kind, no drink, smoke or cursing. At 59 I was blessed to finally get what is really important! It is amazing folks to be in a truly loving and liberating relationship. Don’t be like me and get the lesson too late. I wasted so many years with that preference Nonsense. Be Blessed🙏🏽💕😊
Thank you sis
Thank you. Well noted
6..6..6..sounds like you got a devil on ya hands 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
“If that’s your requirement, you need to meet that!” TG
When men are looking for a certain look in women it seems like that's usually who they end up with. But with women it's usually the opposite
Because women would prefer a man who treats them right vs someone they find him attractive, but treats them like they are nothing.
in fact looking for a certain look is idiotic..even if its a man..so yeah a man who ghost a beautiful woman because he wants a specific look..as TG said..a look he can control lol
@@earthreign you out here submitting to a boyfriend you crazy! Tony have vids about submitting to your HUSBAND. And basing love off looks y’all are nuts
"Be with someone you is comparable to you" -TG if you don't want that then you have to become what you are attracted to and what you want to attract. By putting in the work on yourself.
lmaooo this video had me cracking up 🤣 I’ve been watching a few of your videos in this Single and Ready category, and I really love hearing a man’s perspective in a respectful and to the point manner, but the humor definitely keeps it light. I have full intentions of watching all of them, and utilizing them. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏼✨
My main standards: No smoking, no drugs, no female friends, no being an alcoholic, no gambling. Absolute deal breakers for me.
I hope you have no male friends then
@@kraziikiim I sure dont.
“Hold on now…see, you doin’ too much”-TG !!!!!🤣😂🤣☠️☠️☠️!!!!!
This is good stuff here!!!
Thanks, Mr. Gaskins! Note: I'm a big woman...two big folks together is too much going on for me. It is too hot for all that. It's not a grease fire, though. 🤣🤣🤣
Kill me now....grl u crazy 😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
🤣😫😫😫🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣💯
😄🤣😂🤣🤣
Class is in session 😁👏🏾✍🏾
666.....sounds like the deyvil😂😂😂😂😂😂😂Coach Tony, you are hilarious but oh, so factual. Thank you for getting us ready✅✅
SO VERY VERY TRUE TONY, YOU ARE A EXCELLENT LIFE COACH.. THE VERY BEST I EVER HEARD... I'M SENDING YOU A HIGH FIVE🙌🙌
“To dooo sounds like I’m from Baltimore ”😂😂😂 you’re kinda funny at times
That’s deff the bmore accent tho 😂
"Well do you have Rick Ross money"😂😂😂😂
Thanks for this episode about preferances vs standards, Tony! It's really important for ppl to know the difference.
I'm so glad you did another video on this. People need to wake up.. Open their ears, mind & heart up on these very real & important matters.
You were so revolutionary with your ideas back in the day Tony. I loved your video on this topic last year. It’s never too late to receive your teachings and I’m glad I’m listening now. Thank you!
Even though it’s not my season to be pursued, I think it would be a great exercise to write down my preferences and standards just to see for myself so I’ll know once this season of my life changes.
That Boston accent though... Lol Tony😄
I definitely understand that we have to become what we want to attract for sure. Loved this reminder!
Great topic! Normally what we truly need and what is good for us doesn’t always come in the exact packaging that we want. 🙌🏾💯✅
Thank you Tony,this is exactly what i been talking to my friend about. Bless 🙏
Standards are rooted in values and has to do with life. Standard is morals and values
He said “Grease fireeee-uhhhh” -I’m deaddd-uhhh X1,000!!!!!!🤣😂🤣☠️☠️☠️ Omgeee-uhhh!!!!!☠️☠️☠️
I love you Tony! In a respectable knowledgeable way! I'm laughing my head off!! You're so right brotha!🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗
I CRIED LAUGHING WHEN TONY do you have Rick Ross Money 😆
I'm more of a Standard than A Preference woman. I also like Variety.
Got you, Tony.
Taking my notes 📝
If people want someone who is slimmer than them , they may need to level up. This may mean that you need to work on losing weight and eating healthy etc,if they want to attract people they want.
That was right on point!!! Thank you!!!! 💯 👍
😂😂 this funny Tony !
My main standard is he has to be a Godly man but I'll have to admit that looks does matter to me. I can't find myself to like a guy if I'm not attracted to him. I believe there are decent men out there that i'll be attracted to and i'm not saying the man has to be 6ft and have specific features. What I do know is that my type likes me.
I have to be real.. he needs to look at least ok to me and at least be my height for me to ever love him. It is what it is.
@@katepierre952 I agree
Ok single and ready series
This is a great topic
I tare me up some Bacon , the Christian person will say. Lol 🤣🤣🤣 this one was funny to me Bro Tony am loving this series on standards/ preferences am single now not ready but am in learning stage of my life. After a 12 year relationship, Nah I'll continue to relearn all over.
So true!!
Thank you and God bless you real good Brother 👍
Makes very good sense to me.
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭 “…on my arms.”
😂😂😂😂😂
Listening.
Present 💜
Even with standards.
Still can't seem to find someone . 😖
Present!
No 666 for me! Morals, standards, values, most of all God-fearing let's talk!
Excellent video...as usual😊
“How fair is it for you to be in top of a woman 150 lbs when you are 300 lbs?” 🤣
I desire everything God has for me but I it's a man to be in my life thats fine but if it's not God's will it's fine you women need to fall in love with Jesus thanknu lord 🙏💓♥❤💛💖🙏💓
My preference is dark skin😁 ....my Standards are a 📖.......😬
Is that supposed to stand for a bookworm?
@@nijay8267 Lol...it means I have a book full of standards 😁
@@beefaye18 OHHH. 🤦😂
@@nijay8267 😂😂
I’m 23 and my boyfriend of 1 year is very wonderful. He asked me to marry him but I’m a bit worried because he’s having issues. He’s hearing voices in his head and he talks to them. This happens almost everyday, so he’s barely present with me. He’s always having delusions.I’ asked him to get help but he won’t. I’m not sure what to do
Leave him alone 😊 as he refuses help
I had those type of problems too sis. It's a mental issue. One that you can't fix...if it gets dangerous- leave.
It's important for him to get mental health medication and therapy. If he isn't taking care of his mental health or his physical health, he is not ready to be a husband. He has to be healthy spiritually, mentality, and emotionally. Plus why are you thinking of marriage so young, live a little more before you decide to marry. Blessings to you both.🙏💖
Change his diet, get on a juice and fruit and veggie cleanse, try the Daniel fast and read the Bible together, spend time outdoors, journal, and share with him inviting him to the journal. Learn about his past, learn about his heart, and work out together. Create affirmations together.
@Helena XxxX Thank you hun for your response. ❤️ yes I think he needs deliverance. Me and my boyfriend are both African. He told me recently he went to a juju( spiritual person) to do magic to get a large amount of money. He did end up getting the large amount of money. Ever since he have been under spiritual attack. He keeps telling me it’s going to get better once we get married but I don’t think so. I love him a lot but I need to put my self firsr
I’m not Muslim but I’m not eating no pork
👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿💯🎯
I want someone who is honest, has a good sense of humour, and is kind-hearted.
Leave your religion at the door.
Yes yes....religion will kill you for sho 😂
😑😳🤣😭 reliable laughable information.....
😂😂
That's all you women think about wanting a man to come sweep you off ur feet yall need Jesus and stop being so desperate God bless u man of God .
Oh sthu