Highly Official EP 2: Bare Minimum FOR WHAT | Dating Expectations, Setting Boundaries & Sneaky Links

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  • @libraxo99
    @libraxo99 ปีที่แล้ว +395

    I fucking love Paris’s honesty & I fucking love how Rhiannon’s face gon tell what she’s thinking before she does 😂😂😂💕

  • @Katiej1830
    @Katiej1830 ปีที่แล้ว +388

    These girls are REAL friends. They read each other with love and realness. I ❤️ it! Every girl needs this!

  • @badpalb
    @badpalb ปีที่แล้ว +129

    Paris is loyalty, Kayla is Empathy, Peyton is compassion, and Reanan is resilience. Love what each of these women contribute to the podcast. Excited to see y’all grow ladies ❤

    • @janetjanetttt
      @janetjanetttt ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Accurate

    • @khyliescott90
      @khyliescott90 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      so freakin accurate and the way i relate to kayla it’s like she lived my life

    • @jaidahgee
      @jaidahgee 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i love love this commenttt

  • @HananPerez96
    @HananPerez96 ปีที่แล้ว +586

    You know it’s gonna be good one cuz Paris is there👌🏽

    • @CallMehPookiex
      @CallMehPookiex ปีที่แล้ว +29

      Exactly why I pressed it🤣

    • @jamyrongarrertt1219
      @jamyrongarrertt1219 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Fuckin preach 😂😂

    • @aliciajackson4023
      @aliciajackson4023 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I was happy when I saw all four of them💕 Paris my fave though

    • @Timasbuzzed
      @Timasbuzzed ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Fr

    • @Vev_Love
      @Vev_Love ปีที่แล้ว +8

      She’s the mother of the group.

  • @ashleybrown5226
    @ashleybrown5226 ปีที่แล้ว +106

    Paris is THAT girl. The way she thinks & communicates 👏🏼

  • @Myleah1900
    @Myleah1900 ปีที่แล้ว +43

    Payton really put the whole friend group on !! Bless her she’s so genuine and an amazing friend !

  • @emely9991
    @emely9991 ปีที่แล้ว +267

    Paris's smile is so beautiful omg

    • @iam__shaylaa
      @iam__shaylaa ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Exactly she so fineee

    • @xoxovvaehh
      @xoxovvaehh ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Literally!!! She’s so beautiful

    • @Lucysolutions28
      @Lucysolutions28 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Very 😍

  • @haileybea
    @haileybea ปีที่แล้ว +62

    “It’s okay to let people go” ooooo seriously one of my biggest lessons that I’m learning in my twenties currently

    • @Niecey521
      @Niecey521 ปีที่แล้ว

      Facts! 💯💯

  • @veeewap
    @veeewap ปีที่แล้ว +54

    This episode should be called hold your real friends accountable. Y’all are growing right before our eyes it’s beautiful to see yall are beautiful af wishing you guys the best xoxo!

  • @LifeBeingDest
    @LifeBeingDest ปีที่แล้ว +53

    The vibes are VIBINGGG 🎉🎉

    • @Paytonbaeton
      @Paytonbaeton ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Thanks Dest baby ❤❤

  • @coleeeeg
    @coleeeeg ปีที่แล้ว +66

    Paris please be on every episode moving forward PLEASE 🙏🏽

  • @msdang7
    @msdang7 ปีที่แล้ว +170

    Kaylaaaaaaa stop playing with these folks!!! You know you are a dime!!!!! If he stopped messing with you over your looks guess what he can’t handle you!!!! You deserve the soft life and unconditional respect. Miss one, next 15 one coming! Also I love the vulnerability and dialogue between you ladies 🎉🎉🎉🎉

  • @allisonbond3721
    @allisonbond3721 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Okay but for real though - the PROGRESS and the GROWTH, we absolutely love to see it. Vibing with y'all sitting in the car smoking with the audience, cracking us up, making us feel like we're part of the group, and now look where y'all are! This some professional shit, and you look like you BELONG at the top babes. We're cheering you on the whole way!! 🥰

  • @littlejalah
    @littlejalah ปีที่แล้ว +56

    Y’all definitely hitting 100k within a month. The last video already at 80k. I love seeing y’all win 💜

  • @amberlyna.136
    @amberlyna.136 ปีที่แล้ว +47

    Kayla, I know you read the comments, and I think you were looking extra pretty in this one 😮‍💨🔥 the gloss especially just had me staring for a second & barely listening 😂

    • @Theofficialkaylamarie
      @Theofficialkaylamarie ปีที่แล้ว +12

      LMFAO and do ! Thank you so much my love 🥹🤍🤍🤍

    • @rinareax2789
      @rinareax2789 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

      This is such a wholesome interaction aha so cute 🧡

  • @sidnie98
    @sidnie98 ปีที่แล้ว +88

    I’m glad Paris is back! I like her mindset

  • @xomcrrockstarxo
    @xomcrrockstarxo ปีที่แล้ว +31

    Paris just sitting pretty and listening. I always say it, but Paris is amazing to look at. 💖 Like y’all all are.

  • @taejahmraee
    @taejahmraee ปีที่แล้ว +15

    the way paris said EXACTLY what needed to be said 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾

  • @naecrest5151
    @naecrest5151 ปีที่แล้ว +76

    Reanan is growing on me . I’m really starting to love her vibe , she keep everything 💯 ❤ and Kayla of course , she so down to earth and got a good ❤️ she be talkin that shxt too .

  • @butterfly23452
    @butterfly23452 ปีที่แล้ว +78

    oh yea paris gotta stay she the stand on business friend

  • @kgnl4e
    @kgnl4e ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Paris and Kayla said things that a lot of women to hear! this episode was much needed for a lot of women.

  • @msdang7
    @msdang7 ปีที่แล้ว +18

    Kaylaaaaaaa stop playing with these folks!!! You know you are a dime!!!!! If he stopped messing with you over your looks guess what he can’t handle you!!!! You deserve the soft life and unconditional respect. Miss one, next 15 one coming!

  • @prettysag
    @prettysag ปีที่แล้ว +109

    paris always says the right things! you can tell she’s strong minded & knows what she wants for herself! one thing to really admire🫶🏼

    • @prettysag
      @prettysag ปีที่แล้ว +15

      like she’s quiet but when she talks her words & what she’s communicating holds weight

    • @NorraiGyanni
      @NorraiGyanni ปีที่แล้ว +5

      For sure !! that’s why i like her so much , she reminds me of myself in my friend group fr

  • @KeeyuhM
    @KeeyuhM ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t watch podcasts but I love you girls downnnnn. Each one of you brings something to the table in this friend group. Love the convos! ❤

  • @nikkimercedes5391
    @nikkimercedes5391 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love Paris she deadass be talking that shit for real 🤣🤣❤️

  • @jessicachanae9977
    @jessicachanae9977 ปีที่แล้ว +21

    I love everything Paris says. She is always so honest and keeps it 💯

  • @catricelv
    @catricelv ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I’m hollering 😂 Kayla is funny asf finna burn down the studio Paris ass just sing happy birthday all frantically 💀💀 Reanan and Paeton in the back shook asf that whole part was funny asf 😭😭

    • @Niecey521
      @Niecey521 ปีที่แล้ว

      Kayla didn’t give a fuck about lighting the other candle whatsoever 😂😂😂😂😂 and Paeton really was all for it!

    • @antoinettec9127
      @antoinettec9127 ปีที่แล้ว

      yooo that whole part had me dying! paris like "you aint seen the smoke?"

  • @hEhEimwi3rd
    @hEhEimwi3rd ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love watching y'all from day 1 with the hotbox sessions and so happy to see the success y'all have and more coming! Y'all remind me so much of my close friend group its four of us too and the genuinity of it all, the support, the vulnerability, the honesty, but most importantly the laughter... that truly is a blessing to have and to watch. I'm blessed to have that in my life but I know some people watching this who don't yet somehow feel some healing from y'all talks. Can't wait to see more! Sending love and blessings to all of you beautiful ladies, thank you for sharing.

  • @ayeesarh
    @ayeesarh ปีที่แล้ว +15

    Paris singing happy birthday fast asfc got me dead 🤣🤣🤣

  • @whoismandee
    @whoismandee ปีที่แล้ว +22

    It’s whole now that my girl Paris is back 🎉I love yall just some real down to earth female speaking facts ❤

  • @christierounce4046
    @christierounce4046 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Love Paris so much ❤ she’s such a stable, consistent person❤ not only that but she tells the truth but in an assertive way and keeps it 💯 what an inspiration. She knows who she is and what she wants and she helps others see that too. What a women ❤

  • @daniellamorse1029
    @daniellamorse1029 ปีที่แล้ว +66

    I love Paris’ vibe 🤍

  • @dwaynebradley836
    @dwaynebradley836 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    “Are u taking about biscuit”, “No‼️” I’m so weak😂😂😂

  • @lilbittschannel6898
    @lilbittschannel6898 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Paris not “you should’ve burnt that blocked” i hollered 😭😂

  • @thatboylit587
    @thatboylit587 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    23:50 she spoke STRAIGHT FACTS. People wanna rush it so bad when they don’t have they own stuff together how can you even be with someone else when YOU HAVE NO JOB, CAR, !?? Simply getting those things I AGREE WITH HER 100000% shouldn’t be dating if your shit ain’t together or it’s a force

  • @erindavis5555
    @erindavis5555 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Paris be making so many valid points!! Don’t sleep with your male friends ladies. Ruins your friendships I needed to hear that.

  • @starlenekayci
    @starlenekayci ปีที่แล้ว +28

    I could listen to y’all all day fr 🥺 im so glad y’all decided to do this podcast

  • @maddy1490
    @maddy1490 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    i can’t even express how proud i am of y’all!! this is amazing and such a good podcast and i can’t wait to see what’s in the future for all of you 🤍 smart, kind, funny women!! LOVE IT!!

    • @bee-yn6fs
      @bee-yn6fs ปีที่แล้ว

      Riiiiigghhh theyre so dope 😍

  • @therealjaaayc
    @therealjaaayc ปีที่แล้ว +9

    paris really is my fav 😭😭 she so real!

  • @mikecarter8005
    @mikecarter8005 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Y’all are the IT girls we love when yall together especially in the weed videos now everybody have a voice to really speak on things please keep this up we love yall frfr

  • @milan9904
    @milan9904 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Hold on, Paris and Reanan just called me stupid??? 🤨 they reading Payton and Kayla for filth and it hit me a little too hard 😂😂

  • @ashleytwu
    @ashleytwu ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Listened to this on Spotify but just wanted to let yall know this episode was GOLDDDD. Y’all really made me laugh out loud!

  • @zenandesiqwana
    @zenandesiqwana ปีที่แล้ว +13

    yesss!!! we needed Paris! 😭❤️❤️❤️

  • @maliahmaus8890
    @maliahmaus8890 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love yall and everyone balances each other out so well☺️I’m so proud of yall

  • @sanaciamonae6627
    @sanaciamonae6627 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    The vibessssss! ❤❤❤ the smoke after the cake lighting took me completely out 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 and omg Pey, I attract men with girlfriends/wives as well. It’s something we have to heal from. 😅 Paris is so nurturing and very mature with her responses. Kayla is beyond hilarious. Reanan is funny too but logical.

  • @taiamarie
    @taiamarie ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Here from Payton’s TH-cam channel and from following the hotboxes. Yall are truly entertaining and so relatable 😂🫶🏽

  • @mznaturallyfit
    @mznaturallyfit ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Ive ended a decade long friendship b/c we had nothing in common, the friendship was fun in hs/college but in adulthood we had nothing in common in regards to the things that matter-politics, values, parenting,etc. Traveling with a friend is an ultimate test, i travelled with her and realized we aint the same.

  • @erineustace7713
    @erineustace7713 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Nah I love how they all help pae stay on track and get right and y'all all tell each other the hard truth. I feel like I'm sitting w my homegirls. Keep it up! 100k in a couple months!

  • @Adrianafonsec54
    @Adrianafonsec54 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    been here since the first hb vid the progress is crazy fr!

  • @Bornfighterp.i
    @Bornfighterp.i ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Paris girl, you never disappoint! However, it feels good to see you all becoming your own boss.
    I hope this will bring you all a lot of success in the coming years. I have only good wishes for you all, as you’re all set to enter a new world of success! GODSPEED GIRLS! 🥳💗

  • @butterfly23452
    @butterfly23452 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i want an episode every week pleaseee!

  • @Saintywayney
    @Saintywayney ปีที่แล้ว +11

    I love this concept so much more than the car hotbox 🔥🔥
    Please let us do call-ins for question or live QA

  • @gracefullyeva
    @gracefullyeva ปีที่แล้ว +1

    saw the notif and saw Paris and was like yesss ik what im gonna watch when I get home

  • @Coconchass
    @Coconchass ปีที่แล้ว +14

    “If the HORSE GOT A COOCHIE” - they really will f anything

  • @erin414
    @erin414 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Im going thru sum shit rn and y’all really helping me out, im tryna drop a guy that treats me good only when he wants too and it’s js he’d for me because i have attachment to him. I def have that “at least he dont do this” mindset. I’m getting too obsessed with this man and y’all enlightened me fr

  • @Adwsam
    @Adwsam ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Dang only two videos ?! Can't wait for the next one. I've never watched a podcast start to finish , I watched both start to finish wasn't bored at all

  • @Killa_Highness
    @Killa_Highness ปีที่แล้ว +1

    IVE BEEN WAITING FOR THE NEXT EP.! Yasssss queens!!!!!! Let it be known LOVE FROM NEW ZEALAND TYPICAL SAMOAN GIRL HERE. Smoking and vibing with yous!! PAY PAR KAY REA YOUS ARE LOVED !!!!!

    • @Killa_Highness
      @Killa_Highness ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Temoananuiakiwa_ GURRRRLLLLLL it’s so good to see you on here too hahaha same I be getting high asf on this 🤣💕

  • @kamiyanicole
    @kamiyanicole ปีที่แล้ว +1

    i can already tell this is gonna be my favoriteee podcast! ive been wanting a podcast of black woman thats not serious 24/7. i love yalls friendship 🫶🏾

  • @simplycassiemarie8331
    @simplycassiemarie8331 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Omg I love y’all if I had a group of friends I would definitely need this energy 💯I love that you guys not only make this podcast about your own personal experiences but you guys involve us in it as well I love how open you guys are and I love the energy I love how real Paris is Payton is just so chill and goofy I love it riri you just so blunt and you tell it like it is and everyone needs a friend like you Kayla baby I fucking love you girl your energy is so genuine and so pure I wish you would give yourself the credit that you give all the other girls the same exact way you uplift Paton that’s the same exact way you need to uplift yourself because you’re worth it and you deserve it all I love you guys keep up the good vibes and energy and keep growing I can see great things coming your way sending love and blessings to you all 💙

  • @luvvmaariee
    @luvvmaariee 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    paris is so real !! i love her ! she seems like such a good friend that everybody needs😮‍💨

  • @DREAMGIRLNICOLE777
    @DREAMGIRLNICOLE777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Y’all really out here doing it and it’s inspiring asf 💕 proud of yall crazy pretty asses

  • @bigred2701
    @bigred2701 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Omggggg I love y’all so much 🥰😮‍💨 fr like y’all have really grew

  • @angelinaarguilez1465
    @angelinaarguilez1465 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    y’all videos be on repeat for mee my everyday thing ,especially when i’m high asf getting ready it’s my fav .sending love 💕💕

  • @iam__shaylaa
    @iam__shaylaa ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Kayla is so me with the laughing I be laughing me ass off 😂😂😂😂😂😂she laugh is contagious

  • @azizaj24
    @azizaj24 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I’m a new subbie I came from Payton page my friend told me about the hotbox session videos & when I say I smoked & binge watched lol Y’all are so pretty & I love y’all energy y’all are a motivation to me as a fairly new TH-camr keep it up we love it ❤❤❤❤

  • @gabenewman4662
    @gabenewman4662 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yall got something special with this podcast😻

  • @eyeszvii
    @eyeszvii 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Please make some more episodes!! Imwatching this everytime my man goes to work😢

  • @mariaholland9176
    @mariaholland9176 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Yaassssss Paris!!!!!!! Great episode! Don’t make us wait this long next time pls

  • @catsseighteen4365
    @catsseighteen4365 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m 23, just had a baby, and my son’s dad acted happy in the beginning of my pregnancy and eventually started communicating less and less. I gave him numerous opportunities to be honest with me about anything, so my problem is the fact that he wasn’t. The point I’m making is guys can definitely switch up no matter how careful you are.

  • @bmarie___
    @bmarie___ ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Definitely feel in love with the first video I watched ❤

  • @thatboylit587
    @thatboylit587 ปีที่แล้ว

    I love her LMAO 24:00 PLZ don’t go away cause more of this the better i love everyone but that was a WORD . Glad i watched this

  • @Cataleya35Scorpo
    @Cataleya35Scorpo ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Reanan I love how you had notes ready for next episode!!! committed

  • @thelovelyseptember6406
    @thelovelyseptember6406 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Highly Official’s favorite phrase= BLEEP THAT 😂

  • @sarahpaul5955
    @sarahpaul5955 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    love u guys!! watched the WHOLE thing, NO BREAKSS !

  • @sydsymone7437
    @sydsymone7437 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love the podcast but please don’t stop doing the classic hotbox videos! They’re my favorite! It gives old school hotbox sesh with friends vibes and I haven’t had that in a while so I look to y’all for it ❤

  • @malaikaamaii
    @malaikaamaii ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m glad to see Paris back. I love this group. Yall representing for the real ones out here 🫶🏽

  • @nganeko
    @nganeko ปีที่แล้ว +1

    KAYLAAAAAAAAAA😭😭😭😭😭 ur words of kindness to Payton were so beautiful 😭😭😭😭 love this LOVE for you all ❤️

  • @jaliyahh
    @jaliyahh ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Really good episode ladies !! So happy to see Paris can’t wait for y’all to hit 100k I love y’all ❤!

  • @mekellabuggs3994
    @mekellabuggs3994 ปีที่แล้ว

    REALLLL friends!! I love this. I love how y’all aren’t “yes men”. This was so healthy to watch

  • @ariyse333
    @ariyse333 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I loved this❤ Congratulations on all the success with the first podcast and for all of 2024 besties! I've been locked in since the first hotbox 😁 I'm excited for more content with the whole gang because you all always have me laughing.

  • @TwinsiesFunniness
    @TwinsiesFunniness ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This show is so fun 😂 love the group freestyle at the end and ofc Paris 💗

  • @Daniluvxo
    @Daniluvxo ปีที่แล้ว +1

    THIS IS THE POD CAST I NEEDED! When the merch dropping ?? 😩😩

  • @chrisstyluv
    @chrisstyluv ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love y’all and the podcast the growth fr ❤I pray I meet a group of girls I can confide and confidently be me without being over read etc love that for y’all y’all understand each other ! And that’s rare as a group of girls as friends.

  • @mars9842
    @mars9842 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Congratulations ya’ll, your friendship is beautiful 🎉🎉

  • @theexoticmx8987
    @theexoticmx8987 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    “it’s okie that’s what’s candles do” 😹

  • @concentratedchels
    @concentratedchels ปีที่แล้ว +1

    this whole episode had me losing it 😂😂😂 y’all are so funny,
    I really do love watching yall. It’s like being a on a Group FaceTime. Also y’all look amazing this episode, all glowing! But also happy birthday pay!! 🎉💞

    • @concentratedchels
      @concentratedchels ปีที่แล้ว

      cannot wait for the next episode again! you guys are popping your shit

  • @tamyra4689
    @tamyra4689 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yesss I’m so hyped for this to drop😂

  • @karensoto4874
    @karensoto4874 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I am so proud of your girls, like paris said don’t focus on the negative there will always be someone saying some shit. You girls keep thriving & keep glowing the way you all do💖 smoke up and the haters can shut up🍃

  • @kktriecetelevision940
    @kktriecetelevision940 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Pay, when u said, "They are your ex for a reason, they also your ex for a reason." I felt that in my soul.

  • @sanbellamama7941
    @sanbellamama7941 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I love y’all so much 😂😂 I love how it’s always divided for different viewpoints! Amazing group of strong independent women and we love to see it!! 🖤🖤

  • @Bing-cn2gv
    @Bing-cn2gv ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yay couldn’t wait to watch this

  • @havenxerica
    @havenxerica ปีที่แล้ว +1

    yassss it’s gang in here 😍 all of the girlies are hereeee 🥰🥰

  • @terraleeann1018
    @terraleeann1018 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    It’s refreshing seeing other young black women speak real on these type of topics. Y’all are all so unique & bring different insight on these things that I really enjoy listening to. Can’t wait to see how much this takes off! ☺️🩷

  • @morganjames447
    @morganjames447 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love this so much alreadyy. Y’all really helped open my eyes ngl.

  • @Shernice.b
    @Shernice.b ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m sipping water tonight lol it’s literally my bed time but I can’t not watch this now!!❤ haha😂 I’m dying at y’all with the damn candle 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @julesarie111
    @julesarie111 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    AYEEEEE FREE PALESTINEEE I LOVE YOU GUYS

  • @HoneyDripSol
    @HoneyDripSol ปีที่แล้ว

    The reason why y’all are going to blow is because we love authentic women ! Real women ! Love y’all and I pray 🙏🏽 y’all keep going up ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @Datgyalbri
    @Datgyalbri 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    You all look amazing!! Also, Rhiannon, you’re not old babe. Enjoy your life, and love who love you hard.

  • @kaylamunro1671
    @kaylamunro1671 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    I love Paris! she gives me SZA vibes

  • @jeilynhaney
    @jeilynhaney ปีที่แล้ว

    When y’all blow Tf up i’m happy we can say we been here since the beginning ❤️