I feel so drawn to this comment because this is exactly how I am. I am continuing to work on overthinking & controlling my thoughts carefully because if not, it could take me into a dark space which I do not want to be in. Funny enough, reading has helped me with this.
As a pastor’s son and a musician, I love the quiet and being alone. Sometimes I don’t interact with people until Sunday rolls around. And when I’m done playing and church is over…. I’M OUT!!! I don’t listen to music as much as you do because I’ve been surrounded by it for so long. I need breaks so I won’t hate it. Stay with God. He has NEVER failed me. Just be reminded good and bad will come, but he’ll give you the strength to endure. Be well.
I love my own space. That will never change. You be surprised how much more it you are willing to give up when you are with people who just get you.That can be draining trying to impress people. The right company can energise you too. It is a great sign on who you should spend time with or not.
Yes being alone does make you stronger but once you get out there in the world and meet people. Your connections will be pure and genuine & not forced.. people force things and relationships cuz the fear of being alone.. once the fear is gone you can be yourself and in case you do end up being alone again you will be fine with it cuz you been there before.. and it won’t feel foreign to you..
I’m an introvert with social anxiety so I be feeling alone all the time but I try to distract my mind with productivity so I don’t overthink. However, I like being alone sometimes because I love peace and quiet and often get overstimulated so I need a safe place to recharge. Being alone is ok sometimes and it shows strength and courage.
I recently had to tell an employer about myself and all I could tell her is what I’ve done. It was so sickening, but necessary, because I realized how emotionally stunted I am. I never put the time and effort into building meaningful friendships, exploring my interests, etc. I wish younger me spent less time in his head and more time doing the things I loved with people I grew to love.
I feel this so bad! feeling lonely in a crowd and making friends is HARD!! esp at 21 imo lol but with God we're never really alone and im learning how to enjoy my self in my loneliness, until God blesses me with Godly friends who seek him as well ! this is such a relatable video friend ! edit; I'm feeling lonely today finna go spend some money! lol!
Your story sounds identical to mine, only child, never able to find people like me, not a big people person. However I hardly feel lonely anymore when I discovered that the key to lonliness is actually being alone. Which sounded ridiculous at first. But my lonliness stemmed from feeling rejected, feeling unincluded, like I didn't have access to relationships and couldn't be apart of something. But as I was doing Bible study, I discovered something very subtle. Jesus was always intentional about being alone. The Bible said that He withdrew from the crowds...on purpose. I always felt like lonliness was forced on me and I tried to fight it. But once I leaned into being alone and started being intentional about it, spending more time with God, being productive, those feelings melted away. Lonliness has very little to do with people. We can be around people 25/8 and still feel alone. It is the mentality we must conquer. Who said being alone is something we need to try and escape? Having this mentality has also boosted my confidence and made me get along better with people.
i llike you said that, "loneliness doesn't have to with people," it is much more important to change the mindset and im happy to hear how you shifted it!!
I try to distract myself with activities + stuff to do, however when you try reaching out and connecting with somebody it really sucks once I inevitably get ghosted. It feels like being lost at sea, seeing a plane/ship pass by while you hopelessly shoot up a flare. It’s the hope that really kills and I find I feel better when I stop trying to reach out and just do my own thing. All the best ❤
this is extremely relatable. this was in my recommended, although i'm already subscribed to you. for my entire life i always felt like a loner, i didn't have many friends growing up and even now i can only count my friends on one hand. i have an outgoing personality deep down but i spend most of my time alone - kinda lonely sometimes. but this is the way its been. this video came to me at the right time. i love how you talked about Jesus here too, im Christian as well and i admire your wisdom and how you honor God. you're very beautiful too
word for word feeling the same way. feeling so seen.. my own company is comforting but lately been craving more ppl like me to be around. it gets hard when its always just “only you”
That’s so real, but I’m a foster child who was never adopted. All I had was the Lord and the kind social workers that looked out for me. We got this, keep praying and I’ll be praying for you ❤❤❤❤
i really needed this. thank you for this video girl 🩷🫂 im definitely in my isolation season and i was looking at it so negatively. instead of looking at it in a positive light, i loved everything about this video. ESPECIALLY THE MESSAGES!👏🏽
The way you just gained a new subscriber I really felt seen with this whole video, especially being the eldest daughter and constantly feeling like I’d rather be alone I realized I do like people i am slowly bettering my relationship with myself.
First 30 seconds & I started crying. I’ve been feeling like this for yearsss. Im the only child as well & it hurts sometimes seeing people with a friend they do everything with yk
I’m 17 and this is my first time being homeschooled for a year before I graduate. And I don’t interact with people outside my home on a daily basis. I need to learn how to enjoy my own company. Thank you for this video, it gave me ideas
Aw I felt so connected with you, when you said you were a Capricorn, it made sense cus I’m a cancer but I love this, God bless, kinda made me feel less lonely because it’s pretty much me as a mirror through a screen.
22:21 Ayeee capricorns stand uppp 🙌🏾 i love being a capricorn so much because they’re are amazing people just like you, this video really is helping me on my journey of finding myself and being alone with the things i enjoy. This is a great video! keep it up gorgeous.
“Back home I’m at peace… too MUCH peace it seems.” 🤣🤣 7:53 when I tellll youuu I’ve never related so much to a video!!! I love being alone it’s ridiculous.
I can totally relate. But once you let go of the hating people part no matter how super obnoxious they can be, you come into your real power, you discover who YOU are❤
babyyy the intro alone sent me ! 😭🖤 i relate to the intro so much being a people pleaser yet having no one to talk to. having to water down my own persona to be liked / fit in. not to mention the early 00s was hard anyways.
ever since i started watching your vids in the last few months, i have resonated with you incredibly!! i feel like this video was def for me while I'm in my isolation season...it's doing its big one! thank you ashley 💕 keep going! in all areas of your life! I'm glad to experience just a glimpse of yours and am truly inspired by your vulnerability on this channel 🥹
You are me and I am youuu, I’ve never related sm . Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this & express urself. It makes me feel not as lonely 🫶🏽🫶🏽
hi girly, I hope you see this comment. I just turned 19 this year and I struggle with a lot of the things that you struggle with as well. I’m not an only child but everyone’s older than me so i ended up being alone a lot of the time growing up so i definitely deal with only child syndrome😒😭 I’m trying to snap out of my maladaptive daydreaming and enjoy my reality more even though it’s definitely hard while also trying to enjoy my own company and not always need distraction, but we’re in this together and as young women I think it’s so important for us to share our struggles because there’s so many of us out there who relate❤ please keep making your videos girly - a fellow jamaican gyal
@@HERDuh565 omg heyyy! we are in this together, just when you feel like no one else feels the same way, all these people plus me go through it too! thank you for watching, blessings!
Some people are afraid to be alone so its beautiful if you have the power to feel comfortable alone. Also struggled with that since i live in my own was used to other people around me but i figure it out and master the skill of being alone. Mostly i am feeling way better alone then around people but humans need interaction from time to time. Thanks for this video right on time appreciate it❤️💯
ME LOVE MAN!😭So this don’t apply to me yet but I’m loving this, I love being alone majority of the days and just locked up in my apartment doing totally nothing. Keep giving us this type of content I really enjoyed
I really tried to stop watching bc I have work but I couldn’t, your energy is immaculate, I’m an only child too, my story goes really deep and I have always been.. well, always felt so alone because no one was there for me. My only care giver was my mother and she wasn’t there for me at all either. But once I stopped seeking for that love that i lacked to receive from her and started seeking it within things started to feel a lot less cloudy. Your video is very well spoken and made it feel homey for me, I’m ver grateful for this video made me smile and giggle🥹
This was such a great video! It feels great not to feel like the only person who feels like a loner. I don’t feel as lonely anymore, and I am starting to plan to do things like going out and meeting people and making new friends. Continue to put yourself out there 🙂
New subscriber ❤i definitely enjoy my own company, and only "socialization" i enjoy is listening to others like you and me . I'm so glad we met! I like reading, cooking, at home hobbies too. Please post music playlists you are listening to. Be blessed, girl! 😊 -Kayla from Texas
Always saying this but I realized how i blatantly would distract myself from doing things I enjoy or that I needed to do… this video is confirmation that loneliness to me is really me saying I’m bored and I’m not fulfilled with myself. Thanks for sharing I feel we share some similarities like we’re both lefties and I can eat down on a color book lol
I have been feeling this way a lot recently and I think it is time for me to start getting comfy doing things on my own again. I have always preferred to be alone and sometimes feel a little lonely than be in bad company - really loved this vid. Also - Girl, you are gorgeous! Can you drop the deets on those glasses? I love them and am struggling to find frames as big as I want them.
I can relate to this. I literally have nobody to speak with OTP nor In Person. I've been single since like 14 years, but I get along with my Co-Workers. I just don't have long conversations w/ anyone. I'm 29 y/o now & I still have nobody to speak too or vent too about whatever it is i'm feeling. So don't feel bad. You may have people to message or facetime, but i've never had that. I don't really know what its like to be in a relationship or friendship
Omg I just love your personality 🫶🏽 I was hooked within the first 5 mins only to later in the video find out you’re a Capricorn too , explains it 🥰 , I can relate on almost everything you spoke on !
Recently I’m 41 days sober and I just got back to my home town. Been here two weeks now and I feel like going out and partying and celebrating the fact that I did graduate rehab but I want to drink and smoke only because I have so much time on my hands. Meds help with certain cravings but not like this video. I read my bible and sing worship music but it was still so much time I had free to do whatever I wanted. So thank you so much for even thinking to do this video. I need a laptop cause I have some stuff I would love to talk about on my channel. I love how content you are with being by yourself. I only liked being alone so I wouldn’t have to share my smoke lol. But fr tho I’m learning a lot by just this one video I can’t wait to dive off in your channel more in depth. Love from da boot! ❤#LOUISIANA
I think the best thing I ever did was to learn how to be happy alone and that I don’t need another person or a group of people to be happy with. Especially as a young man who just recently dealt with a toxic female from social media and it almost ended ugly to the point the police were involved because she threatened me. Right then and there I realized that being alone is not that bad after all
I love videos like these, I relate so much. I have friends but I rather move alone most times. I’m the youngest child I was growing up while my siblings was grown.
I love this video sm because i feel as though it explains me so much & I never felt like I related to somebody so much as I relate to you so thank you for this video♥️
I feel like this video helped us all feel like we not alone and I be real I felt like you were my friend because you get IT!!😂🎉 appreciate this video a lot girl!! God bless you ❤💯 when I tell you I cannot wait to find MYYYY PEOPLE on God 😩 Joshua 1:9 be hitting hard and Psalm 121:7!!!❤ the self awareness part at the end 19:57 😮💨 love that for you - fellow earth sign!!! I be writing this message as I’m watching and have to keep editing to add more 🤣🤣🤣🤣😆 the waterfall cute!!!
It takes some getting use to ..I only speak to my brother and parents and grandparents pretty much..some days are lonely but some days I’m glad I’ve decided to be anti social
Hey girl 👋🏾 Your video just so happened to pop up on my news feed but anyways I can totally relate to this. I grew up the only child so I know what it’s like and yes it gets lonely at times but remember there’s a difference being alone and feeling lonely. I rather be alone than being around people and spaces that don’t mean me any good or deserve my presence. Keep going babygirl and the right people will come along at the right time. Date yourself, get to know yourself and do things that you love. It’s more peaceful. Love you ❤ New subbie 😘
Hi my first time coming across your channel, relatable topic and thank you for sharing your journey! Can I just say I really enjoyed this video the editing, the conversations, the advice you gave, what you shared, just everything was wholesome !! Wishing that you’re well just subscribed I’m looking forward for what’s to come for your channel 💌
Girl, you are me new favorite content creator. Authenticity is something so hard to find nowadays, and these last few videos you made have resonated so much with me. You’re doing the damn thing, keep it up love🫶🏽 P.S.- Allegedly and The Weight of Blood by Tiffany D. Jackson are amazingggg reads.
I’m older, an only child, with 2 kids now. I feel this on many levels. In college, I had to move into my own dorm bc I could not get along with my roommates. Thank god that was an option at my school! 😅 Now, I have to find time for my little family but i still prefer doing stuff alone. The only child introvert in me just won’t die. Lol. It’s a part of me
Hey this is my first time ever being on your channel and I wanna say i 110% relate with what you said about starting youtube for a sense of connection/relatability and to share your passions (as a youtuber myself) also could we get a praise/christian playlist? I love the way you talk about God!!! ❤
i’m a capricorn too omg!! i could tell you were 💗😭 i understand exactly what you’re saying. i’m trying to learn now at 16 how to be comfortable with myself, especially with a partner 😅
I feel this so much and always wondered why I’m so independent but it’s literally because I grew up with no sibling with me everyday grant I do have on but he’s a boy on top off we are 10 years apart by time I needed emotional support from him he was grown move out with his own life, I also feel like we say “alone time” we is like contradiction to ourselves but we only say that because we try to escape our thoughts/that’s a way how we vent them out
go watch my new vlog, on how i stopped depending on friends to travel!
ur gorgeous baby girl
does water really work? 😂
Anyway
I been going myself, sometimes your not the friend you think you are too other people
@@PrincessV95 & sometimes u have to be a friend to yourself
@@james-d9l definitely
the deadly combo feeling lonely and being anti social is so real girl
smh deadass
frrr
felt this ESPECIALLY lonely as an only child...girl im 23 n in shambles rn
it be like that! we got this
HEAVY
HEAVY on 23 and in shambles!!
I think this is the most relatable comment lmfao me being 22 and I felt this heavy.
@@j-777v y’all im 21 don’t scare me 😭
Sameeee I’m an only child as well and I somewhat struggle being alone sometimes and I’m 21
"distractions from looking at other peoples lives stops you from focusing on yours" ‼‼
!! very much so
Your hobbies will be there for you when nothing else is
Ain’t that the truth everyone should have at least 3 to five hobbies
🤞🏾
Facts
yeah i want to play videogames alone for the rest of my life
“i hate yall matter fact” REAL 😂 but fr im getting sick of the alone stuff too but i realize you are your best company
I lie to myself to make me feel better too,
I feel like people who are like myself will always have problems feeling along simply because we think too much. And the mind is a very vast space
Yesss sb just told me I think too much 😂😂😂 & I do but I can’t help that
I feel so drawn to this comment because this is exactly how I am. I am continuing to work on overthinking & controlling my thoughts carefully because if not, it could take me into a dark space which I do not want to be in. Funny enough, reading has helped me with this.
Fr
As a pastor’s son and a musician, I love the quiet and being alone. Sometimes I don’t interact with people until Sunday rolls around. And when I’m done playing and church is over…. I’M OUT!!! I don’t listen to music as much as you do because I’ve been surrounded by it for so long. I need breaks so I won’t hate it.
Stay with God. He has NEVER failed me. Just be reminded good and bad will come, but he’ll give you the strength to endure. Be well.
im learning that! thank you!
I love my own space. That will never change. You be surprised how much more it you are willing to give up when you are with people who just get you.That can be draining trying to impress people. The right company can energise you too. It is a great sign on who you should spend time with or not.
God isn’t a he. I don’t believe but I rather than just believing in this god, just love being with yourself. Period.
Being alone makes you strong !
Yess and powerful
Needed to hear this 💯
I lie to myself to make me feel better too
Yes being alone does make you stronger but once you get out there in the world and meet people. Your connections will be pure and genuine & not forced.. people force things and relationships cuz the fear of being alone.. once the fear is gone you can be yourself and in case you do end up being alone again you will be fine with it cuz you been there before.. and it won’t feel foreign to you..
it makes me weak
You are not alone, God is with you
I’m an introvert with social anxiety so I be feeling alone all the time but I try to distract my mind with productivity so I don’t overthink. However, I like being alone sometimes because I love peace and quiet and often get overstimulated so I need a safe place to recharge. Being alone is ok sometimes and it shows strength and courage.
The key is to find community that aligns with one of your hobbies
I recently had to tell an employer about myself and all I could tell her is what I’ve done. It was so sickening, but necessary, because I realized how emotionally stunted I am. I never put the time and effort into building meaningful friendships, exploring my interests, etc. I wish younger me spent less time in his head and more time doing the things I loved with people I grew to love.
Ain’t too late to change my nigga get out there the world waiting for you
You still got time.
@@Jah-Marii Fr, im being more intentional about trying new things and saying yes a lil more
@@amirrichaun good job!
@@Jah-Marii thanks, we all a work in progress. Just at different points
Not the intro have a tearing up. Thank you baby for being so vulnerable and open to us!❤🫶cause we all human are beings
Well said. Same. Both you Ashley and the comment poster. Thank you.
I feel this so bad! feeling lonely in a crowd and making friends is HARD!! esp at 21 imo lol but with God we're never really alone and im learning how to enjoy my self in my loneliness, until God blesses me with Godly friends who seek him as well ! this is such a relatable video friend !
edit; I'm feeling lonely today finna go spend some money! lol!
thank you! and yes Godly friends are the ones to seek! lollll
Capppp yall females got thousands of male in yall DMs
Your story sounds identical to mine, only child, never able to find people like me, not a big people person. However I hardly feel lonely anymore when I discovered that the key to lonliness is actually being alone. Which sounded ridiculous at first. But my lonliness stemmed from feeling rejected, feeling unincluded, like I didn't have access to relationships and couldn't be apart of something. But as I was doing Bible study, I discovered something very subtle. Jesus was always intentional about being alone. The Bible said that He withdrew from the crowds...on purpose. I always felt like lonliness was forced on me and I tried to fight it. But once I leaned into being alone and started being intentional about it, spending more time with God, being productive, those feelings melted away. Lonliness has very little to do with people. We can be around people 25/8 and still feel alone. It is the mentality we must conquer. Who said being alone is something we need to try and escape? Having this mentality has also boosted my confidence and made me get along better with people.
i llike you said that, "loneliness doesn't have to with people," it is much more important to change the mindset and im happy to hear how you shifted it!!
THE INTRO WAS SO REALLLL “why was it that i felt this way? is there no one else in the world like me?” LIKE DUDEE
Facts I be thinking it’s just me this like the second creator to be just like me
I understand this, not having friends or family. Wishing you love and light on your journey ❤
@@Killahrose thank you love
girl i’m in school and i can’t stand these people chile so thanks for your video i feel seen thank you for harding
@@Spirutallaina completely felt! you got this and trust one day you’ll find your people
I try to distract myself with activities + stuff to do, however when you try reaching out and connecting with somebody it really sucks once I inevitably get ghosted. It feels like being lost at sea, seeing a plane/ship pass by while you hopelessly shoot up a flare. It’s the hope that really kills and I find I feel better when I stop trying to reach out and just do my own thing. All the best ❤
this is extremely relatable. this was in my recommended, although i'm already subscribed to you. for my entire life i always felt like a loner, i didn't have many friends growing up and even now i can only count my friends on one hand. i have an outgoing personality deep down but i spend most of my time alone - kinda lonely sometimes. but this is the way its been. this video came to me at the right time. i love how you talked about Jesus here too, im Christian as well and i admire your wisdom and how you honor God. you're very beautiful too
@@bratzdollspeakz heyy, i try my best to be relatable and im glad to be the one to shed light on these things! and thank you! you’re gorgeous!!
@@ashleyalondra Omgggg thank u♡♡
Capppp yall females got thousands of male in yall DMs
That’s better than me I literally have no friends
word for word feeling the same way. feeling so seen.. my own company is comforting but lately been craving more ppl like me to be around. it gets hard when its always just “only you”
This video has brought me soo much comfort in knowing I’m not the only one who feels alone and does random stuff everyday
I never realized how alone I always until my mom passed, im 20 and just now becoming okay with being by myself
That’s so real, but I’m a foster child who was never adopted. All I had was the Lord and the kind social workers that looked out for me. We got this, keep praying and I’ll be praying for you ❤❤❤❤
@@afrofaeries yes I wish you the best you’re doing great❤️❤️
you don’t understand how much i appreciate your channel❤
omgg *tears* thank youu!
i really needed this. thank you for this video girl 🩷🫂 im definitely in my isolation season and i was looking at it so negatively. instead of looking at it in a positive light, i loved everything about this video. ESPECIALLY THE MESSAGES!👏🏽
The way you just gained a new subscriber I really felt seen with this whole video, especially being the eldest daughter and constantly feeling like I’d rather be alone I realized I do like people i am slowly bettering my relationship with myself.
First 30 seconds & I started crying. I’ve been feeling like this for yearsss. Im the only child as well & it hurts sometimes seeing people with a friend they do everything with yk
I’m 17 and this is my first time being homeschooled for a year before I graduate. And I don’t interact with people outside my home on a daily basis. I need to learn how to enjoy my own company. Thank you for this video, it gave me ideas
!!!!! Getting sick of being in ur own solitude definitely does get irritated
Aw I felt so connected with you, when you said you were a Capricorn, it made sense cus I’m a cancer but I love this, God bless, kinda made me feel less lonely because it’s pretty much me as a mirror through a screen.
that makes me feel great! you are not alone
It's really hard to trust people they would turn their back on you in a second at the end of the day all you got is you.
22:21 Ayeee capricorns stand uppp 🙌🏾 i love being a capricorn so much because they’re are amazing people just like you, this video really is helping me on my journey of finding myself and being alone with the things i enjoy. This is a great video! keep it up gorgeous.
20:00 love you just might have social anxiety, you described it perfectly
“Back home I’m at peace… too MUCH peace it seems.” 🤣🤣 7:53 when I tellll youuu I’ve never related so much to a video!!! I love being alone it’s ridiculous.
I can totally relate. But once you let go of the hating people part no matter how super obnoxious they can be, you come into your real power, you discover who YOU are❤
Thank so much for this I love you being real and telling us lonely people is okay
babyyy the intro alone sent me ! 😭🖤 i relate to the intro so much being a people pleaser yet having no one to talk to. having to water down my own persona to be liked / fit in. not to mention the early 00s was hard anyways.
There’s prayer in this. I realize the way you felt may change, but being singular is a mode, it has a means and it doesn’t end unless you decide.
ever since i started watching your vids in the last few months, i have resonated with you incredibly!! i feel like this video was def for me while I'm in my isolation season...it's doing its big one! thank you ashley 💕 keep going! in all areas of your life! I'm glad to experience just a glimpse of yours and am truly inspired by your vulnerability on this channel 🥹
@@lillydior this 🥹 make me feels so happy inside! thank you
You are me and I am youuu, I’ve never related sm . Thank you for being vulnerable enough to share this & express urself. It makes me feel not as lonely 🫶🏽🫶🏽
hi girly, I hope you see this comment. I just turned 19 this year and I struggle with a lot of the things that you struggle with as well. I’m not an only child but everyone’s older than me so i ended up being alone a lot of the time growing up so i definitely deal with only child syndrome😒😭 I’m trying to snap out of my maladaptive daydreaming and enjoy my reality more even though it’s definitely hard while also trying to enjoy my own company and not always need distraction, but we’re in this together and as young women I think it’s so important for us to share our struggles because there’s so many of us out there who relate❤ please keep making your videos girly - a fellow jamaican gyal
@@HERDuh565 omg heyyy! we are in this together, just when you feel like no one else feels the same way, all these people
plus me go through it too! thank you for watching, blessings!
19 and Jamaican as well, I agree with everything and I’m in the same situation for about 3 years now.
@@Ashley-fm1pb hey babe, i completely understand, we’re in this together tho
Some people are afraid to be alone so its beautiful if you have the power to feel comfortable alone. Also struggled with that since i live in my own was used to other people around me but i figure it out and master the skill of being alone. Mostly i am feeling way better alone then around people but humans need interaction from time to time. Thanks for this video right on time appreciate it❤️💯
Good on you for sharing! Takes a lotta courage cant lie and you helping peopl
loved this, YOU’RE SO REAL!!
I’m currently in my solo dolo era needed these tips and loved your video btw real authentic!!
the solo era is never bad! thank you
ME LOVE MAN!😭So this don’t apply to me yet but I’m loving this, I love being alone majority of the days and just locked up in my apartment doing totally nothing. Keep giving us this type of content I really enjoyed
Thanks for your transparency it helps soooo many people even the ones you hate lol they still see this and it will resonate
the editing on this video goes crazy!!💚
I really tried to stop watching bc I have work but I couldn’t, your energy is immaculate, I’m an only child too, my story goes really deep and I have always been.. well, always felt so alone because no one was there for me. My only care giver was my mother and she wasn’t there for me at all either. But once I stopped seeking for that love that i lacked to receive from her and started seeking it within things started to feel a lot less cloudy. Your video is very well spoken and made it feel homey for me, I’m ver grateful for this video made me smile and giggle🥹
This was such a great video! It feels great not to feel like the only person who feels like a loner. I don’t feel as lonely anymore, and I am starting to plan to do things like going out and meeting people and making new friends. Continue to put yourself out there 🙂
New subscriber ❤i definitely enjoy my own company, and only "socialization" i enjoy is listening to others like you and me . I'm so glad we met! I like reading, cooking, at home hobbies too. Please post music playlists you are listening to. Be blessed, girl! 😊 -Kayla from Texas
@@katsunflower2560 heyy! i’m so glad we met as well
Always saying this but I realized how i blatantly would distract myself from doing things I enjoy or that I needed to do… this video is confirmation that loneliness to me is really me saying I’m bored and I’m not fulfilled with myself. Thanks for sharing I feel we share some similarities like we’re both lefties and I can eat down on a color book lol
yess exactly! and twinsss lol
Love the whole vid queen!! The outro speach was a delight especially as it had the waterfall running in the back❤😂
I would appreciate a woman like this
Facts
your not the only one. dope video. great story line
im glad this came to me because i feel this so deeply 🤍
Insightful, as someone whose always trying to grow and build something. It could be a lonely road sometimes.
I have been feeling this way a lot recently and I think it is time for me to start getting comfy doing things on my own again. I have always preferred to be alone and sometimes feel a little lonely than be in bad company - really loved this vid.
Also - Girl, you are gorgeous! Can you drop the deets on those glasses? I love them and am struggling to find frames as big as I want them.
yes they are from shein :)
Thank you for making this video and existing 🫶🏾 I resonate heavy!
being an only child the downside is constant feeling alone a room full of people
I can relate to this. I literally have nobody to speak with OTP nor In Person. I've been single since like 14 years, but I get along with my Co-Workers. I just don't have long conversations w/ anyone. I'm 29 y/o now & I still have nobody to speak too or vent too about whatever it is i'm feeling. So don't feel bad. You may have people to message or facetime, but i've never had that. I don't really know what its like to be in a relationship or friendship
Omg I just love your personality 🫶🏽 I was hooked within the first 5 mins only to later in the video find out you’re a Capricorn too , explains it 🥰 , I can relate on almost everything you spoke on !
cap gangggg
Ranned cross this pon my lunch break & felt less alone really preciate ya
Felt this on a different level, subscribed!
Definitely needed this video today! 🙏🏾
This came up on time ❤ I was just in my head abt this
"I hate yall matter fact" is so real, my classmates are so insufferable thst me and my friends have to eat lunch in the bathroom to get away from them
I needed this. Thank you 🫀
Recently I’m 41 days sober and I just got back to my home town. Been here two weeks now and I feel like going out and partying and celebrating the fact that I did graduate rehab but I want to drink and smoke only because I have so much time on my hands. Meds help with certain cravings but not like this video. I read my bible and sing worship music but it was still so much time I had free to do whatever I wanted. So thank you so much for even thinking to do this video. I need a laptop cause I have some stuff I would love to talk about on my channel. I love how content you are with being by yourself. I only liked being alone so I wouldn’t have to share my smoke lol. But fr tho I’m learning a lot by just this one video I can’t wait to dive off in your channel more in depth. Love from da boot! ❤#LOUISIANA
Girly teach yourself like a gem ❤
I think the best thing I ever did was to learn how to be happy alone and that I don’t need another person or a group of people to be happy with. Especially as a young man who just recently dealt with a toxic female from social media and it almost ended ugly to the point the police were involved because she threatened me. Right then and there I realized that being alone is not that bad after all
So true I’m sure so many people are feeling like this
Relatable once you said you’re the only child fr
I love videos like these, I relate so much. I have friends but I rather move alone most times. I’m the youngest child I was growing up while my siblings was grown.
Subscribed just cause YOU ARE REAL 💗
Playing that law boss is definitely that self care ❤
Thank you Thank you for this video. It related to my current situation in so many ways!!
im so glad
I love this video sm because i feel as though it explains me so much & I never felt like I related to somebody so much as I relate to you so thank you for this video♥️
Your channel is so relatable🥹 congrats on 17k 🎉
@@Therealkeairakeonna THANK YOUUUU
I feel like this video helped us all feel like we not alone and I be real I felt like you were my friend because you get IT!!😂🎉 appreciate this video a lot girl!! God bless you ❤💯 when I tell you I cannot wait to find MYYYY PEOPLE on God 😩 Joshua 1:9 be hitting hard and Psalm 121:7!!!❤ the self awareness part at the end 19:57 😮💨 love that for you - fellow earth sign!!! I be writing this message as I’m watching and have to keep editing to add more 🤣🤣🤣🤣😆 the waterfall cute!!!
@@EllieBattes i love ur comment sm!!! 🥹🥹 we are never alone remember thatt! stay blessed
I really enjoyed this vid nd having a partner that wants space sometimes.This vids really helps me bc sometimes it’s ok to be alone.
Girl within the first 15 seconds I liked and subscribed. I feel the exact same way. I thought I was weird. ❤
@@yasminthenubian3976 ur definitely not!!
It takes some getting use to ..I only speak to my brother and parents and grandparents pretty much..some days are lonely but some days I’m glad I’ve decided to be anti social
Thank you for this 🤍
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Hey girl 👋🏾 Your video just so happened to pop up on my news feed but anyways I can totally relate to this. I grew up the only child so I know what it’s like and yes it gets lonely at times but remember there’s a difference being alone and feeling lonely. I rather be alone than being around people and spaces that don’t mean me any good or deserve my presence. Keep going babygirl and the right people will come along at the right time. Date yourself, get to know yourself and do things that you love. It’s more peaceful. Love you ❤ New subbie 😘
@@jamilahhendricks7681 thank you hun for ur words! love you!
@@ashleyalondra You’re very welcome!! 🤗💕 Thank you!! 🙏🏾❤️
Hi my first time coming across your channel, relatable topic and thank you for sharing your journey!
Can I just say I really enjoyed this video the editing, the conversations, the advice you gave, what you shared, just everything was wholesome !!
Wishing that you’re well just subscribed I’m looking forward for what’s to come for your channel 💌
@@foreverchris. thank you chris
I'm only just getting started with solo trips and activities. Great video, really educational, and thank you for the additional ideas.
ok i like you! definitely got my subscribe, ive never related to somebody so much down to the romance novels too!
yay! welcome
Girl, you are me new favorite content creator. Authenticity is something so hard to find nowadays, and these last few videos you made have resonated so much with me. You’re doing the damn thing, keep it up love🫶🏽
P.S.- Allegedly and The Weight of Blood by Tiffany D. Jackson are amazingggg reads.
@@kaylah2795 omg meee! thank you hun
Content, music, and the Jam' twang...I'm with you!
This was needed! Felt this sm.
I’m older, an only child, with 2 kids now. I feel this on many levels. In college, I had to move into my own dorm bc I could not get along with my roommates. Thank god that was an option at my school! 😅 Now, I have to find time for my little family but i still prefer doing stuff alone. The only child introvert in me just won’t die. Lol. It’s a part of me
Girl!!! So glad I found your channel. I too am an only child. I’m 24, & I’m a lefty too omg lol! 💕💕💕 I love reading too & coloring & painting too!!
@@diamondnicolef_ omggg twins fr !! heyyy love
Love this so muchhh you’re very intellectual ❤❤this is me af
This is so real
Hey this is my first time ever being on your channel and I wanna say i 110% relate with what you said about starting youtube for a sense of connection/relatability and to share your passions (as a youtuber myself) also could we get a praise/christian playlist? I love the way you talk about God!!! ❤
@@amarachichats heyy! i’ll link my apple music it’s @vibewitash titled “The Lord is with me” if that helps! i’m just getting into christian music loll
@@ashleyalondra Thank youu! God Bless 😚🫶🏾
This video alone made me not feel lonely 🩷
i’m a capricorn too omg!! i could tell you were 💗😭 i understand exactly what you’re saying. i’m trying to learn now at 16 how to be comfortable with myself, especially with a partner 😅
@@cyphobic ahh twin! omg trust me you’ll slowly start to naturally get comfortable, wish you the best love
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I feel this so much and always wondered why I’m so independent but it’s literally because I grew up with no sibling with me everyday grant I do have on but he’s a boy on top off we are 10 years apart by time I needed emotional support from him he was grown move out with his own life, I also feel like we say “alone time” we is like contradiction to ourselves but we only say that because we try to escape our thoughts/that’s a way how we vent them out