We expect for a reason.....but then finally realise.....every one is different......most of the time only giver suffers the most..... receivers only enjoys and forget how the giver makes things possible 🙏🙏
Buddha said, If problem can be solved why worry and if problem can't be solved by us then also why worry so We shouldn't be worried either problem can be solved or not.
Three things to do when facing tough situations 1. Realize what the situation is - analyze and understand the problem. 2. Determine whether the situation is in your control or out of your control. 3. Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control.
@hantonoshi bhai dekho tumhe tumhara stand lena pdega bat shi or glt ki h agr hume PTA hote hue bhi ki humare sath glt ho rha h or hum na bole to ye humare glti h if we can change something to we have to stand for it . We have to fight for it .
It is a fact that nothing is fair in life . I know that life is full of suffering. I do not expect anything from life. I do what is need to be done . Be kind, be truthful , be helpful to people. Yes I am going thru struggles right now but I accept it wholeheartedly . Just keep going till your wheel of life stops. I try my best not to react on a negative situation . Walk away from toxic people. Thank you for the Buddha’s teaching . I learnt so much and is still learning . I don’t really think much about what people say about me . I focuse on myself and my well-being. Every day I always thankful for the gift of life. I am very grateful for the blessings and graces that come my way.I terribly adore and love Buddha’s teaching . And I applied it in life . Believe me I am so at peace with myself . Thank you . Thank you. Thank you. I listen to you everyday. 🙏🙏🙏
@@Howie-f3zyou are wrong. You don't need to become a Buddhist to practice Buddhism. Literally anyone can do It if he/she has that understanding about the philosophy.
@@Bruh-ys3sx Thank you for your reply. But if we don't accept the fact that we are unable to attain spiritual truths ourselves, in this present, degraded age, and if we don't understand that only Amitabha Buddha can save us if we recite His name and wish to be reborn in His pure Land, the next life (of ours) is not guaranteed (to be human). Namo Amitabha Buddha. Namaste----
I am suffering a lot because of situations that are out of my control and also in my control. Thank you for this advice and may all the ppl get a peaceful life❤
I really needed this. I am going through a situation as you described,. It is out of my control so i will follow your advice and won't try to change the people instead I will control myself n my emotions. I wish someday I will understand life.
Bro, everybody is somehow in situations where you get frustrated. Even if somebody is giving you 1000 solutions still that don,t break ice.with you. Be still for the time being and look around. Don't do anything, but problem will get solved for sure. Meanwhile this is another advise. & solution. Take it easy.love
After listening to your words ,I felt stress-free, peaceful and Happy with what I have.😇 Whatever flows ...flows..... If we can't change the situation then We have to change our perspective ✌️💪 It gives me hope to run my life.
The college i want to study but i am not selected in that college my all friends selected but i don't . My friend who got lower than me they also selected . For some mistake I did not selected. And that regrets destroy my mental health. When i feel better than some people come and say why don't you selected ?? . And their face like insulting .. I always try to explain myself that its ohk . God has better plan for you but than some idiots come to demotivate me🙂.
Dear , u have ur answer in ur own message.... Ofcourse they're IDIOTS 😂, just ignore them , I've been through the same situation , but then i stopped explaining myself to them , nd i tell myself that NO ONE HAS BEEN THROUGH WHAT I HAD , NO ONE SAW MY JOURNEY , NO ONE WAS IN MY SHOES WHEN I WENT THROUGH HIGHS ND LOWS LIKE PANIC ATTACKS, ANXIETIES ND DEPRESSION.... THEN WHO THE HELL ARE THEY TO JUDGE ME..?? ND WHY SHOULD I GET DEMOTIVATED ND ANGRY JUST BCZ OF THOSE IDIOTS WHO HASN'T EVEN SUPPORTED ME A BIT IN MY JOURNEY....?? It's my Life, even if i didn't get selected in the clg i want , I BELIEVE IN MY CAPABILITY THAT I WILL SHINE LIKE A DIAMOND WHERE EVER I'LL GO , SO YES TRUST GOD , HE DEFINITELY HAS BETTER PLANS FOR US ❤ Keep ur head high nd be happy 🎉
Exactly same happened with me but thanks 🙏 to God that bcz of that seperation I was focus on my studies That's why said that : what be happened always happen for good Almighty ❤knows all ❤
This story is of mine as well..... Due to some reason (reservation) I was not selected in a college I desired to ,and the people who don't even deserve it they got it... It really hearts a lot 😶
Namo Buddhaya. You are God's gift to me. Your preachings have turned my life completely, I just can't explain how much valuable your videos are to me. Very simple explanation.
Honey, I'm 80 and I can absolutely tell you that you don't have any idea where your life is going! In fact it's an understatement! You have no idea how absolutely wonderful life is when you let it open for you. Decide what you want to do to make a living and let God take it from there. I came close to ending my own life before I was 30. If I had been successful I would have miss traveling to over 50 countries, and having my own successful business. The exciting part is that everyday is a new day! Enjoy!!!
* Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control* .....literally this line...changed my mindset....and now i feel i can deal better with anxiety issues having most of times becoz of my whole class (classmates).....I'M GLAD THAT IM CONNECTED WITH CHANNEL
My father cheated on my mother he almost spend all of his money on that other women even he have good salary .this is 2nd time he did same thing first time we need to compromise with out education and shift to village i had several health issues cause my mom find out about it when i was some month old only i suffer from asthama after some year asthama is better now. But now i got rere eye daeses so no longer i am eligible for completing my only dream to become air hostess i didn't pass the other government exam too my boyfriend also about to leave me. i get panic attack and live in anxiety i don't know how to find normal job in.this condition 😔
May the Lord Buddha teachings guide you.Im sorry for the situation youre in.Suffering is the truth of life and samsara.We all suffer in different ways.This difficult phase of yours will pass too.Its is very easy to say move on but difficult to do so.Our mind is like a busy road where thoughts keep on coming and going.If we just stay still and watch our thoughts and not react on them they will pass away.You need to find courage and start searching for a new job new goal.If life gives you lemons make a lemonade.Im sure you will do good sister.Keep faith
I am out of words, how should I express my gratefulness to this beautiful human being, everytime I suffer with certain problems in life it's him who encourages me with his teachings to ahead and right the problems and gives all possible solutions to it, I am really really in debt to you, a heartfelt thanks to you 🙏✨ Namo budhhay
I am a Catholic but I listen to this.... it gives me new perspective. And what he is saying is actually true. You can never go wrong with listening to words of wisdom and do implement it into your life. Expect to Fail but rise up again. In this way, we all learn from our mistakes but gain more wisdom along the way.
Namo budhhay....the most essential teachings I got from this ...if things are not going in your way jst change your perspective this seems so simple but it got so much deep to understand and I my case I m suffering with my studies and it's doable situation I can do about this...I analyse where I m lacking and also realised that each day shouldn't be same always so don't expect too much to be every coming I can feel that energetic...so accept that and find what can uh do about that situation
if nothing goes your way then stop trying too hard and relax then it may start going your way either through that thing you wanted or through another door. If you want to come out of a difficult situation then you relax like the Chinese finger trap - the more you struggle to escape the harder it gets. You dont run away from your suffering but you remain with it quietly and listen, from that comes the flash of insight - in the last moment the tides can change. The ancient greeks called suffering as passion and passion is energy. There is great energy in it.
1. Analyse the situation; whether in our control , or not in our control 2. If it is due to our own fault or mistake, change it 3. If it is not in our control.... such as people criticism, view, behavior. Change our perceptive then. Bonus: Unexpected things happen in life. And the nature of life is a little bit unfair sometimes. People suffer because we expect life to be fair. Listening to this, feel like life has become easier and less stress. Thank you Teacher. Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu !
First of all I would like to say that I was so happy to see a video put up here after quite a while. Today's video has come at a time when I how been facing such circumstances for quite a while. "If we cannot change a situation we should change our perspective towards it". This sentence speaks volumes and is the best advice to all who are in this situation. It makes me realise that all this while I've been trying to change things which are not in my control. Now I realise that it's better for my peace of mind to let things be as they are and not to let them affect me. Hope to see more such videos.
Being a Sanatani (Hindu) I think that Hinduism (Sanatan Dharma), Jainism, Buddhism, and Sikhism are looking different but there roots are same we all are One Love from Rajasthan, India 🙏
Yes, If people act thru’ their lenses it is not you or nothing to do with yourself! It is their sanskar! Radiate compassion to those who criticize, & are opinionated ! Obviously they are not happy with themselves! 💓🙏🏼
Millions of thanks for such wonderful service. If possible, Please make us a video regarding 'how to inculcate positive thoughts and ideas in our mind' because mind gets easily indulge in past trauma, criticism, sufferings than living in present moment. Thanks a lot 🙏
Well said! Its completely true in my life... Expectations definitely kill as a person.Its also said that expectation leads to greater disappoinent ✨ Let's feel surprised when unexpected things get happened💙✨
Im at the lowest point in my life right now. I dont remember the last I prayed but a few nights ago I talked to him and said if he hated me THAT much, he can just take away my life right there and then. I asked him to not let me wake up in the morning. But instead, he didnt let me sleep at all. Got 0 sleep 😂
I am 16 and I’m going through since 13 I had encountered so much pain in life I lost everyone my friends my best friend basically everyone I was attached to I’m a very lonely person now my parents are also toxic I don’t get any mental support I just don’t how to cope up with this anymore life seems unbearable I’m trying live with your peaceful advice 🙏
I watch everyday your videos because your thoughts is very helpful my life is totally changed and i am so happy ... Changing is more important in our life😊
just what i needed right now...thank you so much...now i am feeling better after watching this Happiness is inversely propertional to expectations.. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏻😊
@@wicramarajashinghe7302 he is a Budha. Everyone could be a Budha. The Budha you are mentioning is a specific person but being Budha is not limited to one person.
This is really true and life is mostly unfair and it happens in its own way. What we need to do is to just accept what is happening and grab the opportunities that comes our way. And i have always seen that if one thing does not goes your way let it go there are more and more things waiting for you focus on them. Life becomes easy when we accept that what nature is giving us is good for us and what is going is good for us. Life does not goes your way its okay but whichever way it is going trust the process and have faith that nature is the greatest planner and its plans are better than our plans. Namo buddhay ❤
Today is the worst day of my life but after hearing this, I feel I can bring myself up through this. Buddhism makes u realise many things. Thankq for the valuable advice 🙏
I am very proud about you Venerable Thera as a Sri Lankan Buddhist man. Sri Lanka has real teach of the buddha. But it is very difficult to explain by the English. It is very deep vision. Any how you are trying to give buddha vision by English. That is need to this world. නමෝ බුද්ධාය
We cannot change situations but we can change our perspective by following positive ideas,positive things is correct.always unexpected things happen so expect less bcoz expectation is suffering .this statement is TRUE. That is why we feel things are not working in our way.
Listen to good things our hearts r alway peace Listening to your good teachings Buddha Really cannot expectation too much then our lives will be less sufferings that's we should understand 🙏💟
It is true, I once in my live experienced exactly what you describe. This was the Golf war. We in Germany almost all were depressed, because we grew up with our recent fascist history and we were suffering a war was there again. I lived in Hanover, went to school, had to Referate, usually shy, I did not care. I had been sitting crying, talked in front of the class, sat down and went on crying. A male teacher who taught type writing for a colleague, broke down crying over the type writer. Finally in another class the teacher said, o.k. You can all go outside and join the protest. Walling within the large groups brought some relief as long as we were there. At home my friend and I continued what we did those days! We talked about it, watched TV about it, for the first time in our young life, we could not sleep, for the first time we bought wine, drank it before going to bed, in a way we never did before, to become in a mood where we just knocked out, which was for us both together a half bottle of wine. We woke up again, because that is no real sleep. In the morning we stood up very early to sit in front of the TV, suffering and listening to the horrors that happened. After some weeks I said to my friend, you know what, we will ignore what is happening because we cannot change anything. What if we turn out the TV and read books, go for a walk. We were living in a kind of nightmare, but we were not forced to. We were healthy and outside in our town there was peace. We had good people around us and friends. We changed our reaction to what happened. We slept at night again and felt better. I still think, if one could change bad things that happen, it would be our duty to do what we can. As there was really nothing we could do, it was what helped us. Thank you very much for your advice and kindness. Again a time we all suffer.
It's easy to tell, but difficult to go through such situations. But it's the truth of life. Life is always unfair to good people. Have to go through it with faith that everything will be fine some day ☮️
It's still in your mind, the negative thoughts, Nothing happen you expect theres a possiblity but it's only little percentage only, Accept what you have if you really wanna change do it slowly one by one
Your teaching helps a lot to change our perspective for life and it took us to a right path . Your teaching gives us strength to deal with challenges of life .
This is so true, it was my thoughts/thinking that was the problem. As soon as I became aware of this I changed the way I looked at things and the things I looked at changed, expectations are a killer. Loved this thank you ❤❤
Sadu sadu sadu!!!🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏 Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏 Namo Dhammaaya🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏 Namo Sanghaaya🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏 I pay my homage to our Venerable Thero🙏🙏🙏May all beings be well and happy... May all beings attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana🙏🙏🙏🤍
Thank you so much to take the time to made the videos and teaching us. The videos are short and have so much wisdoms. We need this channel to continue teaching more Buddha Wisdoms. I love this channel so much and listing it every day. It made me feel peace. ❤❤❤❤Namo Buddha.🙏
Namo Buddhaya. Everyday I hear and I can see all the answers whenever I start thinking and when I feel sad.swamiji you are stopping me to think and do anything which is against our Karma when someone hurts me mentally. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏
Namobhatai sensei 🤚 Aftet being sick with long covid for over 3 years now, I learnt that the life is like a river, flowing and finding its way through. Patience is the key to everything in my view.
This is absolutely true. But to get to this certain level in life it needs more practice and balance. I'm doing my best daily. And, thanks to our monk for these sermons on how to live a meaningful life. Namoo Buddhaya 🙏😊🙏
namo buddhay ! Respected sir can u please explain how to develop our personality day to day , what to adapt what to stop what things should we do exactly to develop ourself .....plz explain this in next session ..... btw your work is so appreciatable keep going ... namo buddhay 🙏😊
Very good sir excellent Buddhism is everything for best life. Because in Buddhism there are no place for casteism.. corruption.. discrimination..hatred.only exist love passion in Buddhism
Thank you for your wise words. They helped clarify my approach to a particular situation right now. Grateful for this moment which shows up as it should - for a purpose! 🙏
Your words are so inspiring.. whenever I am in a tough situation your sayings inspire me a loooooooooooooot..Lord Buddha's preaching is really very good to hear in order to enable our thought process to be executed according to the situation. Thank Uuuuuuu soooooo much 😊
"the more you expect somthing goes on like the way you want, the more you get sufferings" since I knew this from Buddha's teaching, my life is getting healthier than ever. Its not easy to bring his words into real actions but once you stay consistent and keep going, keep practicing, you cant imagine how peaceful your mind is, words can't describe Buddha's teaching
At the I watching your ... There is people ignore me everytime... Those who I trusted that they will never do this... There is no love in the universe... If u are not capable of everything people start hateing you... And they realize you that u are their worst thing... Many time i hate myself think that how I kill myself... But I waiting for the day when God calls me 💖🥺... Om Santi ❤
Thank you Now I understand my problem.I fell far short of my expectation .My husband cheated on me and I feel like killing myself .I cann't change him .I let's him go and forgive him so I suffer less.
I remember I requested for a vdo like this one day! ❤️✨ Tysm Venerable I was in need of this! 🙏✨. Grateful to the universe and god saw this today. Hopefully this made me day will share this with ones who need this like me. Namo Buddhaya!!!! 🙏💖✨
“Expectation stands for suffering”. This is so true. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks for this video I got hit by a car and they broke my leg and my ribs I needed to hear this
@@destinyforreal9744 I hope and pray you recover fast and get well soon..,,, Namo Buddhaaya!!!
@@destinyforreal9744 hope you are feeling better now...
We expect for a reason.....but then finally realise.....every one is different......most of the time only giver suffers the most..... receivers only enjoys and forget how the giver makes things possible 🙏🙏
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Buddha said, If problem can be solved why worry and if problem can't be solved by us then also why worry so We shouldn't be worried either problem can be solved or not.
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Dudutaknks..godbiles
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Then what to do at that time
@@segyinthen u must realise that the problem( indirectly)is for our goodness in future and the problem itself is will of god
This appears in right time when i am needing the most 🙏 thank you so much
Exactly
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Yeah...same
Same here lol. I hope things will get better for you real soon! 🙏
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Three things to do when facing tough situations
1. Realize what the situation is - analyze and understand the problem.
2. Determine whether the situation is in your control or out of your control.
3. Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control.
The serenity prayer
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Help me get through this 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻😭😭😭
@hantonoshi bhai dekho tumhe tumhara stand lena pdega bat shi or glt ki h agr hume PTA hote hue bhi ki humare sath glt ho rha h or hum na bole to ye humare glti h if we can change something to we have to stand for it . We have to fight for it .
It is a fact that nothing is fair in life . I know that life is full of suffering. I do not expect anything from life. I do what is need to be done . Be kind, be truthful , be helpful to people. Yes I am going thru struggles right now but I accept it wholeheartedly . Just keep going till your wheel of life stops. I try my best not to react on a negative situation . Walk away from toxic people. Thank you for the Buddha’s teaching . I learnt so much and is still learning . I don’t really think much about what people say about me . I focuse on myself and my well-being. Every day I always thankful for the gift of life. I am very grateful for the blessings and graces that come my way.I terribly adore and love Buddha’s teaching . And I applied it in life . Believe me I am so at peace with myself . Thank you . Thank you. Thank you. I listen to you everyday. 🙏🙏🙏
His kindness shines trough so much and his smile and dimples are just adorable.
Focus on his words rather
I am a Christian that listens to your program and enjoy it very much. Thank you!
I thought you are a human
Please don’t label yourself,
It's never too late to become a Buddhist. Become a Buddhist before you're forced to be reborn into another life! Accept Buddha TODAY!!!!
@@Howie-f3zyou are wrong. You don't need to become a Buddhist to practice Buddhism. Literally anyone can do It if he/she has that understanding about the philosophy.
@@Bruh-ys3sx Thank you for your reply. But if we don't accept the fact that we are unable to attain spiritual truths ourselves, in this present, degraded age, and if we don't understand that only Amitabha Buddha can save us if we recite His name and wish to be reborn in His pure Land, the next life (of ours) is not guaranteed (to be human). Namo Amitabha Buddha. Namaste----
I am suffering a lot because of situations that are out of my control and also in my control. Thank you for this advice and may all the ppl get a peaceful life❤
This is so true. No matter how many good things you do life is not always fair. Its hard but we have to move on .
I really needed this. I am going through a situation as you described,. It is out of my control so i will follow your advice and won't try to change the people instead I will control myself n my emotions. I wish someday I will understand life.
Keep going! Something great is waiting for you, Fatima 👍👍 just go on 😉
@@floriankrone Thanks 🤗
@@healedsoulhealer 😁👍👍
Bro, everybody is somehow in situations where you get frustrated. Even if somebody is giving you 1000 solutions still that don,t break ice.with you. Be still for the time being and look around. Don't do anything, but problem will get solved for sure. Meanwhile this is another advise. & solution. Take it easy.love
Yes… do practice accordingly, you will never fail… blissful life is ahead… May the supreme triple Gem Bless you dear friend
What beautiful thoughts..!!
The tenderness of your words.. your voice is so powerful, Master 🙏😊
God Bless you...Namo Budhdhay 🙏😊
After listening to your words ,I felt stress-free, peaceful and Happy with what I have.😇
Whatever flows ...flows.....
If we can't change the situation then We have to change our perspective ✌️💪
It gives me hope to run my life.
By listening to you i am at peace...Namo Buddhaya
The college i want to study but i am not selected in that college my all friends selected but i don't . My friend who got lower than me they also selected . For some mistake I did not selected. And that regrets destroy my mental health. When i feel better than some people come and say why don't you selected ?? . And their face like insulting .. I always try to explain myself that its ohk . God has better plan for you but than some idiots come to demotivate me🙂.
Dear , u have ur answer in ur own message....
Ofcourse they're IDIOTS 😂, just ignore them , I've been through the same situation , but then i stopped explaining myself to them , nd i tell myself that NO ONE HAS BEEN THROUGH WHAT I HAD , NO ONE SAW MY JOURNEY , NO ONE WAS IN MY SHOES WHEN I WENT THROUGH HIGHS ND LOWS LIKE PANIC ATTACKS, ANXIETIES ND DEPRESSION.... THEN WHO THE HELL ARE THEY TO JUDGE ME..?? ND WHY SHOULD I GET DEMOTIVATED ND ANGRY JUST BCZ OF THOSE IDIOTS WHO HASN'T EVEN SUPPORTED ME A BIT IN MY JOURNEY....??
It's my Life, even if i didn't get selected in the clg i want , I BELIEVE IN MY CAPABILITY THAT I WILL SHINE LIKE A DIAMOND WHERE EVER I'LL GO ,
SO YES TRUST GOD , HE DEFINITELY HAS BETTER PLANS FOR US ❤
Keep ur head high nd be happy 🎉
You are right
Be positive bro. Change your perceptive, try to act calm God has better plan for you 😊 stay away from negative people. God bless yaa
Exactly same happened with me but thanks 🙏 to God that bcz of that seperation I was focus on my studies
That's why said that : what be happened always happen for good
Almighty ❤knows all ❤
This story is of mine as well..... Due to some reason (reservation) I was not selected in a college I desired to ,and the people who don't even deserve it they got it... It really hearts a lot 😶
මාගේ භාග්යවතුන් වහන්සේට මාගේ උත්තමාංග නමස්කාරය වේවා!
උත්තම ශ්රී සද්ධර්මයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා!
ඒ මහා ශ්රාවක සංඝරත්නයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා!
ඉතා අගනා දේශනයක් ස්වාමීනී. බොහෝමත්ම පින්!
? 🤔🤐😱😵 Yip Yip🤣
Expectations lead to disappointment which leads to suffering.. just let go trust the journey 🙏🙏 blessings 💖💖💖
Expectations lead to disappointment which leads to SUFFERING
@@saancloud5766 that's what I said.. 🙏🙏💞💞💞
Expectations when prosponed can cause anxiety....
Namo Buddhaya. You are God's gift to me. Your preachings have turned my life completely, I just can't explain how much valuable your videos are to me. Very simple explanation.
I’m 23 and don’t know where my life is going. This video helped change my perspective on things. Amazing video
Honey, I'm 80 and I can absolutely tell you that you don't have any idea where your life is going! In fact it's an understatement!
You have no idea how absolutely wonderful life is when you let it open for you. Decide what you want to do to make a living and let God take it from there.
I came close to ending my own life before I was 30. If I had been successful I would have miss traveling to over 50 countries, and having my own successful business.
The exciting part is that everyday is a new day! Enjoy!!!
@@georgiafrancis9059 will do. Thanks
@georgiafrancis9059 thanks for the info...🎉❤ i am 24 years old😁🙌.
I love Buddhism it has helped me through so much!! Thank u so much for your teachings !
Sir ur teachings hv changed my life to a great extent n helping me everyday to lead a peaceful life. Thank u so much. Namo budhdhaya🙏
* Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control* .....literally this line...changed my mindset....and now i feel i can deal better with anxiety issues having most of times becoz of my whole class (classmates).....I'M GLAD THAT IM CONNECTED WITH CHANNEL
My father cheated on my mother he almost spend all of his money on that other women even he have good salary .this is 2nd time he did same thing first time we need to compromise with out education and shift to village i had several health issues cause my mom find out about it when i was some month old only i suffer from asthama after some year asthama is better now. But now i got rere eye daeses so no longer i am eligible for completing my only dream to become air hostess i didn't pass the other government exam too my boyfriend also about to leave me. i get panic attack and live in anxiety i don't know how to find normal job in.this condition 😔
May the Lord Buddha teachings guide you.Im sorry for the situation youre in.Suffering is the truth of life and samsara.We all suffer in different ways.This difficult phase of yours will pass too.Its is very easy to say move on but difficult to do so.Our mind is like a busy road where thoughts keep on coming and going.If we just stay still and watch our thoughts and not react on them they will pass away.You need to find courage and start searching for a new job new goal.If life gives you lemons make a lemonade.Im sure you will do good sister.Keep faith
Work from home instead.. Online freelancing
Praying for power and peace to you 🤍
Read biography of chhtrapati shivaji maharaj..
Very nicely explained@@sumalways
I am out of words, how should I express my gratefulness to this beautiful human being, everytime I suffer with certain problems in life it's him who encourages me with his teachings to ahead and right the problems and gives all possible solutions to it, I am really really in debt to you, a heartfelt thanks to you 🙏✨
Namo budhhay
I am a Catholic but I listen to this.... it gives me new perspective. And what he is saying is actually true.
You can never go wrong with listening to words of wisdom and do implement it into your life.
Expect to Fail but rise up again. In this way, we all learn from our mistakes but gain more wisdom along the way.
Namo budhhay....the most essential teachings I got from this ...if things are not going in your way jst change your perspective this seems so simple but it got so much deep to understand and I my case I m suffering with my studies and it's doable situation I can do about this...I analyse where I m lacking and also realised that each day shouldn't be same always so don't expect too much to be every coming I can feel that energetic...so accept that and find what can uh do about that situation
if nothing goes your way then stop trying too hard and relax then it may start going your way either through that thing you wanted or through another door. If you want to come out of a difficult situation then you relax like the Chinese finger trap - the more you struggle to escape the harder it gets. You dont run away from your suffering but you remain with it quietly and listen, from that comes the flash of insight - in the last moment the tides can change. The ancient greeks called suffering as passion and passion is energy. There is great energy in it.
I feel more comfortable,my heart feel more peaceful and calm after listening your speech,Gold bless you
Upto now this is the calmest Buddha master 🙏
God bless you ❤️
Very happy and peaceful to hear him
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1. Analyse the situation; whether in our control , or not in our control
2. If it is due to our own fault or mistake, change it
3. If it is not in our control.... such as people criticism, view, behavior. Change our perceptive then.
Bonus: Unexpected things happen in life. And the nature of life is a little bit unfair sometimes. People suffer because we expect life to be fair.
Listening to this, feel like life has become easier and less stress.
Thank you Teacher. Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu !
First of all I would like to say that I was so happy to see a video put up here after quite a while.
Today's video has come at a time when I how been facing such circumstances for quite a while. "If we cannot change a situation we should change our perspective towards it". This sentence speaks volumes and is the best advice to all who are in this situation. It makes me realise that all this while I've been trying to change things which are not in my control. Now I realise that it's better for my peace of mind to let things be as they are and not to let them affect me.
Hope to see more such videos.
Being a Sanatani (Hindu) I think that Hinduism (Sanatan Dharma), Jainism, Buddhism, and Sikhism are looking different but there roots are same we all are One
Love from Rajasthan, India 🙏
Buddhism came from sanatan Dharma and other religions u mentioned also ❤
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Yes, If people act thru’ their lenses it is not you or nothing to do with yourself! It is their sanskar! Radiate compassion to those who criticize, & are opinionated ! Obviously they are not happy with themselves! 💓🙏🏼
Listening to your advice made me live meaningful and so powerful.🙏🙏
I sleep very few hours. The rest of the time in the night I listen to these sermons. Superb.
Millions of thanks for such wonderful service. If possible, Please make us a video regarding 'how to inculcate positive thoughts and ideas in our mind' because mind gets easily indulge in past trauma, criticism, sufferings than living in present moment. Thanks a lot 🙏
Thank you Vanteji.May you live healthy and a long life
I was suffering very stressed in since some days but after watching this video l feel better ..
Thank you so much 😊❤
Thank you soo much. Bhante your voice, your body language and your teachings are soo positive. Pleasant to hear from you.
Well said! Its completely true in my life...
Expectations definitely kill as a person.Its also said that expectation leads to greater disappoinent ✨
Let's feel surprised when unexpected things get happened💙✨
Thank you🌺 You give us joy🍀 There is lot of truth in it. Now the practise must come to the fore 😊😊😁
I really can't believe initially . The love and kindness which you are spreading is massive.🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐🕊️🕊️🕊️
Im at the lowest point in my life right now. I dont remember the last I prayed but a few nights ago I talked to him and said if he hated me THAT much, he can just take away my life right there and then. I asked him to not let me wake up in the morning. But instead, he didnt let me sleep at all. Got 0 sleep 😂
I always live most of my life on your advice because am a listening person. Txks ✋
I am 16 and I’m going through since 13 I had encountered so much pain in life I lost everyone my friends my best friend basically everyone I was attached to I’m a very lonely person now my parents are also toxic I don’t get any mental support I just don’t how to cope up with this anymore life seems unbearable I’m trying live with your peaceful advice 🙏
I watch everyday your videos because your thoughts is very helpful my life is totally changed and i am so happy ...
Changing is more important in our life😊
Anumodhana Bhante 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
From Indonesia , NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
just what i needed right now...thank you so much...now i am feeling better after watching this
Happiness is inversely propertional to expectations..
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏻😊
Thank you Bante
Your smile shows how calm & collective you are, your teaching greatly appreciated
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🫒 Hi Buddha, thank you for your wise teachings👊
I listen, I learn.
I love listening to Buddha's messages👌.
Greetings from DK 🇩🇰
I love your great words.it gives peace to the mind.
Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
He is not Buddha dear he is a disciple of Buddha
he is a Buddhist Monk.
Yes you are right 👍👍🙏🙏
@@wicramarajashinghe7302 he is a Budha. Everyone could be a Budha. The Budha you are mentioning is a specific person but being Budha is not limited to one person.
Am crazy about you,its helps me alot,am listening evening.
Thank you so much for giving me direction in my life... Before your guidance I was stuck... Thank you so much
I love you
This is really true and life is mostly unfair and it happens in its own way. What we need to do is to just accept what is happening and grab the opportunities that comes our way. And i have always seen that if one thing does not goes your way let it go there are more and more things waiting for you focus on them. Life becomes easy when we accept that what nature is giving us is good for us and what is going is good for us. Life does not goes your way its okay but whichever way it is going trust the process and have faith that nature is the greatest planner and its plans are better than our plans. Namo buddhay ❤
I have my board comong next week and nothing was going ryt and suddenly this video showed up ,ig its a gods sign
Thank you Buddha for this message. I wish this message to be spread worldwide to people who need it and May God bless everybody always🙏🙏❤️❤️🤲🤲
This guy is fluent in English. His voice is so clear.
Address the Buddhist Thero with respect. Never use words like 'guy' referring to monks.
currently i am going through the situaion. but this clip changes my enrtire perspective. Thank You
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Thank you so much ..
I'm so blessed to watch this..
Namo Buddhaya..🙏
Today is the worst day of my life but after hearing this, I feel I can bring myself up through this. Buddhism makes u realise many things. Thankq for the valuable advice 🙏
Yes, expectations are killing us.. you are right , expectations are suffering 😢 😔
I am very proud about you Venerable Thera as a Sri Lankan Buddhist man. Sri Lanka has real teach of the buddha. But it is very difficult to explain by the English. It is very deep vision. Any how you are trying to give buddha vision by English. That is need to this world. නමෝ බුද්ධාය
Thank you so much for your videos, i am so grateful and enjoy listening to the buddhism so true to life 🙏
We cannot change situations but we can change our perspective by following positive ideas,positive things is correct.always unexpected things happen so expect less bcoz expectation is suffering .this statement is TRUE.
That is why we feel things are not working in our way.
Listen to good things our hearts r alway peace
Listening to your good teachings Buddha
Really cannot expectation too much then our lives will be less sufferings that's we should understand
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නමො බුද්ධාය 🙏
Thank you for English sermons May you be blessed with health and long life
Blessings of Buddha 🙏
It is true, I once in my live experienced exactly what you describe. This was the Golf war. We in Germany almost all were depressed, because we grew up with our recent fascist history and we were suffering a war was there again. I lived in Hanover, went to school, had to Referate, usually shy, I did not care. I had been sitting crying, talked in front of the class, sat down and went on crying.
A male teacher who taught type writing for a colleague, broke down crying over the type writer.
Finally in another class the teacher said, o.k. You can all go outside and join the protest.
Walling within the large groups brought some relief as long as we were there.
At home my friend and I continued what we did those days! We talked about it, watched TV about it, for the first time in our young life, we could not sleep, for the first time we bought wine, drank it before going to bed, in a way we never did before, to become in a mood where we just knocked out, which was for us both together a half bottle of wine.
We woke up again, because that is no real sleep.
In the morning we stood up very early to sit in front of the TV, suffering and listening to the horrors that happened.
After some weeks I said to my friend, you know what, we will ignore what is happening because we cannot change anything. What if we turn out the TV and read books, go for a walk. We were living in a kind of nightmare, but we were not forced to. We were healthy and outside in our town there was peace. We had good people around us and friends.
We changed our reaction to what happened. We slept at night again and felt better.
I still think, if one could change bad things that happen, it would be our duty to do what we can.
As there was really nothing we could do, it was what helped us.
Thank you very much for your advice and kindness. Again a time we all suffer.
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Iam 40 and still suffering from my childhood after my mom gone...
But now i feel really blessed to hear such words... Thanks sir. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
It's easy to tell, but difficult to go through such situations. But it's the truth of life. Life is always unfair to good people. Have to go through it with faith that everything will be fine some day ☮️
It's still in your mind, the negative thoughts,
Nothing happen you expect theres a possiblity but it's only little percentage only,
Accept what you have if you really wanna change do it slowly one by one
How sweetly u told...life...nature is unfair...will follow ur words.
Namo buddhay. Respected sir how do I not expect from other person. And just be on my own and accept everything that is happening in my life
Don’t know I usually don’t watch videos more than 2 mins. But this one I watched till end. Very true.
Thank you so much for your amazing perspective.. you are truly making a positive impact on so many people.. Lots of love to your channel !
Your teaching helps a lot to change our perspective for life and it took us to a right path . Your teaching gives us strength to deal with challenges of life .
This is so true, it was my thoughts/thinking that was the problem. As soon as I became aware of this I changed the way I looked at things and the things I looked at changed, expectations are a killer. Loved this thank you ❤❤
If my morther past away on mac 2030 .now comes to one month. I love my morther so much. Can I be with here 😢.what have I to do
Sorry 2023
Please 🙏🏻 help me
Sadu sadu sadu!!!🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏
Namo Dhammaaya🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏
Namo Sanghaaya🙏🙏🙏🪷🪷🪷🙏🙏🙏
I pay my homage to our Venerable Thero🙏🙏🙏May all beings be well and happy... May all beings attain the supreme bliss of Nibbana🙏🙏🙏🤍
Thank you so much to take the time to made the videos and teaching us. The videos are short and have so much wisdoms. We need this channel to continue teaching more Buddha Wisdoms. I love this channel so much and listing it every day. It made me feel peace. ❤❤❤❤Namo Buddha.🙏
Namo Buddhaya. Everyday I hear and I can see all the answers whenever I start thinking and when I feel sad.swamiji you are stopping me to think and do anything which is against our Karma when someone hurts me mentally. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏
Thank you Bhante for this awesome video and your great teaching. Namo Buddhaya.🙏🙏🙏
Namobhatai sensei 🤚 Aftet being sick with long covid for over 3 years now, I learnt that the life is like a river, flowing and finding its way through. Patience is the key to everything in my view.
Thanks for moving forward Buddhism through your outstanding ritual speeches 🙏🙏🙏
This is absolutely true. But to get to this certain level in life it needs more practice and balance. I'm doing my best daily. And, thanks to our monk for these sermons on how to live a meaningful life. Namoo Buddhaya 🙏😊🙏
namo buddhay ! Respected sir can u please explain how to develop our personality day to day , what to adapt what to stop what things should we do exactly to develop ourself .....plz explain this in next session ..... btw your work is so appreciatable keep going ... namo buddhay 🙏😊
ඉතා අගනා දේශනයක් ස්වාමීනී. බොහෝමත්ම පින්!
Very good sir excellent
Buddhism is everything for best life. Because in Buddhism there are no place for casteism.. corruption.. discrimination..hatred.only exist love passion in Buddhism
Started loving Budhism....
Namo Budhaaya🙏🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for your wise words. They helped clarify my approach to a particular situation right now. Grateful for this moment which shows up as it should - for a purpose! 🙏
Your words are so inspiring.. whenever I am in a tough situation your sayings inspire me a loooooooooooooot..Lord Buddha's preaching is really very good to hear in order to enable our thought process to be executed according to the situation. Thank Uuuuuuu soooooo much 😊
Yes ❤️❤️❤️ thank you ..I would like to know how to grow yourself in a neg environment and what should b our approach towards self life🙏🙏
Thank you, this really saved me
I have been rejected by many things that I truly put efforts on but didn't get the success from those things.
"the more you expect somthing goes on like the way you want, the more you get sufferings" since I knew this from Buddha's teaching, my life is getting healthier than ever. Its not easy to bring his words into real actions but once you stay consistent and keep going, keep practicing, you cant imagine how peaceful your mind is, words can't describe Buddha's teaching
Well said 👍👍
So true
At the I watching your ... There is people ignore me everytime... Those who I trusted that they will never do this... There is no love in the universe... If u are not capable of everything people start hateing you... And they realize you that u are their worst thing... Many time i hate myself think that how I kill myself... But I waiting for the day when God calls me 💖🥺... Om Santi ❤
Thank you Venerable one, great piece of advice, common logic as Buddha sees it 🙏 Namo Buddhaya 🙏
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Each and every word relate to my life ☹️ Expectations=suffering 💯%true
Namo buddhay 🌺
Thank you for today's video 🙂
It's so practical.. no one will teach you practical life lessons like Buddha did..
Nice 👍 one of the most valuable information about our controllable & uncontrollable situations... Thanks Bhanteji🙏 Namo Buddhay🙏🙏🙏
Thank you. Life owes you nothing so seek the greatness you encounter as is treasure 😊... Wonderful
Hands off u sir... Ur d amazing motivation speaker.. Well adviser ☺💫
Thank you
Now I understand my problem.I fell far short of my expectation .My husband cheated on me and I feel like killing myself .I cann't change him .I let's him go and forgive him so I suffer less.
I love listening to your teachings and they try to use them in a positive way thank you for the videos.
These teaching are totally based on Beloved Supreme Lord Buddha’s teachings… follow it.. you will be the best among the best
Thanks 🙏🙏🙏
I remember I requested for a vdo like this one day! ❤️✨ Tysm Venerable I was in need of this! 🙏✨. Grateful to the universe and god saw this today. Hopefully this made me day will share this with ones who need this like me. Namo Buddhaya!!!! 🙏💖✨