My toxic trait is thinking that I can turn my whole life around in less than a month. 😂 I definitely needed to hear this. My goals are at the moon, and skills are in the Mariana trench. I'm using this advice right now. I'm tired of not meeting my goals.
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Please keep these coming you have no idea how much these are helping me. It’s a process but I can do it. Glad there’s a woman to inspire other women because some of us need it.
This was an eye opener. I am a big procrastinator and this just helped me to understand why I’m not getting my things done. The methods that you should I’ll definitely try them. Thank you so much for the advice. Hope you come with more cause damn girl you making want to cry cause it’s so real.
Last night i had the most honest prayer with god and i said “God I’m stuck I really need guidance and i need help” I woke up do my regular routine and boom your video pops up thank you so much for this advice its truly helpful and time put it to use.
One thing I’ve noticed while leveling up, is that it’s very humbling, and you can make a lot of mistakes. This can scare you at first, because everything is new. And when you’re leveling up, you’re bound to make mistakes just like any rookie would. Courage to press on is what’s needed, because it’s pretty easy to lose hope, when you feel like you’ve done everything, and things may not align. I have been working on my courage, and my courage to be the dream that I have for myself. a lot of us are just scared, and fear is what makes you stagnant. Embrace the humbling, and be courageous enough to move forward.👑
I just made a comment about this, and then I scrolled down and saw your comment. You are exactly right! I, myself was doing too much and felt like I was getting no where. Let me slow down and complete one goal at a time.
I’m a visual learner, so the way you broke this down was so easy for me to understand! A simple concept, but delivered in a great way! “Perfectionism is just delaying the goal” yes! Thank you! 💗 Also…you are gifted in this area, you are a teacher, it’s all over you. Truly your ministry 🙏🏾. Please keep the content coming!
This is exactly what I experienced last week, I was so overwhelmed with work and was even crying because I had the toughest list which is tiring for me emotionally. I finally decided to do one thing out of the list that day and by the time I woke up and did that small thing which was communicating with a client, I was able to do another small thing at the end of the day and I just decided that that was my new best productivity hack and I stuck to it. Each day now I complete 80% of my task and I am so relaxed and able to do more.
That baby analogy is exactly what I needed to hear, before we all learned to walk we learned to stand, crawl, and scoot, and we were celebrated at each milestone! I need to keep that in mind instead of seeking perfection at the very beginning, it is truly a process and I’ve been better at celebrating my milestones no matter how small they may seem
Bro in flabbergasted actually. Damn. I did not expect to cry the way I did. When you were talking about insecurities with packing lots of things onto our plate, but scared that it’s just going to end dropping, & the shattered faith in our ability to execute successfully, I started crying. Even though I’ve been in this funk for the first half of the year, I claim that I’m moving forward with the best glow up known to man. I sincerely appreciate you and I am extremely happy that you are my new big sis. I also loved that. I was doing my self care while watching you, & I can definitely feel my higher self doing this a lot more. I look forward to more self-care days with you rewiring my programming and me applying my new set of instructions.
I never comment but if it boosts your content I'm more than willing! You seem so approachable and real in comparison to so many other motivational TH-camrs. I can see you care and that means so much to me. Thank you!!
I definitely agree with you, I had way too many goals on my plate last year (2023) I was doing too much, and it caused me to burnout and become stressed. Working, running an esthetic business, Etsy site, selling journals on amazon, girlfriend duties, trying to grow on social media and other things. I took a break cold turkey from everything this year between January-March including deactivating my socials. I needed to reset. I'm focusing on my three Hardest goals for the remainder of the year.
This video definitely opened my eyes. I have so many goals, things I want to achieve and places I want to be. But I get too overwhelmed or try to focus on all of it at once. Definitely gonna make a list and go one at a time
So real! I appreciate that you mentioned the forever student because I find myself binge consuming information in the pretense of preparation. But it's procrastination at its finest. Proud to say I watched this on the treadmill (I've been trying to get into the gym for weeks)
Thank you so much! I really needed this reality check. I tend to put to much on my plate at once and will execute it “perfectly” and then in about 3-4 days I’m falling off and it takes weeks to recover. I need to remember to take it slow & figure out my priorities before extras.
I just found your channel and I absolutely love this video. As a teacher and entrepreneur, the skill/challenge analogy is beyond helpful. Girl, I felt like you were talking to me because I'm most definitely a "forever student". Thank you so much for these very realistic and practical tips.
This sounds good. I prefer being a lifelong learner/forever student of life. These ppl are more flexible to new information, criticism & can pivot. They're also great conversationalists. Maybe forever student is in the context of skill training w/o application in a desired profession or habit change.
I also wanna make friends who are active and wanna take instagram pictures. All my friends ( have body issues) soo hard to even have a conversation with them! Take pictures?They get upset to even mention the idea. Need different type of friends i think!
OMGGGGG when I say you woke up the LADY I aspire to be🙌🏾📌📌📌 thank you for this video!! PROCRASTINATION KILLS.. and i’m definitely going to get out of my “forever student” mode and APPLY MYSELF.. i’m getting myself on a schedule TODAY!! thank you thank you thank I’m not lazy I just need help!
Thank you soooo much for this video! Definitely an eye opener and I love ❤️ your teaching style. I have been a business owner for 7 years in the tax industry, I have been trying to grow even more but girlll it’s been a struggle lately, thought I was losing my drive. You made me realize, I’m doing too much at once.
You read me to FILTH with the “you can watch hours of videos” part. I spend so much time wanting to change my life that i never think about how to apply it to my real life. You’ve probably just changed the game for me with this one video.
Such a powerful life changing video sis! Exactly what I needed to hear. Literally every single thing was relatable, too many goals, perfectionism, forever student and never implementing everything I’ve learned. Time to turn it around, and step into my full potential! Thank you so much!
I really needed this. This was really for me down to the tee. I do put so many tasks on myself and get frustrated when I can’t stay consistent or get them all done. Thank you so much for this!!!
“forever student” and “trying to do too much all at once” girl you came for me hard but I needed this ❤️ subscribed instantly and going to start actually taking action!
you readdd me 😭! i really needed this. it was so helpful and insightful. i’ll definitely be implementing these techniques. thank you for sharing pretty 💖
This was me at some point in my life especially the beginning of my young adulthood I have been a perfectionist for the longest and also I have been trying to do things so perfectly and so fast and I didn’t try to take things slowly and be able to do things in a slow pace with more intentions and that’s okay. 👌 especially when you become adult everything starts to go fast or downhill if you are not prepared for it but that’s okay that doesn’t mean your life is over just reset and start over again. And also we are all different in our way and also we all need to take things with a grain of salt.
This is the first time I’m hearing the term “forever student”. I like how you explained what it is and how most of us are guilty of doing that. I tend to find myself reading self growth books and watching videos like this and just never putting it to action. Thank you for explaining this the way you did💕
Honestly this video deserves more views.l’ve been feeling stuck because l’ve been trying to do many things at once that at the end l just give up.This video is really helpful also you’re very pretty!! Thank you.
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
Happy belated birthday! Thank you so much for taking the time out to help educate and shine new perspectives that make the process less scary. As someone who has always seen a vision for myself as a kid, the procrastination is out of this world and I'm so grateful I stumbled across your page. ♡
this is exactly what i personally needed to hear. everything you said made me look back and think... " i want too much but wanna do too little ", thank you!!! i now realize that I need to take baby steps to achieve my goals
Wow stumbled upon this video and my sister was saying the same thing the other day that i have too many things on a plate and the plate drops ❤ thank you
thank you so much, you're full of wisdom and you share that wisdom of yours in a positive light instead of other content creators that say mean stuff and make me feel bad about myself when they don't even help
I really love your taste and style always so chic. My faves would be the LYXBAG leather backpack and the Swarovski pave diamond ring so gorg. Thank you for your recommendations.
No THIS is a video that really does tell you how to stop being lazy! This video is so transformative and really hit the nail on the head! I love the diagrams and everything you said resonated and is definitely something I will be implementing! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
I learned a lot from this video. Thank you, thank you for posting something other than "journal everyday, manifest your future self " THANK YOU for explaining the reality of the matter! I definitely subscribed
watching this straight away instead of saving to watch later is me goin from lazy to disciplined
🫶🏾🫶🏾 everything starts somewhere
I almost did the same then I was like mmmm, no ma’am, you need to hear this TODAY and RIGHT NOW. ✨🩷
so real 😭
This!!!!! Omg!!
amen!
“Schedule in the person you want to be “ so simple yet powerful! Thank you!
Thank you for the support🫶🏾🫶🏾
My toxic trait is thinking that I can turn my whole life around in less than a month. 😂 I definitely needed to hear this. My goals are at the moon, and skills are in the Mariana trench. I'm using this advice right now. I'm tired of not meeting my goals.
lmbo if this aint me
Such a valuable video! I don’t often promote books, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is an exception. It’s packed with insights on wealth and self-care that are not widely known. All the best to everyone
Please keep these coming you have no idea how much these are helping me. It’s a process but I can do it. Glad there’s a woman to inspire other women because some of us need it.
Thank youu🫶🏾 just know your comments are also inspiring and motivating to me I love to seem them❤️
been needing to be told all this ❤
This was an eye opener. I am a big procrastinator and this just helped me to understand why I’m not getting my things done. The methods that you should I’ll definitely try them. Thank you so much for the advice. Hope you come with more cause damn girl you making want to cry cause it’s so real.
Girl I feel like you’re talking directly to ME! God brought this video to me for a reason 🙏🏼🙇🏻♀️
Aww I’m so happy to hear that💕💕
Same here!!
Super beneficial though ❤
You didn’t have to drag me across the room the way you did. 😂
Gotta come in with that tough love😂🫶🏾
Chile cause why I sat up straight when she was talking. Didn’t look away not once. Got me all the way together.
Like yes ma’am you are SO RIGHT !!!!!!
Right!! Someone had to get me together! Lol
Last night i had the most honest prayer with god and i said “God I’m stuck I really need guidance and i need help” I woke up do my regular routine and boom your video pops up thank you so much for this advice its truly helpful and time put it to use.
Aww yes I love that🫶🏾
One thing I’ve noticed while leveling up, is that it’s very humbling, and you can make a lot of mistakes. This can scare you at first, because everything is new. And when you’re leveling up, you’re bound to make mistakes just like any rookie would.
Courage to press on is what’s needed, because it’s pretty easy to lose hope, when you feel like you’ve done everything, and things may not align. I have been working on my courage, and my courage to be the dream that I have for myself. a lot of us are just scared, and fear is what makes you stagnant. Embrace the humbling, and be courageous enough to move forward.👑
Absolutley .❤
I just made a comment about this, and then I scrolled down and saw your comment. You are exactly right! I, myself was doing too much and felt like I was getting no where. Let me slow down and complete one goal at a time.
I’m a visual learner, so the way you broke this down was so easy for me to understand! A simple concept, but delivered in a great way! “Perfectionism is just delaying the goal” yes! Thank you! 💗
Also…you are gifted in this area, you are a teacher, it’s all over you. Truly your ministry 🙏🏾. Please keep the content coming!
Same here
Thank youu for supporting me❤️
Why did she just read me in the beginning 😂
😂
It’s all love😂🫶🏾
That’s exactly what I said 😅😂
Big facts!!
😂😂😂I said the SAME THING!
This is exactly what I experienced last week, I was so overwhelmed with work and was even crying because I had the toughest list which is tiring for me emotionally. I finally decided to do one thing out of the list that day and by the time I woke up and did that small thing which was communicating with a client, I was able to do another small thing at the end of the day and I just decided that that was my new best productivity hack and I stuck to it. Each day now I complete 80% of my task and I am so relaxed and able to do more.
Props to you!! Glad everything worked out!
That baby analogy is exactly what I needed to hear, before we all learned to walk we learned to stand, crawl, and scoot, and we were celebrated at each milestone! I need to keep that in mind instead of seeking perfection at the very beginning, it is truly a process and I’ve been better at celebrating my milestones no matter how small they may seem
Bro in flabbergasted actually. Damn. I did not expect to cry the way I did. When you were talking about insecurities with packing lots of things onto our plate, but scared that it’s just going to end dropping, & the shattered faith in our ability to execute successfully, I started crying.
Even though I’ve been in this funk for the first half of the year, I claim that I’m moving forward with the best glow up known to man. I sincerely appreciate you and I am extremely happy that you are my new big sis. I also loved that.
I was doing my self care while watching you, & I can definitely feel my higher self doing this a lot more. I look forward to more self-care days with you rewiring my programming and me applying my new set of instructions.
I’m a guy and I have to say this was the best explanation I ever heard 🔥
Girl stop it ❤🔥❤🔥❤🔥"you are forever student... before you watch another video put something in place" This hit home
Too many goals at one time. You’re right! ❤ thank you for this video
Thank you for the support🫶🏾🫶🏾
I never comment but if it boosts your content I'm more than willing! You seem so approachable and real in comparison to so many other motivational TH-camrs. I can see you care and that means so much to me. Thank you!!
I definitely agree with you, I had way too many goals on my plate last year (2023) I was doing too much, and it caused me to burnout and become stressed. Working, running an esthetic business, Etsy site, selling journals on amazon, girlfriend duties, trying to grow on social media and other things. I took a break cold turkey from everything this year between January-March including deactivating my socials. I needed to reset. I'm focusing on my three Hardest goals for the remainder of the year.
She really ate the girlies up with this one 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾😂
Thank youu 💖
You cooked with this one ! 👏🏾👏🏾
Thank you🫶🏾
This video definitely opened my eyes. I have so many goals, things I want to achieve and places I want to be. But I get too overwhelmed or try to focus on all of it at once. Definitely gonna make a list and go one at a time
I’m happy it helped you❤️
As an Adhd I LOVE that you drew on a board 😅 but aside from that this was THE best motivational video I’ve watched so far. Instant follow ❤
Thank youu so much✨
Okay gurl!! You had a word to deliver so thank you… forever student and procrastination from fear is real.
🙌🏾👏🏾 I always thought I was crazy for talking to myself while driving to work
Yess girl that be me too😂🫶🏾
So real! I appreciate that you mentioned the forever student because I find myself binge consuming information in the pretense of preparation. But it's procrastination at its finest. Proud to say I watched this on the treadmill (I've been trying to get into the gym for weeks)
Thank you so much! I really needed this reality check. I tend to put to much on my plate at once and will execute it “perfectly” and then in about 3-4 days I’m falling off and it takes weeks to recover. I need to remember to take it slow & figure out my priorities before extras.
I needed this ❤ I feel like you’re the friend that wants better for me
Aww thank you and yes girl I am definitely that friend🫶🏾 I want you to achieve your wildest dreams and become the women you know you can❤️
GIRLLLLL YOU DONT KNOW HOW ON TIME YOU ARE!!!!!! ❤❤❤❤❤
I just found your channel and I absolutely love this video. As a teacher and entrepreneur, the skill/challenge analogy is beyond helpful. Girl, I felt like you were talking to me because I'm most definitely a "forever student". Thank you so much for these very realistic and practical tips.
I hope everyone comes across this video at some point and give it a chance because this was a sermon !!!
You had me at the board!!! Omg I really can’t when it’s just listing tips 😫 THANK YOU
Thank you I’m happy it helped🫶🏾🫶🏾
This sounds good. I prefer being a lifelong learner/forever student of life. These ppl are more flexible to new information, criticism & can pivot. They're also great conversationalists. Maybe forever student is in the context of skill training w/o application in a desired profession or habit change.
It is
I love the fact that there's a science to it, I'm implementing this straight away, Thanks sis❤️
I’m happy this video was able to help you🫶🏾
I also wanna make friends who are active and wanna take instagram pictures. All my friends ( have body issues) soo hard to even have a conversation with them! Take pictures?They get upset to even mention the idea. Need different type of friends i think!
Me on my period watching this like: 🗿
😆😆😆😆
🤣🤣you got me , you are funny as hell!!
Come on it's period just chill❤
Naw fr😭😭😭😂
Same sis SAME 😂🤣🤣
The way I just started reorganizing my bathroom! This was great! Thanks girl
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Yoo you truly found your calling cause I’ve been thinking about this for a minute and you verbalized it so well
Wow God knows he brought me here! Blessings ❤🙏🏾
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
OMGGGGG when I say you woke up the LADY I aspire to be🙌🏾📌📌📌 thank you for this video!! PROCRASTINATION KILLS.. and i’m definitely going to get out of my “forever student” mode and APPLY MYSELF.. i’m getting myself on a schedule TODAY!! thank you thank you thank I’m not lazy I just need help!
Thank you for the support🫶🏾
Thank you soooo much for this video! Definitely an eye opener and I love ❤️ your teaching style. I have been a business owner for 7 years in the tax industry, I have been trying to grow even more but girlll it’s been a struggle lately, thought I was losing my drive. You made me realize, I’m doing too much at once.
I’m happy my video was able to help🫶🏾
This is the realest video I’ve ever watched on this topic. Thank you girl 👏🏾🙏🏾
You read me to FILTH with the “you can watch hours of videos” part. I spend so much time wanting to change my life that i never think about how to apply it to my real life. You’ve probably just changed the game for me with this one video.
Thank youu🫶🏾
Preach, preacher!! 👏🏾 This is a word!
Such a powerful life changing video sis! Exactly what I needed to hear. Literally every single thing was relatable, too many goals, perfectionism, forever student and never implementing everything I’ve learned. Time to turn it around, and step into my full potential! Thank you so much!
you broke this down so thoughtfully and clearly in a way thats so helpful to apply to real life. appreciate you and keep going!!
Thank youu🫶🏾
You are changing my life
Thank youu im happy i could help you in that way❤️❤️
I really needed this. This was really for me down to the tee. I do put so many tasks on myself and get frustrated when I can’t stay consistent or get them all done. Thank you so much for this!!!
“forever student” and “trying to do too much all at once” girl you came for me hard but I needed this ❤️ subscribed instantly and going to start actually taking action!
Thank youu
you readdd me 😭! i really needed this. it was so helpful and insightful. i’ll definitely be implementing these techniques. thank you for sharing pretty 💖
This was me at some point in my life especially the beginning of my young adulthood I have been a perfectionist for the longest and also I have been trying to do things so perfectly and so fast and I didn’t try to take things slowly and be able to do things in a slow pace with more intentions and that’s okay. 👌 especially when you become adult everything starts to go fast or downhill if you are not prepared for it but that’s okay that doesn’t mean your life is over just reset and start over again. And also we are all different in our way and also we all need to take things with a grain of salt.
We don’t have to be perfect to start 💯
This is the first time I’m hearing the term “forever student”. I like how you explained what it is and how most of us are guilty of doing that. I tend to find myself reading self growth books and watching videos like this and just never putting it to action. Thank you for explaining this the way you did💕
Honestly this video deserves more views.l’ve been feeling stuck because l’ve been trying to do many things at once that at the end l just give up.This video is really helpful also you’re very pretty!! Thank you.
Thank youu🫶🏾
NOT READING ME IN THE OPENING!!! Straight cussing me out.
Thank you.
Followed ✅
Thank youu💞
I knew these things but still needed to hear it again to reset.
I felt the same way, that’s why I had to write them out visually to digest it better❤️
Amazing content in this video! I rarely suggest anything in comments, but the book women’s magic truths on borlest is a game-changer. It provides deep knowledge on wealth and self-care that can really make a difference. Take care, everyone
I love how I feel like you’re talking directly to me , reading me like a book @ some of these points
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
I'm definitely a forever student but I'm working on it
Girllll you better teach this masterclass😌😌😌🤌🏾!!! Love
All of this … Alllllll of it🙌🏾🥂💗
Thank youu, I’m glad it was helpful because someone I watch it back and I’m just like “uhhh I could have explained that better”😂❤️
Ive been avoiding these kinds of videos as of late but i needed to hear this excellent video to the point i was sitting here like "dang she spittin"
So many gems💎💓
This is a really good and practical video. Thank you !! I will be actioning and not binging after I finish this💗
Happy belated birthday! Thank you so much for taking the time out to help educate and shine new perspectives that make the process less scary. As someone who has always seen a vision for myself as a kid, the procrastination is out of this world and I'm so grateful I stumbled across your page. ♡
Thank youu💕 and yes I’m glad my content is helpful
this is exactly what i personally needed to hear. everything you said made me look back and think... " i want too much but wanna do too little ", thank you!!! i now realize that I need to take baby steps to achieve my goals
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
This was so insightful, you are far wiser than what you may think. Please keep up the good work
Thank you I really appreciate it🫶🏾
Idk how many times I said "Mmm. That part!" Just subscribed.
Thank you so much. This is exactly what I needed to hear…
Wow stumbled upon this video and my sister was saying the same thing the other day that i have too many things on a plate and the plate drops ❤ thank you
Thank you for each and every slap. 😂 I so mean it, according to the spirit of Psalm 141:5 👏 THANK YOUUUUU! THIS IS SO NEEDED.
Aww thank you I really appreciate it🫶🏾
This my favorite one! So relatable and real. Love the tips 🙌🏽
This is the 1st video I came across from you…. SUBSCRIBING!!🎉❤
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾 thank you
Amazing video. Im always making excuses by waiting for all the stars to align.
Absolutely needed this
Give thanks…I appreciate this video. I need to prove to myself that I have enough courage to start.
Yes you got this🤞🏾
girl! you spoke LOUD! I love this content, I am a forever student, forever evolving. Thank you ❤
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
girllllll u ate this up. thank u thank u thank u❤
No long paragraph. Just ... Thank you. (I say with tears in my eyes).
Aww thank you so much, just want to remind you no matter what you’re going through YOU GOT THIS🫶🏾❤️
You spittin’ 💥🫡🫂
thank you so much, you're full of wisdom and you share that wisdom of yours in a positive light instead of other content creators that say mean stuff and make me feel bad about myself when they don't even help
You didn’t have to check me like that😩🤣 So happy I found this video!
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
You ate this up from start to finish! Sharing this with my siblings during our meeting this Friday ❤
Aww I’m so glad it helped and thank youu❤️ that’s such a good idea, sorry to be nosy but do y’all do it every week or like monthly?
Perfect video to start my morning off🫰🏽🫰🏽🫰🏽! Thank you!
Yes it’s important to start your day on a good note🫶🏾🫶🏾
You broke this down so well
I like the way you get your point across-its very motivating. Thanks, girl. You have opened my eyes.
Thank youu💞
I'm excited to start watching your content! Loved this video. Thanks for the tips ❤ Motivates me to do action
Absolutely. Thank you for this video.
Wow this is very powerful👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽🔥thank you
I’m happy you liked it🫶🏾
Immediately subscribed!! 🤩
Thank youu🫶🏾🫶🏾
I really love your taste and style always so chic. My faves would be the LYXBAG leather backpack and the Swarovski pave diamond ring so gorg. Thank you for your recommendations.
All these are things I know, but I really needed the reminder. Thank you. 😊
Of course🫶🏾
Your godsend like whattt you really helped me in the first 5 minutes like!
🫶🏾🫶🏾🫶🏾
Thank you,this was very helpful, I like how concise you are.
More so like big back era for me 😭 thanks for the inspiration
No THIS is a video that really does tell you how to stop being lazy! This video is so transformative and really hit the nail on the head! I love the diagrams and everything you said resonated and is definitely something I will be implementing! Thank you ❤️❤️❤️
Thank youu❤️
You’re Amazing!!! Thank you!!! I really needed this!!!!
Thank youu🫶🏾
God sent ❤❤
This was for me. Thank you
Of course💕 happy you enjoyed it
I learned a lot from this video. Thank you, thank you for posting something other than "journal everyday, manifest your future self " THANK YOU for explaining the reality of the matter! I definitely subscribed
Thank you so much❤️
“you are not lazy, you just need help” stop u almost made me cry ❤️🩹