Fragmentation and Relationships - L.A. Synchronization Workshop - Teal Swan
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"If You get into a situation where You feel an intense, uncompromisable type of attraction for someone- it's because they mirror Your most suppressed parts."
What an amazing (albeit rude awakening) way for the Universe to bring about healing through relationship. I love this way of seeing it! Thank You x
ABOUT THE BLONDE GUEST I’ve seen many comments about. My heart hurts for how she might feel reading some of these comments. I know many of you making these remarks must be wise enough to realize how painful that could be for her. This guest was very articulate and obviously cares deeply about figuring things out and improving. Why on earth slam her in the midst of what she’s already going through in her life? She was SO BRAVE for getting up and speaking. Any of these things people have deemed annoying are quite obviously her just showing some nervousness. And that is only human and that was only her being vulnerable. I am thankful to her for having the strength to handle those nerves in order to talk with Teal about something many people will benefit from. And I don’t believe Teal was just being patient or tolerant. Teal probably felt completely accepting of exactly the way this woman interacted with her. She wasn’t projecting some preconceived ideas onto this person of how a proper guest should behave. She picked her for a reason, guys. Please - take down your insulting comments if you made any. And if you’re considering making a negative comment about this guest, please take a moment to turn inward and try to figure out why you feel so triggered by her that you have the urge to publicly shame her. Love and light to you all.
💖 Christin
The Journey Within My thoughts exactly! I was going to comment on all the negatively but finally seen your beautiful comment. It seems like relationship problems is a big trigger for most, and that showed in the comment section. I seen alot of people rejecting the part of them selves thats just like this women. Teal recently made a video called the judgement exercise for this very reason.
SequOYA Yes! Reflecting on what we so strongly reject about others can really help us to dig deep within and realize what we have been rejecting about ourselves. Very powerful stuff. 💖
The Journey Within thank you! ! I dont understand the judgment
I really appreciate you taking the time to write all that :) we are all only human
Sage Comora Thank you. :) :) I just couldn’t believe how hurtful some of the comments were.
All these hateful comments forget that what you judge in others is what you judge in yourself ..
Barbie I hear you, but speaking on clear observation isn't necessarily negative. Teal is practically swatting, getting lower and lower to the floor to stay grounded in this conversation.
that's nice you say it , i 'm disapointed by what people writes , thinking that there is only one way of doing and saying your right
Seriously. I wonder if they are being so triggered by the aspect of themselves that believes they must have the correct answer immediately, and holds everyone to that difficult standard. What we need is patience for ourselves and our confusion about our resistance, and compassion for the aspect that is confused and desperately wants answers. I didn't find her annoying at all, I resonated with the part of me that has felt totally lost but desperate to have the answer right this second, which has made me so hyperquick to jump at any chance to feel the relief of having the right answer that I lose presence constantly. I think she's been suffering for a very long time and felt very crazy and confusing to herself, because she's never had compassionate space made for her inner workings to be workshopped, or received clear advice like Teal gave her. We all need to remember to hold that space for ourselves.
Yeah but judging the aspect of you that judges is also forgetting that that is an aspect of you 😂 , uno reverse card lol
TEAL IS A GODDESS 😍 she deserves hugs
Gojira Hanma agreed
Everyone deserves hugs, even terrorists or nazis
Gabith Whyborn some would say they actually need the hugs the most
True, and she makes your inner Goddess embrace you Gojira
lawl xD. manifest the shit out of em xD
"Initiation is a male right". I love that
:)
Mhmm
Wrong. Lemuria. Learn all about it and about Mu with GiGi Young Videos
More than one kind of initiation. It shows in Lemuria and Atlantis
@@Makkaru112 Lemuria fell for a reason... the women become unbalanced in power
I dont find any problem with guest speaker as she is actually pretty good at being vulnerable. So I believe some of people who are annoyed may hold some opposition of themselves being like her. I believe that may cause a lot of resistance.
Anar Tsog yes and it’s valid that we find her and that part of ourselves annoying
It's very interesting to me, Anar Tsog, that you say that about many people's reaction to her is that she's annoying.... The very first time I watched this video several years ago, I found her frustrating and annoying myself, it was hard to watch actually. And now, however many years later (at least 5 years i think it's been since i originally saw this video) this video resurfaced to me, i find myself actually empathetic towards her and relating to her in ways i didn't before. My reaction to her is that i want her to find her peace and i want to hug her. Before i wanted to yell at her and tell her she's stupid. That's awful, i know. .. so I'm not sure if that's because I've just emotionally matured or if that means I've fixed something in myself to where she doesn't trigger me in that way anymore... either way. I think she was beautiful in her honesty and vulnerability and in her confusion. Thank you brave lady for really putting yourself out there like that in front of an audience. Even though it was years ago, i still want to thank you and applaud you.
Kudos to you teal for having so much patience with the people who don’t understand you so you have to keep giving examples. I’m always on track with you. Thank you for this!
Divine Masculinity I live for her examples too I just feel the 2 hand frustration is all, like the lady on stage not even knowing what it is she wanted. It was a little frustrating. teal kept having to explain over and over lol
Nailah H yes but this is what Teal does. Practicing patience or being patient is just one of many necessities for her work to be successful. I don’t feel like it’s that Teal is practicing patience because she’s not understood so much as it’s that this young lady doesn’t know how to articulate what she’s really going through. You see the young woman on the stage is not able to make sense of her feelings because she’s simultaneously trying to maintain a persona that she WANTS everyone to see. She, for whatever reasons, doesn’t feel okay enough with herself to show her true authentic self. She’s portraying an inauthentic part of herself that she feels is going to be “more acceptable” by others than who she really is. That inauthentic persona doesn’t know how to make sense of her situation. When Teal pulls some authenticity out of her, only then was she able to be a bit more honest about herself. The young lady’s authenticity is only shown if she feels safe to. We aren’t seeing authenticity from this girl. We’re only seeing her persona - the person she believes we want to see or the person she believes is “acceptable”. It’s my feeling that she needs to address these very obvious issues & when she’s able to embrace her authentic self, her relationships will either improve on their own or she’ll grow out of them.
Allyson Sixx Costello I know.
Out on the shows of the guest and let's see how quickly and clearly you "get it." Lol
@@LaGataSolar I thought the lady on the stage was very brave to share so much of her personal life❤️
One of the best demonstrations of how relationships actually are...what an eye opener, and more so, a wake up call for humanity to start integrating....no longer live with 'parts' of yourself you are ignoring...only for them to amplify in others, because its just enough after a while, going through these patterns...it is so good to know that whatever is going on, is truly a call for integration...
This bleeeeeew my mind!!! I love my husband so much and I totally understand that I was so completely attracted to him because he was so free and I was so bound. I had rejected and disowned my own desires to be free and he’s pulled that out of me. I love it.
But, it has been suuuuuper painful for me and I have had a difficult time as I’ve loosened up. Family doesn’t like it or understand it, I barely understood it, but I know it’s good.
Why are y'all hating? I actually like her energy, it's very direct and casual, and open
Ben Jones because she’s chaotic and humans aren’t inclined to accept chaos.
I really really loved this one and I thought the way that the subject responded was absolutely perfect! I often find myself getting explanations over and over again but like her sometimes I dont get it and I say that I do... So I really really admire her for the way that she confessed that she didn't understand and needed more explanations
I will never get over how much Teal rocks!! So generous💓💓💓 Thank you💜
Everyone is so triggered lmaoooo because they see the aspects in her that they have rejected in them self
Qay
Nah. Some traits are just annoying.
But WHY is it annoying to you @@Megan6772??
Teal you are amazing and that blue dress girllllll! Love it. I actually learned a lot from this video. Thanks for all you do
Biracial_bella 😍😍😍😍Agreed, Love the dress. She rocks it!
Wow this woman takes so so long to get to her points. Despite how many words she uses
I agree.
She's a great woman. I love watching and listening to her.
Thank you SO MUCH to that woman who came up and talked about this very important topic, i'm learning SO much here !! Thank you Teal, and thank you to the person who uploaded and shared this video with all of us 🙏
Wow, this woman is really intense. I would need an immense amount of patience to support a conversation like this. Amazing job Teal.
She is so annoying that it is painful to watch and listen. She also does not get the point.
Shes being as annoying as anyone else would be in an emotionally flawed raw state, defense mechanisms, warts and all.
Like most people. And it’s amplified being on stage and center of scrutiny.
Her particular vibration in the moment may or may not be your problem/mirroring. We’re all annoying af to someone.
Ppl keep talking about how annoying this woman was and Teal literally ends the video on mirroring our internal fragments. You find this woman annoying bcs she represents a fragmented part of you that you’ve pushed away. Simple. Find that part of you so you can begin to integrate.
Great information for our healing journey of integration!
❤️
Thanks so much for pointing this out. Very uncomfortable to think about, haha. It's so true. I am SO concerned with annoying people. With being too verbose, intense, awkward, overbearing. I know it exists in me, and I know I DEEPLY push it down.
The insight on relationships, I can't thank you enough Teal.
When teal says ' men are simple creatures' I'm like '
No I'm not! Lol
She lowered her vibrations just sitting next to this control freak. I can't believe she is generalizing like that.
Philip A. Reilly , i genuinely wanna know why everyone in the comments are saying that about her... because i dont see it
She meant that they thrive with simple, straightforward communication, I think. Women are taught to suppress so many things that they become confusing and muddled and presenting that mess to men that don't have that complication is confusing to them.
Creator 8 It seems to have triggered the “avoidants” who fear being controlled or engulfed by their partners. They projecting these feelings onto Teal.
@@philipariel there is no shame or insult in simplicity. What she means here is that male language tend to be very straight forward
When we crack a joke, it actually means that we are trivializing a problem. That is, we are emitting a vibration of extreme hopelessness and that laughter is a coping mechanism for the situation. This is why comedians are so frickin depressed!!!
When you want your male partner to become more masculine you have to take on the feminine role to the point where he is reminded of his masculinity. Check out Universe Guru she helps people move back to polarity in the relationship. With these particular needs which most of our women have you dont even really have to tell him do this do that etc and try to tell him an ultimatum. Inspire him to change with your femininity masculine is forceful and feminine is inspiring. Just my thoughts.
If you're judging the chick asking the question...then judge silently....don't waste your energy hating and writing shit...anyways, thankyou Teal! so much in here that I won't forget. Luv uuuu
Obviously she has a problem, she wouldn't be up there with Teal if she didn't, she needs to understand her own neurosis and like teal said be more "clear and concise"
I am So greatful for an explanation why relationships worsen!
my god , very intelligent. this advice & shit should be more popular & accessible!!! makes total sense to me.
I got to watch it a few times..that`s how valuable it is
The last three minutes have the kernel of gold. 38:50 explains why our relationship partners tend to get worse & worse until we do the work to integrate our own fragmented, disowned shadow selves.
I am 17 minutes into this video and this blonde girl is making me super anxious and annoyed. She doesn't listen and she wants help for her issue, but she speaks over Teal as she's talking.
benjisquenge agreed. She has a need to show that shes in the know. Shes a control freak but wonders why her partner is so passive. Teal is so patient and accepting of her.
Ditto , & she seems like she has no idea what she wants
She has a very maniacal laugh too. Creepy!
Audry Miller yeah what the hell is with that
I looked in the comments just to make sure I wasn’t the only one lol ... ok back to the vid
I'm 16mins in. Teal is utterly fantastic: calm, likeable, and brilliant. She has so many amazing attributes it's rather INSANE. Thx for sharing! :)
Thank you for testing my patience to the MAX interrupting lady.
11 minutes I am outtt! So annoying
She's attention hungry
12:53 that awkward clap
Yeah There’s always one awkward clap 😆
Oh God! The Synchronicity is killing me!!!! AAA this is sooo good, best lesson for me so far. Can`t thank you enough.
i realllly just want to speak out my appreciation about you teal, you just really opened my eyes for something ive been struggling in my relationship for the last few years. Thinking , reflecting , making me mad cause i cannot figure it out what the frkn problem was and now... after seeing this video, it all became so simply clear for me. thank god for you! you're truly an amazing, wise person and im thankfull that ive learned so much from you. ❤️🙏 thank you for being you, you cannot imagine how much you mean to me, just for being you.
omg ...that man is a saint, if I did that in the past (and I did) in any of my relationships I'm sending an apology letter today! :D
Nicoleta Dodu hi marge simpson pleasure to meet you.
It's hard for us to realize that sometimes we outgrow our relationships. She seems to be saying indirectly that she needs to get laid and have some adventure. And most women always want to take care of our men and the family, and sometimes end up being the "mother" and boss. Then we wake up one day saying "I don't wanna control all the time, I want to be controlled and thrown around in bed" and our man becomes confused as to what his role is.
She could have make that a priority in her life not later in life... Sex is a life force, you suppress it and you pay the price!
💥truthbombs 💥 ... we attract our most SUPPRESSED parts ...lemme take that innnn
Omg thank you, I needed this and I feel like tons of people need this!
Teal we like what your outfit... beautiful blue with all the precious stones/gems... Thank you for helping US. Much Happiness & Extra Good Energy to you 2!!!
Can we have more examples of partners as mirrored aspects?? I'm with an emotionally unavailable partner, but I am a highly emotional person and comfortable expressing vulnerability. I know I'm an intense mirror for him as he views emotions as weakness, but I can't seem to argue a case for how he is my mirror.
Maybe it has to do with emotional boundaries. An emotionally unavailable person has very defined boundaries to keep others out and keep their own emotions in. On the other hand, very sensitive people have a difficult time NOT feeling other people. For me this was the case and I realised that I had EXTREME boundary problems, and that I was used to being co-dependant. Maybe he is mirroring the part of you that HAS strong boundaries and that doesn't allow for external emotional violation (getting hurt and being treated like s*** by others). Identify if he is narcissistic and if you feed into his unavailability by giving yourself too much to him and putting his emotional wellbeing before your own.
interesting
I agree with Victoria Ayeni. Maybe it's about boundaries. Do you feel like you wear your heart on your sleeve and get hurt because of that? Maybe it would be better to shut yourself off from people and be emotionally unavailable once in a while. How do you feel about emotionally unavailable people? Can you let yourself be like that? Or would that be bad?
valedro I can see how I am emotionally unavailable to others at times. If they engaged me about something, I'd always be able to emotionally be there, but being the first to initiate contact, I'm usually too lost in my own world. I just want his attention and emotional availablility. I just want him to make me feel like we're actually in this together and he genuinely cares about me as an individual. I know he's a major mirror of my father. They are scarily similar in so many ways. I love him so much, but I feel more like an option to him than a partner.
RyuRaven We are definitely in the same boat... Is not being the first person to initiate contact and organize plans be a form of emotionally abandoning others, even if others never seem to do so either? I'm trying to figure out ways I emotionally abandon others because I feel like I'm emotionally available whenever anyone wants to engage. I'm in university to be a dam therapist! Haha but I've been told that I'm self centred and never reach out.
I also think that people get on stage with a guru and do the run around, and try to sound smart and use big words...just spit out what you want! (like Teal, Tony Robbins)
I totally already see that dance I think what makes it hard right now is some of us understand that dance while others can’t handle it yet
Teal Kudos to your patience/ after 30 seconds with this blonde guest I knew she was a train wreck! blaming everyone but herself ! She actually seems manipulative playing a victim, I'm surprised Teal didn't point that out, Ive worked in office with over 50 women like this was unbearable, low self esteem, no brains, and blames everyone else , its a pattern of manipulative power really
They do not seem to see anything wrong with themselves... if you dig deep they usually are sex starved because they don't stimulate any good conversation that leads to good sex.
Your workshops are way better than the youtube videos, these have soooo much soul and connections here, l can literally see your energies, it’s amazing!!! 💞💞💞🌞💞💞💞 l’m becoming obsessed with watching these workshops!! Love you Teal 🥰🥰🥰🌻🌻🌻
I feel as if this is part of everyone's Why, and is really simply an experience which provides a layer of conditioning which frames everything through these lens.
I've come to understand that the real answer is in identifying yourself as the neutral observor between the critc/deceiver and the supportive father/ nurturing mother.
Just tuning in to your video! I feel like You have saved me Teal Swan, and although I still fell like i have quite a way to go I can't thank you enough. With love from the UK. You truely are amazing. Thank you. Namaste
Teal that was great seeing you work .
I thank you for opening my eyes each time I listen to you .
I like this woman so much, 🌻🌻🌻 l can definitely relate to her, she is so there for her needs with the hope to understand how she can make herself heard and learning what she has to do in order to get her needs met 💞 l like how she asked Teal to repeat and if the workshop is getting recorded, l would be exactly the same, this workshop is something that l’d need to watch again and again to understand every little detail that have been told. I am also dealing with the same problem in my marriage, l am starving for attention and connection and my husband won’t even want to listen, he only believes l am criticizing him over and over and he won’t let me say what actually my needs from him are… very beautiful workshop! 🌹 Thank you Teal for asking this woman to come on stage! And where you’ve been??? I have these unfixed things ever since l got married and I’ve blamed myself so much for screaming at my husband for my needs. I ended up believing l am a horrible person as a woman and wife because I don’t have enough of my husband and l’ve basically suffocated him along the way, when the thing is that l only needed connection!!! To feel him when he looks into my eyes, to feel that he means his ‘l love you’ words, to feel that he wants to come home to me. I’ve been terrified by the thought that l am asking too much, that he will one day actually go from me because l was too needy for him… l need connection, that’s the short answer. 💫🦋 l need him to see and hear me and care about my energy and let his energy embracing mine. This is marriage and love ❤️ things to do together, things to plan together, things to decide together!
I don't think this guest is recognizing her responsibility for creating this situation. She hates herself. The husband is merely mirroring this. In essence she is driving him away on purpose, which then becomes the You dont love me dynamic Teal has talked about in previous videos. I think looking deeper, perhaps to her childhood relationship with her father would be more productive. The work necessary here is by the woman on herself, the husband is just a bystander, collateral damage.
sunny pepper very well said
How can someone so deep in stop hating herself?
loveisforever That is a really good question. I wonder what Teal would say.
loveisforever hmm. I'm reminded of the saying, "If you want self-esteem, perform esteemable acts." Perhaps it is the same with self-love? ﹰMaybe if she goes and actually practices unconditional, truly selfless love on others, especially someone she detests or finds unredeeming in some way, she will learn how to be more kind towards herself, and in doing so, have no expectation of others? Just brainstorming here, curious if anyone has a better answer.
+loveisforever, in my experience, by learning to love life, it is easier to love self. self reflects back on self appreciating things, and doing good things, and then self loves self more and more because self appreciates appreciating things and wants self to feel good about allowing self to appreciate (because appreciating feels good). then self takes loving actions towards self and towards life because self loves life so much that self wants to make life feel good. self is life. self should feel good so life feels good. then you self doesnt hate anymore cause self is in love with hate
I would love a video with just teal talking to the camera about this because this was slightly frustrating to watch.
Abraham Hicks does it beautifully. The gues shouldn't have their own mic. It makes them too comfortable.
I have sooooooooo much trouble showing initiative because i feel i'm not worthy enough for that.. I always wait for the girl or the other person to take it which they rarely do :( I can also relate alot to the frustration i'm feeling when girls can't articulate AT ALL what it is that they want from me.. Not even in a relationship but also in the dating scene..
Also this explains my attraction towards really angry girls lately.. Integrating my anger has been my core issue this whole past year ! Really interesting how she explains this mirroring is whats actually going on inside of yourself.. When you attract people who abandon you, integrate the part of yourself that abandons people and yourself.. That's a really good one i have also experienced alot of lately !
Loved it. Just what I was looking for. This past 12 months have been about myself. Started with diet, moved onto qigong, now crystals and finally understanding self and relationship pulls culmitated with a QHHT appointment for next week. This life is about ascending into the 5th dimension Earth. Work in progress :)
I really like this one. She’s funny!
The guest is a childish selfish woman. Her actions while she’s on stage... putting her feet in the chair, at one point she starts eating something from Teals table,, interrupting, needing attention. My bet is she’s constantly manipulating her husband. The bottomless pit, of neediness. I applaud Teal for turning this into a teaching moment! I know, not a nice comment but shouldn’t she be told!
I agree 500% she is SO THIRSTY for attention
This is so helpful!
TEAL YOUR like sunshine in the darkest hour GREAT build once again
Alison Armstrong has good books on why men slip away. Queens Code & Making Sense of Men
I almost went to this workshop and I'm glad I didn't watching this. Me having too many issues, I guess, to watch this. Intimacy being an illusive quality in my life, I am grateful to learn this but from my warm cozy house. Actually I would have been caught in the so/cal fires traffic issues that started on the 10th had I actually used my prepaid ticket.
I see many people offended by "men are simple creatures" - humans are in general complex whether someone is man or woman however when we go into relationship sometimes we mainly start to embody our man side or woman side otherwise there is no room to play this polar union or companionship. I think Teal meant to say when speaking of men as a biological identity they are simpler at making decision towards feelings and relationship issue. They able to separate sex, affection,friendship and daily interaction more than women. Teal only speaking part of man which plays important part in relationship. Not all of you as a person. People who are tiggered by that comment only showing how much identity attachment they hold around "men" about them.
As a man- I want a partner in my life who I am sooooooo attuned to that they won’t even need to verbalize their wants/needs. This whole thing felt off to me. Like a triangle trying to fit in a star shape whole. This talk reminds me that I can fly from Texas to China but the majority of distance moved was due to the earth moving around the sun or whatever. Futile but not without hope. Men don’t need to relearn their masculinity. It is being shown more and more within every moment. The husband sitting in front of a tv is more masculine then him doing things that he doesn’t want to do just so we can maintain the dynamic that both genders obviously hate. If you’re a man you’re doing everything right. If you’re a women you’re doing everything right. I need to find unconditional belonging cooperation love. This talk made me realize there is nothing I’m suppose to do that is not already natural or innate. All I have to do (or not do) is trust and hope. Either way I just hope what I want is coming. I hope. We all know what we want.
I actually am only half way into the talk so who knows how the rest is going to go
I want a friend/partner who asks me to do something ... while I was on my way to doing that thing and I loved hearing her voice anyways. I want whatever I naturally ooze to meet her needs and desires.
Elijah Gill have you ever been in a relationship like that before?
@Elijah Gill & Turqoise I also to want a relationship with somebody that I am on similar or the same frequently level. That nobody would have to verbal say it or to not have to find nonconscious ways to get theirs and my needs met. I do believe that would be the best relationship.
Turqoise when I started reading this comment I got excited- ”I shouldn’t have to ask!” - because I was like exactly. Yes I want to be just as attuned to her. That is the bliss for me. I’d rather go on a date than sit in front of the tv. And for the rest of the comment, that is literally what I was saying in my comment. I want her to communicate even though (and yes I basically want to be so attuned we are psychic) even though we are so attuned- out of the bliss of an expression of the love. We are literally so on the same page. I’m upset I was misunderstood. I guess I want a women that trusts me enough that what we are talking about can happen
craz4jaymz the hopeful part of me says yes, in my heart and I’ve just yet to meet her. But not yet.
If I were her husband I would RUN!! Nothing will ever be good enough for this woman. She thinks she is entitled to having all her needs met. Did she break up a marriage to be with him? At the beginning she says she wanted him because he was unavailable. 🤔
Audry Miller people grow, I do not understand your logic...
Lee Crotty I dont understand your logic for not understanding her logic....
Audrey- you make sense to me, I caught that too.
@Redrustyhill maybe both the man and his woman both are sucky? Lol
One of the funniest videos I’ve watched so far of teals that blonde woman made me laugh so much 😂😂😂
I feel like this woman is using the man to fill her daddy wounds for her? That's just the vibe that I'm getting
That's a lot of pressure to place on another person. It would make sense why he would slip away
Damn, i did that with my ex tho, expecting her to treat me like a baby coz i have mommy issues really strong one, welp, i’m learning and i clearly did not hear well of what the girl said in the beginning, glad i saw your comment, and it may be or maybe not the real issue with the girl but the issue is she’s expecting the other person to be like the daddy or the one who wears pants in the rel. coz well obviously the man isn’t the wearing it and it was the same issue i encountered with my last ex, i was expecting her to wear the pants, and she was expecting me too to wear it lol. Guess we are actually a mirror of each other XD, btw i’ m a lesbian so.. XD Well iguess if it does not work out, then maybe they really aren’t meant for each other and was just a lesson that’s why they met lol. Or idk. Haha thanks for this tho, that have put a spotlight on something i wasn’t that aware of. That would save me and the next relationships i’d have in the future from being misaligned to the truth. Thanks :)
I love ur workshop I learning a lot. Thank you letting me share it,
need a mute function on the guest mic ...
your amazing just want to say thank you for how much I have healed from listening to you
I can very much relate to her. I feel like I'm the body guard in the relationship which makes me feel alone and unstable and paranoid. I need a protector myself.
Join the club 😩
I love this dress
SO TRUE.I am attractes to bullies and dominant emo guys because that is my repressed self.. Fascinating!!$
So good, as allways...thank you.
Most Teal's videos are amazing, but they tend to end up at the same place. She explains everything that is wrong in a situation and then stops there and just throws out one word like "integration". But it's just a word. It has no bigger meaning, no action behind it so that I could integrate it in my life and actually know what I should do now that I understand my problem. I wish she would talk more about the future and how we should act and be so that our relationships could start slowly working. Thank you.
*I'm so fragmented when I developed Multiple Personality Disorder no one could tell the difference.*
I understand. My dream someday is to play solitaire.
This is sooooo crazy.... God bless you Teal swan
So good. I needed this reminder right now, thank you.
Make sure that you have a microphone on you as well because your voice is faint and the other woman's voice is loud. Makes it hard to listen to the video because of the unbalance in sound from microphones.
Teal Swan I like to thank you very much from helping me also
you have helped me clear my mind from uncover the truth about myself thank you very my thanks are very giving thanks to you.
Wow. Amazing, insightful and fun video. LOVED the whole thing.
32:02 why attraction happens. Mindblowing
Now that I know this, I think about (my life and) archetypes in movies, like why Aladdin got Jasmine's heart [and pussy LOL]. "Tell me, princess, now when did you last let your heart decide?" And also the more obvious other part, he was poor and she was an immensely wealthy princess.
I m 7 minutes in , and I had to pause the video to see if the comment section was as much annoyed with this woman's vibration as I was. Self hate is soo so ugly and on certain aspects, it reminds me an old younger me, when I was so ashamed of my needs and so unsure of my thoughts that I would paraphrase a lot and use a lot of words but nailing no point. Being more confident makes me more direct and understandable and a better listener. I get her, I am trying to have compassion but she lacks so much of awareness that she comes off as rude almost
I appreciate you so much
could not watch because of the blonde ... sorry
This was revelational, thank you Teal ❤️
I think my discomfort might stop me from even getting into relationships. I guess I need to find what I repress. I don't like anger and often reject it or try to convert it. I am not sure what I manifest either. I guess I don't understand yet.
The way she awkwardly laughs about her needs and not getting them met makes me gag
It’s exactly how I talk about my needs and my trauma. Making fun of myself to make it seem smaller and more comfortable
It’s freaking serious it’s worth crying for laughter is absolutely not needed here
Wow, that was really intense....
NOTES
29:04
Comedians flea identifying with the funny side but they are some of the most depressed individuals this makes me think of Jim and Carrie and the spiritual journey he’s had lately
32:00
If you find yourself having an uncompromisable sense of attraction for someone it’s because they mirror your most suppressed parts
Makes me think of hailey how she is a kid at heart and also Kathleen
I am a kid at heart but I hardly show that side
The guest seems like she is looking to have Teal give her permission to leave the relationship or have another partner throughout the whole discussion. I think she may have outgrown the current situation as it's been, but is holding on because she hasn't resolved/integrated the need for a father figure.
The amount of patience Teal has with that blonde makes me borderline anxious 😂 I feel bad saying this, but I actually understand why the man of that blonde does nothing, and I hope the blonde does too by watching herself after.
Incredible. Thank you.
This was amazing!! :) Thank you Teal!
Wow amazing!!!! Exciting breakthrough
Goddess Teal! Post more of your workshops please! I only have one question, if you can't be a match to meeting new people or starting relationships, at the very beginning, why is that reflected? it is a mirror of what?
RyuRaven Thank you for replying. I don't know how to explain.. yes you are right, the people around me may not be the best match for me, in fact i am thinking about moving in a new place but i feel stuck, like i feel for whatever reason people are rarely interested in getting to know me and when they are, some external circumstances happen and these people either move to another country or someone gets sick and again there is a distance and that is usually at the very beginning.. i just want to be a match to an environment where people are genuinely interested in getting to know me or just hang out for a while, i don't know what is that i am avoiding internally that stops me
RyuRaven yes, i think i don't believe that i can connect with people because it never happened, a real connection and not superficial, i never felt it, even though i want it more than anything because i want it so desperately i fear that even a small thing can ruin everything and i won't be able to survive that or even worse sometimes i blame myself that is my fault and that's how i end up questioning myself why i always atract situations that clearly remind me that people don't even want to get to know me and people who never show any interest in me
You repress the parts you hate about yourself and then get in a relationship with them?
Hello Queen Mary
but to be honest, what she had said about what falling in love really is, really ruins how i even see relationships. i feel so sick now.
Awwww don't lose hope. The more integrated we become, the more intimacy we create within ourselves and the more we heal, you can attract someone aligned with that. We will always need each other in this world and there is a gift in our partner showing us our deeper selves :) there's still joy but also uncomfortable growth. It's worth the growth though and worth the love. I wish you love and support on your journey.
Teal is so patient. This woman’s misalignment and constant talking/interrupting is so hard to listen to. And the laying of the mic against her chin? Uh, other people have used and need to use that. She says her husband hasn’t changed much and she loves having him there watching TV? Ugh. Sooo out of alignment and looking in her spouse for what she should get from self.
Tentacle19 why the judgment here. Ew
Tentacle19 it's not patience it's so exciting to her. 😍
To be able to lift the veil is a magnificent moment
sage Comora everyone is rubbed the wrong way by something. If you seek perfection (only those who think as you do) maybe you shouldn't be on social media. Furthermore, if you're so enlightened, you should know everyone's perspective is valid in a universe where 'the all are one and the one are the all,' even those you disagree with. Lastly, if you're so against "judgement", maybe you should post less judgmental comments yourself. Hope that answers your question.
Tentacle19 of course she’s misaligned, that’s why she’s there. Not saying your point is invalid, but it’s irrelevant.
This is super interesting to see. I love the candor.
Thank you you are so loved and supported star sis 💜🐬💦
I love this and it really helps me to understand more about myself :-)
She need to open that throat chakra