MY RELATIONSHIPS WITH MEN - When To Leave and What I've Learned
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Love you Lisa , my daughter said you are very beautiful inside and out❤🙏
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Lisa if you ever choose or when ready... join mindvalley and take the course "calling in the one." I'm 50 in January and nothing has been more powerful to this self help junky.
Would be amazing to do a video and hear your thoughts and your opinion on couples therapy... or experience do's/donts about couples therapy, do u think it helped you, what kind of therapist you think a person should look for... Ty 💜💜💜💜💜
I never found a partner. Around 48, I decided I had waited long enough, so I closed that door. I am perfectly at peace with being and remaining forever single. Society has convinced most people that you MUST have a partner, yet few relationships are fulfilling. People are uncomfortable about my singleness, so I appease them by saying that "the door is closed, but not locked." But really, I don't plan to give up my freedom and risk what is left of my life. There is NOTHING wrong with being single. I am with myself.
Agree, I have stability and financial comfort.
I completely agree. I am much happier alone than I ever was married.
Everyone has their own path through life, and no one’s path is better or more “right” than another’s. We are all different and that’s the beauty of the world. What matters I think is that you’re happy, fulfilled, and at peace with where you are and where you’re going, or are working on getting there.
I love that. Society is too narrow minded...single can be wonderful and bring joy too.
Yep, same here. At 54, I've never managed to find a long-term partner either. The last relationship I had was around 5 years ago. He was 9 years younger, drop dead gorgous and a refugee from Iraq. Didn't work out in the end because of cultural differences. The reasons why I'm still single is I am too picky, I don't take everybody and I am afraid of dependency and subjection. I have a busy life and, right now, I don't really pursue a relationship; however, if it happens I'm open for it, but not looking desperately for a partner at the moment.
I’ve been married 3 times. I had to look at the common denominator in the relationships and that was me. I worked on myself. Marriage #3 has lasted 25 years.
Oh that's wonderful thank you so very much for sharing. XO
Please write a book and much happiness to you and your partner
Im 48 and in marriage number 3. I am holding on by threads. Relationships are very layered and soooo much work.
What did you do different?
Edit: I can’t help but wonder if your comment was a backhanded comment.
I don’t need to comment you took the words out of my mouth! 😊
The bigger question and challenge for people is how not to get into a toxic relationship in the first place or not to continue to repeat the same pattern over and over.
Yes absolutely! And we do that by learning from past relationships and working on ourselves. XO
I got into a toxic relationship because I was toxic and had such low self worth. Now I’m on a different path and I am still in the same toxic relationship because I have a kid 😢. I need freedom from this 😢
Stop with the toxic crap. Guarantee you she gets into another relationship with next stud who comes along. She's getting older and needs validation. Why can't woman just be honest for crying out loud? Smfh! That fact that, at her age, she is on a public forum talking about all her relationships is ridiculous! This doesn't require that much thought! Grow up finally and move on and stop looking for validation! I swear, most women just love being dramatic and hearing themselves talk!
@@DarkLady13 Couldn't have said it better myself. She needs to grow up.
Well pardon the hell outta me. She is bearing her Soul to us so we can each talk,ask,maybe find out wth we can due to learn to love ourselves. I had 2 parents who loved each other until they both died. My Mom was Widowed for 10 years yet she never went on even one date after my Dad died. He was 10 years older than she was. He was my Hero who always put his family and God first without being like some of the Christians who are just plain nut cakes all year long. Yes I believe in God,Creator,Source,Jesus. Was raised my entire life in Burch yet I can say that you can wear out your knees in prayer and without putting in the work. Besides thinking Something outside of yourself and no effort except to pray. Is crap. Do it expect anything to save your from yourself. I have the same thing with men Yet my Dad was never hot and cold. He was always the same. He gave love unconditionally. When I lost him a big part of me died. Yet I feel his Spirit after I allowed myself,time to grieve. We are enteral beings we have a Soul it never dies. It just changes form. This has been proven. I’ve divorced someone I loved very much. Yet not for the reason anyone knows. He did. Yet I have never remarried. I’ve been married the first time was for eternity. So I thought yet it was not. We began to grow yet not in the same direction. He was not a party person or one who liked to due drugs,drink. Yet we had so much in common as I did love people,dancing,yet I did t go to bars. I danced like nobody was watching . Yet he as we were both young. He began to want to go to bars,party,experiment with different things as well as other women. I gave him 10 years of my life and would if he had not decided to fall in love with my bestfriend who was also a married person. I hated him in the beginning for breaking up our ho e a d family. Yet now I have grown the hell up and realized. We did love each other.we would have never had our child. Especially me. Because I always had a feeling deep inside that I would never have children if I had waited . We were married for 4 years before our family started so it was not a shotgun wedding. Yet we started to grow in different directions. I didn’t want to admit it. I went back to School to finish my Cosmetology Degree which I had to quit when I became pregnant. I had that very serious type of sickness. Where I would have to be given IVs several times due to how bad I threw up. It was 24/7. I had a hard pregnancy due to my near fatal car crash. I was hit by a drunk driver.I guess is the reason I have never been one to party and drink,smoke,due drugs. That and my Dad was in Law Enforcement for any years. Now I feel that yes our marriage was meant to be it gave me my on,y child. Who is a awesome Father, Husband,who has had a 20 years in Law Enforcement retired and then went back to work again with a different kind of Law works less dangerous. He is 41 years young. He is like me. Ever smoked,is not a drinker,beater of his wife and kids. He was always a awesome kid. That makes me proud. I got to be his Mother. Yet people change. It can be as my parents who grew in the same direction. They grew closer every year. So they had over 52 years together. I’ve always looked for a man just like my Dad. I got lucky once. However he died. I’ve been divorced for almost 18 years. Has not remarried. Yes I’ve had relationships. Yet I cannot marry. I may ever. Yet it’s ok. So I’ve shared alot. About my personal life. I think both you women. Need to show some gratitude for someone Like Lisa to share her pain. I honestly do not feel at this point of her life regardless of how old she is. She has found herself. Does this mean she is not drawn to men whoa t in a certain way. Just for example. Most do not show their true self for a very long time. Most I meet are so all giving,are so happy to be with me. Tell me how beautiful,hardworking,goal oriented. I guess a type A personality. Then I’m hit with someone who then reveals whom they are truly. They also know I have a heart. I forgive. I could be a very rich woman. Yet each time I divorced. I didn’t ask for what I should have. I was like no.Let them take it. Yes I’m worked hard put one thru College. He is a Doctor now. I lost y ho e. I could have made him pay for. Plus Alimony yet the weird thing is I’ve always tried to end even when I was not the one who wanted out. Yet I realized I had to ma,e that step. Because if not the yo-yo effect would keep me their. It takes a hell of a lot to just leave your dream home. Yet it’s just things that can be replaced. If I’ve learned one thing in my life from my Parents. Is I’m not greedy or a gold digger. My inner peace is worth more than any amount of money. So I am thankful for Lisa being ho est and she has never dogged down anyone. Yet I’ve saw alot of catty remarks from other women. Which makes me ashamed. We should help each other up when we fall. Not cut us down or want all the dirt. On every detail. I,love you Lisa and I hope one day to meet you. Love and Hugs Suzanne Your a strong,beautiful, loving women who doesn’t give up.I respect you so much for this.🦋🙏🦋💗💕💓💖💞🐞🧚♂️💐
Lisa, I’ve had the opposite with men and completely distrusted them. I was sexually abused as a child and never had a good male role model in my life. I was a teen Mom, had 3 kids, 11mths apart before I was 21 then divorced in my late 20’s. I gave up on men and was single 30 years. In my 50’s I started the healing process. I lost 120lbs (armor I kept for protection) became a Sexual Assault Counselor and met my husband. We’ve been married 5 years now and I had to get myself together before Spirit brought me my twin flame.
What a beautiful and inspirational story! Thank you so very much for sharing. I am so happy for you XOXO
Truth! Heal yourself first
Spirit?? twin flame?? 🤷♀️
@@mimiv1347 Translation from Native American to English: Spirit =God, Twin Flame =Soul Mate
@@shirlynb148 that's translating new age bullcrap from English to English.
I have been married 26 years. Nothing was easy in the beginning. We started going to church and we both got baptized. God is our foundation. I fully believe put God first and the rest will line up. Everyone is on their journey and I pray everyone finds their peace, wether they are married or single.
Thank you! I am so very happy that you found a partner that allows you to be your best self XOXO
God is our first love. We put Him first. Anyone who hasn’t learned this will keep having break ups or be struggling more years then it had to be and will always struggle unless they find they need Christ first. We aren’t suppose to struggle so much getting the right person. God will bring them to you when he knows you are ready. I have no tegrets putting my children or grandchildren children ahead of me because God gave himself and I take after him. I am not to neglect myself but I know Im nothing without Christ. My soul will pay eternally and my family wouldn’t even be with me in eternity if I hadnt called upon the name of Jesus. They wouldn’t have been trained up in the way to go so that when they get old they wouldn’t depart from God. So dont take the secular fix of putting yourself first, put God first and he will guide you. He may not even want someone in your life if it takes you away from him. We should be ok with that or keep going for the wrong relationships. That is our biggest problem is always reading books on self love that deters you from the creator who knows best. He knows whats best for you. Stop and start drawing closer to him. He died for you, shed his blood for the remission of your sin because you are a sinner who cannot enter into his presence. Realize this. Then realize he was victorious and he resurrected to give us life eternal. Have you called upon him? Repented which is turn from your sinful life to the life Christ had for you through forgiveness of sin. Then read his word, pray and kneel down to him not to self and relationships. Trust him for your life and your salvation. Then go tell those you love how to be saved. They have a soul and need Christ. Another thing is relationships still work for their relationship even if saved, but they are guided by the Holy Spirit and he can help them through anything as long as Christ is first. I hope you know I say this all in love not puffed up by knowledge but with truth. Jesus is the way, the truth and the life. There is no other God. Be very careful to not reject his truth or it will be your soul for eternity that will pay that price. I hope you heed warning.
Amen, this is the truth. The most important relationship is the relationship you can have with Jesus. He is the only relationship that will never leave you or forsake you.
Your exactly right! Gods order is imperative. God, spouse, children. Thats Gods order.
@@jeanettec6212 100%!!!!
I would genuinely like to know what your parent's reaction was when you told them, as a 16 yo teen, that you were getting married to a 30 yo man. What were your friends reaction? What were HIS friends reaction? It's hard to fathom that your parents were on board with that.
It's honestly giving grooming
GROOMING 100%
The most important relationship you have is the relationship with yourself. When you are comfortable and happy on your own, another person is an addition and not filling a void.
Just date and make more friends. Don’t rush into anything for a long time Lisa. Enjoy your new space, your family and the people who matter in your life.❤
One of my favorite videos from you. I love just sitting down and “talking” with you. Could listen for hours! You are so comforting.
Thank you! I'm so glad you enjoyed it XO
I am glad women are speaking up. Too many times we keep quiet. We don’t empower ourselves or other women by sharing our stories. This is why it works for men, because we stay quiet and don’t have anyone to support us. I too share some of this stories, i am tired of doing more than my share in relationships.
These raw videos of yours have always been my favorite!
You nailed it! You nailed it, you nailed it, you nailed it!!
It's so relieving that someone knows exactly how it feels to be in situations that are hard and found a way even being afraid. I'm so glad that I found your channel. Keep being an inspiration of hope and showing that it's possible even when it looks and feels impossible.🙏🙏🙏❤💪
Wow! 14 years older?! Where were your parents? How was that even legal? That’s wild! You were just a child yourself 💔
Something I learned from a friend and it’s very true for myself. You tend to be attracted to a certain type of man, they will also be attracted to you. Abusive men, alcoholics, there’s something about that type of person, if you can figure out what it is, you’ll learn to spot it right away and can avoid that relationship, it will turn out the same!
Love hearing your story and insights, thank you for sharing!
This was such an awesome video! Thank you so much for sharing! Watching your journey through the years has been so inspiring! God bless you always. 💕🙏🏼
This was such a powerful video. Thank you for sharing and I hope you take this and decide to write a book!
This is incredibly insightful advice Lisa! Thank you so much for sharing such personal and painful experiences to help others understand their experiences.. you are such a beautiful strong woman💕💕💕
Well said! This is powerful! ❤I’m sharing with my friends
Such a powerful testimony. This will help so many woman. Thank you for being vulnerable & sharing your stories
Thank you for sharing Lisa. I’m sure it wasn’t easy! You truly are a beautiful soul. Sending you so much love and light ❤️
Lisa thank you this is always good info we forget i forget and it’s easy to get sucked in. You are helping a lot of people by sharing your journey ❤❤❤
Such a great video!!! Wonderful advice❤❤❤
Lisa, thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us. You are truly an inspirational person. Your transparency and desire to help others is greatly appreciated. Keep on doing what you are doing!
Lisa - Your journey mirrored mine on so many levels. I’ve learned not to find my worth through someone else’s eyes. Keep inspiring Love!
Another great video of very wise words...self love is the only way to go with yourself. Lisa , you should be a life coach being you have been through it and lived it!
Thank you for this video Lisa. It’s nice to have you back. I have so much respect for you. You’re such a great person and give so much of your time to us. It’s so appreciated. I’m sorry for the loss of your relationship. The right man might be out there but if he’s not, that’s ok too. Sometimes I believe it’s better to have a friendship relationship and live in your own space at a certain age in your life. It’s a crazy world out there and people don’t really know what it is they want because they don’t know who they are 💛
Omg this is such an amazing video, I really appreciate watching this. Thank you for being so candid.
I needed to hear this. Thank you for sharing
Lisa, amazing video! This struck such a chord with me. Girl, you're good!
BRAVO, YOU ARE STRONG, BRAVE AND INSPIRATIONAL. Thank you for sharing
Thank you so much for your honesty and sharing your wisdom with us. Much love and I know the best is yet to come for you. ❤
We all learned, and we still learning. Thank you Lisa for sharing
Sorry to hear about all of the pain you went through 😢
You seem to be getting stronger after the struggles and hurt 💜
Great video 😊
What kind of parents allow their 16 year old daughter to have sex with a 30 year old man? I think that's actually illegal in most states in this country. When you began your story with that, I had to stop listening and watching at that point. I know you're always expressing love for your parents, but quite frankly, they did you no favors by allowing you to have that relationship. No wonder your life has been a shit storm. Regardless, you should be taking accountability for the things/mistakes that you made and did to make your relationships fail. It's a cop-out to not do that. It shows that you're being obtuse and smug. Smugness is repulsive, so don't let yourself go there. We are all to blame for what happens to us in life. Just admit your wrong doings while you're telling your stories. It will make you more respectable and believable.
This video is great. Thanks, Lisa! I am single now, but my heart is at peace.
I'm speechless Lisa! You're amazing! GOD BLESS YOU!
Thank you for sharing your life with us Lisa! The book “Women who love too much” was so helpful to me to be free of codependent relationships. I had to spend time with me and stay in one home on my own for a long time to really get free. Now I know that I can have a stable home that will not be affected by any relationship. Stable home and stable mental health comes first, always. I’ll never be in another relationship like the last one I was in that just ripped me apart when it ended. Now I focus on taking care of me and my life‘s purpose, The reason I came here. You look so beautiful in this video! 🙏💗💗💗
I love that book so much. Such a good book recommendation.
Lisa I think you can find love at any age, but I also stayed in a couple relationships longer than I knew I should have. Being a little older and wiser I know I will never settle again. Thank you for sharing.
Be careful out there, you will still attract the same type of person. But now that you know the pattern, you can better protect yourself. You've got the tools and you can use them more quickly now. The depression part of this breakup was weakness leaving the body so you can face what's ahead. One thing I learned about you today, is that you are incredibly BRAVE!
Deep Lisa, I think many of us can relate to your story. Thank you for sharing.
Thank you for sharing your experiences. I know it’s not easy to do, but I think it’s helpful for you as well for us to have someone to talk to. Thank you!!
Thank you for your testimony of what you went through. It really connected with me. God bless you and your family!
We all walk a different journey for different reasons. Nobody fits into one stereotype or box like society likes to pretend we do, especially regarding marriage, relationships etc.. Relationships can be a difficult thing for many reasons and sometimes we are meant to look within and reflect, spend time alone and know we are worthy enough without someone else, thinking they will fill a void that only we can truly fill ourselves. Every relationship I've been in has made me stronger in life and I can see it has for you as well. We are constantly growing each day regardless of our age. Thank you so much for sharing your journey, your struggles and how you are moving forward to be a better you through it all. You will help many people along the way because of your bravery putting this out there. We all go through struggles regardless of what area of life it may be in, because we aren't perfect and again I believe we continue to grow until we aren't here anymore to do so. All the best to you Lisa! You are a beautiful, strong woman and I know you have wonderful things ahead of you in your next chapter of life! 💞
Thank you very much XO
JUST went through this a few years ago and I am now finally dating and I have SO MUCH MORE knowledge than ever before. You are summing this up perfectly. NO ONE should get in to any relationship if you don’t love yourself. Have SOLID boundaries and have learned to not be that little girl people pleasing your life away!! Prove to you you can survive on your own. Then get out there and YOU CHOOSE what you want in a partner and take nothing less!❤️❤️❤️💕
Wow what beautiful truth. So healing. You've helped so many who can relate. Thank you for your raw honesty.
Life of trauma and since very young age. You literally “raised and saved” yourself. Very wise words, gonna listen again and jot some in my journal. Thank you for being vulnerable especially on such a platform with keyboard warriors who aren’t nice sometimes, your words inspired me and built my confidence. Thank you!
Lisa, this was so valuable and eye opening. And the checklist was so very on point that I will be watching this again and again. Even though our life experiences were not exactly the same, they are so relatable. I want to know more how you went about finding happiness in yourself. Thank you so very much ❣️
Thank you! This is definitely a question that a lot of people have been asking me and I will do you a whole separate video on how to find happiness within. XO
Thanks for always being so honest and sharing your truth. Sending love ❤️
You’re amazing ❤ Happy you did what’s best for you. Wishing you all the best ✨
Thanks for sharing some of the things you have gone through with us. I know it helps others like me. BTW you look super pretty with purple hair. 💜💜💜💜 Love your videos 👍🏼
Thank you for sharing. I can relate on many aspects of the experiences you have shared.
My life has very been very similar to yours . You articulated your story so beautifully. Thank you for sharing 🙏🏻💕
Lisa, I appreciate you pouring out your heart and baring it all for all to see. It takes a lot of courage to expose you life to all to see with the hopes of helping others. I admire you. You are right on point it all starts from within. You seemed genuinely happy and comfortable in your own skin. I wish you love, peace and joy and that all comes from God. Many blessings!
I don’t want another man to cheat on me or make a fool out of me. I’m on my second marriage to a business man/ deacon and he cheated too. I don’t want to date. I’m over 55. Learning to adjust being by myself- currently separated. I will be ok.
I'm very sorry you went through that. Sending you much love and healing. XO
I just wanted to say, I appreciate your honesty and sharing with us your story. Thank you for your insight, I agree with you 100%! Thank you❤️
Again, I thank you and commend you for being courageous and "putting it out there." I really like your new home! 💜 Hugs from NC!
I know. I've been there. We DO stay often a long time. I totally get it! Thank you for your bravery in sharing all this!!! It will help other women!
needed to hear this right now
These types of conversations are extremely needed. Thank you so much. This was incredible. What a story and what a life you've had, filled with so much personal growth and learning lessons. Now I understand why you were able to pick up and leave the way you did in a relatively short period of time. I mean months instead of years the way it took me. It was years and years until I was depleted when I finally left. I know now I had very little self love and self worth. So that's why you were able to recognize dysfunction a lot sooner, and lot easier. You knew so well what self-love feels like that you could easily recognize what the opposite feels like, and that's how it saves years of indecisiveness. I hope you continue to share your insights. I know it takes courage to put yourself out there and talk about these heart-wrenching, personal experiences but there's so much Good that can come from this kind of generous sharing.
Thank you so much. All of these beautiful comments are inspiring me to keep going and to keep healing and to keep sharing. Sending so much love and healing. XO
Thank you for sharing your path. I'm grappling with some of the internal challenges you spoke of right now. I appreciate hearing about your experience.
You are so welcome! You got this girlfriend XO
Thank you for this 💙
You’ve helped me so much. You put things into perspective that I can truly feel as truths. you’re incredibly honest and healing . I have always loved all of your videos but these videos are my favorite. 😘❤️
Thank you XOO
Such a great video. I can really relate.
Lisa I love your message yet again. It’s like you are saying the things I’m feeling and know to be true. I have been on my own spiritual journey for growth, love and discovery but I’m on it alone in my marriage. He is stuck while I continue to grow. I will check out some of the books u have linked. Sending good vibes your way my friend for continued growth and love for u😉
I love your hair!!
Thank you Lisa. ❤Listening to you is so enlightening….you are wonderful and beautiful! Thank you for your words of wisdom. You are the friend we all need.
Best advice is to not rush in and take time to get to know each other. It takes a long time to even start to get to know a person properly. It's not something you can rush. In fact you never know a person 100% but taking time can save a lot of heartache.
Thanks for sharing your wisdom🤗
Thank you so much for sharing your journey! So inspiring!! Love your hair btw. Please do a video on how you style it.
Thank you! Coming soon XO
Breaks my heart to hear how much women put up with to stay with a man when there is no relationship. Way to much pressure to have a boyfriend or husband. I hope future generations of women are kinder and more supportive of each other to be safe and strong - let the boys come and go
Hi Lisa, great advice! I’m so sorry that you are going through a tough breakup. Relationships are very hard. Sending love and light your way.
Thank you! I am feeling so great! Happy and at peace and feeling so inspired again XO
Thank you for your videos, they are so helpful right now...
You are amazing, Lisa!
Thank you for sharing life lessons with us Lisa. Live your best life 🤩 Kathy from AL
Beautiful, Lisa.
I was told by a trusted person, "people treat you how you treat yourself. "
Are you being genuine, nourishing, loving, telling yourself the truth, taking good care of yourself 100% of the time?
People follow your lead, it's completely predictable what you attract.
Until we own that we often create, enable, or justify our own unhealthy patterns very little changes. It is not noble or more honorable to use codependent behavior vs narcissist behavior, people pleasing, deciding for people that they can't cope with your direct needs so you don't ask or share your real self, you decide for people that they will be too hurt or offended so you don't share your authentic experiences to control the narrative, you abandon your genuine self for ideas you made up without including other people.
Raw truths.
I can pinpoint the exact moments I betrayed myself at the start of every relationship... then they followed my lead.
Much wisdom spoken... Thank you so much for sharing I totally agree with what you said. XO
I'm not even indignant either. Lol
I find making a long dirty grimy list about someone else is just a treasure trail replicating how I was treating myself. It's never not been that.
Maybe it's just me.
Bingo! Big Truth in your comment! You get it!!!
@therealsandraweise. I wish I could give your comment 100 thumbs up. So true.
Yes Lisa u have alway helped me with your advice. Thank you 🙏
I love these "authentic vulnerable you" videos. They validate my soul. Make some manifestation videos! Look where you have gone... so far! I have been following you forever! You are a powerful manifester shine your light.
Very well said! Thank you for sharing.🇨🇦😊
Thank you for making this video. It will help me a lot. I like how you explain your pain but you don't victimize yourself.
Wow Lisa. Thank you so much for generously sharing your journey and what you’ve learned from relationships. I hope you will keep talking to us about this important topic that we all deal with. That Scorpio eclipse on November 8th really purged your life big time! Wow!! I sent you a message on fb. Hope we can talk soon. Again, thank you. This was life changing!!! 🎉❤
You are so very welcome. And that eclipse was life-changing. XO
Blessings to you LISA, nothing in life with men is wasted. everything serves a purpose hugs connie
Omg woman, you are like a machine, I wish I can do that, but I have to go bit by bit. I remember you had a beautiful hanging storage behind the bathroom door...not anymore?
Like always you inspire me in every single way.... stay positive!😘
Thank You Lisa, for "baring your soul". My wish is that every young person listens to this video from start to finish. I've found that women tend to give and give until they feel broken. Your words resonated perfectly to those of us who have grown along with you. My favorite Buddha Quote...“You can search throughout the entire universe for someone who is more deserving of your love and affection than you are yourself, and that person is not to be found anywhere. You, yourself, as much as anybody in the entire universe, deserve your love and affection.”
Lisa, thank you for sharing your experience today. I am sure you have helped many today who really needed to hear this message who maybe could not leave, but can now. I, like you will not stay in a relationship where I am not honoring my self. I remember I had an epiphany once when a previous partner was putting me down. I couldn’t stand it any longer and I blurted out “I cannot agree with what you are saying! You do not value me and if I agree with you, I am betraying myself! I have not had an issue with that since. We are treated the way we allow ourselves to be treated. Period. If someone is abusive, we have the choice to leave. Kids, no kids, house, no house, it is never worth staying and allowing our spirit to be broken. Thank you!! You are a light in this world. ❤️
What a video, you were so genuine and open about your life and struggles and I can relate. I've been married for 32 years to the same man and the father of both my now grown daughters. I keep my emotions bottled as to not start a fight which usually gets turned back on me. I use to refer to myself as "Cinderella" and " The Kool aid mom" always taking care of everyone else except me. I admire your strength and wish you all the best in your future ❤️
Love this video. Relatable
Wow i can relate to this so much! Just found ur videos super early on xmas morning(b4 my son wakes up) hehehe
I needed this, so thanku!
great advice
What an amazing video. It’s like I came across it at my perfect time. Im sorry you’ve been through so much. I’ve seen some of your heartache and physical challenges and boy o boy you are one strong lady. Im at a point in my life where I am listening to my instincts and honestly I’m on the fence. I feel so much lighter and happier when I’m with my children but once my husband (25yrs) enters the picture theres so much gloom and a feeling he’s raining on my parade. And when mental issues are added it’s an even harder decision. Im not trying to take away your light I don’t think anyone will ever succeed at that but feel like I can let go of some tension I’ve been feeling for a while. Good bless and wishing you all the best.
Hi Lisa, so sorry you're going through this again. I followed you when you were going through your painful divorce, that was so sad but you got through it! You have a lovely family and are beautiful. I'm sure you will find happiness again! Love from UK xx
You are amazing Lisa thank you so much!
Thanks for sharing!
Lisa, you are such a strong woman and an inspiration.
I think maybe you don’t see love-bombing as a red flag because you grew up with a very loving father. It makes total sense that you would think that’s just normal. Thank you for sharing your experiences. This was such an insightful video that will help a lot of people.
Why do you always blame the women instead of putting the blame where it belongs and that is on the men?
Shame on him for lying and pretending to be something he wasn't.
We need to hold men accountable because if we don't it will never stop.
@@winning3329 hi friend! You’re absolutely correct, we should be blaming the men! I’m sorry if my comment comes off differently. It doesn’t hurt to examine your experiences and use your experience to avoid toxic people in the future but you’re correct, it’s never the victims fault.
@@jschaub2011 both of your comments were very thoughtful. sometimes people project their negative perceptions onto others without realizing that’s what they’re doing.
Wow! I didn’t expect that at all from the “makeup lady”. I’m I new subscriber who find your channel by looking for beauty ideas for mature women (I’m 48). But this was great and so useful. I really can relate with almost everything? Thank you so much ❤️
I'm so glad that I watched this. It made me think about the painful divorce I had to encounter 5 years ago. I am 56 and would still like to find that special someone but like you said, we need to love ourselves and take care of ourselves first. Excellent point you made there.
Work on yourself because we attract accordingly 😢.
I remember when that divorce video came out 💔 Your videos are helpful. I’m enjoying following along your journey! It started with the bleach fail video for me.