11:24 Strongly agree with Jon , i wouldn't want to have my best friends' wives/husbands know about the personal matters I confide in them about, considering i barely know them or even trust them. I am best friends with them, not their partners.
Tbh I think it’s very unhealthy for couples to login to each others social media (like Instagram etc), and the habit of checking phone is a very bad habit to have in a relationship. Especially if things are taken out of context. It also reduces the excitement to tell each other about things because your partner would’ve seen it also on your telegram or Instagram Coz they’re also logged in on it. My bf have my passwords and vice versa but we don’t check each others phones. It’s more of for convenience like sometimes he can help me to reply chats etc. but not for “checking” purposes.
There is the question and courtesy of respecting the privacy of others. If I send a message to a friend to help a common colleague over some personal issues I don't expect my conversation to be read by the receiver's partner. Thats common sense.
25:30 about what Dan said, you should only trust your gut if you don't happen to have some obsessive/intrusive thoughts. I have seen plenty of people so convinced by their "gut" that something is going on, when nothing is actually going on, and it leads them to do very psychotic/obsessive things. If the person is an overthinker, I would say their gut is most of the time wrong lol.
Can you do a video about if it is okay to forgive a cheater? My partner cheated twice on me in a month and I found out seeing his payment notification, and he confess after. I still love him and want to forgive him, but I want to know if it would work out if both of us put in the work?
checking ur partner's phone is unhealthy, but using ur partner's phone is ok. i think there's a fine line between using ur partner's phone, maybe help with some things that can only be accessed through his phone and checking it where you excessively go through their messages - without them knowing / without telling them. And also, when you all share everything right from the beginning and after that one starts to hide / check your phone, you know something fishy is going on and a major red flag. But the point where you start finding things weird, n u have to check your partner's phone (or ur partner starts looking through ur phone), tha is a major red flag to just leave. Most of the time they are on the brink of looking for new partner or already have one :")
To be frank, checking the phone usually from the girl's side. Just nice I was doing a job that required me to lock the phones but before our relationship i did tell her why i have to lock then again I also worked for a company I have to liaison with a lot of people so I was given 2 phones plus one of my own plus a landline. I got three phones but i no gf that time so ok la
Can bring bck real talk n cast members like nicole n eric pls~ not saying daily catchup is bad but it's just different. I just miss real talk alot n enjoyed every eps secretly hoping for s3 for a long while but doesnt seem like there is any news so just wanted to make a small suggestion & hoping to be heard with considerations. Thank you~~
Dan... if your girl is thirsting to Edris Elba, Tom Hardy or any other celeb and is shouting "Marry Me" while you are right beside her... then she belongs to the streets bro.
My partner and I totally don’t check at all. For me, I rather not know anything. For the hubz, he said he is very confident of himself that I won’t cheat on him. 🫣🫣
Trust is like a paper, once it's crumpled it can't be perfect again.
Damnnn lit student here
That tiktok of a girl crushing paper-
Lol might as well say trust is like a hymen, once it's broken it can't be perfectly restored.
I miss Jon Chua where he go
He went to mayiduo talkshow
11:24 Strongly agree with Jon , i wouldn't want to have my best friends' wives/husbands know about the personal matters I confide in them about, considering i barely know them or even trust them. I am best friends with them, not their partners.
Tbh I think it’s very unhealthy for couples to login to each others social media (like Instagram etc), and the habit of checking phone is a very bad habit to have in a relationship. Especially if things are taken out of context. It also reduces the excitement to tell each other about things because your partner would’ve seen it also on your telegram or Instagram Coz they’re also logged in on it.
My bf have my passwords and vice versa but we don’t check each others phones. It’s more of for convenience like sometimes he can help me to reply chats etc. but not for “checking” purposes.
Agree with the calendar thing, not need to update daily on the things !
Trust is the most important thing of an relationship
+Kazami 56 And some people just can’t be trusted.
There is the question and courtesy of respecting the privacy of others. If I send a message to a friend to help a common colleague over some personal issues I don't expect my conversation to be read by the receiver's partner. Thats common sense.
25:30 about what Dan said, you should only trust your gut if you don't happen to have some obsessive/intrusive thoughts. I have seen plenty of people so convinced by their "gut" that something is going on, when nothing is actually going on, and it leads them to do very psychotic/obsessive things. If the person is an overthinker, I would say their gut is most of the time wrong lol.
Can you do a video about if it is okay to forgive a cheater?
My partner cheated twice on me in a month and I found out seeing his payment notification, and he confess after.
I still love him and want to forgive him, but I want to know if it would work out if both of us put in the work?
why john stop appearing 😅
man, I need that Clumzy Plumzy shirt
Dan the man just always kena when he explaining...
I need to unsubscribe. You are giving my partner too many ideas.
checking ur partner's phone is unhealthy, but using ur partner's phone is ok. i think there's a fine line between using ur partner's phone, maybe help with some things that can only be accessed through his phone and checking it where you excessively go through their messages - without them knowing / without telling them.
And also, when you all share everything right from the beginning and after that one starts to hide / check your phone, you know something fishy is going on and a major red flag.
But the point where you start finding things weird, n u have to check your partner's phone (or ur partner starts looking through ur phone), tha is a major red flag to just leave. Most of the time they are on the brink of looking for new partner or already have one :")
Trust is good but verification is better
Nice shoes Jon
as a gen z aged 17 i can confirm that we still use the normal last time telephone hand sign thing
Need John C on this episode to explain his view on it
To be frank, checking the phone usually from the girl's side. Just nice I was doing a job that required me to lock the phones but before our relationship i did tell her why i have to lock then again I also worked for a company I have to liaison with a lot of people so I was given 2 phones plus one of my own plus a landline. I got three phones but i no gf that time so ok la
Woman’s instincts are usually right.
11:50 wtf.....
JP can be a scriptwriter😅
cheating is wrong
Anyone notice Dennis looks like crowd lu the singer. Someone pls tell her that 😂
6PM daily
Can bring bck real talk n cast members like nicole n eric pls~ not saying daily catchup is bad but it's just different. I just miss real talk alot n enjoyed every eps secretly hoping for s3 for a long while but doesnt seem like there is any news so just wanted to make a small suggestion & hoping to be heard with considerations. Thank you~~
48 secs!
Dan... if your girl is thirsting to Edris Elba, Tom Hardy or any other celeb and is shouting "Marry Me" while you are right beside her... then she belongs to the streets bro.
Algooooooooooooooo
My partner and I totally don’t check at all. For me, I rather not know anything. For the hubz, he said he is very confident of himself that I won’t cheat on him. 🫣🫣