How to Talk to Trump Voters

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 ก.ย. 2024
  • A large part of the problem for the past 8 years is that neither side can, or will, talk to the other in a constructive or effective way. This might help.

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  • @echomikekilo63
    @echomikekilo63 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +88

    "When you are dead, you do not know you are dead. It's only painful and difficult for others. The same applies when you are stupid." Ricky Gervais

    • @chadk2525
      @chadk2525 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      He was making fun of democrats.

    • @t.h.8475
      @t.h.8475 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      ​@@chadk2525 I think you just made his point.

    • @MPR2
      @MPR2 9 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      "Stupid people don't know they're stupid."

  • @lynandhenrymeyerding3392
    @lynandhenrymeyerding3392 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +199

    "To argue with a person who has renounced the use of reason is like administering medicine to the dead." Thomas Paine.

    • @re4477
      @re4477 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

      Yep.

    • @softhotty
      @softhotty 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      100%...the best you can do is suggest..."think for your self."

    • @GuitarBrew
      @GuitarBrew 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      Well said

    • @charliecrowley1070
      @charliecrowley1070 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Is a secure border unreasonable? Is healthier food for our children unreasonable? Is wanting lower taxes unreasonable? Is no more wars unreasonable? Is wanting safer streets unreasonable? Please let me know which ones are unreasonable because these are the reasons I'm voting for him.

    • @chadk2525
      @chadk2525 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I’m sure your open to hearing opinions that disagree with MSNBC

  • @ivantuma7969
    @ivantuma7969 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +154

    I had a Trump friend tell me recently; "I don't understand your resistance, given your race and status, _when_ Trump gets elected, *YOU* will be fine". I said, "yeh, that's what I'm worried about".

    • @lisatanksley5317
      @lisatanksley5317 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      And the joke will be on your friend if is were to be elected.
      Even if he’s a millionaire.
      Unless he’s just wanting to give his millions directly to Trump.
      Because, unless you’re transactional with him, he has no business with you and wouldn’t give you water if you were on fire.

    • @castillomark
      @castillomark 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

      That’s how Germans thought in 1933, and it led to a horrendous catastrophe.

    • @martin2289
      @martin2289 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      It's probably going to take a generation or so before the aberrance of Trumpism is effectively flushed out of the system.

    • @lazersly
      @lazersly 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

      Wow, seriously? What century does this person live in?

    • @lisaahmari7199
      @lisaahmari7199 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      ​@@castillomarkI was gonna say that, too💔

  • @sydneyevans2637
    @sydneyevans2637 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +90

    I've asked a couple of friends how they could support a man who didn't care if his supporters threatened to hang the vice president. One didn't answer and changed the subject. The other said "well, it didn't happen". I'm not a Pence fan but I do have a moral compass. And I do believe my eyes and ears over someone who lies.

    • @charliecrowley1070
      @charliecrowley1070 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Joe showered with his daughter when as she wrote was way too old to be doing so, does that make all Democrats Pedro's? No! Did Trump want Pence to be hung? No! Do you even know Trumps policy? Do you know Harris policy?

    • @MarkasTZM
      @MarkasTZM 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      they should no longer be Friends because they are not

    • @TimPrickett-p6l
      @TimPrickett-p6l 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Trump never said he supported those actions , he said protest peacefully ! You Dems are brainwashed by the media and the propaganda, you just can’t think for your selves ! If you can’t see thru the lying politician bull shi# of Kamala and tampon Tim , that says it all !

    • @gastropod557
      @gastropod557 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Possibly "Alternative facts?"--Kellyanne Conway

  • @Andre-zd8ke
    @Andre-zd8ke 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    The problem is that most Trump supporters really support Trump because their innate hate and bigotry aimed at those "others". They will rarely admit to it but that's what really drives them. For example, Christofascism is just a manifestation of that. No point in trying to have a civilised discussion with them. They will simply refuse to acknowledge anything you say, no matter how factual.

    • @vesnx
      @vesnx 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      Great observation. 👍

    • @Madronaxyz
      @Madronaxyz 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The biggest cause of racism and sexism and all those other prejudices, is economic uncertainty.
      Thanks to over four decades of Reagan neoliberal economics, the United States has very little middle class anymore. A big study was published in 2011 that showed that for hourly workers who worked 40 hours a week, 49 percent of those workers in the United States did not earn enough money to support themselves and one dependent in a lifestyle that was minimal.. the minimum lifestyle was renting an apartment with two people for bedroom in a safe location, transportation to work or school only, healthcare, and a healthy diet that only included vegetables. The amount of money deemed necessary for this lifestyle did not include money for any luxuries at all including cigarettes, movies, videos, vacations, club memberships etcetera.
      We need to fight to increase taxes on the wealthy, raise the hourly minimum wage to a living wage, provide free college education or trade school education, adequate support for families and adequate support for the elderly.
      When very few people are worried about starving or eviction, the oligarchs will no longer have fertile ground in which to sow their fascist ideas..

    • @deborahhoffman7394
      @deborahhoffman7394 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

      You are right on. I see it every day. Forms of hate, greed, selfishness.

    • @ChrisTian-rm7zm
      @ChrisTian-rm7zm 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      It's really shocking to see how many people have a deep-rooted urge to punish others.

    • @msteach3082
      @msteach3082 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      That sums it up perfectly.

  • @reneeharkness1337
    @reneeharkness1337 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +120

    I’m from upstate NY. Many of my friends have completely changed from anti-Russia to Pro-Russia. I can’t understand it. Nothing I say resonates with them. It’s frightening and frustrating. Glad you found a way to do it. Thanks again for the video! Great as always!

    • @vesnx
      @vesnx 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      It's like my team vs your team and not based on reality like my life and your life. To invested in emotions to even consider facts

    • @jbramblett
      @jbramblett 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

      I think part of the problem is age... I grew up in the late '50s and through the '60s when Russia was our mortal enemy... If you're younger than say 50 years old you don't remember that. And you have no idea what it was like going to elementary school everyday and having nuclear attack drills... And you don't remember the civil defense trucks going through your neighborhood on Saturdays telling you where to go in the event of a nuclear attack... Giving directions to the nearest fallout shelter... I think a lot of our country is woefully ignorant of history

    • @richcarroll7510
      @richcarroll7510 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Because what your hearing about Ukraine is a complete lie ,The Ukraine Asov Battalion pledge to Adolf hitler, Also have Is suastica tattoos on the Arms .....Fact !

    • @nick5062
      @nick5062 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Hey Renee. There's a TH-cam channel called 'Russian Media Monitor' which shows what the Kremlin media is broadcasting to its population everyday. It has English subtitles. If you can get your friends to check it out, then I'm sure they will change their minds. The ruzzian propagandists are quite capable themselves of showing your friends the HATE they have for America, their desire to see the US descend into civil war, and their imperialist intentions of forcing their ideology on the world.
      Another channel worth watching is 'Vasya in the Hay' (English subtitles). It's a Russian guy trying to help the people in ruzzia that are struggling. It gives you an honest view of the underbelly of ruzzian society (horrific).

    • @LauraPena-ku8hi
      @LauraPena-ku8hi 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

      Yes a friend of mine said Russia isn't an enemy of the U.S. I was shocked by that statement.

  • @suzyfanetsberger5073
    @suzyfanetsberger5073 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +82

    Sometime in early Spring of this year, I was helping a childhood friend navigate Medicare. He was whining a bit and I said, well it will continue to improve under Biden/Harris. WHAM! He started shouting at me, “Trump all the way !” Spewing nonsense and venom. This was a first and I was in shock. Anyone else, I would have hung up immediately. For a minute I calmly tried, to no avail, to get word in edgewise and just hung up. I’m now over the emotional loss of having to let some “friends “ go. I just tell myself (and others) “I don’t do crazy, and I can’t fix stupid.” 💙⚖️💙🇺🇸💯

    • @charliecrowley1070
      @charliecrowley1070 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      You know he shouldn't have done that and been that emotional about it but you do also know that whole thing goes the opposite way just as much.

    • @deniceeverham9467
      @deniceeverham9467 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      Sorry about the lose of you friends. I’ve lost old friend and family. I just can’t be friends with people that have that type of mentality. They aren’t the people I knew . They have become completely different people.

    • @deniceeverham9467
      @deniceeverham9467 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Sorry about the lose of you friends. I’ve lost old friend and family. I just can’t be friends with people that have that type of mentality. They aren’t the people I knew . They have become completely different people.

    • @ffc303
      @ffc303 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      ​@deniceeverham9467 What's left of my family are orange spice addicted & in deep south, far away from me. I can tell they're pissed about the truth & know how bad orange spice is but just won't go there. I don't hear from them much. Land Of Delusion😮🤨😝🤪😜😛 Pardon the novel 😂😂

    • @brdrcli1
      @brdrcli1 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I lost my baby sister to tRumpism. Even if she changed and came over to the Democratic side I cannot forgive her for what she has done to me.

  • @joann5051
    @joann5051 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +91

    Oh, I'm done trying to talk to them. It's just called Ignore and avoid. If they're still following him with all the information that's out there. They just don't have their mind or heart in the right place, and I don't want any part of that.

    • @mollysreadings4845
      @mollysreadings4845 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Is your heart in the right place to support a party that offers free abortions at their convention? 🔵 is evil. It's like we're living on a different planet. How can you support an installed candidate who can't even speak properly and fakes being black? Not to mention hasn't done anything in nearly 4 years in office? And her running mate? His whole family is voting for Trump.

    • @gastropod557
      @gastropod557 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      There is more than their mind in the wrong place! How about "Chronic cranial rectumitis?"

  • @fondasarff9701
    @fondasarff9701 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +46

    I can't talk with a couple of dear family members any more. One is sunk into the cult beyond sensibility. One is DEAD thanks to anti vax, Covid is nothing but a flu rhetoric. I miss them both.

    • @tealnexttimebond8859
      @tealnexttimebond8859 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      I can barely talk to any of my friends. They all think im crazy cause I despise trump

    • @KarlBean-pb9zf
      @KarlBean-pb9zf 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      @@tealnexttimebond8859You’re fine. Those people are nuts!

  • @keaco73
    @keaco73 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +74

    I’m still shocked why anyone, even once voted for him.

    • @marsrii4372
      @marsrii4372 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Well, this has started long ago, when evangelical christians got into political activism. And now here we are…

    • @charliecrowley1070
      @charliecrowley1070 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I'm shocked anyone could vote for Harris. Now Joe Biden I was like OK I can see it but then after he was elected and the stuff came out I'm shocked.

    • @keaco73
      @keaco73 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@charliecrowley1070 why are you shocked Anyone would vote for Harris? Because she’s a woman? Or because she is not white? “Stuff came out and u were shocked “?? you sound like a conspiracy nut.

    • @dancancro5524
      @dancancro5524 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      @@charliecrowley1070 She has a pretty good resumé, but can you understand the reasons why people do not like Trump as much as they do not like Trump? Are you really shocked that someone would vote for his opponent regardless of who that person is?

    • @janicelloyd3215
      @janicelloyd3215 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I just don’t understand, where is the charm? I never watched his show, was that his charm? I don’t see anything but an under educated, low intelligence, no vocabulary filthy convicted rapist, traitor to our country. The Republican Party is divided, republicans and magas. There’s hope for Republicans,. That’s the Cheneys and others who won’t vote for trump

  • @barbarab9445
    @barbarab9445 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +40

    I think that it is better to spend my time getting Democrats registered to vote rather than talking politics to Trump supporters. Also, my problem is that I know 3 Trumpers who are actually smart. Those are the ones I REALLY don't understand. How can they be so book smart but can't see that Trump is conning them?

    • @tomworthjr
      @tomworthjr  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      Definitely agree with you and your time management choices!

    • @susanhewitt6359
      @susanhewitt6359 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think it's because they aren't using logic or reason when it comes to Trump. They are reacting to the emotions of anger and hatred that he stirs up in them and feeds daily through FOX "news". They're thinking with their emotions only.

    • @elnabenoit
      @elnabenoit 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      People with mental illness, brain damage and toxic personalities can still be "smart".

    • @jamesroof6150
      @jamesroof6150 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      One can be educated and book smart, but still be a moron.

    • @polandharr
      @polandharr 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      He is appealing to some deep, fiercely-held core values they have; in which case facts and intellectual argumentation and reason do not stand a chance when the heart is firmly committed to something it holds dear.

  • @BlownBob
    @BlownBob 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +38

    Here in the south my political speak consists of three words, "i hate trump", and leave it at that...

    • @tomworthjr
      @tomworthjr  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

      Well that’s one way to do it I guess 😂

    • @ebeb516
      @ebeb516 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@tomworthjrthe “ I hate trump “ does sometimes make people question their own convictions about trump and if it doesn’t it definitely sets a clear boundary for their rhetoric .
      I don’t make a statement like that without hard facts to back it up though.

  • @roliepoliecolie2200
    @roliepoliecolie2200 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Stop caring what they think. Be happy, enjoy life. It pisses them off royally.

  • @bulkvanderhuge9006
    @bulkvanderhuge9006 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Talking to Trump Voters requires deprogramming them first.

    • @polandharr
      @polandharr 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes! And most of us do not have the psychological knowledge and training to do that. It’s best to not waste time engaging them unless one is properly trained to in deprogramming cult members, as you wisely noted.

  • @zenlandzipline
    @zenlandzipline 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    You can’t reach these people. They are too far gone. The best we can do is go out and vote, and try to bring someone along with us to vote, too.

  • @Daglato
    @Daglato 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    Tried a wee little conversation with beloved childhood cousins. I did more listening, trying to be compassionate. The look of confusion on my cousin's face when I told her Trump told Christians that this would be the only time they'd ever have to vote again was very telling. I spoke about our concerns about abortion rights and it went right to state rights. He totally refused to accept the fact that maga is working to make it illegal for women to go to other states. He insisted loudly, over any rebuttal, that it can never happen. End of conversation.

    • @tomworthjr
      @tomworthjr  13 วันที่ผ่านมา +21

      That’s all you can do. I just don’t think we can undo all that has been done. Especially when they voluntarily continue to reinforce it every day.

    • @joedouche3818
      @joedouche3818 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I stopped talking to my maga sister who started claiming that democrats were drinking the blood of babies AND she knows this because she didnher research, I said, sis you do know that's what these crazy nut jobs repubs are saying down here in the south? she shut down with, "I KNOW WHAT I KNOW, I DID MY RESEARCH AND NO ONE CAN TELL ME DIFFERENT", that was back in 2017 and I have not spoken To her since. I'm good.

    • @crystalparker100
      @crystalparker100 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I think the best approach is to attack their own integrity, their principles and their sanity. They will resist, but being the type of people who are obviously susceptible to brainwashing, if repeated often enough, some will eventually budge. Calling them weird really struck a chord, because it wasn't about policy or Trump, it was about them personally.

    • @jellyrollnorton
      @jellyrollnorton 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      repubs want to get rid of contraception = a whole bunch of teenage parents. Something tells me that’s not good for the economy. (Letting the states decide is almost always republican-led, and it leads to more bureaucracy and government interference.)

  • @danielgardner394
    @danielgardner394 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +14

    When trump tells you VOTE for me ONCE and you'll never have to vote again. Hello! WAKE UP! It means you will NEVER be able to vote again. He WILL be a dictator!

  • @martin2289
    @martin2289 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    "You cannot reason someone out of something he or she was not reasoned into." - Johnathon Swift

    • @tomworthjr
      @tomworthjr  12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Interesting sentiment. I like it!

    • @Savalatte
      @Savalatte 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I remember reading that was the problem of prejudice (pre-judging) however not all Trump voters are a lost cause, and we certainly can't give up on such a large percentage of society. These people are in a religion that used to be fairly benign but has turned into an extreme cult (Christian Nationalism) with some saying they need to take over the government and take away women's right to vote (since they vote liberal), etc. I was shocked by what I found.

    • @martin2289
      @martin2289 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@Savalatte The more you find out about the Christian Nationalist movement, the more deeply disturbing it becomes and the more clear is the need for a separation of church and state lest such maniacs get into positions of power where they feel compelled and entitled to inflict their wickedly stupid beliefs on everybody else.

  • @KenEnCuenca
    @KenEnCuenca 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +23

    I just got off an fb string where a MAGA supporter trolled me over a comment I made on Harris’ page. He made a series of assertions and I simply asked him to point me to his sources for his claims. Predictably he came back with more assertions so I asked for his sources again. He told me to do my homework so I retrieved several statistical documents and told him if he did not agree with the numbers then to please provide me with his sources.
    After the third try, he started using ad hac attacks and stopped replying altogether.
    That is the pattern. I never called him names and even told him that I would be open to changing my mind if he could support him claims with evidence. No such luck!

    • @lisaahmari7199
      @lisaahmari7199 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Since the DOJ has now broken up two giant Russian propaganda Troll Farms, I think so many of these "people" on these threads are flat-out paid trolls. Personally, I feel like it is better to conserve our intellectual energy for in-person discussions.

    • @scotv5099
      @scotv5099 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

      That gets exhausting.

    • @Domj618
      @Domj618 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      ❤❤ Trump is the best president of all time ever again again ❤❤

    • @KenEnCuenca
      @KenEnCuenca 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@scotv5099 yeah, I’ve learned my lesson

    • @designchik
      @designchik 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@Domj618 LOL. 😂😂😂

  • @neosapienz7885
    @neosapienz7885 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    Slow single syllables and a lot of repetition. Or just not talking. The reality is, they won’t listen.

    • @lisaahmari7199
      @lisaahmari7199 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      I am thinking of using the enlarged cue cards, like in Love Actually, anytime I have to engage with them. 😋 And using small words.

  • @Savalatte
    @Savalatte 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    As someone from the rural South (former Southern Baptist) I actually disagree. The root of the problem is Christian Nationalism. The main thing we need to do is question religion much more- as well as insult and mock their superstitious beliefs. All this obsession with tolerance makes liberals look weak and confused, while some of the stuff about LGBTQ and crime make them look ridiculous. Non-religious types need to be more principled and firm. BE STRONG!

    • @lisaahmari7199
      @lisaahmari7199 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I agree. You can't argue with people who are not coming from the same foundation of facts that you are coming from. It is useless. They quote their Bible as if it is an actual reputable source of data. Then they quote that same book to back up the data they first presented. It is like arguing with brainwashed children! Oh, wait......

  • @patches3216
    @patches3216 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Simpletons simply love other simpletons.

  • @K2blades2
    @K2blades2 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +34

    Some have been TOTALLY brainwashed. And there is NO way to bring them back to reality.😭 A VERY close person to me is sucked into the Qanon CRAP. And you cannot even have a conversation with him anymore. Makes me very sad everyday.

    • @MarkWalton-t9o
      @MarkWalton-t9o 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      If they managed to watch J6 unfold on TV and can't say, not patriots, no pardons, then they won't return to reason until some time after he dies.

  • @vinskeeter
    @vinskeeter 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    Old fashioned ignorance, racism, intolerance, hatred and fear are what motivate these people.

  • @janicelloyd3215
    @janicelloyd3215 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Yes it’s racism. The racists vote for the racist. The race shouldn’t be this close. I live in solid red confederacy, a tiny blue dot. No one to talk to. I’m glad I found you.

  • @Adaisy45
    @Adaisy45 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    What helped me was listening to Tony Schwartz’s interviews on Trump. Schwartz really wrote the Art of the Deal and explains how he knows Trump better than anyone but his wives. You tube has several of them and really opened my eyes to him.

    • @jennifer60515
      @jennifer60515 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Have you told people who support Donald to watch those clips? They might listen to you.

  • @hughcules7012
    @hughcules7012 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    You can't use logic and reason with a person that didn't come to their conclusions with reason and logic.

    • @hirampriggott1689
      @hirampriggott1689 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      "There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge" - Isaac Asimov

    • @hirampriggott1689
      @hirampriggott1689 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      "There is a cult of ignorance in the United States, and there has always been. The strain of anti-intellectualism has been a constant thread winding its way through our political and cultural life, nurtured by the false notion that democracy means that my ignorance is just as good as your knowledge" - Isaac Asimov

    • @Savalatte
      @Savalatte 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@hirampriggott1689 It's not anti-intellectualism per se, it's religion. Look up Christian Nationalism "prophets" and ideas. It's a cult that needs de-programming. You can only fix it by dealing directly with this topic in terms of debate and condemning their ideas by mocking them as stupid, evil, and crazy. Talking around the topic (guns, the economy, education, etc.) does NOT work. Ignoring it sure doesn't work.

  • @j.r.1823
    @j.r.1823 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    Thank you for this honest and realistic video!
    You're absolutely right, calling them names or doubting their intellectual abilities won't lead us anywhere. (Even though it might be tempting, especially because some Trump supporters act so superior themselves and can be quick with insults too.) You're right, we need to try to stay calm, even if it's hard.
    I like how you point out to mention that we read and hear different things than they do (even though unfortunately they think that we are the ones who get brainwashed by the media).
    It truly is so sad and crazy how whole narratives, like the one how common people and conservative politicians see and treat Russia could change so quickly and completely.
    I'm originally from Europe, now living in the US. I always thought that the US is so anti communism, they would never even think about being "friends" or partners with a country like Russia. Now I hear propaganda from the right that the Ukraine is the real threat and other complete bs like that.
    It's ridiculous. It is honestly shocking how much media propaganda can change people's minds.
    Thank you again for this video, you are a smart, reasonable and down to earth human. I appreciate you!

  • @Jam-m7m
    @Jam-m7m 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +32

    You Vote Blue. That’s how you talk to them 😊 😎

    • @chefmastermikecmm8465
      @chefmastermikecmm8465 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      💯

    • @SBphd
      @SBphd 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are not smart. Democrats are the racists. They picked a VP candidate (Harris) based on race; side stepped democracy by selecting Harris as the presidential nominee. I can go on and on. You are uninformed and a danger to our Republic.

  • @corynixon66
    @corynixon66 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Rule # 1 in my book is: Speak to them at a 6 yr. old. level.

    • @SBphd
      @SBphd 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      You are not smart. Democrats are the racists. They picked a VP candidate (Harris) based on race; side stepped democracy by selecting Harris as the presidential nominee. I can go on and on. You are uninformed and a danger to our Republic.

  • @ConstanceDawley
    @ConstanceDawley 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I have a cousin who has always been the sister I didn’t get. We sit on opposite political sides and it was clear in 2016 that she was very much trump entrenched. It was clear I could not change her views but I would not give trump the power to destroy a relationship that was so precious to me. When we visit, politics is taboo but it is the elephant (literally & figuratively) in the room. Trump politics has divided this country in so many unforgivable ways. I loathe him for that.

    • @tomworthjr
      @tomworthjr  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      It’s tough. Hang in there.

  • @latishajaubert5600
    @latishajaubert5600 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +20

    I choose not to associate with them

  • @willcool713
    @willcool713 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    The real question is how we cull archaic dispositions and ill behaviors from society?

    • @dennisshaw7153
      @dennisshaw7153 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      The out of control propaganda media needs to be stopped.

  • @stereo8893
    @stereo8893 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    My hope is that he'll be in jail sometime after the election. It's hard to tweet from jail. Maybe it will end there. I don't know.

  • @tyschisler
    @tyschisler 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I’m a Harley-Davidson riding registered Independent, twice Obama-voter, but recently realized center-Right conservative born and raised in… Los Angeles. (yes, the accused despicable land of California) I am proud of my complexities and where I come from and I am grateful you made it to my TH-cam feed. These videos you’ve posted the past few weeks reflect a kind of man that I can only hope to be. Your voice in these delicate and desperate days of our country deserves to be on every broadcast and heard by every voting American. You are the very best of us, my friend. I am proud to know you are my fellow citizen. Keep the videos coming and hopefully your TH-cam reach will make a real difference. Thank you for the inspiration. I love our country.

    • @highwayman1218
      @highwayman1218 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Harley rider too ( who cares ). So Cal resident. Guess what youve been a part of the problem with CA.... AT WHAT POINT DO YOU REALIZE BLUE POLICIES ARE KILLING THIS STATE? How many years of Democrat rule of this state and things getting worse and worse do you need before you figure a change is needed?

  • @tommygamba170
    @tommygamba170 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I accept that people voting for Trump would vote for putin as well. Which makes them a communist what makes Trump a communist.

  • @eilenetoomey-balas3479
    @eilenetoomey-balas3479 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +50

    VOTE BLUE.💙💙💙

    • @KrazyPeople-ux2mn
      @KrazyPeople-ux2mn 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

      th-cam.com/video/TGtYzknvU4A/w-d-xo.htmlsi=bhzX7llf96JcsNri

    • @Domj618
      @Domj618 11 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Wrong ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ trump is the only one who is going to win ❤❤❤

  • @susanlee8023
    @susanlee8023 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    I appreciate this so much. Thank you for sharing it.

  • @Coops5361
    @Coops5361 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Compassion for the conned. Contempt for the conmen.

  • @skepticaloptimist7444
    @skepticaloptimist7444 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I'm grateful for this StumbleUpon. I appreciate the fact that rather than the all caps hyperbolic click bait approach you've chosen to simply state your views. And you reminded me in my moments of great frustration not to be snarky and condescending. I will share this. Thank you.💙

  • @maryherrera8603
    @maryherrera8603 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    You're so respectful.

  • @vesnx
    @vesnx 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +17

    Good video, not a lot of views. Iam really glad the algorithm introduced me to you. Keep up the great work 👍

  • @pauljewel6988
    @pauljewel6988 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Just say that a Relative of yours was a POW and he/she was your Hero, and that any POW is a Hero.

    • @denisesargent1440
      @denisesargent1440 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Great statement! POWerful!!! I’m going to try this, thank you Paul! 💙🇺🇸💙

  • @Victorseafog
    @Victorseafog 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +16

    Its a waste of time. Understand where they stand in your life. Some write off and stay calm. Others like my sisters family just keep the peace best you can and blow it off. You can't get people out of a cult. Avoid any political talk.

  • @DP-og2oq
    @DP-og2oq 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    MAGA foments HATRED . I don’t hate DT, I just will never vote for someone like him regardless of his so-called policies. He only uses policies as a ‘punch line’ knowing he needs to mention them occasionally. From the perspective of mine and many others, he doesn’t really care about policies, just power, adulation and money. A friend of mine is MAGA (I found out after 10 years of friendship, as we never discussed politics). We agreed that we would never agree and don’t discuss politics any longer. I did take note that he used the word ’hate’ quite a bit referencing woke, transgender, LGBT etc. Seems to be very evident that he’s been indoctrinated to MAGA.

  • @troylee3179
    @troylee3179 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    As a Christian I ask Trump followers of faith whom do you serve. Trump was asked this question... Have you ever asked God for forgiveness. Trumps answer... No I have never done anything that would require me to do so. Christians know what that means so don't say he is a man of faith. Look it up for yourselves

  • @UnifyToday
    @UnifyToday 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I can't even look them in the eyes much less have a conversation with them.

  • @DW10463
    @DW10463 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    Do not bother talking to them. They refuse to listen.

  • @patrickwilson2650
    @patrickwilson2650 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    I don't talk to them. There is no reasoning with them.

  • @dsabey2274
    @dsabey2274 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Don’t waste your breath.

  • @6.5x55
    @6.5x55 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    Talk? I should think a series of grunts would be all they can handle.

  • @lemonaid3510
    @lemonaid3510 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    It is destroying family units.Nov 5th will hopefully be the start of the long road of the healing process.

  • @JA-jm8bk
    @JA-jm8bk 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Absent the racists & religious zealots, we need to talk more about the anatomical & physiological differences in the brains of critical & non-critical thinkers. The reputable media needs to start focusing on why some people are vulnerable to sources of information that spew illogical information. Also, highlighting the logical progression between autocratic policies & the dissolution of democracy (if they even know what democracy is).

    • @tandyweelzebubba9152
      @tandyweelzebubba9152 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Lead exposure may have something to do with it.

    • @thecatfarm
      @thecatfarm 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Critical thinking can be taught.

  • @darkmanzz
    @darkmanzz 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    i have no friends that are trump supporters...and i humiliate everyone i see with facts,logic and history

  • @timwhite7127
    @timwhite7127 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    I've found that a coloring book with crayons and a doll so they can point to where their uncles used to 'touch' them is useful...

    • @zen-Tii
      @zen-Tii 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

      “Where did the big Orange man touch you?”

    • @Daglato
      @Daglato 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

      I feel guilty admitting it but you made me lol.

    • @eilenetoomey-balas3479
      @eilenetoomey-balas3479 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      😂😂😂

  • @unicalo3010
    @unicalo3010 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Tell them voting doesn’t do nothing
    N hoping they don’t vote 🤷🏻‍♀️
    You as a democrat
    Go vote 💙💙💙

  • @kennethgustin758
    @kennethgustin758 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I would suggest following Walt Whitman's advice, as made popular by Ted Lasso: "Be curious, not judgemental." That is, rather than try to convince them of anything, seek instead to genuinely understand them. Find out why they see things that way. I suspect we will all find that we agree more than we disagree on matters of import. Help them understand your level of agreement...find common ground. Even if you end up not agreeing on an issue you will at least understand them better and they will understand you better. Neither will see the other side as "crazy" or "stupid" or "evil". Instead we will see a bit of ourselves in them which takes down the temperature and begins to build a foundation to find solutions through collaboration and not confrontation.

  • @burntpopcorn7543
    @burntpopcorn7543 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I have a MAGA BIL - long commute for job while listening to right-wing talk shows = believing crazy Trumpian conspiracy theories

  • @Arizonawatercolors
    @Arizonawatercolors 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The word “HATRED” comes from two words: “RED & HAT”. Coincidence? I think not.💙

  • @designchik
    @designchik 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Thank you for this video, but I’m afraid Trumpets are too far gone. I’ve had violent arguments with my ex FIL regarding Trump, and absolutely nothing shakes his resolve. However, for anyone on this thread who gets it, I watched a brand new movie last night called “Untruth,” the follow up to the “Unfit” movie. It delves deeply into the psychology of Trump voters and clearly paints a picture of the deep danger we are in. I highly recommend you send it to anyone who is wavering on their vote or perhaps not voting at all, which is hard to believe, but here we are.

  • @bibigems
    @bibigems 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    Makes sense to be calm and intelligent responses to a trump voter.

  • @melindajudy8742
    @melindajudy8742 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Talking to Trump supporters is so exasperating. They already have their minds made up and its impossible to reason with them.

  • @marsrii4372
    @marsrii4372 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    You can’t reach trump voters, and besides, looking into that abyss of darkness could be psychologically damaging.

  • @yelenayakovleva7901
    @yelenayakovleva7901 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    Hard topic. I do believe so that more Trump supporters start to educate themselves on their own and start to distance themselves from him. Maybe not in big numbers, but I think it is happening. Agree, that it is better to stay calm with people who has their own strong opinions on things. My best experience with arguments was to tell the guy that he is free to believe in what he is believing, and I respect that, but I have my own opinion, and it is based on my life experience. It was before Trump was elected. When another guy asked me what I think about Trump, I told him that a con artist always will stay as a con artist. I think folks who support Trump like the life stories, some wisdom excerpts with a spin of some drama, they are sensitive in their own way. I do understand them but have different values from their perspective. It is just sad, that they've been played by their emotions. Sorry for long comment.

    • @vesnx
      @vesnx 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Share your knowledge and experience, it might help a total stranger like me.

    • @yelenayakovleva7901
      @yelenayakovleva7901 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      @@vesnx Hi, there. I think that the best approach it is to start casual conversation, and not mention politic or religion, and just talk about life and giving some samples which are in some contradiction with the opponent viewpoint. Don't try to prove anything, just tell life stories, people react to it, and even if they not showing, it will be in their minds after all. And if it is a nut case scenario, then don't be disappointed, usually that type needs some calming therapy, so understand, that the human is not hundred percent him or her -self. In some cases, opponent could have his own viewpoint on things, and it is good to agree on good things, it will show that you are not an enemy to the human being in front of you. Whoever grooming the Trump supporters minds they partly using the military tactic, to create an enemy out of opposition, it is dangerous, but we just have to be patient and calm. Eventually, at least some people will come to the common sense. Hope it helps.

    • @Savalatte
      @Savalatte 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

      The problem is NOT Trump, he's just the vehicle and they'll look for another politican just like him next. The root of the problem is their superstitous religous beliefs which has gotten much more extreme over time. If way more people would start addressing this topic we could finally get somewhere. We also have to mock people for being unscientific and superstitous but the catch is that LOTS of people have to do it to be effective. More people need to tell them they should be ashamed to live in such an advanced nation and yet be so superstitous and ignorant.

  • @sarahbrome5564
    @sarahbrome5564 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I don’t talk to Trump voters anymore. Ever.

  • @woodrowsmith8333
    @woodrowsmith8333 4 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Never argue with idiots. They drag you down to their level and beat you with experience!

  • @jennifer60515
    @jennifer60515 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It’s difficult. I have never met a person more afraid of facts and evidence than one of his fans. I actually have a cousin who I consider to be an intelligent person. He told me that Donald is the only president during his lifetime to donate his salary. He really thought that meant something because they don’t understand or believe that he has taken our government and governments around the world for hundreds of millions of dollars by having the Secret Service and heads of state stay at his golf courses and his other grifts. They really think he’s interested in the country.

  • @Level10Productions
    @Level10Productions 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Hey. I just lost yet another friend to the MAGA party because I tried to have a political discussion about Trump. I'm not trying to change his mind, that won't happen. I didn't even know he was MAGA. He acted as though I had committed some horrible blasphemy toward his religious god and just flat out blocked my wife and I on Facebook and refuses to talk about it, end of story! We are all still Americans, or so I thought, but knowing I'm not a Trumper he unfreinds us both? (including my wife?) How do we ever move forward from here as Americans? Guess we find out soon enough.

    • @cherylhelm7797
      @cherylhelm7797 วันที่ผ่านมา

      They were not friends just acquaintances!

    • @Level10Productions
      @Level10Productions วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@cherylhelm7797 yes, that's true. But like everything else trump, divide, divide, divide. That's NEVER good for ANY country. Ever!

  • @dannyanderson2513
    @dannyanderson2513 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    It's difficult to win an argument with someone who is locked into ideology

    • @tomworthjr
      @tomworthjr  8 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Some would say “impossible.”

  • @1chumley1
    @1chumley1 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    Pretend they are 3rd graders

  • @adrianasoldevila630
    @adrianasoldevila630 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I tried, given up, not worth my sanity and time. I’ll vote for Harris, that’s all I can do.

  • @emmettarts1723
    @emmettarts1723 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Some family members are glued to the television at decibels that would make your ears bleed. The level of rage, 24/7 has some severe negative effects. I only go over to help them get their projects done. If the television is on, I leave that space. I used to engage with them, but there is little common ground. So my visits have become less and less. My peace of mind is more important. My advice is to vote. Find your people and vote. I have even turned off the television at my own home. I read books and do things that bring me joy. I wear my Harris/Walz shirt in public and say nothing unless I’m asked. I am voting my conscience. If someone asks my opinion, I will say, “do you genuinely want to know?” Sometimes I can get into a conversation without verbal attacks. Thanks for the post.

  • @maryrykert-wolf1725
    @maryrykert-wolf1725 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    From Buffalo, NY, graduated from Canisius in '92: a Jesuit institution, like Georgetown.

  • @ey67
    @ey67 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Don't talk. They don't listen. Runaway.

  • @CrazyLaurel
    @CrazyLaurel 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Former Trumper, and have many friends and family members who are still all-in for the orange menace. It seems, almost without a formal arrangement, we don't talk politics anymore. Instead, we speak about what have in common, which is alot.

    • @monicadefreitas8776
      @monicadefreitas8776 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      I’m wondering what changed your mind about Trump.

    • @CrazyLaurel
      @CrazyLaurel 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

      @@monicadefreitas8776 January 6, 2021.

  • @jaydennis1999
    @jaydennis1999 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    The people who claim to be thick skinned and alpha absolutely crumble under the tiniest amount of scrutiny. The fact that we have to handle these drones with kids gloves is sickening, considering how much damage they’ve wrought with their affinity for disinformation. That’s my venting, you’re otherwise giving good rhetoric/conversational tools.

  • @janicelloyd3215
    @janicelloyd3215 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I believe she will win. But Trump will cause as much trouble as he can. He is afraid of her, he will probably act up then.😊

  • @kristieshaw4806
    @kristieshaw4806 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    keep em coming

  • @thisthat-ku2dr
    @thisthat-ku2dr 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    I don't talk to garbage.

  • @stephaniewalsh67
    @stephaniewalsh67 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    In my case I cut ties with my brother. He wanted ro have "conversations" about Trump. He would text me disgusting memes and insult me regularly. I warned him so many times to stop his behavior but he continued so I made the choice to be done with him.😢

  • @janicelloyd3215
    @janicelloyd3215 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Trump is too old, he could crash and leave us with the boy.

  • @chrisg6091
    @chrisg6091 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    It’s a cult. By definition, cult members cannot be reasoned with.

  • @spiralflame88
    @spiralflame88 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Something that I have rarely seen mentioned is that Project 2025 is banning porn. Yes, porn! I can guarantee you that Trump voters will start flipping when they catch wind of this. Nobody wants to lose their porn.

    • @Savalatte
      @Savalatte 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Something I read made me think that their version of porn was LGBTQ being "groomers"

  • @DeadCat-42
    @DeadCat-42 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    If they argue when I say 2+2=4 because it makes Trump look bad, I can't do much. If they have based their entire world view on "alternative facts" or "Fox Facts" it's pointless.

  • @BrianOsler
    @BrianOsler 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The thing that’s so challenging is that he’s basically conditioned them to immediately push back the moment they hear anything negative or disparaging they immediately shut down. My immediate family and sister in law are all supporting him and when I try to have a conversation and explain my point of view they just try to cut it off before it even begins. I can’t even get to anything of substance.

  • @Keepitkind7
    @Keepitkind7 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The many Republicans I know are holding their nose for Trump and voting on policy...unaware that character matters, worse yet that clearly bad character is dangerous. I tried, but arguing the blinded seems futile. Character matters to them in all aspects including hiring pet sitters...but not a president. They've been locked in right-wing commentary and aren't aware of facts or nuance nor hearing direct from Trump. They don't have time. I should know, my husband is one (not crazy MAGA tough). I love him all the same. It's a hard go. But it teaches us to debate, not hate-debate headlines anyway. Haha.

  • @HelgaEndres
    @HelgaEndres 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm sharing this my groupies. Tks Tom

    • @tomworthjr
      @tomworthjr  11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Thanks for sharing!!

  • @Jabulani926
    @Jabulani926 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "You cannot reason a person out of a position he has not reasoned himself into."

  • @stanleyhunter4382
    @stanleyhunter4382 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Some people are just gullible while others are more skeptical. I listen to what Trump says. I know that when a politician is constantly saying, "Look at those awful people over there" it's to divide and conquer...or to pick my pocket.

  • @gener.1253
    @gener.1253 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    The only way to talk to them is to sit them down with a box of crayons and coloring book.

  • @81654
    @81654 10 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Karma-la is coming for Trump 💙💙💙💙

  • @kipper757
    @kipper757 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you! I have been wondering about this issue for years now.

  • @lifeandfaith
    @lifeandfaith 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Well, alrighty then. I've had that book "Fear", but I've been afraid to read it! Guess I should. Change of topic. Perhaps next time you talk to someone like your friend, you can calmly mention that Trump did say that he will "fix it so we never have to vote again". And that kind of thing is not something that a lot of people are comfortable with.

  • @lifeonthefarm6001
    @lifeonthefarm6001 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I had a guy on here tell me that Trump never said military service members are “ losers and suckers”. He told me to post links, so I did. I spammed him back with numerous links to reputable news sources where they mentioned this very thing and all he had to say was that I never posted any links lol.

  • @lisaratley4858
    @lisaratley4858 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    You can’t talk to them about politics. Sad that everything is political to them.

  • @starshake8998
    @starshake8998 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    don't

  • @Starfish2145
    @Starfish2145 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I just won’t. Don’t have the patience.

  • @gailboerwinkle9315
    @gailboerwinkle9315 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Good to watch.

  • @gazellesneedlework7057
    @gazellesneedlework7057 12 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Yes, yes, and yes….🇺🇸

  • @highwayman1218
    @highwayman1218 11 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    😂 Here for the comments...