Di, you just caught us by our neck. The video is Bang on point! Feels like someone is talking about the exact things that revolves around my head all the time.
Sometimes we are not happy from within we are badly hurt but we dont make others feel that what we have been going through because there are very few people in this world who will try to understand your circumstances...everyone needs a partner who can listen to you, understand you and support you in life...when nobody understands your feelings then you get agitated and confused...
this kind of honesty with ourselves is very important in our life. looking for the flaws inside us and analyzing our moods and over all persona is so so important. its a greattttt kick start to boost ur higher vibrations. i think self realization and self consciousness are helping me out cuz i was also the one in ur place a week ago and i bursted out crying thinking of why is this happening to me. am i the only one? (also sometimes its ok to cry for no reason it really helps trust me) and this one action of me of letting go and a small self talk helped me so much. suddenly my energy is at peak as if nothing bad has ever happened to me till now. i dont know from where i got that kind of strength and ironically started questioning myself that how am i feeling so peaceful right now. like what just happened. but again self realization came into picture and now i know it was nobody but always ME from the very start. all the anger confusion peace. it was just me. and that really hit me. i got a new perspective. same goals but a fresh plan. we just need to know ourselves. and things will fall into place as you wish. or maybe way better than you imagined. i request everyone to talk about these issues openly bcuz even if we are separate individuals we are not alone and nobody is we all live together throughout our life and thats what really counts at the end.
Ma'am even I am going through the problems which you have discussed in this video. Thanks for showing me the mirror and giving me a chance to improve myself 🎗️
“ Life is like a piano black keys are pain and white are happiness we need both to play music . Thanks mam ❣️ I have learned so many things from your vidios keep it up .✌️
I was/am really struggling with this thing, deep down I knew that my expectations were high and I needed to lower my expectations but my ego was like, 'no you are not wrong the people around you are'. Today this video really hit me hard, i will definitely try to control my ego and I'll lower my expectations. Thank you for this 🧡
Hi Aleena. This is my first comment though I have been following your videos since a couple of months now! The videos have always helped me to keep myself in peace. I feel so contended after watching you speak. Seems like motivation. There is a reason why I commented today is that the problem that you have talked about is the thing I am dealing with right at the moment. I am not happy at all. Despite trying a lot to have a happy mask on, I feel heavy inside. This is the exact one that i needed like a panacea. Thank you for uploading this heart to heart conversation. i felt like I talked to you. It seemed like you listened to my shrieks and calmed me and spoke these all. It etched a mark. I heard it 20 times to be specific. I wish I could speak to you once or may be, if you would have been my friend, I would ask for no more support!! Such an awesome person you are. Thanks for existing. Keep shining. Good wishes for you. May Shiva bless you and your family. Take care !
@sristi vlogs the same thing i see in myself too..i think there are lot of girls in india who can relate themselves with aleena mam.. Because she talks with heart and everyone can relate to them.
I don't usually comment on a video but I've lately been dealing with issues you discussed and I just happened to come across this video of yours. Kudos to you for being so open and upfront about it. It has been very helpful 🌟
I'm going through this phase, I was wondering about the reason of my anger n unhappiness, thank you so much 💕💔 because of you I got to know the problem. Thank you
Thanks Aleena, I am really inspired, the way you explained it automatically goes into my mind . Yes , you're right , sometimes egos compelled me to be different, but it shouldn't be. Thanks for sharing, keep us motivating.
I think , the feeling is quite very common to each individual who try to seek happiness outside. We need to look inside and know ourselves better! I also find it quite in-depth through , nobody really talks about these topics these days, people are getting hooked to Tik-tok, instagrams and all social media stuffs and somehow these things are impacting our behaviour , and we tend to make changes in other's behavior based on what we see around. The social media try to somehow project that kind of expectations for us, which lead us to control others and change accordingly. But thanks a lot for taking these kind of topics and enlightening us !!!
Exactly Aleena I have been there few years back have cried my heart out in the past because of just being neglected as u said that's what I thought may be I was not but negativity overpowers you sometimes u need to find your own happiness believe me or not I have not been out for any outings except for important work since COVID times started and I have no complains like I used to have earlier for not getting enough outings may be I have become quite an introvert 😉 but whatever at least I am not hurting anyone by my actions now and not being hurt by others I think I have found my inner peace and that's what we all need to find and thanks for the beautiful video ❤️
You are addicted to material greed that's the cause of your all problem you just do one thing as possible as you give up your ego first then you are try to understand your family love.but one thing always you keep remember in your mind.never love to change into the lust,always make good relationship to your family .
This video is exactly for me ... Really! I am going through this time and i am changing ..and now missing those day that what something i had before when i used to happy without any reason and what i loss toady . And i can clearly see the difference within me. . ..when i am going through bad feeling or getting heart . I try to smile even that tough time. That smile 😊 give me a power to be strong. ❤️
Madam You are more than a famous doctor to me. Because no doctor can cure my disease except your speech. I pray God to give you wealth and health to say as some more things to the people of not only India but throughout the world.
Thanks for this video ma'am I was facing the same problem but after watching ur video m feeling good nw I am more happy and feeling a peace in myself so thanq so much ma'am 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
I also don’t know why but it’s happening with me and that's the REASON why i was not available in online and today i suddenly thought of you and came to Check YOUR Channel thinking that you may have any solution and I'm Lucky enough to get a video just after my choice..... I have completed my 10th grade and now I'm confused about my next school because both my parents are government service holders and they cannot be shifted Where I want to study and neither i can live alone.... Thinking, actually over thinking about this matter I'm so much depressed, upset and frustrated that I'm not Being able to live my life. I'm missing the inside me, the real me... Thanks to you for this video.... as I've written all my problems now I'm a little bit better... Thanks a lot ❤️❤️
Since last two or three months I'm feeling the same as you described in the video. It's good to know that I'm not the only person who feels like this. Thank you so much Aleena to make this video. I will definitely try to make changes in me.
I have also been a social wallflower and loner since my adolescence. Within my loneliness, in the perpetual interplay of attachment and detachment, I found my own protective sanctity that has made me more empathetic for others. Over the period of time, after experiencing loneliness and the self inflicted solitude that mounted my curiosity to read more has enabled me to pursue a research on solitude and loneliness. It is helping me to evolve and be more pragmatic. A relatable thought process I must say mam.
The same each and every thing happening with me , now i feel relaxed that there is person who r going with same phase. I think it is just because lockdown ,so its better to travel in week with family compulsorily. Thank u so much ma'am for sharing with us.
Your speech was fluid and somewhat cute i think. Thanks for sharing this, you mentioned a good point that helps me to think, is my ego serving or damaging me… cuz i am not a happy person but with more luck than many others already.
Whenever I see you ma'am I get motivation, feel energetic , and many more. And if I talk about this video it's really amazing and I found I'm also a that kind of person . but now onwards I will definitely change myself. Lots and lots of love ma'am 💕💕.
As you shared your some experiences you faced recently it's same happened with all of us here. It is actual life but the best part is how we do tackle it skillfully. In this video's you taught us such things very clearly and intelligently that how to do overcome the situation. Thanks alot for all those ideas and concepts you clear here itself. Sometimes our own experiences help for other's then it's doesn't matter it would be Good or bad .most of times ,its similar to each other. Love it and as usual it's better one for learning towards both English and life knowledge oriented.
Can I tell you one thing? You've said that you were keeping distance from people and I think it's good. It's good for anyone's mental health and success. And that's why you are here and successful. I've realized it much later. But from when I started keeping distance from people I feel that I'm on the path of being successful. Therefore, I have to say that keeping distance from people is okay. Losing friends is okay. Being alone is okay. For yourself. ❤
I agree with you.. as they say, path to success (no matter which kind) is lonely. And I guess eventually it always comes down to those few who remain in your life, rest have anyway to part ways.
Well I love to be alone , but loves too, to be interact with good human beings , sometimes I've to ask myself tat if I supposed to live apart from society which I loves to do , will I go in depression like stuff or something else.
I didn't know how to explain exactly this same things to anyone but when you explain all i realize that same happening with me i will try to make change within me Thank u for sharing your experience i think it will help me alot not only me but to those people who faces the same...
whatever you said is very relatable, i have also gone through the same situation a year back. What i was few year back and what i was becoming that time was totally different. I used to do those kind of stuff which i never thought i would do anytime, but i had lost my self control and eventually did mistakes. And i found that expectations and ego is the main cause. now i am good ,realized my mistakes and I also know that in future those circumstances will again come in life but also i know that i will overcome those situation. "Note :- Read Bhagwatgita and you will know secrets of life and solution to solve all kind of problems of your life."
Your 100% right sir. Bhagvatgeeta have all problems solutions. world's every humankind need to read this book and learn how to deal with thoughts with peace
Hii aleena I completely agree with you that when we are emotionally unbalanced we start blaming to people who are around us and hurt the person who are so closed to us instead of changing our behavior and attitude towards other we focus on them.. But now I also trying not to complain about thing's and make behavior positive and i just want to be happy and make people joyful who are closed to me..
Wow, m feeling pretty much the same, especially today, hence, surfing through TH-cam for motivational videos, it just feels like there is a big rock on my heart suffocating me, I want to talk, but can't, as everyone is too busy....or I am scared they may judge me. From your video, I learnt, that I need to talk to no one else, but me. Thnx ✨.
Thank you very much for bringing this topic out in public. I can totally relate with you on this. Even I am going through the same thing in my life. But as you explained beautifully, I will definitely look in to myself and will come up with the better version of myself. Thank you once again for helping others. God bless you.
This.... This is me right now. Aleena ma'am I can't express in words what I'm feeling right now after watching this entire video. I was in depression since 2009-10. My father took me to a doctor, the dr. asked me if I feel a certain way, basically he wanted to rule out depression. And I being so grreeaattt I lied to each of his question. Things became worse with time and in 2019 I experienced a meltdown and then when my parents consulted a dr. I was diagnosed with depression. I'm at a point in life where I have completed a prescribed course of drugs for depression, and now I understand how the medicines and all work because I'm a medical student. But at the same time I also understand that, medicines aren't a cure for this. Like it didn't happen in a day, it will take more or less the equal amount of time to heal and recover. For me everyday is a battle, some days are just completely intolerable. 💔 But all I can do is, keep a little extra faith in the universe, the creator and myself. Thank you so much ma'am for opening about such issues on this platform, listening to the real people's experience gives me so much of hope. 🌼✨
Thank you Aleena 💚🙏for sharing this.. Loved the ending part.. u r indeed doing a great job.. God bless you! Thank u once again for making me realse how to be a happier version of myself by taking action n keeping control on myself🧘♀️.. ThanK YoU AlEeNa💚🙏
You are amazing woman...❤❤ Whenever I see u i get some positive energy that is your goodness and I also get this feelings when I was alone but sometimes, we can't be able to find the reasons for our sadness but ,we engage in something is more better rather than being alone. But eveytime it's not practical But I think in this world loneliness is the most painful thing sometimes. And may be we can't be happy in some occassions even if we get the atmosphere we are happy.
After seeing your video I realised that I am that person to whom you were suffering.. And believe me I am also trying to come out from that kinda personality.., i always admire and follow your advice. And will do the same for Sure.. Thanks Alina❤️👍
I am happy to know that I am not alone with this kind of problem. The more I try to connect with people the more people make distance themselves from me. This makes me sad then I realize it's better to live alone and keep our identity with us. Why to live with fake people who disperse negativity through their action. It's better to make distance yourself from people who never leave the opportunity to let you down. These people are a barrier to our success. Now I am happy to be alone. Neither do I have a problem with others nor do they have a problem with me .
I am Pakistani اللہ پاک اپنے حبیب صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم کے صدقے آپ کو کامیابیاں عطاء فرمائے اور آپ کو خوش و خرم سلامت رکھے اور آپ کی گھر والوں کو بھی صحت مند زندگی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثم آمین
You are absolutely right mam... the same things happen with me most of time.and the simple solution is that trying to change your self control your emotions.... kyunki situations jab change na ho to Hume khud ko hi change karna chaiye...🙏
sometimes we are just emotionally and mentally burnt out not lazy, tired of dealing with negative persona within us not with ourselves .and yeah as aleena elaborated we could get annoyed by lil lil things around us ,,its soooo true sometimes our anger melts down in to the tears with cracking voice,and sometimes we just dont try to explain anything to anybody because its hard enough to put in to the feelings and people think its not matter of degree but it is . since we are all enhancing and brushing up our english skills i want you to know to dont be hard on yourself you may be going through some mental health related battles but at the same time dont consider yourself as a worthless i know for some this isnt really making any sense but it is connected to your mental health . btw thank you aleena for this video .you are the only gem on this youtube who supports and uploads videos over all the things that are needed .
Hi Aleena, I can relate with what you feel right now. While listening to you, I felt like you sound like sister Shivani from Brahmakumaris. You have a very peaceful voice.
Madam I have listened your video just now. While you are telling I am thinking that it is all about me. It suits 100 percentage to me. I was happy as you said. But I am not happy now due to it may be as you said ego. I will try to be happy by applying your thoughts. Really great knowledge you have madam. God bless you to say some more things like them to the people. It is great message to me to change. I will change my attitude from this moment only. Thank you once again madam. I am politician, i would like to address the gathering in English, but scaring. After listening your videos, getting some hope. I hope for the best.
Happiness depends only on our mind, nobody can give us happiness or misery....I knew it but still i started expecting from others and used to feel the same way as you told. Thank you so much di to remind me who am i really...
This is just me! It feels like you are telling my story! I can even relate to that thing " they went without me" , "they are without me". I literally behaved arrogantly on these things and spoiled so many things around me. Just realised that I am doing the same mistake " controlling others, expecting more, and giving too much importance to my ego.
It's absolutely correct mam....what you have said....in this world no one can makes you happy.....only....you....we can make ourselves happy....if we really want to....and we should do....
My story is little bit matching to mam🥰🥰🥰.. I often think about myself that I have to become like some one else. 😍😍I was not enjoying myself as I was. But now I understand my value, my opinion. I agree with me that I don't need to be someone else now 😎😎😎I am happy being myself and it's all happen because of you🙏🙏🙏🙏thank you so much.. ❤❤❤but I am in a big situation where I understand myself in a right direction but apart of me every one are complaining with me I took this decision.... ❤❤but I am happy what I did and I will prove myself right one day.... Thank you so much mam for your motivation ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Just same thing happens with me , i don't understand what's happening with me, what's wrong with me but I'm upset that time and always my behaviour is furious with everyone..... lastly I'm talking to myself then I got my all answers ...that situation is never convey with anyone but it still with ourselves...so talk yourself and achieve your every answer 🙃❤️thank you very much mam you are my inspiration 🙃❤️
Ma'am it is because of you and only you that today I am able to speak good English. Today I have a hearty request to you...just like you make wonderful videos on English speaking, similarly please make many videos on English writing like essays, paragraphs, speech, debates and how to develop writings skills, how to brainstorm mind for innovative ideas for writing content.
You are right mam. I was also that kind of person.. Who always complaining for everthing.. Eventually i reset my mind.. Iam very happy now... Because i have taken much care about myself and began to loving my own company, and spend time for my own activities.. And House hold duties as well. No complaints about anything no worries. Then Wt recently happened is that.. All successful things are came up to me, and even my husband also..he... Taking good care of mee and apperantly began show his love towards me...(he used to told me that he loves with all his heart but never showed that towards me ) ., but now he is willing to even dance with me.😂...to all nd all things are came up to me back. ❤ Wt i hav done in my life was stopped complaining!
This was made for me. I'm glad I found this video. Thank you for making one. Going through a similar situation with myself. Tho many things are different. I need to change that's for sure.
Thanks ma'am, this video I must say an eye opener....I went through this kind of feelings and I didn't get the answers but after listening your thoughts ,I realized my mistakes which I definitely amend as early as possible 💕💕🌹 sadia from Pakistan 🌹
Thank you Aleena that's a great video which I liked the most. I facing the same problem which you explained about the anger issues, but I'm searching still for my happiness. Thanks for the video may be soon I'll change over my over thinking rather than reality..
I think being alone is ok sometimes you need to sit alone in order to find your true self.....sometimes problem is within us not because we are doing something wrong but because we are expecting from others the kind of behaviour that we want for ourselves and this is the point where problem arises.....everyone will love you according to their own capacity and you will love others according to your own capacity........we expect from others the kind /level of love that we give them but it is important to realize that everyone is unique no one is your carbon copy....accept that you will get peace within yourself. It took me a really long time to realize that you are the only one who is responsible for your own mental health not others.
yaaarrr aapkne meri situation bol di, everything exactly fits in my case.. recently i have realised this n u r clearing more. thank u for bring it out in this manner
Thanks alot Aleena Appi... Seriously I was suffering from the same situation and was thinking that it is happening only with me... But u made me realize that it is normal and we need to correct ourselves..... May God bless u mam😊✨
I think all of these things are necessary ones in a lifetime comes to you , your heart and mind so that you can understand life , empathize with people around you and all these changes test you ,your mental strength. And the people like mam who can understand why all these things happening is Happening for good can make life less complicated and simple .
I m going in dipression ,i think not other , other says u r not gud ,u r doing act ,i m facing same problem but having seen his vdo i m feeling gud .it really helpfull vdo for me i regard u thanks a lot
Mam plz making this kind of videos ...You r the only u tuber who is talking about these issues 😊Thank you so much for being there .U r seriously a gem of a person 💛
Di, you just caught us by our neck. The video is Bang on point! Feels like someone is talking about the exact things that revolves around my head all the time.
I hope it makes things a little easy for you
Sometimes we are not happy from within we are badly hurt but we dont make others feel that what we have been going through because there are very few people in this world who will try to understand your circumstances...everyone needs a partner who can listen to you, understand you and support you in life...when nobody understands your feelings then you get agitated and confused...
Well written ❤
This was heart to heart talk Aleena.
Samina hwr you
this kind of honesty with ourselves is very important in our life. looking for the flaws inside us and analyzing our moods and over all persona is so so important. its a greattttt kick start to boost ur higher vibrations. i think self realization and self consciousness are helping me out cuz i was also the one in ur place a week ago and i bursted out crying thinking of why is this happening to me. am i the only one? (also sometimes its ok to cry for no reason it really helps trust me) and this one action of me of letting go and a small self talk helped me so much. suddenly my energy is at peak as if nothing bad has ever happened to me till now. i dont know from where i got that kind of strength and ironically started questioning myself that how am i feeling so peaceful right now. like what just happened. but again self realization came into picture and now i know it was nobody but always ME from the very start. all the anger confusion peace. it was just me. and that really hit me. i got a new perspective. same goals but a fresh plan. we just need to know ourselves. and things will fall into place as you wish. or maybe way better than you imagined. i request everyone to talk about these issues openly bcuz even if we are separate individuals we are not alone and nobody is we all live together throughout our life and thats what really counts at the end.
I do not expect much from people around me and I am happy yet I listened to you because you speak so well.
Ma'am even I am going through the problems which you have discussed in this video. Thanks for showing me the mirror and giving me a chance to improve myself 🎗️
“ Life is like a piano black keys are pain and white are happiness we need both to play music . Thanks mam ❣️ I have learned so many things from your vidios keep it up .✌️
Yes, I agreed
Life is like two sides of a coin where happiness and pain resides, it is up to us how we are taking pain and enjoy happiness.
I was/am really struggling with this thing, deep down I knew that my expectations were high and I needed to lower my expectations but my ego was like, 'no you are not wrong the people around you are'. Today this video really hit me hard, i will definitely try to control my ego and I'll lower my expectations.
Thank you for this 🧡
Hi Aleena. This is my first comment though I have been following your videos since a couple of months now! The videos have always helped me to keep myself in peace. I feel so contended after watching you speak. Seems like motivation. There is a reason why I commented today is that the problem that you have talked about is the thing I am dealing with right at the moment. I am not happy at all. Despite trying a lot to have a happy mask on, I feel heavy inside. This is the exact one that i needed like a panacea. Thank you for uploading this heart to heart conversation. i felt like I talked to you. It seemed like you listened to my shrieks and calmed me and spoke these all. It etched a mark. I heard it 20 times to be specific. I wish I could speak to you once or may be, if you would have been my friend, I would ask for no more support!! Such an awesome person you are. Thanks for existing. Keep shining. Good wishes for you. May Shiva bless you and your family. Take care !
You know I literally see myself in you. Feeling like m taking in this video. The energy, the vibes, your words all Mee 😂❤️
Please help
Can we practise english please
That's what I feel too
@sristi vlogs the same thing i see in myself too..i think there are lot of girls in india who can relate themselves with aleena mam.. Because she talks with heart and everyone can relate to them.
Me too yr
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I don't usually comment on a video but I've lately been dealing with issues you discussed and I just happened to come across this video of yours. Kudos to you for being so open and upfront about it. It has been very helpful 🌟
I'm going through this phase, I was wondering about the reason of my anger n unhappiness, thank you so much 💕💔 because of you I got to know the problem. Thank you
I hope it makes it a little easier for you.
Thanks Aleena, I am really inspired, the way you explained it automatically goes into my mind . Yes , you're right , sometimes egos compelled me to be different, but it shouldn't be. Thanks for sharing, keep us motivating.
Yeah, she is amazing.
I think , the feeling is quite very common to each individual who try to seek happiness outside. We need to look inside and know ourselves better!
I also find it quite in-depth through , nobody really talks about these topics these days, people are getting hooked to Tik-tok, instagrams and all social media stuffs and somehow these things are impacting our behaviour , and we tend to make changes in other's behavior based on what we see around. The social media try to somehow project that kind of expectations for us, which lead us to control others and change accordingly. But thanks a lot for taking these kind of topics and enlightening us !!!
Exactly Aleena I have been there few years back have cried my heart out in the past because of just being neglected as u said that's what I thought may be I was not but negativity overpowers you sometimes u need to find your own happiness believe me or not I have not been out for any outings except for important work since COVID times started and I have no complains like I used to have earlier for not getting enough outings may be I have become quite an introvert 😉 but whatever at least I am not hurting anyone by my actions now and not being hurt by others I think I have found my inner peace and that's what we all need to find and thanks for the beautiful video ❤️
I am watching your videos for few days. And I love that you are speaking the actual problem and facing off. It's very much important. 😀
You spoke out what I feel and felt for long. Thank you for the triggers on self realisation.
Thought provoking video ever.... You're a complete masterpiece ma'am... Thank you very much for making us realise the reality.. Enlightened❤️❤️❤️
You are addicted to material greed that's the cause of your all problem you just do one thing as possible as you give up your ego first then you are try to understand your family love.but one thing always you keep remember in your mind.never love to change into the lust,always make good relationship to your family .
This video is exactly for me ... Really! I am going through this time and i am changing ..and now missing those day that what something i had before when i used to happy without any reason and what i loss toady .
And i can clearly see the difference within me. . ..when i am going through bad feeling or getting heart . I try to smile even that tough time. That smile 😊 give me a power to be strong. ❤️
Right now the same situation is mine...And after watching this video, I really felt relief... really this is one of the best video for me. 🙏🏻
You reflected my personality in this video. Now I can see myself clearly who I am thanks to you.
Omg one of your best motivational videos so far,I kept myself in your shoes and found that relatable
posted the video at the right time. I am going through something like that right now. Thank you Aleena🥰🥰
My God! The words are yours and the feelings are mine.. Thank you so much❣️
Mam u r so real...person...its very difficult to find person like u .
Madam
You are more than a famous doctor to me. Because no doctor can cure my disease except your speech. I pray God to give you wealth and health to say as some more things to the people of not only India but throughout the world.
Thanks for this video ma'am I was facing the same problem but after watching ur video m feeling good nw I am more happy and feeling a peace in myself so thanq so much ma'am 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏
Oh my God...the way you are expressing your feelings I think everyone can relate to that...Really thanks for making this video
I've been through this phase thanks for uploading this💯
I also don’t know why but it’s happening with me and that's the REASON why i was not available in online and today i suddenly thought of you and came to Check YOUR Channel thinking that you may have any solution and I'm Lucky enough to get a video just after my choice..... I have completed my 10th grade and now I'm confused about my next school because both my parents are government service holders and they cannot be shifted Where I want to study and neither i can live alone.... Thinking, actually over thinking about this matter I'm so much depressed, upset and frustrated that I'm not Being able to live my life. I'm missing the inside me, the real me... Thanks to you for this video.... as I've written all my problems now I'm a little bit better... Thanks a lot ❤️❤️
Since last two or three months I'm feeling the same as you described in the video. It's good to know that I'm not the only person who feels like this. Thank you so much Aleena to make this video. I will definitely try to make changes in me.
I have also been a social wallflower and loner since my adolescence. Within my loneliness, in the perpetual interplay of attachment and detachment, I found my own protective sanctity that has made me more empathetic for others. Over the period of time, after experiencing loneliness and the self inflicted solitude that mounted my curiosity to read more has enabled me to pursue a research on solitude and loneliness. It is helping me to evolve and be more pragmatic. A relatable thought process I must say mam.
Even i have also been in this phase un recent times and was enthusiatic to know much about this happenings in the brain
i just want to thank to aleena mam whenever i went to depression after watching her videos i find my self new and more confident before
The same each and every thing happening with me , now i feel relaxed that there is person who r going with same phase. I think it is just because lockdown ,so its better to travel in week with family compulsorily. Thank u so much ma'am for sharing with us.
Your speech was fluid and somewhat cute i think. Thanks for sharing this, you mentioned a good point that helps me to think, is my ego serving or damaging me… cuz i am not a happy person but with more luck than many others already.
Whenever I see you ma'am I get motivation, feel energetic , and many more. And if I talk about this video it's really amazing and I found I'm also a that kind of person . but now onwards I will definitely change myself. Lots and lots of love ma'am 💕💕.
As you shared your some experiences you faced recently it's same happened with all of us here. It is actual life but the best part is how we do tackle it skillfully. In this video's you taught us such things very clearly and intelligently that how to do overcome the situation. Thanks alot for all those ideas and concepts you clear here itself. Sometimes our own experiences help for other's then it's doesn't matter it would be Good or bad .most of times ,its similar to each other. Love it and as usual it's better one for learning towards both English and life knowledge oriented.
Di apki baten boht jldi hit krti , becoz literally ye dil se boli jati , without filters or edit , apki simple talk vid b motivational hoti ❤️❤️
I love the way you take your name in the beginning of your every video. It's just look sumptuous everytime.💙
Can I tell you one thing? You've said that you were keeping distance from people and I think it's good. It's good for anyone's mental health and success. And that's why you are here and successful. I've realized it much later. But from when I started keeping distance from people I feel that I'm on the path of being successful. Therefore, I have to say that
keeping distance from people is okay.
Losing friends is okay.
Being alone is okay.
For yourself. ❤
I agree with you.. as they say, path to success (no matter which kind) is lonely.
And I guess eventually it always comes down to those few who remain in your life, rest have anyway to part ways.
So true ..
Well I love to be alone , but loves too, to be interact with good human beings , sometimes I've to ask myself tat if I supposed to live apart from society which I loves to do , will I go in depression like stuff or something else.
Your thoughts are genuinely true and in that define the actual success path how path is looking...😊👍
Same like this
Honestly i was in this phase for a long time ...i cant thank u enough for this video ❤
Thanks alot Aleena! The Message was indeed Meaningful to us & Straight to the point .
This videos are actually helping everyone.❤
Thanks for this video 💕
I love you 💗
I've never seen anyone talking on the internet with this much honesty ❤️
I didn't know how to explain exactly this same things to anyone but when you explain all i realize that same happening with me i will try to make change within me
Thank u for sharing your experience i think it will help me alot not only me but to those people who faces the same...
A lot of thanks ma'am ⚘ I can relate this thing as I am struggling with it right now...salute to your beautiful effort ❤🙏🙇♀️
This video really touched me. It was such a honest video. Not everyone has the guts to be that honest in front of a huge audience.
whatever you said is very relatable, i have also gone through the same situation a year back. What i was few year back and what i was becoming that time was totally different. I used to do those kind of stuff which i never thought i would do anytime, but i had lost my self control and eventually did mistakes. And i found that expectations and ego is the main cause.
now i am good ,realized my mistakes and I also know that in future those circumstances will again come in life but also i know that i will overcome those situation.
"Note :- Read Bhagwatgita and you will know secrets of life and solution to solve all kind of problems of your life."
Your 100% right sir. Bhagvatgeeta have all problems solutions. world's every humankind need to read this book and learn how to deal with thoughts with peace
Having you telling this right front of my face is better than me realizing myself somehow! Thank you Aleena!
really deep & deep it is, I felt your single word & it's infinitely true, I love it😇😃
Hii aleena
I completely agree with you that when we are emotionally unbalanced we start blaming to people who are around us and hurt the person who are so closed to us instead of changing our behavior and attitude towards other we focus on them..
But now I also trying not to complain about thing's and make behavior positive and i just want to be happy and make people joyful who are closed to me..
Wow, m feeling pretty much the same, especially today, hence, surfing through TH-cam for motivational videos, it just feels like there is a big rock on my heart suffocating me, I want to talk, but can't, as everyone is too busy....or I am scared they may judge me.
From your video, I learnt, that I need to talk to no one else, but me.
Thnx ✨.
I really saw myself in u bcos i did such, at last few days .. then after all I amended ..i got hurt myself.. thank u very much..
Thank you very much for bringing this topic out in public. I can totally relate with you on this. Even I am going through the same thing in my life. But as you explained beautifully, I will definitely look in to myself and will come up with the better version of myself. Thank you once again for helping others. God bless you.
This.... This is me right now. Aleena ma'am I can't express in words what I'm feeling right now after watching this entire video. I was in depression since 2009-10. My father took me to a doctor, the dr. asked me if I feel a certain way, basically he wanted to rule out depression. And I being so grreeaattt I lied to each of his question. Things became worse with time and in 2019 I experienced a meltdown and then when my parents consulted a dr. I was diagnosed with depression. I'm at a point in life where I have completed a prescribed course of drugs for depression, and now I understand how the medicines and all work because I'm a medical student. But at the same time I also understand that, medicines aren't a cure for this. Like it didn't happen in a day, it will take more or less the equal amount of time to heal and recover. For me everyday is a battle, some days are just completely intolerable. 💔 But all I can do is, keep a little extra faith in the universe, the creator and myself. Thank you so much ma'am for opening about such issues on this platform, listening to the real people's experience gives me so much of hope. 🌼✨
Sister what I do.... I feel unhappy, angry without any reason....😓,,I want cry without any reason
What to do dear.....i need help
@@priyachoudhary8944 same happens with me right now
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Wow ...I cannot explain how wonderfully she explained my life ...
Thank you Aleena 💚🙏for sharing this.. Loved the ending part.. u r indeed doing a great job.. God bless you! Thank u once again for making me realse how to be a happier version of myself by taking action n keeping control on myself🧘♀️.. ThanK YoU AlEeNa💚🙏
Yoga se he Hoga🧘♀️🙏
You are amazing woman...❤❤ Whenever I see u i get some positive energy that is your goodness and I also get this feelings when I was alone but sometimes, we can't be able to find the reasons for our sadness but ,we engage in something is more better rather than being alone. But eveytime it's not practical But I think in this world loneliness is the most painful thing sometimes. And may be we can't be happy in some occassions even if we get the atmosphere we are happy.
You are great mam .You inspired me a lot 😊😊. I am very happy to have a great teacher like you ..
Thank you so much 🙏🙏
My favourite 🤠
After seeing your video I realised that I am that person to whom you were suffering..
And believe me I am also trying to come out from that kinda personality.., i always admire and follow your advice. And will do the same for Sure..
Thanks Alina❤️👍
Omg this is such a virtual hug I swear🫠🫠🩶🩶thanks a lot
You nd your true experience helped me alot.
Going to reset my ego today.❤
I love it when you make these kinda videos 💕
Dear sister i have prayed to god for you,you feel better .
Thank you so much mam..... Same things are happening in my life as you spoke in this video.....I will definitely try to change my self....
sister aleena ..u r musim..start praying tahajud it will give peace to u and will make u relaxe
I will for sure ask my mumma about it … thank you dear 🙌🙏
I am happy to know that I am not alone with this kind of problem. The more I try to connect with people the more people make distance themselves from me. This makes me sad then I realize it's better to live alone and keep our identity with us. Why to live with fake people who disperse negativity through their action. It's better to make distance yourself from people who never leave the opportunity to let you down. These people are a barrier to our success. Now I am happy to be alone. Neither do I have a problem with others nor do they have a problem with me .
I am Pakistani
اللہ پاک اپنے حبیب صلی اللہ علیہ والہ وسلم کے صدقے آپ کو کامیابیاں عطاء فرمائے اور آپ کو خوش و خرم سلامت رکھے اور آپ کی گھر والوں کو بھی صحت مند زندگی عطاء فرمائے آمین ثم آمین
❤❤the way of talking is just tooo good 👍❤
Just one thing...
Thanku beautiful soul...u explained so simply n amazingly...
I m evolving myself same way♥️🌟🌟
You are absolutely right mam... the same things happen with me most of time.and the simple solution is that trying to change your self control your emotions.... kyunki situations jab change na ho to Hume khud ko hi change karna chaiye...🙏
sometimes we are just emotionally and mentally burnt out not lazy, tired of dealing with negative persona within us not with ourselves .and yeah as aleena elaborated we could get annoyed by lil lil things around us ,,its soooo true sometimes our anger melts down in to the tears with cracking voice,and sometimes we just dont try to explain anything to anybody because its hard enough to put in to the feelings and people think its not matter of degree but it is . since we are all enhancing and brushing up our english skills i want you to know to dont be hard on yourself you may be going through some mental health related battles but at the same time dont consider yourself as a worthless i know for some this isnt really making any sense but it is connected to your mental health . btw thank you aleena for this video .you are the only gem on this youtube who supports and uploads videos over all the things that are needed .
Lots of love and respect for your appreciation
Nice thoughts
Truely said!Agreed
Szsss ssessssssssssss is waa a job w the
I agree with you
Hi Aleena, I can relate with what you feel right now. While listening to you, I felt like you sound like sister Shivani from Brahmakumaris. You have a very peaceful voice.
Madam
I have listened your video just now. While you are telling I am thinking that it is all about me. It suits 100 percentage to me. I was happy as you said. But I am not happy now due to it may be as you said ego.
I will try to be happy by applying your thoughts. Really great knowledge you have madam. God bless you to say some more things like them to the people.
It is great message to me to change.
I will change my attitude from this moment only.
Thank you once again madam.
I am politician, i would like to address the gathering in English, but scaring. After listening your videos, getting some hope.
I hope for the best.
Happiness depends only on our mind, nobody can give us happiness or misery....I knew it but still i started expecting from others and used to feel the same way as you told. Thank you so much di to remind me who am i really...
Kudos to you! it takes a lot of guts to talk candidly about our flaws ...
I have also been through it at some point in my life.
Whatever happened with you is happening with me. Thank you dear for sharing your feelings,it helped alot.
This is just me! It feels like you are telling my story! I can even relate to that thing " they went without me" , "they are without me". I literally behaved arrogantly on these things and spoiled so many things around me.
Just realised that I am doing the same mistake " controlling others, expecting more, and giving too much importance to my ego.
It's absolutely correct mam....what you have said....in this world no one can makes you happy.....only....you....we can make ourselves happy....if we really want to....and we should do....
Totally relate to this one❤️You are a 💎
Like the way U dedicate your Time & Energy to help people grow mentally
I watch your video on daily base to improve my Spoken English and emotional health. Thank You Aleena Ma'm for making such a nice video💐💐
My story is little bit matching to mam🥰🥰🥰.. I often think about myself that I have to become like some one else. 😍😍I was not enjoying myself as I was. But now I understand my value, my opinion. I agree with me that I don't need to be someone else now 😎😎😎I am happy being myself and it's all happen because of you🙏🙏🙏🙏thank you so much.. ❤❤❤but I am in a big situation where I understand myself in a right direction but apart of me every one are complaining with me I took this decision.... ❤❤but I am happy what I did and I will prove myself right one day.... Thank you so much mam for your motivation ❤❤❤❤❤❤
Just same thing happens with me , i don't understand what's happening with me, what's wrong with me but I'm upset that time and always my behaviour is furious with everyone..... lastly I'm talking to myself then I got my all answers ...that situation is never convey with anyone but it still with ourselves...so talk yourself and achieve your every answer 🙃❤️thank you very much mam you are my inspiration 🙃❤️
Ma'am it is because of you and only you that today I am able to speak good English. Today I have a hearty request to you...just like you make wonderful videos on English speaking, similarly please make many videos on English writing like essays, paragraphs, speech, debates and how to develop writings skills, how to brainstorm mind for innovative ideas for writing content.
You are right mam. I was also that kind of person.. Who always complaining for everthing..
Eventually i reset my mind.. Iam very happy now... Because i have taken much care about myself and began to loving my own company, and spend time for my own activities.. And House hold duties as well. No complaints about anything no worries.
Then Wt recently happened is that.. All successful things are came up to me, and even my husband also..he... Taking good care of mee and apperantly began show his love towards me...(he used to told me that he loves with all his heart but never showed that towards me ) ., but now he is willing to even dance with me.😂...to all nd all things are came up to me back. ❤
Wt i hav done in my life was stopped complaining!
This was made for me. I'm glad I found this video. Thank you for making one. Going through a similar situation with myself. Tho many things are different. I need to change that's for sure.
Same
Whenever I see you I feel great ma'am.. you are awesome personality.... I am improving also,, Thank you so much ma'am..
People around me seems so irritating. I'm going to make myself calm. Thank you so much 😭♥️
Thanks ma'am, this video I must say an eye opener....I went through this kind of feelings and I didn't get the answers but after listening your thoughts ,I realized my mistakes which I definitely amend as early as possible 💕💕🌹 sadia from Pakistan 🌹
Thank you Aleena that's a great video which I liked the most. I facing the same problem which you explained about the anger issues, but I'm searching still for my happiness. Thanks for the video may be soon I'll change over my over thinking rather than reality..
I think being alone is ok sometimes you need to sit alone in order to find your true self.....sometimes problem is within us not because we are doing something wrong but because we are expecting from others the kind of behaviour that we want for ourselves and this is the point where problem arises.....everyone will love you according to their own capacity and you will love others according to your own capacity........we expect from others the kind /level of love that we give them but it is important to realize that everyone is unique no one is your carbon copy....accept that you will get peace within yourself. It took me a really long time to realize that you are the only one who is responsible for your own mental health not others.
yaaarrr aapkne meri situation bol di, everything exactly fits in my case.. recently i have realised this n u r clearing more. thank u for bring it out in this manner
Thanks alot Aleena Appi... Seriously I was suffering from the same situation and was thinking that it is happening only with me... But u made me realize that it is normal and we need to correct ourselves..... May God bless u mam😊✨
I think all of these things are necessary ones in a lifetime comes to you , your heart and mind so that you can understand life , empathize with people around you and all these changes test you ,your mental strength. And the people like mam who can understand why all these things happening is
Happening for good can make life less complicated and simple .
I m going in dipression ,i think not other , other says u r not gud ,u r doing act ,i m facing same problem but having seen his vdo i m feeling gud .it really helpfull vdo for me i regard u thanks a lot
You're the purest form of human ❤️ loads of love ma'am🤗
Mam plz making this kind of videos ...You r the only u tuber who is talking about these issues 😊Thank you so much for being there .U r seriously a gem of a person 💛
I played this many times. Didn't get bored even one time. Literally feeling some from mine in this...