I recently had to tell an employer about myself and all I could tell her is what I’ve done. It was so sickening, but necessary, because I realized how emotionally stunted I am. I never put the time and effort into building meaningful friendships, exploring my interests, etc. I wish younger me spent less time in his head and more time doing the things I loved with people I grew to love.
I feel this so bad! feeling lonely in a crowd and making friends is HARD!! esp at 21 imo lol but with God we're never really alone and im learning how to enjoy my self in my loneliness, until God blesses me with Godly friends who seek him as well ! this is such a relatable video friend ! edit; I'm feeling lonely today finna go spend some money! lol!
Yes being alone does make you stronger but once you get out there in the world and meet people. Your connections will be pure and genuine & not forced.. people force things and relationships cuz the fear of being alone.. once the fear is gone you can be yourself and in case you do end up being alone again you will be fine with it cuz you been there before.. and it won’t feel foreign to you..
I try to distract myself with activities + stuff to do, however when you try reaching out and connecting with somebody it really sucks once I inevitably get ghosted. It feels like being lost at sea, seeing a plane/ship pass by while you hopelessly shoot up a flare. It’s the hope that really kills and I find I feel better when I stop trying to reach out and just do my own thing. All the best ❤
this is extremely relatable. this was in my recommended, although i'm already subscribed to you. for my entire life i always felt like a loner, i didn't have many friends growing up and even now i can only count my friends on one hand. i have an outgoing personality deep down but i spend most of my time alone - kinda lonely sometimes. but this is the way its been. this video came to me at the right time. i love how you talked about Jesus here too, im Christian as well and i admire your wisdom and how you honor God. you're very beautiful too
I’m an introvert with social anxiety so I be feeling alone all the time but I try to distract my mind with productivity so I don’t overthink. However, I like being alone sometimes because I love peace and quiet and often get overstimulated so I need a safe place to recharge. Being alone is ok sometimes and it shows strength and courage.
i really needed this. thank you for this video girl 🩷🫂 im definitely in my isolation season and i was looking at it so negatively. instead of looking at it in a positive light, i loved everything about this video. ESPECIALLY THE MESSAGES!👏🏽
The way you just gained a new subscriber I really felt seen with this whole video, especially being the eldest daughter and constantly feeling like I’d rather be alone I realized I do like people i am slowly bettering my relationship with myself.
First 30 seconds & I started crying. I’ve been feeling like this for yearsss. Im the only child as well & it hurts sometimes seeing people with a friend they do everything with yk
hi girly, I hope you see this comment. I just turned 19 this year and I struggle with a lot of the things that you struggle with as well. I’m not an only child but everyone’s older than me so i ended up being alone a lot of the time growing up so i definitely deal with only child syndrome😒😭 I’m trying to snap out of my maladaptive daydreaming and enjoy my reality more even though it’s definitely hard while also trying to enjoy my own company and not always need distraction, but we’re in this together and as young women I think it’s so important for us to share our struggles because there’s so many of us out there who relate❤ please keep making your videos girly - a fellow jamaican gyal
@@HERDuh565 omg heyyy! we are in this together, just when you feel like no one else feels the same way, all these people plus me go through it too! thank you for watching, blessings!
ever since i started watching your vids in the last few months, i have resonated with you incredibly!! i feel like this video was def for me while I'm in my isolation season...it's doing its big one! thank you ashley 💕 keep going! in all areas of your life! I'm glad to experience just a glimpse of yours and am truly inspired by your vulnerability on this channel 🥹
babyyy the intro alone sent me ! 😭🖤 i relate to the intro so much being a people pleaser yet having no one to talk to. having to water down my own persona to be liked / fit in. not to mention the early 00s was hard anyways.
New subscriber ❤i definitely enjoy my own company, and only "socialization" i enjoy is listening to others like you and me . I'm so glad we met! I like reading, cooking, at home hobbies too. Please post music playlists you are listening to. Be blessed, girl! 😊 -Kayla from Texas
You are me and I am youuu, I’ve never related sm . Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this & express urself. It makes me feel not as lonely 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I really tried to stop watching bc I have work but I couldn’t, your energy is immaculate, I’m an only child too, my story goes really deep and I have always been.. well, always felt so alone because no one was there for me. My only care giver was my mother and she wasn’t there for me at all either. But once I stopped seeking for that love that i lacked to receive from her and started seeking it within things started to feel a lot less cloudy. Your video is very well spoken and made it feel homey for me, I’m ver grateful for this video made me smile and giggle🥹
This was such a great video! It feels great not to feel like the only person who feels like a loner. I don’t feel as lonely anymore, and I am starting to plan to do things like going out and meeting people and making new friends. Continue to put yourself out there 🙂
I can totally relate. But once you let go of the hating people part no matter how super obnoxious they can be, you come into your real power, you discover who YOU are❤
Recently I’m 41 days sober and I just got back to my home town. Been here two weeks now and I feel like going out and partying and celebrating the fact that I did graduate rehab but I want to drink and smoke only because I have so much time on my hands. Meds help with certain cravings but not like this video. I read my bible and sing worship music but it was still so much time I had free to do whatever I wanted. So thank you so much for even thinking to do this video. I need a laptop cause I have some stuff I would love to talk about on my channel. I love how content you are with being by yourself. I only liked being alone so I wouldn’t have to share my smoke lol. But fr tho I’m learning a lot by just this one video I can’t wait to dive off in your channel more in depth. Love from da boot! ❤#LOUISIANA
“Back home I’m at peace… too MUCH peace it seems.” 🤣🤣 7:53 when I tellll youuu I’ve never related so much to a video!!! I love being alone it’s ridiculous.
I love videos like these, I relate so much. I have friends but I rather move alone most times. I’m the youngest child I was growing up while my siblings was grown.
Some people are afraid to be alone so its beautiful if you have the power to feel comfortable alone. Also struggled with that since i live in my own was used to other people around me but i figure it out and master the skill of being alone. Mostly i am feeling way better alone then around people but humans need interaction from time to time. Thanks for this video right on time appreciate it❤️💯
I love this video sm because i feel as though it explains me so much & I never felt like I related to somebody so much as I relate to you so thank you for this video♥️
I’m older, an only child, with 2 kids now. I feel this on many levels. In college, I had to move into my own dorm bc I could not get along with my roommates. Thank god that was an option at my school! 😅 Now, I have to find time for my little family but i still prefer doing stuff alone. The only child introvert in me just won’t die. Lol. It’s a part of me
Omg I just love your personality 🫶🏽 I was hooked within the first 5 mins only to later in the video find out you’re a Capricorn too , explains it 🥰 , I can relate on almost everything you spoke on !
I think the best thing I ever did was to learn how to be happy alone and that I don’t need another person or a group of people to be happy with. Especially as a young man who just recently dealt with a toxic female from social media and it almost ended ugly to the point the police were involved because she threatened me. Right then and there I realized that being alone is not that bad after all
I feel this so much and always wondered why I’m so independent but it’s literally because I grew up with no sibling with me everyday grant I do have on but he’s a boy on top off we are 10 years apart by time I needed emotional support from him he was grown move out with his own life, I also feel like we say “alone time” we is like contradiction to ourselves but we only say that because we try to escape our thoughts/that’s a way how we vent them out
Hey girl 👋🏾 Your video just so happened to pop up on my news feed but anyways I can totally relate to this. I grew up the only child so I know what it’s like and yes it gets lonely at times but remember there’s a difference being alone and feeling lonely. I rather be alone than being around people and spaces that don’t mean me any good or deserve my presence. Keep going babygirl and the right people will come along at the right time. Date yourself, get to know yourself and do things that you love. It’s more peaceful. Love you ❤ New subbie 😘
i needed this, i am gonna spend Christmas alone for the first time in 20 years, and i have been alone for the past two years of my uni and i am in my third year of uni, and at that the only black girl and i happen to be Nigerian, so life just feels so ugh, my escape is making youtube videos lol.
Hey this is my first time ever being on your channel and I wanna say i 110% relate with what you said about starting youtube for a sense of connection/relatability and to share your passions (as a youtuber myself) also could we get a praise/christian playlist? I love the way you talk about God!!! ❤
Girl, you are me new favorite content creator. Authenticity is something so hard to find nowadays, and these last few videos you made have resonated so much with me. You’re doing the damn thing, keep it up love🫶🏽 P.S.- Allegedly and The Weight of Blood by Tiffany D. Jackson are amazingggg reads.
Hi my first time coming across your channel, relatable topic and thank you for sharing your journey! Can I just say I really enjoyed this video the editing, the conversations, the advice you gave, what you shared, just everything was wholesome !! Wishing that you’re well just subscribed I’m looking forward for what’s to come for your channel 💌
I’m a lonely child with an older sister and I didn’t grow up with any of my cousins either because they are also older than me 😭 and I couldn’t keep friendships because I changed my schools and I ended up social less in high school
Haha I’m same way. I don’t like people next to me. Or long talking me lmaooo and I’m from NYC. But I love when they talking to me in a Louis Vuitton, Fendi, gucci store that’s where I like to have interaction. The experience is great!
GURL, I loved this. I literally just posted a similar video on my channel! Ironically, I understand what it feels like to not be understood, as well as going through the process of being alone and being your own companion.
i’m scared step out alone i love going out at night too! maybe i’ll get me a taser but i just turn 21 and apply for my first full time job i would LOVE to just go place by myself !❤
girl same. currently trying to save for a car, but i wanna go out and do things but im so terrified of taking Lyft or Uber 😭 and i literally have NO friends where im at. so that’s my only option. ugh. so frustrating
im not an only child i have 3 brothers but i can confess that in school, im alone. Like before, in 7th grade, I was with alot of fake people and now in 8th grade im alone and i think i am maturing. Because i could have the choice of going with the fake friends again and have the same problems or stay alone and wait unti you have good friends. Yes i do try to look for friends but honestly people are all the same and mean with everybody, the teachers, students, adults, and im still trying to search but right now im just going to stay alone.
it’s so hard feeling like this but being a senior in high school. i can’t do anything about it. i prefer being alone at home or while i’m out and about. i don’t feel stuck.
Peace and Love It is written in the Bible 'It is not good for man to be alone', so TMH formed a woman from Adams rib to be a help meet for him. Now in your case Sister I don't know what's the science if a woman is left alone...my guess is that She will just mature that much more(especially if She is reading and meditating on The word). I know growing up me being left alone wasn't good at all without some guidance from my dad so I just had my instincts when it came to good and bad...now I'm 44 and when I look back I see that my WHOLE situation was a blessing! Sister I'm glad you could relate with The Word(it makes you wiser/stronger) In my case I just had to take the time out and realy read and meditate on it(sad but great full I got this opportunity while incarcerated).'They' were moving me from jail to jail before I got settled and was able to get a hold to a Bible/The Word. In an environment filled with BS and devilworshipping a s s hypocrites running the facility getting a hold to 'The Truth' was like a life line to me,and yes the Bible is like a Sword! I would like to inform you on more of my experiences Sister. No matter what I wish you Peace,Love and Prosperity in your independent journeys.Our Messiah is returning soon! Stay Strong,Stay Vigilant! I'm a TRU representative of The Body of our Messiah. 'Stationed' in Keller/Ft.Worth,TX (817) 76244,enduring injustices daily,just maintaining,minding my OWN business.. -One
Girl your not alone. I love my solitude. I choose not to be in the mix. I was always outside. Knowing all the events. I was the one who forced others outside to have fun. But afterwards I like my own peace and space. I don’t even invite people over anymore while unbothered
I don't even see your lonely, as you say. Your just a person that is wanting to be around the tribe that you can spend your life with. And you make that really obvious when your hanging out with your associate. Your path in life may cross mine in person one day.
go watch my new vlog, on how i stopped depending on friends to travel!
ur gorgeous baby girl
felt this ESPECIALLY lonely as an only child...girl im 23 n in shambles rn
it be like that! we got this
HEAVY
HEAVY on 23 and in shambles!!
I think this is the most relatable comment lmfao me being 22 and I felt this heavy.
@@j-777v y’all im 21 don’t scare me 😭
Sameeee I’m an only child as well and I somewhat struggle being alone sometimes and I’m 21
Your hobbies will be there for you when nothing else is
Ain’t that the truth everyone should have at least 3 to five hobbies
🤞🏾
Facts
“i hate yall matter fact” REAL 😂 but fr im getting sick of the alone stuff too but i realize you are your best company
I lie to myself to make me feel better too,
I recently had to tell an employer about myself and all I could tell her is what I’ve done. It was so sickening, but necessary, because I realized how emotionally stunted I am. I never put the time and effort into building meaningful friendships, exploring my interests, etc. I wish younger me spent less time in his head and more time doing the things I loved with people I grew to love.
Ain’t too late to change my nigga get out there the world waiting for you
You still got time.
@@Jah-Marii Fr, im being more intentional about trying new things and saying yes a lil more
@@amirrichaun good job!
@@Jah-Marii thanks, we all a work in progress. Just at different points
I feel this so bad! feeling lonely in a crowd and making friends is HARD!! esp at 21 imo lol but with God we're never really alone and im learning how to enjoy my self in my loneliness, until God blesses me with Godly friends who seek him as well ! this is such a relatable video friend !
edit; I'm feeling lonely today finna go spend some money! lol!
thank you! and yes Godly friends are the ones to seek! lollll
Capppp yall females got thousands of male in yall DMs
Being alone makes you strong !
Yess and powerful
Needed to hear this 💯
I lie to myself to make me feel better too
Yes being alone does make you stronger but once you get out there in the world and meet people. Your connections will be pure and genuine & not forced.. people force things and relationships cuz the fear of being alone.. once the fear is gone you can be yourself and in case you do end up being alone again you will be fine with it cuz you been there before.. and it won’t feel foreign to you..
@@downthehill2896just cus being alone makes u weak, doesn’t mean it’s the same for others too
Not the intro have a tearing up. Thank you baby for being so vulnerable and open to us!❤🫶cause we all human are beings
Well said. Same. Both you Ashley and the comment poster. Thank you.
I try to distract myself with activities + stuff to do, however when you try reaching out and connecting with somebody it really sucks once I inevitably get ghosted. It feels like being lost at sea, seeing a plane/ship pass by while you hopelessly shoot up a flare. It’s the hope that really kills and I find I feel better when I stop trying to reach out and just do my own thing. All the best ❤
this is extremely relatable. this was in my recommended, although i'm already subscribed to you. for my entire life i always felt like a loner, i didn't have many friends growing up and even now i can only count my friends on one hand. i have an outgoing personality deep down but i spend most of my time alone - kinda lonely sometimes. but this is the way its been. this video came to me at the right time. i love how you talked about Jesus here too, im Christian as well and i admire your wisdom and how you honor God. you're very beautiful too
@@bratzdollspeakz heyy, i try my best to be relatable and im glad to be the one to shed light on these things! and thank you! you’re gorgeous!!
@@ashleyalondra Omgggg thank u♡♡
Capppp yall females got thousands of male in yall DMs
I’m an introvert with social anxiety so I be feeling alone all the time but I try to distract my mind with productivity so I don’t overthink. However, I like being alone sometimes because I love peace and quiet and often get overstimulated so I need a safe place to recharge. Being alone is ok sometimes and it shows strength and courage.
I understand this, not having friends or family. Wishing you love and light on your journey ❤
@@Killahrose thank you love
I feel like people who are like myself will always have problems feeling along simply because we think too much. And the mind is a very vast space
i really needed this. thank you for this video girl 🩷🫂 im definitely in my isolation season and i was looking at it so negatively. instead of looking at it in a positive light, i loved everything about this video. ESPECIALLY THE MESSAGES!👏🏽
This video has brought me soo much comfort in knowing I’m not the only one who feels alone and does random stuff everyday
you don’t understand how much i appreciate your channel❤
omgg *tears* thank youu!
girl i’m in school and i can’t stand these people chile so thanks for your video i feel seen thank you for harding
@@Spirutallaina completely felt! you got this and trust one day you’ll find your people
The way you just gained a new subscriber I really felt seen with this whole video, especially being the eldest daughter and constantly feeling like I’d rather be alone I realized I do like people i am slowly bettering my relationship with myself.
First 30 seconds & I started crying. I’ve been feeling like this for yearsss. Im the only child as well & it hurts sometimes seeing people with a friend they do everything with yk
hi girly, I hope you see this comment. I just turned 19 this year and I struggle with a lot of the things that you struggle with as well. I’m not an only child but everyone’s older than me so i ended up being alone a lot of the time growing up so i definitely deal with only child syndrome😒😭 I’m trying to snap out of my maladaptive daydreaming and enjoy my reality more even though it’s definitely hard while also trying to enjoy my own company and not always need distraction, but we’re in this together and as young women I think it’s so important for us to share our struggles because there’s so many of us out there who relate❤ please keep making your videos girly - a fellow jamaican gyal
@@HERDuh565 omg heyyy! we are in this together, just when you feel like no one else feels the same way, all these people
plus me go through it too! thank you for watching, blessings!
19 and Jamaican as well, I agree with everything and I’m in the same situation for about 3 years now.
@@Ashley-fm1pb hey babe, i completely understand, we’re in this together tho
20:00 love you just might have social anxiety, you described it perfectly
ever since i started watching your vids in the last few months, i have resonated with you incredibly!! i feel like this video was def for me while I'm in my isolation season...it's doing its big one! thank you ashley 💕 keep going! in all areas of your life! I'm glad to experience just a glimpse of yours and am truly inspired by your vulnerability on this channel 🥹
@@lillydior this 🥹 make me feels so happy inside! thank you
babyyy the intro alone sent me ! 😭🖤 i relate to the intro so much being a people pleaser yet having no one to talk to. having to water down my own persona to be liked / fit in. not to mention the early 00s was hard anyways.
!!!!! Getting sick of being in ur own solitude definitely does get irritated
New subscriber ❤i definitely enjoy my own company, and only "socialization" i enjoy is listening to others like you and me . I'm so glad we met! I like reading, cooking, at home hobbies too. Please post music playlists you are listening to. Be blessed, girl! 😊 -Kayla from Texas
@@katsunflower2560 heyy! i’m so glad we met as well
Good on you for sharing! Takes a lotta courage cant lie and you helping peopl
I'm an only child ,I'm 14 but I feel so lonely,hopefully I get out of it .I like be alone sometimes though,I Loveee your vids ,they're so real 💕.
@@Destinymarie777. love that you enjoy them!
You are me and I am youuu, I’ve never related sm . Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this & express urself. It makes me feel not as lonely 🫶🏽🫶🏽
I really tried to stop watching bc I have work but I couldn’t, your energy is immaculate, I’m an only child too, my story goes really deep and I have always been.. well, always felt so alone because no one was there for me. My only care giver was my mother and she wasn’t there for me at all either. But once I stopped seeking for that love that i lacked to receive from her and started seeking it within things started to feel a lot less cloudy. Your video is very well spoken and made it feel homey for me, I’m ver grateful for this video made me smile and giggle🥹
Relatable once you said you’re the only child fr
This was such a great video! It feels great not to feel like the only person who feels like a loner. I don’t feel as lonely anymore, and I am starting to plan to do things like going out and meeting people and making new friends. Continue to put yourself out there 🙂
I can totally relate. But once you let go of the hating people part no matter how super obnoxious they can be, you come into your real power, you discover who YOU are❤
Definitely needed this video today! 🙏🏾
Recently I’m 41 days sober and I just got back to my home town. Been here two weeks now and I feel like going out and partying and celebrating the fact that I did graduate rehab but I want to drink and smoke only because I have so much time on my hands. Meds help with certain cravings but not like this video. I read my bible and sing worship music but it was still so much time I had free to do whatever I wanted. So thank you so much for even thinking to do this video. I need a laptop cause I have some stuff I would love to talk about on my channel. I love how content you are with being by yourself. I only liked being alone so I wouldn’t have to share my smoke lol. But fr tho I’m learning a lot by just this one video I can’t wait to dive off in your channel more in depth. Love from da boot! ❤#LOUISIANA
Playing that law boss is definitely that self care ❤
“Back home I’m at peace… too MUCH peace it seems.” 🤣🤣 7:53 when I tellll youuu I’ve never related so much to a video!!! I love being alone it’s ridiculous.
I love videos like these, I relate so much. I have friends but I rather move alone most times. I’m the youngest child I was growing up while my siblings was grown.
Some people are afraid to be alone so its beautiful if you have the power to feel comfortable alone. Also struggled with that since i live in my own was used to other people around me but i figure it out and master the skill of being alone. Mostly i am feeling way better alone then around people but humans need interaction from time to time. Thanks for this video right on time appreciate it❤️💯
You are not alone, God is with you
I love this video sm because i feel as though it explains me so much & I never felt like I related to somebody so much as I relate to you so thank you for this video♥️
Your channel is so relatable🥹 congrats on 17k 🎉
@@Therealkeairakeonna THANK YOUUUU
Love the whole vid queen!! The outro speach was a delight especially as it had the waterfall running in the back❤😂
your not the only one. dope video. great story line
I’m older, an only child, with 2 kids now. I feel this on many levels. In college, I had to move into my own dorm bc I could not get along with my roommates. Thank god that was an option at my school! 😅 Now, I have to find time for my little family but i still prefer doing stuff alone. The only child introvert in me just won’t die. Lol. It’s a part of me
Omg I just love your personality 🫶🏽 I was hooked within the first 5 mins only to later in the video find out you’re a Capricorn too , explains it 🥰 , I can relate on almost everything you spoke on !
cap gangggg
So true I’m sure so many people are feeling like this
Girly teach yourself like a gem ❤
This came up on time ❤ I was just in my head abt this
I think the best thing I ever did was to learn how to be happy alone and that I don’t need another person or a group of people to be happy with. Especially as a young man who just recently dealt with a toxic female from social media and it almost ended ugly to the point the police were involved because she threatened me. Right then and there I realized that being alone is not that bad after all
I really enjoyed this vid nd having a partner that wants space sometimes.This vids really helps me bc sometimes it’s ok to be alone.
I feel this so much and always wondered why I’m so independent but it’s literally because I grew up with no sibling with me everyday grant I do have on but he’s a boy on top off we are 10 years apart by time I needed emotional support from him he was grown move out with his own life, I also feel like we say “alone time” we is like contradiction to ourselves but we only say that because we try to escape our thoughts/that’s a way how we vent them out
Insightful, as someone whose always trying to grow and build something. It could be a lonely road sometimes.
Ranned cross this pon my lunch break & felt less alone really preciate ya
Thank you for making this video and existing 🫶🏾 I resonate heavy!
I'm only just getting started with solo trips and activities. Great video, really educational, and thank you for the additional ideas.
Hey girl 👋🏾 Your video just so happened to pop up on my news feed but anyways I can totally relate to this. I grew up the only child so I know what it’s like and yes it gets lonely at times but remember there’s a difference being alone and feeling lonely. I rather be alone than being around people and spaces that don’t mean me any good or deserve my presence. Keep going babygirl and the right people will come along at the right time. Date yourself, get to know yourself and do things that you love. It’s more peaceful. Love you ❤ New subbie 😘
@@jamilahhendricks7681 thank you hun for ur words! love you!
@@ashleyalondra You’re very welcome!! 🤗💕 Thank you!! 🙏🏾❤️
i needed this, i am gonna spend Christmas alone for the first time in 20 years, and i have been alone for the past two years of my uni and i am in my third year of uni, and at that the only black girl and i happen to be Nigerian, so life just feels so ugh, my escape is making youtube videos lol.
@@ch1msomaga make the best of uni, even if it’s by yourself. the best thing is that we can choose to be happy alone
Hey this is my first time ever being on your channel and I wanna say i 110% relate with what you said about starting youtube for a sense of connection/relatability and to share your passions (as a youtuber myself) also could we get a praise/christian playlist? I love the way you talk about God!!! ❤
@@amarachichats heyy! i’ll link my apple music it’s @vibewitash titled “The Lord is with me” if that helps! i’m just getting into christian music loll
@@ashleyalondra Thank youu! God Bless 😚🫶🏾
You are a gorgeous person though I’m battling wit the loneliness myself but it’s all good we can get through it together
This was needed! Felt this sm.
Thank you for making this video 🥺
Girl, you are me new favorite content creator. Authenticity is something so hard to find nowadays, and these last few videos you made have resonated so much with me. You’re doing the damn thing, keep it up love🫶🏽
P.S.- Allegedly and The Weight of Blood by Tiffany D. Jackson are amazingggg reads.
@@kaylah2795 omg meee! thank you hun
Hi my first time coming across your channel, relatable topic and thank you for sharing your journey!
Can I just say I really enjoyed this video the editing, the conversations, the advice you gave, what you shared, just everything was wholesome !!
Wishing that you’re well just subscribed I’m looking forward for what’s to come for your channel 💌
@@foreverchris. thank you chris
I’m a lonely child with an older sister and I didn’t grow up with any of my cousins either because they are also older than me 😭 and I couldn’t keep friendships because I changed my schools and I ended up social less in high school
Haha I’m same way. I don’t like people next to me. Or long talking me lmaooo and I’m from NYC. But I love when they talking to me in a Louis Vuitton, Fendi, gucci store that’s where I like to have interaction. The experience is great!
GURL, I loved this. I literally just posted a similar video on my channel! Ironically, I understand what it feels like to not be understood, as well as going through the process of being alone and being your own companion.
i’m scared step out alone i love going out at night too! maybe i’ll get me a taser but i just turn 21 and apply for my first full time job i would LOVE to just go place by myself !❤
Sameee I’m going to my interview rn and I wanna go out at night but I take the bus😭
girl same. currently trying to save for a car, but i wanna go out and do things but im so terrified of taking Lyft or Uber 😭 and i literally have NO friends where im at. so that’s my only option. ugh. so frustrating
@@Ja44495me to I got my first ever job at 19 and I’m going to be saving up for my first car I wish you the best !
Showing luv ❤ and stay strong yall
im not an only child i have 3 brothers but i can confess that in school, im alone. Like before, in 7th grade, I was with alot of fake people and now in 8th grade im alone and i think i am maturing. Because i could have the choice of going with the fake friends again and have the same problems or stay alone and wait unti you have good friends. Yes i do try to look for friends but honestly people are all the same and mean with everybody, the teachers, students, adults, and im still trying to search but right now im just going to stay alone.
This is so real
it’s so hard feeling like this but being a senior in high school. i can’t do anything about it. i prefer being alone at home or while i’m out and about. i don’t feel stuck.
this, but i just entered college. i feel like im wasting my life by staying at home & not making an effort to reach out to ppl to make plans
Im a Capricorn tooooo awwwwww that's so crazy how i randomly came across your channel but Heyyyyy your pretty too btw!
heyy twinn, thank you!
This video helped me && brought me comfort .. Thank You❤💕
glad u enjoyed it
I have 6 siblings but I can totally relate to this
@@yunanmabel wow 6! glad you enjoyed
Jesus Christ loves you. He died on the cross for all of our sin.
Peace and Love
It is written in the Bible 'It is not good for man to be alone', so TMH formed a woman from Adams rib to be a help meet for him. Now in your case Sister I don't know what's the science if a woman is left alone...my guess is that She will just mature that much more(especially if She is reading and meditating on The word). I know growing up me being left alone wasn't good at all without some guidance from my dad so I just had my instincts when it came to good and bad...now I'm 44 and when I look back I see that my WHOLE situation was a blessing! Sister I'm glad you could relate with The Word(it makes you wiser/stronger) In my case I just had to take the time out and realy read and meditate on it(sad but great full I got this opportunity while incarcerated).'They' were moving me from jail to jail before I got settled and was able to get a hold to a Bible/The Word. In an environment filled with BS and devilworshipping a s s hypocrites running the facility getting a hold to 'The Truth' was like a life line to me,and yes the Bible is like a Sword! I would like to inform you on more of my experiences Sister. No matter what I wish you Peace,Love and Prosperity in your independent journeys.Our Messiah is returning soon! Stay Strong,Stay Vigilant! I'm a TRU representative of The Body of our Messiah. 'Stationed' in Keller/Ft.Worth,TX (817) 76244,enduring injustices daily,just maintaining,minding my OWN business..
-One
Love this girl!
These are great advice fr fr 🤝
I feel so understood
you just dont trust anybody and when someone gets to close you push them away
You have Jesus and us ❤❤❤❤
You so relatable. Thank you 🖤
@@Ziggy_xi thank you for watching!
You so gorgeous and nice video , hope your TH-cam blows up ❤
Girl , mi lovvvveee d video BIG UP YOUUUU keep posting
22 going through this right now and I’m in college right now too😞
Loved this ❤
Girl your not alone. I love my solitude. I choose not to be in the mix. I was always outside. Knowing all the events. I was the one who forced others outside to have fun. But afterwards I like my own peace and space. I don’t even invite people over anymore while unbothered
Loved this video ❤
This is crazy im the same way like no cap thought i was the only one
I have no friends. And im ok with that now. Im tired of being used and being drained by people
so much respect for you tysm
Thank you so much 🙏. God bless you 🙏
"ONE BAG A CYAR" took me OUT 😭
@@maurissaalecia 😂😂
Once she said read I was like “ DAMN DAMN DAMN” 😭😂💀
But I’m definitely gonna catch up on some bridgerton.
New subscriber alert 🚨 I ❤u already
@@KhiliKaior 🥹 thank you love
love thisssss!
9:34 im the outlines first typa colorer any other way will stress me somehow 👽 and i like how u film things imo its simple but satisfying to look at
This a fire video right here, fw the message
I don't even see your lonely, as you say. Your just a person that is wanting to be around the tribe that you can spend your life with. And you make that really obvious when your hanging out with your associate. Your path in life may cross mine in person one day.
I love this ❤