What’s It Like to Date After Breast Cancer | TDK Podcast
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 24 ก.ค. 2024
- What's it like having to remove your breasts at 27? When should I tell my partner that I have no breasts? Does that make me less of a woman?
TDK sits down with Phylaine, who shares her story about surviving stage 4 breast cancer, and how she coped financially.
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Cast:
• Johnathan Chua / johnathanchua
• Daniel Lim / danlim11
• Jonathan Paul / jonathanpaul.sxw
• Denise Oh / ohthedenise
Behind the Cam:
• Nashrul Merza
• Julian Chin
• Daren Khek
• Charlene Goh
• Amirul Nashtrie
Edited by:
Alison Tan
00:00 Intro
1:00 How did Phylaine discover she had breast cancer?
6:36 Initial thoughts and fears after getting the news
8:38 How should people approach the topic of cancer with survivors?
9:23 Handling finances for cancer treatments
10:59 John's testicle check-up
12:21 Chemotherapy
14:01 Insecurities about losing hair
16:08 Confidence is a Women's Sexiness
17:02 Would you still love your partner if they go through physical changes?
17:42 Getting a double mastectomy
24:04 Being in remission and fearing a relapse
24:48 The important of Insurance
26:29 Limitations during treatment
27:24 FWD Plug
28:09 Does getting cancer affect dating?
29:23 When and how do you tell your date/partner about cancer?
32:21 Phylaine's miracle
33:31 Struggles of mothers and women with cancer
34:22 Finding the good in the difficult times
35:21 Insurance helping on the journey
35:38 How to navigate social situations with cancer
36:31 Does your r/s change with you parents before and after cancer?
38:21 Outro
39:05 Bloopers - บันเทิง
Top tier guest
Phylaine is such an inspiration. May God bless her & her young family abundantly.
Phylaine is so positive and strong. So inspiring.
Not everyone who goes through similar ordeals can be like this. So we can be more kind and show more empathy towards everyone.
Hang in there to all cancer survivors, cancer fighters and everyone else out there. May you be able to get through whatever struggles you are facing at the moment.
The baby twist was crazy! I was in that rollercoaster with Dan and John. I'm so glad the baby is fine
As a straight guy I truly think that this lady is attractive from the way she carries herself and speaks, and I couldn’t put my finger on it until she mentioned it - confidence. She’s not like other podcasters who seem loud and overly eager to entertain - she’s just herself and yet manages to capture our attention from the way she tells her story. Her calm demeanour and candour exudes real confidence. I agree with her. With or without breasts or hair, you can definitely still be attractive. She is a living example.
I love how you guys interview "real" people. And to the lady, I love your positivity. Not everyone is like you, but I hope I can be someone like you through dark times.
Thank you, Phylaine, for your fearless storytelling and your positivity throughout. Good bless. Thank you, TDK team. Such topics are so encouraging.
A genuinely inspiring person. Really admire her positive attitude and seeing the good in things despite the huge amount of hardship
Bruhh Denise really threw Jon under the bus with that opening line 💀
Hahahahahahahaha i laughed so hard looking at John's expression
They complete with : oh they die already...
This whole conversation so true yet is convey in such a light mood. Love it
Thank you for this video. Ladies, pls check your boobs regularly to detect any abnormalities and get it check. Early detection n treatment saves u.
And yes, pls buy insurance cos u never know when illness hits u. I was diagnosed w breast cancer too, now still undergoing chemo. For those who are fighting cancer, stay positive and cheerful, u will get thru this! 💪
Thank you Phylaine for sharing your journey and may Gods grace continue to be with u and your family. 🙏😊
Really enjoyed the episode with Phylaine!
The curveball at 32:20 was very executed too 😀
What a beautiful soul inside and out!! Thank you for sharing your powerful story Phylaine!
What a story! Such positivity and inspiration! Bless you, Phylaine!
We need more humans like these in this world! Congrats on ur recovery! Wish u have a happy life moving forward!
So happy for her progress...shes so positive...such an inspiration
What a wonderful guest! Thank you for sharing your stories
Really glad that there's so much positivity in the podcast, thank you for sharing about your story
John Paul at 17:00 😆
Love Phylaine's attitude truly, she's the kind of person that doesn't take life too seriously and brings joy to the people around her!! Favourite guest so far and super informative ep!
Thanks for sharing so much and being so brave!
Thank you for sharing your story. You are so brave and confident
She is such a positive and cheerful person. Love how she talks as well~
this is a very educational series and more guys should watch.
One of my fav episodes cuz I just love her vibes! Thanks tdk once again :)
So so inspiring, thank you!
love phylaine!!! such a bright spark!! wishing her all the best!!!
The energy in this video, awesome
May God bless this inspirational lady ☺️☺️☺️ elude with so much positivity from within 😄😄😄
She is so pleasant to watch.
Health insurance is very important. I also managed to reinstate my hospitalisation insurance before I got a heart attack a few months after @ 30 y.o.
love the positive vibe and inspiring attitude 😍
Such an inspiring and amazing person!! 👏🏻👏🏻👏🏻
I had a bc scare recently and a core biopsy was done. I was told it’s Stage 0 and am encouraged to do a mammogram in a year’s time. Had no symptoms was just a chance I had done mammogram together with some gfs. Although I read women above a certain age ought to do the mammogram, I would feel women should do it at a younger age as cancer can happen to anyone, at any age.
Really enjoyed this inspiring episode!
Such an inspiration!!
Phylaine is hilarious lol her sense of humour is ELITE
such an amazing person!
Love her positivity
You are very strong woman, I respect you.
I love this woman
Silverlining of getting cancer is being able to just stop work without much guilt.
Good Content.
We love you Phylaineeee ❤
her hair looks good
Really love Phylaine attitude lol
“Nuh nuh nuh nuh nuh yeah” 😂 she is a vibe ❤
WHAT! Praise God!
thank you for pointing out the bit on the doctor casually blurting out "cancer ah", doctors please deliver bad news with abit more heart
She's so cool i cri
she's so pretty???!!?!?!??!
HOLY SHIT THAT PLOT TWIST
i was more boombazeld by the air tag for water bottle 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
The ultra sound part, the picture is fr one ah? Why like got face one
That's actually not ultrasound, that's actually nuclear medicine imaging. The face looking thing is actually the thyroid gland. You can tell that the dark spots everywhere show that she has metastasis - - > stage 4 breast ca.
A bit sick of people asking "how are you feeling?".. tho I mean what else can your friends and family ask.. :/
Phylaine since u are in sg healthcare. what is the current take of sg in pd-l1 and super kart t-cell on late stages of cancer and even emrna on relapsing pancreatic cancer. i am not from MD side
for woman try not to mammogram before 35 cases for chances of false postive but if you suspect then go la
PTLord!
algo!
Can you invest Mr Leong Mun Wai?
Algoooooooooooooooooooo
first
First
I am a loser
Great interview 💥💥