After seeing where you have come from over the last four years to where you are now you have no need to be concerned about what other people think. You are doing great, keep it up.
It takes an immense amount of courage to live the lifestyle you’ve chosen. Even more so when you factor in the balls it takes to expose your challenges and vulnerabilities to the whole world through social media. Nike, your life is filled with accomplishments. From my humble perspective, there’s no reason to doubt yourself. You’ve got this!
13:00 I love and respect SO MUCH that you are sharing this with us!! Thank you so much! If we´re being totally honest, it is a pretty damn good sign of inner strength that you are putting this out there, where anyone, including maria, can see this.
Okay, where to begin? Your blindingly beautiful happy smile when you said Dave and Maria were coming to be with you, or your verbal command of the Spanish language (that makes at least 3 that you have used fluently on your videos) or the incredible transformation that you've made in Karl (which most people would have run away from on first sight), or the incredible insights that you've shared and shared on this video regarding fears, insecurities, frustrations, joys, or the incredible filming that you've done and shared or is it just me being in total awe of you and think that you are an amazing person who is living her dream (sharing it with the public, knowing that there are critics and complainers who couldn't do 1/2 of what you've done). Nike, keep on keeping on and do what you think is best for you and Karl.
Thanks for sharing your true thoughts and emotions. That is a hard thing to do on a public site where comments can be brutal. As a viewer it made me feel like we just had a good cup of coffee together.
Hello, George here. I too spend most time solo... I understand what you are saying here about the effect of another human in your life space. Yes, it requires so much energy to be what I, and perhaps you too, anticipate " they" would expect me, or perhaps you, to do at any given moment. I have resisted commenting, til you mentioned this. I relate to your life as you live it and I feel a kindred similarity. Forgive my interruption if you will, and know that I truly like all that you have shared here. I earned a degree in Marine Technology years ago, and have worked at sea over some very interesting years. My life is as a carpenter now, and I have worked in some very nice boat yards too. I will be following your video shared journeys and I look forward to them. Smiling, George.
Du bist echt ne Inspiration. Nicht blablabla... Ganz ehrlich. Ein guter, alter Freund und ich schauen grade gebrauchte Segelyachten an, weil Du es uns vorgemacht hast. Danke.
Nike, I have been following you from the moment you published your first video arriving on Karl. I watched you rebuild her from a condition that most people would not have even attempted. Nike I am a professional Licensed Master with over 40 years experience on everything from Nuclear Submarines to small sailboats. You are a fantastic sailor, I would feel safe sailing with you on Karl or any other boat. Don't underestimate yourself. Maybe you should get out the rum and talk to your friend about your feelings about stress level while she is on the boat with you. Your A fine sailor in your own right . Didn't you know Nike that every captain thinks they are the best captain that ever sailed the sea. All you have to do is ask many of them. Your a great Captain and Karl loves you for giving him another go at what he was built for. And YOU DID IT !!!
In your early videos, you were clearly nervous every time you set sail alone, now you come across as very competent, and very capable. Thanks for bringing us on your journey and showing your vulnerabilities.
I've been following your movies for about three years has an former naval officer I love your mechanical abilities as well as the way you analyse the marine Situations. with all of this you have nothing to worry about what other people think, just enjoy their company when they are there and enjoy your achievements when they are not present.
So nice to have a friend where you don't have to worry about judgement. You either know what you are doing or you don't... Having said that you should feel confidence because for the most part you do know what you are doing, and if not, you are resourceful - stand strong! 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞
Was a beautiful insight to your feelings. Thanks for letting us in to your and heart and mind. Your a one of a kind. Your a person with strong character. Love it! Take care and be safe.
So glad that you are moving along,You are not alone in the way you think, everyone goes through those same thoughts. I love that you keep going ,keep it up thanks for your videos.
Hey Solo sailor, looking good! Glad to see you exploring and taking us along again. Thanks for sharing those heart-felt thoughts on sailing alone vs with a friend. All the best Nike.
Nice video, your filming has improved since I last watched an episode. I look very much forward when someone visits me and I also look forward to when they leave again. Good onya
Thanks heaps for the inside tour of your floating pad. Way more room than I thought considering the amount of gear needed for living and maintenance. I'd have a huge list of technical questions to ask Maria, she's a fountain of knowledge.
My daughter goes through some anxiety issues as well, and as I tell her.....when you feel that someone may think you are doing something silly that you feel is completely normal, just continue to do them confidently and you'll own the situation. When she takes this approach, it seems to work well for her.
I think everyone feels that way to some extent. No need to worry about it, you have your head screwed on right. Better than most. And the fact that you can analyse your feelings the way you do is proof that you know what you're doing. Also, if someone doesn't like it they may walk the plank. Thanks for sharing another great video, love the random shots of the town and the beauty around it. (garbage not so much but what else can they do?)
Thanks for the "Karl" tour,was wondering about your floating home👍😊 Burning trash is awful,I would move too😩 I'm hearing you on the subject of having other people around,some days a can do it,and other days not so much.It's that silly season coming up again,and there will be visitors,and I'm kind of dreading it,be happy when it's over. Anyway,try and make the most of it,try not to worry too much,and we'll see you next week☺️
You don´t need to worry about what other ppl think, you have already done so much so you can stand with your head up high and just enjoy life and things around you. Fair winds and cheers from Sweden =)
This is a study in the human subconscious for everyone. Recognizing it in that level of detail is very unusual. The thing I find is that in the end, it’s great to share those moments with someone and not having someone around somehow makes it lose its luster just a bit. But....that’s just me perhaps.
Thanks for the insight. Solo sailor too, and glad I'm not the only one who get into their own head when there's someone else on board. On a side note, I knew you spoke Spanish, but, holy shit! Makes my Spanish look like a 1 year old....
New sacrificial on the fore sail looks good. No zig zag stitching totally needed, not like it's under any real loading. Looking forward to seeing how the old berth space turns out.
I know its probably not how this worked out but I only asked about a tour only last week! kinda weird but thanks ... My introvert side gets anxieties about having to engage with others, especially if its not so necessary, but it feels different when Im in the moment and I actually enjoy myself. Then when theyre gone Im thinking 'my god Im glad thats over' and I can sleep on my own again have a good one ,,
it is quite true....the judging mind is the bane of all mankind....various forms of medittation (vipassana, for example) will let one observe this state of mind without needing action or more judgement of the judgement....anyway, no action will eventually lessen the old learned pathways and the need to do or please. A short sentence on a long topic....the fact that you even notice what you are doing and why is admirable and a good way down the road. Been a viewer since the first ...label me a satisfied watcher! (that's my judgement)
Thanks for posting. So where on the chart is this epilogue about solitude and socializing located for you and Karl? For me on Good Karma, it lately pops up between motivations and ego... probably find this map point in quite a few other spots too. Trash reminds me of the clean water program you two began. Peace.
Wi-Fi? Chicken and French fries? Big town? Heeee. I went to Bahia Honda a couple months ago. I had high hopes for civilization too. There's Wi-Fi in Boca Chica, and cell service up the Rio Santa Lucia. Cheers.
Nike, try using CBD oil for anxiety issues. My friend started on it about a monthago and in less than a week, he realised that his anxiety and the causes behind it simply were not there. It has made a world of difference to his life. And dont worry, you can get high on it if you tried, has a way higher safety profile than say aspirin or paracetamol, which you can buy over the counter even back in Germany. At worst, you will find you're not taking enough each day and you need a little more. Available in capsules or drops (I use the capsules cos I cant stand the taste ;) ) and is possibly / probably perfectly legal in the country you're in. Wishing you the very best as always :)
I know the feeling being watched and judged, it sucks. I am not in the same position but more and more I try to laugh about it when it happens. I worked on IJsselmeer for some weeks of 2 years and went always busy when entering a harbor, pressure of not doing something not acting lazy. Most be something Calvenism.
I guess speaking out all the burden always makes helps. It makes your videos something more than just "sailing and sightseeing video" which is appealing for me :)
After seeing where you have come from over the last four years to where you are now you have no need to be concerned about what other people think.
You are doing great, keep it up.
It takes an immense amount of courage to live the lifestyle you’ve chosen. Even more so when you factor in the balls it takes to expose your challenges and vulnerabilities to the whole world through social media. Nike, your life is filled with accomplishments. From my humble perspective, there’s no reason to doubt yourself. You’ve got this!
13:00 I love and respect SO MUCH that you are sharing this with us!!
Thank you so much!
If we´re being totally honest, it is a pretty damn good sign of inner strength that you are putting this out there, where anyone, including maria, can see this.
Okay, where to begin? Your blindingly beautiful happy smile when you said Dave and Maria were coming to be with you, or your verbal command of the Spanish language (that makes at least 3 that you have used fluently on your videos) or the incredible transformation that you've made in Karl (which most people would have run away from on first sight), or the incredible insights that you've shared and shared on this video regarding fears, insecurities, frustrations, joys, or the incredible filming that you've done and shared or is it just me being in total awe of you and think that you are an amazing person who is living her dream (sharing it with the public, knowing that there are critics and complainers who couldn't do 1/2 of what you've done). Nike, keep on keeping on and do what you think is best for you and Karl.
Thanks for sharing your true thoughts and emotions. That is a hard thing to do on a public site where comments can be brutal. As a viewer it made me feel like we just had a good cup of coffee together.
The insides looks a lot better. Karl appreciates it.
Hello, George here. I too spend most time solo... I understand what you are saying here about the effect of another human in your life space. Yes, it requires so much energy to be what I, and perhaps you too, anticipate " they" would expect me, or perhaps you, to do at any given moment. I have resisted commenting, til you mentioned this. I relate to your life as you live it and I feel a kindred similarity. Forgive my interruption if you will, and know that I truly like all that you have shared here. I earned a degree in Marine Technology years ago, and have worked at sea over some very interesting years. My life is as a carpenter now, and I have worked in some very nice boat yards too. I will be following your video shared journeys and I look forward to them. Smiling, George.
Du bist echt ne Inspiration.
Nicht blablabla...
Ganz ehrlich.
Ein guter, alter Freund und ich schauen grade gebrauchte Segelyachten an, weil Du es uns vorgemacht hast.
Danke.
Nike, I have been following you from the moment you published your first video arriving on Karl. I watched you rebuild her from a condition that most people would not have even attempted. Nike I am a professional Licensed Master with over 40 years experience on everything from Nuclear Submarines to small sailboats. You are a fantastic sailor, I would feel safe sailing with you on Karl or any other boat. Don't underestimate yourself. Maybe you should get out the rum and talk to your friend about your feelings about stress level while she is on the boat with you. Your A fine sailor in your own right . Didn't you know Nike that every captain thinks they are the best captain that ever sailed the sea. All you have to do is ask many of them. Your a great Captain and Karl loves you for giving him another go at what he was built for. And YOU DID IT !!!
In your early videos, you were clearly nervous every time you set sail alone, now you come across as very competent, and very capable. Thanks for bringing us on your journey and showing your vulnerabilities.
I feel the same way. I often feel like the choice is to be lonely or annoyed.
Begin by not judging others. Then your worries about being judged will dissolve over time. Thank you for being open.
I've been following your movies for about three years
has an former naval officer I love your mechanical abilities as well as the way you analyse the marine Situations.
with all of this you have nothing to worry about what other people think, just enjoy their company when they are there and enjoy your achievements when they are not present.
So nice to have a friend where you don't have to worry about judgement. You either know what you are doing or you don't... Having said that you should feel confidence because for the most part you do know what you are doing, and if not, you are resourceful - stand strong! 🌞🌞🌞🌞🌞
Was a beautiful insight to your feelings. Thanks for letting us in to your and heart and mind. Your a one of a kind. Your a person with strong character. Love it! Take care and be safe.
Your candor is refreshing. ty
So glad that you are moving along,You are not alone in the way you think, everyone goes through those same thoughts. I love that you keep going ,keep it up thanks for your videos.
Nice to see Karl so well behaved!
Nike, your such a amazing person, you should never have any insecurities, believe in yourself, you rock girl!
Hey Solo sailor, looking good! Glad to see you exploring and taking us along again. Thanks for sharing those heart-felt thoughts on sailing alone vs with a friend. All the best Nike.
Your videos are exceptionally well done. Keep them coming.
Love your reflections. Very on point! You are not alone in your wants and desires. (No pun intended😊) I have to have my “me” time.
Nice video, your filming has improved since I last watched an episode. I look very much forward when someone visits me and I also look forward to when they leave again. Good onya
One of the best
Always great to join you on your adventures, thank you. 🙂🙃🙂
Thank you for dropping your gaurd 😀😉😙
Thanks heaps for the inside tour of your floating pad. Way more room than I thought considering the amount of gear needed for living and maintenance. I'd have a huge list of technical questions to ask Maria, she's a fountain of knowledge.
My daughter goes through some anxiety issues as well, and as I tell her.....when you feel that someone may think you are doing something silly that you feel is completely normal, just continue to do them confidently and you'll own the situation.
When she takes this approach, it seems to work well for her.
I think everyone feels that way to some extent. No need to worry about it, you have your head screwed on right. Better than most.
And the fact that you can analyse your feelings the way you do is proof that you know what you're doing.
Also, if someone doesn't like it they may walk the plank.
Thanks for sharing another great video, love the random shots of the town and the beauty around it. (garbage not so much but what else can they do?)
Morning petal. I just love the smell of Napalm in the morning? Karls engine is sounding sweet! :)
You have heaps of confidence and do heaps of stuff just be yourself and don’t doubt yourself whoever is around you!,aLove your vids
Boat cleans up good.you have done a great job on that boat for sure
Thanks for the "Karl" tour,was wondering about your floating home👍😊
Burning trash is awful,I would move too😩
I'm hearing you on the subject of having other people around,some days a can do it,and other days not so much.It's that silly season coming up again,and there will be visitors,and I'm kind of dreading it,be happy when it's over.
Anyway,try and make the most of it,try not to worry too much,and we'll see you next week☺️
You don´t need to worry about what other ppl think, you have already done so much so you can stand with your head up high and just enjoy life and things around you. Fair winds and cheers from Sweden =)
This is a study in the human subconscious for everyone. Recognizing it in that level of detail is very unusual. The thing I find is that in the end, it’s great to share those moments with someone and not having someone around somehow makes it lose its luster just a bit. But....that’s just me perhaps.
I'll let you in on a little secret, you are one of the most capable and resourceful Cruisers out there.
Thanks for the insight. Solo sailor too, and glad I'm not the only one who get into their own head when there's someone else on board. On a side note, I knew you spoke Spanish, but, holy shit! Makes my Spanish look like a 1 year old....
I guess your boat is no bigger than mine I also sleep on my tools I never liked trash burning either but its a better choice than in the ocean Thanks
New sacrificial on the fore sail looks good. No zig zag stitching totally needed, not like it's under any real loading. Looking forward to seeing how the old berth space turns out.
I know its probably not how this worked out but I only asked about a tour only last week! kinda weird but thanks ...
My introvert side gets anxieties about having to engage with others, especially if its not so necessary, but it feels different when Im in the moment and I actually enjoy myself.
Then when theyre gone Im thinking 'my god Im glad thats over' and I can sleep on my own again
have a good one ,,
Great video, keep up the great work
it is quite true....the judging mind is the bane of all mankind....various forms of medittation (vipassana, for example) will let one observe this state of mind without needing action or more judgement of the judgement....anyway, no action will eventually lessen the old learned pathways and the need to do or please. A short sentence on a long topic....the fact that you even notice what you are doing and why is admirable and a good way down the road. Been a viewer since the first ...label me a satisfied watcher! (that's my judgement)
Thanks for posting. So where on the chart is this epilogue about solitude and socializing located for you and Karl? For me on Good Karma, it lately pops up between motivations and ego... probably find this map point in quite a few other spots too. Trash reminds me of the clean water program you two began. Peace.
You are so spott on on manY things....dont care! But its hard...care about your self😀 you are great:)
Nike. love watching your adventure.or do i love watching you ? both i think.
Make sure you chose the right condiment in the galley. One of them looks like 3 in 1 oil! Too funny!
☺ well done spotting that. I don't remember how it ended up there, but it never got removed for some reason.
Wi-Fi? Chicken and French fries? Big town? Heeee. I went to Bahia Honda a couple months ago. I had high hopes for civilization too. There's Wi-Fi in Boca Chica, and cell service up the Rio Santa Lucia. Cheers.
Your new engine sounds good was worth the toil and trouble, did you fix the fuel tank issue you didn't say?
Nike, try using CBD oil for anxiety issues. My friend started on it about a monthago and in less than a week, he realised that his anxiety and the causes behind it simply were not there. It has made a world of difference to his life. And dont worry, you can get high on it if you tried, has a way higher safety profile than say aspirin or paracetamol, which you can buy over the counter even back in Germany. At worst, you will find you're not taking enough each day and you need a little more. Available in capsules or drops (I use the capsules cos I cant stand the taste ;) ) and is possibly / probably perfectly legal in the country you're in.
Wishing you the very best as always :)
I know the feeling being watched and judged, it sucks. I am not in the same position but more and more I try to laugh about it when it happens. I worked on IJsselmeer for some weeks of 2 years and went always busy when entering a harbor, pressure of not doing something not acting lazy. Most be something Calvenism.
Is that a motorboat ur on? Seems like you never sail anymore!
I guess speaking out all the burden always makes helps. It makes your videos something more than just "sailing and sightseeing video" which is appealing for me :)
👍👍
But more about that.....next week. Come on Nike, are you going to make me carry your water a 3rd week in a row? : )
P.S. Nike, if you took me on-board as crew, i guarantee you would not be annoyed....ever : )
sounds like a name for a sailboat, "there's no wind". whatdoyouthinK?
😉👍❤️
Don’t lose your MoJo!
I wish I were you.
A boat is not a substitute for psychotherapy.
Are you married?