WHAT TO DO WHEN NOTHING GOES OUR WAY | Buddhism In English
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“Expectation stands for suffering”. This is so true. 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
Thanks for this video I got hit by a car and they broke my leg and my ribs I needed to hear this
@@destinyforreal9744 I hope and pray you recover fast and get well soon..,,, Namo Buddhaaya!!!
@@destinyforreal9744 hope you are feeling better now...
We expect for a reason.....but then finally realise.....every one is different......most of the time only giver suffers the most..... receivers only enjoys and forget how the giver makes things possible 🙏🙏
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Buddha said, If problem can be solved why worry and if problem can't be solved by us then also why worry so We shouldn't be worried either problem can be solved or not.
Motherchily
Dudutaknks..godbiles
@@dilipkumara4305ki7ijjuu7u
Then what to do at that time
@@frogosqthen u must realise that the problem( indirectly)is for our goodness in future and the problem itself is will of god
This appears in right time when i am needing the most 🙏 thank you so much
Exactly
Truee
Yeah...same
Same here lol. I hope things will get better for you real soon! 🙏
@@Inayah143l
Three things to do when facing tough situations
1. Realize what the situation is - analyze and understand the problem.
2. Determine whether the situation is in your control or out of your control.
3. Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control.
I am a Christian that listens to your program and enjoy it very much. Thank you!
I thought you are a human
Please don’t label yourself,
It's never too late to become a Buddhist. Become a Buddhist before you're forced to be reborn into another life! Accept Buddha TODAY!!!!
@@user-yf3rr6ob6ryou are wrong. You don't need to become a Buddhist to practice Buddhism. Literally anyone can do It if he/she has that understanding about the philosophy.
@@Bruh-ys3sx Thank you for your reply. But if we don't accept the fact that we are unable to attain spiritual truths ourselves, in this present, degraded age, and if we don't understand that only Amitabha Buddha can save us if we recite His name and wish to be reborn in His pure Land, the next life (of ours) is not guaranteed (to be human). Namo Amitabha Buddha. Namaste----
His kindness shines trough so much and his smile and dimples are just adorable.
I really needed this. I am going through a situation as you described,. It is out of my control so i will follow your advice and won't try to change the people instead I will control myself n my emotions. I wish someday I will understand life.
Keep going! Something great is waiting for you, Fatima 👍👍 just go on 😉
@@floriankrone Thanks 🤗
@@healedsoulhealer 😁👍👍
Bro, everybody is somehow in situations where you get frustrated. Even if somebody is giving you 1000 solutions still that don,t break ice.with you. Be still for the time being and look around. Don't do anything, but problem will get solved for sure. Meanwhile this is another advise. & solution. Take it easy.love
Yes… do practice accordingly, you will never fail… blissful life is ahead… May the supreme triple Gem Bless you dear friend
By listening to you i am at peace...Namo Buddhaya
It is a fact that nothing is fair in life . I know that life is full of suffering. I do not expect anything from life. I do what is need to be done . Be kind, be truthful , be helpful to people. Yes I am going thru struggles right now but I accept it wholeheartedly . Just keep going till your wheel of life stops. I try my best not to react on a negative situation . Walk away from toxic people. Thank you for the Buddha’s teaching . I learnt so much and is still learning . I don’t really think much about what people say about me . I focuse on myself and my well-being. Every day I always thankful for the gift of life. I am very grateful for the blessings and graces that come my way.I terribly adore and love Buddha’s teaching . And I applied it in life . Believe me I am so at peace with myself . Thank you . Thank you. Thank you. I listen to you everyday. 🙏🙏🙏
Expectations lead to disappointment which leads to suffering.. just let go trust the journey 🙏🙏 blessings 💖💖💖
Expectations lead to disappointment which leads to SUFFERING
@@saancloud5766 that's what I said.. 🙏🙏💞💞💞
Expectations when prosponed can cause anxiety....
This is so true. No matter how many good things you do life is not always fair. Its hard but we have to move on .
After listening to your words ,I felt stress-free, peaceful and Happy with what I have.😇
Whatever flows ...flows.....
If we can't change the situation then We have to change our perspective ✌️💪
It gives me hope to run my life.
What beautiful thoughts..!!
The tenderness of your words.. your voice is so powerful, Master 🙏😊
God Bless you...Namo Budhdhay 🙏😊
මාගේ භාග්යවතුන් වහන්සේට මාගේ උත්තමාංග නමස්කාරය වේවා!
උත්තම ශ්රී සද්ධර්මයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා!
ඒ මහා ශ්රාවක සංඝරත්නයට මාගේ නමස්කාරය වේවා!
ඉතා අගනා දේශනයක් ස්වාමීනී. බොහෝමත්ම පින්!
? 🤔🤐😱😵 Yip Yip🤣
I am suffering a lot because of situations that are out of my control and also in my control. Thank you for this advice and may all the ppl get a peaceful life❤
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🫒 Hi Buddha, thank you for your wise teachings👊
I listen, I learn.
I love listening to Buddha's messages👌.
Greetings from DK 🇩🇰
I love your great words.it gives peace to the mind.
Sadhu Sadhu Sadhu
He is not Buddha dear he is a disciple of Buddha
he is a Buddhist Monk.
Yes you are right 👍👍🙏🙏
@@wicramarajashinghe7302 he is a Budha. Everyone could be a Budha. The Budha you are mentioning is a specific person but being Budha is not limited to one person.
Being a Sanatani (Hindu) I think that Hinduism (Sanatan Dharma), Jainism, Buddhism, and Sikhism are looking different but there roots are same we all are One
Love from Rajasthan, India 🙏
Buddhism came from sanatan Dharma and other religions u mentioned also ❤
This guy is fluent in English. His voice is so clear.
I am a Catholic but I listen to this.... it gives me new perspective. And what he is saying is actually true.
You can never go wrong with listening to words of wisdom and do implement it into your life.
Expect to Fail but rise up again. In this way, we all learn from our mistakes but gain more wisdom along the way.
It is true, I once in my live experienced exactly what you describe. This was the Golf war. We in Germany almost all were depressed, because we grew up with our recent fascist history and we were suffering a war was there again. I lived in Hanover, went to school, had to Referate, usually shy, I did not care. I had been sitting crying, talked in front of the class, sat down and went on crying.
A male teacher who taught type writing for a colleague, broke down crying over the type writer.
Finally in another class the teacher said, o.k. You can all go outside and join the protest.
Walling within the large groups brought some relief as long as we were there.
At home my friend and I continued what we did those days! We talked about it, watched TV about it, for the first time in our young life, we could not sleep, for the first time we bought wine, drank it before going to bed, in a way we never did before, to become in a mood where we just knocked out, which was for us both together a half bottle of wine.
We woke up again, because that is no real sleep.
In the morning we stood up very early to sit in front of the TV, suffering and listening to the horrors that happened.
After some weeks I said to my friend, you know what, we will ignore what is happening because we cannot change anything. What if we turn out the TV and read books, go for a walk. We were living in a kind of nightmare, but we were not forced to. We were healthy and outside in our town there was peace. We had good people around us and friends.
We changed our reaction to what happened. We slept at night again and felt better.
I still think, if one could change bad things that happen, it would be our duty to do what we can.
As there was really nothing we could do, it was what helped us.
Thank you very much for your advice and kindness. Again a time we all suffer.
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I’m 23 and don’t know where my life is going. This video helped change my perspective on things. Amazing video
Honey, I'm 80 and I can absolutely tell you that you don't have any idea where your life is going! In fact it's an understatement!
You have no idea how absolutely wonderful life is when you let it open for you. Decide what you want to do to make a living and let God take it from there.
I came close to ending my own life before I was 30. If I had been successful I would have miss traveling to over 50 countries, and having my own successful business.
The exciting part is that everyday is a new day! Enjoy!!!
@@georgiafrancis9059 will do. Thanks
Thank you Vanteji.May you live healthy and a long life
Sir ur teachings hv changed my life to a great extent n helping me everyday to lead a peaceful life. Thank u so much. Namo budhdhaya🙏
I love Buddhism it has helped me through so much!! Thank u so much for your teachings !
Yes, If people act thru’ their lenses it is not you or nothing to do with yourself! It is their sanskar! Radiate compassion to those who criticize, & are opinionated ! Obviously they are not happy with themselves! 💓🙏🏼
Listening to your advice made me live meaningful and so powerful.🙏🙏
Namo Buddhaya. You are God's gift to me. Your preachings have turned my life completely, I just can't explain how much valuable your videos are to me. Very simple explanation.
අපේ හාමුදරුවනෙ.. අවසරයි.. ඔබ වහන්සේ ඉතාම උගත්.. ඒ වගේම සමාවන්න කඩවසම් මනා පවුර්ශයකින් යුක්තයි. එහෙව් ඔබ වහන්සේ මහන වන්නේ සැබෑම සසර කලකිරීමෙන් ඌ අවබෝදයෙන්ම නිසා විය යුතුයි.. මාගෙ ඉල්ලිම වන්නේ.. බොහෝ සිසුන් සිසුවියන් සිටිනවා.. ජීවිතේ ඉතාම අමාරු අවදීන් වල ගත කරන. මව්වරුන් පියවරු සහෝඩ්නදරයන් අකාලයේ මිය ගිය , අපහාස උපහාස වලට ලක් වූ , නොයෙක් ලෙඩ රෝග, ආදර සම්බන්දතා ප්රශ්න ආර්තික ප්රශ්න නොයෙක් ආදී.. ඔවුන් මේ රටේ අනාගත වත්කමයි.. ඔවුන්ගෙ එම කඩා වැටීම් ව්ර්නුව්ර්න් ඔබේ ඉඩ වෙන් කරන්නේ නම් එය මහ අත්වැලක් වේවි.. මන්ද ඔවුන් සොයන්නෙ සිත පිනවන. වැදි බන නොව අර්තාන්විත ගැබුරු දහම තුලින් ලෞකික ජීවිතය ඉදිරියට සාර්තකව ගෙන යෑමට අවස්ජ්ය සිතේ සවිය සහ උපදෙසුයි. එවන බන සොයා ගැනීමට ඉතා අපහසුයි.. ඔබ වැනි හිමි නමක් ඒ වෙනුවෙන් කාලය වෙන් කරන්නේ නම් ඔවුන්ට සැබෑම අස්වැසිල්ලක් වේවි..අවසර ස්වාමීන් වහන්ස. (ඔබ වහන්සේ සිංහල හිමි නමක් යැයි අනුමාන කොට මෙය සිංහලෙන් ඉදිරිපත් කරනු ලබන්නේ අනෙකුත් ස්රී ලාංකිකයන්ගේද එක වර ඇස ගැටීම සදහායි. )
permission.. you are very educated.. and sorry, handsome and well-mannered. .. This is my request.. There are many students.. They study very hard in life. Mothers, fathers, brothers and sisters died prematurely, insulted, many diseases, broken heart., love relationship problems, economic problems, etc.. They are the future asset of this country. They seek pleasure. The find deep understanding through Buddha s word. And please give some advice and like counseling for student who is suffering like mentioned. Sorry Lord. (It is assumed that you are a Sinhala name and this is presented in Sinhala.
Me swamin wahanse lankawe namakda? Theruwan saranai.🙏🙏🙏🙏
@@gunawardanathilinikawshaly894 ow ,mahamewnawa
@@GMIIW bohoma sthuthiy.🙏
ඒ මූණ දැක්කමත් ඇති. ඒ තරම් ප්රසන්න, මට ඒක කියන්න තේරෙන්නෙ නෑ. ඒත් සියල්ල නිවැරදිව අවබෝධ කරගත් ස්වාමීන්වහන්සේ නමක්. බලන්න ඒ මුහුණෙ තියන ප්රසන්න බව. මේව තමයි නියම බණ කියන්නේ. සමහර ස්වාමීන්වහන්සෙලා බණ කියනකොට වෛරය ක්රෝධය පිරිල, බුලත් හප කාල, බලන්න අහන්න අප්පිරියයි. මොකක් හරි වාසනාවකට මේ ස්වාමීන්වහන්සෙගෙ බණ අහන්න ලැබුණ පෙර පිනකට. උන්වහන්සේට ඉතා ඉක්මන් නිවන් මග පෑදේවා .... සාධු සාධු සාධු ....
Upto now this is the calmest Buddha master 🙏
God bless you ❤️
Very happy and peaceful to hear him
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Well said! Its completely true in my life...
Expectations definitely kill as a person.Its also said that expectation leads to greater disappoinent ✨
Let's feel surprised when unexpected things get happened💙✨
Millions of thanks for such wonderful service. If possible, Please make us a video regarding 'how to inculcate positive thoughts and ideas in our mind' because mind gets easily indulge in past trauma, criticism, sufferings than living in present moment. Thanks a lot 🙏
* Change the situation if it is in your control or change your perspective if it is out of your control* .....literally this line...changed my mindset....and now i feel i can deal better with anxiety issues having most of times becoz of my whole class (classmates).....I'M GLAD THAT IM CONNECTED WITH CHANNEL
Thank you🌺 You give us joy🍀 There is lot of truth in it. Now the practise must come to the fore 😊😊😁
I am out of words, how should I express my gratefulness to this beautiful human being, everytime I suffer with certain problems in life it's him who encourages me with his teachings to ahead and right the problems and gives all possible solutions to it, I am really really in debt to you, a heartfelt thanks to you 🙏✨
Namo budhhay
just what i needed right now...thank you so much...now i am feeling better after watching this
Happiness is inversely propertional to expectations..
Namo Buddhaya 🙏🏻😊
Thank you so much for giving me direction in my life... Before your guidance I was stuck... Thank you so much
I love you
Thank you, I have been blessed to find your channel and you are a part of my daily routine now.🙏
Namoo buddaya 🙏🏻🌹
Needed to hear this so badly ... Thank you so much universe for this sign 🌈💕💫
if nothing goes your way then stop trying too hard and relax then it may start going your way either through that thing you wanted or through another door. If you want to come out of a difficult situation then you relax like the Chinese finger trap - the more you struggle to escape the harder it gets. You dont run away from your suffering but you remain with it quietly and listen, from that comes the flash of insight - in the last moment the tides can change. The ancient greeks called suffering as passion and passion is energy. There is great energy in it.
First of all I would like to say that I was so happy to see a video put up here after quite a while.
Today's video has come at a time when I how been facing such circumstances for quite a while. "If we cannot change a situation we should change our perspective towards it". This sentence speaks volumes and is the best advice to all who are in this situation. It makes me realise that all this while I've been trying to change things which are not in my control. Now I realise that it's better for my peace of mind to let things be as they are and not to let them affect me.
Hope to see more such videos.
Thank you soo much. Bhante your voice, your body language and your teachings are soo positive. Pleasant to hear from you.
Namo budhhay....the most essential teachings I got from this ...if things are not going in your way jst change your perspective this seems so simple but it got so much deep to understand and I my case I m suffering with my studies and it's doable situation I can do about this...I analyse where I m lacking and also realised that each day shouldn't be same always so don't expect too much to be every coming I can feel that energetic...so accept that and find what can uh do about that situation
Anumodhana Bhante 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
From Indonesia , NAMO BUDDHAYA 🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻
I always live most of my life on your advice because am a listening person. Txks ✋
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Thank you so much ..
I'm so blessed to watch this..
Namo Buddhaya..🙏
Thank you Bante
Your smile shows how calm & collective you are, your teaching greatly appreciated
I feel more comfortable,my heart feel more peaceful and calm after listening your speech,Gold bless you
Listen to good things our hearts r alway peace
Listening to your good teachings Buddha
Really cannot expectation too much then our lives will be less sufferings that's we should understand
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Thank you so much for your videos, i am so grateful and enjoy listening to the buddhism so true to life 🙏
Namo Buddhaya. Everyday I hear and I can see all the answers whenever I start thinking and when I feel sad.swamiji you are stopping me to think and do anything which is against our Karma when someone hurts me mentally. Namo Buddhaya 🙏🙏
I remember I requested for a vdo like this one day! ❤️✨ Tysm Venerable I was in need of this! 🙏✨. Grateful to the universe and god saw this today. Hopefully this made me day will share this with ones who need this like me. Namo Buddhaya!!!! 🙏💖✨
Thank you Bhante for this awesome video and your great teaching. Namo Buddhaya.🙏🙏🙏
නමො බුද්ධාය 🙏
Thank you for English sermons May you be blessed with health and long life
Blessings of Buddha 🙏
I am very proud about you Venerable Thera as a Sri Lankan Buddhist man. Sri Lanka has real teach of the buddha. But it is very difficult to explain by the English. It is very deep vision. Any how you are trying to give buddha vision by English. That is need to this world. නමෝ බුද්ධාය
I was suffering very stressed in since some days but after watching this video l feel better ..
Thank you so much 😊❤
I watch everyday your videos because your thoughts is very helpful my life is totally changed and i am so happy ...
Changing is more important in our life😊
Yes, expectations are killing us.. you are right , expectations are suffering 😢 😔
Don’t know I usually don’t watch videos more than 2 mins. But this one I watched till end. Very true.
Thanks for moving forward Buddhism through your outstanding ritual speeches 🙏🙏🙏
Thank you for your wise words. They helped clarify my approach to a particular situation right now. Grateful for this moment which shows up as it should - for a purpose! 🙏
Simple yet so powerful if fully actualised! Thank you for your kind words of wisdom
Thank-you so much 💖 this was so needed right now. Blessings 💖
Namo buddhay. Respected sir how do I not expect from other person. And just be on my own and accept everything that is happening in my life
My father cheated on my mother he almost spend all of his money on that other women even he have good salary .this is 2nd time he did same thing first time we need to compromise with out education and shift to village i had several health issues cause my mom find out about it when i was some month old only i suffer from asthama after some year asthama is better now. But now i got rere eye daeses so no longer i am eligible for completing my only dream to become air hostess i didn't pass the other government exam too my boyfriend also about to leave me. i get panic attack and live in anxiety i don't know how to find normal job in.this condition 😔
May the Lord Buddha teachings guide you.Im sorry for the situation youre in.Suffering is the truth of life and samsara.We all suffer in different ways.This difficult phase of yours will pass too.Its is very easy to say move on but difficult to do so.Our mind is like a busy road where thoughts keep on coming and going.If we just stay still and watch our thoughts and not react on them they will pass away.You need to find courage and start searching for a new job new goal.If life gives you lemons make a lemonade.Im sure you will do good sister.Keep faith
Work from home instead.. Online freelancing
Praying for power and peace to you 🤍
Read biography of chhtrapati shivaji maharaj..
Very nicely explained@@sumalways
His energy is so soothing
Namo buddhay 🌺
Thank you for today's video 🙂
Im at the lowest point in my life right now. I dont remember the last I prayed but a few nights ago I talked to him and said if he hated me THAT much, he can just take away my life right there and then. I asked him to not let me wake up in the morning. But instead, he didnt let me sleep at all. Got 0 sleep 😂
Nice 👍 one of the most valuable information about our controllable & uncontrollable situations... Thanks Bhanteji🙏 Namo Buddhay🙏🙏🙏
Thank you so much for your amazing perspective.. you are truly making a positive impact on so many people.. Lots of love to your channel !
This is absolutely true. But to get to this certain level in life it needs more practice and balance. I'm doing my best daily. And, thanks to our monk for these sermons on how to live a meaningful life. Namoo Buddhaya 🙏😊🙏
Thank you Venerable one, great piece of advice, common logic as Buddha sees it 🙏 Namo Buddhaya 🙏
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Bhikku is like the coolest guy on TH-cam. ☸️🕉
This is one of the most valuable videos I've ever seen. Will listen to this again and again ❤❤❤❤
Thank you for the explanation of changing perspective in one moment in our life
I sleep very few hours. The rest of the time in the night I listen to these sermons. Superb.
I really can't believe initially . The love and kindness which you are spreading is massive.🙏🙏🙏💐💐💐🕊️🕊️🕊️
Thank you. Life owes you nothing so seek the greatness you encounter as is treasure 😊... Wonderful
Hands off u sir... Ur d amazing motivation speaker.. Well adviser ☺💫
Thank u so much … heard this at the right moment 🙏🏼🙏🏼
Thank you, this really saved me
I have been rejected by many things that I truly put efforts on but didn't get the success from those things.
This is true words of wisdom thank you!🤗
Thank you Buddha for this message. I wish this message to be spread worldwide to people who need it and May God bless everybody always🙏🙏❤️❤️🤲🤲
It's easy to tell, but difficult to go through such situations. But it's the truth of life. Life is always unfair to good people. Have to go through it with faith that everything will be fine some day ☮️
It's still in your mind, the negative thoughts,
Nothing happen you expect theres a possiblity but it's only little percentage only,
Accept what you have if you really wanna change do it slowly one by one
Your words are so inspiring.. whenever I am in a tough situation your sayings inspire me a loooooooooooooot..Lord Buddha's preaching is really very good to hear in order to enable our thought process to be executed according to the situation. Thank Uuuuuuu soooooo much 😊
Thank you for your kind and wise words. Your advice is always so pertinent and practical. May your life be peaceful.
This is so true, it was my thoughts/thinking that was the problem. As soon as I became aware of this I changed the way I looked at things and the things I looked at changed, expectations are a killer. Loved this thank you ❤❤
If my morther past away on mac 2030 .now comes to one month. I love my morther so much. Can I be with here 😢.what have I to do
Sorry 2023
Please 🙏🏻 help me
I love these messages 🙏🙏
Sir your positive words really help me a lot to change my perspective about the situations which are not under my control. Thank you so much 😌🙏
Each and every word relate to my life ☹️ Expectations=suffering 💯%true
Yes ❤️❤️❤️ thank you ..I would like to know how to grow yourself in a neg environment and what should b our approach towards self life🙏🙏
I have my board comong next week and nothing was going ryt and suddenly this video showed up ,ig its a gods sign
This is really true and life is mostly unfair and it happens in its own way. What we need to do is to just accept what is happening and grab the opportunities that comes our way. And i have always seen that if one thing does not goes your way let it go there are more and more things waiting for you focus on them. Life becomes easy when we accept that what nature is giving us is good for us and what is going is good for us. Life does not goes your way its okay but whichever way it is going trust the process and have faith that nature is the greatest planner and its plans are better than our plans. Namo buddhay ❤
Thanks a lot for that wonderful explanation. Om Namo Buddhaya
"the more you expect somthing goes on like the way you want, the more you get sufferings" since I knew this from Buddha's teaching, my life is getting healthier than ever. Its not easy to bring his words into real actions but once you stay consistent and keep going, keep practicing, you cant imagine how peaceful your mind is, words can't describe Buddha's teaching
Well said 👍👍
So true
What a beautiful thoughts 🙏
Bohoma pin ස්වාමින්වහන්ස... Heard this at the right moment ...🌷🌷🌷 Namo buddhaya🌷
Thanks a lot ...🙏🙏
Your thoughts are extremely appreciable...after listening your thoughts life feels very easy ..and also give me the right Perspective towads any kind of Situation and People as well .. I appreciate to u with.. pure ... heartedly
Thank you sir for your great teaching
🌍🙏🙏🙏 one of the great message to whole world.
You make it all sound so easy and simple. Hope we get to follow your words 🙏🏼