You can tell this guy really stepped out of his comfort zone by being there, and I commend him for his bravery. He has such youthful innocence and energy.
On the first like 10 minutes I thought about doing a translation to Portuguese of this video to show my mother because she doesnt speak english and I thought she would like Teal's content... at 15 min I realized the real reason I wanted her to watch this was because I wanted her to understand me and get some sort of approval from her...wow It hit real hard like a punch on my chest.
I really love how teal reassured him that the audience wasnt laughing at him, but with him, due to him being super entertaining. That was very sweet and intuitive of her, because I think he felt perhaps they were laughing at him. Nice one teal
I’m glad someone finally said you may have to risk losing your family and replacing them with others. I struggled so much trying to keep my family and felt so much better when I realized that I had to just let them go
@@Goomoonryoung Well, I actually just wrote famous person not greater being, which someone with almost half a million subscriber can considered to be, I guess. To be fair, some if not a lot of famous person might see them self as something better, but here thats actually just what you said or assume I was saying.
I guess it's because she wasn't thinking of being patient but treated this man with love as a human being she wanted to help. We are all patient with our children if we perceive them as children who need our attention, help, love and our lessons to handle the life.
It’s fascinating to observe how triggered people in the comments are by this guy. I thought he was great, totally unpretentious and authentic. It’s not easy to see your own blind spots.
Thank you for your 'eyes' - agree with you. Throughout the interview I supported his guy with all my heart - it was not his fault that parents treated his this way.
I thought he was great! Just a normal dude trying to figure his stuff out. But the fact that he's actually trying to figure his stuff out is wonderful because most men simply don't do that. They spend their entire life trying to run away from it, honestly.
Wow, I love this guy. He talks openly about his emotions and his life, but he's not so damn serious about it like I am all the time. I think I could learn something from him.
That guy badly wants to go for his dreams but he is too afraid that they are too grand for his family to swallow..... he does not realise that he can have his dreams and his family as well..... it is just about being totally honest with self and being tactful with the expression of them. its about remaining kind and loving despite going for what you want.
Alone is less lonely than being with most of the people in my life at the moment...I spent last Christmas sitting alone in my van. This is what comes from being unconsciously inauthentic for a lifetime and building up steel walls around one's desires. It's a turning point for me right now.
I can relate to this so many holidays spent by myself not easy. I have had to walk away from relative's because I choose self respect an self love. I is so important to honor yourself live your truth. There should be no conditions on the love people give you if they truly love you they will support you completely. The polarizing is on point here a real thing. Thank you, Teal this is right on time for me. ❤
What a great dude! I really enjoyed watching him, such a sparkly energy, authentic and puts himself out there. Often people on stage with Teal are paralyzed by the fear of saying something wrong but he is really eager to understand his problems - and that's super charming.
Teal was using, 'The Downward Arrow' technique, used everyday by CBT therapists. She got him to look at his assumptions about his reality and rules for living within it while helping him uncover the belief about being alone. I would hypothesise that this gentleman also has a belief about failure linked with being alone. Mayweather, he likes because he goes for what he wants. 50-0, a winner. Trump, a winner. I wonder what he assumes about failure and what happened in the family home if he failed to live up to his parents expectations. This sense or part of self born from such experiences may also be hindering him from going for what he wants in fear of failure in some way. And if he fails he will feel like he did as a child.
You made me curious, so if me,having a mother that told me i wasnt good enough doesnt matter how much i tried i couldnt met her expectations at all and she always would see me as a failure....in time i become a quitter at mostly anything but i loved and admire people who go for what they wabt no matter what .....means i have a core belief i am a failure?
@@meiko431 this is EXACTLY where i am at. both my parents expected me to be the already born perfect "Talented" child who got everything right on the first try. so growing up, they didn't want to have anything to do with areas which i was weak at, it was my own thing to fix. they only ever wanted to see the results, which better be perfect or i'd be an even greater disappointment than i already was, just coz i am born as a girl. my 100% wasn't good for my parents, in time it stopped being any good for me too, coz what good was it if i didn't feel loved at the end of all effort?! for the last decade, i can hardly remember, ever, taking pride and putting 100% effort in anything i do. it just becomes toxic and kills me from within.
@@ranirathi3379 You are a brave and a hero in your own story, i know it sounds bad but if they cant see the excellence in you do not compromise for them,accept them ,dont tourment your soul no more and try to carve your own life,try as best as you can to live it as close as you want,big warm hugs Rani,take care 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗.
In most instances, when I watch Teal Swan, I just feel this overwhelming love for her. I am so grateful to the world for this soul. My insides feel such a release when I get what she is explaining. Ever grateful.
I think I've manifested this. I am alone and I am going after what I want. I feel the pain and I am still moving regardless. I'd rather die than not go for what I want. And I would rather be alone that be surrounded by people who dont like me. People have fallen away, I have no family but struggling to maintain a relationship with my children. And struggling to make any friends and haven't been able to maintain any friendships. I feel so complex yet I believe deep down I'm really simple.
What a cool person I love to see all kinds aspects hitting my heart, specially that part were some of us have to let our family die. This words have being around the last days, understanding how beautiful is this emotion, and they are let free into their destine letting mine. For may young people is hard to keep with studies, or get a minimum wage work, they thirst for freedom and connecting, but need that work for the core. Go for it!!!
My biggest take away from this: there are traits we want for ourselves in every person we admire. So, if we admire a person and someone you are close to does not agree, it means they are rejecting parts of the person you want to become. So as you pursue becoming the person you truly want to be, some people you are currently close to will be distant, but you will also attract others that admire you for being who you truly are.
Go Teal! I love this. I was in a spiritual group for many many years that spewed out the garbage regarding "Alone - you can get everything you want from within " vs. us being an interdependent species, which naturally echoed things that happened in childhood, so it made sense. It took a lot of self-discovery and healing to be completely honest to see that "alone" is actually awful, lonely, and definitely not a natural state for humanity. And we are interdependent for our very survival. Oneness is beyond the formless, and relevant to every single being in this realm.
This is how I feel at home! Its so hard to breathe where I live rn. I was going to leave for work and my grandpa is like where are you going??? I'm like ughhhhh
My grandpa is the same way..hes suffocating me and always apologizes for everything and then repeats himself all the time and never leaves me alone...but hes bored old and lonely, so,I just shut up and listen to him and try to engage in conversation to show that he is validated.
It's an amazing thing to watch Teal. She has "read" him in minutes.. Ppl can go years and years in therapy and a couple of minutes with Teal and you reach your core trauma... Wish i could have some minutes with here😅
The different phases of understanding my emotions in this sessions are incredible. Especially the understanding of self worth, independence and fear of being abandoned when being myself. OMG he’s so cute 👍 thank you for showing this.
If he can be that honest with he's family he can win them on he's side for anything he wants. And if they are too stiff who cares. He's lovable he can always find people to love and connect with him. He's entertaining and funny as well who can resist that .
Beautiful, Teal. I've learned to find my tribe, stop living by others' expectations, look for appreciation from others instead, and find myself. So much more energy will be available. Took me longer than this guy to figure out.
I am suffering being lonely. And I had a extreme spiritual journey. I lost all my parents and grandparents by death and I am lonely for a year now. And you have been my guiding light teal. And this guy resonated with me so much that any other guy. And I too have the same core belief as him. Advanced congrats for 500k subscribers teal. By the way he is so damn hot😍😘❤️👍. Love from india
This is what i need for what i am going through right now. It is really difficult when it comes to family and the possibility to be alone once you pissed them all off
And it’s also about not caring what his parents think or feel and having that be held against him. Because I know in my culture, they guilt you and use them being hurt by you going against them as a way to control you. So it’s to recognize that and be like oh no no no, this isn’t going to work on me.
Teal, I highly resonate with your teaching toward the end of this video, but definitely NOT the beginning because it's too one-sided. Yes, relationships within interconnected Life is highly beneficial, and yes, it doesn't benefit any of us to become a hermit spending most of our lives in some secluded woods or dark@$$ cave. However COMMA I have no doubt that incorporating some solitude time is highly beneficial for all of us. Solitude give us the opportunity to better know---from experiential knowledge/wisdom---what it FEELS like to be fully present in our own core, vibrational frequency (Source: Soul/Spirit within), without constantly being bombarded by so many outer energies (a lot of which may not be so positive and beneficial). Spending some quality time alone---e.g., in nature, doing something creative, meditation, etc.---can also help us to be at peace with being physically "alone" (though ultimately we're never alone), and even enjoy our own presence. Because, if we can't even enjoy our own presence, we can't expect others to as well. In addition, if we're solely in relationships to fill some void from within---that can only be filled with the Light and Unconditional Love of our core essence that we reconnect with---it can lead to disappointment, resentment, the blame-game, heartbreaks, hatred, etc. During solitude, we can also reflect on our lives and gain wisdom from the life lessons we've learned from. The key is balance and harmony, and not necessarily 50/50. I've learned from the wolf spirit guide messages that the lone wolf intuitively knows when to venture off on its own, but it also knows when to reconnect with its pack (community), to include sharing what it's learned from its life adventures. At one of your events, I was baffled when you said something similar at one point with a stern facial expression and aggressive tone, basically saying something to the effect that if one chooses to spend any solitude time, "You're going to end up alone for the rest of your life." During lunch break, I found out that several others felt the same way, and one of the participants---who seemed very open-minded and open-hearted---became upset and chose not to attend your event the next day; and I could understand why. You see, she was at a stage in her life where she was becoming more at peace with spending some time alone after breaking off from some unhealthy relationships (i.e., an emotionally unavailable boyfriend and a habitually abusive mother). Because you've shared so much Light and Unconditional Love with humanity and beyond, I wanted to give you a benefit of a doubt, that perhaps you were just projecting your own deep fear of being alone; hence, you're known to have a strong need to continually surround yourself with your loved ones---especially family and team members---24/7. I'm going to check out one more video of yours that I noticed, "Why Do People Hate Teal Swan?" but I have a feeling that may be the last one I watch. I truly don't think it's one sided. Sometimes, it's highly beneficial when we're willing to check ourselves---see what's all going on inside as well (since "outer world mirrors inner world" like you teach)---and not just feel that there are loyal fans turned haters, or even straight up haters out there for NO apparent reason. I've mentioned something similar to this in a comment for another video, but sometimes, it might be something(s) you said and/or did---that's perhaps conflicting, confusing, fear-based, arrogant, narrow-minded, close-hearted, not resonating, etc.-----that turns certain people off; and it's not JUST others being out of alignment with their Source within. Teal, you have an abundance of wonderful qualities, and I'm still very grateful for your precious existence and your invaluable contributions to humanity and beyond. Perhaps it's simply time to move on for me; I'm going to go with flow and see how I feel. By the way Teal, I highly respect and admire your compassionate full presence with the guy in this video, who's simultaneously frustrating at times, yet, seemingly authentic and very lovable and loving. I haven't watched all of your workshop version of videos, but this one is hands down the most helpful and heartfelt I've ever seen you while interacting with someone from your audience.
I'm so glad I found this video! When I'm with my family I feel like I have to hide myself and sacrifice myself for them, which makes it hard being around them because I feel if I don't then I'll be alone instead, which I guess wouldn't be the worst since I hate not being able to be myself when I'm with them anyways so thanks for the help lol xD
This is a new point of view for me. Very helpful! I will go forward even if I am about to loose everything and I do loose it every time but I get something instead. Something that I wanted! Sweet young man, he got so much to loose in front of him)))
I'm not lovable if I'm not perfect, I'm also not perfect if I'm not lovable in the eyes of someone I like. So if I'm not lovable in the eyes of someone I like, I'm not lovable. If I'm not lovable, it means I'm alone If I have flaws I'm all alone So I isolate myself, cause I have flaws
I can totally relate. After a few rejections I prefer to be alone to protect my heart from being broken again... This includes all kinds of relationships. I used to be a very sociable person but I refuse to bow to other people's opinion of how I should be. I am not confrontational or aggressive in any way. I just feel flawed and have abandonment issues. So I have become isolated and completely self reliant.
It's good to see a man up on the stage! In most of the workshops I see from any spiritualist teacher/coach it's always women that goes up there, and the majority of the crowd is composed by women. Even if the teacher is a man.
I have a problem with isolation. I keep thinking it’s my safe haven away from people, but the more isolated I am, I can feel the unhealthier I am mentally. But I keep wanting to fix those mental issues alone, by myself, in isolation.
I really like that guy. Oddly he's worried about being himself but I seem him actually being himself in this vid. Yeah he's confused and seems to be searching for the right thing to say but he's also trying to understand and he's being really vulnerable up there. Like look at the way he talks about the various people he admires and respects. He's not using guarded language - he knows exactly what is appealing about those people. What a great vid. Because while he wants to be more authentic he's coming across to me as being quite authentic. Am I wrong?
You can tell this guy really stepped out of his comfort zone by being there, and I commend him for his bravery. He has such youthful innocence and energy.
Just love it!
I think you called this guy a boy.
On the first like 10 minutes I thought about doing a translation to Portuguese of this video to show my mother because she doesnt speak english and I thought she would like Teal's content... at 15 min I realized the real reason I wanted her to watch this was because I wanted her to understand me and get some sort of approval from her...wow It hit real hard like a punch on my chest.
How has that relationship been going?
@P K 🌼🌸🍀 Same experience here, pretty much. That is a deep insight to remember.
Great awareness ❤🎉
Way to go! Damn, congrats for that analysis. Btw, are you Portuguese or Brazilian or neither?
Bom ver brasileiros (suponho rs) aqui! o/
I really love how teal reassured him that the audience wasnt laughing at him, but with him, due to him being super entertaining. That was very sweet and intuitive of her, because I think he felt perhaps they were laughing at him. Nice one teal
I’m glad someone finally said you may have to risk losing your family and replacing them with others. I struggled so much trying to keep my family and felt so much better when I realized that I had to just let them go
This guy is so real. I'm a minute in and I can connect with him like crazy. ❤️❤️
Advance congrats for 500k subscribers, teal. Love you for what you are doing for this world.
Ayooo broooo you here tooo!!! Ima trying to be darn good at dating just like you in india!
At first I was really like "I don't know about this guy." but he really pushed himself and by the end I was rooting for him and loving his vibe.
I never saw a famous person has so much patience with someone. That was actually awesome to watch. :)
Engelberg it’s probably because she doesn’t see herself as a greater being like you perceive her to be
@@Goomoonryoung Well, I actually just wrote famous person not greater being, which someone with almost half a million subscriber can considered to be, I guess. To be fair, some if not a lot of famous person might see them self as something better, but here thats actually just what you said or assume I was saying.
I guess it's because she wasn't thinking of being patient but treated this man with love as a human being she wanted to help. We are all patient with our children if we perceive them as children who need our attention, help, love and our lessons to handle the life.
She isnt famous she is known though
@@chinzanasweat Well said.
I felt such sweet compassion towards this guy! I hope he doesn't give up and strives forward ! Blessings!
Agreed..... and I could totally relate!!
It’s fascinating to observe how triggered people in the comments are by this guy. I thought he was great, totally unpretentious and authentic. It’s not easy to see your own blind spots.
Thank you for your 'eyes' - agree with you. Throughout the interview I supported his guy with all my heart - it was not his fault that parents treated his this way.
I thought he was great! Just a normal dude trying to figure his stuff out. But the fact that he's actually trying to figure his stuff out is wonderful because most men simply don't do that. They spend their entire life trying to run away from it, honestly.
Very much agreed! I am one of those people triggered but I have so much to learn from him!
True.. It's triggered something in them,hence the reaction.
It's hilarious to observe
Sakura...love your name! And yes even I thought the same
Wow, I love this guy. He talks openly about his emotions and his life, but he's not so damn serious about it like I am all the time. I think I could learn something from him.
I love how she can relate to anyone, and pull things out of them. It's amazing to watch.
That guy badly wants to go for his dreams but he is too afraid that they are too grand for his family to swallow..... he does not realise that he can have his dreams and his family as well..... it is just about being totally honest with self and being tactful with the expression of them. its about remaining kind and loving despite going for what you want.
Beautifully said
This is beautifully said ! AMEN
Alone is less lonely than being with most of the people in my life at the moment...I spent last Christmas sitting alone in my van. This is what comes from being unconsciously inauthentic for a lifetime and building up steel walls around one's desires. It's a turning point for me right now.
I can relate to this so many holidays spent by myself not easy.
I have had to walk away from relative's because I choose self respect an self love. I is so important to honor yourself live your truth. There should be no conditions on the love people give you if they truly love you they will support you completely. The polarizing is on point here a real thing. Thank you, Teal this is right on time for me. ❤
What a great dude! I really enjoyed watching him, such a sparkly energy, authentic and puts himself out there. Often people on stage with Teal are paralyzed by the fear of saying something wrong but he is really eager to understand his problems - and that's super charming.
Teal was using, 'The Downward Arrow' technique, used everyday by CBT therapists.
She got him to look at his assumptions about his reality and rules for living within it while helping him uncover the belief about being alone.
I would hypothesise that this gentleman also has a belief about failure linked with being alone.
Mayweather, he likes because he goes for what he wants. 50-0, a winner. Trump, a winner.
I wonder what he assumes about failure and what happened in the family home if he failed to live up to his parents expectations. This sense or part of self born from such experiences may also be hindering him from going for what he wants in fear of failure in some way. And if he fails he will feel like he did as a child.
You made me curious, so if me,having a mother that told me i wasnt good enough doesnt matter how much i tried i couldnt met her expectations at all and she always would see me as a failure....in time i become a quitter at mostly anything but i loved and admire people who go for what they wabt no matter what .....means i have a core belief i am a failure?
@@meiko431 this is EXACTLY where i am at. both my parents expected me to be the already born perfect "Talented" child who got everything right on the first try. so growing up, they didn't want to have anything to do with areas which i was weak at, it was my own thing to fix. they only ever wanted to see the results, which better be perfect or i'd be an even greater disappointment than i already was, just coz i am born as a girl.
my 100% wasn't good for my parents, in time it stopped being any good for me too, coz what good was it if i didn't feel loved at the end of all effort?! for the last decade, i can hardly remember, ever, taking pride and putting 100% effort in anything i do. it just becomes toxic and kills me from within.
@@ranirathi3379 You are a brave and a hero in your own story, i know it sounds bad but if they cant see the excellence in you do not compromise for them,accept them ,dont tourment your soul no more and try to carve your own life,try as best as you can to live it as close as you want,big warm hugs Rani,take care 🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗🤗.
This guy is awesome. 100% real.
Who is replaying this video over & over again just to understand their own through this guy’s issues.thanks a lot teal swan 😘😘😘😘😘
The two meet - both down to earth and reaching for the stars. ❤️
Seeing teal in a conversation just made me notice how gracefully she interacts.
In most instances, when I watch Teal Swan, I just feel this overwhelming love for her. I am so grateful to the world for this soul. My insides feel such a release when I get what she is explaining. Ever grateful.
I think I've manifested this. I am alone and I am going after what I want. I feel the pain and I am still moving regardless. I'd rather die than not go for what I want. And I would rather be alone that be surrounded by people who dont like me.
People have fallen away, I have no family but struggling to maintain a relationship with my children. And struggling to make any friends and haven't been able to maintain any friendships. I feel so complex yet I believe deep down I'm really simple.
i love this guy! he makes me smile so much!
What a cool person I love to see all kinds aspects hitting my heart, specially that part were some of us have to let our family die. This words have being around the last days, understanding how beautiful is this emotion, and they are let free into their destine letting mine. For may young people is hard to keep with studies, or get a minimum wage work, they thirst for freedom and connecting, but need that work for the core. Go for it!!!
My biggest take away from this: there are traits we want for ourselves in every person we admire. So, if we admire a person and someone you are close to does not agree, it means they are rejecting parts of the person you want to become. So as you pursue becoming the person you truly want to be, some people you are currently close to will be distant, but you will also attract others that admire you for being who you truly are.
Go Teal! I love this. I was in a spiritual group for many many years that spewed out the garbage regarding "Alone - you can get everything you want from within " vs. us being an interdependent species, which naturally echoed things that happened in childhood, so it made sense. It took a lot of self-discovery and healing to be completely honest to see that "alone" is actually awful, lonely, and definitely not a natural state for humanity. And we are interdependent for our very survival. Oneness is beyond the formless, and relevant to every single being in this realm.
I love how Teal reflects herself on others. It is so fluid, I can feel the unity she creates, no matter the difference.
This is how I feel at home! Its so hard to breathe where I live rn. I was going to leave for work and my grandpa is like where are you going??? I'm like ughhhhh
Damn I can relate!
Maybe hes worried you won't come back. He could of have had someone he knows disappear
My grandpa is the same way..hes suffocating me and always apologizes for everything and then repeats himself all the time and never leaves me alone...but hes bored old and lonely, so,I just shut up and listen to him and try to engage in conversation to show that he is validated.
Just wow... so resonated with this clip... Brought me close to tears ... Thank you, Ms. Teal 🦋
It's an amazing thing to watch Teal. She has "read" him in minutes.. Ppl can go years and years in therapy and a couple of minutes with Teal and you reach your core trauma... Wish i could have some minutes with here😅
The different phases of understanding my emotions in this sessions are incredible. Especially the understanding of self worth, independence and fear of being abandoned when being myself. OMG he’s so cute 👍 thank you for showing this.
I love seeing things click for people. I don't know that guy, but I'm so excited for him.
I was in that workshop and it was AMAZING!!! Thank you Teal, Thank you sooo much for being here!❤️
She is awesome
If he can be that honest with he's family he can win them on he's side for anything he wants. And if they are too stiff who cares. He's lovable he can always find people to love and connect with him. He's entertaining and funny as well who can resist that .
This guy is awesome and very respectful!
Beautiful, Teal. I've learned to find my tribe, stop living by others' expectations, look for appreciation from others instead, and find myself. So much more energy will be available. Took me longer than this guy to figure out.
It's so interesting to see Teal interact with all kinds of people.
I like this guy. NOOOO I LOVE HIM WITH MY WHOLE HEART!!!!!
What a pure soul, so much love for him
I am suffering being lonely. And I had a extreme spiritual journey. I lost all my parents and grandparents by death and I am lonely for a year now. And you have been my guiding light teal. And this guy resonated with me so much that any other guy. And I too have the same core belief as him. Advanced congrats for 500k subscribers teal. By the way he is so damn hot😍😘❤️👍. Love from india
Teal is like mother to all....
Love this! Dude is awesome for being ok with being different in his family and culture.
That's was so beautiful the way you helped this young man!
I Love Teal Swan🙏
Just loved seeing the pennies drop 🌸 super happy for this guy!
That was perfect! So beautiful to see such a genuine exchange between you both 💖
I like this guy. He got charisma, he's got his oomph moments.
What a handsome and brave guy! He really stepped out of his comfort zone! Muy bien! 🙌🏼
Loved this guy, just watched it the second time, so funny and also i deeply relate to him
Watching you lead someone else to a major realization is very uplifting. Thank you for sharing this.
Another video of Teal Swan that makes me smile at the end ❤️
I also noticed he always wanted to have the right answer, always seeking approval from Teal.
This is what i need for what i am going through right now. It is really difficult when it comes to family and the possibility to be alone once you pissed them all off
Love his spirit ❤
This woman knows what's up
I am so thankful for teals existence 🙏🏻❤️
Thanks for the great pointers about unconscious blocks!
THIS GUY....can't control that manner even trying.....keep doing it maybe some day ...what a :"Paciencia" has Teal ! love it
Holy shit!! I totally get this. This is why we talk up certain people to our significant other or parents.
That was so helpful. Just what I needed to watch right now. Thanks to the guy on stage for showing up and being his authentic self ❤️
I love him. I want to be his friend. Def vibing with all of this 💕💕💕💕
ABSOLUTELY loved this that guy was super entertaining! But I also got some really good advice and insights for myself from it as well❤
This woman is brilliant.
And it’s also about not caring what his parents think or feel and having that be held against him. Because I know in my culture, they guilt you and use them being hurt by you going against them as a way to control you. So it’s to recognize that and be like oh no no no, this isn’t going to work on me.
Teal, I highly resonate with your teaching toward the end of this video, but definitely NOT the beginning because it's too one-sided. Yes, relationships within interconnected Life is highly beneficial, and yes, it doesn't benefit any of us to become a hermit spending most of our lives in some secluded woods or dark@$$ cave. However COMMA I have no doubt that incorporating some solitude time is highly beneficial for all of us.
Solitude give us the opportunity to better know---from experiential knowledge/wisdom---what it FEELS like to be fully present in our own core, vibrational frequency (Source: Soul/Spirit within), without constantly being bombarded by so many outer energies (a lot of which may not be so positive and beneficial).
Spending some quality time alone---e.g., in nature, doing something creative, meditation, etc.---can also help us to be at peace with being physically "alone" (though ultimately we're never alone), and even enjoy our own presence.
Because, if we can't even enjoy our own presence, we can't expect others to as well. In addition, if we're solely in relationships to fill some void from within---that can only be filled with the Light and Unconditional Love of our core essence that we reconnect with---it can lead to disappointment, resentment, the blame-game, heartbreaks, hatred, etc.
During solitude, we can also reflect on our lives and gain wisdom from the life lessons we've learned from.
The key is balance and harmony, and not necessarily 50/50. I've learned from the wolf spirit guide messages that the lone wolf intuitively knows when to venture off on its own, but it also knows when to reconnect with its pack (community), to include sharing what it's learned from its life adventures.
At one of your events, I was baffled when you said something similar at one point with a stern facial expression and aggressive tone, basically saying something to the effect that if one chooses to spend any solitude time, "You're going to end up alone for the rest of your life."
During lunch break, I found out that several others felt the same way, and one of the participants---who seemed very open-minded and open-hearted---became upset and chose not to attend your event the next day; and I could understand why.
You see, she was at a stage in her life where she was becoming more at peace with spending some time alone after breaking off from some unhealthy relationships (i.e., an emotionally unavailable boyfriend and a habitually abusive mother).
Because you've shared so much Light and Unconditional Love with humanity and beyond, I wanted to give you a benefit of a doubt, that perhaps you were just projecting your own deep fear of being alone; hence, you're known to have a strong need to continually surround yourself with your loved ones---especially family and team members---24/7.
I'm going to check out one more video of yours that I noticed, "Why Do People Hate Teal Swan?" but I have a feeling that may be the last one I watch. I truly don't think it's one sided.
Sometimes, it's highly beneficial when we're willing to check ourselves---see what's all going on inside as well (since "outer world mirrors inner world" like you teach)---and not just feel that there are loyal fans turned haters, or even straight up haters out there for NO apparent reason.
I've mentioned something similar to this in a comment for another video, but sometimes, it might be something(s) you said and/or did---that's perhaps conflicting, confusing, fear-based, arrogant, narrow-minded, close-hearted, not resonating, etc.-----that turns certain people off; and it's not JUST others being out of alignment with their Source within.
Teal, you have an abundance of wonderful qualities, and I'm still very grateful for your precious existence and your invaluable contributions to humanity and beyond. Perhaps it's simply time to move on for me; I'm going to go with flow and see how I feel.
By the way Teal, I highly respect and admire your compassionate full presence with the guy in this video, who's simultaneously frustrating at times, yet, seemingly authentic and very lovable and loving.
I haven't watched all of your workshop version of videos, but this one is hands down the most helpful and heartfelt I've ever seen you while interacting with someone from your audience.
Teal is always sooooo on point, so much love for her & her work, she’s a saviour for me & so many 💙💚🧡 Love U Teal
super sweet this guy. I appreciate him 😁
Teal you had a lot of patience with him.
Lol of course she has. She's a sigma leader type or what you call it.. the best kind
Well I don't have the patience to sit through this horrible volume of sound difference.
I got to know my limits.
Haha
He deserved it.
He’s needed patience and someone to be there unconditionally
So good. This helps me a lot today. Thank you
I'm so glad I found this video! When I'm with my family I feel like I have to hide myself and sacrifice myself for them, which makes it hard being around them because I feel if I don't then I'll be alone instead, which I guess wouldn't be the worst since I hate not being able to be myself when I'm with them anyways so thanks for the help lol xD
This was the best workshop ever
So Sweet! I hope the boy goes for it! Thanks Teal for awesome advice and insight. Thank God!
I like his energy .... he's honest and expressive I love that....
I really loved this
This video is making me cry 😭👏👏👏
This is heartwarming!
This was enjoyable. Thank you Teal.
Amazing! I love these workshop videos, always makes me grow.
Teal is amazing!
Teal's laugh is so warm
This is a new point of view for me. Very helpful! I will go forward even if I am about to loose everything and I do loose it every time but I get something instead. Something that I wanted! Sweet young man, he got so much to loose in front of him)))
I LOVE this video, you can really see the progress being made. So much respect to the both of them ❤
Love this dude’s energy...
Love this guy.. He is us!
I'm not lovable if I'm not perfect, I'm also not perfect if I'm not lovable in the eyes of someone I like. So if I'm not lovable in the eyes of someone I like, I'm not lovable.
If I'm not lovable, it means I'm alone
If I have flaws I'm all alone
So I isolate myself, cause I have flaws
Relatable
I can totally relate. After a few rejections I prefer to be alone to protect my heart from being broken again... This includes all kinds of relationships. I used to be a very sociable person but I refuse to bow to other people's opinion of how I should be. I am not confrontational or aggressive in any way. I just feel flawed and have abandonment issues. So I have become isolated and completely self reliant.
Oh man I love this guy!
I love these live ones
It's good to see a man up on the stage! In most of the workshops I see from any spiritualist teacher/coach it's always women that goes up there, and the majority of the crowd is composed by women. Even if the teacher is a man.
Teal you should be on this guy's show more often! Loved this
That's what life's about,each 1 teach 1.great job Teal! :)
Sadly the truth can be painful to face. This guy was nervous as hell about this experience. Good for him to step up.
So much love 🙏🏻🤍
This is beautiful so fun and lovely
That was really good! I usually can't watch these, it's too uncomfortable but he is great and the subject dealt with helped me.
teal is a beautiful yet fragile angel.
yesss trueee now gets better ppl on my side than a bunxh of ppl b4
He has completely different mannerisms and thought patterns, but exactly my problem, so this was really helpful
I have a problem with isolation. I keep thinking it’s my safe haven away from people, but the more isolated I am, I can feel the unhealthier I am mentally. But I keep wanting to fix those mental issues alone, by myself, in isolation.
I really like that guy. Oddly he's worried about being himself but I seem him actually being himself in this vid.
Yeah he's confused and seems to be searching for the right thing to say but he's also trying to understand and he's being really vulnerable up there. Like look at the way he talks about the various people he admires and respects. He's not using guarded language - he knows exactly what is appealing about those people. What a great vid. Because while he wants to be more authentic he's coming across to me as being quite authentic. Am I wrong?
Love these workshop vids