Listening to your story of perseverance to reach a struggling client, brought me to tears. Thank you for helping that woman who clearly needed your compassion and help. I have been trying to find a coach or therapist in the US that could do the same for me .... after 5 failed attempts (somehow my problems illicit contempt instead of compassion here), I am glad to hear that my counterparts there was the lucky recipient of that which I seek to no avail here. Thank you for your humanity to that client ❤
Keep trying cuz it’s normal. It took me 20 people before I found what I was looking for. Ask for 10-15 min free intro and see if it’s a fit. I’m in the USA and I can share contacts if you want
I have had chronic illness not depression for many years and it is very common for us to see the behavior of health professional: hopeless. It is like we have to manage their feelings. It is very sad. I try not to go see health professionals as much because they r hopeless. We patients aren’t …. Amazingly sad
Mark, I am not sure if you read the comments on your TH-cam videos, but I am very, very happy to see you back. This video coincidentally was released at a time when I feel like I am failing my clients.
Brilliant! Thank you for also mentioning feeling other’s emotions. Every one is an empath. I realised the hard way wondering why I (normally in love with all life) felt so angry I could kill walking back from town. I have to pass drug dealers🤔 Now I feel a huge sadness while shopping. I’m sure you can catch emotions from the atmosphere. Hoping we can infect the air with good vibes.
I haven’t watched yet, but I have like 20 of your videos on my tabs to watch and I have pen and paper ready when I do. Think of going for masters next year and your videos are rich with information. Thank you!
Due to life or others impacting us we do find it hard to trust and talk to people. (Safeguarding concerns). You showed the bit of love one is needed sir. You found a way and you didn’t give up. You understand us 🙏. Thank you for teaching others.
Why not be honest? There might be a different therapist with better "chemistry". And when the client has had four therapists in a row, this tells a story that has to be told and the client has to see that.
Excellent to see your videos Mark, and wonderfully encouraging to hear inventive creative ways to think outside of the box with our more seemingly hopeless clients
I am really curious about why was Denise in such a state. Story about Robert was really funny to me because it reminded me of myself. Thank you a lot for this video because it made me understand my past. I went to therapy 2 times a month for a year and a half and I was getting worse the whole time. Now I see that my therapist was using some of these tehniques on me, unfortunately without any progress. In the end, I quit therapy and was in a dark place for a long time. I though not even therapy can help me (medications also didn't help), and that I was the problem, that I was doing something wrong, so it made me feel even worse. If I can even say that, because at that time I literally wasn't capable of feeling emotions. I was also angry on my therapist for not doing good enough, because I thought everyone who come to therapist is in my condition or worse. But this video gave me perspective. I didn't know how challenging it was for my therapist to approach me. Now I am in a better place, thanks to God. Thank you a lot for your videos, your stories are entertaining and approach to problems very insightful. All the best
Not sure if it's useful to view these as a non therapist. I can't afford therapy yet find these videos fascinating. Getting to view behind the veil is intriguing
I find it very helpful. Sometimes I find a technique that I can utilize myself. Sometimes I am able to say to myself "I knew that old therapist was full of 💩. They should have said/done ____" And other times I say to myself "I have to remember this with the new therapist"
Hello Mark, that was terrific! Impeccable timing. Something we/I needed to hear sooner or later. Thank you for your wonderful demeanor and deliberate clarity.
Thank you, Mark, for your video. Very Inspiring! If I may inquire how you finished that 'guided meditation' with her - did you guide her all the way down from the tip of the rock? Thanks!
Oh thank you! I can't believe how apposite this is for a client I have currently. Particularly as I'm an English Counsellor working in France and my client is a landscaper! So helpful 🙏
As counsellors and psychotherapists we should not be tempted to wipe away client tears.This is rescuing or in a way asking the client to stop..bye offering tissues.The tissues should be placed within the clients reach..and the client autonomy whether to use the tissues or not.Thanks.
I fully agree. In healthy 12-step meetings, this is also the case. Offering a tissue during someone’s share is usually viewed as cross-talk (interrupting someone’s train of thought)
You need to upload your diploma to NARIC and then email psychology society to ask what you need to do. To be a psychologist in uk in general you need an English diploma
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Listening to your story of perseverance to reach a struggling client, brought me to tears. Thank you for helping that woman who clearly needed your compassion and help.
I have been trying to find a coach or therapist in the US that could do the same for me .... after 5 failed attempts (somehow my problems illicit contempt instead of compassion here), I am glad to hear that my counterparts there was the lucky recipient of that which I seek to no avail here.
Thank you for your humanity to that client ❤
Keep trying cuz it’s normal. It took me 20 people before I found what I was looking for. Ask for 10-15 min free intro and see if it’s a fit. I’m in the USA and I can share contacts if you want
@@tatianahawaii13 I agree. In my experience (and others I know):
25% of therapists are outright bad at their job
50% are just sympathetic parrots
@@Nyx773 ♥️
I have had chronic illness not depression for many years and it is very common for us to see the behavior of health professional: hopeless. It is like we have to manage their feelings. It is very sad. I try not to go see health professionals as much because they r hopeless. We patients aren’t …. Amazingly sad
Mark, I am not sure if you read the comments on your TH-cam videos, but I am very, very happy to see you back. This video coincidentally was released at a time when I feel like I am failing my clients.
Great to see you back again 👍🏼
Brilliant!
Thank you for also mentioning feeling other’s emotions. Every one is an empath. I realised the hard way wondering why I (normally in love with all life) felt so angry I could kill walking back from town. I have to pass drug dealers🤔 Now I feel a huge sadness while shopping. I’m sure you can catch emotions from the atmosphere. Hoping we can infect the air with good vibes.
We certainly missed you. Loving the new look! 😁
You have taught me so much. Thank you for sharing your experience and wisdom! 🤗🤗🤗
I haven’t watched yet, but I have like 20 of your videos on my tabs to watch and I have pen and paper ready when I do. Think of going for masters next year and your videos are rich with information. Thank you!
Great to see you after ages 👍🏻 welcome back
Thanks for your videos! I've learned more from your videos than in most of my classes.
Due to life or others impacting us we do find it hard to trust and talk to people. (Safeguarding concerns). You showed the bit of love one is needed sir. You found a way and you didn’t give up. You understand us 🙏. Thank you for teaching others.
Well done buddy, mental health is a horrible thing to experience ♥
Never give up on someone
Why not be honest? There might be a different therapist with better "chemistry". And when the client has had four therapists in a row, this tells a story that has to be told and the client has to see that.
Some people are DOA. Dead On Arrival.
Excellent to see your videos Mark, and wonderfully encouraging to hear inventive creative ways to think outside of the box with our more seemingly hopeless clients
Great advice! Thanks.
So happy to see you are back, hope you have been well!
Mark, hi, we missed you :D
I am really curious about why was Denise in such a state. Story about Robert was really funny to me because it reminded me of myself. Thank you a lot for this video because it made me understand my past. I went to therapy 2 times a month for a year and a half and I was getting worse the whole time. Now I see that my therapist was using some of these tehniques on me, unfortunately without any progress. In the end, I quit therapy and was in a dark place for a long time. I though not even therapy can help me (medications also didn't help), and that I was the problem, that I was doing something wrong, so it made me feel even worse. If I can even say that, because at that time I literally wasn't capable of feeling emotions. I was also angry on my therapist for not doing good enough, because I thought everyone who come to therapist is in my condition or worse. But this video gave me perspective. I didn't know how challenging it was for my therapist to approach me. Now I am in a better place, thanks to God. Thank you a lot for your videos, your stories are entertaining and approach to problems very insightful. All the best
Really useful, thanks Mark. Thumbs up for the beard too.
Not sure if it's useful to view these as a non therapist. I can't afford therapy yet find these videos fascinating. Getting to view behind the veil is intriguing
I find it very helpful. Sometimes I find a technique that I can utilize myself.
Sometimes I am able to say to myself "I knew that old therapist was full of 💩. They should have said/done ____"
And other times I say to myself "I have to remember this with the new therapist"
Thank you for this. You are indeed a therapist I truly admire...:-)
Hello Mark, that was terrific! Impeccable timing. Something we/I needed to hear sooner or later. Thank you for your wonderful demeanor and deliberate clarity.
Great content ❤
Mark, so glad to see you back. Very interesting video. Thank you!
I greatly appreciate all of the knowledge you have shared in your channel.
Thank you, Mark, for your video. Very Inspiring! If I may inquire how you finished that 'guided meditation' with her - did you guide her all the way down from the tip of the rock? Thanks!
Oh thank you! I can't believe how apposite this is for a client I have currently. Particularly as I'm an English Counsellor working in France and my client is a landscaper! So helpful 🙏
Good to see you Mark ! Thank you fir your work ❤️
THE RETURN OF THE KING!
I had discovered your channel a week ago and was so sad to see that your last upload was 6 months ago but I'm so happy to see your new video!
I needed this!
Hi Mark, I love the longer videos!
Oh, and your new beard looks great!
thank you for this mark, your work has some incredible value! greets from argentina.
Brillant and useful and helpful, as usual. Thank you
You’re my favorite.
As counsellors and psychotherapists we should not be tempted to wipe away client tears.This is rescuing or in a way asking the client to stop..bye offering tissues.The tissues should be placed within the clients reach..and the client autonomy whether to use the tissues or not.Thanks.
I fully agree.
In healthy 12-step meetings, this is also the case.
Offering a tissue during someone’s share is usually viewed as cross-talk (interrupting someone’s train of thought)
Thanks for this.
I also have a recommendation for codependency treatment please.
Please make video on death Anxiety disorder
Wonderful!
welcome back.
Hi Mark, can you tell me how can I get jobs in psychology in UK with a master degree from India? Do I need to have any registration?
You need to upload your diploma to NARIC and then email psychology society to ask what you need to do. To be a psychologist in uk in general you need an English diploma
@@Chthonic_Her thank you
BPS graduate membership in UK.
Hope you are healthy...u look so different than usual
It’s just beard
I think his previous videos were actually recorded a while ago
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Don't Do What 'aint' Working.
hahaa oh my life, take it off.