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Before watching this vid I want to say that motivation isn't a good thing. I believe that I must turn the laziness and the negativeness into an energy that I will use to work hard and smart
Shush these are my comfort video's! 😂😂 Nah I actually laughed at this comment because it's exactly what I'm doing now : procrastinating by watching procrastination videos.
Since discovering your channel, my motivation to create content has soared. Your authentic approach and unwavering passion radiate in every video you produce, inspiring me greatly.
Omg we 100 agree. We subscribed yesterday and the 1st video we watched, inspired the creativity, and ideas are flowing now. We love her content. We've been binging 😂
When I started uploading videos every day and working out twice a day I realized how much time I was normally wasting on BS before, while convincing myself I was being "productive"... Thank you for the great video
Ways to Not Waste Your Life Believe. ... Know where you're headed. ... Pursue the right success. ... Value relationships above all. ... Happiness is found internally. ... Live in the moment. ... Defer short-term thrills in favor of long-term rewards. ... Always continue learning.
Ways to not Waste Your Life , stop stating the obvious . There's 1000s of you tubers making the same video , they use chat gpt to write a script for them . Tbh all these videos now are just painful to listen to .
@@mehDOGIESRATS2222Elizabeth Filips is actually a very unique self-improvement channel and provides advice I've not seen anyone else give, especially with studying and shit. Good stuff
"Stop telling people your plans" is very underrated advice. When I was first going into college I told everyone that I was going to be a computer engineer with a minor in German. I said it so many times that I believed that the goal would just manifest itself with little work on my part. I didn't really do anything those first two years and left college defeated and unmotivated. It took some time, but I learned my lesson after that and now let the future me enjoy the fruits of my hard work now. I keep my goals bottled within me and use the them as the motivation for what I do. Telling others all our it just sucks the motivation out if us so we end up talking or than actually doing.
Whenever I feel down, I come here and watch some of Ruri's videos. I'm pretty sure Ruri is an old soul, I feel so impressed to see such a young girl with such a powerful mindset, such determination. It inspires me. I'm in a really nice, comfortable, well-paying job that took a lot of effort and made me mentally ill, and when I think about just sitting around and being comfortable the rest of my life in a job that I don't like, I know I would have a miserable life. This year I decided to go get the life I want, I refuse to have a miserable life at a job I don't even have for the right reasons. Thank you so much Ruri, you opened my eyes this year, I don't feel like it's too late for me anymore. :)
I retired from working for a living when I turned 42. I started doing jobs I "always wanted to try" from then until 6 years ago. Now I just play games and do daily exercises regularly. If I had been able to catch these videos when I was in my teens, I can't imagine how different my life would have been. I am jealous of how strong you have made your mind! I know your parents must be pleased with your progress. I am just amazed by your self determination (and I have been surrounded by successful people for the majority of my life). You go girl! We are all rooting for you!
A problem I have is that I don't know what I want in life because I like a lot of things, but I want to be remember doing something grate por humankind but I don't know in what area. Maybe it sounds selfish for wanting to be remembered idk it's weird
@@vin_rouge180 Be a good person. There are a million things you can do for the world, but this one guarantees your memory will thrive in peoples hearts.
@@KeithCarmichaelInFLwell it really depends on the country some don't have good economy or opportunities despite having a college degree if the work place prefers hiring young teens or fresh college graduates to work.
*"Childs blames the circumstances, but man changes their circumstances."* *No matter if the work you did today is not perfect, what matter is that you did what you needed to do to grow, thanks Ruri, keep grinding 💪*
I love listening to you speak with perfect articulation and confidence in your knowledge base. You must put a lot of work into your video's. Thank you so much!!!
"It takes courage to say NO to people and actually do what you believe in". This can manifest in many ways not only literally saying "No" to a request, but also saying no mentally and metaphorically. Mentally say NO to consuming unwanted content on social media, mentally say NO to "friends" who add 0 value to your life, mentally say NO to traditions you no longer want to follow, mentally say NO to habits you want to break, etc. It isn't only about saying NO to people who make you an offer or ask for something from you, it's also about saying NO to yourself in order to start seeing the changes you want to see in your life that will allow for progress and self-improvement. Fantastic video as always, Ruri. 🖖
I sincerely appreciate your effort and where you've come, Ruri. I've been following you for a long time and it's great to see how much you've improved day by day. 🎉 I've been trying to change my mindset for a while. I try to get rid of the pressure of being successful and the fear of failure and focus on what I want to have tried in this life. Thank you for your inspiration when I get tired on the road. ❤
Ruri, thank you so much for your advises, I live in a third-world country, I finished university and I realized my lack of job options, I learned english to have more chances and I got a job that pay the bills but I am about to turn 30, I realized I wanted more and all those worries of being to late for me to do anything else, I am just letting them go, I watch your videos and I feel like I really should do more, more for the future me, for my family, may be for my future kids. I've been studying on my own Italian, French and Japanese, I can speak whit some fluency except for Japanese, that one is really hard but I won't give up. I just want to thank you, you really inspired me. 🌻
It's not always in our control though. Sometimes, you work hard and do everything right and something external intervenes and you don't get the result you should have had. Working hard usually pays, and i firmly believe in it, but something, there are unfortunate chains of events that can bring the hardest working, more resilient person down. Don't beat yourself up. Take a break. Don't give up. 👍
I love this. I don't want an ordinary life, I want an extraordinary life. When I tell this to my friends they always ask me "why?" It's really annoying to want something more only to have your friends tell you you need to just be happy with average and normal.
I think its important to acheive a state of peace/contentment with aspects of both sides of that spectrum. Chasing big dreams can be a form of our personal delusions but its also can be an incredibly beautiful way of experiencing a lifetime. Both you and your friends are right for different reasons.
Ruri did a video on "friends" to avoid. You need to surround yourself with friends that inspire, that exude excellence in what they do or are striving to do. Friends that build your confidence and drive. If you're "annoyed" by the comments from today's "friends", that is your first clue! Let them be happy with 'average'. You're aiming for extraordinary!
Amazing to hear someone who speaks in the language of the identity I’m working to build. 🙏 Encouraging to not be alone in this journey. Until I found your channel, I thought I was.
I pray to God that one day I have a daughter like you Ruri!!🙏💐🙏 I admire your mindset, your resilience, your sincerity and your hardworking personality and how you value your family. A big ❤to you sweetheart. Harikasın!! 🙏
I’m ADD, retired and Amazon Prime is killing my life! I am so easily distracted and just find myself watching my life away and combine that with TH-cam tutorials I’m a goner! I want to start a YT channel restoring my vintage Beetle, I have tons of content to edit, POD and the list is so long I am overwhelmed. I need a to do list and organization but that in itself is overwhelming, thank you for this video. :)
Hey Rurii, thank you so much for share this info to us. I appreciate the effort you put on your research, edition and quality of the video. I'm also inspired to start my own youtube channel but in Spanish with kinda simmilar topics but more focused on health. I'm following all the advice you give almost religiously, hahaha. Also, as a regular youtube user since 2008, with any doubt, I can say you are one of the few youtubers that seem truly honest and humble. Would love to be your friend! ☺Keep it going! A big hug from Brazil!🇧🇷
Before even finishing of watching the video,i want to say thank you,these months i realized i wasnt happier or motivated with my life,and i kept struggling to follow my own things..BUT YOUR VIDEOS REALLY CHANGED THE WAY IM LIVING I feel way more stronger to do something with my life and in my free time..THANK YOU SO MUCHHH
Appreciate your honesty and realistic approach to these kind of topics. Motivational and inspiring yet profoundly accurate and true. Thanks for another great video love your channel!🙂
You, Andrew Huberman, and one Stoic channel have become my regular watch, but I do not binge. From your above mentions about habits, I have started reading more, exercising, manifesting, but I still struggle with the others mentioned, and I'm not planning on giving up. I understand that the path to wisdom and success is always a struggle, so I am up for it. Thank you for your wonderful videos! Sending love from India!
To avoid doing something, all I have to do is ignore the possibility of future regret. On the other hand, doing something requires overcoming an activation energy, which is usually my fear of failure or judgement. Upon reflection, I realize that overcoming fear is really about accepting the possibility of future regret. It follows then that once I have identified something I want to do, I simply need to accept the possibility of regretting my actions instead of ignoring the regret of inaction. It's easier to follow through when viewed in this way because of the realization that the possibility of regret will be there either way. I've allowed avoiding actions to provide the illusion of control in the past. I need to accept that I don't always have control and that's okay. I should ground my identity in the direction I choose to go rather than attaching myself to my starting point. To continue to do something, discipline and motivation are required. Discipline and motivation are big words, but they're just that: words. Discipline and motivation will come naturally when you reflect on your actions properly. Take drinking alcohol for example. In the moment, what are the benefits? I would say the primary one is reduced awareness of your fears, resulting in a lower activation energy to partake in group actions, which in turn results in short-term fun and easier social acceptance from fellow drinkers. How about the negatives? Well, you're poisoning your body and damaging your liver. Additionally, the positive I mentioned above becomes a negative in the long-term. You learn to ignore your fears and medicate them with alcohol instead of coming to terms with them... it's just another form of avoidance. It's harder, but you can achieve the same social acceptance without alcohol. I should know... I've been sober for 7 months and lost 60 lbs without changing anything else about my social life. Creating change is hard, and it's scary because choosing to create change in a bad or unoptimized direction is entirely possible. However, nature demonstrates that change is inevitable, so we must adapt or be left behind. In other words, standing still may provide the illusion of safety, but really it just guarantees that life will run you over. Since inaction cannot give you control over your life, the most important thing is to identify which direction you want to move in. I'm still working out the best way to do that, but I believe that trial and error is a good place to start. It's important to remember that just because you've been going one way, it doesn't prevent you from turning around. Additionally, while there might be bad ways to approach life - like inaction or allowing others to manipulate your path for their own benefit - there also may not be a single best path. Nobody has all the answers; we should appreciate diversity, for we paint the picture of human existence together.
To be honest with you, you are the best and I really like your videos and I cannot spend a day without watching one of your videos, because they are plenty of positive energy and motivation, so I would like to say a Big thank you for everything and keep going like you do every time.
thanks for your videos, Ruri. i feel how they help me to grow up as a person. keep up your priceless work! we can reach anything even if it seems impossible
You are all the motivation i need right now. I started a new channel but i am not getting desired results. I need to keep grinding without expecting the results. Thanks for the video
If you feel like you're wasting your life & want to make a change, here are some steps you can take to start living a more fulfilling & purposeful life:- 1. Reflect on your values & goals: Take some time to think about what truly matters to you & what you want to achieve in life. Clarify your values & set meaningful goals that align with them. This will give you a sense of purpose & direction. 2. dentify time-wasting activities: Evaluate how you spend your time & identify activities that are not aligned with your values or goals. These could include excessive social media use, watching too much TV,🖥 or engaging in unproductive habits. Recognizing these activities will help you redirect your time & energy towards more meaningful pursuits. 3. Prioritize & plan: Once you have a clear sense of your values & goals, prioritize them & create a plan of action. Break down your long-term goals into smaller, actionable steps that you can work on consistently. Set deadlines & hold yourself accountable to stay on track. 4. Eliminate distractions: Minimize distractions that prevent you from being productive & achieving your goals. This may involve reducing your screen time, creating a dedicated workspace, or setting boundaries with people who may interrupt your focus. 5. Develop new habits: Cultivate positive habits that contribute to personal growth & well-being. This could include reading regularly, exercising, practicing mindfulness/meditation🧘♂️, learning new skills, or pursuing hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment. Start small & gradually incorporate these habits into your daily routine. 6. Surround yourself with supportive people: Surround yourself with individuals who inspire & motivate you. Seek out like-minded individuals who share your interests & aspirations. Build a support network that encourages your personal growth & provides accountability. 7. Take calculated risks: Stepping outside your comfort zone & taking calculated risks can lead to personal growth & new opportunities. Embrace challenges and be open to learning from both successes & failures. Don't let fear hold you back from pursuing your passions & dreams. 8. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical, mental, & emotional well-being. Prioritize self-care activities such as getting enough sleep, eating nutritious food, exercising regularly, & engaging in activities that help you relax and recharge. 9. Stay focused & persevere: Stay committed to your goals, even when faced with obstacles/setbacks. Remember Ruri, changing your life takes a lot of time & effort. You have to be patient with yourself & celebrate small victories or little things along the way. Each day is an opportunity to make choices that align with your values & bring you closer to living a more meaningful & fulfilling life. 🤍❤ all your videos #RURI👍 keep spreading positive energy.
Thank you for the video ❤. I was feeling demotivated and unfocused. The way you presented each and every topic is exceptional. It is very inspiring ✨️.
It's been a very long time since I was in primary schooll at this point, but our moto back then was "to do better today, than yesterday", that 1% each day is exactly just that. Incremental improvements are hard to notice, but keeping track to look back and reflect can be an extremely powerful tool for motivation.
Thank you I was depressed for very long time my parent Where at a point of divorce but u give me inspiration to go on in life without giving a mind to them
Every people on Earth should see this video and You. I watched tons of people all around, and met many coach in my life, but you are one of the best if not far the best. Thank you for all the work you put into your craft and keep up. You do an incredibly wonderful job. What you talk about is 100% precious and rare quality. Afterall I usually get bored after 5 minutes of shittalk motivational speeches haha but listening to you never get me feel bored just for at least one second. Thank you again! :)
Selam Ruri. TH-cam Tr icin eşi bulunmaz bir nimet gibisin. Seni 1000 abone zamanından beri takip ediyorum ve 1M mu harika 🎉🎉🎉 Kaliteli bir içerik üreticisi olduğun ve her videonla farkındalığımızı arttırdığın için tesekkürler 😊 Iyi ki varsın❤
No one has a line in the sand to just cut someone out, we will bend to imaginary fears to feel less lonely yet compromise our self respect for those who don’t care or know you
i came here to increase my listening english and just started to reflect, im wealthy of time, im 15, and i like to see these videos types to see that i still can chance my life, i have goals, and actually im trying to learn skills that may will be helping me in the future, and that´s what im actually doing, like writting in english jajaja, so, im proud of me about to chance my live! Interesting video :D
i needed this video, i failed many things in my life in my last few years,including a serious relationship. now i am almost 33 and suffer from chronic hipersensitivity pneumonitis. i am home all day,no working,just oxygen therapy 24/7(not to mention that after almost half a year of hospitals and treatment i put on me 30kg+). i need to change my life,learn new skills to earn a living online like i used to do while in college. despite my condition i lack motivation,go to bed late and wake up late. it is hard to stay focused when you know that you are young yet very sick and only chance for a normal life is a future lung transplant. however i need money for this but i still do nothing. i purchased a domain and hosting for a new website to build 3 months ago,did nothing so far..... hope to find the motivation i used to have once more. be blessed Ruri. P.S about my weight at least I am on a diet,at least this I do good,lol.
Very interesting, but I can't say I can relate to this. As much as I respect the way you see life and how you should live it, it sounds to me like another way of being a slave of your ambitions. Forgive my poor English in advance, but I'd like to say something about that since many "influencers" on the internet are trying to explain to us "how to be happy and successful". Having to establish such a list of things to do, not to do, to think and not to think, in order to be "happy and successful" is not something that will work for everyone (That was probably not your claim in the first place though, but wanted to point that out). This whole mentality about being "self made successful" is not necessarily healthy and that's something I hear way too often. "Success" is a word that doesn't mean anything, or at least doesn't mean the same thing to everyone. Most of the time it's all about how you'd like to be perceived by others and how much money you make / how prestigious your job is. It's funny to see that many people with that kind of "inspiration speech" are all looking for the same goal in the end. Fame and money. It's great to have goals but building your life around goals tend to be a massive trap. If you spend your life running after something, you'll never be happy cause there will always be something new to achieve. People sometimes should worry a bit more about enjoying their lives and the very little time we've got here. Not sure I would enjoy mine if I had to take each day as another battle to prove I'm a winner... Hopefully my English makes sense (Not my native language, obviously) but if anyone comes here and feels a bit overwhelmed about that kind of speech, just don't worry too much. Having a simple life is nothing to be ashamed of. Wishing you and everyone else the best, but don't forget that life can be wonderful too if you stop worrying so much about being successful or productive. You're a living being, not a computer.
One of the best video about that how to achieving yourself own goals really effective and fast and yeah I agree that for this required first motivation (I mean necessary such reason which will be continue make to you change to yourself life in better side without stop and also overcome all obstacles courses on this way to the best future about what you dreaming) and secondly you necessary to become more responsibility for yourself actions and that what you're doing everyday, what you're choosing and third be brave because we should always improving to yourself for our awesome goals and future life and for sure there will be big quantity of different challenges.
Everyone likely has their own formula for achieving personal goals. Seemingly it should include the risk/benefit factor, time/resource management, being flexible, evaluate/adapt/or abandon-review, plan of attack for success/actions-taken. Personal productivity is not a one size fits all formula.
Yeah these people are crazy... There will likely always be a difference between what we want and what is possible..... Also hindsight does none of us any good.
I never comment or like until I’ve watched the whole video and this one held my interest all the way to the end. 👍 I would also like to add that people should have a higher purpose than themselves. When I have an attitude that I have something to give to the world, I feel more motivated.
It’s always refreshing to see a new video of yours. You make a lot of great 👍🏻 points that people should take into consideration. Also, former U.S. Navy Seal David Goggins is a great motivational speaker and great at motivating oneself into getting in shape. Hope you watch his videos because their worth it 😉
You make money you sometimes spend to much money, discipline and money management is much needed or confusion and chaos takes over ending in total loss, sometimes this is what it takes to increase wisdom and further for many. 😇
Thanks so much for sharing and this episode is full of wisdom of life. The definition of success can be different for different ppl but the goal is to fulfill your life in a positive way.
Ruri I really really needed this video so so and your videos are too too too satisfying and interesting you are my inspiration and I will support you till end☺️💫💗
This is the reason I cut out a lot of my family due to them being nothing but negative energy, I choose to better my self rather then caring what others thought
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Thank you Ruri, you are a very helpful and wise plus intelligent young lady.
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guys the most important thing is that you won't become better if you only watch motivational videos, you need to work hard and smart!
100%!
Before watching this vid I want to say that motivation isn't a good thing.
I believe that I must turn the laziness and the negativeness into an energy that I will use to work hard and smart
Shush these are my comfort video's! 😂😂
Nah I actually laughed at this comment because it's exactly what I'm doing now : procrastinating by watching procrastination videos.
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more like motivational videos only hurt most people cause they get pumped before doing anything. It's like injecting adrenaline before sleep
“Don’t be mad about the results you didn’t make from the work you never did” absolutely beautifully said. Thank you for giving me the quote of year.
That hit deep
"Nothing is a priority when everything is a priority" 👏🏻
Indeed dwelling on the pasy doesn't change anything
You need to focus on the present for a better future
Since discovering your channel, my motivation to create content has soared. Your authentic approach and unwavering passion radiate in every video you produce, inspiring me greatly.
Omg we 100 agree. We subscribed yesterday and the 1st video we watched, inspired the creativity, and ideas are flowing now. We love her content. We've been binging 😂
When I started uploading videos every day and working out twice a day I realized how much time I was normally wasting on BS before, while convincing myself I was being "productive"... Thank you for the great video
Ways to Not Waste Your Life
Believe. ...
Know where you're headed. ...
Pursue the right success. ...
Value relationships above all. ...
Happiness is found internally. ...
Live in the moment. ...
Defer short-term thrills in favor of long-term rewards. ...
Always continue learning.
Ways to not Waste Your Life , stop stating the obvious . There's 1000s of you tubers making the same video , they use chat gpt to write a script for them . Tbh all these videos now are just painful to listen to .
@@mehDOGIESRATS2222Elizabeth Filips is actually a very unique self-improvement channel and provides advice I've not seen anyone else give, especially with studying and shit. Good stuff
"Stop telling people your plans" is very underrated advice. When I was first going into college I told everyone that I was going to be a computer engineer with a minor in German. I said it so many times that I believed that the goal would just manifest itself with little work on my part. I didn't really do anything those first two years and left college defeated and unmotivated. It took some time, but I learned my lesson after that and now let the future me enjoy the fruits of my hard work now. I keep my goals bottled within me and use the them as the motivation for what I do. Telling others all our it just sucks the motivation out if us so we end up talking or than actually doing.
Whenever I feel down, I come here and watch some of Ruri's videos. I'm pretty sure Ruri is an old soul, I feel so impressed to see such a young girl with such a powerful mindset, such determination. It inspires me. I'm in a really nice, comfortable, well-paying job that took a lot of effort and made me mentally ill, and when I think about just sitting around and being comfortable the rest of my life in a job that I don't like, I know I would have a miserable life. This year I decided to go get the life I want, I refuse to have a miserable life at a job I don't even have for the right reasons. Thank you so much Ruri, you opened my eyes this year, I don't feel like it's too late for me anymore. :)
You got this❤️
Such a kind girl who always try to console everyone in their life 🤞✨
Facts. I was just feeling frustrated because everything was slipping away and I did calm down it's amazing how the timing of the video is so on time!
I retired from working for a living when I turned 42. I started doing jobs I "always wanted to try" from then until 6 years ago. Now I just play games and do daily exercises regularly. If I had been able to catch these videos when I was in my teens, I can't imagine how different my life would have been. I am jealous of how strong you have made your mind! I know your parents must be pleased with your progress. I am just amazed by your self determination (and I have been surrounded by successful people for the majority of my life). You go girl! We are all rooting for you!
A problem I have is that I don't know what I want in life because I like a lot of things, but I want to be remember doing something grate por humankind but I don't know in what area. Maybe it sounds selfish for wanting to be remembered idk it's weird
@@vin_rouge180 Be a good person. There are a million things you can do for the world, but this one guarantees your memory will thrive in peoples hearts.
@@vin_rouge180don't compare yourself to others or stop idk watching celebrities my day on social media
@@KeithCarmichaelInFLwell it really depends on the country some don't have good economy or opportunities despite having a college degree if the work place prefers hiring young teens or fresh college graduates to work.
@@joandarc441 What really depends on that?
Yoga. I'm five years into daily hatha yoga. It has dramatically and completely improved my life.
*"Childs blames the circumstances, but man changes their circumstances."*
*No matter if the work you did today is not perfect, what matter is that you did what you needed to do to grow, thanks Ruri, keep grinding 💪*
kız ruri bayadır izlemiyordum seni yksden dolayı 1 milyon abonen olmuş tebrik ederim gerçekten 50k olduğun zamanları hatırlıyorum çok duygulandımm
I don't really care if your new video gets published tomorrow or in a week. I'm always happy that you make stuff for us to watch and be relaxed a bit.
I love listening to you speak with perfect articulation and confidence in your knowledge base. You must put a lot of work into your video's. Thank you so much!!!
"It takes courage to say NO to people and actually do what you believe in". This can manifest in many ways not only literally saying "No" to a request, but also saying no mentally and metaphorically. Mentally say NO to consuming unwanted content on social media, mentally say NO to "friends" who add 0 value to your life, mentally say NO to traditions you no longer want to follow, mentally say NO to habits you want to break, etc.
It isn't only about saying NO to people who make you an offer or ask for something from you, it's also about saying NO to yourself in order to start seeing the changes you want to see in your life that will allow for progress and self-improvement.
Fantastic video as always, Ruri. 🖖
I sincerely appreciate your effort and where you've come, Ruri. I've been following you for a long time and it's great to see how much you've improved day by day. 🎉
I've been trying to change my mindset for a while. I try to get rid of the pressure of being successful and the fear of failure and focus on what I want to have tried in this life. Thank you for your inspiration when I get tired on the road. ❤
Ruri, thank you so much for your advises, I live in a third-world country, I finished university and I realized my lack of job options, I learned english to have more chances and I got a job that pay the bills but I am about to turn 30, I realized I wanted more and all those worries of being to late for me to do anything else, I am just letting them go, I watch your videos and I feel like I really should do more, more for the future me, for my family, may be for my future kids. I've been studying on my own Italian, French and Japanese, I can speak whit some fluency except for Japanese, that one is really hard but I won't give up. I just want to thank you, you really inspired me. 🌻
It's not always in our control though. Sometimes, you work hard and do everything right and something external intervenes and you don't get the result you should have had. Working hard usually pays, and i firmly believe in it, but something, there are unfortunate chains of events that can bring the hardest working, more resilient person down. Don't beat yourself up. Take a break. Don't give up. 👍
This is true. Takes a bit luck to be successful also
You are admirable, I'm sure you can overcome much and have! Corruption and evil will never come close to you friend with your thinking and teaching.
I love this. I don't want an ordinary life, I want an extraordinary life. When I tell this to my friends they always ask me "why?" It's really annoying to want something more only to have your friends tell you you need to just be happy with average and normal.
I think its important to acheive a state of peace/contentment with aspects of both sides of that spectrum. Chasing big dreams can be a form of our personal delusions but its also can be an incredibly beautiful way of experiencing a lifetime. Both you and your friends are right for different reasons.
I feel this, how do you describe success?
Ruri did a video on "friends" to avoid. You need to surround yourself with friends that inspire, that exude excellence in what they do or are striving to do. Friends that build your confidence and drive. If you're "annoyed" by the comments from today's "friends", that is your first clue! Let them be happy with 'average'. You're aiming for extraordinary!
Amazing to hear someone who speaks in the language of the identity I’m working to build. 🙏
Encouraging to not be alone in this journey. Until I found your channel, I thought I was.
I pray to God that one day I have a daughter like you Ruri!!🙏💐🙏 I admire your mindset, your resilience, your sincerity and your hardworking personality and how you value your family. A big ❤to you sweetheart. Harikasın!! 🙏
I’m ADD, retired and Amazon Prime is killing my life! I am so easily distracted and just find myself watching my life away and combine that with TH-cam tutorials I’m a goner! I want to start a YT channel restoring my vintage Beetle, I have tons of content to edit, POD and the list is so long I am overwhelmed. I need a to do list and organization but that in itself is overwhelming, thank you for this video. :)
Hey Rurii, thank you so much for share this info to us. I appreciate the effort you put on your research, edition and quality of the video. I'm also inspired to start my own youtube channel but in Spanish with kinda simmilar topics but more focused on health. I'm following all the advice you give almost religiously, hahaha.
Also, as a regular youtube user since 2008, with any doubt, I can say you are one of the few youtubers that seem truly honest and humble. Would love to be your friend! ☺Keep it going!
A big hug from Brazil!🇧🇷
Your videos always come to me at the right time. I was feeling low and worthless and after watching your video I feel like working again. Thank youuu.
These episodes seem to always come during time I need it most! Ty & Bless You Ultima!
Before even finishing of watching the video,i want to say thank you,these months i realized i wasnt happier or motivated with my life,and i kept struggling to follow my own things..BUT YOUR VIDEOS REALLY CHANGED THE WAY IM LIVING I feel way more stronger to do something with my life and in my free time..THANK YOU SO MUCHHH
Appreciate your honesty and realistic approach to these kind of topics. Motivational and inspiring yet profoundly accurate and true. Thanks for another great video love your channel!🙂
Nobody is going to save you except yourself 💯
You, Andrew Huberman, and one Stoic channel have become my regular watch, but I do not binge. From your above mentions about habits, I have started reading more, exercising, manifesting, but I still struggle with the others mentioned, and I'm not planning on giving up. I understand that the path to wisdom and success is always a struggle, so I am up for it. Thank you for your wonderful videos! Sending love from India!
this channel is saving my life, im in a dark place right now and want to get out of there and this kind of video really helps.
To avoid doing something, all I have to do is ignore the possibility of future regret. On the other hand, doing something requires overcoming an activation energy, which is usually my fear of failure or judgement. Upon reflection, I realize that overcoming fear is really about accepting the possibility of future regret. It follows then that once I have identified something I want to do, I simply need to accept the possibility of regretting my actions instead of ignoring the regret of inaction. It's easier to follow through when viewed in this way because of the realization that the possibility of regret will be there either way. I've allowed avoiding actions to provide the illusion of control in the past. I need to accept that I don't always have control and that's okay. I should ground my identity in the direction I choose to go rather than attaching myself to my starting point.
To continue to do something, discipline and motivation are required. Discipline and motivation are big words, but they're just that: words. Discipline and motivation will come naturally when you reflect on your actions properly. Take drinking alcohol for example. In the moment, what are the benefits? I would say the primary one is reduced awareness of your fears, resulting in a lower activation energy to partake in group actions, which in turn results in short-term fun and easier social acceptance from fellow drinkers. How about the negatives? Well, you're poisoning your body and damaging your liver. Additionally, the positive I mentioned above becomes a negative in the long-term. You learn to ignore your fears and medicate them with alcohol instead of coming to terms with them... it's just another form of avoidance. It's harder, but you can achieve the same social acceptance without alcohol. I should know... I've been sober for 7 months and lost 60 lbs without changing anything else about my social life.
Creating change is hard, and it's scary because choosing to create change in a bad or unoptimized direction is entirely possible. However, nature demonstrates that change is inevitable, so we must adapt or be left behind. In other words, standing still may provide the illusion of safety, but really it just guarantees that life will run you over. Since inaction cannot give you control over your life, the most important thing is to identify which direction you want to move in. I'm still working out the best way to do that, but I believe that trial and error is a good place to start. It's important to remember that just because you've been going one way, it doesn't prevent you from turning around. Additionally, while there might be bad ways to approach life - like inaction or allowing others to manipulate your path for their own benefit - there also may not be a single best path. Nobody has all the answers; we should appreciate diversity, for we paint the picture of human existence together.
I can't stop wasting my time watching you😩🖤
The best talk I've ever heard about habits and not wasting time. Short and useful talk
THIS video is full of relevant information and therefore has so much value. Thank you so much Ruri!
You’ve helped me get up and start again at some of the lowest points of my life. Great work, thanks
I think the only way to not waste your life is bringing value and helping people
I will bow to you Ruri, You are saving my life.
To be honest with you, you are the best and I really like your videos and I cannot spend a day without watching one of your videos, because they are plenty of positive energy and motivation, so I would like to say a Big thank you for everything and keep going like you do every time.
Thx for making this video. This morning I woke up and just felt a bit too overwhelmed. This really helped🙂
You are the youngest life coach I know and admire on TH-cam.. the future is in good hands
This girl always tries to warn us but we never listen until it's too late... I appreciate you Ruri Ohama, thanks for trying.
thanks for your videos, Ruri. i feel how they help me to grow up as a person. keep up your priceless work! we can reach anything even if it seems impossible
I don't know how to thank you my teacher
You choose the point that we are in it.
WHY NOT MILLION SUBS, RURI???? Gonna share your channel everywhere ❤
You are all the motivation i need right now. I started a new channel but i am not getting desired results. I need to keep grinding without expecting the results. Thanks for the video
Your contents always inspire us all Ruri-san, especially me.. and now this golden video pops up!
If you feel like you're wasting your life & want to make a change, here are some steps you can take to start living a more fulfilling & purposeful life:-
1. Reflect on your values & goals: Take some time to think about what truly matters to you & what you want to achieve in life. Clarify your values & set meaningful goals that align with them. This will give you a sense of purpose & direction.
2. dentify time-wasting activities: Evaluate how you spend your time & identify activities that are not aligned with your values or goals. These could include excessive social media use, watching too much TV,🖥 or engaging in unproductive habits. Recognizing these activities will help you redirect your time & energy towards more meaningful pursuits.
3. Prioritize & plan: Once you have a clear sense of your values & goals, prioritize them & create a plan of action. Break down your long-term goals into smaller, actionable steps that you can work on consistently. Set deadlines & hold yourself accountable to stay on track.
4. Eliminate distractions: Minimize distractions that prevent you from being productive & achieving your goals. This may involve reducing your screen time, creating a dedicated workspace, or setting boundaries with people who may interrupt your focus.
5. Develop new habits: Cultivate positive habits that contribute to personal growth & well-being. This could include reading regularly, exercising, practicing mindfulness/meditation🧘♂️, learning new skills, or pursuing hobbies that bring you joy and fulfillment. Start small & gradually incorporate these habits into your daily routine.
6. Surround yourself with supportive people: Surround yourself with individuals who inspire & motivate you. Seek out like-minded individuals who share your interests & aspirations. Build a support network that encourages your personal growth & provides accountability.
7. Take calculated risks: Stepping outside your comfort zone & taking calculated risks can lead to personal growth & new opportunities. Embrace challenges and be open to learning from both successes & failures. Don't let fear hold you back from pursuing your passions & dreams.
8. Practice self-care: Take care of your physical, mental, & emotional well-being. Prioritize self-care activities such as getting enough sleep, eating nutritious food, exercising regularly, & engaging in activities that help you relax and recharge.
9. Stay focused & persevere: Stay committed to your goals, even when faced with obstacles/setbacks.
Remember Ruri, changing your life takes a lot of time & effort.
You have to be patient with yourself & celebrate small victories or little things along the way.
Each day is an opportunity to make choices that align with your values & bring you closer to living a more meaningful & fulfilling life.
🤍❤ all your videos #RURI👍 keep spreading positive energy.
Ty for making me quit my social media addiction (Fr tysm)
One of the best video on TH-cam about this subject! Very professional, bravo:)
Thank you for the video ❤. I was feeling demotivated and unfocused. The way you presented each and every topic is exceptional. It is very inspiring ✨️.
The beginning of this was a drop of so many different great motivation speakers how you worded this to fit your message just genius!! 😮
It's been a very long time since I was in primary schooll at this point, but our moto back then was "to do better today, than yesterday", that 1% each day is exactly just that. Incremental improvements are hard to notice, but keeping track to look back and reflect can be an extremely powerful tool for motivation.
Thank you I was depressed for very long time my parent Where at a point of divorce but u give me inspiration to go on in life without giving a mind to them
omg you uploaded this at the right time! lately my life's been a mess and i gotta use my time wisely. tysm for the video, ruri! 💟
Every people on Earth should see this video and You. I watched tons of people all around, and met many coach in my life, but you are one of the best if not far the best. Thank you for all the work you put into your craft and keep up. You do an incredibly wonderful job.
What you talk about is 100% precious and rare quality. Afterall I usually get bored after 5 minutes of shittalk motivational speeches haha but listening to you never get me feel bored just for at least one second.
Thank you again! :)
Though it might be a rare sensation, this video has touched my life and soul...
Selam Ruri. TH-cam Tr icin eşi bulunmaz bir nimet gibisin. Seni 1000 abone zamanından beri takip ediyorum ve 1M mu harika 🎉🎉🎉 Kaliteli bir içerik üreticisi olduğun ve her videonla farkındalığımızı arttırdığın için tesekkürler 😊 Iyi ki varsın❤
She is a sincere genius❤
Second time listening/watching so far. You've been slowly becoming my main life coach. Ty ❤
What might have been can never be known. Every moment of life is an opportunity for growth.
Stay positive and motivate yourself to conquer own self .
The level of insight you possess is very admirable, I must say.
Thank u for a lot of advices
No one has a line in the sand to just cut someone out, we will bend to imaginary fears to feel less lonely yet compromise our self respect for those who don’t care or know you
You can tell you put a lot of work in your videos great content ❤️
Like to hear you. You are saying your points with passion. Love it.
You’re a constant inspiration for me! LOVE your videos.
i came here to increase my listening english and just started to reflect, im wealthy of time, im 15, and i like to see these videos types to see that i still can chance my life, i have goals, and actually im trying to learn skills that may will be helping me in the future, and that´s what im actually doing, like writting in english jajaja, so, im proud of me about to chance my live! Interesting video :D
The improvement in the quality of your videos is quite fascinating keep it up Ruri🔥
Thanks rurii
i needed this video, i failed many things in my life in my last few years,including a serious relationship. now i am almost 33 and suffer from chronic hipersensitivity pneumonitis. i am home all day,no working,just oxygen therapy 24/7(not to mention that after almost half a year of hospitals and treatment i put on me 30kg+). i need to change my life,learn new skills to earn a living online like i used to do while in college. despite my condition i lack motivation,go to bed late and wake up late. it is hard to stay focused when you know that you are young yet very sick and only chance for a normal life is a future lung transplant. however i need money for this but i still do nothing. i purchased a domain and hosting for a new website to build 3 months ago,did nothing so far..... hope to find the motivation i used to have once more. be blessed Ruri.
P.S about my weight at least I am on a diet,at least this I do good,lol.
I love you ruri, thankyou 💯❣️
Ruri thank you you have motivated me so much to work towards my TH-cam goals ❤
Very interesting, but I can't say I can relate to this. As much as I respect the way you see life and how you should live it, it sounds to me like another way of being a slave of your ambitions. Forgive my poor English in advance, but I'd like to say something about that since many "influencers" on the internet are trying to explain to us "how to be happy and successful".
Having to establish such a list of things to do, not to do, to think and not to think, in order to be "happy and successful" is not something that will work for everyone (That was probably not your claim in the first place though, but wanted to point that out).
This whole mentality about being "self made successful" is not necessarily healthy and that's something I hear way too often. "Success" is a word that doesn't mean anything, or at least doesn't mean the same thing to everyone. Most of the time it's all about how you'd like to be perceived by others and how much money you make / how prestigious your job is.
It's funny to see that many people with that kind of "inspiration speech" are all looking for the same goal in the end. Fame and money.
It's great to have goals but building your life around goals tend to be a massive trap. If you spend your life running after something, you'll never be happy cause there will always be something new to achieve.
People sometimes should worry a bit more about enjoying their lives and the very little time we've got here. Not sure I would enjoy mine if I had to take each day as another battle to prove I'm a winner...
Hopefully my English makes sense (Not my native language, obviously) but if anyone comes here and feels a bit overwhelmed about that kind of speech, just don't worry too much. Having a simple life is nothing to be ashamed of.
Wishing you and everyone else the best, but don't forget that life can be wonderful too if you stop worrying so much about being successful or productive. You're a living being, not a computer.
you're a beautiful person - inside and out
One of the best video about that how to achieving yourself own goals really effective and fast and yeah I agree that for this required first motivation (I mean necessary such reason which will be continue make to you change to yourself life in better side without stop and also overcome all obstacles courses on this way to the best future about what you dreaming) and secondly you necessary to become more responsibility for yourself actions and that what you're doing everyday, what you're choosing and third be brave because we should always improving to yourself for our awesome goals and future life and for sure there will be big quantity of different challenges.
Thank you 🙏 Ruri . I needed to hear this today. Keep up the good work. Peace ✌️
Congrats on 1 MILLION!
Love all the value you provide on this videos, thanks 😊
Love your videos and keep on doing what you love and never give up no matter what, and I love your passion this makes more motivated 😊
You are very wise for your young age, amazing, only figuring all these things out now in my 30s
The title of this video is truly excellent.
Everyone likely has their own formula for achieving personal goals. Seemingly it should include the risk/benefit factor, time/resource management, being flexible,
evaluate/adapt/or abandon-review, plan of attack for success/actions-taken. Personal productivity is not a one size fits all formula.
Yeah these people are crazy... There will likely always be a difference between what we want and what is possible..... Also hindsight does none of us any good.
I never comment or like until I’ve watched the whole video and this one held my interest all the way to the end. 👍
I would also like to add that people should have a higher purpose than themselves. When I have an attitude that I have something to give to the world, I feel more motivated.
Changing the World one discipline at a time 🇯🇵🇹🇷
Very powerful message. Thanks for making it.
Highly motivated by the video and finally decided to clean up my room!
Thank you for giving us motivation in life.
It’s always refreshing to see a new video of yours. You make a lot of great 👍🏻 points that people should take into consideration.
Also, former U.S. Navy Seal David Goggins is a great motivational speaker and great at motivating oneself into getting in shape. Hope you watch his videos because their worth it 😉
You make money you sometimes spend to much money, discipline and money management is much needed or confusion and chaos takes over ending in total loss, sometimes this is what it takes to increase wisdom and further for many. 😇
Thanks so much for sharing and this episode is full of wisdom of life. The definition of success can be different for different ppl but the goal is to fulfill your life in a positive way.
Thank you for priceless insights ❤️
You always remain my inspiration Ruri!!!
I like how the quality of your videos keeps improving step by step ! Nice to see the white background in this one :)
Ruri I really really needed this video so so and your videos are too too too satisfying and interesting you are my inspiration and I will support you till end☺️💫💗
This is the reason I cut out a lot of my family due to them being nothing but negative energy, I choose to better my self rather then caring what others thought