To the individual who is reading this please quit overthinking everything every day and night . Stop obsessing over your failures. Stop doubting yourself and seeing the greatness in everyone else but you. You are better than that. You deserve more. Start showing up differently to yourself. Believe in yourself. God wont ever hand you something you cant handle. You are a star in this world . may God bless whoever sees this
@@deannaaakayy okay! And i saw her say she really haven’t been doing makeup that long. I woulda thought she was a mua too! But her skin is flawless so that really helps.
That no car phase will literally have you sad af idc what nobody say I felt that. The vulnerability during this episode was hitting. I love y’all and welcome back 🤍
Yeah it's different having to wait on other people to come get you and you're on their time not yours. It's different when you can just get up and go and not have to depend on anyone but I understand what she was saying about how she had everyone in her car but no one would call her or ask if she needed a ride or anything. It's super depressing. She just needs better friends and to learn how to communicate what she wants, needs, and expects from people. I had to learn that hard lesson because even Paris said it, it's on her at the end of the day. You can't give your all to people because the moment you realize they aren't reciporating, you gotta bounce or take a step back.
My biggest goal this year is to have that same type of energy Paris gives. Shes so wise and her energy and soul is just so positive and beautiful & I can see it
i don’t feel like they’re judging kayla. their intentions seem pure. they just want kayla to want more for herself and i think we all want that for her. she holds onto things that no longer serves purpose in her life and downplays the pain she had in the past because it “wasn’t that bad” but it was boo 😢 i really like her and want her to have more going on for herself .
@@Theofficialkaylamarie I’m praying you find the right one for you (girl get you one that’s a black woman too) and get all the healing you need!! Therapy changed my life so much and my like internal thought process like it trained it to think and do better for me.
No shade No tea, this felt like y’all was making a point to not hear how Kayla felt only because you can’t relate, it wasn’t no support for how she feels, sometimes it’s not about your solutions because I’m sure a person who feels down already thought of their own solutions, just a “I hear you girl, i feel you, I’m here” could go a long way for somebody to untie all those mental knots and put those solutions into action …speaking from experience, I’m 35 and trust I’ve been through almost everything y’all been through & might go through…you beautiful ladies have a good head on your shoulders, keeping supporting each other, it’s rare❤
i Agree I feel like there was no love towards her I love watching the podcast because seeing a group of females come together and talk about situations that most women go through is very powerful and most of all relatable, I feel like like that's the whole reason why I watched them is for the relatable aspect but I just feel like this episode was very different I hope everyone. support each other and They keep growing as a group
I think that y’all are not understanding they probably have been having these convos with Kayla for a long ass time, at a certain point when someone keeps shooting down your solutions and trying to make everything sad and depressing what else is somebody supposed to do ?!!?!
@@kaylab5107 I get that, maybe ask “how can we support you cus we keep giving solutions and you ain’t taking them sis” 😂 eventually if somebody keep shutting down my my solutions I’ll just let them talk
@@Theofficialkaylamarie kayla in the most respectful way… you hold on to things that no longer serve you purpose, it’s okay to move on especially from someone who did you wrong don’t down play the hurt you receive just because it wasn’t “that bad” just know anything that isn’t God ordained will never be so if they left or you left let it be that . The world is so big and you are beautiful LITERALLY stop allowing that space and opportunity for ex people from the past. Stay mysterious and out they face!
Kayla babe don't be afraid to walk or use other modes of transportation. Smoke a blunt, take a walk, & ask god to show you how to ATTRACT what you need and I guarantee you god will reveal signs to you. You could meet someone on your walks or on public transportation that can change your life. Since you spend a lot of your time at home its time for you to create your OWN platform! You have a beautiful light & its time for you to be seen! You've been through so much and people can learn a lot from you! You got this boo 💗
kayla in the most respectful way… you hold on to things that no longer serve you purpose, it’s okay to move on especially from someone who did you wrong don’t down play the hurt you receive just because it wasn’t “that bad” just know anything that isn’t God ordained will never be so if they left or you left let it be that . The world is so big and you are beautiful LITERALLY stop allowing that space and opportunity for ex people from the past. Stay mysterious and out they face!
@Theofficialkaylamarie Love I know absolutely nothing about you but from what I see/ hear you don't have enough going on. You said you've been chilling and turning up (smoking) for the most part. Turning up aint cheap- all this being said from experience not judgment. I took public transportation when needed with a child cause I dont wait on no one or nothing. Honestly, I've never seen people with no kids be so... without, so I really just don't get it. I'm dealing with this laxadaisical mentality from my 22 yo son and I fall back cause this generation likes to be coddled, cant take criticism, and be too in their feelings. You'll get it together in whatever time is meant for you, but it seems like you're complacent to your situation rather than working diligent to get out out of it, by any means necessary (without harming others)
@@mznaturallyfit Love you dont know. I been chilling and in the house cause I am saving for what I need to save for. See I am ok with making sacrifices to get where I NEED TO GET. I simply tell yall what I feel not what I do in my life. But I will let you think however you please.
stand on business, Kayla. you're genuine, you're kind, caring & nice. you need to protect your energy. learn when to share your energy and when to preserve. no means no whatever the context. things related to things you're healing from don't have to be around.
Kayla is so real as an only child I get what she's saying there like this emptiness with being the only person to love yourself especially for extended periods of time
Why is kayla so relatable, abd very vulnerable like it hits different being the mother friend then the no car phase or being told what she "should" do its different for eveyone friends should understand that, or only reanan (if i spelled that wrong sorry) listening to her mentally like i need a reanan 😭
On this episode I especially felt that they could have empathized with Kayla .. you can see her energy looks drained and she’s holding back emotions because she doesn’t feel safe I relate and understand how she may be feeling I would love to see her go solo and talk from the heart❤ love all the ladies though good topic !!!!
Kayla I 100% feel you. I had no car for 6 months, mind you i lived in a small town in NC with noooo Uber drivers. None of my “friends” came to scoop me up or visit. I was losing it. I had never been so down bad but once I got my car most of my problems got solved. I too was also “waiting” to save up for the car that I wanted but honestly my mental health was getting so bad so I just bought a car off FB market 😅, now I don’t have to deal w a car note! And yes I dropped them friends!
@@keii1744 girl I cold turkey blocked them. In this case for me it was like a “trash takes itself out” situation. They stopped reaching out as soon as I was down so I didn’t feel the need to reach out and explain why they were getting blocked. I wish I could have told them how I felt and had some type of closure, for my sake and theirs, but sometimes some people don’t even deserve that, especially when the issue is blatantly obvious.
Kayla baby I love you so much, you are so beautiful mama but I want you to want more for yourself fr. You deserve soooooo much better, in order to heal you gone have to protect your energy and stay away from the guy and his new situation
i'm so glad you were vulnerable here kayla. i understood how you felt 100% i do wish the rest of the girls were more empathetic? even if they are tired of repeating the same things. i've noticed they kinda are a bit harsh when it comes to kayla. even in another video kayla was expressing how she felt and NO ONE said anything idk i feel like people need to give kayla some more grace, she's young and still figuring out this life sh*t, we all are. i get you on the girl's girl thing. i am too but at the same time don't be too comfortable doing things that a another girl wouldn't do for you. i am nice as well but i've been learning to set boundaries and not let anyone walk over me. gotta put you first kayla. love you girl! sending you love.
yeahhh like that “walk” shit was not cool at all. and then to bring up taking the train in New York for a day while on a trip? that’s our main transportation & absolute no comparison or correlation to the struggle kayla was expressing.
@@autumn2you right! majority of nyc's population has no choice but to take the train in ny. they know they wouldn't walk either if they were in kayla's shoes. even with getting an uber/lyft, those rides aren't cheap and it adds up. i def feel for her.
Kayla needs to realize that just because you’ll do it for them doesn’t mean they’re the type of people who will do it for you. You need to find better friends if that’s really the case, always not trying to take the metro is crazy girl just go on it I promise you it won’t be as bad as you think, as long as you get to the location babe 😭
It's different, though, when you are bigger. It's uncomfortable, and people treat bigger people like shit so I understand not wanting to go much less by herself. It's crazy out here and if people think they can take advantage, they will and just by listening to her, she is still not strong enough to just say no to people out of fear of hurting someone.
OMG please never stop these types of podcasts i literally have never related more and i love the section of talking about living alone and not having true friends that value u and not having a car being depressed etc. Kayla was real relatable and its hard to go to family at times especially when they have their own stuff it’s not easy you can’t rely on everyone i get that. please have more videos on these topics its so healing i love yall so muchh 💝💝
I over feel you Kayla...Thats that big heart! So giving,so open to welcome everyone only to be in need and look around and the support is few and far between🥺 Never change ur loving spirit, just ask God for discernment and to keep the users far away...its gonna get better,its really hard and hurtful to experience just know a pure heart ALWAYS WINS
Love the pod but Kayla needs to have more respect for her self. She’s so worried about being a “girls girl” and being nice to the point where she’s forgetting about “being nice” to herself. Hope she can grow and heal frm this.
I loved this episode it was worth the wait.I agree with Kayla about loving yourself but still wanting affection and an emotional connection with someone not just physical.
kayla is such a pisces because everything she was saying like is the way i think to and this whole episode was a vibe and i really learned from this video love yall downnnn btw i need another hotboxxx🫶🏽🫶🏽
Not having a car is the biggest stressful thing ever, nobody knows how it feels unless you went thru it, having a car and going on a scooter to zara or a store for fun isn’t the same as not having a car at all and having to go on a scooter or whatever. Kayla why you lease a car or something ??
I think you have to have a large sum of money up front for that. And to make payments on something you can't have once paid off is crazy. It's not cheap or cheaper to do.
@@LavenderDream-j5h that’s true, I’m also wondering tho shouldn’t at least one of her friends have a connection to someone who sells auctioned cars maybe help her on a car to pay every month for without no contract, I know some people who do that
This was DEFINITELY a topic that needed to be covered and i am so thankful i watched it. All y’alls opinion and advice really helped me because i needed to hear this. THANK YOU🙌🏼
14:42 I struggle with this! When relationships or friendships have ended, I did look back a few times 😩 IDK WHY but every time I’ve looked back before i was truly done
Kayla I can relate to u a lot. It could be the Pisces in us but remember this as cliche as it is if u love someone you will let them go. It’s such a hard reality. if you really start pouring all that love you give to others into yourself even when u get lonely or feel lost that right man going to be on the other side of your healing. And most of all Jesus can help u get there too. Much love 💖
i agree with kayla, some moms do not respect their sons relationship and both intentionally and unintentionally sabotage it. so although i do agree with payton that the relationship between a parent and their child’s partner does matters and it would be ideal if it was a positive one - i also believe that if that relationship (parent & child’s partner) isn’t positive it shouldn’t define the relationship of that child and their partner.
Sometimes it seems that when Kayla is expressing herself or saying something…Payton is trying to say ANYTHING opposite from Kayla. Relax girl. Kayla you’re heard girly🫶🏾
THIS!!! its so weird and then payton always telling random facts about niggas and what they do who cares if somebody wrote on ur window saying "I miss us" just to show she has them its like k...kayla choose yourself over disrespect or lack of respect for your situation or anything you say. i find it crazy how many times you spoke and they said nothing....
yall were a lil dense with the car shit😂 it’s hard to save when you have to take Ubers everywhere, as well as tackle all your other bills like rent. We don’t all have a parent/friends we can call for a ride and don’t wanna be a burden to them. Kayla you gotta get on ya zoom and do this yt shit. You’ll have a car by September just start uploading videos on your own channel and time, you don’t gotta wait on others. if we can see how your being treated, why can’t you?
She literally named the 3 girls at the table, Kayla (her other friend), her mom, her sisters...it's not like she has NOBODY. She made it seem like she's all alone.
Kayla, I hope you are doing well. I understand what you are saying about being alone. You crave attention, affection, and to be loved. We all do. Living alone can be exciting at first but after a while especially if you aren't super busy all the time or don't know what you want to do yet in life it will leave you feeling stuck and alone in your thoughts. Trying to figure out the next move or dewelling on the past or past relationships. Sometimes, it's nice to have people who will check in on you regularly to make sure you're good, but unfortunately, we don't always get that. Don't worry, find your niche or lock in on your faith (which i recommend the most) because this life is not it. You have to worry about the eternal one more. Everything will be okay. When you feel lonely pray and talk to God. I promise you he will fill that void.
I loved this conversation. And the table really just shows the different traits & characteristics of the zodiac too😂 so many elements. and like kayla, im a pisces and very fluid with my emotions and alot of people are not in tune so we always seem misunderstood. this is a powerful friend group like modern day sex and the city! keep holding each other up in sisterhood💞💞💞 the fav cry songs was funny af🤣 the hannah montana movie hit us different
I just was thinking about y’all and boom now look lol I’m so happy to see everyone is back. Now about Kayla, not too much on her lol but I get where she’s coming from. Having no car do be stressful and other than Uber/lyft don’t nobody wants to take the bus to take care of business. Also, y’all can give her all the suggestions in the world but if her mind is stuck on that one thing, it ain’t happening. Just let her vent and listen. I’ve learned this with my friends and it helps because they mostly only want to be heard. Trust me she hear y’all😂 We see her realizing a lot and let it continue to happen. We all have to grow and see things for ourselves❤
YESSSS finally podcast that don’t need to be a member to see thank u and I missed y’all so much you don’t know yay I’m so tuning the fuck innnn okaaayyy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 #HIGHLY OFFICIAL
I love this friendship, since day 1 but Definitely feel like as a group you got to let each other speak and get it out even if you think it might be sum BS in your eyes. However I think you guys give each other great loving & HONEST advice.
I see both sides Self love is really important. Im a depressed babe for sure but i FORCE myself to do things. I do puzzles, shop, smoke, craft and i started working out now because im not attracting what im used to so im making sure i self care myself till its just a part of my life and ill attract what i need after that. I had to just put relationships on hold. I used to never be able to be alone now i crave it.
Paris always givin Aquarius energy bec baby one thing about it if we are serious I’m only gone cry about the break up for 3 days that’s the most time it get the after we up and running like ain’t nun happened ain’t nun of that oh I’m gone keep crying and going back we be ready to move on with our lives and welcome a new chapter like Paris said and for us we are good with being alone so a relationship don’t make or break us we would like one but we ain’t the type to just allow a person to have us out there like that cause to us that going out sad in our mind for ourselves I remember my first heartbreak I literally only was sad for 2 days and shook that sh*t off
yall would post when im on a tolerance break. lol im so used to smoking whie watching yall it feels weird but either way happy to see a video with just the 4 of yall ❤
To the individual who is reading this please quit overthinking everything every day and night . Stop obsessing over your failures. Stop doubting yourself and seeing the greatness in everyone else but you. You are better than that. You deserve more. Start showing up differently to yourself. Believe in yourself. God wont ever hand you something you cant handle. You are a star in this world . may God bless whoever sees this
ThankYou
May God bless you the same❤️
Amen 😊
this is so kind! i struggle all day everyday with this
Thank you💗same to you!
Paris is literally so pretty!! Like I just be staring at ms girl
!!!
@@deannaaakayy okay! And i saw her say she really haven’t been doing makeup that long. I woulda thought she was a mua too! But her skin is flawless so that really helps.
Same!!!!! Paris is a doll🥰❣️🤌🏿💁🏿♀️🧜🏿♀️💅🏿
She’s so Adorbs 💗
on mamas
That no car phase will literally have you sad af idc what nobody say I felt that. The vulnerability during this episode was hitting. I love y’all and welcome back 🤍
Yesssss it’s so easy to get depressed catching a bus or riding a bike or something is not the same at all
My car got impounded last month i felt like a cr*ckhe*d how bad i wanted my car back 😂😭
Yeah it's different having to wait on other people to come get you and you're on their time not yours. It's different when you can just get up and go and not have to depend on anyone but I understand what she was saying about how she had everyone in her car but no one would call her or ask if she needed a ride or anything. It's super depressing. She just needs better friends and to learn how to communicate what she wants, needs, and expects from people. I had to learn that hard lesson because even Paris said it, it's on her at the end of the day. You can't give your all to people because the moment you realize they aren't reciporating, you gotta bounce or take a step back.
no fr i bought my first new car last year and it ended up being a lemon i haven’t been no where in a year i’ve been down BADDD😩😩😭
yes!!!!
My biggest goal this year is to have that same type of energy Paris gives. Shes so wise and her energy and soul is just so positive and beautiful & I can see it
i don’t feel like they’re judging kayla. their intentions seem pure. they just want kayla to want more for herself and i think we all want that for her. she holds onto things that no longer serves purpose in her life and downplays the pain she had in the past because it “wasn’t that bad” but it was boo 😢 i really like her and want her to have more going on for herself .
Yessss I want her to go to therapy so bad
Yessss, I believe they just want her to place some boundaries to protect herself. I like kayla tho 💓
@@janetjanetttt yes I have learned I need a therapist. I vent to the wrong people fs
Exactly
@@Theofficialkaylamarie I’m praying you find the right one for you (girl get you one that’s a black woman too) and get all the healing you need!! Therapy changed my life so much and my like internal thought process like it trained it to think and do better for me.
No shade No tea, this felt like y’all was making a point to not hear how Kayla felt only because you can’t relate, it wasn’t no support for how she feels, sometimes it’s not about your solutions because I’m sure a person who feels down already thought of their own solutions, just a “I hear you girl, i feel you, I’m here” could go a long way for somebody to untie all those mental knots and put those solutions into action …speaking from experience, I’m 35 and trust I’ve been through almost everything y’all been through & might go through…you beautiful ladies have a good head on your shoulders, keeping supporting each other, it’s rare❤
i Agree I feel like there was no love towards her I love watching the podcast because seeing a group of females come together and talk about situations that most women go through is very powerful and most of all relatable, I feel like like that's the whole reason why I watched them is for the relatable aspect but I just feel like this episode was very different I hope everyone. support each other and They keep growing as a group
I think that y’all are not understanding they probably have been having these convos with Kayla for a long ass time, at a certain point when someone keeps shooting down your solutions and trying to make everything sad and depressing what else is somebody supposed to do ?!!?!
@@kaylab5107 I get that, maybe ask “how can we support you cus we keep giving solutions and you ain’t taking them sis” 😂 eventually if somebody keep shutting down my my solutions I’ll just let them talk
I agree they don’t want to validate hr efforts to grow ! Smh
right i peep how they treat her😢
Ion know if i should cuss yall out or be happy 😂😂WHERE HAVE YALL BEEN!! 😭
Same 😂
Muah love ya 😂🫶🏽
Okay! I was bout to start dming them !
@@Theofficialkaylamarie kayla in the most respectful way… you hold on to things that no
longer serve you purpose, it’s okay to
move on especially from someone who did you wrong don’t down play the hurt you receive just because it wasn’t “that bad” just know anything that isn’t God ordained will never be so if they left or you left let it be that . The world is so big and you are beautiful LITERALLY stop allowing that space and opportunity for ex people from the past. Stay mysterious and out they face!
@@jaidahgee💯💯 she too real for ppl i swear
Kayla babe don't be afraid to walk or use other modes of transportation. Smoke a blunt, take a walk, & ask god to show you how to ATTRACT what you need and I guarantee you god will reveal signs to you. You could meet someone on your walks or on public transportation that can change your life. Since you spend a lot of your time at home its time for you to create your OWN platform! You have a beautiful light & its time for you to be seen! You've been through so much and people can learn a lot from you! You got this boo 💗
it’ll be a cold day in hell before paris has a bad hair day!!
When Kayla said “I’m eating MORE” literally bro😭😭😭 one thing imma try to do is eat the pain away😫
Nah fr tho me rn 😂
kayla in the most respectful way… you hold on to things that no
longer serve you purpose, it’s okay to
move on especially from someone who did you wrong don’t down play the hurt you receive just because it wasn’t “that bad” just know anything that isn’t God ordained will never be so if they left or you left let it be that . The world is so big and you are beautiful LITERALLY stop allowing that space and opportunity for ex people from the past. Stay mysterious and out they face!
She doesn't have enough going on for herself imo.
@@mznaturallyfit I hope she gets herself out of this rut. She said herself she’s just been chilling & drinking. Shits rough out here.
@@mznaturallyfit Who are you to tell me I don't have a enough going on lmaooo. Yall think yall know so much and know so little ....
@Theofficialkaylamarie Love I know absolutely nothing about you but from what I see/ hear you don't have enough going on. You said you've been chilling and turning up (smoking) for the most part. Turning up aint cheap- all this being said from experience not judgment. I took public transportation when needed with a child cause I dont wait on no one or nothing. Honestly, I've never seen people with no kids be so... without, so I really just don't get it. I'm dealing with this laxadaisical mentality from my 22 yo son and I fall back cause this generation likes to be coddled, cant take criticism, and be too in their feelings. You'll get it together in whatever time is meant for you, but it seems like you're complacent to your situation rather than working diligent to get out out of it, by any means necessary (without harming others)
@@mznaturallyfit Love you dont know. I been chilling and in the house cause I am saving for what I need to save for. See I am ok with making sacrifices to get where I NEED TO GET. I simply tell yall what I feel not what I do in my life. But I will let you think however you please.
stand on business, Kayla. you're genuine, you're kind, caring & nice. you need to protect your energy. learn when to share your energy and when to preserve. no means no whatever the context. things related to things you're healing from don't have to be around.
Kayla is so real as an only child I get what she's saying there like this emptiness with being the only person to love yourself especially for extended periods of time
This!!
on sum rs kayla needa lock in on yt fr 💯 id watch her if she post anything fr ! she could blow up n get her any car she want if she put her mind to it
Read this Kayla
No fr
Yess !!
This she’s my favorite personality and would honestly prefer her away from them I personally feel she’s too good of a person for this friend group
deadass
Why is kayla so relatable, abd very vulnerable like it hits different being the mother friend then the no car phase or being told what she "should" do its different for eveyone friends should understand that, or only reanan (if i spelled that wrong sorry) listening to her mentally like i need a reanan 😭
On this episode I especially felt that they could have empathized with Kayla .. you can see her energy looks drained and she’s holding back emotions because she doesn’t feel safe I relate and understand how she may be feeling I would love to see her go solo and talk from the heart❤ love all the ladies though good topic !!!!
Kayla I 100% feel you. I had no car for 6 months, mind you i lived in a small town in NC with noooo Uber drivers. None of my “friends” came to scoop me up or visit. I was losing it. I had never been so down bad but once I got my car most of my problems got solved. I too was also “waiting” to save up for the car that I wanted but honestly my mental health was getting so bad so I just bought a car off FB market 😅, now I don’t have to deal w a car note!
And yes I dropped them friends!
@@keii1744 girl I cold turkey blocked them. In this case for me it was like a “trash takes itself out” situation. They stopped reaching out as soon as I was down so I didn’t feel the need to reach out and explain why they were getting blocked.
I wish I could have told them how I felt and had some type of closure, for my sake and theirs, but sometimes some people don’t even deserve that, especially when the issue is blatantly obvious.
Kayla baby I love you so much, you are so beautiful mama but I want you to want more for yourself fr. You deserve soooooo much better, in order to heal you gone have to protect your energy and stay away from the guy and his new situation
I hope Kayla is okay. she looks so sad in most of this :(
i noticed this too :/ hope she’s okay outside of the podcast
Just made the same comment.
Honestly worried about her and everything she’s saying reflects how depressed she is
cuz their rude asf
I like how yall being real with Kayla tho ,they just not agreeing with her because that’s yall friend. I love friends that’s realllll !
i'm so glad you were vulnerable here kayla. i understood how you felt 100% i do wish the rest of the girls were more empathetic? even if they are tired of repeating the same things. i've noticed they kinda are a bit harsh when it comes to kayla. even in another video kayla was expressing how she felt and NO ONE said anything idk i feel like people need to give kayla some more grace, she's young and still figuring out this life sh*t, we all are. i get you on the girl's girl thing. i am too but at the same time don't be too comfortable doing things that a another girl wouldn't do for you. i am nice as well but i've been learning to set boundaries and not let anyone walk over me. gotta put you first kayla. love you girl! sending you love.
yeahhh like that “walk” shit was not cool at all. and then to bring up taking the train in New York for a day while on a trip? that’s our main transportation & absolute no comparison or correlation to the struggle kayla was expressing.
@@autumn2you right! majority of nyc's population has no choice but to take the train in ny. they know they wouldn't walk either if they were in kayla's shoes. even with getting an uber/lyft, those rides aren't cheap and it adds up. i def feel for her.
Kayla needs to realize that just because you’ll do it for them doesn’t mean they’re the type of people who will do it for you. You need to find better friends if that’s really the case, always not trying to take the metro is crazy girl just go on it I promise you it won’t be as bad as you think, as long as you get to the location babe 😭
It's different, though, when you are bigger. It's uncomfortable, and people treat bigger people like shit so I understand not wanting to go much less by herself. It's crazy out here and if people think they can take advantage, they will and just by listening to her, she is still not strong enough to just say no to people out of fear of hurting someone.
Paris is so Aquarius & I resonate so much!
OMG please never stop these types of podcasts i literally have never related more and i love the section of talking about living alone and not having true friends that value u and not having a car being depressed etc. Kayla was real relatable and its hard to go to family at times especially when they have their own stuff it’s not easy you can’t rely on everyone i get that. please have more videos on these topics its so healing i love yall so muchh 💝💝
also i agree with payton you should go for a walk and it seems pointless sometimes but just go out the house and have a little date with yourself
I over feel you Kayla...Thats that big heart! So giving,so open to welcome everyone only to be in need and look around and the support is few and far between🥺 Never change ur loving spirit, just ask God for discernment and to keep the users far away...its gonna get better,its really hard and hurtful to experience just know a pure heart ALWAYS WINS
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wish I could give Kayla a hug !!! you’re doing amazing girl 💕
Love the pod but Kayla needs to have more respect for her self. She’s so worried about being a “girls girl” and being nice to the point where she’s forgetting about “being nice” to herself. Hope she can grow and heal frm this.
It takes time !!!
I loved this episode it was worth the wait.I agree with Kayla about loving yourself but still wanting affection and an emotional connection with someone not just physical.
kayla is such a pisces because everything she was saying like is the way i think to and this whole episode was a vibe and i really learned from this video love yall downnnn btw i need another hotboxxx🫶🏽🫶🏽
Why soo much on Kayla ? We are young & learning
when Kayla said she’s gonna walk out the door😂😂😂😂 but Kayla you gon get out this rut soon, you got this!
Not having a car is the biggest stressful thing ever, nobody knows how it feels unless you went thru it, having a car and going on a scooter to zara or a store for fun isn’t the same as not having a car at all and having to go on a scooter or whatever. Kayla why you lease a car or something ??
I think you have to have a large sum of money up front for that. And to make payments on something you can't have once paid off is crazy. It's not cheap or cheaper to do.
@@LavenderDream-j5h that’s true, I’m also wondering tho shouldn’t at least one of her friends have a connection to someone who sells auctioned cars maybe help her on a car to pay every month for without no contract, I know some people who do that
Paris’s makeup is hella cute
Her makeup always eats
@@preciousfinley9661every single time 😭
This was DEFINITELY a topic that needed to be covered and i am so thankful i watched it. All y’alls opinion and advice really helped me because i needed to hear this. THANK YOU🙌🏼
14:42 I struggle with this! When relationships or friendships have ended, I did look back a few times 😩 IDK WHY but every time I’ve looked back before i was truly done
Kayla I hear you
i love kayla, we’re both the same signs and i just feel her completely. you got this boo!
Kayla I can relate to u a lot. It could be the Pisces in us but remember this as cliche as it is if u love someone you will let them go. It’s such a hard reality. if you really start pouring all that love you give to others into yourself even when u get lonely or feel lost that right man going to be on the other side of your healing. And most of all Jesus can help u get there too. Much love 💖
i agree with kayla, some moms do not respect their sons relationship and both intentionally and unintentionally sabotage it. so although i do agree with payton that the relationship between a parent and their child’s partner does matters and it would be ideal if it was a positive one - i also believe that if that relationship (parent & child’s partner) isn’t positive it shouldn’t define the relationship of that child and their partner.
I’m so happy yall touched on friend breakups because it’s not talked about enough and it’s just as equal as a relationship breakup to me 💔
Sometimes it seems that when Kayla is expressing herself or saying something…Payton is trying to say ANYTHING opposite from Kayla. Relax girl.
Kayla you’re heard girly🫶🏾
yesss bro
THIS!!! its so weird and then payton always telling random facts about niggas and what they do who cares if somebody wrote on ur window saying "I miss us" just to show she has them its like k...kayla choose yourself over disrespect or lack of respect for your situation or anything you say. i find it crazy how many times you spoke and they said nothing....
no i noticed this too lol, i like peyton but shits kinda odd 😟
That thumbnail is literally so adorable🥰🥰all the girlzzzz
Paris looks amazing 🥰
been binge watching videos for about a month now, i love them! keep up the good work
Kayla at 14:58😭😭 dawg there’s no way lmaoooo, i love her
😂😂😂😂😂
yall were a lil dense with the car shit😂 it’s hard to save when you have to take Ubers everywhere, as well as tackle all your other bills like rent. We don’t all have a parent/friends we can call for a ride and don’t wanna be a burden to them.
Kayla you gotta get on ya zoom and do this yt shit. You’ll have a car by September just start uploading videos on your own channel and time, you don’t gotta wait on others. if we can see how your being treated, why can’t you?
She literally named the 3 girls at the table, Kayla (her other friend), her mom, her sisters...it's not like she has NOBODY. She made it seem like she's all alone.
Kayla, I hope you are doing well. I understand what you are saying about being alone. You crave attention, affection, and to be loved. We all do. Living alone can be exciting at first but after a while especially if you aren't super busy all the time or don't know what you want to do yet in life it will leave you feeling stuck and alone in your thoughts. Trying to figure out the next move or dewelling on the past or past relationships. Sometimes, it's nice to have people who will check in on you regularly to make sure you're good, but unfortunately, we don't always get that. Don't worry, find your niche or lock in on your faith (which i recommend the most) because this life is not it. You have to worry about the eternal one more. Everything will be okay. When you feel lonely pray and talk to God. I promise you he will fill that void.
u guys are my favorite podcast to watch please post more 😭💕🙏🏼
Omg y’all so relatable when you sad you really wanna just stay in that mood lol guess it’s a reminder😂😂😭
I loved this conversation. And the table really just shows the different traits & characteristics of the zodiac too😂 so many elements. and like kayla, im a pisces and very fluid with my emotions and alot of people are not in tune so we always seem misunderstood. this is a powerful friend group like modern day sex and the city! keep holding each other up in sisterhood💞💞💞 the fav cry songs was funny af🤣 the hannah montana movie hit us different
i wanna be mad yall been gone but this episode is so good!!! glad to have you all back 🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🥺🥺🥺🥺🥺
I just was thinking about y’all and boom now look lol I’m so happy to see everyone is back. Now about Kayla, not too much on her lol but I get where she’s coming from. Having no car do be stressful and other than Uber/lyft don’t nobody wants to take the bus to take care of business. Also, y’all can give her all the suggestions in the world but if her mind is stuck on that one thing, it ain’t happening. Just let her vent and listen. I’ve learned this with my friends and it helps because they mostly only want to be heard. Trust me she hear y’all😂 We see her realizing a lot and let it continue to happen. We all have to grow and see things for ourselves❤
Kayla is hilarious I love her, and the edits from the editor 😂😂😂😂
this was a NEEDED episode from yall !! keep it up. appreciate yall 💗💗
love when Paris hit us with the “not gonna yie “😭😭 love y’all
I love Paris and her energy throughout this podcast. This was such a great conversation ladies
I honestly love being single and staying alone it’s so peaceful my house is my sanctuary
I seen the title in ran cause this My year all about me Love you ladies energy and what y’all doing ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Missed ya’ll ladies so much just a breath of fresh airrrrr love ya’ll ❤️❤️❤️❤️
paris looks so beautiful she’s glowing!!
PARIS AGAIN WITH THE FLAWLESS BEEAATT😍😍😍 her face eat so bad with and without makeup bro
Love the podcast ladies! Kayla you are beautiful and self aware and that is growth, girl. ❤
Kayla gets it
I am glad you guys are back on camera. I miss you girlie topic is a one I am living for it. I agree with everything you guys are saying.
This was a good episode. Wishing all of you the best ! 💙
YES KAYLAAAA MY BRAIDS LAST FOR TWO MONTHS AND MY REAL HAIR GROWS SO FAST FROM IT
Kayla, I hear you Gurl! We actually think Alike 🫶🏿🫶🏿
YESSSS finally podcast that don’t need to be a member to see thank u and I missed y’all so much you don’t know yay I’m so tuning the fuck innnn okaaayyy🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉❤❤❤❤❤❤😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊😊 #HIGHLY OFFICIAL
I love when Paris said, “Idk, I eat” lmaooo same girl, same!
I love this friendship, since day 1 but Definitely feel like as a group you got to let each other speak and get it out even if you think it might be sum BS in your eyes. However I think you guys give each other great loving & HONEST advice.
Its interesting because everyones so different and i feel each and every one of ya. This was a great podcast loved it ♥️
I say that quote about everything.. Relationships, clothes, w/e , DO WHAT WORKS FOR YOU ! 🎯💯
Hey now !!🤣im loaded already 🕺🙌💜
I see both sides Self love is really important. Im a depressed babe for sure but i FORCE myself to do things. I do puzzles, shop, smoke, craft and i started working out now because im not attracting what im used to so im making sure i self care myself till its just a part of my life and ill attract what i need after that. I had to just put relationships on hold. I used to never be able to be alone now i crave it.
Oh yall came at that PERFECT 👏🏾TIME 👏🏾
Finally my favs dropped! 💕✨
Paris always givin Aquarius energy bec baby one thing about it if we are serious I’m only gone cry about the break up for 3 days that’s the most time it get the after we up and running like ain’t nun happened ain’t nun of that oh I’m gone keep crying and going back we be ready to move on with our lives and welcome a new chapter like Paris said and for us we are good with being alone so a relationship don’t make or break us we would like one but we ain’t the type to just allow a person to have us out there like that cause to us that going out sad in our mind for ourselves I remember my first heartbreak I literally only was sad for 2 days and shook that sh*t off
Y’all gonna make me cry, I be feeling alone even if I have people around me but it’s me going through trauma
Tell that trauma to chill out and learn to enjoy the moment you are in rn ❤
@@xotw6455 OMGGGGG Y DIDNT I THINK OF THIS SOONER LIKE GEE THANKS 😆easy peasyyy😫
Jesus is always with you you’re never alone
Damn 😢I understand her pain and nobody understands her everything easier said than done I hope she gets a car and her situation gets better
That no car phase ain’t no joke
@@annep7602 she had a car b4 i forgot what happened
@@SunnyBby yeah but she currently doesn't have one
yall would post when im on a tolerance break. lol im so used to smoking whie watching yall it feels weird but either way happy to see a video with just the 4 of yall ❤
Girl keep doing your thang I don’t know u but I’m proud of u and keep going long as u can 🤞🏽
@@urielsmith3248 Thank you!! it aint been easy but its worth it fr
mannn Paris always drops the gems!! 45:27
That car conversation 😒… Kayla I’ve been there
Everyone is glowwwww-ingggggggg ❤
Now FAMILY HEARTBREAKS hurt more than all. Like you were supposed to love me unconditionally as I do you, and you CHOSE to hurt me, multiple times.
The gang back together periodddddddd
Missed y’all real bad 🫶🏾
I missed you guys ❤❤❤
Kayla need her own mf yt channel rs
THIS VERY RELATABLE YOUNG LADY
Alright now it’s been 2 weeks 👀 don’t take another “ break “ I like watching y’all while I’m lashing lol !
LMAOOO we filming this weekend
Almost forgot about y’all don’t take no breaks I’m w Kayla love y’all💕💕
I love this 💗 Kayla you beautiful !
cmon yall we need more episodes…yall could blow up fr but these 12 episodes for 8 months aint it
Kayla my favorite she real af
I relate to Kayla so much it’s just that season rn for certain ppl
i love pariss shes so real
I was just thinking about yall 🎉🎉
“ good hair twitter” LMAOOO MISSED YALLL
I completely understand kayla....its the water sign in her yall dont be understanding.
I love Kaylaaaa🧡
Glad to see yall back at it!!!!! ❤